🔥This is a Nigerian woman standard of love. Not same with women of other cultures. Nigerian Southern women standard can kill a man early. Go to Uganda, Ethiopia, etc. Get peace. Live long man. 🤝
@patrickazuka1211 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the update!!
@mashgasem7347 Жыл бұрын
1- Appear smart 2- Be a true gentleman 3- Be a good listener 4- Eye contact 5- Point out to your similarities 6- Open up to her, share secretes 7- Sense of humour 8- Non-sexual touch 9- Be mysterious 10- Confidence is crucial in all steps 🌹 ✔
@oromonadestiny6618 Жыл бұрын
But sometimes you come across some women who don't talk much. Is it that they are pretending or they want to use that to know whether you can bring them out of their shell.
@DaiseySabellico Жыл бұрын
Re
@DaiseySabellico Жыл бұрын
Really
@nwokekelechi7590 Жыл бұрын
Am so sorry for you Do you the guy named Ozor in Bigbrother. I mean Ozor the SIMP. I mean Ozor the asslicker. If you do then pls don't be that guy. Be a Top-G
@oliverjoel5901 Жыл бұрын
@@oromonadestiny6618 God almighty create us with different temperament every body is not talkative
@baddest_dave Жыл бұрын
Some girls dey kpo nowadays oo, smoking anything smokeable, to the extent dey don't even see what are you doing. All these things are for those who really cares and need somebody. Thank you ma.. Ij
@BlessedIndeed1 Жыл бұрын
Observing. By asking, I receive. Relationships are precious beyond words. Be gentle, be kind. Your smile can touch the depths of a soul!!
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
I love your last line. Thanks for watching Felix 😊
@ThebestOne-sc6uo6 ай бұрын
Revandles forbidden books (thank me later)
@markjones421156 ай бұрын
Yea bro, these books are awesome, I was so bad with girls, after these few books I'm starting to get better
@NatalyaClinton3 ай бұрын
broh how do I get some of these books
@1OfAKind-e9qАй бұрын
@@NatalyaClinton Just type in Revandles anywhere google or youtube
@kpehe100 Жыл бұрын
If a lady loves you, no too many requirements
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
True
@nevillenchimunyainreallife3230 Жыл бұрын
Husbands love your wives, and wives submit to thy husband, love her right, I think 👀🤙
@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.2841 Жыл бұрын
Facts.
@wisekingmotivation7823 Жыл бұрын
Only for a short time , but if you think in the long Run You will have to be on your grind
@kpehe100 Жыл бұрын
@@wisekingmotivation7823 you will be making adjustments gradually as changes are taking place
@stephenessilfie249 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, this is wonderful. I have been talking to a gril for some time, and one time, she told me I can't carry conversation
@Mperor_Niho Жыл бұрын
You have to force your self to learn it , especially if you want to bag ladies
@nwokekelechi7590 Жыл бұрын
Guys work on your self Work hard and smart Hit the gym Be disciplined with time Make money Then watch her try and seduce you instead. We don't have time for all this
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Very true and that’s what I preach, work hard and look better and women will chase you. But also learn to be a gentle man and treat your Queen right 🥂
@nwokekelechi7590 Жыл бұрын
@RealTalkWithIjay NO I disagree again. From statistics Women like the Bad Men because it signals Power, Protection and Sponteniety. Good guys will finish last. The Bad Rude Men have no Rules to play by. Women will wet their pants for these kind. Be real
@EbikeAdventures667 Жыл бұрын
Amen, I'm too busy for this sh7t.
@EbikeAdventures667 Жыл бұрын
@IJayNedum Women are not Queens. If she treats me right, I'll treat her right.
@arayb Жыл бұрын
@@EbikeAdventures667 exactly they aren't wort the preaching
@TonyAnders-e5l Жыл бұрын
You are a very smart woman, I don't know if you ever lived in the U.S, you certainly relate.
@newtoniyekoroghe8609 Жыл бұрын
You have done justice to the topic. Congratulations.
@freemindofficial7766 Жыл бұрын
I was a gentleman to her back then and she took it for granted, dated all the bad boys she could so 1 day i left. Though she is married today but she keeps reminding me how stupid she was. So being a gentleman is self satisfying first before any other thing. It is like doing good.
@DennisSimplifies Жыл бұрын
I wished your videos were longer. Just can't stop listening to you. 😅 I appreciate your effort and the fact that you read and reply to your comments. Kudos, Ijay.🎉
@WitnessWagoneka Жыл бұрын
Very good
@Mac_urban_farm_No-smell-pigs Жыл бұрын
My brother she will make a video for you.
@FrankneroMarxweller-xq7gq Жыл бұрын
Tips on how 2 seduce a woman 1. Get Money 2. Get Money 3.Get Money 4. Get Money 5. Add some craziness in the relationship 6. Continue getting Money 7. Don't stop Getting Money 8.Never Get Broke 9. Get more Money 💰 10. Get 2much Money 💰 💰 💰
@cyrusmwangi7748 Жыл бұрын
Men,when you meet a woman you are attracted to,give her your number. Do not take hers, If she calls,pick up from there. If she doesn't, forget about her. We are the prize! Chase the cash not women. Are we together?
@JayJay-mr5ln Жыл бұрын
Agreed 100% with this model😂
@ogarushie7213 Жыл бұрын
Lol..😂some men aren't smiling
@sicelovilane5391 Жыл бұрын
@@cyrusmwangi7748 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I get you
@victoryazuka2060 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 but that one dey Sha 😂😂😂
@kellin25488 ай бұрын
I was good guy very humble but they made me toxic,now they can't handle me....
@mensahtalk2367 Жыл бұрын
though i appreciate your effort Men only need to be themselves and accept the women who are attracted to them all this modern check list stuff is exhausting.
@johnjennings9693 Жыл бұрын
Exactly you need to bring the manual with you and consult it at every turn you need to cross reference even in mid conversation,
@mensahtalk2367 Жыл бұрын
@@johnjennings9693 and if you make 1 mistake, she on you like a hawk saying "nope you done fked it up i'm no longer attracted to you take me home"
@ModernDatingMastery2 ай бұрын
*A woman can tell when you're truly present and attentive, which is way more attractive than any flashy gift.*
@igenekelvin4044 Жыл бұрын
You really know how to breakdown....you are good in what you do...
@AtwijukireJohnson Жыл бұрын
Thanks for uplifting some advice, healthy wise, you are welcome
@shadowman6262 Жыл бұрын
I’ve made mistakes in relationships and I’ve learned one key lesson. Be a good mentally strong man. Don’t be a nice man. There is a big difference once you step back and objectively examine both kinds of men. Good man with conviction will stand firm on his principles. A nice man will be tossed to and fro by his woman,m to rest his loyalty. Unfortunately, if you let her get her ways, subconsciously she has lost respect for you without knowing she did.
@Blessedcu.470 Жыл бұрын
Nice means foolish, never be it
@chris-anthonioozoude932 Жыл бұрын
Great points. Nice to be firm on Principle. I discovered that the only one I truly Love that left me, recently. Left only because, I became firm on my principles...
@charleskolawole5859 Жыл бұрын
How about just being yourself, and leave the remaining BS alone.
@shadowman6262 Жыл бұрын
@@charleskolawole5859 sometimes, being yourself can be self destructive if that self is not well developed and needs serious improvement. If being yourself means making sound judgements and taking sound decisions, by all means yes.
@boamaakwasi602 Жыл бұрын
@@shadowman6262 ààzl yu canas
@peterboakye6870 Жыл бұрын
What a brilliant tip off of seduction a woman. Keep bringing more and more of this advice.
@kizitodkekedriver8698 Жыл бұрын
Having those qualities without having a rich job or business they will overlook all those things. I have tried those things, thank God I am not ugly. I Sabi dress. I have tried those things but seriously if u act like u don't have money or u don't have money especially to afford everything they want. They will leave. Why not tell us all the truth... Girls these days will leave good guys go after bad guys with car and money. Abeg leave women things jor
@haroldrobertsowee7926 Жыл бұрын
VERY INTUITIVE. even the granddads would still pick a leaf or leaves.......
@llordnell4166 Жыл бұрын
I love this girl 👌👌👌👌 So simple and effective tips.
@montolivo2166 Жыл бұрын
You are a great woman 👩 we are here to support you keep it up my dear ❤❤❤
@lamzadavboy9224 Жыл бұрын
Bad Boys don't change for anyone,,,Gentlemen out there stay true to yourselves...
@anthonynattoo1935 Жыл бұрын
If only I had the honour of being a gentleman to you. Fod Bless you gorgeous lady. Thanks for the valuable tips🌹 ❤
@footballscores9532 Жыл бұрын
Rightly so,often times the person that talks the least holds or controls the conversation.
@roymoore8891 Жыл бұрын
You're so Beautiful& Truthful. Wish I had someone like you for my life partner. But my pass was very rocky. So I just become a travelling man. One night play& say goodbye. 🙏🙏🙏❤
@mumberegodwin4944 Жыл бұрын
Good job with these I must not fail again
@sampsontachie8052 Жыл бұрын
Money is everything
@djlankzin5770 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much MY SISTER. I follow you and I agree with you 1000%. I am a Zimbabwean-Canadian.
@brianmazorodze4860 Жыл бұрын
There is nothing called Zimbabwean-Canadian. You are a Zimbabwean with a Canadian Citizenship!😂
@rodgersaduda222 Жыл бұрын
😂,
@rodgersaduda222 Жыл бұрын
😂,
@abubacarrbadjie6943 Жыл бұрын
She's a great presenter, nice 👍 one..We will adhere to it❤
@pamorris7011 Жыл бұрын
You are really good Ijay. I wish I knew these things when I started dating.
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Thanks Pamorris. It’s never too late 😊
@gideonayodele2914 Жыл бұрын
I learnt lots from you to improves my relationship with my wife in a modest way . Keep the vibes on.. we enjoy your.. one love ❤️
@issuesoflifewithmokehn Жыл бұрын
This is excellent, ma'am. I would term it a very important "issue of life". 📝📝📝📝📝📝
@jakesemere9415 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate these 10 steps
@nnokkodanillonzon2072 Жыл бұрын
My dear sister your points are so so good and strong but a lot of women don't know what they want in a relationship to be honest with you, i mention women cuz these topic is about women. Generally a lot of women don't like gentlemen, why are my saying so it's because only few women are smart when it comes to this relationship of a thing don't get me wrong it's my opinion. Thanks for the message i hope 🙏 it got across God bless you 🙏
@michaelmarisio5208 Жыл бұрын
I support you 💯
@dieudonnejohnson5200 Жыл бұрын
You be bad girl IJ Great stuff.
@samuelblay96167 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@abrahamezeugo3344 Жыл бұрын
Good points ..... Appearance is key.
@ernestocosta5077 Жыл бұрын
Don't touch her hair, don't touch her face, don't pull her hair.. but, then again that's what women want you to do.
@DEREKyaya Жыл бұрын
Lol
@Marymack-kd9fe Жыл бұрын
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@Marymack-kd9fe Жыл бұрын
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Gmail.
@tsokho_shumba Жыл бұрын
Women are not the same so guys make sure you look good,smile good and you have money the rest will happen automatically by itself!
@chimezieanthonychibuike7900 Жыл бұрын
Thank u very much beautiful, we don't have time for all this okay... real men don't talk too much 💯 ... even when u try to bring yourself down to impress her, definitely she will take advantage of you simple
@Engineerboy100 Жыл бұрын
Another excellent set of instructions! I have watched a few of your videos and finally I subscribed.
@brightnonyelum8111 Жыл бұрын
Straight to d point
@tressurehonor-kk9rh Жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR THE LECTURES DEAR.
@vivosereni Жыл бұрын
You are addresing women of 70's
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Really 🤣🤣
@vivosereni Жыл бұрын
@@IJayNedum these present women are just something else obsessed with money .many are not looking into good smell, nice dress code etc to many of them it's the pocket! pocket! pocket ! which of course must be deep .
@vivosereni Жыл бұрын
Your content is really good & in order.
@PK74681 Жыл бұрын
Yes young lady, you know exactly what you are talking about ❤ I feel like chasing you right now. You have that sparkle in your eyes, you know what I mean 😎
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
You definitely have game 😁😁😁
@PK74681 Жыл бұрын
@@IJayNedum Thanks Jay,, it comes naturally ☺️🤩
@RealitiesAwakenedNow Жыл бұрын
Eye contact is the big one!
@M55II Жыл бұрын
Fact about me: I was seduced by one of my former work colleague, which turned my life upside down. I had to leave my work because of that toxic relationship. Never date your work colleague.
@olusolafalore Жыл бұрын
Well explained sir...sorry about what you went through. 🤔
@charlesgodwinu6649 Жыл бұрын
@@olusolafalorebroo, are you in the same shoe?
@jamesbedukodjograham5508 Жыл бұрын
@@olusolafaloreThis actually means that avoiding work relationships is far better for most men.😊😊
@webbymonk5228 Жыл бұрын
These days women are something else... work colleague or not.
@JamesMarshall-vc7hq Жыл бұрын
@@olusolafalorety
@martoking Жыл бұрын
That is advise on how to treat a sensible and cooperative wife. For modern women to respect you they need to be ignored, forgotten, lied to, false promises, cancelled dates, unanswered calls, no flowers, no rings, no marriage, no relatives, etc. Basically you need to have a spine. If they don't respect you they can't get wet.
@philipaluko7726 Жыл бұрын
Appearance Gentlemen Good listener Eye contact Open up to her Try to touch her Thank you for this
@godfreymaverick9098 Жыл бұрын
I like your presentation. Thanks for the great tips
@china01487 Жыл бұрын
One thing I know about online money making is As a newbie you must have these three things in mind Have a long term mindset. Be willing to take risk. Be careful on money usage, if you're not spending to earn back, then stop spending. Never claim to know - Ask questions and it's best you work with a financial advisor like Mrs Bennett Edmund
@francoismutombo9467 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are so fantastic I love every contents you brought that out so clear & understanding. Your boyfriend or hubby his a lucky guy to have you. Be blessed & more inspiration I love your videos cause you don’t use any bad word. Be blessed
@RolandD.Wallace Жыл бұрын
Thanks, it's really helpful. 😊
@morenamakakane7602 ай бұрын
"Don't just open your mouth WAAA!"😂
@moseswilson6110 Жыл бұрын
The ‘eye contact’ for me ❤
@JimmyAntono Жыл бұрын
I hope someday we can be in contact when I do come again to Nigeria 🇳🇬 colonel Jamal from dubai looking great 😊
@rayddaroto7288 Жыл бұрын
Hi Madam, thanks for your points to seduce a women.will hive it a try and revert to you soon.
@qubedinn1908 Жыл бұрын
She'll use something vulnerable you shared with her against you later in an argument
@successsongz3095 Жыл бұрын
You're right
@silodlamini9056 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@JohnChama-rj8tk Жыл бұрын
My favorite sending love from Zambia
@michaelland9460 Жыл бұрын
Ms. Ijay, you are very Charismatic. Wonderful words of Wisdom. Thank You.
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Thanks Michael 😊
@PK74681 Жыл бұрын
Another technique is to follow her every movement with your eyes. She will know that someone is looking at her. When she looks up for eye contact, you look away and start all over again. The chase is subliminal and sweet for both hunter and prey😂. Both of you will be curious about each other.This kind of seduction is instinctive in amorous men but someone can also learn if not naturally gifted in the art 😂
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Eye contact is really powerful, you have game pk247😁
@vivosereni Жыл бұрын
100% i think you are a good hunter .
@nwokekelechi7590 Жыл бұрын
I suggest you Give her sooooo much ATTENTION for just one day. Next day don't talk to her, just focus and mind your business. She will be distressed and seek another thrill. The more u withdraw the more she gets hooked on you.
@okugoiphie6663 Жыл бұрын
My question to you is why all the attention is on women. How about the men?
@lewaomar9289 Жыл бұрын
Love you❤
@ewaenidabie7859 Жыл бұрын
Good morning IJ. Thanks for these tips. I need your opinion on how to keep communication with a woman who doesn't like talking or when as questions is either I don't know or hmmm these exclamation response. Can br comfortable without a hi for days. I always be the first to start a conversation
@enochyoung7905 Жыл бұрын
I feel your pain bro. I believe you should try and find out if she’s really into you or you are trying to force her into loving you
@beletobenjamin2000 Жыл бұрын
Many thanks, watching from Liberia
@wtcwisdom572 Жыл бұрын
Women are attracted to success, they can't resist it.
@hafizshah1069 Жыл бұрын
Excelent vlog first class effort . Try multiple issues and you are there!
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Shah😊
@CalebEffiong-lb3hw Жыл бұрын
I love You r Tips . I will Try It This week
@zigimah433 Жыл бұрын
Be who you are supposed to be around all women,if she is! She will understand but be gentleman and nice.
@Ben256MB Жыл бұрын
Women will never tell men what really turns them on and this is SIMPING 101 . When a woman is sexually attracted to man she's already comfortable and you can pretty much dirty women until she gets wet the first time . The term gentleman is feminine in it's self because masculine men are assertive and aggressive which turns women turn . All the women in my lifetime who told me how much of a gentleman I was and they never had sex with me. From the first 5 minutes or less into a conversation women know whether they view you sexually or not . Women like sex too just as much as men that's why one nightstands exist in the first place . This advice makes men relationship minded and relationship minded men get played easily by women from his time . This is why we have a lot of sexually frustrated men out there who hate women . A man who gets sex regularly or semi regularly always has a very chilled relaxed energy around women that's why women through themselves at him because they can tell he's not needy or desperate .
@tarellehoskins688 Жыл бұрын
Sounds about right 👍🏽
@dennismambo6690 Жыл бұрын
This is what I have always told my fellow brothers. You are damn so right. As a man, your purpose comes first, women only come as an added bonus. If you focus too much on women, then you become one.
@Ben256MB Жыл бұрын
@@dennismambo6690 What are talking about ?? Men are naturally inclined to get with women so life it's all about balance . You can do multiple things a day and if you put your dating life on pause you're going to suck at it .
@egbuzobimichael5643 Жыл бұрын
@@Ben256MB You didn't lie, fam!
@Ben256MB Жыл бұрын
@@egbuzobimichael5643 Yeah bro , don't listen to dating advice from women because they will turn you against your natural desires that is to get with women who sexually desire you . You have to mention sex and be direct about it because it's useless talking to women and dating women don't find you sexually desirable . The major contributing factor to men who have sexless marriages is the first time they met their wives . They didn't try to find out if their wives are truly sexually attracted to them . Let me tell you something that women would admit " if a woman doesn't want to have sex when you want to have sex " She's not sexually attracted to you and you should cut her off !!
@michaelmarisio5208 Жыл бұрын
You need money because without cash.....ladies careless they will go to whoever pleases them.
@NwaHarmony-tj1sb Жыл бұрын
Thanks I have leant alot lately have been watching your videos
@simonmaponza Жыл бұрын
Excellent, I really learnt a lot
@dwightcl7 Жыл бұрын
You are glowing, I love that🥰
@chinonsoagu1464 Жыл бұрын
You are so amazing Ijay. Thanks for sharing this sweet tips 👍👍
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Thanks as always 😊
@JoeselSmithTv_ Жыл бұрын
Learned a lot thank you
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Smith 😊
@olalekanagesin1113 Жыл бұрын
Men just need respect from their women and any other things are secondary
@dadakeshinro6749 Жыл бұрын
Spot on, just the right sensible thing 👍
@childofzion6314 Жыл бұрын
Thanks alot my beloved sister l real love your advice
@DJBM123R Жыл бұрын
Yeaa yeaa,i must be superman😂😂😂😂 on first impression 😂😂😂😂
@wusenialijaff1668 Жыл бұрын
beautiful points
@m77ast Жыл бұрын
Too much makeup my sister. It scares me. Love the natural hair. God is the greatest artist.
@michaeloluwafemi7808 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@DaveOndiekAaron85 Жыл бұрын
This Is Me Honestly... It Has Landed Me In The A Lot Of Problem. No Woman Can Resist Me, I'm Very Tired Of Women 😣
@egbuzobimichael5643 Жыл бұрын
Are you serious? Update boys, my man.
@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.2841 Жыл бұрын
Say you bi god orrrrr.
@davidafia3747 Жыл бұрын
your money did the wonders
@Sovenaray8 ай бұрын
Dey play
@hwatachikuvanyanga9130 Жыл бұрын
The great question that has never been answered is What does a woman really want?
@KACTV18 ай бұрын
Wahala Oo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@chillushio Жыл бұрын
All facts...thank you for sharing.
@IJayNedum Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Tobi😊
@adekunleomoobaorun4749 Жыл бұрын
Owo nikan lemo
@BangerzHeadQuarters Жыл бұрын
Love from Ghana ❤️❤️
@AGBARANLA Жыл бұрын
I should stay at the danger side to be a gentle man? Are you playing? Lol
@leonardquayeteyquaynor7317 Жыл бұрын
For personal reasons, I don't feel safe taking relationship lessons from a lady. They've something in common.
@wewekumamot Жыл бұрын
I totally disagree with your sentiments. My grandmother "Old school" always reminded us when we were growing up that your "heart, mind and soul" are the key drivers to relationship/s and not appearance. But FYI you're free to air your personal views. You've got to be authentic, like be yourself as a person. That's why you find majority of African people when they go abroad to white people countries they get confused. I rest my case/argument.
@abimbolaelufisan5913 Жыл бұрын
Great video, love you dear❤❤❤❤❤
@collince1503 Жыл бұрын
All you are saying is true,but putting in practice is another reality to face.
@danielokelo2903 Жыл бұрын
Powerful piece
@chisomehirim4386 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video
@kasikasivendjinn5345 Жыл бұрын
Appearance, not looks, NOT looks! No excuses lads!
@Infamous1892 Жыл бұрын
Be a Gentleman = Put in the Friendzone. Just be your true authentic self.
@egbuzobimichael5643 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@Sovenaray8 ай бұрын
True
@042Coins Жыл бұрын
Be financially fit and save yourself the stress.. nothing more 😅
@mrmoe110 Жыл бұрын
You don’t want a woman who’s mainly into you because of money. She’ll cheat on you with the guy that does the things mentioned in this video