How To Outsmart Any Woman Playing Games with Your Heart | Stoicism

[@SilvianoValencia-z1w]

I have learned so much with the internet from cooking to relationships and how to handle them. I wished i had all this when i was younger. I am now 64 yrs old and no longer interested. I am single have my own home and 2 German shepherds and working on being retired. I have peace and happiness. If i meet a women now shes going to have to give me more of what i have not less. Grateful for what i have. Good luck boys!

[@m.etezadidds.mscd.endodo-ze5mw]

How to Out Smart their Games: 1- Detach Emotionally, “they are testing you” Stay Calm, & Composed. 2- Recognizing behavioral patterns, “Hot & Cold Behavior, push/ pull”. 3- Set Boundaries Early, “Show Self Respect”. Calmly tell her you don’t accept bad behaviors. 4- Stay Calm under Pressure, “Don’t get Provoked & Refuse to React”. 5- Focus on Long Term Goals, “don’t let her petty mind games consume you”. 6- Avoid Emotional Retaliation, “Don’t React, Don’t take the Bait”. Stay Calm. 7- Communicate Clearly and Firmly without drama, “ I’ve noticed you’re acting differently, I’m not sure what’s going on but I’d like to know if we need to talk about it”. 8- Priorities your own Mental Peace, “know your own Values”. U R #1 9- Practice Patience, “don’t Crack under Pressure = Confidence. 10- Choose When to Walk Away & Mean it. You don’t need her Validations.

[@josephharderman747]

Thank you friend you're awesome for the timestamp great job

[@sam-r8m8w]

Awesome. Thank you

[@StoicMindStudio]

Thank you for sharing this detailed list! These strategies are truly practical and align well with principles of emotional intelligence and self-respect. Staying calm, composed, and focusing on long-term goals are especially valuable reminders. I appreciate the emphasis on clear communication and setting boundaries-it’s a balanced approach that avoids unnecessary drama while maintaining self-worth. A great guide for navigating challenging dynamics!

[@TheStoicSage365]

Solid advice! Emotional detachment and self-respect are crucial when dealing with manipulative behavior. It’s about staying grounded and refusing to let someone else dictate your emotional state. Prioritizing mental peace and long-term goals not only helps you outsmart games but also builds unshakable confidence. Well said-knowing when to walk away with grace is the ultimate power move. 💡💪

[@davidnewsome9147]

Thank you for listening and writing it down. I’ll now go over it 10x. You sped read for me ❤️🙏

[@StoicRelationships-Official]

The emphasis on emotional detachment and stoicism here is truly enlightening. Mastering your own emotions is such a powerful life skill-not just in relationships but across the board. 💡👏

[@PhilosophicStoic]

True value lies not in winning emotional games, but in self-mastery, self-respect, and the courage to walk away when necessary.

[@DennisMuleya-k8y]

This video has just made me realize the mistake that I have been making over a woman that I really love. She used to care and used to text me frequently, but all the suddenly she has changed and I've been overthinking about it. Thinking that I have lost the value to her. But now I have gotten the greatest weapon to deal with this situation. Am really grateful for that. ❤

[@TATZELWURMFORSAKEN]

The best is still, let them go. Detach from them. Leave them to fend for themselves and focus only on your life.

[@omegawisdom]

This video was a game-changer for me! Learning to detach emotionally and prioritize my well-being has made such a difference in how I handle relationships. To anyone reading this, I wish you the strength to know your worth, the clarity to set boundaries, and the peace that comes from mastering your emotions. 😊

[@apreds]

why wasn't I exposed to this information 20 years ago?? this is so on point.

[@IamStoicMindset]

Glad you liked it.

[@superstar38]

true!!!!

[@lennartvdsluijs]

Right

[@JesusLovesTheLittlePiggies]

Tech platforms used to ban how-to tutorials for domestic violence.

[@davidhilliard1838]

It's like finding buried treasure this information

[@chrishillsmediatv]

You're just helping Chris Hills right. This information is in fact timely and I'm super appreciative of these powerful bullet proofs. Frankly speaking, I've been naturally applying almost all these strategies in my relationship but with doubts of whether I'm on the right track or not but you've just validated them and thwarted my doubts.

[@Universeknight10055]

Very helpful video. I learn something new. I look forward see more videos.

[@dub1951]

This is how I handled myself in my last relationship may I add walk away sooner than later protect your mental wellbeing at all costs love is a misunderstanding between two fools know when to hold them and know when to fold them

[@stunna4946]

This is perfect, im doing this already and can tell you this works everytime

[@StephanieStucker-c8m]

This is all a bunch of b******* just be a good f****** humans treat the other ways you want to be treated. Period.

[@CaptainVelveeta]

Kind of a double edge sword here. It's nice to hear situations that are so accurate and solutions that are so simple and logical but I'm the example of what not to do in all these situations.. The good news: It's NEVER to late to learn.

[@OluwadamilareBabalola-sn8ts]

This has been the video i listen to without ,forwarding it. Thanks.

[@jeizero]

The best thing to do is dump someone who plays any games in the first place . Dont waste your time with someone who is trying to control you and you beat the whole game.

[@IamStoicMindset]

Absolutely, you're so right! Thanks for sharing this solid advice-no one should settle for less than respect and honesty! 🙌😊

[@echota23]

The only way to win is not to play, back away from the board and go somewhere else.

[@thembaclarence6821]

This is what we do easily to women we don't love in other words women are drawn to men who don't love them, because its very hard to behave like this if you're inlove

[@gregorystanley4870]

This is how it’s always worked for me. When I truly don’t care they are putty in my hand usually. When I really do, I don’t get what I want.

[@SilvianoValencia-z1w]

​@@gregorystanley4870Right on! So never show your true feelings until you both have had enuff of the bullshit.

[@WealthTracker]

As simply said as possible.

[@shawnsalmon5653]

So true!!

[@sillylize3056]

I tried one of the suggestions, and it worked. Thank you

[@berizdrav942]

It's peek when you can function alone. Ultimate freedom.

[@jonathancousins1121]

Peek is like taking a look. Peak is the summit of a mountain. It's peak.

[@lazatinfamilyvlogs957]

I love my self and my family so much , I love you so so so much my saiz family . I’m letting the universe know about this! I love you forever and ever my saiz family amen 🙏 God is with us always and God will never leave our side, Amen 🙏 ❤

[@IamStoicMindset]

Love it

[@StoicQuotes365]

Patience is such an underrated quality, especially when handling games. Staying calm, composed, and focused on long-term goals can flip the entire dynamic. Anyone else notice how much stronger they feel when they practice this?

[@Kangaba-n4s]

I feel my self easy and stronger Thanks my Master

[@TheStoicGoddess-i3l]

In my opinion! To navigate a woman playing games with your heart, focus on self-awareness and emotional resilience. Recognize that no one enjoys mind games; prioritize your well-being by blocking negatives. Understand the complexities of women, valuing emotional sensitivity. Faithfulness is rare; seek genuine connections. Remember, life is too short for unnecessary drama.

[@BenjieRodriguez-p5x]

On other words that’s just the very nature of women. Detach and stay that way detached , detached, a pointless test is never ever ever worth taking ..😮❤

[@StoicQuotes365]

Setting boundaries early on is a game changer. Not only does it command respect, but it sets the tone for healthy relationships. The power of walking away with confidence is something I think more people need to realize. Who's ready to reclaim their self-respect?

[@TheStoicBeacon-TGG]

Detachment can be important for protecting your peace, but it’s also essential to approach relationships with empathy and communication. Not everything is a test-sometimes, real connections require openness.

[@mikigoddess5531]

If one is going to set a boundary they must first set a healthy boundary and not a toxic boundary and second, they must not be displaying a breach of such boundary themselves as if it's ok for them to do something but not in for me to do the same. It's hypocritical and mean and toxic in the first place. Boundary settings are for the person who sets them to change their behavior not to control another person's actions.people these days have no clue how to properly set healthy boundaries for themselves.

[@koodiE974]

Well said ​@@mikigoddess5531

[@TonyTone1]

They aren’t women, but girls. A mature woman has sensitivity, empathy and is straight forward not to mislead or hurt another person in most cases. If woman plays mind games in the beginning of dating, drop her like a hot 🥵 potato she can’t be trusted not a good woman forget about how sexy and pretty she is.

[@stoicismmotivation_official]

When she plays games, play none. A Stoic knows the greatest move is stepping away with dignity. Let actions-not emotions-speak for you.

[@KINGEDRINE-g6o]

Thank you stotic for the wisdom 🙏❤️❤️💙😌

[@MrAdumitrescu]

If she wants to test me like this then she can be single forever.😂

[@bozidarkrejci5791]

All women test, you can't run from that. It's natural and reasonable. She has to look for a provider

[@MrAdumitrescu]

@bozidarkrejci5791 I think she is testing not because they look for a provider but because they are all materialistic.

[@RobertSolensky]

All true..i became tired of this woman thinking she was smarter than i was..i straight up told her,babe,icant be manipulated,u cant make me do what u want..she didnt say a word,got up &went to neighbors house '4aride to her already manipulated friend..

[@IamStoicMindset]

It sounds like you set some firm boundaries and made it clear you’re not easily swayed-good on you for standing your ground! Sometimes, being straightforward is the only way to keep things honest. How did it feel to speak your mind like that?

[@mrpushrod9279]

This is helpful. I've had to deal with at least half of the things on this list which has just made me generally disinterested in forming meaningful serious relationships with women. It's just not worth the aggravation. I wish I would have known this kind of thing about 10 or heck even 20 years ago.

[@mahadiademnur]

Very helpful. Thanks for sharing this wisdom !

[@IamStoicMindset]

Hope You Enjoyed it! Thank you!!

[@geoffreyminda8876]

Much appreciation ❤

[@joshuajohn3960]

THE LONG GAME ALWAYS WINS 💪💯

[@stoicharmonyus]

This video does an excellent job of showing how Stoicism can help us navigate complex relationship dynamics with wisdom and resilience. The idea of using Stoic principles to remain calm, avoid emotional turbulence, and not play into mind games is so empowering. It’s a reminder that we always have control over our reactions and that true strength lies in maintaining our peace regardless of external circumstances. This is a must-watch for anyone looking to take charge of their emotional well-being!

[@picshdtk]

Thanks so much more videos please

[@OscarRobert-x1m]

Thank you very much for the impact

[@IamStoicMindset]

Glad it was helpful!

[@JacksonJohnpet]

In all; I think for these stoic instructions to manifest in one's life, one must be intentional about it. Not just doing this for her, but, yourself. ☕

[@Michael-ju8ks]

Be who you really are. If she accepts and loves you - good. If not - let her go. But first you must accept and love yourself.

[@matthewsumma]

Good stuff thank you

[@aqeelabbas868]

You are saving lives , very Weldon

[@timothyopthof7734]

I must always remain calm.

[@StoicQuotes365]

The concept of emotional detachment really resonated with me-mastering your own emotions is the ultimate game-changer. Stoicism isn’t just about dealing with relationships, it's about building inner peace and control over life’s chaos. Who else is applying these principles beyond dating?

[@kingrich1464]

I trust I agree I believe and I received I decree and declare by fire and by force in the mighty name of Jesus thank you and amen Richard Robert Simmons jr

[@chrisjohnson5363]

The first words of this video were exactly my little ordeal

[@IamStoicMindset]

Hope you enjoyed it!

[@VirgelSmith-k2j]

So true

[@zunykemedia9958]

I love this strategy Thanks

[@KennethBrown-eu2vw]

thank you for sharing

[@StoicCorner-g8z]

"The Stoic Formula for Winning the Game of Love: Don't chase, don't run, and absolutely don't play games for the 'push-pull' game!

[@ravibabu233]

Thank you soooo much for great suggestions. She tried to play with me. Initally i did all the mistakes like chasing and begging her for love. She came back half hearted and i felt bad and say good bye. Now every time I feel sad or depressed....!!!! I am watching your videos

[@DiegoRomalo]

this is the real words thank U verry much 🤜🤛

[@winstoic_offical]

"It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." - Epictetus

[@TheStoicSage365]

True strength lies in emotional discipline. Outsmarting isn't about playing games back; it's about knowing your worth, setting boundaries, and staying true to your principles.

[@nur-gf6qg]

Watching this as a bi woman so I can also outsmart other women thanks man I appreciate it 💗

[@bruhman5thfloor644]

Oh Lord🤦

[@andreverdad7070]

Sorry, This lesson is for real man not for BIs

[@TaoAkavong]

Thank you for the video's " i have learn all those thing or been listen to it before, everything's in this video's is the truth words of storic " if you no all of this words from storic " you will achive all of those thing in life " thank you very much " storic " ❤ it "

[@davidsheeran5144]

Important social advice on romantic relationships. Women Emotional games in dating relationships with men. Men value self confidence, emotional values to not play as fools to long trem agreements

[@allensingleton9162]

Purpose. Peace and your pockets stay focused

[@trevorblair9062]

I said this: I know your schedule can be hectic, but I do value proper communication at times. Followed by this: What's the best compliment I've given you that you smile thinking about it? She calls me, after ignoring me for hours, saying: "don't do that." And we finally talked for an hour.

[@TwansiShemy]

Ive been doing this the opposite way omg ive lost already !! What should i do 😢

[@JoeFlores-u7g]

Never too late

[@DaRochaFrimpong]

This is deep

[@RochParent-e9v]

Every 😊so. TRUE ZTHANKS Roch❤😊🎉

[@williammccarthy7187]

Patients is a tuff virtue practice, practice, practice and continue to practice til your no longer breathing.

[@eddygan325]

This is the superior man

[@mumiagodfrey6280]

Great ❤

[@mattnazari7439]

Thx

[@KellieMontano]

Men Too!! Is this where they learned it from Women? Cool

[@normal-dude411]

Great video.

[@Clarence-s9q]

She is using our 3 year old son and every time she can't have her way then I can't see him or talk to my son. So I'm gonna try to be silent and patient

[@mikaeladisse8641]

how early in the relationship should I set boundaries? im 4-5 months in feels kind of early

[@M33-ix2nm]

As early as she starts misbehaving

[@dw2920]

Basically you’re saying throw away the anger & negativity inside of you. Never feel hurt & always act like an emotionless robot… impossible if you’re a human.

[@ronaldsmith7003]

This is good information, but it doesn't address the element that some people are childish

[@esocratis6562]

Great adaptation to modern confused times of ancient Greek wisdom and Stoic methodology . Great video , thanks for all the effort to refocus back to meaningful , significant things

[@StevenWDix]

Interesting discussion, I don't agree with it 100%, but I will certainly remember to keep these things in mind. What bothers me is I know some women will hear these things, attempt to replicate them, and self sabotage. Once they self sabotage, it is a lot easier to get played by players, because they are the ones that gave the advice in the first place?

[@CaptainVelveeta]

My friend, male or female, we ALL run the risk of being played by players.

[@theIssue-tt]

Youre concerned about this because you know that men play these games too😂. Men often dont want what they give.... both genders just need to practice maturity and seek out mature people...thats all.

[@mgtowcomment1367]

Rationalizing (excusing) "tests" that never end? How about asking yourself what is the benefit of enduring over walking away.

[@oluyemiolukunlealphacode8696]

How do you apply all this tactics in a long distance relationship, where you don't know what is happening around her overthere.

[@EtaJosef]

Don't try long distance relationship. It will only make you cry. Why will you practice long distance relationship when they are women around you that you can date?

[@precupmadalin]

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[@BeingTailore-w3v]

What about incident in love b4 meeting stoicism Channel?

[@JodiScott-e6f]

Today I am not going to let anyone disturb my peace.I am practicing patience, setting boundaries and I will never give up on me.

[@masalachaimasta]

A+ 10/10

[@IamStoicMindset]

Thank you!!

[@NdaMesachAzah]

Great

[@jeffblake1005]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@awalabo4376]

Good stuff

[@IamStoicMindset]

Glad you enjoyed

[@ChrisGroggyCreaser]

Thanks for This news!!... :)

[@koodiE974]

What happens when a man does all of this to a woman? Do we take these tips and do the the same back or does the relationship just get toxic, playing games etc? I am sincerely asking this because alot of this is ' narcissistic' behaviour. Some of us women want no games, just love and respect and are happy to have a balanced relationship with love and respect for eachother. Believe me. Not all of us are like that 🙂

[@brucemfvane4148]

Men don't play them games. This is based on female nature not male!!. And yes, you are all the same, just different degrees.

[@koodiE974]

Pathetic!! 😂😂😂​@@brucemfvane4148

[@neu7773]

Street summary: "Leave that ho alone and move on" 😂

[@suzanbesimi6767]

I have a boyfriend that does exactly that exactly what you're saying women to play games he ghosts me for days and weeks at a time

[@His_Name_Was_King]

You don't have to worry about asking why if you never play the game in the first place. 100% success rate-

[@FrancisYohannan-hx9cp]

In mind games there are no winners, both will lose in the end. The world is predesigned as such..😌 this is just creating the assumption of winning. 😌

[@IamStoicMindset]

Focusing on honest communication and understanding is definitely the way to go! Thanks for sharing your perspective-it’s always refreshing to hear such thoughtful reflections! 😊✨

[@FrancisYohannan-hx9cp]

Thank you for the suggestions 😌

[@NYC_CuriousG]

I was ready to sign up for a therapist trying to deal with this heartache and depression of a female. This video really helped me today and during this time in my life. Where can I donate?

[@superstar38]

facts!!!!

[@superstar38]

true!!!!

[@abcloft302]

Great 👍 stuff and shit is REAL

[@Jahnero_kizum]

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[@Fiqh-tk3oc]

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[@Zoe-c9z]

'It is finished', the signet ring is off the finger

[@sabitieto2696]

It's funny how I''ve made all these mistakes acting emotionally with the woman that I most wanted to stay in my life. I wonder if there are same type of videos which women watch to learn to play these games.

[@edwinhunnet2666]

if you’re truly valuable(with real assets and money making knowledge) then you will be to get positive results from these lesson. If you’re broke and lazy a girl will disrespect you and leave your ass with zero remorse. It takes a long time and effort to get to this level. Accept that you’re a loser and start grinding. Girls like winners.

[@theIssue-tt]

@edwinhunnet2666 youre so right....a bunch of broke guys with no plan will come here thinking that these rules apply to them😂. Women may play games but most times they dont take men seriously is because these men have no plan and are not taking actions to change. They want women in their lives but are not willing to do the work and thinks that women should endure their BS

[@cozart2241]

I need your help bro this breakup is fresh this month & my head is so fucked rn I can explain more please get to this comment when you can

[@MichaelPipinias]

I'm in the same boat. Do not chase her. Let her know u don't want the break up and respectfully step away. If you were nasty towards her when she broke up with u, acknowledge that and apologise for it. Then u must step away. Use the time on yourself, better yourself while u give her space. Spend time with people who genuinely love u like your family and friends. Improve yourself and when you feel strong enough emotionally re attract her and guide her back into a relationship. Be confident but keep in the back of your mind how you will react if it doesn't go your way.

[@zelalemtadesse]

Stay calm and time will heal everything. You can get over anything if you stayed calm and focus on your well-being!

[@pman_t]

These are lovely clips, but I believe it should be the other way around. Period... It kind of makes boys second class citizens if that makes sense...and it's enough.... Women need to start be aware and men need to start testing them. It's time....😊

[@TwansiShemy]

Ive been doing what shes been doing to get back at her 😢...what should i do now

[@Pearse-u8i]

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[@drzpapi413]

Gentlemen, heed these principles to minimize heartaches: 1. Reciprocate genuine interest: Focus on someone who shows sincere enthusiasm for you. 2. Exude confident independence: Carry yourself with self-assurance, conveying that you're content with or without a partner. 3. Assess mutual effort: If you've planned three dates without her initiating or suggesting a non-monetary activity, reconsider investing further. 4. Value financial consideration: Be cautious of someone who disregards the financial efforts you make for them. 5. Beware of negative attitudes: Steer clear of individuals who frequently speak ill of family, friends, and strangers, as this behavior can be a sign of deeper issues.

[@michelemamakis915]

What would a stoic woman do?

[@scottthompson9720]

You should really walk away if a woman shows any of these traits. If they don't value your time and energy you invest in them....WALK AWAY. I waited for a woman almost 2 years one time and she loved drama and chaos and it excited her emotionally. She would want me all the time when i stopped talking to her. FUCK THAT SHIT. GET IN OR GET OUT. Woman that are stable mentally and emotionally wont act like this....PERIOD

[@JasonMason-q5o]

If a woman ever tell you happy birthday

[@blkmask2]

Why did it say "position" like that?😂 25:00

[@pascaljr09]

"Recog-kneeze be - have- your all patterns" 3:49