How to Out Smart their Games: 1- Detach Emotionally, “they are testing you” Stay Calm, & Composed. 2- Recognizing behavioral patterns, “Hot & Cold Behavior, push/ pull”. 3- Set Boundaries Early, “Show Self Respect”. Calmly tell her you don’t accept bad behaviors. 4- Stay Calm under Pressure, “Don’t get Provoked & Refuse to React”. 5- Focus on Long Term Goals, “don’t let her petty mind games consume you”. 6- Avoid Emotional Retaliation, “Don’t React, Don’t take the Bait”. Stay Calm. 7- Communicate Clearly and Firmly without drama, “ I’ve noticed you’re acting differently, I’m not sure what’s going on but I’d like to know if we need to talk about it”. 8- Priorities your own Mental Peace, “know your own Values”. U R #1 9- Practice Patience, “don’t Crack under Pressure = Confidence. 10- Choose When to Walk Away & Mean it. You don’t need her Validations.
@josephharderman7472 ай бұрын
Thank you friend you're awesome for the timestamp great job
@sam-r8m8w2 ай бұрын
Awesome. Thank you
@StoicMindStudio2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this detailed list! These strategies are truly practical and align well with principles of emotional intelligence and self-respect. Staying calm, composed, and focusing on long-term goals are especially valuable reminders. I appreciate the emphasis on clear communication and setting boundaries-it’s a balanced approach that avoids unnecessary drama while maintaining self-worth. A great guide for navigating challenging dynamics!
@TheStoicSage3652 ай бұрын
Solid advice! Emotional detachment and self-respect are crucial when dealing with manipulative behavior. It’s about staying grounded and refusing to let someone else dictate your emotional state. Prioritizing mental peace and long-term goals not only helps you outsmart games but also builds unshakable confidence. Well said-knowing when to walk away with grace is the ultimate power move. 💡💪
@davidnewsome91472 ай бұрын
Thank you for listening and writing it down. I’ll now go over it 10x. You sped read for me ❤️🙏
@PhilosophicStoic2 ай бұрын
True value lies not in winning emotional games, but in self-mastery, self-respect, and the courage to walk away when necessary.
@DennisMuleya-k8yАй бұрын
This video has just made me realize the mistake that I have been making over a woman that I really love. She used to care and used to text me frequently, but all the suddenly she has changed and I've been overthinking about it. Thinking that I have lost the value to her. But now I have gotten the greatest weapon to deal with this situation. Am really grateful for that. ❤
@defyingtyranny568222 күн бұрын
You got this! Power up bro
@richar56811 күн бұрын
Me too mr @DennisMuleya I'm just finding out about this one
@SilvianoValencia-z1wАй бұрын
I have learned so much with the internet from cooking to relationships and how to handle them. I wished i had all this when i was younger. I am now 64 yrs old and no longer interested. I am single have my own home and 2 German shepherds and working on being retired. I have peace and happiness. If i meet a women now shes going to have to give me more of what i have not less. Grateful for what i have. Good luck boys!
@jpowell260322 күн бұрын
That's awesome! Happy for you brother.
@natural974312 күн бұрын
🎉
@thembaclarence68212 ай бұрын
This is what we do easily to women we don't love in other words women are drawn to men who don't love them, because its very hard to behave like this if you're inlove
@gregorystanley48702 ай бұрын
This is how it’s always worked for me. When I truly don’t care they are putty in my hand usually. When I really do, I don’t get what I want.
@SilvianoValencia-z1wАй бұрын
@@gregorystanley4870Right on! So never show your true feelings until you both have had enuff of the bullshit.
@NewBlackWorldOrderАй бұрын
As simply said as possible.
@shawnsalmon5653Ай бұрын
So true!!
@peterrus22497 күн бұрын
1:23 control dont play a long
@TATZELWURMFORSAKENАй бұрын
The best is still, let them go. Detach from them. Leave them to fend for themselves and focus only on your life.
@StoicQuotes36526 күн бұрын
Stoicism isn’t just about handling games; it’s a way to reclaim control over your own emotions and priorities. Loved how this video emphasizes becoming the best version of yourself instead of seeking validation from others. 🔥
@belateepertin71182 күн бұрын
Excellent presentation
@woodendummyboxing10 күн бұрын
The most important relationship you have is the one with yourself. I love this quote.
@MrAdumitrescu2 ай бұрын
If she wants to test me like this then she can be single forever.😂
@bozidarkrejci5791Ай бұрын
All women test, you can't run from that. It's natural and reasonable. She has to look for a provider
@MrAdumitrescuАй бұрын
@bozidarkrejci5791 I think she is testing not because they look for a provider but because they are all materialistic.
@MR_nobody_exe9 күн бұрын
Just reverse the roles brother. Test her instead 😉
@apreds3 ай бұрын
why wasn't I exposed to this information 20 years ago?? this is so on point.
@IamStoicMindset3 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it.
@superstar382 ай бұрын
true!!!!
@lennartvdsluijs2 ай бұрын
Right
@davidhilliard1838Ай бұрын
It's like finding buried treasure this information
@StoicRelationships-OfficialАй бұрын
Wow, these strategies don’t just empower men in relationships-they're a guide to personal growth and self-mastery. Prioritizing self-respect and well-being is a game-changer. 🔥💪
@jeizero2 ай бұрын
The best thing to do is dump someone who plays any games in the first place . Dont waste your time with someone who is trying to control you and you beat the whole game.
@IamStoicMindset2 ай бұрын
Absolutely, you're so right! Thanks for sharing this solid advice-no one should settle for less than respect and honesty! 🙌😊
@echota23Ай бұрын
The only way to win is not to play, back away from the board and go somewhere else.
@StoicQuotes36526 күн бұрын
The reminder that 'patience and boundaries are key' really hit home. True strength lies in mastering yourself, not reacting to every test thrown your way. Grateful for the wisdom shared here!
@StoicQuotes36526 күн бұрын
This video perfectly encapsulates the power of emotional detachment and self-mastery. It's not about winning a game-it's about respecting yourself enough to walk away from one. Powerful message for anyone navigating relationships. 👏
@chrishillsmediatv2 ай бұрын
You're just helping Chris Hills right. This information is in fact timely and I'm super appreciative of these powerful bullet proofs. Frankly speaking, I've been naturally applying almost all these strategies in my relationship but with doubts of whether I'm on the right track or not but you've just validated them and thwarted my doubts.
@StoicRelationships-OfficialАй бұрын
The emphasis on emotional detachment and stoicism here is truly enlightening. Mastering your own emotions is such a powerful life skill-not just in relationships but across the board. 💡👏
@vetbossmediaАй бұрын
Jesus is the true answer. The Bible says houses are an inheritance of fathers but a faithful wife is an inheritance from the Lord. Fix your relationship with God and the rest will follow. The Bible also says, seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and all else will be added.
@isaacquintanilla363113 күн бұрын
Thanks
@marquisd.486712 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@ChristianJoabCBalucio11 күн бұрын
Godbless!!!!!!!
@ChristianJoabCBalucio11 күн бұрын
Its Crucial!!!!!!!
@MichelGingrasCD7 күн бұрын
of course not, you dont even know who jesus is you domb foks
@TheThoughtCompass-vnm29 күн бұрын
The visuals and explanations in this video are top-notch. It’s amazing how you simplify complex Stoic ideas without losing their depth
@eyaalem79907 күн бұрын
This is for me. Last week I confront my lazy coworker that he should do his responsibility so I do not over work by covering his part. I was afraid to talk to him then after two weeks I talk to him and he was very defensive and he mentioned how great he was. He just talk with a loud voice for about 15 minute disrespecting me and our Bose’s how mean we are and I was silent not knowing what to say. And finally I told him that I am here to work as a team not accusing him. After that day his behavior changed in a good way, at least he is doing half of his responsibilities. Of course I reported to our supervisor. I was kinda a nice guy, but I am so tired now. I just want to be a real human being.
@stoicismmotivation_official2 ай бұрын
When she plays games, play none. A Stoic knows the greatest move is stepping away with dignity. Let actions-not emotions-speak for you.
@LCRLive68720 күн бұрын
Bro if she has 2 faces you get 3. We are not robots
@Autosemantic9 күн бұрын
it comes from the most sincerest inner truth and within the best intentions of the Heart to be willing to let go and walk away
@OluwadamilareBabalola-sn8ts2 ай бұрын
This has been the video i listen to without ,forwarding it. Thanks.
@AziEmmanuel-f6p8 күн бұрын
This is so much to learn from, thanks❤
@stunna49462 ай бұрын
This is perfect, im doing this already and can tell you this works everytime
@StephanieStucker-c8m2 ай бұрын
This is all a bunch of b******* just be a good f****** humans treat the other ways you want to be treated. Period.
@joshuajohn3960Ай бұрын
THE LONG GAME ALWAYS WINS 💪💯
@dub19512 ай бұрын
This is how I handled myself in my last relationship may I add walk away sooner than later protect your mental wellbeing at all costs love is a misunderstanding between two fools know when to hold them and know when to fold them
@StoicQuotes36524 күн бұрын
Stoicism is such a powerful mindset for navigating relationships and life. Learning to stay calm under pressure and prioritize your own well-being is something every man should practice. Great insights in this video!
@CaptainVelveeta2 ай бұрын
Kind of a double edge sword here. It's nice to hear situations that are so accurate and solutions that are so simple and logical but I'm the example of what not to do in all these situations.. The good news: It's NEVER to late to learn.
@StoicQuotes36524 күн бұрын
The idea of walking away with quiet confidence hits hard. It’s not about manipulation-it’s about self-respect and knowing your worth. A message every man should take to heart. Thanks for sharing these timeless principles!
@tashoguyo558319 күн бұрын
May God keep you alive forever so that you teach us forever thank you sir
@justicechampion555514 күн бұрын
It's a woman behind that male video voice...😂🤣😁
@AncientEducation221254 күн бұрын
I really like how you combine Stoic philosophy with dealing with relationship players. I think focusing on self-development and living a meaningful life is key to avoiding being taken advantage of. Can you say more about how to develop self-confidence and self-reliance?
@berizdrav9422 ай бұрын
It's peek when you can function alone. Ultimate freedom.
@jonathancousins11212 ай бұрын
Peek is like taking a look. Peak is the summit of a mountain. It's peak.
@stoicharmonyus2 ай бұрын
This video does an excellent job of showing how Stoicism can help us navigate complex relationship dynamics with wisdom and resilience. The idea of using Stoic principles to remain calm, avoid emotional turbulence, and not play into mind games is so empowering. It’s a reminder that we always have control over our reactions and that true strength lies in maintaining our peace regardless of external circumstances. This is a must-watch for anyone looking to take charge of their emotional well-being!
@tompanek751123 күн бұрын
The last few minutes are all you need to know. Excellent advice!
@AncientWisdomChannelАй бұрын
This video was a game-changer for me! Learning to detach emotionally and prioritize my well-being has made such a difference in how I handle relationships. To anyone reading this, I wish you the strength to know your worth, the clarity to set boundaries, and the peace that comes from mastering your emotions. 😊
@mrpushrod92793 ай бұрын
This is helpful. I've had to deal with at least half of the things on this list which has just made me generally disinterested in forming meaningful serious relationships with women. It's just not worth the aggravation. I wish I would have known this kind of thing about 10 or heck even 20 years ago.
@TheStoicGoddess-i3l3 ай бұрын
In my opinion! To navigate a woman playing games with your heart, focus on self-awareness and emotional resilience. Recognize that no one enjoys mind games; prioritize your well-being by blocking negatives. Understand the complexities of women, valuing emotional sensitivity. Faithfulness is rare; seek genuine connections. Remember, life is too short for unnecessary drama.
@lazatinfamilyvlogs9573 ай бұрын
I love my self and my family so much , I love you so so so much my saiz family . I’m letting the universe know about this! I love you forever and ever my saiz family amen 🙏 God is with us always and God will never leave our side, Amen 🙏 ❤
@IamStoicMindset3 ай бұрын
Love it
@StoicQuotes3653 ай бұрын
Patience is such an underrated quality, especially when handling games. Staying calm, composed, and focused on long-term goals can flip the entire dynamic. Anyone else notice how much stronger they feel when they practice this?
@EbibieMatthew20 күн бұрын
Wow, facing exactly this, thank god I saw this video
@BenjieRodriguez-p5x3 ай бұрын
On other words that’s just the very nature of women. Detach and stay that way detached , detached, a pointless test is never ever ever worth taking ..😮❤
@StoicQuotes3653 ай бұрын
Setting boundaries early on is a game changer. Not only does it command respect, but it sets the tone for healthy relationships. The power of walking away with confidence is something I think more people need to realize. Who's ready to reclaim their self-respect?
@TheStoicBeacon-TGG2 ай бұрын
Detachment can be important for protecting your peace, but it’s also essential to approach relationships with empathy and communication. Not everything is a test-sometimes, real connections require openness.
@mikigoddess55312 ай бұрын
If one is going to set a boundary they must first set a healthy boundary and not a toxic boundary and second, they must not be displaying a breach of such boundary themselves as if it's ok for them to do something but not in for me to do the same. It's hypocritical and mean and toxic in the first place. Boundary settings are for the person who sets them to change their behavior not to control another person's actions.people these days have no clue how to properly set healthy boundaries for themselves.
@koodiE974Ай бұрын
Well said @@mikigoddess5531
@TonyTone1Ай бұрын
They aren’t women, but girls. A mature woman has sensitivity, empathy and is straight forward not to mislead or hurt another person in most cases. If woman plays mind games in the beginning of dating, drop her like a hot 🥵 potato she can’t be trusted not a good woman forget about how sexy and pretty she is.
@InnerStoic.official16 күн бұрын
Wow, this video is incredibly insightful and thought-provoking! The speaker does a great job breaking down complex emotional dynamics and offering practical, stoic strategies to navigate relationships with confidence and self-respect. The emphasis on mastering one's emotions rather than reacting impulsively is a powerful reminder to focus on personal growth and long-term goals. I particularly appreciated how the advice promotes self-respect and emotional independence while staying grounded. 👏 Great work on delivering such valuable content!
@Universeknight10055Ай бұрын
Very helpful video. I learn something new. I look forward see more videos.
@richar56811 күн бұрын
Yes me too I learned something tonight I'll be watching more
@sillylize30562 ай бұрын
I tried one of the suggestions, and it worked. Thank you
@Kangaba-n4sАй бұрын
I feel my self easy and stronger Thanks my Master
@geoffreyminda8876Ай бұрын
Much appreciation ❤
@matthewsumma3 ай бұрын
Good stuff thank you
@KINGEDRINE-g6o2 ай бұрын
Thank you stotic for the wisdom 🙏❤️❤️💙😌
@timothyopthof77342 ай бұрын
I must always remain calm.
@JacksonJohnpet2 ай бұрын
In all; I think for these stoic instructions to manifest in one's life, one must be intentional about it. Not just doing this for her, but, yourself. ☕
@winstoic_offical2 ай бұрын
"It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." - Epictetus
@mahadiademnur2 ай бұрын
Very helpful. Thanks for sharing this wisdom !
@IamStoicMindset2 ай бұрын
Hope You Enjoyed it! Thank you!!
@ntegemuhamad-x5y27 күн бұрын
Thanks 4 dt information
@VenerSupan24 күн бұрын
Thank you very Much Sir, I Love to Become a Stoic Men Firm and Calm, Thank You for The Knowledge and Power of Stoic Philosophy 💪😊
@moomouse667618 күн бұрын
Detach is your best route of method anymore
@aqeelabbas8682 ай бұрын
You are saving lives , very Weldon
@OscarRobert-x1m3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for the impact
@IamStoicMindset3 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@KennethBrown-eu2vw2 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing
@StoicCorner-g8z3 ай бұрын
"The Stoic Formula for Winning the Game of Love: Don't chase, don't run, and absolutely don't play games for the 'push-pull' game!
@Michael-ju8ks2 ай бұрын
Be who you really are. If she accepts and loves you - good. If not - let her go. But first you must accept and love yourself.
@emmanuelnwankpa47527 күн бұрын
Incredible advice for Men and Poetic yaaa
@StoicQuotes3653 ай бұрын
The concept of emotional detachment really resonated with me-mastering your own emotions is the ultimate game-changer. Stoicism isn’t just about dealing with relationships, it's about building inner peace and control over life’s chaos. Who else is applying these principles beyond dating?
@ravibabu233Ай бұрын
Thank you soooo much for great suggestions. She tried to play with me. Initally i did all the mistakes like chasing and begging her for love. She came back half hearted and i felt bad and say good bye. Now every time I feel sad or depressed....!!!! I am watching your videos
@VirgelSmith-k2jАй бұрын
So true
@chrisjohnson53632 ай бұрын
The first words of this video were exactly my little ordeal
@IamStoicMindset2 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoyed it!
@nur-gf6qg2 ай бұрын
Watching this as a bi woman so I can also outsmart other women thanks man I appreciate it 💗
@bruhman5thfloor6442 ай бұрын
Oh Lord🤦
@andreverdad7070Ай бұрын
Sorry, This lesson is for real man not for BIs
@picshdtkАй бұрын
Thanks so much more videos please
@dw2920Ай бұрын
Basically you’re saying throw away the anger & negativity inside of you. Never feel hurt & always act like an emotionless robot… impossible if you’re a human.
@kingrich14643 ай бұрын
I trust I agree I believe and I received I decree and declare by fire and by force in the mighty name of Jesus thank you and amen Richard Robert Simmons jr
@shumbaprosper23 күн бұрын
Helpful ❤
@normal-dude4112 ай бұрын
Great video.
@TheStoicSage365Ай бұрын
True strength lies in emotional discipline. Outsmarting isn't about playing games back; it's about knowing your worth, setting boundaries, and staying true to your principles.
@KellieMontanoАй бұрын
Men Too!! Is this where they learned it from Women? Cool
@DiegoRomalo2 ай бұрын
this is the real words thank U verry much 🤜🤛
@TaoAkavong2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video's " i have learn all those thing or been listen to it before, everything's in this video's is the truth words of storic " if you no all of this words from storic " you will achive all of those thing in life " thank you very much " storic " ❤ it "
@TwansiShemy2 ай бұрын
Ive been doing this the opposite way omg ive lost already !! What should i do 😢
@JoeFlores-u7g2 ай бұрын
Never too late
@davidsheeran5144Ай бұрын
Important social advice on romantic relationships. Women Emotional games in dating relationships with men. Men value self confidence, emotional values to not play as fools to long trem agreements
@DaRochaFrimpongАй бұрын
This is deep
@williammccarthy71872 ай бұрын
Patients is a tuff virtue practice, practice, practice and continue to practice til your no longer breathing.
@mattnazari74392 ай бұрын
Thx
@mumiagodfrey62803 ай бұрын
Great ❤
@allensingleton91622 ай бұрын
Purpose. Peace and your pockets stay focused
@zunykemedia99582 ай бұрын
I love this strategy Thanks
@MrWhaatay8 күн бұрын
Let me save you all some time. If she plays games, ghost her. One week the woman who showed interest in me had her hands all over me saying how she hadn't seen me all week. A week later she tells me she is busy and blows me off by walking away as I was talking to her. I immediately ghosted her and she never reached out. It's been 10 months. If they play games they aren't into you.
@Clarence-s9q2 ай бұрын
She is using our 3 year old son and every time she can't have her way then I can't see him or talk to my son. So I'm gonna try to be silent and patient
@eddygan3252 ай бұрын
This is the superior man
@mikaeladisse8641Ай бұрын
how early in the relationship should I set boundaries? im 4-5 months in feels kind of early
@M33-ix2nmАй бұрын
As early as she starts misbehaving
@UnmaskingTheShadow24 күн бұрын
🔥 This video is a game-changer! It’s not about 'outsmarting' women in a manipulative way-it’s about mastering yourself through the power of stoicism and emotional control. 💪 Too many men fall into the trap of reacting to emotional games like ghosting, breadcrumbing, or mind games. But here’s the truth: when you learn to stay calm, composed, and centered, you can rise above the chaos and reclaim your power. What I love about this video is the emphasis on self-mastery rather than playing into the drama. Stoicism teaches us that true confidence comes from within, not from reacting to external events. By setting strong boundaries and walking away from unnecessary games, you not only preserve your dignity but also transform into a man of unshakable confidence. 💯 At Unmasking The Shadow, we focus a lot on building internal strength and being aware of patterns in life-whether with relationships, social dynamics, or personal growth. This video aligns perfectly with that philosophy. 🌱 It’s all about taking control of your emotions and turning situations that might normally frustrate you into opportunities for growth and empowerment. Ready to stop feeling manipulated and start walking through life like a true king🙂 This is the path.
@neu77732 ай бұрын
Street summary: "Leave that ho alone and move on" 😂
@suzanbesimi6767Ай бұрын
I have a boyfriend that does exactly that exactly what you're saying women to play games he ghosts me for days and weeks at a time
@trevorblair9062Ай бұрын
I said this: I know your schedule can be hectic, but I do value proper communication at times. Followed by this: What's the best compliment I've given you that you smile thinking about it? She calls me, after ignoring me for hours, saying: "don't do that." And we finally talked for an hour.
@AlexBitrus-fd9ct17 күн бұрын
What if her petty mind games is to snub your text and reply when she wants, what do you do? Do same or do what?
@BeingTailore-w3v2 ай бұрын
What about incident in love b4 meeting stoicism Channel?
@Russell-pe8xn24 күн бұрын
How about me, as a man, i decided no contact, and it made me a better person, even tho i slept in my car for a year...i played her game for 5 yrs. And her jobless 41 yr. Old narcissist son...i left a pig sty full of jobless people, one month after i fled their electricity got cut off , water cut off...i knew exactly what would happen...i documented every thing,and 90% of what i wrote, was pretty much verbatim to what my psychologist had told me..
@oluyemiolukunlealphacode86962 ай бұрын
How do you apply all this tactics in a long distance relationship, where you don't know what is happening around her overthere.
@EtaJosefАй бұрын
Don't try long distance relationship. It will only make you cry. Why will you practice long distance relationship when they are women around you that you can date?
@mgtowcomment1367Ай бұрын
Rationalizing (excusing) "tests" that never end? How about asking yourself what is the benefit of enduring over walking away.
@ronaldsmith7003Ай бұрын
This is good information, but it doesn't address the element that some people are childish
@edwinhunnet26662 ай бұрын
if you’re truly valuable(with real assets and money making knowledge) then you will be to get positive results from these lesson. If you’re broke and lazy a girl will disrespect you and leave your ass with zero remorse. It takes a long time and effort to get to this level. Accept that you’re a loser and start grinding. Girls like winners.
@theIssue-ttАй бұрын
@edwinhunnet2666 youre so right....a bunch of broke guys with no plan will come here thinking that these rules apply to them😂. Women may play games but most times they dont take men seriously is because these men have no plan and are not taking actions to change. They want women in their lives but are not willing to do the work and thinks that women should endure their BS
@NdaMesachAzah2 ай бұрын
Great
@RochParent-e9v2 ай бұрын
Every 😊so. TRUE ZTHANKS Roch❤😊🎉
@AnthonyDavila-n5q5 күн бұрын
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@ChrisGroggyCreaser3 ай бұрын
Thanks for This news!!... :)
@AlanCornett-vm7bd19 күн бұрын
I got one that I text her and she won't text for 20.minutes sometimes and hour
@moomouse667618 күн бұрын
You gotta know when you say hey i'm worth more than this
@awalabo43763 ай бұрын
Good stuff
@IamStoicMindset3 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed
@sirbeast25404 күн бұрын
anyone else never had any of these happen to them?