10 Mistakes Most Young People Make & Regret Later in Life

[@pawanchhetri670]

Its happy to see many people serious about their future. I wish you will be successful in future❤️❤️

[@sidharthballavmohanty5686]

Thank you so much.❤️😇

[@illspike]

I wish you what you wish us and even more .. Remain Blessed

[@low-keyarmy7099]

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[@princechikku3572]

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[@admiringthemoon4579]

Thank you 💖💖💖

[@akanoahsark18]

Im 30 years of age. I didn't go to party, travel everywhere...I sacrufices a lot... I save money so this year, Im planning to build a resort... I'm hoping that everything well be alright in Gods perfect time. Thank you

[@kelvinwanjo186]

Good mind

[@akanoahsark18]

@@kelvinwanjo186 thanks my friend

[@tinsaetirfesa2744]

Man may God be with you and be proud of your self

[@TewasaSonko]

VIDEO SAYS: “Your parents invited you into the world, they done the best they could. If their best isn’t good enough, get out there and create your own world.” 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 💯

[@manubr4053]

Very true

[@icekeystocks5697]

It's easy to say, hard to do. Get out and create your own world. Lol

[@famingo4363]

*brought, not invited

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

#10 is full of crap... what if you were born with congenital deforminty or disability???! What if you were deprived so much as a child that you didn't grow to your full potential (physically and or mentally)?! What if you got into an accident or got assaulted?! Okay okay, I've seen some people overcome those very odds against them, but that doesn't mean it wasn't like 10 times harder!! Health is wealth! That's top!

[@mererebabung8350]

Tewasa Sonko, you are absolutely correct

[@Harv32John]

Excellent advice. I'm 68 years old to late for me. If you're young follow that advice. That is my advice to you. Don't waste your life like I did.

[@vovantoanquoc]

I am 28 not too young not too old. I can confirm what he said is absolutely true and correct.

[@ariari4133]

PowerPoint in your life

[@alexreid2393]

Amber Wallace-Goldberg Same.

[@BonezzFm]

You old my guy

[@nathanprincewill9173]

Same age, and I feel the same.

[@arrow1042]

27 here.. it's true 👍

[@rosemarygabatshwane2899]

Just turned 28 and this video is a eye opener and all its true so its time i start saving and investing

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[@manuelbenful1837]

Hi can you suggest some books on investment we can look out for

[@jddolx2543]

People get to know God when your still young praise him while you still can’t. Serve your God while you still function one it might be a regret when you get old.

[@sportscentral4905]

Amen , preach it

[@davidatiyah5524]

The best advice of all. Avicee said in one of his that, one day his father him that he shouldn't let it slip away else when you grow older your heart will live for younger ages '. In these young ages that we need to make investment spiritually, financially,emotionally, physically and so on.

[@ladylefteye]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@johnnymiles6062]

@@stefanangelovski4037 athiests here

[@sidwell_MH]

Amen!

[@lizopic2285]

But first ...Can we appreciate how amazing the drawings are!

[@danielaustine4392]

Lizopi Cheng right 😂

[@naturelover5796]

Yup.. U r right dear

[@darkodapaahdavid1571]

Yeah that's true 😁

[@angelprincexz]

Very nice 👌👌👍

[@Ensaymadaah]

He's not really drawn that

[@uniquek_]

I need to start watching more of these and less of the drama stuff that has nothing to do with my life. So glad I stumbled across this channel x

[@ambin916]

This is real as hell . Hope you’re doing okay 💞

[@uniquek_]

@@ambin916 Thank you! I’m alive and well. I hope you’re doing good too! ✨

[@ambin916]

@@uniquek_ I am thank you 😭

[@pratibhabhandari9164]

I utterly enjoyed this video.I always blamed my parents for my failure. I thought they made some mistakes in my upbringing. However, by watching this video,I came to know it was I who is responsible for my failure. From now on I will never hate my parents for who I am today. Procrastination is my main drawback in achieving my goal but that too needs to be taken care of as challenge . But I do not know. New year resolution does not work. Another thing that needs to be taken care of is trying to please everybody. This thing has also marred my life. I have lost great amount of money trying to please people who doesn't value me by buying expensive things in order to please them. I was always made to believe that doing good others brings goodness in return. But that too is not the right thing to do by empty our valuable money.

[@chavale2]

Bottom line: you got to be SMART . LIFE is a Jungle and A Fight

[@christopherekwunife7441]

A lot I have learnt from this video. I can attest to No.2. Though I'm not a degree holder and in my early thirties, I have come to understand that life is all about learning. Today I can do things that even a degree holder come marvel at and say, " men, you are good, how did you come about this?" And I'm like to myself, "I am not even at the level that I want to be." The truth is that I kept learning since I had no means of obtaining a university degree. Today I'm a confident fellow who is still learning and will always keep learning.

[@chavale2]

You need to have basic Education like reading, thinking and emotional intelligence dude

[@00kidney]

Great video. I love how you made them. Truly helpful ❤️

[@deep8fit-i9p]

I can show u

[@davidenriquez7723]

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[@sreesanthraroth8445]

For not excerising and not look after your body and health is the main I think which someof us regret after getting old

[@jenniferreilly27]

While the points are valid, the comment about "If you're 75, then we're sorry" kind of shook me. My grandmother started painting at the age of 72. She is to turn 92 this year. So if you think people aren't capable of learning past a certain age, then you're very mistaken.

[@terobaukotauko9876]

A BIG SALUTE😀😀😀

[@chavale2]

95 is still young if you know how to maintain your machine; I am 70 and stronger than the 20s in all aspects and make $8000/day using ROULZEDO Engineering & random Approach :) ( BTW my Own Invention took me 26 years :(

[@nikeshra5216]

"schooling is not enough .the four walls of class and world are different " " learn to deal with haters ''

[@salimahnakigudde2747]

Am 25 and have learnt a lot mostly especially is to be strong &determined

[@m.putragraha]

Well done, guys. All things that you have exposed are not the only ones, but they are enough to make young people aware with the prosperity that they may reach in their age and not regret them when they get older.

[@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175]

Mistakes young people should avoid, 1. Using Drugs💊/smoking🚬 2. Alcohol & partying too much🥂 3. Involve in crimnal behavior📰 4. Hanging around with the wrong crowd🤬 5. Dropping out of school🏫 6. Overspending💳 7. Not investing💵 8. Staying in a toxic relationship😫 9. Having a baby too young🤱 10. Relying on others for your true happiness🚫😀. & bad habits old people regret😫

[@rghdfhh5971]

Depends what type of schooling your talking about, I personally think everyone should atleast finish high school even though most of the things we learn are useless, just finish it for the diploma just Incase you really need it at some point in your life, better than nothing, college on the other hand is not for everyone and there is many ways to become rich and financially successful without going to college. Plus most people that go to college end up with average jobs that sometimes they actually end up hating and don’t even make over 100k, your stuck paying all your debt also if you were not born into a rich family or didn’t get a scholarship.

[@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175]

@@rghdfhh5971 if your going to college, study hard & finish. Don't go & drop out, then have that hugh debt, which will take you forever to pay off. Yes, you're going to have hugh debt, either way. But, at least your odds(with a college degree) on getting that high paying job is much greater. It's better not going to college altogether than going & dropping out with student loans.

[@konghey]

I won't regret when i'm old with all those experience.It's all worth it.It's boring being normal like most people,son.

[@blacklyfe5543]

None of this apply to me

[@mensahwisdom7171]

Timelessmusic Familymusic im

[@Sunshine12Norain]

Absolutely true informative filming awesome shared friend happy day to you

[@joycejustine2963]

This channel expanding my knowledge a lot, thank you so much.

[@geowilliams8915]

Don't blame your parents. They are struggling too. Instead, be a blessing to them. Maybe someday, you can help them.

[@gerardoperez7612]

When I was young, school, television, family, and friends told me how to think. I was so naive to believe them. I am an adult now and I think for myself: I know God exist and I follow this ways-the ways of this world lead to false & temporal meaningless fulfillment.

[@khalilzubari840]

Do u think the God bring us onluly like this And good to follow the way of God with zero contradiction. This the real way and I hope u study the relagions to know that way. This my advice to you bro

[@khalilzubari840]

That's the meaning of the life

[@gerardoperez7612]

Family/school tells you that there is no God, and that education is the key to everything. That is what I mean.

[@abdurrahmantusher5248]

@@amaramerovci-angus1755, What is the point you felt high on reading his cmnt?

[@garaadugaas691]

You are still too young believing God exists!.

[@yeboahernest6296]

That absolutely awesome ,knowledge upon knowledge.

[@ochomsophie143]

Wow nice video am still in my early 20’s and I always watch your videos they are really beneficial to me and I plan to take all your advice seriously

[@feinchipundu4800]

It's true 🥰🥰 young people should watch it

[@johnmartinez7975]

"Education starts when you leave school."

[@JiaoGoGo]

Wow

[@NetSkillNavigator]

So true

[@tsegaytekletsegay2675]

Funny

[@cosmicblox934]

Yea

[@kipronoelijahkoech4630]

Very true.

[@npgshow5988]

This is amazing am enjoying

[@alenaalena9322]

I’m in my early 20s and I need to be cautious with my inferior tendencies. I don’t want to regret for today.

[@thewriteragriculturist]

Thanks for all your videos. Reminds me what humanity is 😊

[@sltoves8593]

Thanks!!!!!!!!!! I’m feeling great about my future now!!!!!!!!!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💞

[@doctorrutjindo9092]

I'm 23yrs and I'm really excited with these speeches because they encourage me to be strong in facing my future

[@Tib1899]

1st must be: Young people don't take care about their health.

[@hidjrie]

Absolutely agree

[@aniketb2010]

Dental health especially....like me :P

[@hidjrie]

@@aniketb2010 do you stilll have teeth?

[@aniketb2010]

Yes I have :D but the teeth at the back of my mouth are damaged due to tartar. My dad used tell me to brush my teeth every night before sleeping but I didn’t listen to him and Now paying the price!

[@adaezeokonkwo4716]

True

[@28subhalaxmibehera3]

My age is just 13 and I am glad that I seen it this age and learn from it but this things is not my habits so I can easily handle and control myself

[@abdiwajib]

KZbin is not allowed to use it because your under 15 years. 🤣👉🤣👉🤣👉🤣👉

[@28subhalaxmibehera3]

@The ModernMovement thanks u I will!!

[@28subhalaxmibehera3]

@@abdiwajib 😂😂

[@dharreycomics7626]

@@abdiwajib You need to do more research bro

[@dharreycomics7626]

@@abdiwajib Are those kid animations on youtube meant for adults

[@exallencykovi462]

Since I started yesterday following you, I have started looking at my life in another angle

[@emzyswag1806]

Awwwn It's really hurting hearing all this and seeing it as the life I have been living for years. Thank you so much 🙏I pray other will take correction just as I did.

[@youarewithin]

Very insightful and informative, thank you for the video

[@thestylishman2536]

Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance wealth, a great career, purpose is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life

[@eleanor_hutchinson]

The thing about been successful is working toward it and not going the other way round

[@chavale2]

@@eleanor_hutchinson Jack Ma Talk: INNOVATION is the answer. Dont believe otherwise

[@chocorn]

I am 63. I agree that learning starts after schooling. I have worked for others, benefited them from my talent and skills i learned and experienced after or outside school. Now i am thinking to work for me and earn for me. I have lost courage for working for myself. I did try to do my own business but failed quite enough of time and always made this mistake. But while working for others i always succeeded. Fear of failure has become a barrier to my success on doing my own business

[@chavale2]

Nothing wrong working for others if they pay you fairly....

[@Treyslang962]

Anything is possible but humble, Work hard and be smart

[@rahatasef2129]

Yes bro is that correct from Bangladesh

[@Klendathu_Hotdrop]

Work smart and be hard* :D

[@clintonted2458]

Best video ever... Thank you so much... ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thankgodwilson1142]

I'm in my 40s but this video still intrigued me , I'm learning again!!!

[@mariegesta9488]

In my 40's. I have nothing to regret. I'm contented even in the midst of chaos.I still have peace. I don't invest a thing that don't last.

[@veekay6142]

This video is actually coming on time and I really appreciate it and thanks much to whoever took their time to make this video.

[@nazibnawar3364]

Easy Is to judge the mistakes of others Difficult Is to realise your own mistakes🙌

[@kiddjonidoy6620]

I am 42 but im still not too late to change my mindset and this video absolutely brilliant .👍👍👍👍

[@roxannemeeks8985]

Young people forget to have a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. Whether young or elderly this is the most important proponent to a successful life. He is the best friend to have.

[@fahad896]

Everyone should love Jesus PBUH but everyone must worship the real god and we have to search for that and worship him, as by my point of view Jesus was just prophet of god.

[@haroldbubuli8718]

Amen! Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ so that you will be saved!!!

[@julianpadayachee7928]

Amen

[@jamesespino1358]

Amen! However let me remind everyone that believing in Jesus as Lord and Savior doesn't guarantee that our lives will be free from problems and have an easy and prosperous life here on earth. If you will truly believe in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He guarantees that you will be saved from God's wrath.

[@jamesespino1358]

@@fahad896 Hi ! My friend, Jesus is God because he claimed to be God ( The Great I AM ). Jesus is the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Almost all of the prophets of God made references that Jesus of the New Testament is the Almighty God of Israel. Would you like to know the Gospel and what Jesus did for you so you can be saved ?

[@concordoptoelectricbristol1798]

Parents are something we should be grateful for because they stood by us no matter how hard life is for them to raise us.

[@manubr4053]

🙏

[@ilregnoregno6697]

8:03 there's no formula that guarantees everyone would like you, we must have to deal with haters. ❤️❤️❤️

[@rIcH-fOrEvEr-c5j]

Very inspiration 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@hariprasad6240]

Yes 9 point 👉🎯... IF you beg for others acceptance and die with disappointment

[@joinnetwork6094]

Really great video brother

[@fearmouthcomedy7483]

Very powerful and impacting...

[@dahabluul1685]

Very true masha Allah ur the best.. keep helping us ur very talented.. Strong words!

[@positive1027]

Thank you for this video....I just entered in my 20s..🙌🙌😍

[@hyaleeworld3409]

Thanks for this uploading video..I’m about to 30 now.. don’t give up. Keep on fighting ..💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@hillarykipchumba8266]

Just like what the video says learning starts after school.More learning is done in the comments section.Thanks to all those who comment.

[@feebleherua6978]

Exactly

[@vishy]

Solid advice 👍🏼 I clicked on it apathetically as I just wanted to watch something over a coffee, but then found myself agreeing with every single point. Bravo 👏

[@MrsGiggsxx]

Is it just me or the narrator sounds Nigerian?

[@comfortyall5668]

Victoria Olamide he does

[@onweze1781]

Yup very much like a yoruba man

[@filimonangesom1864]

Oga

[@ruthnmegbu860]

Victoria Olamide he sounds Nigerian

[@AdenikeandJoshua]

Exactly bro

[@mukhtarboss152]

Thanks bro u change mine i will improve keep going your videos it changes our life u talent for motivation.

[@rhodoralimjoco9571]

wow , what an inspiring message you've made, sure anyone would read this will love to hear this

[@Tanimajagan]

Utterly true..thanks for this video. 👍

[@BisayainHolland]

While watching,i write this down for some “a reminder” 😊

[@karlcorrz]

Hello, fellow bisaya!

[@deymeypongror5888]

Thanks for your valuable sharing.

[@SamirAbadeer]

Academic education isn't everything

[@cheriwool6290]

Wise talk

[@okk2776]

Yep, school education makes a small part of your life better

[@bitcoinminingsystemcryptoc2250]

Yes you are right

[@msgratitude8983]

@@okk2776 thats exactly what my economics lecturer said

[@MariaMedina-nl4dv]

Coming from a college student, this is 100% CORRECT.

[@D.u.k.e.e.n_C.o.c.k.t.a.i.l]

Wow,I have greatly benefit from this video... Thanks for changing me!

[@Hasnain1F]

I have heard so much about what mistakes young people shouldn't make but I am a person who has never taken risks in my life and always stuck to the safe side. And my life, right now, is not in a good shape. I became a web developer a year ago when I was 20 years old, I have no college degree but I have my job. I just wanted to see if I could switch careers or something. I want to know what mistakes I CAN make. I hate feeling crippled by fear and always sticking to the safe side. :(

[@rebeccaliew2247]

Hmmm...when one is stuck too long at the safe side a.k.a. the comfort zone, it is usually because: 1. There's fear of disappointment, if the change you sought out didn't turn out as great as you have expected. 2. There's fear of rejection from yourself or other people. You want acceptance from important people in that change area, or you feel you cannot accept yourself if you fail. 3. There's insecurity that you don't have what it takes to handle the challenges. Have you listened to your fears & asked yourself how to overcome it? In your case, now that you know you want a career switch & trying to figure if it would be favourable to you... the solution is, have you researched what is that new career like for you? List out the pros & cons, and see if you can cope with the con parts, especially? Switching industries/career is riskier if you're in your 40s & onwards. 30s is still ok actually - you have new grounds to break, such as different set of skills needed for the job + new groups of people to connect with + have new life/work culture to adapt to. So long you have an open mind to give yourself a month at least to see how the new career change is like hands-on, you won't live with regrets later on during your 50s for not trying then. If during that one month, you can get the hang of the new career's nuances, for one, it would consequently help you connect better with colleagues (if you're bad in your job, colleagues & bosses will slowly alienate you). Two, it is a sign this is the change you can go for it & live with it for a long time. But...if that one month, you flounder everything during that probation time, the change may not be for you, but it will at least give you a sense of peace - that you did take a risk & grew wise from learning from mistakes & experiences. Comfort zones cannot teach you these. Think of Challenges/Mistakes as your Life Teachers :)

[@manubr4053]

Come out of the comfort zone,tat is self restrictive barrier,make things positively work for u in everything, just by updating wat is needed in ur work for u to shine brighter.

[@michaelmusebe8659]

From Kenya I like this encouraging messege.I still have time to correct my mistakes.God bless you

[@micomyizalatifa518]

Him "young people blame their parents for their misfortunr" Me thinking why my parents brought me into this world without my consent every single morning

[@zuchotheghost]

But children doesn't have consent

[@i_love_you_xoxo]

@@zuchotheghost exactly 😌

[@A_na_lyst]

All your videos always motivate me👍

[@blackbeltfinance4026]

Great video, I wish I saw this video 20 years ago

[@KuysNong]

No. 3, 4, & 7 at age of 30. But i realized a lot of things in life i’ve been through and now i will correct that mistakes, its not too late, just keep going🤞🏻

[@GAMEWOW-v3b]

Wooow everything in this vid just motivates me and now i am ready to live smartly👏👏👏👏💵

[@eunrajung3564]

All of them is just me😥 The worst is no. 10 I hate myself for blaming them about what I am today😔 But they are also the one who put me down! I want to pursue college but they want me to work 😥 Now I have part time job and I'm studying too. My life is so hard but need to move forward just for them I need to be strong.. After all Im the bread winner of my family😥 I always trust god for everything even tho my family think I'm a devil always talk back at them.. I'm so sorry but can't say it aloud😓😓 Maybe I can fix my life if I'm successful.. By the way I'm 21

[@prajwalshetty2047]

Saving is important

[@shadyleeleez4943]

Sensational content keep up the good work 👍👍👍👌👌👌🙏

[@sirizihindula]

I agree with everything he is saying, however, most of the blames based on our ignorance have to be on our parents, they don't prepare us or educate us when it comes to manage finances. As an African native, to be more specific congolese we grew up being shouted at instead of being educated. we were not taught about the pros and cons of life and so on...

[@imanielohiykem3751]

Thank you 🙏🏾 💜✨

[@leylagolmohammadi9904]

(**if ur're 75 ** we're sorry) That was cruel

[@maviscarlos6615]

Thank you for life advices 😊☺️💖💗💕

[@yaseminay1316]

Young people's biggest mistake beeing influenced of emotions and getting too attached to somebody they think it's love. People should not forget relations with humans never last forever.

[@babaabdul-qadir7409]

Lol😅

[@merricmellow4935]

So true

[@Lifeinitaly125]

Relatable

[@marionncha2105]

Thanks for the video...it has really blessed me

[@houmanmilani]

I feel sorry for the children of those who dislike it. I look forward to more video from you.

[@muhamaditv4018]

Thumbs up bro!!! Very true.

[@johngergen4871]

The “20” are for learning and enjoying your youth. The “30” are for searching work in your career. This is the critical time in your life. Not only trying to find work that will provide life long satisfaction, but will provide a guaranteed pension plan ( defined benefit plan) as provided by Unions or in Government. All others are Casino type benefit plans offered by Corporate employers. Here today gone tomorrow employment and 401k . It is in the 30’s that most people make their mistakes. Career and retirement plans have to be the most crucial choice in your life.

[@alexreid2393]

John Gergen Interesting.

[@caseanful]

Nice

[@rkonga6814]

What do you mean here today, gone tomorrow, employment and 401k?

[@johngergen4871]

regina konga : There was a time in the United States, starting in the 1940s , strong Unions existed that bargained for the employees of corporations. Wages kept up with inflation and retirement benefits were guaranteed after a lifetime of work. Corporations depended on Local work force to produce their products under union contracts. This all changed when the Corporate bought the Congress and Senate of the United States. Under new laws, Corporation could move to foreign countries for cheaper labor. State “Right to Work Laws” weakened Unions. Job guarantees and retirement benefits disappeared. Only State, Federal, and Local government jobs continued to provide guaranteed retirement . I lived and seen this change in my lifetime.

[@alexreid2393]

John Gergen Thank you for the explanation.

[@MarlyHangcan]

love to watch your inspirational videos

[@MingoThePoet]

I’m 26 and just now really starting to get myself together good I’ve always been a good dude I just use to spend money 💴 foolish on girls that don’t care about me really or just on shopping now I’m more relaxed and don’t spend as much

[@HenrazoEnergy]

Thanks Very much

[@VampiresCrypt]

I am 33 and I can easily say that finding your lifes purpose and saving money as well as investing smart is the most important thing you have to accomplish as a man. More important than love or even family, you really need to get out there and make your hands dirty, everything else will fall in place later.

[@d.supreme8592]

Vampires Crypt I don’t feel that way. I feel health and family is at the top of list. I think accomplishing career or business edification is the cherry on top

[@asumansentamu6475]

Wow thanks boss 🙏🙏👌

[@OO_sunflower_OO]

#10 hit me so hard. Also when he said “if u hate this advice u can stop watching this video” *bruh that’s already #10* lol

[@josephlaughtersalako1959]

Exactly 🤣

[@josephlaughtersalako1959]

That 10 is one of the best advice ever. We ask need to learn how to take responsibilities for our lives

[@dosagezambialimited5799]

Your advices so Helpful to me🙏🙏🙏 thanks

[@Neo-Kable]

I'm 27 and I stress daily about my life. With anxiety and depression it makes things 10 times worse. Any older people have extra advice?

[@couragemarcus9760]

Hi Neo. We are of the same group(am actually 28) but guess what,I am an immigrant (from Zimbabwe living in SA). I came to this country four years ago with nothing at all,no education credentials,no connections,no money.All I had was the desire to make my life better. I began my life in this complete new environment as a construction worker,doing tremendously hard work and was paid peanuts. Four years down the line I have managed to achieve many things,I now own a construction company employing 3 fellas,have two cars and I'm keeping on keeping on. All I want to say to you is life is a blessing not a plague. You have greatness within you and God is true.

[@alexzander9392]

I may know what you mean. I also dealt with depression a lot. It started because my parents were fighting. My father was an alcoholic. My mother wanted to split but I did not wanted to see them apart. She sacrificed and kept the relationship. That has actually led to major scars on me and her and my father. Though it was not constant fighting, it was never ending fighting. No matter what I did, I was not in control of it. I became sensitive and at school people noticed and started to bully me. I said nothing. That left even more scars. Then I went to college. I received a lot of money from my mother for graduating highschool. They would have helped me in college. But my grandfather, her father, had to go through surgery, and my father had a debt before he could close a safety equipment shop. Both amounted to about how much my mother gave me. I told them to use the money. She refused. Yet again, I could do nothing. I wanted that to change. I invested the money in a business and I lost all of them. I did not finish college. I started working and tried to finish college at same time. I failed over and over again because everything piled up. Each failure turned into a burden. I couldn't go to college and feel enthusiastic because of past experience. My first workplace was cheap and the boss was the yelling type. It all piled up to the point that I wanted to kill myself. I didn't though. About 10 months at that workplace and my first extra year failing to finish college I decided to quit that workplace. Just 1 month since i decided to quit I met a girl. She introduced me to a group of people who did workout and nutrition. I joined them for a while. It was fine. I was actually getting better and the collective was encouraging. I got a new job which was also similar. And started my second attempt to finish college. Despite the atmosphere changing at work and with the addition of that circle, I could not get over my failure from the college. I made some progress towards finishing it, but could not devote completely to succeed. I got very close to that girl. Unfortunately she had a boyfriend. We were really good friends and I never tried to get in between them. I was thankful for what she did for me so on her birthday I thought of somthing to do and to say to her to remind her of the little things and the happy moments we shared together. Her boyfriend was also present while this happened. All went well untill close to the end. I had planned to do one more thing but it required for me to hug her 3 times. Details are not important. But the boyfriend tried to stop me and said he becomes jealous. I didn't really had to but I left them. The prospect of conflict with them was too much when they helped me so much. Then I got to my third workplace. I met another girl, a coleague, she was married but she reminded me so much of the workout girl. We ended up becoming best friends and somehow eased the burden of going away from that place that made me happy. It all went well untill I had to leave that workplace too. I went back to my second, and there I met the third girl. She was not in a relationship. I was hoping we might get together. The thing is, on her birthday, what I did and said made workout girl cry of happiness. And married woman coleague felt that she can trust me completely. I am amazing at being a good friend. But with the third, something happened. I was too afraid to ask her to be in a relationship with me. The fear that we might break up triggered the same fear I had when I thought my parents would have to break up. I was afraid of starting a relationship because I was afraid I will feel the same pain I felt with my parents. And although I was not aware of it at the time, it is also the reason I explicitly avoided a relationship with 3 different girls durring school. Some coleagues told me they like me and when I learned it, I started to avoid them. And I had no ideea why. I got close to the third girl and we somehow became friends. But she never got to see the real me. The me the other two saw. And I feel like dying because of it. I love her so much. I think of her every day. But she doesn't feel the same. In fact, I am younger (26) than her (31) and she sais she is tired of younger people asking her out and tired of people seeing her as their wife after they just met. And yet I would do anything just to spend the rest of my life with her. Now I had to leave that workplace where I could interact with her so I can finally finish college (I saved money so I can do it) and find a way to build a stable future for me and the chance to have a relationship. Despite delaying it for almost 20 years my mother finally decided that it is not worth to stay with my father. And this time I am not going to be in the say. I know why my father turned out to be the way he is and I do not regret wanting for us to be a family. I do regret that my parents could never work together and help eachother. They only really fighted. There is really nothing I can do but push forward. I remember those important people in my life that brought me happiness. Each day I spent with them I noted on my laptop the interactions. I noted all the important things that made me happy. I still note them sometimes. And it somehow helped me. It reminded me that there are still some things worth living for. My mother pushed herself through all the struggle and all the pain and finally got a leadership position. She was able to buy me an apartment in the capital (I did not grew up there) and helped me as much as she could. Because of her not giving up and getting that position (a position that normally requires superior studies which she never had the chance to study for yet still got the position). For all the sacrifices she made for me and for all the people I have met. I decided not to quit. But to move forward. And I decided not to stuggle with hopeless causes. If workplace is not suitable for me, I will find a different one. If family is the problem I will not get in their way. If relationship is the problem i will be patient and I will do the things I am good at and get better at the things I am not. I have been alone for so long. If the woman I love wants me to just be friends, I will do so rather than keep being alone. Despite that it hurts, despite not being what I want, I take heart on those days I make her smile or make her reply back to me. I do these things to keep me going. I have been alone for so long. I can't be alone anymore. I can't sleep without the tv being on. I can't stay in my apartment without the tv on. And I can't always make the best decisions that will set me on the path of happiness. There are days that I'm just wasting. And yet I won't quit. I want to. I sometimes feel that I live for nothing. That this life is worthless. But I also know that there are others who have it worse. I know that there are others who are not in control of their life. And I know that some of them just push themselves and try to make things better. I know, because one of them is my mother. And I want that some that I can bring happiness to stranger. They way strangers have brought happiness to me. And I want that one day I can be reunited with the people I left behind. The people that made me happy when I needed it most. And that I want to somehow return the favor. I am sorry that I am younger than you. I know you wanted an answer for an older person. All I can tell you is to focus more on the good things and less on the bad things. It will at least ballance the awareness of the good and the bad that happens in your life. And do all you can to remember the good things. Write them down, audio record them, make a video and keep them. You don't have to watch them again and again. You just have to see that they grow in number over time. That you always add one more thing and another and another. It's a good thing to set a call recorder on your phone as well. And just saves those recordings as well. Good or bad. It helps. I hope you will have the patience to read. And I hope this will help you. I don't know the causes for your anxiety and depression. If it doesn't, than try to find your own way to help yourself. What I told you to do, I came up with on my own. Based on the experiences I had. And to keep track of everything. All the good things. Even the money you make, spend and your savings. All the things that make you feel you accomplish something. Good luck.

[@theblackknight9783]

You should probably see a therapist, to get to the root problem you're dealing with.

[@2FlyyENT]

Neo Kable go back to God and occupy yourself with productive stuff and look on the bright side there’s always 1 and exercise more

[@tevesimagina4083]

I'm 23 but I can advice you my friend, (1)What is the cause of anxiety and depression? (2)Avoid it. (3) pray to your God.

[@brendaawinja7359]

This is fabulous 😍🔥

[@168narin]

Thanks.

[@kellyblinks8974]

Nice one I love this so much it's just like the video is actually talking to me...

[@alfredpullan1457]

From other people's experience I come know that having a bad life partner is the only thing need to have a bad life quality and physical and mental ailments

[@lillove3300]

Change of a better mindset now ,I appreciate 🙏🏿🗝

[@anthonyabba7603]

''knowledge is gold...'' let alone when you have it at youth..

[@amulenrachealdikoi1043]

Absolutely true, I'm on the right path on the line with what the great you saying....

[@rob3326]

Sadly, educaters are more interested in teaching students what to think these days(feminism, global warming, social justice) instead of teaching them how to think for themselves, to think critically. I'm grateful I grew up in a time and place where I was taught to question and find truth. The truth is not subjective! Just our perspective.

[@captainlouis5593]

Well said Rob.

[@TheTiredhermit]

Rob nooo we learn about old white guys all the time and even that history is somewhat fake