10 NANNY tips & tricks - 6 years experience & preschool certified teacher | Nicole Gillian

[@joannabergevin3178]

I’m a mother of six adult children. You are spot on! I especially like how you’re teaching boundaries to children by your own example of consistency and commitment to peaceful and polite communication. The matter-of-fact and non-reactive way of dealing with food on the floor or childish tantrums is most beneficial. Children feel uncomfortable and insecure if their emotional outbursts can “cause” an adult to “lose it” too. At those times, a young person most needs a calm, centered and nonjudgmental response from the caregiver. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with others.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Absolutely love and appreciate this comment from you!

[@Lesa.Writes]

I’m planning on being a live-in nanny next year and I’ve been a babysitter for the past four-ish years and this info is great! I already do the countdown warning thing for anything that’s stopping the child from doing what they want and/or starting something they don’t want to do. I started doing this because my little brother is autistic and giving lots of warning has always helped him a lot and has prevented a lot of meltdowns. I figured it’d be helpful for other kids too, and so far it’s worked out well! Gets kids to not be on devices as much, cause I can be like “ok, you’ve been on the iPad a lot so far, how about we go play outside in ten minutes?” Then another five minute warning and they’re not as against stopping. Also, giving choices is good, because it gives them more control in the situation. Not just telling them we’re doing something and they don’t have a say, I ask them which of two things they’d rather do first and that’s helpful too. An example could be like “do you want to get off the iPad in ten minutes or fifteen?” They’ll likely choose the fifteen minute one, cause it benefits them more, but they’ll be less likely to fight with you about getting off

[@tammiochoa1678]

These are great tips. Thank you. I wish I had seen this prior to babysitting my sister-in-laws 3 kids. Two were 5 and the oldest is 7. Reflecting back I can see a lot of teachable moments for me and them.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Glad it was helpful!

[@georginasilvadiaz8847]

Im 48 years old single mom that give structure and direction when you have structure and direction is easy, my daughter is a doctor and my son is finishing his second degree in university, that give me the tolls to work like a nanny, i teach them 🎨 too, so i discovered that music and arts is very nutritive and stimulating, i agree with everything that you said ❤

[@treadmillsongs]

WOW Are you self taught? How did you learn all of this - books, classroom and experience or all three? I've been in ECE for over 30 years I've done everything including director of a preschool. I've interviewed and mentored many new teachers. You are fantastic!! My kids are grown but I want to have more just to hire you as a nanny LOL This family is so lucky to have you. You are a natural for sure. Everything you said was SPOT ON! I was good when I was young but your knowledge is so much better than mine when I started. I hope you stay in this field forever because ECE needs you!!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Thank you sooo much! This just made my day!!

[@SoulMaeven]

I am a mother of six grown children and I’m SO IMPRESSED with your knowledge and intuitive insight! Keep posting!!

[@Purplebutterflychic]

I loved the idea where you said you pick a color and get a bunch of items in the house that are that color. Thank you so much.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

@@Purplebutterflychic 😊

[@goodrising2609]

Responding to cries at different ages depends on how they've been responded to before. You can't assume they're having a fit that doesn't need attention just bc they're older.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Very true!

[@emmyu3380]

I love this! As a teen and beginner at babysitting I thought this was super helpful! Thanks!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

So happy I could help! 😊

[@edenschannel101]

I'm 16 and finding it rly hard to get into babysitting as I only have experience with siblings/ cousins and so have no real references. How are you starting babysitting?

[@TheRealMakani]

I have never babysat anyone (other that my siblings, so I won't count that) and my very first gig is starting tomorrow. This seems like this will help! Thanks!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

They need, what you need :) you got this!

[@nainaacharya9856]

My mom was nanny for 10 year and she taught me all of this tips & tricks before i have baby n it was super easy for me in the journey of raising my kid who is 6 year old now... Thank u dear

[@Nicole_Gillian]

@@nainaacharya9856 thanks for sharing 🤍

[@AmyNguyen-zt8ch]

your voice is so soothing and this video is helping me out so much!! happy to get great tips from someone so qualified!

[@stunningacanthaceae5048]

Absolutely loved this video! Such great points about keeping a child updated on what’s happening around them. Spot on all the way through, you seem like a wonderful nanny!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Stunning Acanthaceae thank you so much! 😊

[@orlandomordechai7012]

instablaster.

[@juliascoffeevlogs]

thank you i’m starting nannying for almost 2 year old on monday and this was helpful

[@arnikawestenenk9752]

thank you for this video! i’m a nanny myself and going to nanny college soon.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Arnika Westenenk I didn’t know there was a nanny college? What’s it called?

[@cferreira1854]

Absolutely spot on girl, love the advise and the way you think! I do many of the things you do already after reading so many books/articles and advise from friends…you are so well informed for not even being a mother and wish I can hire you from where I am!!! 👌👌👌👌

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Awh! Thank you so much!! ❤️

[@kimberleyferreira3477]

Just discovered your video and i’m really starting to understand how to handle certain situations. I’m always open to criticism, see where i’m wrong and apologies where necessary. The child that i’m babysitting for who is 9 years old, he sometimes gives a hard time getting him to do what he’s suppose to do after school. I think I have to reinstall my boundaries by having a sit down conversation with him.

[@ERICA850]

I just had my 4th baby and my other children are all under 6. I did not grow up around child nor was I a good babysitter. This video is super helpful for me. I have been wondering how I'm going to manage when my husband goes back to work

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Thank you, that means a lot ❤️

[@ERICA850]

@@Nicole_Gillian my one year old has been refusing to nap for months!! I tried your advice and now she is napping again! Thank you

[@Nicole_Gillian]

@@ERICA850 oh my gosh!!! That’s incredible! I’m so happy for you!

[@anthonychetram4423]

The theme day idea is awesome! Also I like how you teach respect as a nanny.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Thank you 🤍

[@chara7980]

Thank you! These tactics work and I am starting to become a real nanny thanks to these tips and tricks!

[@lillianaugugliaro7460]

I’ve been working with kids for years but I’ve just started looking after a 1 and 3 year old, and let me tell you- the counting down hands to nap trick worked wonders. First time I’ve gotten big sis down without tears 😌😌

[@elizabethalvarado2851]

You are saving my life :)) 💗

[@Nicole_Gillian]

You’re so sweet! 💕 so happy I could help!

[@projectjayme1109]

Great video! Thank you for taking the time. First time nanny to a 5 year old boy! Beat of luck to you! You’re beautiful btw. (:

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Jamie Butler glad it was helpful! & thank you! :) good luck to you too!

[@rheadivinemangaoang]

💕💕Thanks for sharing this tips this would really help alot!! 👍

[@m0bz0mb39]

You are amazing girl! As a montissori mother I agree with all of this!💕 Edit: also I sub to you❤

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Oh my gosh! Thank you so much!!

[@stephanierodriguez3001]

love this! What ages have you worked with?!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

From newborns up to six-year-olds! I have spent the most time with 2/3 year olds

[@lilyscrivens7274]

Thank you for this video!!!

[@sofiar2009]

I'm a beginner babysitter with some experience (watching siblings + relative's young kids) but I'm still a little nervous about a few things & how I would react. I've been watching a few videos but this helped me feel so much more confident & excited. I have one quick question though, would it be okay to work on homework/other things while a kid is taking a nap/resting? Thank you!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I would make sure everything you need to get done is done around the house and you can always ask if there’s anything else they would like you to do. And kinda just put it in the agreement or understanding if there is extra time that you can work on your homework. I’m sure they want you to be successful and get your stuff done as well

[@sofiar2009]

@@Nicole_Gillian okay thank you, I will definitely keep that in mind!

[@H0neypower]

This is a wonderful video! Very helpful thank you so much

[@Alliappalachian]

Thank you! I needed this!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

AlliAppalachian so glad I could help!

[@babymae2222]

I’m a little late lol but thank you so much! These tips are exactly what I was looking for :)

[@rileymahan6548]

Thank you for the helpful information! :)

[@Nina94771]

Hope you are proud of yourself because you 💯 should be ❤🎉

[@TheKart52]

Super helpful!! Thank you so much!

[@karenjovel-cabrera-xt8kl]

Very helpful !

[@leiah3524]

Awesome video!! Very helpful! Are there any certifications you recommend to get to make a person stand out as a nanny? Also any tips for the interview process?

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Leiah Hii :) I’m so glad it was helpful!! Definitely being CPR certified is helpful and gives everyone a peace of mind! And for the interview I always make sure to go over a contract. I use the one off care.com very universal. Make sure everyone is on the same page and if one party doesn’t agree then it might not be the perfect fit!

[@leiah3524]

@@Nicole_Gillian thank you so much for your tips! They are seriously appreciated! I’m new to being a nanny so this is helpful! :)

[@sydneyv4903]

Tysm Im thinking about baby sitting with my friends and my sister and this really helped me with toddlers,,, I'm a little nervous about them haha

[@Nicole_Gillian]

You got this! They’re just little people trying to figure out the world

[@DewiiAljoe]

Great tips

[@Nicole_Gillian]

@@DewiiAljoe thank you :)

[@Melissaellen88]

Great video

[@Nicole_Gillian]

@@Melissaellen88 thank you 🤍

[@isabellaizzy5078]

i’m a new baby sitter and i just started this job about a month ago. i’m 18 years old and i watch a 4 year old boy and a 7 year old girl. they give me a lot of problems with listening to me and they often times use the excuse when i tell them to do something, they’ll always say, “well mommy/daddy let me do it” (ex: things like sitting on the table, eating a bunch of candy not real food, running ahead of me when outside, not holding my hand crossing the street). the other issue i have is the little girl is always influencing the little boy into listening to what she says instead of me. i don’t want to resort to having a talk with the parents because i feel like it makes me look like i can’t handle the job. i’m really struggling i threaten them with telling their parents or putting them in time out but nothing gets through to them and it’s such a struggle. i really want to grow a bond with them but i feel like they think im mean because the only thing i can resort too 99% of the time is having to be stern with them because they never listen and take advantage that their parents aren’t around. please if you have any advice, it would be so helpful. great video as well and it did help!!!!

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I usually give the kids two options of what their choices are. Sometimes we have to sit through some screaming but you have to stick to your guns so they know you’re serious. Sometimes a behavior chart chart could work so they can earn something they really want sometimes I will help them pick stuff out on Google or like bath bombs really work for my kiddos and to maybe you just have a conversation with the parents of how you guys can work together to have the same communication for when you’re there and we are not there and to have the parents tell their kids to respect you and to have the kids know you’re fully in charge and your job is to keep them safe

[@KarenLopez-kp6mw]

Great video, thanks! :)

[@janatnalwoga]

Thanks for sharing

[@emilydantonio952]

I could really use some help! I’m a new nanny for a three year old and I’m noticing some behavioral trends with him such as, when I say, “(name) do we jump on the couch?” He’ll respond with an angry face and say “no! You don’t talk!!” And I’m trying to undo a lot of things that he’s already been conditioned to that are causing this behavior... you mentioned in your last tip manners... where do I even start with teaching a sassy three year old manners?

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Emily D'Antonio I would maybe try reverse psychology... like okay you can jump on the couch and the child will for a while then they will get over it. The child might just be testing you and if you show no emotion or concern they might stop. You can reword with a star chart for every time they listen they get to put a star on their chart and work towards something they like!

[@sophiestgermain5273]

yes!! i am a teacher for three year olds and the biggest thing that works is appearing unbothered by the “attention grabbing” behaviors and then after they calm down dealing with it. that has been the number one thing to help with me!!

[@kendrabushnell6413]

Hi:) I liked your video! I saw a job offer for two, two years old. I have only babysitted like five years olds is it much harder to take care of children at the age of two than five especially if there are two children instead of just one?

[@Nicole_Gillian]

It really just depends on the kids and the family. I think five year olds are easier in some ways. They are more self entertained and use the bathroom and usually are safer while they eat. Two roads could be in the middle of potty training still a little bit wild while eating and need more a one on one support!

[@unique4532]

Can you give advice on nannying a 1.5 year old .. a few do’s & donts

[@Nicole_Gillian]

What are your questions?!

[@PennyFitzgeraldTAWOG]

Its a bit crazy but I'm just a child 10-11 and I'm thinking of starting to babysit. Its actually kind of been a dream for awhile :D.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I love that!!

[@PennyFitzgeraldTAWOG]

@@Nicole_Gillian Tysm!

[@hannahscott6604]

It’s hard when families are searching for a fill in before the kid goes to daycare I can’t get any experience! Damn 😢

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I was a sub at a preschool to get some experience and helped people around my neighborhood

[@gabrielasinmas]

you are great!

[@ria.lisations]

damn i definitely didn't learn how to tie my own laces until much later... i learnt how to tie my tie when i was about 7/8 bc my teacher was like '??? how do you not know? here, i'll teach you' and then i learnt out of embarrassment hahaha

[@Nicole_Gillian]

That’s how I originally learned as well! I remember I was five or six

[@daveellis5100]

Recorded horizontally:)

[@hollywooddothat]

For the teaching on color, what age is this? My 1.5 year old just enjoys physical activity. Reading etc isn’t engaging

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I would just keep adding it in to the day! Random stuff. I’m going to grab the blue cup or I love the green grass.

[@tutmosispagnotta]

Love your video, do you bring your play stuff at work?

[@Nicole_Gillian]

What do you exactly mean? Do I bring the kids toys to work? Or my personal things?

[@tutmosispagnotta]

@@Nicole_Gillian I mean, the families you work for expect you to bring your things, such for example educational toys, books etc..?

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Aletta Jacobslaan I’ve never had a situation where people expect me to bring something.

[@barbbb03]

Thank you!! im gonna be a nanny next year, any tip for a begginer? I'm super scared.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Everyone is human and parents understand if not everything goes perfectly to plan. Be honest. Don’t ever leave the child when they’re eating and give them one bite at a time if you’re worried. Kids do tell their parents everything that they think is interesting. Something happens like you drop spaghetti sauce all over the floor. Be very chill about it and just clean it up. And the child might not say anything about it or just tell the parents how you handled it. Kids want to be heard, get on their level, make a friendship, hopefully timeouts don’t have to happen often. Look for what the child is interested in and give them responsibilities and make sure that they know you are proud of them!

[@barbbb03]

@@Nicole_Gillian thank u so much, this really helps. Sending love from Argentina

[@TravelSeets]

How to not get bored as a nanny is what I would like to know

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I try to get into it or bring my level coloring book.. etc.

[@TravelSeets]

I will be working with a 10 month old, no park or pools nearby and Texas Summers are insanely hot. @@Nicole_Gillian

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

I work as a nanny and the kids are disrespectful to me. Although I do everything for them, they shout at me and ordering me around and complain to their mom by crying that I want mommy to do this and that for me, not me. I thought just because they are 3 years old, I should not treat them like adults. What am I doing wrong? Can we talk in private by any chance? ☺️❤️

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Kids will say what they can to get what they want and to get a reaction. Just follow through and stay calm. I try not to take anything personal so I don’t get effected. And just know they’re kids and they don’t have all the words they need yet and they’re figuring out life. Tell them I don’t like that Don’t help them when they shout

[@viviankulallad3638]

​@@Nicole_Gillian❤

[@Frogsandbees]

Can you give tips on how to be a nanny for a mom and twins or just a mom and babies bcuz I want to be the best I can for my sister in law she’s a first time mom n doesn’t know a whole lot about babies and I just want to be as helpful as I can possibly be and how to take care of her aswell

[@Nicole_Gillian]

KZbin would not let me write back for some reason! So sorry on the late reply.

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Patients for the you the mom and the babies! Everyone is just trying to figure out life. And if someone is willing to help do something let them help. Or just going to have her home and doing the dishes or vacuuming for her or taking the kiddos on a walk so she can take a bath and relax. It’s really all about the simple things to help a house flow

[@reedhammer1291]

does anyone know any like young babysitters like teen babysitter chanells? im a new babysitter and i want to find some accounts that are ALL about babysitting

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I don’t know of any unfortunately. My best advice would be to understand children is also just to understand yourself and whatever you need they probably need as well. If you’re thirsty, cold or need to go to the bathroom just always check in that they need to as well or give them those things. Just driving deep into whatever game they’re playing and make it interesting for yourself by asking them questions or making some thing you find interesting and just enjoy being a little kid again!

[@nicolegina6338]

This might be a stupid question but do you think teaching a child how to make Mac and cheese (or having them help you) could be dangerous? Cause then they might try to do it by themselves and something could go terrible wrong, or am I just being dramatic haha. I’m a new nanny and I’m so paranoid

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I think showing them could be better than them, trying to figure it out on their own. Like at least they have the right tools to get started and if you walk in the room, then you can assist them.

[@MikeTule-n9v]

Kind of like witness protection

[@Nicole_Gillian]

??

[@lexywhite2835]

The title says 6 year experience but the thumbnail says 5?

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I just didnt change the thumbnail! I’m almost at 7 years now

[@dustingreen7255]

Whathappenif the child dont like u

[@Nicole_Gillian]

I just kinda take it. There is something going on inside them or they might not be happy about some thing. Maybe they are growing and they’re uncomfortable or maybe getting new teeth and they’re uncomfortable not finding the right words they need. Sometimes kids can just be moody and say whatever they want. As if we said whatever I wanted we would have more consequences are you just learn how you don’t want to be treated. I try to sit down and have conversations of why you don’t like me and how we can grow from this or what can I do to make it better. Show them that you hear them. I got told this morning that I was mean nobody likes me. Something along those lines and I asked why and there was no answer. With kids sometimes you just have to be tough and show them that it doesn’t even bother you. Why don’t you think the child likes you?

[@dustingreen7255]

@@Nicole_Gillian Hello why dont i think the child likes me because every time my bf and i go to his grandma house where Jacky (the 2yr old boy) lives he would be happy and then he would attaching self to his grandmother which he callls mom and he will cry. When im eatting at the table he will throw a fit. I will take the food or drink but not eat or drink it if i give it to him him. If my bf not around when we babysitting he will justbcry himself to sleep. With everybody elas he dosent throw a fit up less him grandma and grandpa need a break and we watch them. I have also try make so toys or do fun art and craft and nope dont want to do craft but will play with toys. When i have to change is dipper he throw a fit but i will not bath him. I just hurt to see this little child go thought this much pain when im around and his grandparents are not around But he absolutely fine with my boyfriend he also has two other siblings which to try to help calm down. Sorry my name i Michele i lost my phone i useing my bf.

[@dustingreen7255]

Thank you

[@MikeTule-n9v]

I couldn't dream of u all day

[@Nicole_Gillian]

Thank you!