10 Modern Day Habits That Men LOVE In Women

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

Hot men habits 🔥 1) Reliable and consistent - they follow through on promises. If they say they'll do something, they do it. 2) Attentive - remembers conversations, even the small and silly things (love this) 3) Affectionate - hugs, kisses, holding hands 4) Emotionally present - can engage with you on deeper issues as well as be emotionally supportive 5) Good manners & chivalrous 6) Sense of fun / goofiness / banter 7) Creates a safe space for you - where you can express yourself authentically without fear of judgement or rejection 8) Thoughtful & caring - offers to help when he sees you struggling. Any act of kindness to help make life easier, from taking out the rubbish, to cooking or ordering in if you're unwell.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Looooooooooooooove these!!! YAS!!!

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

@@Markrosenfeld I'm on my way to manifesting the man of my dreams (with your help of course) 😉👍

[@Maryhintz88]

Wow! I’m impressed. My man covers all these points. No wonder he is so dayum hot!!!💪🏼🏆🔥💋🤪

[@JacqueRescues]

N.J. Perfect!!! Now to find a man who's above average on each of these. Hard to imagine perfection on all 8 😁.

[@ananeixon]

So good👏👏

[@celissewillis9399]

1. Great walk & posture 2. Listening & remembering what was said 3. Physical activity 4. Having passions/ being passionate about something 5. Being a touchy person - playful/expressive, not just sexual 6. Not wearing tons of makeup - can see for real you 7. Making great impressions on others 8. Offering to pay your share 9. Spontaneous playfulness 10. Sticking to plans & arrangements 11. Wear the guys shirt the next morning 😘

[@Aritul]

Thank you!

[@wav3sss]

Not all heroes wear capes!

[@flavourpunchh]

You are a sweetheart, thank you!!!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Wow! Love this, Celisse Willis. Thanks!

[@kymwolfe5008]

Smile 😊

[@taraelizabethlivinglife4094]

I think a man who is confident enough in himself, (he does not feel the need to follow the crowd) is super hot. He thinks for himself. 😊

[@magdakidybinska6109]

I feel inspired to share my 10 points on what is hot in a man - 1. being relaxed and composed 2. being himself - no pressure, no struggle - it helps me to relax in myself:) 3. giving space to me to feel into how I want to be around him (judgment-free curious spaciousness) 4. intelligence, wit, eloquence 5. being in control when feeling hot :), being in control with his sexuality is one of the hottest thing ever for me:) for me, it comprises / implies a lot underneath this 'skill' 6. being genuinely curious about me 7. being comfortable with touching as well as receiving touch 8. taking care of his words 9. being in touch with his 'weakness', not surpressing it or covering with a pumped-up " I-can-do-anything' attitude 10. being naturally helpful and caring - not because it's the right thing to do, but because he's like that for everyone, himself included. It shows he's spacious and open-hearted thank u for this platform to share :) helpful for me as well. all the best to all of you!!!

[@sonjaforster7091]

Couldn't agree more, dear!

[@elisuemiya2060]

When a guy communicates about the plans, so that I have a good idea of what to wear and what emotional state to prepare for. When a guy doesnt put pressure into anything.. that his attitude isn't about getting laid but being present and fun in the moment. When a guy is a gentleman. It could be as little as calling me miss or holding a door, but it could be asking if I'm cold or want to go somewhere else? It's being present and making sure we are both having fun. When a guy grooms himself and dresses a little nicer than what he would with his friends. Doesnt mean a dress shirt and a tie but making sure hes clean and no stains or wrinkles.. even just a nicer shoe instead of sneakers.. speaks volumes. Appearance matters. Well-groomed. Fitness and eating habits. Men who's breath stinks a lot and have a greasy complexion.. usually due to an over-consumption of fried and processed foods. Yes he might be skinny but we can tell if hes healthy. And definitely go to the gym.. not for selfies.. but to take care of himself. Guys who sit around all day are more likely to get bored and flirt with other women whereas men at the gym are taking care of their energy and are much more relaxed.

[@katemiller5990]

Mark, I really want to thank you. As a woman who wears minimal makeup (almost everything I wear regularly can fit into a small 7x10cm bag that I carry in my handbag) I can sometimes feel like I'm a little bit less of a woman when I see the enormous range of products some other women know how to use and wear daily. It's good to be reminded that too much makeup can get in the way of true connection. Appreciated! 🙂

[@janetmitchell3559]

Make. Up is face art ENJOY. IT FOR YOURSELF

[@bettystiegler1702]

Too much of that stuff will get in the way of you living your life!

[@colleenc.9900]

Thank you!! Your empath comment meant more than you know. Falling in love with my husband for a 2nd time. Mat and your advise has made an impact in just a few days. I know I will forever be thankful I found you both.

[@vickieoz]

Correct with the makeup every man I have dated has said they don't like lots of makeup. ..I keep mine to a minimum

[@Markrosenfeld]

Great to know that, Vickie. Thanks for sharing!

[@claudiaclaudia8599]

A collaboration with Matthew Hussey would be much appreciated.You two are such classy,elegant and caring gentlemen ❤️PLEASE Mark,make it happen🙏

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hahaha Claudia Claudia Ill give it a go but I wouldn't hold your breath!!

[@lavayuki]

Definitely agree with physical activity, me and my BF are both into gym and fitness and we go salsa dancing together

[@Markrosenfeld]

So true Lava Yuki - go you too! I love it too. Make you feel so good for the day :D

[@janeynalin5387]

Wow! I got all of those in me naturally. Thank you for a huge reminder. Will keep them on forever.

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's great Janey Nalinchaiyasit :D

[@DioriLeAnn]

His manners/ when he remembers something I told him a while ago

[@Markrosenfeld]

Oooo nice one Toffeebxby

[@tinyah6208]

Yes!

[@Anastasia-bo1uc]

I do agree and like all of them except offering to pay. Mmm I'd probably offer but if the guy accepts ill never ever go out with him again. I never paid in my life for a meal when going out on a date! I already spend too much on looking good for him lol. And if he is letting you pay now, when your are not even married yet, I don't what to know what will happen if you marry that guy!

[@martinadelvai4115]

Intelligence! I find it really hot and impressing if a man knows a lot of things on different topics

[@Markrosenfeld]

Niiiiiiice one Martina Delvai!

[@paiged6362]

Martina Delvai yes!!!! Intelligence and consistency!! I’m putty in their hands lol

[@adochbetty4017]

Wow, you are the best coach I have ever met, thanks for your teachings

[@Markrosenfeld]

Aww thanks for the comment, Adoch Betty!

[@maggieheermann4124]

I like it when men compliment not just your looks but your character. When they can become intrigued and attracted by your character it is a huge turn on. 😍

[@Markrosenfeld]

Agreed, Maggie Heermann. Thanks for sharing!

[@StephanieJoRountree]

I'm nearly 70 and still wear nearly NO makeup! I think it's sexy and REAL!

[@lq4657]

Yet your lipstick is bright red? That's the most seductive make up of all, red lipstick. Just sayin....

[@marah3298]

LQ 😂😂

[@Markrosenfeld]

Absolutely Stephanie Jo Rountree - Go you!!

[@juliekostas7322]

And with good reason you hardly wear any-- you're beautiful!

[@tooambitious6774]

LQ 🤣🤣

[@hobbyhive]

My current chap has said the same thing about makeup that every guy has to me, friend and boyfriend alike: I wear the perfect amount. I tested him on our first weekend together> first day I wore my usual (I only wear mascara, BB creme/tinted moisturizer, cream blush, sometimes eyeliner and lipstick/lipgloss. No contouring, no foundation, no eyeshadow) then the next day none. I pointed it out and he said I looked basically the same then went into a rant about his friend's girlfriend who looked like a completely different person. Basic makeup ladies when you are grooming for men, when you are wearing makeup to please yourself then go to town :)

[@Markrosenfeld]

What's a habit YOU think is HOT in a man?? Comment below and follow along insta @makehimyours for behind the scenes!

[@azzaibrahim1116]

I miss your videos They work really good ♥️♥️

[@cvetankamanevska1155]

To be selective, intelligent and to know exactly what he wants.

[@Gleyi07]

Guys that take care of themselves without being self centered. Guys that smell good and know how to cook! Are sexyy lol

[@cynthiataylor2279]

A habit for me is a man's generous smile. Those smile eyes melt me. With my soft, soft, soft lips, watch a match.

[@anoukc6928]

A man who will make sure that you are safe (waiting for you to enter your home when he drops you out, for example).

[@umaclark2449]

this is great Mark, I really love this, I think you are so spot on

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for the comment, Uma Clark! Really glad you loved it x

[@MariaHernandez-dx7ou]

Another Great great video!! thank you Mark!!👍🏻😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks so much, Maria! x

[@ΓεωργίαΓκουρτζούνη-ν7ρ]

Do you think a woman wears makeup because of lack of confidence? Maybe she has a talent in makeup, maybe she enjoys it and maybe men should just accept it. Of course you can tell her that you love her just the way she is, but some times makeup is just ART.

[@CJshazz]

Yes!! Thank you!! My narcissistic ex thought I wore make up to attract men. He didn't get it. I love the morning ritual of putting eye make up on. Do I go some days without make up? Of course.

[@splitraven7060]

I love your channel and appreciate your experience in the delivery of content.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Split raven! I appreciate the ongoing support. Means a lot! 🙏

[@magdalenaguna7496]

Thank you so much for your help , your advice!

[@bemydinosaur13]

Yes, be aware that men do tend to be attracted to a more natural style and use that info to your advantage. But don’t feel bad if you love makeup, it’s not always tied to insecurity. Feeling confident without is important but it’s a cool hobby/passion/artistry!

[@Markrosenfeld]

100% Elizabeth Nanette!! Wear it and own it!! Just let that natural beauty shine through sometimes as well :D

[@bemydinosaur13]

Mark Rosenfeld totally agree!

[@studiocelestedesign]

Love your vibe and your content, Mark!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Heya Studio Céleste! Thanks for watching and leaving a lovely comment.

[@RoseElmes]

Apart from being observational, a lot of what you say is also common sense. A good number of helpful pointers. Could I just ask a question about the clips at the beginning of the video. Why are you stroking the pink sofa cushions with such fervor? Or is there something I've missed:) Thanks.

[@ashchan0504]

Sending u and your family lots of positive energy and love . Keep safe from all the fires.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Ashiana Chan - so terrible for the poor animals :(

[@Nina-ur3ld]

Hi Mark, I have been generous. I paid for my boyfriends meals and I gave him money and presents on his birthdays. When I had birthday, he just gives me small things like flowers. He never paid for my meals. He rarely offered. I also have to admit that I tend to say: no thanks. But now I am fed up with his stingy behavior. He has enough money so it is hard for me to not take that personally. Maybe my view of this is wrong, but I am raised like this. My father paid everything for his kids and my mom. And my parents showed us love with material things. His view is that in reality he doesn’t need anything from me and that my spending was not necessary but I need his behavior to change to feel appreciated. I don’t know how to address this because I told him and he did not change. He just defends himself by saying that he offered sometimes. But this is not enough. When I keep criticizing him, he just will get the impression that I just want his money. What do you think mark? I love him that’s why I accept his bad communication skills and not having a lot in common with him. But stinginess is a dealbreaker for me.

[@steviegian8867]

Go away. You deserve a much much better person. He decreases your self esteem.

[@jennifercrotty193]

Love this. Love the last one of 'wear the guys shirt in the morning'. Time to get active! haha! Can't see me fitting in it.

[@strongertogetherfitness193]

A man who is confident not conceited. And of course being sweet.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Nice, love this Sweet Thing

[@Flixy282]

Someone else said this... a hot habit I love is when I see that little hint of nervousness in a guy... when he can’t remember what he was saying or hesitates, or one time he nearly tripped over an ottoman while staring at me... it makes me feel reassured he is into me - not a player...

[@triptitipu]

Love you Mark and team. Take care. 💐🍀

[@mischamartinstudios]

This is astoundingly good advice.

[@ProudSurigaonon]

liptint and and press powder is enough and be yourself to be beautiful and be compassionate

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, proud surigaonon!

[@ProudSurigaonon]

thanks also sir for sharing all your video i learn it a lot to aply my relarionship to foreign man as i have already but ldr as for now.i love all your video it's all so help me a alot

[@thaiscorby]

I always offer to pay for my share on the first date, and I do this as a test. If he lets me pay for it,I will never see him again. Good thing is, most guys won’t let you pay. I am not saying he will always have to pay for both of us, but on the first date... it’s just chivalry.

[@marah3298]

I agree

[@sola_a]

Opposite for me, I HATE it when guys pay for my food

[@Chahlie]

I find that if I end up paying in a first date I don't hear from him again (when it's a mutually agreed date). I would always let the bill sit on the table between us for the whole of one after meal coffee before I made a move toward it, then if he did the fake reach I would smile and say "you can get it next time". Now I make them ask for the date, and I just let them pay and express sincere thanks. Maybe it's a generational thing, but more likely an internet dating thing versus in real life.

[@Markrosenfeld]

I think that's a good way to go about it Thais Corby - that way you get to check in on your standards!

[@Chahlie]

@Miguel Deer That was rude and uncalled for.

[@user-ki4nd2vd5c]

I have a friend who tried wearing less makeup when she was with her boyfriend and he asked her if she was sick.

[@roseschulze1647]

Some things that makes a man hot for me: takes good care of himself (doesn't have to be a perfect 10, but exercises and has good hygiene), nice smile, and most of all thoughtful comments and gestures towards me and others.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Love these ones too Rose! Great stuff :D

[@SuperRaduga]

I always contributed more financially in a relationship, but I will never offer nor I ever did to pay half on a first date I am asked out. One date and already using him? Going Dutch is a turn off for me

[@dorothykozlowski5124]

It's not feminine to pay or go 50 50. Real women attract providers.

[@Yes.794]

@@dorothykozlowski5124 Nicely said. I never thought of it that way. Thank you for mentioning it.

[@khotsomaisa5571]

love this channel

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yaaay! Thanks Khotso Maisa! Great to have you on here. x

[@carissagarrity202]

I have passion about my career (medical research) and I can tell that when I talk about it to my boyfriend that he is bored with the conversation, which makes me not want to talk about it at all with him. How can I express my passion to him without feeling disrespected that my topic ,while may not be interesting to him, (which is fine I get not everybody likes the same things I do) isn't important enough to be fully heard?

[@JV-tg2ne]

Carissa Garrity - make it more interesting by finding relatable metaphors to explain - imagine how bored you’d be listening to how to rebuild a fuel injection system on a 2005 Ford Mustang coyote engine...

[@HereIAm247]

Maybe I should just get a thousand cats... XD

[@Markrosenfeld]

Honestly that is hot AF and if you do I'll marry you

[@paiged6362]

Claire I literally shot coffee outta my nose and possibly ears 🤣🤣😭😭🤣🤣 there’s always a plus side!!! Lol

[@sarahzastrow1616]

That sounds expensive with all the vet bills, food, cat litter, etc. 😂😂😂

[@willardSpirit]

Hot

[@soniaver2487]

To point 9- some women, strong in feminine energy feel more taken care of when a man can covers the bill I.e feel more inclined to be feminine and romantical with that man. How do you offer to pay for yourself without entering ‘buddy’ system. He can go out with his mate and split the Bill.

[@narminamaharramova4485]

Thanks for video! Every aspect is important and worked😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

This is what this channel is for, Narmina Maharramova. Thanks for your comment. Love it!!

[@ananeixon]

When he sticks to his promises! Reliability is so sexy 👏👏☝️

[@Markrosenfeld]

Agreed, Ana Expósito!

[@clairefoxall2313]

Caring and fun... good sense of humor 😁

[@Markrosenfeld]

Nice Claire Foxall :)

[@sheilablake4858]

These are great attributes to have, and I’d like to think I’ve got the majority of them down, thanks for a great video. BUT, I want to ask on a serious note Mark, how are you & your family/loved ones? You’ve been in my thoughts through this awful time your country has suffered. I’ve cried with you as a country & your wildlife while watching the news. I hope you are all safe & well. My love has been sent your way x

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hey Sheila Blake. Yeh, it's been pretty rough for our country. Heart breaks for the animals though... the poor Koala's climb up trees to escape, the roo's trying to jump away... and those are the lucky ones. My fam is fine/OK (though one fire came close to my parents) but I've been struggling to get over how the animals have been affected. Donated a bunch of money but still feels helpless, ya know?

[@lubnan08]

Good advice. Very real.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks, LNGG's Channel!

[@nicolamcdonald3235]

Mark can you make a video about finding play? Some examples etc.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Will take this suggestion on board, Nicola McDonald. Thanks for watching!

[@Jan-qv8ku]

Yes make another please

[@KathiSottosanti]

What's not hot is when you know someone for two minutes and they call you baby. That signals to me that everyone is their baby

[@anoukc6928]

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[@KathiSottosanti]

@@anoukc6928 lol, that was great! Thank you!

[@anoukc6928]

@@KathiSottosanti you're welcome! Old song from my teenage years!

[@KathiSottosanti]

@@anoukc6928 so necessary lol

[@Markrosenfeld]

😂😂 Right on, Coach Kathi The Fit Spirit!

[@melodythemassagetherapist6957]

What great advice! Thanks for sharing! Have a happy weekend! :)

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for watching and leaving a comment, Melody The Massage Therapist! x

[@melodythemassagetherapist6957]

Mark Rosenfeld , I actually left a long comment under your post that asked “what makes a guy hot”. Honestly, some of my reply comes straight from the book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” because I just reread that a month ago! Thanks for your heartfelt videos!! Have a happy day!

[@denizcelestin7901]

I feel hot when I wear the guy's shirt so that's half the battle, right? Confidence is sexy!!🔥🔥🔥

[@vindyaratne]

Great advice 👍😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thank you, Vindya! x

[@the_unorganisedtasker]

Im a bit late into the video, but Number 8 (wow). I completly agree, independent women can pay their own share. Its nice if the other person offers, but that goes both ways. I want a driven man, but not to maintain me financially... just give me cuddles and we call it even 😁

[@Markrosenfeld]

I agree, Paula P. Love it! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@the_unorganisedtasker]

@@Markrosenfeld thank you kindly Mark!

[@paulatafalla5961]

Ole! Nice good content! :)

[@Markrosenfeld]

Glad you liked it, Paula Tafalla! x

[@hagiedh6349]

Did all those habits, still no man ever loved me! Guess i am not meant for romance ever!

[@marah3298]

Hager Hafaiedh thats not true, you will find someone!

[@hagiedh6349]

@@marah3298 Easier said than done! I am 29! I never lived romance in my life, what makes me think i'll do in the future??? I am afraid that love has become as relevant for me as Santa Claus and Unicorns.

[@marah3298]

Hager Hafaiedh I feel you, because I haven’t had men pursue me for anything long term. And I have not been asked out at this point for many years. I moved to a new town and I go out and it’s very hard to feel that rejection. Especially when I am using different tips and even trying different things that aren’t even “the real me”.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Don't be silly Hager Hafaiedh! Your past never has to equal your future!

[@tangodancerSFO2010]

What is the best wording of offering to pay Anyone have ideas?

[@sabrinaritchie2929]

Doing something nice, unexpectedly, I like surprises like that.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yep. We all like pleasant surprises, Sabrina Harmdierks. Thanks for sharing!

[@willardSpirit]

My super #1: able to financially support themselves or at least display responsibility. I'm sorry, I'm no one's sugar daddy. 😅

[@zensvlognotapro]

Hi MR... i always sit up straight because i have a backache 🤗. I walk like a beauty queen when wearing high heels bec i need to be careful 🤗. And I am touchy person 😊 because i believe the healing capacity of a touch.❣️🙏..Im very playful and child like .By the way i like your Polo Shirt 🙏🤗. Bless you in all you do.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for sharing your story and for leaving a lovely comment, Be Enthusiastic Be Inspired!! x

[@zensvlognotapro]

@@Markrosenfeld 🤗🙏❣️

[@joyceunderwood7534]

Awesome..Great info

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for watching and writing in, Joyce Underwood!

[@cvetankamanevska1155]

I appreciate your advices, they really rock..but I honestly think we don't have to limit ourselves with a certain way of behaving, because the main rule in love is that there's no rules.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Very true Cvetanka Manevska - everyone has their own flair which is impossible to completely pinpoint!

[@kristinaandoni1889]

Dear Mark, I want to have an advice for a very sensitive topic which I'd rather ask on privet. Is there any way that I can contact / get coaching advice from you?? Thanks ☺️

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for watching, Kristina Andoni! [e-mail] if you'd like to touch base x

[@hoiliswu6070]

Thank you so much video same with my comments

[@Markrosenfeld]

My pleasure, Hoili Swu!

[@cynthiataylor2279]

Listen to me! Who invites is the person who pays!!! If I invite you, I pay. If you invite me, you pay! Fair and reasonable! I had a friend from college when I chosen to invite her, I would paid right? She wanted the bill to see how much I was paying. No!!!! That's rude. Accept that I treated her to a nice dinner. That's it. Cindy🙋‍♀️

[@mariaansola1964]

Thanks Mark ,actually always sports natural beauty and my friends always compliment me ,I must say I am very playful indeed because I laugh a lot and like how I can put a smile on your face to make u feel Happy that's me. 🙏♥️♥️

[@Markrosenfeld]

Nice, Maria Ansola. Thanks for sharing!

[@nightshadeavian4989]

As an Asian in conservative culture, being touchy even not sexually, people would think I’m slut lol

[@tchou4195]

Relatable sister, so relatable smh

[@divyagodara]

I always learn lots of things from your video thanks your biggest fan from INDIA

[@Markrosenfeld]

Awww this is what this channel is for, Divya. Glad you got heaps from the videos. Thanks for leaving a beautiful comment. Love it!!

[@DianaCikes]

Great tips, thanks! But I snickered at the last one because the one time I put on my boyfriend’s T-shirt he looked at me funny and asked me to take it off cause he apparently couldn’t stand to see me in the ugly T-shirt. I felt offended and he didn’t get it...anyways, not all guys react well to the T-shirt borrow. I haven’t put on his shirt since!

[@Markrosenfeld]

That's uncommon, but yes, there are always exceptions, Diana Cikes. Thanks for sharing!

[@ReneeEdgar]

Dear Mark, will you ever make a video with your hair down?

[@samirayassamani300]

😂😂

[@marah3298]

Renee Edgar I hope so! It would be interesting to see!

[@Markrosenfeld]

Hahahaha Renee Edgar probably not :P

[@yelhsamarie5921]

I love your hair how you have it. Makes You look playful and fun and ofcourse attractive. Great question she asked as I’ve always wondered the same!

[@tinyah6208]

I would love to see his new haircut

[@ankitathapa9986]

Go getter and getting done what u planned was nice one

[@Markrosenfeld]

Yep, Yze Quarlong! Thanks for watching!

[@fandoms5ever]

I find kindness really hot lol like if you go out of your way to do something nice for someone and don’t expect anything in return. Phew. I’m in.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Absolutely, Liz Z!

[@laurawinters1504]

I love this advise!😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks Laura Winters :D

[@luluanderson8599]

I am most if not all what you stated, but that's the exact reason that intimidates every man i meet. I'm i in the wrong town or what?

[@cristinaico4180]

what if ldr relationship ?give some tips or advice me so that i look hot to my bf..

[@beckymoe9194]

Thanks❤👍

[@gregoryhammond6364]

Is that like a glass wall behind you on the balcony? Just curious

[@florad629]

Thanks for this video. 💙 in men i think hot habit is, wearing amazing perfumes, body sprays and fragrant aftershave lotions. If they care for their breath, thats a very hot habit. Properly groomed, taking care that all nose hair, nails etc are trimmed, basically its about good hygiene. Another habit which seems hot and I love, opening the doors (of car, or any other thing and letting girl in), pulling a chair for her and eager to pay. The most hot habit for me, is taking flowers, no matter a single rose even, everytime they go to meet the girl. A strong stare which makes the girl squirm on her seat and melts her. Kissing on the back of her hand when they met on the date. Waiting outside her house unless she entered to make sure she has been inside safely and ask on call that she is inside, and it was good fun or anything which make her feel you still thinking of her. Taking her on long walks. And buying ice cream if you find there in the way 💙

[@Markrosenfeld]

Love these! Thanks Flora D

[@toniraeatchley525]

I have had men get offend when I offer to pay. Was the last date too. They wanted dessert too quick is what I thought. You are right about the hot guys too. Thank you.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thank you, tonirae! x

[@bjarnetollevsen2163]

As a person with blond hair and blue eyes, I'll never understand the Western media's unhealthy obsession with blond hair and blue eyes.

[@Markrosenfeld]

It's definitely a thing Bjarne Tollevsen

[@bjarnetollevsen2163]

@@Markrosenfeld Yes, and it has been since the 1930s. You'd think people would learn.

[@hdshjs]

@@Markrosenfeld As person with red hair, brown eyes and very pale skin I absolutely adore your dark hair, skin and eyes :)

[@sharonAclark]

Thanks that's lovely

[@Markrosenfeld]

My pleasure sharon A. clark

[@odynelafee8035]

Redeemed: “men are not allowed to have expectations...” the more you teach ownership to your followers the more validity to gain. As a teacher you also must ‘own’ the past conditionings of our society and account for them now. Teach as the world is... not how you in your protected bubble view it as.

[@odynelafee8035]

Now... let’s talk “actively misleading him.” Are we talking mini-skirts and halters? Getting a bit too tipsy? You’ve wandered here... into Blame. And... Blame... is a game we could play all day long... you and me. Just the two of us. What do you say? Do you think you understand the blame game as well as me?

[@joannaleasa]

Hot men habits .. (I feel like I want to say the “don’ts’ but positivity is key so.. ) 1. Acting naturally and being relaxed 😎 this will relax both of you ... 2: asking questions about travel hobbies pastimes enjoyments food etc to be in a back forth convo as opposed to interrogation about previous partners or heavy stuff ...save deep personal questions for subsequent dates ... 3: hygiene , smell clean at all times and have regular dentistry cleans 🧽 6 monthly ( ok that’s not done on the date but it’s a prep because a clean mouth is hot) 4: dress normally and comfortably , don’t buy a new pair of jeans and leave the big long plastic size sticker on by mistake because you were nervous and trying to impress 🤣 And finally before I begin a thesis ... 5: Save excessive alcohol consumption for much much later .. say you are minimising consumption if she tries to encourage you with “ one more won’t hurt” because if you go with it it’s likely all doomed because she’s A) being a little controlling and leading is a Delicate balance of unity nut with male female overtones you don’t want to be a drunk manipulated pushover and b) you don’t want to be pushing a baby pram 9 months later because you both got hammered and “it just happened” Wait! One more thing! 6: smile freely and make eye contact for most of the time .. that’s super duper hot .. she will feel locked into you and intimacy is likely if there’s compatibility and no I don’t mean sex . 🌸👍😃

[@Markrosenfeld]

Great ones Girlonthetools - thanks for sharing these. Love #6 especially

[@sianemmaspanner9262]

Not that shirt though Matt.... Joking x

[@priyankaverma5047]

Well ...cool shirt😊

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks, PRIYANKA VERMA!

[@priyankaverma5047]

@@Markrosenfeld 😊

[@marah3298]

I’m not a naturally touchy person, but I would always like to be.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Mara it's something all of us can learn. I can certainly relate as it's still something I was never naturally proficient at.

[@florad629]

6:38 What do you mean by hot Mark? Does being hot means 'sexually hot' and 'sexy' or simply being liked and plain attractive, coz your tips made me feel you are talking about mere likeness.

[@tyraresilient2812]

Amazing to know that. I have those attributes and do them as second nature

[@eeeo2196]

Hi girls, i need some help, for someone who has never been in a relationship or fell in love, how to maintain the overwhelm that comes with a loooot of emotions when loving someone? I love a girl who i never thought i’d dare to a lot of things for and even basically sticking around instead of running away from that intense feelings. But i get so overwhelmed ): .. i try to communicate things a lot with her. So, i think i’m someone who just needs so much space or constantly ( hopefully till i get used to it cuz I don’t want it to create a distance) so, anything could help about that? 🥺🥺🥺❤️ am i good or need to be aware of something? What kinda space am i able to have that wouldn’t be too much or affecting my relationship with her? I’m not good when it comes to being close to anyone so i’m trying to overcome it 😅... anything would be so appreciated ^^

[@utkarshanitiwari8308]

Take it slow pal and don't be a jerk. Respect is more important than love(remember that) they crave for it literally and ya give your 101% attention when u r with her also make sure if any of your habits or anything u do is making her uncomfortable if yes then u obivously know what to do..so yeah! That's all ~your sister from India🇮🇳💞

[@magdakidybinska6109]

thank u :)

[@Markrosenfeld]

My pleasure, Magda Kidybinska. Thanks for watching!

[@samanthasnow5452]

Teach a man how to listen!! Mine always half listens and half doesn’t.

[@dorothykozlowski5124]

Only talking about sex or sports will garner full listening unfortunately. They are limited. Talk to the girls.

[@vilmasarmiento7697]

my ex too, one of the many reasons i divorced

[@shannonk1351]

oh sorry Mark, did you say something? i was paying too much attention to the v-shaped torso & the big guns. :D

[@Markrosenfeld]

😂😂 shannon k. Thanks for watching!

[@amybalbier3918]

do you surf?

[@laurencollette6966]

I've had ex boyfriends' t-shirts then grew out of it then kept few of his shirts still sexy wear his shirts and or whatever. Lack of posture isn't a problem when it comes to overweight when losing weight now.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Nice Lauren Collette :)

[@florad629]

6:55 a relationship based upon equal partnership is not sexy at all. It may be sexy for you but thats an individual case. When relationship is equal, polaity is weaker and relationship is not sexy. For a sexy relationship strong polarity should be there, in a girl's view

[@marah3298]

Flora D I agree with you 100%.

[@Markrosenfeld]

Appreciate that comment Flora, though I'd have to disagree with you here. I and many men/women (including clients, friends etc...) I know have partners they consider equal with huge amounts of polarity!

[@dyonaisa9954]

my boyfriend hates make up, every time I have make up on, he will put his hands around my face and will "unnoticeably" stroke my make up off with his thumb stroking my cheeks. He thinks I don't notice it, but I know what he's doing :D. I don't mind it anymore. I just let him do it.

[@PinkHypatia]

Mature and chivalrous men always expect to pay for dates, and consider it offensive or distasteful when a woman offers.

[@florad629]

3:51 same with my earlier comment. #5 be a touchy person in my region and you would be called a desperate, an easy girl who is inviting advances, hungry for it and just good for 1 night 2 night stand but then never be considered for marriage coz you are labelled as having no morals or characters lol

[@anushabangera1994]

Hey mark, love your videos!! However I have to disagree with the "less makeup part" as I think if a woman feels happy and confident while wearing any amount of makeup (or no makeup) she'll look hot anyway, It doesn't matter how much makeup she wears, what matters is how she carries it. A man will be attracted to you and love you whether you're wearing heavy makeup or no makeup, anyway the rest of the tips were really good.

[@sheilablake4858]

Claire Oh I’ve seen them, they are just frightening! 😂

[@Markrosenfeld]

Thanks for the feedback Anusha Bangera - I think you're right. It just makes me a little sad that some women feel they HAVE to do that - when they're also so beautiful without it (but often won't let the men see it).

[@andrey.3562]

You will be surprised how visual effects men. You can be confident wearing whatever you want. But it comes down to this: would I be proud to have this woman walk beside me? (I mean make up is also reflection of how you think). We dont like your make up to scream, to be the main thing on your face. We like your face to be the main display and make up to complement it, just to sharpen the image and underline some features. But it has to look clean and healthy. Lots of make up subconsciously looks unhealthy and unattractive. Because the more make up the further from natural design of a woman you look. Hope it helps to understand what is going on in a man's mind.