10 Plus Size Cruiser Challenges

Cruises can be hard for fat people. In this episode I share 10 plus size cruise challenges that I have experienced.
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[@larryfinkel4102]

It must have been very difficult for you to do this video. I appreciate your honesty and for your forthrightness in talking about this situation

[@charla6548]

Do not be afraid to get wheelchair assistance when needed while embarking or debarking or getting shuttled when needed. As a cancer patient and overweight female I watched my husband, Tony’s size (but older) struggle walking behind my wheelchair for many cruises until I finally convinced my husband to get one. He also has bad ankles from previous surgeries. Now our cruises at least start off easier. We can walk at our own pace once aboard the ship.Our wait staff handles the seating at dinner without problems ( so far) and on buses and planes I squeeze in with him. We take it as it comes and LOVE that Tony addresses this topic!!!❤❤❤

[@DreamGirl650]

You actually changed my opinion about obese people. Increased my empathy. From here on out I won’t judge. This increased my empathy and compassion. It can’t be easy.

[@pw-sz6ds]

Talking about keeping it real! I marvel how you can talk about your weight issues honestly and openly. You do not ignore it or hide it. You are just real about it. You covered everything a non fluffy person was probably thinking while you were listing the challenges. Yet again, you have tackled a topic that many would not dare to speak on. It’s your gift to us and I am one of the many that sure appreciate it.

[@ibrockinrobin67]

Seriously Tony, Big T, you are the best. And thank you for telling those who think we can just "lose weight" easily the way it is.

[@erinbell7224]

I came here to say this! I love how open you are, Tony :-)

[@janetwheeler7690]

Yes on all these. I use a mobility scooter. I also book a hanidcap accesdible room. Much better bsthroom. Down side is that there are limited number of rooms per ship.

[@JackieCanessa]

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[@sonnyev5451]

Once again, thank you Tony & Co. for telling it like it is, for everyone, not just a few. The Cruising Community encompasses many types of people. 🚢

[@EmmaCruises]

‘We’re still out here trying to be alive’ oh Tony, love you. 😅

[@itrasheditgood]

I’m a big gal and I when I planned my Alaskan cruise, I knew there would be a lot of walking. I had booked many months in advance so I was able to get myself in a better condition with 10-15 minute walks and swimming. By the time of the cruise, i was ready for it. The walking was not nearly as hard as it would have been if I didn’t prepare myself and I kinda wished I had planned more physically challenging excursions. I had signed up for light activities thinking that I might not be able to do anything more strenuous. When I came home, I found that I lost a little bit of weight and decided that I want to continue bettering my health, so I decided to do the 30 min walk for 30 days and take up biking. Being big doesn’t mean you have to suffer, i recommend everyone to do some light activity routinely before a big trip, it makes everything so much easier.

[@ibrockinrobin67]

That's great! Good for you. I didn't do that and I was ok with the walking, BUT I agree with you. Even if you don't like any weight walking daily, you would strengthen you leg muscles making all the cruise and port walking less strenuous. Thanks for the tip and encouragement.😊

[@fluffytail6355]

Alaskan cruise next year is my goal for getting into better shape. There’s a lot of walking and it scares me!

[@susancook1448]

@@fluffytail6355I was worried about it too being very out of shape. But our excursions were only mildly strenuous and it was fine

[@bigm980]

Good keep at it! If you can do 30 days you can make it a habit and watch the pounds start to melt! It feels so good, and you deserve it!

[@jeanmulqueeney6319]

A great plan. I've been doing that for a few months now for our Far East cruise in December. It's a really good motivational tool. X

[@BobJohnson-h3k]

Having spent most of my skinny life feeling unspoken judgement toward overweight people, I was truely touched by your comments. From this point forward I will do my best to be more understanding and hopefully a better human being because of your frankness and honestly. I've always enjoyed your videos and learned a lot from them but this was truely amazing. Thank you for being YOU and for sharing you with me and all of us.

[@fayemoss7282]

Thank you for your bravery ❤ If losing weight was easy none of us would be fat.

[@pattieb8214]

You have no idea how many people you have helped through this video. I know you focus on cruising, but many of these challenges apply to a variety of situations. Thank you for caring enough to share.

[@purplequeen59]

I was 315 lbs (5 feet, 3 inches.) I suffered a heart attack, 2 strokes. I lost some weight but surely not enough. Let me tell you what made me look at this weight loss situation seriously. I was sitting in church and noticed that my thighs had busted through my gray jeans. Thankfully, it was the inside seams. That was the event that made me say, "That's It." I've lost 125 lbs... size 26 to 16. I'm still working on it but when I go on a cruise I eat what I want... then it's back to business. It's a slow process but I'm determined one day to get to that size 12. By the way, I'm perfectly fine, truly blessed by God's miracles. Thanks for your honesty... took a lot of courage to share. I have to admit the bathroom had me rolling! 😂

[@Cyndee527]

KZbin Dr. Ovadia M.D. Dr. Ken Berry M.D. ketiovore or carnivore.

[@angelaallmond8390]

I lived 15 years as a plus size woman, which brings additional challenges, but I empathize with your topic. Good for you Tony to share this information and the difficulties others may not understand nor face. People and facilities can be brutal to those who do not fit the “normal” configuration and standards built to accommodate people. Great video and thanks for sharing.

[@SeaFarynJames]

Your closing to this vid is powerful and is an excellent point: live your life, work on overcoming limitations, and stay encouraged. I have recently began cruising as of October 2022, since then, I’ve gone on 5 cruises. Each cruise is motivation for me to keep losing weight and working on myself. Last year, I started at 315lbs. Currently at 260lbs. My goal for my bday cruise next month is 250lbs. This video gives me an added push and helps keep me focused. Thanks for sharing this video and thank you for the encouragement 🙏🏾

[@ibrockinrobin67]

Congrats on your success! I too find it motivating. AND I actually find that I dont gain weight on cruises. I think the better MDR food (and smaller portions that actually are enough to keep me satiated) and all the walking make a difference. Maybe instead of a Love Boat cruise, someone should have a Biggest Loser Cruise. I would totally go. 😉

[@annetteeve4637]

Congratulations on your weight loss.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Congratulations!!! you've got this James ♥

[@koransky1]

Well done, James!! I hope you get your birthday wish!!

[@crescentmoonchild4031]

Good for you!

[@SuzanneA618]

There are so many reasons for being overweight, life is complicated, when you are open and honest it makes people think that wouldn’t normally. There is not enough kindness and understanding of others in this world. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@NEWHAMPSHIREGUY]

I had to comment, you made this so real!. I am not a plus size person and never thought of all the challenges. I am also awed in your honesty and frankness. you pulled no punches, you made no excuses you have my total R-E-S-P-E-C-T

[@CeremmoniesbyJudith]

Before I lost weight, I'd go to the MDR on the first day before dinner & ask for an armless chair. They were more than happy to help. As of Thursday, I'm down from 405 to 275 with my Intermittent Fasting! 😊 You've got this Tony!!

[@SlavGuns]

Congrats on the success! Keep at it! It is 95% diet not exercise.

[@mAdCapper]

Grats! I am down 15 on my journey in 6 weeks :) Intermittent fasting works so well once you've developed the habit

[@karyndewit193]

Good for you!

[@joelgossett9484]

Had to ask for armless chair in MDR on HA ships. By the end of the cruise, they usually swapped it out as I was walking to the table.

[@EjaBe23]

Congratulations upon your weight loss! WOW!

[@jerrygolden3584]

As a large person looking to take my first cruise in over 20 years, I found this to be extremely insightful. I don't know what prompted you to select this subject, but thanks, lots.

[@joelwasinger]

The video that first brought you to my attention was the one in which you addressed the possibility of being big in a downsized cabin-and you’ve since become my favorite cruise-related content creator. I’m pleased and grateful to stumble upon another video where you specifically address the challenges we face. Thank you for speaking up. 1) At 6’7” as a junior in high school (I eventually reached 6’8” but have shrunk some with age), the bigger part of my being big is being apparently too tall. And for most of my life, I’ve been skinny. There’s perhaps as little accommodation for folks over 6’6” as there is for those over 300 lbs. The challenges are real. Honestly, there are several ways in which it was more difficult to get by in the world as tall and skinny than as tall and heavy (including folks feeling entitled to say insulting or painfully repetitive things about my height). But I’m not convinced that most people understand either. 2) Needless to say (but, yes, I’m going to say it): I’m unimpressed by the credentials of anyone who feels entitled to pass judgment on my physique. Frankly, I don’t care what your medical education is or how much weight you lost. You don’t know my life and I shouldn’t have to listen to your condescending lectures, dismissive snark or patronizing admonitions. I have doctors who’ve earned my trust and respect and who are working with me to be healthy overall; I don’t need unsolicited “medical” advice or commentary from strangers-even if some of it is supposedly well-meaning. 3) There are many sorts of personal problems and even if my current weight could be classified as such, it pales in comparison to the issues clearly manifested by those who feel obliged to accuse me because of my weight. And certainly there are weaknesses we all deal with. No, I don’t think my weight belongs at the top of anyone’s list. 4) Somehow as a tall skinny person, it never struck me that it was okay for me to make rude and insulting remarks about folks with different body types. Go figure. 5) Finally, fwiw, I generally tend to prefer the callipygian and buxom to the skeletal or even dramatically muscular. To be clear, I mean no disrespect to those who, for whatever reason, are either of those things. Be who you are, like what you like; just don’t presume to establish the standards for the rest of us. Again, thanks for another great video. I look forward to more.

[@raybrown6165]

Tony I agree with you about the challenge of being morbidly obese. At 57 I reached 298 lbs. At 5'9 that was too much for my frame. After seventeen years and three back surgeries I slowly went down which took years not months to less than 190 lbs. Weight continues being an issue for me and the potential to gain excessive weight will always be there. So I understand and applaud you and others for tackling weight challenges. Happy cruising and God Bless!

[@ibrockinrobin67]

That is amazing! I'm 55 and took my 1st cruise ladt year. At 5'3" & 260, I'm finding that the desire to cruise more and keep up with hubby, kids, & grands is becoming a good motivator. How did you finally do it and sick with it?

[@raybrown6165]

I ended up doing it in stages. 1st plateau was 265, then 235, 210, 190 and finally 180. As a lifetime dieter I tried almost all the fads of the day! In the end I did it by crash dieting in phases. I would do 600-800 calories per day for a few months then eat naturally with premeasured meals until I get motivated again. Now I go up and then get my mojo back and attack it again. I took a while but finally I learned that dieting is a mental thing. If you are not mentally into it you will not succeed. All the fads in the world did not work for me and I suspect many others. Oh, wife and I went to two meals a day. One light morning and a a calculated (sometimes) second meal around 1-2 in the afternoon. We call it linner. So mentally get into it, premeasured food and eating twice a day. I guess because I was so overweight for 40 years I still feel overweight and it compels me to not let my weight get out of control. Our next cruise will be our 34th and started cruising when we were about your age. Good luck and happy cruising.@@ibrockinrobin67

[@dcguenter]

@@raybrown6165 Similar story, weight, back, first operation at 32, doctors won't give me a 4th operation, take the smallest oxy available and haven't increased it in 24 years. Agree with pretty much everything you said, I did find that fasting one day a week really helped, not only on weight loss but teaching me will power. I simply challenged myself each time to increase the fasting by 1 hour, started at 12 hours and kept going from there. Only eat 2 meals a day, over the last few years, as I age (56 now), my back pain has increased to the point that I cannot eat later than 4pm or I can plan on a sleepless night of pain. Amazing how much a belly full of food can increase lower back pain! I still think it boils down to will power. I don't mean that to insult obese people, my 2 life long friends are both obese (as I once was). I do think that all these diets are bs, like you said it's a life long diet. To me, it was stopping one thing at a time, no more sodas, no more doritos, no more cookies, no more butterfingers, no more payday bars. You have to do it one thing at a time. I finally took my old suits to the Salvation Army, I used to put on the pants every so often and hold out the waist for motivation! Looking forward to my first cruise with my 13 year old daughter in December! Cheers and happy cruising!

[@jackhardy5486]

Thank you for addressing this issue! I'm 6'5" 400 pounds I'm a BIG man! About to go on our 12th cruise. 8 days to Aruba, curaçao and mahogany Bay, Carnival Magic out of Miami. I have experienced everything that you talked about! Not to mention 3 years ago having total knee replacement on both knees. Mobility and walking is a serious issue to me even though the knee problem has gotten much better. One of my biggest issues is the Pier in Cozumel Mexico!! That is one long long long walk! I have not used the peddie cabs but next time I go to Cozumel I will certainly use those peddie cabs. Again, thank you for making that broadcast It's nice knowing I'm not alone but still want to enjoy a cruise!

[@arcticfox50]

As two people of size and short stature (200 and 240lbs), we used to travel Premium Econo when available, but those seats are less and less available. We often have 7 to 12-hour travel days, so comfort getting to and from is important. What we now do is fly what I call "Red-neck Premium Economy". I now book 3 Econo seats for two people - takes a bit of time on the phone with the airline, generally an hour, to arrange, but that added seat between the two of us makes the long trips more bearable. 3 Econo seats, booked with carefully chosen seats, and selecting/paying for them at the time of booking have made all the difference. 3 Econo seats often will be less than 2 Premium Econ as well - so we have won on both fronts.

[@sprivate1333]

thank you for brining these things up. This reminded me of a situation that happened a few years ago when I was traveling with a friend and on the plane she was seated next to me. However, after take off we were talking and it seemed to me that she wasn't comfortable and I asked her if she was, she said she was fine. it was a 4 hour flight and when we were getting out of our seats to get off the plane, she was having a really difficult time getting out of the seat. Long story short, teary eyed, she confided she was kind of frozen, her back froze up and she could barely move. That was due to the fact that her rump didn't fit in the seat from the start and she was sitting half side ways AND, the seat belt didn't even fit around her tummy. We were the last ones to get off the plane and she then felt comfortable without everyone looking at her, as she struggled to get out of the seat. She sat for 4 hours in great discomfort and unsafely. My heart sank when I learned this. She had a bad backache the rest of the trip! I never thought of her as overweight - yes, she was a little larger than me, wearing an 18/20 women's size, but surely not too big to fit in an airlines seat. Well, in fact, she was. We talked later and she said she was embarrassed to ask for a seatbelt extender because she did that once on a different flight, whispering her request to the flight attendant, who then loudly announced that she's be back with "a seat belt extender" - so that everyone around knew my friend needed one. She also confided that often times the restaurant we choose depended on the chairs they had. Now many things were making sense. We need businesses to automatically have available options for our larger sized fellow travelers and citizens. When booking tickets there should be an option for size related needs, just like dietary restrictions. And, they should not have to pay for a business class or first class seat - make some larger seat available in the rest of the plane. Our plus sized friends need to be comfortable and SAFE just like everyone else. Their money is just as green!

[@bethsimpson1916]

Thank you Tony for opening up this topic for discussion. I'd like to ask your patience for listening to my recent adventure in a port of call. Last year we were in Turkey at Ephesus. Incredible ruins. Our tour included the Terraced Houses which required an extreme amount of stairs (for me anyway). I was exhausted and couldn't have completed them without my husband pulling me up. I'm quite overweight but did not want to miss out. Between the heat and weight I was a mess. But I finished it and have the picture to prove it! That is my gold medal. We should be proud of ourselves for participating in these adventures. We may have some barriers but we do not have to miss out entirely. Keep cruising everyone. 😊

[@ja_sweet_tart4539]

As a fellow plus-sized person, thank you for this. We make adjustments to go through this life with the body we got and make the most. Thanks for the tips and your courage. ⚓️

[@therealmvp232]

Instead of making adjustments, loose the weight

[@gianni1632]

Great video! Some great points. I've lived most of them but there were a few eye openers. I hope this sensitized a few of your followers to be more patient.

[@stsfuzzybear4613]

@@therealmvp232I weighed under 100 lbs when I married. Very unhealthy. I didn’t gain weight until after I had to start using a wheelchair. It is very hard, when dealing with a body that doesn’t work properly, to lose weight. I tested how much food I could eat without gaining. 500 calories a day. No more. Problem: you can’t get enough nutrients to be healthy when eating only 500 calories a day. Try it. When I got my first chair it was only going to be for a short time. Go to the mall, walk the mall pushing my chair, sitting when about to crash, repeat. Needless to say it didn’t work. I did more damage to my legs than I lost weight. During the pandemic when I didn’t go anywhere I didn’t gain any weight. Read all the articles about the pandemic 50. Now what did I know that skinny people didn’t? My doctor was flabbergasted. His ‘healthy’ patients gained weight. Me? Not an ounce. Figure it out and win the Noble Prize. Tony when did your thyroid start growing? Maybe about 6 years ago? Malfunctioning thyroids can really screw with your weight. And growing can cause both under active and over active thyroids. And keep your body from using the ‘normal’ amount of hormone properly.

[@tanittaclark9613]

@@therealmvp232don’t you think majorly plus size individuals have tried. It’s a daily battle. What a negative comment. Don’t shame the plus size community we deal with challenges everyday.

[@sl4193]

​@@therealmvp232 I think that Tony is losing weight and he has a series of videos about his weight loss journey.

[@kimrodriguez1698]

Thank you, Tony! My biggest challenges are keeping up with the pace of the other cruisers while 1) going up all the ramps to get on board the ship (“Is there something wrong with you?”) and 2) keeping up when walking along the pier to get back aboard the ship. One time, a woman who was observing my struggle actually flagged down a security man with a wheelchair!). It’s so hard to be unable to move quickly enough without holding up the entire group.😔

[@readzalot]

If I can't walk the length of the pier, can I ask for a wheelchair? If I can't stand in line for a long time for check in, can I ask for a wheelchair?

[@eileenammendolea1776]

That’s my problem now too. I have no cartilage in both my knees and I have to take steps one baby step at a time and I know people must be frustrated when they are stuck behind me.

[@SusanK1120]

I have had three knee replacements and as a result, I don’t have the normal range of motion, making it difficult to get up from some seats. I actually mentioned this to the captain on Mariner of the Seas last week. My complaint/suggestion was to have available higher chaise lounges at the pool, which I would be glad to pay extra for!

[@Stephanie-we5ep]

Mobility issues (especially those unrelated to or compounded by weight!), are the worst! I've got RA and those chaise lounges are agony to deal with. I, too, would pay extra for taller ones.

[@eileenammendolea1776]

My knees are my main problem too. It’s very difficult to stand or walk for extended periods of time so it does cause challenges and compromises I make when taking cruises and go on shore excursions, not to mention booking seats on flights with extra leg room. I empathize with you!

[@Db_traveler]

Item #7 - No Clothes. Amen. I used to collect shirts from various vacation sites. Then I hit the day that shirts no longer fit. I'm probably ahead a lot of $$$ not buying shirts but now have an extensive shotglass collection as a result. I miss my shirts.

[@Janet-w2m]

This is why you are one of the top cruise vloggers. You cover it all!!! Very honest!!

[@mgrizz2386]

All I can say is thank you Tony! Your closing was so inspiring it made me cry. People need to realize that even though we are larger, we are people too and deserve to enjoy life.

[@PatriciaKing-j9h]

This is the first time I've ever commented to any you-tuber. I watched this video and probably nodded the entire time. I completely agreed with everything you said. I am under five feet tall and about 315lbs, with arthritic knees. I did not feel as if you were asking for sympathy - just pointing out facts. It would be nice if people without weight issues just understood how hard it can be for people of size. I sometimes feel like I get the side eye from people with that same "why don't you just lose weight" judgement. My husband and I love you and your videos. You always make us laugh while keeping us informed. We are not big cruisers - we've been on 2 and are scheduled on one of the hallmark cruises on NCL next November, but we watch you every day!! Keep it up and keep being you. Shout out to Ludicris.

[@bronxdottie5616]

Thank you so much for your honesty in addressing these issues. As a plus size lady, I am well aware of most of the issues you shared. Thank you so much.

[@DavidNurbin]

Thank you for covering this! I feel I can "weigh-in" too. I am also a plus-size cruiser in the 400+ range. You spoke about folks who wonder why we don't lose weight, and it's not for lack of trying. I call myself a trampoline dieter. Every time I lose weight, it ends up bouncing back higher than it was when I started... Pre-embarkation: I agree with avaoiding flights. it is part of why I returned to cruising, living in South Florida, it meant less than a hour drive to the port and get onto the ship... But as I started to become more adventurous, I found that I went to other places. One great airline policy for large cruisers: Alaska airlines requires you to get an additional seat, and you have to do it on the phone with a customer service representative... The advantage? if the flight is not completely full (if there are any open seats besides your extra) they will refund the full price of the second fare. Embarkation: I do deal with mobility issues and can't stand or walk for long and tried to white knuckle it through boarding the last cruise, and by the time we reached the entry way onboard, I was begging the crewmember escorting us in to just for the love of god find me a place to sit down for just a moment. It was quite painful. Seating on the cruise: I agree with your assessment of the seating issues in the dining and entertainment venues. If you go back regularly to the same areas, they learned your preferences quickly even in a freestyle dining atmosphere like NCL. Glas that you did mention the balcony cabins, the chairs on the balcony are not useable by someone of large stature. and they don't have any replacements... One time I had a cabin steward who swiped an office chair with no arms from somewhere, and he just asked that I bring it back inside when not on the balcony. He got a big tip!

[@SandNSurf]

Thank you for sharing, Tony. Hearing all of these things hurts my heart so much, and makes me so sad 💔😔. Your video brought me to tears. I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure these things, and everyone who does. We are all people. We all have feelings, we all hurt. You are such a beautiful person. So kind and compassionate. God bless your sweet heart 🙏❤️

[@amberlinamiller9023]

This is literally the truest cruise video I’ve ever seen regarding plus size cruising. Thank you for being honest. From a plus size cruise queen.

[@JudyNunes]

Thank you Tony. Plus size people expect to get the creature comforts for free. You tell it like it is. You must pay for comfort. You face the facts, and manage your life, to make yourself as comfortable as possible. Thank you again for telling the truth.

[@joansarratt]

My travel partner is plus sized with severe back issues, thank you for sharing the challenges. Some places are more inclusive than others.

[@NiikkiiCakessTalks]

That's my issue. I'm overweight and I have back issues due to being in a car accident. The combination has made my mobility limited. However on NCL, any time I needed to get around the ship someone from the staff would come get me with a wheelchair and take me there. When done, they would come get me and take me back to my room. Not ideal, but it helped a lot.

[@yvonnedunbar1740]

My husband is a obese and has mobility issues. We really appreciated your talk on the difficulties of plus sz travelers. We’ve experienced all the challenges and are now requesting accessible everything we can. And about to purchase our own folding wheelchair. Very few are out there for over 350 lbs. capacity. We live in TX and hardly any service or mobility stores. Some rental places for events. 😢Very frustrating!!

[@ScreamingEagleSid]

Tony, I understand what you are going through! I used to weigh 380, and before my gastric bypass surgery, I was 280, and now 141 pounds. It is tough for heavy people as well as handicapped (I am 82 years old & now permanently on a walker, and have trouble with steps). Take care of yourself & keep up your good work!

[@carolatchley3797]

I'm also overweight and I must tell you that when I see you walk around ports I'm very impressed by your stamina. That's difficult for me and has me questioning how much longer I can keep traveling. Thanks for this video.

[@momdragon75]

Another challenge: trying to reduce the size of suitcases. But the videos on 1 carry on bags, have a person size L or less. Plus size clothes are bigger and take up more space.

[@galeinstlou6306]

I think this video is a great service to first time cruisers who may not know about some of these things. Sure, they understand the airplane seats, the bus seats, and the challenges of walking long distances but who would think about the size of the space to use a toilet in their cabin? I'm sorry so many people found it necessary to 'dislike' it or make nasty comments. Instead of being kind, they choose to be ignorant. That's sad. Keep up the great work, Tony!

[@nicolecorsillo]

Thank you Tony! I used to be obese and dealt with all of these. We are all humans!!! ♥️ I’m so glad I found a way out.

[@justgeephillyburbs]

Thank you most folks don't get it I have had surgery gastric bypass wrecked my knees walking 10,000 steps now fasting an Ozempic and more walking in pain an last week a doc pointed out my BMI was 46 I need it to be 40 mean while I had lost 5 pounds since I saw her last. Or people say u are so big I say my highest was 553 pounds . I am 275 if that isn't enough weight loss than kiss my u know what . I told myself I would walk a mile a day if I miss a day and add that mile on to the next day and it works yesterday I walked 3 miles no pain I do more. Getting ready for my Dec 10 2023 cruise. God Bless You I watch every day.

[@Andrew-nw4np]

So glad to hear the La Lido Loca song again! It feels like a celebration every time I hear it! Makes you wanna dance! Awesome video!!

[@susana7968]

It's the best!

[@jimb9946]

Wow, great job with this. Tough subject, I ‘m right there with you weight wise. I usually loose a few pounds on cruises as I’m eating better quality food and walking more than a typical day at my job in IT.

[@harlanabraham7772]

I know that cruising could be rough for heavyset people. My wife was a heavyset woman who had a bit of difficulties. We always cruised out of NYC. But, when we flew we sat next to each other and I lifted the armrest between us. By the way Tony, I once wore a size 42 portly suit. My wife was handicapped so sometimes I was able to get her a wheelchair. Other times she had a walker with a seat. Sometimes we had a table with a chair atone end and a bench at the other side. I sat on the bench and my wife sat in the chair. Tony, my late wife tried to lose weight many times. She didn't. Sometimes she ended up gaining weight. My wife often sat on the seat on her walker. One time on a Celebrity ship the shower door would not close with her in it. Sometimes we would shower together and I could clean those spots my wife couldn't reach. This is true. Glad I could carry some extra clothes for my wife in my carry on. I go to the gym. My wife didn't want to go. But, we used to walk around on the promenade deck. Even the ones that went entirely around the ship. People come in all shapes and sizes. Am subscribed and hit the like button.

[@michelleridgway7452]

You sound like a wonderful and loving husband. I'm disabled too, and my husband is my rock. I hope you continue traveling.

[@harlanabraham7772]

@@michelleridgway7452 Thank you for your kind words. I hope to continue traveling too. Unfortunately my beloved wife passed away.

[@michelleridgway7452]

@harlanabraham7772 You still sound wonderful. I understood she passed away and that she was blessed to have you as her husband. I apologize if my present tense verbs were misused. You two sounded like a loving and special couple. I wish you all the best.

[@bigshoesbigsmiles]

You sound like a loving, caring husband. I hope you can find some joy until you are reunited with your beloved wife.

[@harlanabraham7772]

@@bigshoesbigsmiles Thank you very much.

[@elaineedwards2530]

High Five Tony! You are real and I appreciate that so much.

[@prentzess]

Bless you, Tony, for this message. I have always wanted to take a cruise, but my husband is in the 5XL range and also 6'6". Size is always a challenge. I don't want to travel without him, but don't know if he is physically able to enjoy it. Besides being compassionate to those with physical limitations, you are very practical in letting us know what to expect. Thank you!

[@ajvot71]

I’m similar in size, but other than a little inconvenience, I’ve never had any issues. All of the issues he mentions are the same issues that are everywhere.

[@joywebster2678]

I'm 1 plus, but flying for work, I was last to board with all my hospital colleagues. I had the choice to take last seat or wait 24hrs for next flight. I took last seat. What pissed me off was all the giggles on board, the seat was window beside a 5 xl Physician. While he was awake he held himself up, and I was only over lapped a few inches. But as we took off he fell asleep, and he flowed like lava over me, until only my head showed. I was suffocating, and my colleagues thought this hilarious. I hit my call light, and asked stewards to wake him so I could breathe, and drink my soda. 6 hr flight I woke him 3 x. He said nothing. I was very sore by landing. There were tiny others who could have fit in the remaining half seat. Had I known, I would have stayed in the boring town 24more hrs on a weekend. It was inexcusable, he needed 2 seats. Ugh.

[@DavidLLambertmobile]

My cousin is 6'05". He's not obese but tall. He's done a few 🚢.

[@brendamichals4376]

As a plus size person, the hardest part is standing in the lines- I have purchased , faster to the fun or the key program and that helps with the lines- again , cost more but a big help!

[@jeffwagg]

Really outstanding video. I’m going to share it with the 60 folks I’m taking through the Panama Canal next month.

[@judithcatalano9666]

This was really information packed. In fact you should offer a copy to each cruise line so they could maybe address some of these issues. Good luck in your weight loss journey.

[@ibrockinrobin67]

So true, especially since 40% of Americans are obese. Normally, I'd figure that they don't have to accommodate us, but if they do, they'd get even more of the plus size vacationers.

[@PsychGirlRaven]

@@ibrockinrobin67but are 40% obese to the point that they would be affected? I’m considered “ obese” and were a size 12.

[@kaydickey9239]

​@@PsychGirlRavenSo true. I'm considered obese and I was shocked to find that out. Same size as you.

[@Corri.dr.K]

Thank you Tony. Me and my husband are plus size and we totally understand the challenges of cruising. We appreciate your openness. Love you and Jenny and wishing you much more success. We are both "big" fans.

[@gailgohrick5836]

Awesome for not letting it stop you!! Happy and safe travels!

[@JourneywithSuzie]

Mine and my husband's first cruise is coming at the end of Sept 2024 (Breeze from Galveston). He is 6'4 & 300 lbs and many places (in general) don't accommodate his height, much less weight. I am 5'9 and 260 lbs, so double whammy! Thank you for this video, because I would hate to have not been prepared and it taint our enjoyment. Knowledge IS power and going in and knowing that we'll find obstacles will make them much easier to handle and prepare for!

[@kathykilianek]

Thank you for your candid approach to this subject. As a plus size woman I try to be prepared for anything that could take place while traveling. The swimming pool stair issue is a problem for the elderly as much as plus size. I have assisted many elderly folks who just don't have the strength to lift themselves up the ladder and hold on tightly to a wet rail. I know there might be a pool on the newer ships that have shallow stairs for a gradual entry and exit, but this is not guaranteed. Always appreciate your cheerful upbeat new presentation and honestly. See you on the Lido!

[@francesfox3913]

Donna Bock-consider booking a handicapped cabin and renting a scooter for your husband. Traveled often with a friend with mobility issues, and though limited number of these cabins, the scooter companies deliver and pick up in your room. Was a game changer when we moved from wheelchair to scooter-she got her independence back!

[@ClutchingPearlz]

For many of these reasons I’ve used as motivation to start a healthier lifestyle. I’m going with a group that needs to take a 7 mile hike and I don’t want to be the one left behind so I’ve been exercising and eating better as I’m determined to get healthier and take that hike.

[@gdy2shus]

Love to hear it. What part of the hike are you most excited for? I'm excited for you in this journey, both health and your prize hike.

[@r2gmail620]

Wow. Tuff subject -- I've never seen anyone touch it, but you did it candidly and with respect and sensitivity. Bravo. PS. Thanks for addressing those wondering "why don't you just lose some weight question?" Like telling an alcoholic to just stop drinking...if it was so easy we'd live in a perfect world, free from any addictions.😢

[@christinagipperich2780]

I’m glad you made this video. I’m watching this after your thyroid surgery so it will be interesting to see what changes for you in the year to come. The thyroid is a powerful gland when it comes to metabolism. Being overweight sucks and I have yet to meet someone who wouldn’t change it if they could.

[@geezygee]

kudos to you tony, for constantly addressing this matter that 40% of the populous (4/10 are considered "obese") have to navigate! i hope having to address this on a regular basis doesn't bring more stress, but i'm glad someone is addressing how callus and "size-est" the general world is, when nearly half the populous isn't a "straight size". I myself have never exceeded 220lbs, but even at a size 14/16 the issues already exist - getting any bigger, it only gets worse.

[@ValerieThomas-w6c]

Thank you for saying the things about being heavy

[@BrianMegilligan]

I appreciate your honesty. I first started following you back when you were living in NC and you were doing a daily step challenge. You and your wife would do these weekly weigh-ins. It ain't easy, but that's such a good place to start. I just want to encourage you - I've come down 50 lbs since my highest in 2018 and I accomplished this with steady exercise, limited eating window (i.e., intermittent fasting), and a replacement of processed foods with veggies. None of it over night, just small changes over time that added up. We're about the same age. Reach out to me if you want a buddy or accountability partner.

[@cruisewithsunkat]

Thanks for being real. I have experienced many of these issues myself. Mobility being the biggest challenge.

[@timlozano5138]

Great episode Tony! As a 6'4" 320ib man I have gone through all of those challenges. But I still love cruising. Restaurant booths are my biggest challenge.

[@carolyngeiger3634]

God bless you. Wishing you good health and happy cruising!

[@stevenkukene9970]

Larger people like to cruise as much as smaller people do. Large people have money to spend and it’s just as green as everyone else’s. With all the limitations that obesity can present one would think this disability would be accounted for by the ADA. With the apparent gluttony that is most cruise ship buffets you would think cruise lines would plan for a broader demographic for comfort and convenience. News flash: We love La Lido Tony unconditionally! ❤️

[@stacistein702]

Thanks for the informative video. I had no idea of the cruise hardships for overweight people. Glad you persevere.

[@dmariec9308]

Thank you for this, Tony. Being a plus size woman, this all hits home for me. I have experienced so much of this in my cruise travels. I am always concerned if i will fit in the chair, or if i will be able to handle getting in and out of the tender, going ashore. These are all things I have to think about as well. I want to enjoy life just like everyone else. Until I get this extra weight off, I will be worrying about something on every cruise. Thank you for sharing and being open and addressing this.

[@sandihagge5145]

I do not use a cane on a regular basis, but I always use one when cruising, or have one with me at least. Great for standing and for walking distances, sometimes uphill.

[@l.wallace4252]

Thank you, Tony, for raising my sensitivity toward the challenges you face. So impressed that you sally forth. We all benefit from you pushing through. Bravo!

[@chantemazy-richburg6444]

Your realness is so appreciated.

[@francesgill8621]

I admire your tenacity and determination to cruise.

[@MsPeggyCruise411]

Tony, this is Cruise 411 your personality out shines any weight issues! I am cruising back to back, and I’ve missed some of your videos. I enjoy your videos immensely❤ if we ever meet, I will not see weight I will only see the loving, kind, funny 😆 😂😂😂🤣🤣, informative man that you are. Never stop singing.❤💝💝💝💝💝🌺🌹🎀

[@live2skide1]

Thank you for your honesty. My sister is plus size and has mobility issues and everything you mentioned is true. Her worst problem was the high steps to getting into buses , whether it was the transfer to/from the airport or a tour.

[@galeocean4182]

This was a very eye-opening post. I hope everyone with mobility issues sees this.

[@paulahix2544]

Thanks, Tony, for encouraging people of all sizes to enjoy life! You’re an inspiration!

[@csp4126]

Same with Uber XL for us as well. Well worth it to us. And YES Chairs with arms are the Worst!

[@WilliamJones-bg2on]

I hear you Tony. I am 6’3” and 500lbs and love cruising. Every one of your points is totally valid. I live In Philadelphia and only drive to cruise terminals in my area (NYC, NJ, Baltimore) which limits my available cruise options. I plan my cabin choice near either a public restroom or an elevator bank to get me to one. Re: MDR - I go to the head waiter on Day 1 and ask for a chair with no arms and it will be there for you the entire cruise. The other factor that I ask for is a table away from others or not too far from the entrance or not too far a walk, because trying to squeeze between tables while others are seated and eating is terribly awkward. As always, we love you and your videos. Keep them up.

[@WilliamJones-bg2on]

@@johnmayerislovee thank you for your concern. Good advice. I’ll take that under advisement. It’s never been suggested before.

[@beccacarrillo]

@@johnmayerislovee I commented on one of your other comment...but I'll do it hear too in case you missed it. If you're going to tell people to do it, you at least need to know how to spell it. It is "LOSE"...one "O", not two.

[@oscarrussell728]

@WilliamJones-bg2on Keep cruising, getting out there and keep moving! Don’t let a person who has no understanding keep you from doing something you enjoy. Keep moving! Enjoy all the beauty of the ocean and new sights!

[@oscarrussell728]

Great jobs Yo y!

[@cherylvantil6918]

Thank you for this video. I have been "plus size" since junior high (with occasional "thin" years) and I totally agree with you that traveling can be difficult. I'm also 6'3" so that just doubled my problems when I used to travel. Can't travel anymore since I'm disabled but I really enjoy following some of the You Tube cruising channels for my traveling fun. =) I just shook my head when you said people have said "just lose weight." Spoken like someone who has never had weight issues. They are clueless! Happy cruising!

[@emiliawalker4346]

Thank you for this, great respect for your honesty. One would hope others would stop judging and just be a good human being.

[@TravelWithTheFunShips]

It’s very informative and Im 400 ibd and been heavy all my life, try losing, no success. But in the terminal, get wheelchair assistance to avoid long walking and when I fly, get an extra seat sear or first class.

[@sueevans7172]

I have been a plus since I was a child. I finally swollowed my pride and use a cane when I am cruising. I am offered a wheelchair at the airport and in the terminal but the cane works fine. On my latest cruise on NCL, the seats in Cagneys were very uncomfortable. I appreciate chairs with no arms. Thanks for this real time challenge for all of us. Yes, I agree that it isnt always easy since I have extra health issues. Thanks for these tips. They are all so true.

[@darktheme1400]

Tony I don’t believe you were trying to invoke sympathy, I found the video to be very informative and made me aware of some of the challenges that larger people have navigating through life. We should all be more understanding and not judgmental.

[@QueenSuperJ]

I am absolutely a plus sized cruiser. I’m 29 days out from my next cruise and I’m dieting like crazy to drop a few pounds to try and make the airplane, the shuttle busses, and all the other uncomfortable situations a little less uncomfortable

[@timbeatty11]

Great information and so true. I am 340 right now. I have gone up and down for 25 years.

[@levih109]

Thanks Tony! This is so relatable! I wish there was a resource for big cruisers that compares the various lines and their ships in terms of the fluffy friendliness. A future project for you, maybe?!

[@jackieaudus9829]

Great idea 👏🏻💯

[@Moroccanroller1]

I love all the supportive comments for this courageous and important multi-tiered message you shared with us.

[@ninerjen1]

Wow, this was so good. It is nice to have it acknowledged. It is also nice to have so many people out there commenting about the fact that they relate. I have lifted a chair up trying to get out because I was stuck. My size does limit the things I do, so thank you for the encouragement. ❤👍

[@amandamctyre1615]

Great info! I recently lost 35lbs I could not believe how I would haven been able to walk my Disneyland/Universal trip. I was so worried about ‘Will I fit?’ ‘Can I walk the VIP tour?’ It’s such a true worry that most don’t speak of. Thanks for bringing it to light 👍🏿

[@DonnaBMacK]

Knowledge is power. What a wonderful information video. Thanks for sharing.

[@CreamyJalapeno]

Love you Big T! Your delivery and humor keep me coming back video after video. ❤

[@Onyxblue660]

You speak the truth! Thank you for sharing this information.

[@mitchellwebster6359]

You’re brave to be open and honest about this topic. Personally I am a thin guy but I sympathize with you and love your channel. Hang in there and stay healthy. ❤️

[@NSidemarcher]

Hi tony. I’ve never cruised before but I can appreciate your candor about weight. I’ve had issues with my weight, being too thin that it makes me uncomfortable showing my chest. I did not at any point think that you should lose weight in order to fulfill your trips. It’s not easy to do, to gain or lose it. Have fun and enjoy life! Luv ur vids!

[@LookieLew000]

You might look into lyft rides are a few dollars cheaper than uber. A front desk person showed me that. And I find that scheduling a last minute ride is cheapest. Waiting is usually 5-15 minute wait.

[@slinkyengelking]

Thank you Tony! Appreciate you!

[@B-ch6uk]

Well said Tony. We're proud of you.

[@kathleenabell5933]

Stop saying fat! You’re demeaning yourself and that’s not what you’re about - you’re smart, funny, knowledgeable and so helpful. And we love you!!

[@juliedahl507]

Appreciate your content. May I also add that travelling with hidden disability is also challenging. So, fellow travellers- please be kind to all.

[@renishilao]

My husband and I watch you every night. Thank you for your great useful content. We are wanting to cruise soon. Can you please do a show on which cruise lines are "fat" friendly from your experience? Cruising is very expensive and I would not like to waste our time with a line that will not be comfortable for us.

[@mickalwilson8804]

Tony.. I applaud you putting this video out. I’m a 2XL. I have my challenges on some of the list. I can only wish the cruise lines would try and accommodate. There will always be larger cruisers. They/we deserve to enjoy our cruise too.