"I wish I knew when I was younger...how wonderful I was" Self-love is a constant learning process.
@lukeraposo36044 жыл бұрын
She said that when I looked at this comment.
@jaironunez71963 жыл бұрын
That one hit me deeply...
@joannsmith35893 жыл бұрын
@@jaironunez7196 Me too...
@razaakeniola3 жыл бұрын
This one was DEEP.
@noway77183 жыл бұрын
Yeeeessss
@redwood6237 жыл бұрын
It seems that younger people regret things they've done and older people regret things they haven't done.
@apolicum6 жыл бұрын
Younger people still have their whole life ahead of them. It's hard to regret something you didn't do when you are only 20. I mean... life just has started for you.
@Babyfacedblackjesus4 жыл бұрын
The things you have done are things you havent done. Same thing.
@natsudragonel4084 жыл бұрын
@@apolicum really do u think so because I am 20 and so worried
@masch44 жыл бұрын
I've watched the video and to me it seemed absolutely even
@againstballveer53164 жыл бұрын
Your comment had 999 likes, I made it 1k. I just wanted to let you know.
@Channel1a8143 жыл бұрын
Notice how 99% of the adult's regrets start with 'not'. You don't regret what you did, you regret what you didn't do. Take a chance in life and do what you're scared to do!
@KrishnaChaudhary-wd9qq3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@shabihfatima48903 жыл бұрын
Preach preach!!!
@sarangkashif88693 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that mate 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@loverlin75823 жыл бұрын
Yepp
@JoseGarcia-ij1th3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this gave me the courage to finally try smoking crack 👍
@Aiden-ham2 жыл бұрын
People who didn't go to school regret not going. People who went to school regret not trying harder. People who tried hard regret not enjoying their time. There's always positives and negatives to our choices, best to focus on the positive rather than regret the negative.
@isiahmccosh85402 жыл бұрын
Really well said, since some felt no regrets. I can’t relate but every time I do have a “regret” I see it now as more of learning opportunity. After all life is full of regrets and learned lessons that benefit all.
@danieldavis30352 жыл бұрын
@@isiahmccosh8540 I really don't understand people that say they have no regrets. That means you always treated people fairly and basically lived the life of a saint.
@michaelkjellander9370 Жыл бұрын
For sure! 🙂
@Beefboss72 Жыл бұрын
@@danieldavis3035They don’t say they haven’t made mistakes, but that there’s nothing they would change. A regret isn’t simply a mistake, it’s a choice you made in your past that you would change. As that one guy said in the video, he’s made a lot of mistakes, but that got him to where he is now, so he wouldn’t change a thing. Obviously. anyone saying they haven’t made mistakes are being ridiculous, but regrets aren’t necessary for every mistake
@andrewtongue7084 Жыл бұрын
Excellent response !
@microwave13033 жыл бұрын
"Fear is temporary, regret is forever" -very cool words
@Destiny-vg9bx3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Microwave
@alextheconfuddled89833 жыл бұрын
But doom is eternal
@microwave13033 жыл бұрын
@@alextheconfuddled8983 And Halo is Infinite
@naumanrizwan94353 жыл бұрын
@@Destiny-vg9bx LMAOO
@widaAcK3 жыл бұрын
Regret is a word, pain is a lifestyle filled with glory (or booze)
@thomasgainz48853 жыл бұрын
"Not giving my father more ice cream before he died" It really is the little things in life..
@duongphuongthao28453 жыл бұрын
nah
@johnjamesjoseph95303 жыл бұрын
Oh yea. Itbis.
@visheshl3 жыл бұрын
So true...
@visheshl3 жыл бұрын
This was a heartfelt wish
@angonuts74923 жыл бұрын
I think it was a metaphor though
@Old_Man19497 жыл бұрын
47 made me cry. I feel that way too much. "I wish I knew, when I was younger... how wonderful I was"
@ajnovamusic6 жыл бұрын
Old Man i really had to pause and process that one 😫
@BeckyMesser6 жыл бұрын
I feel like based on this one + the “hardest thing you’ve ever done” video where she says “forgive my father”......I feel like there’s some dark history of abuse there:(
@user-qb2nu9rb5d6 жыл бұрын
OMG RIGHT? LIKE I DIDNT SEE THAT COMING OR MY HEART DROPPING WHEN IT DID ):
@ronaldcox85515 жыл бұрын
As someone with depression, I think about that everyday.
@iaintaprincessimmaqueend68295 жыл бұрын
Old Man same 😢 *(im only 10)*
@stressedflipflop2 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and my one regret is waiting. Waiting for a "perfect time" before I do something, anything. Waiting for an opportunity to come by. Waiting for other people to catch up to me. Waiting for a perfect moment to say what I need to say. And many many more. So I guess, if there's any take away it's to just stop waiting. Because yeah good things come to those who wait but remember that greater things come to those who make it happen.
@_InsertName_2 жыл бұрын
Same man, same. I'm still like this lol.
@tekgewet Жыл бұрын
15 right now, have the same problem. Feel like I should just take action but I don’t
@sillynelson1 Жыл бұрын
@@tekgewet At 15 you can literally start anything and become great at it. Do it now. Don’t wait.
@UnsaltedCashew38 Жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for the perfect time to ask a girl I know out, I've already waited a few years :(
@tristan_84011 ай бұрын
@@tekgewet you're still so young, at 15 I did some things, but after that I kinda wasted my time and had some problems and fell into deeper depression than what I was experiencing. But now I'm trying to recover and trying to do good things again.
@seethisclip273 жыл бұрын
My regret: Living in the past and future and abandoning the present
@ayumisae68643 жыл бұрын
So true
@stephenc.43193 жыл бұрын
That’s rather ironic.
@charleskaro7773 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@LoneBatmannn3 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@PrashanthPurastu1543 жыл бұрын
Lol.. true!! actually its the case with lot of us..
@lukke48413 жыл бұрын
The regrets are getting more and more depressing each age
@Busylifestudy3 жыл бұрын
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@sufiyasulthana56353 жыл бұрын
trueeee!!!!
@WillyShanker3 жыл бұрын
The biggest regret i have is ever since my dog passed away in 2017, i did not give a final goodbye hug because i had severe OCD at the time. And knowing about the fact that i didn't give a final goodbye hug to my dog that i've really loved, makes me hate the fact that i'm alive. It brings tears to my eyes that i didn't give the last goodbye hug to my dog. I'm a 15yr old boy, and i still cry every time i think about the day my dog died, and that i didn't give a final goodbye hug
@metroi76223 жыл бұрын
@@WillyShanker I know the hug was important to you, but would your dog want you to feel this regret? Can you concentrate on how lucky you are to have had this dog you loved so much? If you loved your dog and treated him or her well, please try to think about that . It is not easy to lose someone you love. Sorry for your pain.
@redcoloredtoast20393 жыл бұрын
thats because the chance and magnitude of a regret increases more as you age
@aman51763 жыл бұрын
5-15 - childish things 16-35 - career related regrets 36 - 60 - emotional (friends and family) related regrets 61+ - regrets about abandoned dreams
@xum00073 жыл бұрын
Nah not 16, I saw that start at 17
@danielc56473 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 and I regret childish things
@michaelterrell50613 жыл бұрын
@@xum0007 it seemed more like a bit over 20 for me.
@xum00073 жыл бұрын
@@michaelterrell5061 that’s when they started getting consistent
@michaelterrell50613 жыл бұрын
@@xum0007 Now that I think about you’re right.
@FinleyLinehan Жыл бұрын
I really resonate with the 31 year old. I'm 19 now, my biggest regret was watching peers around me get made fun of, excluded, alienated, etc in middle/high school and not doing anything about it. It wasn't my fault that they were bullied but I feel that to an extent I'm also responsible for seeing and allowing it to happen. It breaks my heart thinking about how it may have affected these kids having to come to a place 5 days a week for 7 hours where they don't even feel like they belong. Stand up for people, you never know how much it can mean to someone for even just one person to show that they care.
@joseluispcr Жыл бұрын
As a person that was bulied a lot let me say: is not your fault
@TheTruth-13 Жыл бұрын
@@joseluispcr yeah it’s clearly yours. A pushover that never stood up for himself. If you weren’t filled with so much anger and hatred then it wouldn’t have been so hard for you to stand up, you wouldn’t have been bullied in the first place
@bitpof7523 Жыл бұрын
i'm 17 and my biggest regret was bullying kids. Back then i was 12 and i didn't know just how much pain i caused to people. left me with a guilt for few years until i finally got the courage to forgive myself and say sorry to these people.
@yexoletyus Жыл бұрын
@@TheTruth-13 you could be right, but there also may be more to the story
@KeyKnight Жыл бұрын
@@TheTruth-13 wtf you talking about weirdo
@squirrely1023 жыл бұрын
The fact that this video is only five minutes long and goes through 70 years of people makes me realize how fast we age and how fast our lives fly by.
@debu61573 жыл бұрын
Yeah you live for only about 30,000 days if you're lucky.
@caveskeleton46743 жыл бұрын
@@debu6157 ok thats short
@genesiscarrasco10733 жыл бұрын
It gave me anxiety
@carteralita53773 жыл бұрын
lol i wish it was faster
@debu61573 жыл бұрын
@@carteralita5377 what's your age
@laurajuric64027 жыл бұрын
This actually scares me a little. I spend so much time studying that I'm afraid I'm missing out on so much things.
@artmariemakes7 жыл бұрын
Laura Juric girl get out more. My best friend is 21 and she finished her degree in finance and economics with honors in 2.5 yrs instead of 4. She always says she wishes she slowed down and took time to enjoy life as a student (and study abroad). She's currently struggling to figure out what her next step in life is but she's finally taking time to relax and be a alittle irresponsible before joining adulthood. Find a good balance😀
@laurajuric64027 жыл бұрын
***** That's exactly what I'm going through right now. Just trying to MAKE time for other things. This semester I only studied and studied. I have perfect grades but it doesn't satisfy me. It feels as if by constantly spending time with books, I kind of lose myself as a person and become this machine. All these hobbies and conversations that make you who you are, when you don't have it anymore, are you still YOU? Thanks for answering by the way.
@bealimitededition8417 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way! Let's promise that we both stop being that machine and start living😊
@laurajuric64027 жыл бұрын
BeALimitedEdition Promise! This isn't healthy anymore I think, so I'm up for that.
@bealimitededition8417 жыл бұрын
Great!! I'll keep you to that promise😊
@Steephhnnn2 жыл бұрын
“The days are long but the years are short” was an old phrase that came into my mind when I watched this video
@gloriaforzaglia9822 жыл бұрын
Very good. I like that.
@Rayanamazzal2 жыл бұрын
Can you tell me what the 20 year old want to, does regret on working so hard in high or to not working so hard in high school please answer me
@floww29532 жыл бұрын
@@Rayanamazzal It's not about working hard, he regrets taking everything too seriously. In other words, for example being way too anxious about other people's thoughts about him, not accepting mistakes etc.
@samwon5099 Жыл бұрын
I don't know, man: Maybe it's just me but it feels more like the days are short but the years are long.
@erads2185 Жыл бұрын
@@samwon5099 I think they're both short, it doesn't feel like it's been 2 months since the year started, feels like a couple weeks
@HENRY-wh1in2 жыл бұрын
i turned 22 yesterday. Still have not got much thing to regret, but as I saw this video, I realize that I HAVE to try more things. Before my fear turns into regret
@mikhelBrown3 жыл бұрын
My Regret? Not buying Bitcoin at $5 when a friend of mine told me about it in 2012.
@Henrik_Hammar3 жыл бұрын
Just know you probably would have sol it at a couple hundrer or thousand if you did
@mikhelBrown3 жыл бұрын
@@Henrik_Hammar Hehe... yeah probably.
@BB-zv8tx3 жыл бұрын
...Or forgot your wallet password like that guy that has $220m worth of btc and can't access it.
@alfresco15523 жыл бұрын
@@BB-zv8tx NOOO
@justdont39983 жыл бұрын
@@BB-zv8tx NOO NOT THAT GUY
@annamaria12485 жыл бұрын
I regret not doing things because of my anxiety
@Levernis4 жыл бұрын
Same here 💔
@hennessymarlyn4 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to tell y'all anxiety its not your fault. I get you, but its not something you have control about. You're not alone and I hope with time hopefully you can achieve everything you want in life. I believe in you okay?
@emssvv4 жыл бұрын
same 💔💔
@NinasVideoss4 жыл бұрын
😭
@susanbehring34014 жыл бұрын
Me too
@rushiljain65413 жыл бұрын
Understand how 'not doing something' is the BIGGEST reason here. Trust me, failure will not hurt as much as regret will. Like come on, life is an adventure, so live it like one!
@akmaliafatimah65573 жыл бұрын
"Failure will not hurt as much as regret will" thank you. I'll keep that in mind
@francescafrancesca35543 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that. Let's go on into adventure then.
@litlifes32783 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much
@brotherhood61253 жыл бұрын
Agreed ✋
@keshavbansal51483 жыл бұрын
Great point! Thanks for pointing that out Rushil.
@justbleedprod.94142 жыл бұрын
I’m 21. I try not to live with regrets, I believe everything happens for a reason and whatever happens in our lives shapes us into the people we are at present. That being said I do regret not living in the moment at times in my life. Too much time overthinking, being distracted, etc. Learning to put the phone down will really help with that
@madmax7539 Жыл бұрын
Thanks! I guess it helps as i am 18 and want to live my life to the fullest.
@Mercenary-19149 ай бұрын
To be 21 and see this is amazing. I am in my mid 40s, and my mom is in her early 70's She told me she had so many regrets, and she would have married a different person or had done different things career wise. Then asked me if I would do things differently. I told her NOPE...because everything I have done lead me to the life I have. I have a wonderful son, and believe it or not career and relationship decisions had an impact on me meeting my ex who I have my son with. I followed up with also, "Mom, if you married a different man, you would have had me and my brothers"
@alexwizard73333 жыл бұрын
It’s interesting how none of these regrets really included money - which is what a lot of us are chasing nowadays. None of them said “I regret not making enough money...”. Sending love to everyone.
@AkhirahOverDunya853 жыл бұрын
Great observation !
@matheusminto3 жыл бұрын
Not true. Career and studies = money
@KITKATHERO3 жыл бұрын
Very true. I think most older people realize they'd have rather had a career they love, not just for the money.
@yeedurlasthaw3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the exact same thing
@p-y82103 жыл бұрын
Time is the most valuable thing in the universe.
@fitfogey2 жыл бұрын
I’m 50. My two main regrets when I was younger are that I regret people pleasing and also allowing people to define who I thought I was. Live your life. There are 8 billion people on the planet and if you met every single one, all of them would have a different opinion of you and none would be correct.
@teunw73872 жыл бұрын
@Katie Lisle I’m 24 too and couldn’t agree more
@aranimpact2 жыл бұрын
i’m 24 and unfortunately i’m still like this. i always tell myself to stop being too nice to people but eventually i’ll be nice to the point they take advantage of me. i don’t know to change to be more firm & confident but i really hope i’ll get there one day.
@sayakas_journey2 жыл бұрын
24 too!🙋🏻♀️
@nobita75732 жыл бұрын
I am 20 and I want to learn this
@nobita75732 жыл бұрын
I am really a Overthinker in this matter
@djdiggerjonez40632 жыл бұрын
"Not knowing how wonderful I was when I was younger." That rocked me to the core.
@tumblingartist2 жыл бұрын
2:39 just hit different
@msadx5397 Жыл бұрын
Also took her like 10sec to say💀
@ludvanbeethoven1 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, unnecessarily long pause
@runningbeard7380 Жыл бұрын
It actually made me laugh. I thought... this is what you regret?? On the surface, it sounds narcissistic, but I get how we form distorted views of ourselves, and think we're awful, when in reality, nobody is either thinking about you at all, or has a positive view of you... but we walk around thinking we're hideous.
@yoursoulessmate Жыл бұрын
Same, u should have known this way before
@AT-eu4zu Жыл бұрын
I regret not dating when I was younger. I then learnt the hard way what people can be about, narcissism, gas lighting , abuse, I just didn’t have the tools to identify red flags nor did I have a point of reference…. It took me years to grow my emotional intelligence cause I also always avoided people and drama and also I learnt to trust myself more. Now I’m with the man not of my dreams cause he’s way better than what my mind could concoct.
@RandomDC1233 жыл бұрын
The one where the guy regrets "not giving more ice cream to his dad" 3:22, is probably the saddest one. Sometimes small things can really leave huge impacts.
@alessandrodigiraffe23553 жыл бұрын
it's also not well thought out and probably not his actual biggest regret lmao.
@mandisaw3 жыл бұрын
@@alessandrodigiraffe2355 It's a stand-in - he regrets not just enjoying the time with his dad while he was dying.
@sprout84263 жыл бұрын
its so sad the more i think about it
@yummypasta923 жыл бұрын
The fact that this was his son's regret probably means that he was very loving and caring towards his father. I think that would be any father's wish.
@AIRBORNE9163 жыл бұрын
@@alessandrodigiraffe2355 honestly I don’t believe you are correct. If you had a parent die you would know it’s those little things that you could have done better haunt you, especially if you’re a parent your self you realize how much your parents love you and how much they sacrificed.
@Ma-dq6gd3 жыл бұрын
my biggest regret is acting too much like a grownup when i was only a little child...
@vkishan20893 жыл бұрын
We are in the same team. But know that you will be successful in life. 👍
@didonavo42543 жыл бұрын
For real ☹️
@charlowalliset14843 жыл бұрын
Same
@NetiNeti-gm5bz3 жыл бұрын
When you're acting/ being inauthentic people can see through it. So technically you were still a child in people's eyes. You can fake words and actions but you can't fake energy.
@okreally3253 жыл бұрын
@@NetiNeti-gm5bz again SPITTIN
@Lilyium3 жыл бұрын
It gets darker and darker...youth really is a time full of innocence while the older you get the more tainted you become with reality. Best to find the balance between the two.
@randomdogwith3ginternetacc9963 жыл бұрын
you just mentioned something in which 90% people fail
@afearntm8302 жыл бұрын
what you mean?
@leotoms54102 жыл бұрын
it really is full of innocence, i always wanted to go bak in my youth...
@peterdickinson78422 жыл бұрын
We are spirits in a material world sang Sting! Don't Stand so close to me. Jesus said, "Father forgive them the don't know what they are doing!" The Father was in Christ reconciling the world back to Himself. So we know by grace through faith our wealth is not in our 'selfies' But in The Holy Spirit's leading as the only foundation has been established Jesus Christ God the Son shared our sadness. But overcame death and that worse fate-His Word is never out of date. Whereas Satan- Lucifer the Angel of light,the father lies, hypnotise despise twist people's thinking. So we meditate (chihuahua) on The Sacred Word The Holy Bible So then personal revival every morning on awaking God is Love. Even if you are breaking in body mind spirit His grace is plenty. Elementary! Great Riches At Christ's Expense!
@124Outdoor2 жыл бұрын
Believing the reality we are offered, as reality, should be a regret for most.
@Annevee4 Жыл бұрын
It seems no matter what you do you would regret something. Whatever choice you happen to make, you’ll miss out on the other. So you might as well focus your energy on what you’re grateful for rather than regrets. ❤
@sustainabilitybeauty3318 Жыл бұрын
Different perspective 😍, well said mate !
@kuya.justin Жыл бұрын
finally someone who understands. my biggest regret is having had too many regrets in life. with that said the present moment is the one and only reality there will ever be so why dont enjoy it without regretting so much
@Nour-op6wo3 жыл бұрын
Notice how most regret the things that they *didn’t* do.
@hiba9423 жыл бұрын
perfect pfp
@jacintaminj3233 жыл бұрын
Louisss
@captainnemo97363 жыл бұрын
I like your profile picture
@Celiaaaeats3 жыл бұрын
We all love that pfp ❤
@noway77183 жыл бұрын
Louiiiis❤❤
@lauracanedo14462 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 27 and my biggest regret: wasting my time with people that didn’t have the best intentions for me. It’s haunting.
@user-mi4yc7pr3x2 жыл бұрын
Wish you luck finding someone to connect with!
@thescreenviewer13492 жыл бұрын
Everything happened for a reason. Theres no mistakes, theres no wasting times, only learnings. As it should be.
@Russeren012 жыл бұрын
@@thescreenviewer1349 BS. You can’t just conclude that!
@Lethallime12342 жыл бұрын
@@Russeren01 exactly
@aryanyousefzadeh5602 жыл бұрын
@@Russeren01 in life you never stop learning
@danielasotolopez89283 жыл бұрын
"Being frightened of so many things when I was younger". Yep, that hits me the most.
@smartguy41493 жыл бұрын
That hit for me too and I’m only 21 😂
@danielasotolopez89283 жыл бұрын
@@smartguy4149 tfunny thing here im almost 18... pretty young to feel the way i feel😂
@rahmatullah82873 жыл бұрын
Fearless...otw
@Sharon517183 жыл бұрын
That hit me hard too. I am 32.
@gallanomaryangelinev.59843 жыл бұрын
I think I must do something to face my fears...i am 16
@EthanPricco2 жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and my three biggest regrets probably are: 1) Not being more social and active in high school. 2) Quitting sports 3) Not asking out the girl I liked before she moved away.
@fromamoroccanperspective3318 Жыл бұрын
You still have a chance to move things around. Make use of your college days and talk to as many people as possible. Try to be less picky and less judgmental. I wish I had. I am 28 years old and I have just started feeling the weight of it all. All the things that I should have done and it doesn't feel pleasant. So please seize the day and life your life to the fullest.
@Gabriel_JudgeofHell Жыл бұрын
can relate for no.3
@sabian8601 Жыл бұрын
Spot on brotha. You ain’t alone
@tristan_84011 ай бұрын
We almost have the same regrets, but I have also more. I'm 22 btw.
@redblazer2911 ай бұрын
id say 28 is still young imo. atleast you've better experience of what you want to do. im 25 and have been in therapy for just an year now and getting better finally. i still consider myself as a 23yo bec i lost 2 years due to covid all the things i wanted to do. id say man please just take action. im closer to your age then OP so thats why seeing you do better and seize the opportunities now too. ask that woman out, play that instrument and start that hobby. hope we can stay in touch@@fromamoroccanperspective3318
@christaswanepoel77707 жыл бұрын
63 lady has the most soothing voice ever. I want to go to aroma therapy classes with her
@AdrianaMtezGlez4 жыл бұрын
Krista C totally!
@brandontarczon91644 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah
@hazzaloupaynodjzaynniallth18904 жыл бұрын
I want to go to aroma with Harry Styles.. have you heard his soothing voice.
@ericadjei60944 жыл бұрын
Yes very soothing
@melbell68724 жыл бұрын
She seems depressed and pushed over
@ShaferHart3 жыл бұрын
"my second marriage" You can hear his pain. Hope you're in a better place now buddy.
@okreally3253 жыл бұрын
you're saying that like he died
@lfd36803 жыл бұрын
Don’t listen to this guy who replied. He’s trolling on everyone’s comments and it’s really depressing. Anyways, I agree with you
@dcgreatman3 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: he's still married to his second wife
@talpatv5123 жыл бұрын
@@lfd3680 he trolled with what ? Stop being so sensitive
@sab-ali3 жыл бұрын
I could feel it.
@josuemartinez48284 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna regret staring at my phone 24/7
@sleepy73363 жыл бұрын
Same thing for me 😂😔
@itssavvv3 жыл бұрын
same
@kim_ami71033 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@charlowalliset14843 жыл бұрын
Same
@a.e.i24093 жыл бұрын
Same
@aka_lonewolf19 Жыл бұрын
The first kid is absolutly right... life's a playground or nothing🖤
@gavinreid53873 жыл бұрын
Saying"No" when I should have said "Yes". Saying "Yes"when I should have said "No".
@charlowalliset14843 жыл бұрын
Yes
@nicolegreene22083 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@onceuponabrokengirl90643 жыл бұрын
Yes
@volume_023 жыл бұрын
U should read the Old lad’s “WP SN(channel name)81 yr old” comment, “life doesn’t allow for a path where everything gets to be experienced”
@shadowsenpai71513 жыл бұрын
just say no always so at least you got 50% right
@martinho54743 жыл бұрын
"most of your problems have two main reasons - acting without thinking or thinking without acting" Quora user 2021
@ruusteriv3 жыл бұрын
That's a great quote, thank you
@sincerely_63623 жыл бұрын
Okay this is gonna go straight to my journal
@eriksantos4183 жыл бұрын
I'm the second
@ruusteriv3 жыл бұрын
@Indrajeet Patil Aw, it's really nothing haha
@ruusteriv3 жыл бұрын
@@eriksantos418 Me too
@shivaneepatell3 жыл бұрын
Most people should’ve been who they were meant to be!
@agstardust99443 жыл бұрын
What????
@NetiNeti-gm5bz3 жыл бұрын
@@agstardust9944 I believe he means not listening to your own heart/ intuition/ self and following your passion/ hearts desire
@urethralinfection83113 жыл бұрын
“Most people” 😂😂
@eruriperiodt59133 жыл бұрын
True. This video is super important for younger audiences to learn what previous generations have regretted so hopefully they can learn and don’t make the same mistakes.
@jacobsherwood16553 жыл бұрын
@@agstardust9944 I think he means that people should’ve said they had no regrets, because to regret something also means to wish that every other event after your regretted decision would change too, making you another person and not making you “who they were meant to be”.
@asdrubalhurtado65002 жыл бұрын
I am 18 years old and I regret two things: 1-not having lived my adolescence in the best way and not having made friends because of my social anxiety 2-not having taken advantage of all the free time I had as a child and adolescent to learn and do new things
@amitraghuwanshi6521 Жыл бұрын
Same ( now clg and school life over ) 25
@anthonyneitzel36353 жыл бұрын
This shouldn't scare anyone, it should inspire you and encourage you do the things you always wanted to while you're still here. Chase your dreams.
@hattiesierra71793 жыл бұрын
Yahhhh💕
@part49633 жыл бұрын
chase your reality
@anthonyneitzel36353 жыл бұрын
@@part4963 That doesn't make sense, if its a reality it already exists lmao. Make your dreams your reality.
@dougsmith59203 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed to hear this 🙏
@cosmic59343 жыл бұрын
i dont even know what my dreams are tbh.
@trajectory72353 жыл бұрын
So the 5-year-old's biggest regret is having to answer her biggest regret when she could be at the playground instead 😂
@atriagotler3 жыл бұрын
That's the right&proper attidude😂
@starlegends30923 жыл бұрын
There is a little kid i know that alwase sais to there mom "you ruind my life!" when she does something he doesnt like, and he went to my house to be babysat by my older sisters, and i was having a fun time with him, so when it was time to leave he said "you ruind my best life!"
@trajectory72353 жыл бұрын
@@starlegends3092 Ahaha, that's too cute! It's fascinating how every moment is so big for a child: something small they don't like can seem so big to them that it "ruins their life" lol.
@starlegends30923 жыл бұрын
@@trajectory7235 ya lol
@Busylifestudy3 жыл бұрын
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@big_bubbab42543 жыл бұрын
My father passed away when I was 16. To this day I can't remember telling him how much I loved him. My only regret is not telling him every day. That was 46 years ago.
@joejoe29743 жыл бұрын
Same for me, my grandfather passed away last year and i had so much things to tell him, if only i could talk to him one last time...
@Hels_953 жыл бұрын
My father passed when i was nine. I regret not asking him about his life for myself and also so i could tell my kids stories he told me. But then again i was only nine. I cant even call him "dad" not only because it is somewhat childish but because it remindes me of him. I function better when i dont think about it. Im 18 now
@Herbert_Rudolf3 жыл бұрын
My father still lives and i actually never telled him
@OMGSHEENA3 жыл бұрын
My Mother died when I was 4. I can't remember her telling me she loved me or if I ever told her. I'm sure she loved me of course and I do remember some small moments and I can remember being able to remember a few more but our time together was so short. I certainly wish I could have known her as an adult and of course I wish she'd been with me my whole life but I don't think that counts as a regret. I couldn't have changed what happened so I can't regret it. 🤷♀️
@OMGSHEENA3 жыл бұрын
I do however regret not telling my father how much his actions hurt me and impacted my life, before he died. It may have helped me, it may not have but it's frustrating none the less to know I'll never be able to scream at him and some how make him understand.😕
@Wolfenstein69924 Жыл бұрын
I’m about to turn 29 in a few days. My biggest regret is not standing up for myself more. There were times I should have pushed back against people’s abuse and there were times I should’ve just walked away with my dignity.
@yonpark62452 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else feel that man's pain as he regretted not giving his father more ice cream before he passed? As a doctor, please, give your dying loved ones all the ice cream they want. Breakfast, lunch, snack, dessert.
@abstract_extremist2 жыл бұрын
Was going to say something about it cause it resonated deeply with me as well. Something about regretting such a simple gesture has something very human about it. Reminds me of how fragile all life is.
@riggs202 жыл бұрын
That one almost made me cry. My mom is temporarily in a skilled nursing rehab center right now. She’s 82. I won’t let them put her on dietary restrictions because, well, she’s 82. I think she should get to enjoy to the fullest what life she has left.
@jcnigang2 жыл бұрын
If you feel you're about to die,might as well eat what you love or like so you can die smiling knowing the last thing you did or eat mada you happy before passing away
@rubydoodles14252 жыл бұрын
that comment stuck out to me the most and i teared up
@abstract_extremist2 жыл бұрын
@@titteryenot1136 ok tom. Lol
@abduvosidmalikov3 жыл бұрын
"Being frightened of so many things when I was younger" - that touched hard & motivated! Thank you Miss (63)
@Busylifestudy3 жыл бұрын
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@svalbard012 жыл бұрын
Yes, very relatable.
@mrterrysilver2 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the only reason she is still around at 63 is because of those fears that gave her life-preserving behaviour.
@johnvalentine47202 жыл бұрын
Goodness. This really did resonate more than anything else for me.
@starr28702 жыл бұрын
yes
@MahaH977 жыл бұрын
This video makes me think about the choices I made in my life and the choices I'll make in life and it kinda scares me
@ChryChry20007 жыл бұрын
same :/
@Ratsoftheswamp7 жыл бұрын
Maha H same
@jacobjamar7 жыл бұрын
Maha H you'll do fine in life! Why bother with other unknown opinions!
@stantwice36804 жыл бұрын
Stfu
@YHoitink Жыл бұрын
I was considering a drastic career change in my late 30s and a friend told me that in the end, you only regret the things you didn't try. I quit my job that week and love my new career.
@olefella75613 жыл бұрын
Eat healthy, do exercise, take vitamin tabs and sleep well. That's what I've done and it's my 90th birthday next week. 😊
@medical-me73943 жыл бұрын
Awww atala Allah fe 'omroka
@maricelgomez61683 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday! 💜
@danielled73613 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday!! 🥳
@nicolassalamanca28123 жыл бұрын
Cap
@Shadow779993 жыл бұрын
Based
@Vellichor3583 жыл бұрын
"A man is not old until his regrets take the place of his dreams." -Yiddish proverb
@ike42823 жыл бұрын
Love this thank u bro 🙏🏻
@therealmomo80333 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm old at 14 😎 edgy rn
@schwester65233 жыл бұрын
Old at twenties.
@I.dont.know1353 жыл бұрын
Old at 18🥲
@RinasEnglish3 жыл бұрын
Excellent proverb.
@reiolli39893 жыл бұрын
This was an eye opener. I regret not doing so many things yet I'm still fairly young. This is scary.
@NotShowingOff3 жыл бұрын
There will always be things you don’t do. So you regret not doing them. You have to realize that the present is extremely complicated, and stop putting too much responsibility on yourself.
@dilyaraarynova3 жыл бұрын
it is the point that you are fairly young. there would be more reasonable regrets if you were old.
@NAVEEN-hv1ev3 жыл бұрын
@@NotShowingOff ❤️true
@matts45343 жыл бұрын
@@dilyaraarynova yu. P the
@mandysy23993 жыл бұрын
"Just Do It." - Nike
@LittleBlacksheep19952 жыл бұрын
1:16 that hits hard. I was also 24-25 when my dad died and it still haunts me how little I spent time with him.
@theoneinthewhitecoat2 жыл бұрын
I am 25 and I feel the same.
@sonyabadass5 жыл бұрын
22: "not taking a chances" 26: "i wish i knew what i really wanted to do earlier" 27: "not getting into computer science at an earlier age" 55: "not listening to my self at times in life when i should have"
@mynameisirrelevant463 жыл бұрын
It's not too late ...Let's do it !!!
@JuanEsteban9993 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm....
@8huvi3 жыл бұрын
all those are my regrets
@first92993 жыл бұрын
So you wanted to major in comp sci but didn't?
@jiro82333 жыл бұрын
This gave me shivers... The 55 yo gave up on stating a specific regret and just said "not listening to myself when I should have"...
@shinyam757 жыл бұрын
My Biggest Regrets: Not studying harder when I was younger Not being confident in myself Not appreciating my parents more and being more respectful and kind Not choosing a major in science in university Not asking girls out that I was interested in Not standing up for people who were being bullied or treated poorly Saying mean things, treating people poorly Not spending my time wisely, learning and developing new skills Not seeing my grandmother one last time before she passed away
@redarX6 жыл бұрын
shinyam75 thanks... I'm of Same personality as you, maybe i can make myself better
@epm10126 жыл бұрын
shinyam75 I’m deeply sorry about your grandmother.
@saammmy76 жыл бұрын
+shinyam75 I wholeheartedly agree on the first one and last two regrets you listed. I'm also working on being kinder to my parents and people in general.
@elmonte41135 жыл бұрын
That pulled on the heartstrings
@xolf81395 жыл бұрын
I dont think treating people poorly is a regret. If u ever treated anyone nicely u wouldve known. When u treat them nicely they ll take advantage of u
@elenabomfim6652 жыл бұрын
I’m in college now, and didn’t realize how much these years can still be so important in even forty or fifty years. Really felt like a punch in the gut to not take things for granted, especially youth and opportunity and family.
@MrX-nc8cm2 жыл бұрын
Really, really enjoy your youth, trust me, I regret i didn’t do so much stuff because of fear, thinking about others, or self doubt, at the end of the day that fear or embarrassing moment won’t matter in 5 years. I regret taking high school and college too seriously. Go out with friends, get in relationships, travel no matter if is a local place, get as much positive new experiences as you can, and love your family
@sshukla79752 жыл бұрын
You have time still to shape who you are. Cherish it. Don't give up on yourself ever.
@pedroroque8292 жыл бұрын
@@MrX-nc8cm How to get in relationships tho?
@MayorMcheese122 жыл бұрын
@@pedroroque829 its called socializing
@thewatcher94802 жыл бұрын
@@MrX-nc8cm Thanks btw. I'm 17 and I would live a fking life
@kasugayuuki143810 ай бұрын
I am 28. And I mostly regret not being able to do my studies seriously 5 years ago for nursing.I feel like I let my self down and my mom down. She's getting older, and she will soon retire this year or next year. And things are going to change so much that I need to grow up not live the life I used to. Currently now, I am doing my studies for it so I'm hoping that I can make this 2024 different for myself and my mom. I really am scared for the future but im willing to not take things for granted this time around. Prayers that I can do this...i really need it.
@yt-sh5 ай бұрын
you got this, I am trying to do something like that, it will be all right, God willing
@thereal48155 ай бұрын
God bless you
@MR-iy6jx3 жыл бұрын
I regret missing out on fun opportunities because of my social anxiety
@niels1t1if3 жыл бұрын
Same. I am 22 now and I want to be more social after the outbreak. I may be a bit late, but still.... I regret not getting a partime job as a teenager, and instead getting my first job at 21 (if you don't count internships etc..)
@user-me8hy8ew4o3 жыл бұрын
I don't know how old you are and maybe that doesn't apply to everyone. But don't try to force yourself to be more social and to do things too hard. Maybe try to talk to some people in your environment and try to become friends with some. You might have friends and just not go to "fun things". So maybe you want to go with your friends to wherever they are going next time. Not always just try out. Maybe there are fun places you want to be (I don't know, maybe amusement parks, etc, whatever works for you) and you can ask your friends if you want to go together? If you say it's too hard, maybe you should consider professional help. It's not a shame to get help and it can change your whole life
@eljayegadir20593 жыл бұрын
Well guess what supposedly I will attend a debut today but because of that, I stuck right in my room
@mitchell1234567890113 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't regret something you can't control, especially when you feel what your doing is the best for you in the moment. And now you know that you may have missed opportunities so you will seek more, better, opportunities.
@MsLivinglegend193 жыл бұрын
@@mitchell123456789011 this !! I felt so sad for a long time because I felt like I missed so many fun opportunities when I was studying abroad. However, now I realise I did what I could at the time whilst coping with really bad mental health. There is still the chance to have fun and meet new friends and people
@Jay-xh9dl3 жыл бұрын
"Being frightened of so many things when I was younger". That's it. I'm 32 and I will never fear again.
@jhsemoxitha38212 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm 23
@defaultdefault8122 жыл бұрын
You'll be afraid of this monster meat in between your legs.
@jhsemoxitha38212 жыл бұрын
@@defaultdefault812 wtf
@defaultdefault8122 жыл бұрын
@@jhsemoxitha3821 yea?
@nikstieglecker47522 жыл бұрын
@@donggyeomkim1086 you are never too old to change
@blushkook41483 жыл бұрын
Most of the regrets are related to School or College..this shows how much our teenage life is important for us :-)
@dt_993 жыл бұрын
It becomes a pool of regrets when the time slips away, and on looking back we realise that we were able to and we should have studied more efficiently and effectively..........
@heissomeone20323 жыл бұрын
And family dont forget that
@oblivion53903 жыл бұрын
@@typhoid6836 failing in high school is very low. Even if you perform really bad, there's a chance that teachers will still pass you.
@robertoh36333 жыл бұрын
I don't regret all the fun I spent with friends and watching anime, series, movies when I was younger and fun felt so good. Now fun doesn't feel the same, fun is not fun anymore.
@kraithaywire3 жыл бұрын
@@robertoh3633 Man, I get exactly what you're talking about
@frayacinth2 жыл бұрын
I'm 27 and I regret not having more empathy for strangers. I used to be a lot kinder when I was younger, and fixing that is going to be a lifelong process.
@melissamcnair-lz2uw7 жыл бұрын
51: my second marriage -- that's low key savage tho
@Chilldude5797 жыл бұрын
i think its more sad than savage.
@BrunaChaves097 жыл бұрын
Melissa McNair in another video he says that the hardest things he went through in his life was his second divorce, which makes his answer in this video even more interesting. I wonder what happened during this marriage.............
@johnmandrake88297 жыл бұрын
maybe its about how it ended
@sarikaaggarwal25746 жыл бұрын
How is that savage?
@nGUNNARp6 жыл бұрын
in the hardest thing video he said his second divorce was the hardest thing...something tells me it's still pretty fresh for him
@jabosolar7 жыл бұрын
I really want age 74 to tell me what he knows now... I'm 18 years old and I would really appreciate and listen. You may not be able to tell it to your young self but maybe you can find a young persosn who is really willing to listen, like me!
@teresamonica83877 жыл бұрын
Literally love talking to older people in like there 70s + there normal so very nice and there normal always willing to talk to a younger person, they make amazing friends too.
@kbunnei7 жыл бұрын
read more books especially autobiographies
@TheGeloBeans7 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm 15 and I love having deep conversations with older people who reflect on their lives.
@alandruioan7 жыл бұрын
Well, many people regret not having done something. When you are older you understand things better, maybe something like. Yeah I would have been more social because it really isnt bad and i should have looked over my fears.
@FernandoSanchez-fm4xq7 жыл бұрын
Listen to your parents when they say try your best in school. I'm not old but I'm old enough to look back and regret that. I wish I could have gone to college and enjoy living in a dorm and go to a university.
@morguedollita6 жыл бұрын
I regret how I dated every person that told me they had feelings for me ignoring the fact that I didn’t even like them back.
@m.s29125 жыл бұрын
It's the opposite for me, I regret never giving a chance to anyone that has had feelings for me and having spent a lot of years waiting to feel something I don't know if I'm capable of feeling. It gets really lonely sometimes :(
@TheExperimentalHomestead4 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@bekimbajrami66094 жыл бұрын
Ugh...it feels horrible to be single! All your friends get boyfriends! And they hang out with them and then your all alone. I wish i had a boyfriend
@yoongiboongicatman28934 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@zero2sixty2444 жыл бұрын
Hey hey hey, lower your voice please.
@roxii71902 жыл бұрын
We need to appreciate the elderly more and listen to them and thier experiences, they went through bad experiences so we don’t have to. Spend more time with your elders before it’s too late, they’re precious
@TinyFord16 жыл бұрын
Biggest regret, broke an amazing girl’s heart
@CrimsonHazmat6 жыл бұрын
Ouch
@honeymsmhoneyx44505 жыл бұрын
Oof
@noemistephanie935 жыл бұрын
My biggest regret is going with someone who broke my heart
@yanelbsl38684 жыл бұрын
i think i feel the same
@GrillVogel4 жыл бұрын
Same
@suiyaahum50763 жыл бұрын
I am 20 and I have two regrets in life: 1. Not building a more connective relationship with my families. 2. Not giving better attention to my studies and being lost what to do later in life; career related. (I yearn to change things. And maybe a decade later I hope to come back and rewatch this video and this comment of mine)
@kiky4363 жыл бұрын
Hoping to see you with your update a few years later, trust the process, the day will come
@Staa143_3 жыл бұрын
When your young you dont think school is important, but when your older you wish you cared more. Im 13 and I realized how important random knowledge is
@miaomiao073 жыл бұрын
Ya I think you still have chance to change things. All the best!
@elliesart_3 жыл бұрын
I am 27, my relationship with my family started being worked on age 23, and has only fully formed in the last year. It can take time. You'll get there 💛
@ferrazz3 жыл бұрын
The second thing it's not your fault , because school should have taught you that
@elwin16542 жыл бұрын
I'm 42, and the one about not knowing how wonderful I was when I was younger really hit me. I think if I regret anything, it's spending so much time worrying about what other people think of me.
@jimskeuh2 жыл бұрын
i'm 39 i still worry,and that's probably part of being a highly sensitive person. it does get a little better with age but not where i hoped it would be. I'm a young soul in an aging body and sometimes that's really hard to acknowledge
@tatjanavukadinovic8602 жыл бұрын
Same..
@aomineuchiwa50222 жыл бұрын
@@jimskeuh i feel you man...
@Mercenary-19149 ай бұрын
I didnt go through life like this. I didnt really care what people thought of me. I actually cared more of what I thought of myself. I Was my own biggest critic. Elwin, if you dont mind me asking. What are some examples of things you worried about what others thought of you?
@NSLZ67 ай бұрын
@@Mercenary-1914personally. I don’t like being looked at or noticed. I avoid presentations, avoid crowded areas, avoid letting my presence be know, all that stuff. I understand no one truly cares about me, but I can’t help it. I’m sure I’ll regret not enjoying my time more, but it’s difficult to, I’ve shoved myself in this box early on and didn’t pull myself out to enjoy the life that would soon flourish as life would continue. Now man I have a question, why are you so loose and carefree to others opinions ?
@Jorge_Ramirez584 Жыл бұрын
As a 20 year old, I have a vicious cycle, in which I constantly regret not doing certain things earlier even though I'm aware that my life is barely starting and I still have a lot of time to do plenty of things. I just have this belief that there's a stage in life for everything, and I feel frightened that, just as now there are things I want to do, but should've started doing when I was younger, I may not do things that I'm the right age to do, and will later be regretting it.
@tPlayerioT Жыл бұрын
same me
@asma997_7 жыл бұрын
"I regret not...." Almost everyone regrets things they haven't done not the things they did..so think about what you really want to do and in 40 years will you regret not doing it?
@dodekaedius6 жыл бұрын
Why Asma most true
@JasonChowTV6 жыл бұрын
i guess u are not old enough to realize this but when u are living in the moment, you tend to lose sight on the most important things in life. which is why most of their regrets is not doing something because during that time they are having other problems. by the time they look back then they see the big picture. nobody is that awake to realize the priority in life.
@aalx18396 жыл бұрын
If we do those thing we will regret doing them 'cos we basic
@minnminnho54825 жыл бұрын
It happens for a reason
@katee44105 жыл бұрын
I really hope you’re joking, it’s what they regret- not you. I regret many things that i haven’t done, i’ve missed opportunity’s and missed the chance to say goodbye to my loved ones. some people regret not doing their dream job, gotta think.
@Bandy10367 жыл бұрын
It says quite a lot that almost everyone one of them started with "not..." We're more likely to regret inaction.
@jeremiemangylo3 жыл бұрын
Deep!
@JM-jp2zd3 жыл бұрын
Right! Life's all about taking risks. That's what makes it beautiful.
@sharongitau87273 жыл бұрын
“Not getting sober sooner.” ........ I’m 21, was a pothead since 15, I finally kicked that habit, thank God I’m not alcohol or any other drug dependent. I love sober me. I don’t want to have any regrets when I’m older.
@rinabaer3703 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much ❤️, Hero
@d3v3n_51ngh3 жыл бұрын
Sending Strength to you... Even though not physically or literally but emotionally...
@sharongitau87273 жыл бұрын
@@d3v3n_51ngh thank you so much for your kind words. Sending love and favor your way :)
@sharongitau87273 жыл бұрын
@@rinabaer370 thank you love
@heidibenavides37233 жыл бұрын
That’s wonderful! Congratulations! Sobriety is a gift.💖
@Junyoung_Kang Жыл бұрын
I am 27 and I regret letting things go/giving things up too easily such as relationships and goals. I didn’t realize how easy it was to convince myself that it's not meant to be or I gave enough try and then let go of it. Now that I look back, I didn’t try hard enough.
@alexng4 Жыл бұрын
Trust me. You still got alot of years ahead. I'm over 40, and i feel the same way. Had i done more when i was 27, etc. At least you are able to be aware of it now.
@Junyoung_Kang Жыл бұрын
@@alexng4 Thank you
@wavy2k Жыл бұрын
I’m 27 and I feel that. All I want to do is keep hammering out these goals!!
@Logicalsane Жыл бұрын
@@alexng4any advice for 30 year olds?
@alexng4 Жыл бұрын
@@Logicalsane i have to say your health is the most important/priority thing. As long as your health is in good shape. It gives You'll always have energy and opportunity to enjoy life, whether you're 30, 40, or 50. So start at 30 with good eating habits.. you'll thank yourself when you are 40+.
@graceplatt93137 жыл бұрын
'Not giving my father more ice cream before he died' UR CRYING, NOT ME
@colasensei62106 жыл бұрын
What if he killed him by ice cream 🤔
@that_pac1236 жыл бұрын
Grace Platt That was the saddest one, because I could see myself crying over something just like that as a little kid, and its always to stupid infantile stuff that gets me the worst. 😭
@reemaalmu91725 жыл бұрын
Why is that sad
@lydia31585 жыл бұрын
@@reemaalmu9172 you monster its depressing
@SteveSchwallie5 жыл бұрын
Time stamp please
@jingerkywi52487 жыл бұрын
this makes me sad and makes me think about how fast life is
@voiceofneha71965 жыл бұрын
And I am watching it at 3 am GREAT.
@bustan_beatz98715 жыл бұрын
@@voiceofneha7196 same
@Levernis4 жыл бұрын
Yeah this life is too short to regret and be sad actually ❤
@_akashwut3 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 now & i regret 4 things in life 1) opportunities I've missed because of my shyness 2) not giving better importance to my studies & always thinking about future 3) not making enough friends to talk with 4) not confessing my love to the girl i used to love the most, she's dead now
@reemm46902 жыл бұрын
@@Finnfreya1 yes but IF she isn't aware of the suitability of those decisions she is willing to take, she will waste those 7 decades.
@revathin72922 жыл бұрын
You still have chance to make your life so great!! Keep going!
@SpongeMixify2 жыл бұрын
oh man 16 is still so young! you have 5 years until you're my age- you'd be surprised how much you can do before you're 21. I had no friends when I was 16 but have made great ones in college. Go after the things that you want! You'll be in great shape when your'e 21, life hasn't even started for me yet.
@archivedaccount20002 жыл бұрын
Man, 16 is so young. Just make sure to keep a good growth mindset and make good use of your early 20s. Im 19, for context
@kartikkumarsah47992 жыл бұрын
@@SpongeMixify i am 16 too but I wish I could make more friends in school and i regret i didn't have fun in school this is my last year and only 2-3 months are left of my school life.
@ceciselce6131 Жыл бұрын
i am 17 almost 18 now, and the regret that haunts me the most is not spending my last 5 years intensively cultivating my passions: music and art. i have always been aware of my potential, but i struggle to live up to it because of distractions and poor time management. so, i regret not investing in myself at an early age, thus becoming really technically good at my crafts. but lately i'm starting to think that there's a reason behind this: true awareness in our interests and possibilities come naturally at the right time in our lives (and cannot be forced), perhaps i just needed to gain mindfulness, experience and a hit of regret in order to get things going. especially for emotionally-based disciplines, which i'm interested in. and by the way, i'm still very young and i know can go far, if i set my mind to it.
@vetzrah4437 Жыл бұрын
Hey, I just wanted to comment because what you said is incredibly relatable to me. I’m 19 now in my first quarter of university. I used to be very regretful of the years I spent playing Minecraft instead of writing or practicing violin. We only get a few shots at being the best we can ever be and now is the time to do it. I know there are 8 year olds better at violin then me and I could have written multiple books at this point, but there’s still so much time - if we start now.
@kzzazzip6272 Жыл бұрын
I believe in u
@spencerdiniz Жыл бұрын
You’re still young. You can still make up for lost time.
@alejandrovelasquez1710 Жыл бұрын
18 yo here, I feel almost the same, I can't help but feel like I just started my journey, anyways as the other guy said, we are young and we are just entering our prime so let's go.
@curlsarestudying5137 Жыл бұрын
I relate to your feeling. I am dealing with the same situation.
@m.t29607 жыл бұрын
63 - i love her voice
@amazzinganne96937 жыл бұрын
marcia albert ikr
@poisonedapplex-jiminisever64697 жыл бұрын
she should voice a book
@kc-eq8yt7 жыл бұрын
bruhh i was legit about to comment that lmfaoo
@aim48617 жыл бұрын
marcia albert yesss
@teresamonica83877 жыл бұрын
totally would be a great book reader
@welovethebeach93 жыл бұрын
I’m 17, and I feel like I’m gonna have so many regrets in my life. There’s things I would love to pursue and people I’d love to go on adventures with, but I don’t know how to push myself because I’m too anxious about everything.
@chopcity39993 жыл бұрын
Think wisely bruh...I wish I all the best 👍
@nickn27943 жыл бұрын
Try to see it like a challenge you have to win and the prize is your happiness. Also try yoga/sport, meditation, therapy. Do not take psychopharmaceuticals.
@endar24013 жыл бұрын
It is tough, but here is the thing... You can be anxious and still do those things. It's not about whether there is anxiety or not, it's about what you decide to do regardless of it.
@emanuelmakanda47013 жыл бұрын
Same
@robertaioana22093 жыл бұрын
Same...
@TheRealHoodScientist3 жыл бұрын
Make that move today!!!!!! No more excuses stop letting fear, stagnancy & complacency hold you back. Declare your love, make that apology, take those dance classes, start that new job, move to where your heart desires, spend time w your loved ones, believe in magic, do it allllllll. 🤍
@Youcangowhereeveryoulike3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@anthonyneitzel36353 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs to see this!!!
@limecloud85223 жыл бұрын
Typing that easy
@anthonyneitzel36353 жыл бұрын
@@limecloud8522 Why you gotta be negative dawg? Mad weird
@limecloud85223 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyneitzel3635 cos it's the truth
@isaiahrodriguez9613 Жыл бұрын
I'm 20. Biggest regret is letting my social life die after highschool. Theres just so many new pressures to deal with in adulthood that it became so easy to let old friendships die off.
@jomlynn3 жыл бұрын
Noticed how most of them starts with “not doing...”. This just shows that you’ll regret not doing something than doing and failing it. Just go for it, whatever it is. Do it!!
@roshanvibes62633 жыл бұрын
Yeah!! That's true dear. Trying and failing is better than not trying at all. Been positive and lucrative is the best mentality ever.
@TheAbsoluteProduction3 жыл бұрын
Easy to say 🙂
@Kavriel3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to reading your comment three month ago, i finally picked myself up and decided to take drugs. I regret when I'm not high, but I'm riding the wave baby 🌊🌊🌊 Jk just saying some things don't deserve doing.
@danflex68023 жыл бұрын
I honestly needed this motivation thank you 🙏🏼
@trixxpounce49623 жыл бұрын
To future self: Ask your crush out soon, they may have also liked you all those years
@grazeen3 жыл бұрын
did you do it? (back me up guys let them push a little themselves)
@youngtillaworld_za34773 жыл бұрын
You can also do it...or atleast go tell them about it...if it's impossible for you guys to be together now
@agaaga51263 жыл бұрын
I actually did it and got rejected but knowing I dont have to waste time on them anymore is so relieving that I am more content and happy than before 6/10 would recommend it
@yuh82443 жыл бұрын
What if it’s my teacher
@Cobson_GamingYT3 жыл бұрын
Kinda got a crush on this girl I think shes got a harder crush for me I’m just hoping thats true.
@sincerely_63623 жыл бұрын
Most of them regret 2 things: - Not loving others enough - Not loving themselves enough.
@alicehong78093 жыл бұрын
💓
@itjustmemyselfandi3 жыл бұрын
So, all we need is love.
@robertoh36333 жыл бұрын
I don't love myself because a devil controls me and I cannot set me free
@typea54263 жыл бұрын
@@robertoh3633?
@darklife79163 жыл бұрын
Not loving.
@mjjmedia12 Жыл бұрын
At 30 - growing up with the tendency to not ask questions or ask for help, out of fear of looking stupid or bothering people. The amount I don't know what I don't know because of this feels immense.
@Itsmerufff4 ай бұрын
I highly relate to you even if l'm still young seems like this (Asking for help or doubt) won't fade away with time but yes if you don't ask the answer will always be a big 'NO'
@dominil33 жыл бұрын
My only regret is always trying to make my parents proud even tho it makes me not fulfilled with life. I feel like I want their approval but I also want to be free without disappointing them.
@jellyjasmin94963 жыл бұрын
How ur thoughts match mine 🤭
@scarjo96353 жыл бұрын
Same here
@steve_bal42 жыл бұрын
Live for yourself, they have their own lives.
@mayanksharma75042 жыл бұрын
Learning to be self-reliant and than I can be free.
@bhagyaweerakoon54292 жыл бұрын
Been there done that. Its funny but when you live for yourself you ultimately make your parents happy. It will not happen instantly. It will take years sometimes but it you follow your dreams you will become happy and they will be happy seeing you happy.
@MarsLos103 жыл бұрын
I'm 24, my biggest regret is that I didn't believe in myself when I was younger and had low self-esteem. if I had more confidence, didn't care on what other people think, and didn't dare to try what I wanna do, things would be so much different...
@rafaels.23503 жыл бұрын
You're still young, though, if you feel like you are now able to do the things you wish you had done back then, you still.got time, because when you get older, you're gonna look at your current self and think the same
@MarsLos103 жыл бұрын
@@rafaels.2350 Yes, I've already achieved many things I once hesitated and was sure I couldn't do. It's awesome. Thank you for your comment ❤️
@mikasaackerman42373 жыл бұрын
@@MarsLos10 i don't know what to say but that was in the past and u still young you should look at the bright side, you've already achieved many things and I'm sure you'll do more
@MarsLos103 жыл бұрын
@@mikasaackerman4237 thank you Mikasa for your kind words:)
@dipankarm41253 жыл бұрын
I'm 32. Please, don't waste any moment now. I would kill to be 24 again & I have the same exact regrets- fear & wastage of time.
@deathgripsnightcore81217 жыл бұрын
I was chill all the time but the one with "not giving my dad more ice-cream before he died" broke my heart and i started crying 😢 (54, 3:21)
@vupatu39197 жыл бұрын
it was a joke though...
@shinyam757 жыл бұрын
I don't think it was a joke. I think that his father was in the hospital, and was dying. He asked for ice cream, so he gave it to him. He wanted more, but the son thought it was a bad idea because it was not good for him, or he didn't want to go the store again. His father than passed away.
@vupatu39197 жыл бұрын
That's a pretty random assumption. I'm almost positive it was a joke. In the other video, when they asked his goal in life, he answered; "world domination".
@shinyam757 жыл бұрын
No, it's not. There is no man on Earth who would joke about his father's death.
@rileyl.86107 жыл бұрын
+shinyam75 You'd be surprised..
@TheLadyshay30002 жыл бұрын
This video is a massive wake up call for me about doing what what’s expected of me and making sure I don’t regret not chasing my dreams.
@SharifMustafa3 жыл бұрын
The biggest regret most humans will have at the end of their lives would be not staying at the present moment . And realizing that happiness costs nothing and it was right there in front of their eyes if only they turned inwards and stayed present.
@htarnowskiful3 жыл бұрын
Preach!! :)
@tagaway61733 жыл бұрын
What about the people who's present sucks? I dont want to be that person, but someone will say it anyways.
@SharifMustafa3 жыл бұрын
@@tagaway6173 you can pursue your desires and a better life without living inside your head. Feel the present moment,feel your breath, feel the air and feel your body. That will change your emotions and is the doorway to happiness. Realizing that you've live your life fully. The greatest pain in life is achieving all your desires and realizing that you did not live because you are busy in your head.
@agussswagstar3 жыл бұрын
Man i love u im changing my life for good now
@Phurngirathaana3 жыл бұрын
I am totally happy person And I enjoy every single moment of life☺️
@ikeeditz20123 жыл бұрын
“What’s your biggest regret” “Not staying single longer” Dang that girl must not like her husband lol
@JamaicanRain3 жыл бұрын
Too many girls think their ex is worse than anyone in jail right now. 😄
@ikeeditz20123 жыл бұрын
@@JamaicanRain so true lol 😂
@guevara7E3 жыл бұрын
I felt that and Im 35
@ikeeditz20123 жыл бұрын
@@guevara7E exactly bro
@MajorTom63 жыл бұрын
I think she means she regrets not riding the carousel when she was younger. Or not riding it long enough
@rohitmanmode12503 жыл бұрын
"Being afraid of so many things" That's literally me. I'm scared of lot of things I imagined in my head that probably will never happen to anyone in real life.
@matthew16733 жыл бұрын
same
@anak58803 жыл бұрын
Not sure if this is a fact, but it helps me, and I'm VERY paranoid: 80% of the things you fear will never happen. Meanwhile the 20% is "almost happens", "I was able to prevent it", or in the end it happenned but not as worse as you thought (and usually helps you)
@herculesa18843 жыл бұрын
Same
@Sapphire19823 жыл бұрын
Well just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you.
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
Ive learned most risks have been worth it for me, if I listened to my gut
@nicavitriolo20913 жыл бұрын
that 20 year old dude who said "I regret taking myself too seriously when I was in highschool" danggg I can feel that too aahhaha
@medtechhomosapien3 жыл бұрын
Samee 😂😭
@sanisura69973 жыл бұрын
Lmao same. Too focused in 1 thing then forgot everything else. It's my biggest regret after graduating highschool
@JungkookiesOyo3 жыл бұрын
Yope me too but the thing is i'm still doing it. It's hopefully gonna change soon cuz I'm starting at a new school soon just need to get THE ONE !
@bryan_witha_whyy3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t take it seriously enough. Luckily i turned that into a military career 😂 Sometimes it’s for the best.
@rissy79853 жыл бұрын
Can you help me out please. What do you mean when you say you took yourself too seriously?
@taemiracle167 жыл бұрын
"that I didnt get sober sooner" i died. that was so sad.
I noticed that too when I first saw it. But it's also a bit sad because you can tell by her voice she has a lot of shame and apprehension. Very soothing nonetheless.
@cllmncii7 жыл бұрын
ThatrandompersonwhohasBrendonUriesasherprofilepic ! Ey Brendon
@pineapple97667 жыл бұрын
Ay Brendon
@pieck-zq5io5 ай бұрын
Regret often comes after our actions, and it lingers in our minds. We constantly think about the things we want to achieve in life, and how we hope they will turn out the way we desire. This is a universal human experience.
@misaamane86347 жыл бұрын
Caring too much about what people think.
@1996Pinocchio7 жыл бұрын
"Having not appreciated that I was young when I was younger." Makes me think, as a 20yo.
@rushiljain65413 жыл бұрын
So true, what one thing would you do if you were 20 again?
@florian.w253 жыл бұрын
but how do you appreciate being young?
@minimalistmindset11433 жыл бұрын
That’s a wonderful perspective 🌱🙏🏻
@karenlima43663 жыл бұрын
I’m studying Creative Writing and when the 70 years old guy said he regrets he haven’t written a novel, it broke my heart
@rheeryder25243 жыл бұрын
Thing is, at ANY age a writer can still write. 😶
@reydudes6259 Жыл бұрын
I am 46, at a point of looking back at my life...what i have and not have done. I am blown away by all your comments here people. I am glad it's never too late to make it up...
@vaishnavi_as3 жыл бұрын
" being afraid of so many things When I was younger" I felt that. I don't want to regret that when I get older.