10 Reasons Why Sigma Female Suddenly Cut You OFF (The Harsh Truth)

[@emcarver8983]

I'm 77yrs old. All my life I have just quietly walked away. From 'friends' from a husband, from toxic jobs and even from a child. Only the last one hurts me.

[@patriciascott4211]

@@emcarver8983 I’m 65 . I feel like I’m going through that process now with my child too. well he’s 44. It’s hard

[@Thatone1001]

Yes indeed I agree ❤❤

[@suekerr8650]

Me too! All of those... sad situation yes but no regrets... at peace and contented❤

[@bermudabourne3688]

I am with you on this!!!

[@elliediaz6667]

I'm with you for all 4 and yes walking away from my narcissistic daughter was, and still is, extremely painful

[@elainebmack]

This is why I don't attend grade school/high school/college alumni reunions. These folks had nothing to do with me when I was there because I was too "different", so why should they care now?

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Most times is all about competition. Who is doing better than the others

[@VilleGardian]

Yeppers

[@Maddie2u]

Me either....moved on.

[@earthrooster1969]

Yes! I have moved on and on...like different phases...my school friends, work colleagues still huddle, meet, form groups more out of fear of losing out or being thrown out of the 'club'...😅 And a huge unhealthy appetite for gossip...

[@patriciascott4211]

Yes I put all that in my rear view mirror, never want to look back

[@renee4053]

Holy crap this is how I operate. I've already cut off a narcissistic sister and a manipulative sister and unfortunately my daughter. I got tired of being disrespected, taking advantage and made to feel like a piece of s***. I quietly walked away from my last marriage. Yes this is me, no confrontations, I just walk away. I like being alone, like my space and peace.

[@patriciascott4211]

I recently had cut an acquaintance out of my life and other narcissistic and negative people but also I have a son with a mental health issues who refuses any type of therapy but tries to control everyone around him and destroys his own life in the process. He’s 44 yrs old! And still trying to suck me into his drama and wants me to “be his mother “ and stand up for him! As he gets drunk. My phone is now on do not disturb or silent. It’s so hard when it’s your child.

[@haveniceday7768]

​@patriciascott4211 Your son has a savior and it is NOT YOU. You have done your part. Call your SAVIOR CHRIST JESUS TO Save HIM !!!

[@quietreader4190]

@@patriciascott4211 I am so sorry about your son, it sounds like he has alcoholism. As family, we try and do what we can for other family members effected by addiction, by trying to stage interventions, trying to get them to go to rehab, trying to get them to see a therapist to work out their issues with someone who is not us. Unfortunately, things do not work that way with addicts. Addicts must get to the point where they alone decide they want help, not for the benefit of others but for themselves otherwise they will not want it and will relapse. If they do not want help, and they show repeatedly they do not want help after lets say a decade of trying to help them then you have to do what is best for you and in the end what is best for them. By avoiding your son, you are ensuring your own mental well being and your own peace of mind and by avoiding him you are helping him too because addicts need to learn they will not be helped or coddled when they partake in drug and alcohol usage and by not "running cover" for him you are essentially telling him you will not sacrifice your own time, your own mental health, or possibly your own money if his actions lead him to get jailed for DUI or whatever. My uncle was an alcoholic, and he wasn't ab*sive or aggressive but he was certainly self-destructive. When they are at the point of trying to manipulate or guilt you, and showing no remorse for any of their actions, and showing that they do not want help then it is best to create distance and if its bad enough to go no-contact. You need to show through your actions that you will not tolerate any further disrespect of your emotions or your time, some people will criticize you for this but know many people truly have no idea on how addiction works or how it effects the brain and the lengths people will go to get their fix, weather it be through alcohol or drugs. Know that by cutting him off and going no-contact if you feel the situation calls for it, you ARE NOT being a bad mother and that you DID NOT FAIL your son. You may need to let him go, and only allow him back into your life years down the road if he ever decides to get help for himself and gets clean and sober by himself. Unfortunately, my uncles mother (my grandmother) coddled him quite a bit and bailed him out of jail multiple times and allowed him into her house during the times he was not clean and sober. I do not think she understood what harm she was doing by constantly giving him a crutch and constantly inviting him back into her life and the lives of the rest of my family. It's not wrong of you to cut him out of your life, especially if you have other children and other family to worry about.

[@ohgawd]

Maybe you could offer to pay on a temporary basis for him to get help? Just a thought...​@@patriciascott4211

[@jickie511]

Yes, a narcissistic SIL, a narcissistic DIL and the toughest one, my son. I never knew there was a name for this until last Spring. This is so spot on.

[@iamjustsaying4787]

It doesn’t come out of nowhere. There has been much patience with no changes.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Fact only 💯

[@dr.tamararussell9150]

Yes totally agree...it comes after a long period of waiting for things to be different....

[@earthheavenisa]

Yes, and a great deal of silent suffering at times..

[@Thatone1001]

😂😂😂❤❤

[@Kelly-jc8ux]

Exactly! I even had one so-called friend try to shame me from cutting her off by saying that I’ve cut other people off from my life in the past. Yes, people who are manipulative, controlling, disrespectful, and betraying me every chance you get.

[@thegardenofserendipity]

Do you slowly become a sigma female? Because I feel like I have evolved into a person like this through hard lessons.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Life challenges would have such influence on us.. again, in most cases life brings us to the right personality and when you arrive you will feel peaceful 😘

[@angelapastorius2377]

I was going to say something similar ... you captured it quite well with these two sentences! 👏👏👏

[@KarenDelores]

Same

[@highviibin8886]

Me too! 😊

[@earthrooster1969]

Yes...I always wanted to and put up with a LOT of BS...then once trauma in my body showed up as chronic issues, i said Enough.. Not once do I regret any of my no contact list of people...

[@rosiestewart870]

my boss was insanely disrespectful. went shopping on a sunday afternoon, applied for a different job, starting on monday. didn't phone my old boss. when he called me, asking if i was coming to work, i said, "no. i have a new job."

[@VilleGardian]

Wow🎉

[@elainebmack]

Wow! I love that! BAM!

[@annsmith4897]

I did the same. Good for us. I don't waste my life on people with no wisdom and respect.

[@Threedivasgrandma]

I've done that

[@ayandafree4354]

Coooool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@flawedexistence]

I don't do ANYTHING randomly or impulsively. My family believe that I do, but I watch, ponder, and evaluate everything. It may take time, but when I jump, I jump. I have made enormous life decisions which shocked family. I simply don't play games and I am perfectly happy to be alone. And no, I don't tolerate disrespect. You get one chance.

[@Threedivasgrandma]

I use to give 2 chances, now none.

[@JillofAllTrades2]

🎉🎉🎉

[@earthrooster1969]

Just the way I live my life. On the pause now with a bit of health issues...but waiting for the next jump! Have been reinventing myself as I go and it almost seems I have lived many little lifetimes in my current one. Right now my deep focus is cutting off family ties that have always been a thorn on the side...I care for them but not ready for any more manipulation in any way...

[@barbarabellay466]

When the words "its time to go" crosses my mind, that's my inner self telling me that it's time to move on. I don't wish those that I've moved on from any ill will or harm.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Exactly 👍. A sigma cutting someone off means stay your lane let me be without wishing them any bad 👌

[@LeaGholson-t6w]

EXACTLY! I wish them the best, but they no longer have acess to me.

[@PeaceDayCortez]

I never ignore a slip up or unusual behavior. I file it away and wait. What it does is put me on notice and now I'm watching everything you do and say. When everything falls into place I'm gone. Sometimes you have to “play a fool to fool a fool”! 🤔

[@Zelig_G]

Didn’t become sigma till I was 72 - though I noticed it all. Walked out of a lifelong marriage to live in peace on my own. Done.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🫡👌 Welcome to the RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 🙏🏽🙏🏽😘

[@sonnyroy497]

👍 Good for you.

[@michele33s68]

I hope you found it ❤❤❤

[@monklingtoneverjet2536]

beautiful

[@lisanidog8178]

The definition of a sigma female that I looked up is a self-reliant, confident, and independent woman who values her freedom and standards. That’s a good thing. They won’t be controlled. That must irk a lot people. Tough on them.

[@AstonM6]

946 times I said that I would cut all ties with my job when I retired. I would walk out, go to the parking garage and immediately start deleting everything job related off of my phone. Gone. I'm on a new chapter. I retired, and two weeks later one of the decent people (not a gossip, manipulator, or liar) that I know, reported that people were puzzled as to why they couldn't contact me. I guess they didn't listen.

[@zenawarrior7442]

Good for you. Yes we'll said, people don't listen. Once we break we're gone...usually gave then hundreds if chances, clues, conversations. Now it's too late.

[@ggwoman]

I did the same, and burned every file, lesson plan, paper associated with as well as took every article of work clothes to the Goodwill. Hit the back roads and traveled to all the beautiful places, to completely clean and refill my spirit. Ahh Life is Beautiful.

[@cynthiamartin2197]

Agree; less than a week after retiring.

[@annmowatt7547]

@@AmeliaHouck-o9j Another ex - teacher here. Did the same.

[@violetsinspring5863]

Same for me when I retired 2 years ago.

[@sueware8377]

I am a Sigma female and this video is exactly how I live and who I am. This is truthful, understanding, and accurate. Not out to judge anyone, but I will live the way I want to and nothing and no one will blow me off course on this. Thanks for putting this video out there for all to understand who and what we are. This is how I live a Stoic Life...on my own peace of mind, continued learning, and my personal respect and freedom. Keep up the good work. You portrayed us exactly for who we are.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Thanks for your kind words 🙏😘

[@kaeyla8123]

Well said ❤

[@WisdomWorldrx]

It’s a very specific sequence of buttons that must be pushed to get cut off and once that happens it is beyond warranted

[@lorrainelamour7224]

It's like Def Con 5, or the launch codes to launch a nuclear missile! LOL. 🚀 It ain't comin' back because you don't understand or your feelings are hurt, fool! Whaddya think, "Launch sequence activated" meant? I don't have time to train you.

[@Maddie2u]

Same, when I'm done, I'm done. With family members too.

[@Lady_Boo]

Very well said.

[@MsDaisy-ix9he]

Exactly

[@Kelly-jc8ux]

@@WisdomWorldrx Absolutely!!! And then the people who’ve been disrespectful to you, manipulated you, etc., etc. look at you like you’ve got four heads and you’re a hateful human being. No, you’ve just finally had enough of all of the above.

[@LauraSchendel-ko1qk]

“A bird sitting on a tree branch is never afraid of the branch breaking. Her trust is not in the branch, but in her own wings.”

[@SistahRev]

Never heard of “sigma” before, but I’ve never before had my interior workings so aptly and appreciatively described! I feel “seen” and understood, not “exposed”!🌹🌹🌹

[@SH29824]

Me too

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

@@SistahRev welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 🙏🏽🙏🏽😘😘

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

@@SH29824 thanks for tuning in and welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 😘😘🙏🏽

[@Deborah-vx8tu]

All my life I haven't been respected, but now I woke up and I'm not going to have any relationships where I'm not accepted as a person to be appreciated!❤

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘👌🫡

[@Susweca5569]

Same here. That's why I got rid of all the humans and have a superlative dog.

[@Deborah-vx8tu]

You have to know who to keep and who to get rid of to help u grow.😂❤

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

@Deborah-vx8tu fact 💯

[@annmowatt7547]

@@Deborah-vx8tu MOST can be dumped. I am brutally honest and no longer care about being a door mat for others. I gave and gave and gave and got nothing back.

[@blueclarity]

You reach a point where you realize what's important and you have no time for people who play games or aren't authentic. Why bother with any nonsense at all! I'd rather be alone.

[@siaitsme6800]

Exactly!!!

[@JessicaBoyce-jy2hx]

Incredible. Thank you. I've never felt so lovingly validated and understood.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏😘

[@SistahRev]

Thanks for this comment; I was going to say the exact same thing. Never heard of “sigma” before, but I’ve never before had my interior workings so aptly and appreciatively described! I feel “seen,” not “exposed”!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

@SistahRev Hi💎, Thanks for tuning in and welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 🙏🏽😘😘😘

[@almariekuit56]

I have a small, core group of friends. The rest are work colleagues who I'll mostly never engage with again after I leave. Once I see through you, it's mere tolerance.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏😘

[@Lady_Boo]

I sure needed to hear this! Very few people understand us.🤷‍♀️

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Very few indeed 👌

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

Life is too short. Don't be a doormat.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

💯😘

[@shirleyware7333]

❤❤❤

[@Samantha-ho4hv]

🙌❤️

[@janabanana8227]

Exactly, well done! A nice video to send any confused people left in my wake if they keep trying to connect. Their confusion is their own inability to perceive themselves or reality correctly, because this sigma has a lot of empathy. I'm a turn the other cheek for quite a while. If someone crosses boundaries too much, the mirror comes up. That's if I have to deal with him/her/them at all. Generally I just cut ties .

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

You can say that again 👌😘🫶

[@CosmicSurfer1111]

Sending them anything simply reignites the energetic connection between you. Any attention is fuel. If they understood what you send, they would've already reached that conclusion on their own My view. 🪷

[@elainebmack]

I just cut a sibling out of my life. She had her reasons for being the directionless, confused individual that she is, but her general neediness and most recent strike against me marked the end of my relationship with her. I cannot tolerate irrational, selfish, draining behavior.

[@janabanana8227]

@@CosmicSurfer1111 yes I inow this well! I definitely use discernment in interaction with narcissists and energy vampires, etc, which seems to be a looooooot of people these days. A video send would be for the ones who may be genuinely confused and aren't evil, they just finally annoyed this 'not as tolerant as before' sigma, and could use a little clarity. More an educational endeavor for those who are more willing to work on themselves., as sigmas do regularly Have a beautiful day🍂🌻💛🍁

[@catherineblair550]

That's just rude. Let's not glorify ghosting. I hope the sigma gets ghosted a few times by someone by someone she benefits from at the moment, then maybe she won't think ghosting is so ok. Its just selfish and rude I hope I never help one

[@sallyfeschuk5771]

Infinitely patient, kind and generous; however, none of that matters once an ultimatum has been issued. And don't ever tell me what to do, what I'm thinking, or how I'm feeling. Ever.

[@elainebmack]

I heard that - on all points!

[@Cmkrs34]

Yes. Cant stand cocky men or women who try to tell me what im feeling or thinking. Theyre never correct but so sure they are that they wint believe anything except their stupid analysis of me.

[@renee4053]

Yes exactly!

[@elainebmack]

It isn't only people you cut off, but places too. I am born and raised in a major US city known for a lot of great, wonderful, cool, fascinating, exciting things, but I was never able to work consistently in my chosen career in that city, so I left. I moved away a few times for work and came back thinking things might be different, but I always ran into the same situation. Finally, I left for good about 6 years ago and have no desire to return. It's over, no matter how many sparkling videos people post on You Tube.

[@Maddie2u]

100%. Cities, neighbourhoods.... Condo complexes..

[@elizabethalexander6528]

Wisconsin is a problem for me😮

[@kristinamercado5737]

New York huh? (New Yuck. Lol I think that city is so gross and so many different ways.)

[@elainebmack]

@@kristinamercado5737. Not New York, but the outcome is the same.

[@lolxd9396]

That is how I feel about toxic people. Thank you 🙏☺

[@debr628]

this is a perfect capture of how I've lived my life thus far (65yrs) ... the notable difference is I believe in the 3 strikes rule for much disrespect ... if however, it crosses a boundary ... I do walk away. in most cases kindness was mistaken for weakness ... it's strength

[@IndigoMystik]

There's no warning or 'second chances' because she already put up with waaaayyy too much, but you were too oblivious to notice because you only really care about yourself!! There's this point where it's like - ENOUGH ALREADY!! We shouldn't have to teach you how to be a decent human being. If you are a lost cause, there is no point [in wasting our time and energy].

[@catlady6938]

I have just gone through this, as I am listening to this video I kept agreeing, thinking this is me. I have just walked away from a toxic friendship, no drama, no goodbyes but just as described.

[@33Jenesis]

It is never impulsive. It is an emotional distancing. Friendship is a 2 way street. I will keep on trying to maintain a connection until I knew it was unrevivable. At that point I let it slide. I moved to a place I bought after 30 years of renting. My longest friend never responded to my invitation to check out my new home (my retirement home) or to meet up (we used to meet once a year before her bday). It’s been 6 years. I have stopped to share my life events with her like I used to (text).

[@renee4053]

I did the same thing I was the one always flying out to see her but she would never come and see me and when I would talk to her or email her she always seemed uninterested. So I stopped associating with her.

[@zenawarrior7442]

Oh yes respect is paramount. No arguments, we may try to give a few chances & are extremely patient, but once gone no turning back. Well done list again. Thanks Rare 💎 😊🐞🌼☀️✨️

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Hi Zena, Exactly,👍 Respect is paramount 🤞. Thanks for tuning in and for your contribution as always 🫡😘👌

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm Morning ☕️🌞Yes respect paramount💯☝️Welcome💛

[@elainebmack]

Patience is one of our greatest strengths and qualities, but there is a time limit. When time runs out, it's over for good.

[@zenawarrior7442]

@@elainebmack Yes👍

[@sweaterweather8789]

Being disrespected and discounted is THE PET PEEVE of the sigma. Especially coming from someone she’s sees as inhabiting qualities not to be respected.

[@elainebmack]

I knew a person for several years who was always mentally unfocused, but a nice person. She contacted me about a job opportunity that I was familiar with and asked my opinions about it. I thought it through and shared what information I had with her. At the time I was on my computer and was able to give her some updated information about the job. She called a few days later and asked me the same battery of questions, so I reviewed some things with her. She called again and fumbled around. Hmm... I saw her a few weeks later and she still hadn't applied for the job even through there was a job fair in the city at the time. She said, "I know you're mad at me because blah blah blah..." I told her that I wasn't mad at her. I just didn't have any more time for her. I walked away.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Procrastination, lack of zeal and no confidence can be annoying.. I understand your feelings 😘.. You have given her time 2x

[@FranklyItsMe]

I just did this with my two formerly gaslighting sisters. And though I did calmly explain to my mother that I’d be stepping away from most family responsibilities and gatherings, she said she didn’t blame me. Of course, she was another person I was stepping away from as well. And it has always worked for me. Walking away. I think that having moved dozen+ times in my first 16 years was one of the few truly beneficial things that came out of my childhood.

[@literaine6550]

I shut people off but some would stalk me. When someone ordered me to bake brownies for her, that was it for me. She was puzzled as to why I shut her off.

[@SierraNovemberKilo]

I'm not sure sigma females quietly walk away. They're more like signal trees in a forest. Occasionally their branches get damaged in storms. The tree quietly cuts off nutrient supply to the branch and it drops off, leaving a knot where it used to be.

[@jickie511]

​@Vid7872 no, not cold people at all, quite the opposite actually. They just refuse to be a doormat. And the majority of us take a long time to reach the point of stepping away. It's a series of events that unfold

[@barbaraleequez4054]

​@@Vid7872not true we are cold,on the contrary It is a sensitive way to feel and percieve others that make us get to decide to walk away and cut off every single kind of conection. If you are not genuine and you are faking your personality ,i can see It,i let you be and then decide if i stay or go, if i got there IS no come back

[@chlexiel.1022]

This video describes me 100%. I never even heard of the term “sigma”. Until this video popped up. This is the best explanation of why I am the way I am. Thank you.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Thank you for tuning in and welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY ‼️👌🙌

[@jgm33884]

This is how I am too but I think it's due to childhood trauma. I refuse to play games. Life is about respect and love for one another.

[@CrystalG-cu2rk]

100% accurate and true...I've cut family members out of my life for the reasons stated in this video. I'd rather walk alone!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

✌️😘

[@Blb477]

Yep..that would be my life. Don’t waste my time. I’ve got a job to do. I used to give way too many chances. Not anymore. I love love love but if I’m disrespected or taken advantage of or treated like an option. Buh bye! ❤ no need to defend or explain..never did any good to do that in the past. Relationship done. I’m not mad..I just need to keep going on my path..not yours. I wish them well on there’s.😊

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘👌🫶

[@CosmicSurfer1111]

Well stated! ⚘️

[@KatieKress-k9s]

Amen I'm 67 and this is absoutely true for me. I'm Gods outcast

[@tiffanysmith2407]

OMG! I had no idea that there was a "type" of woman that shares my characteristics. I keep moving forward, never looking back. I cut ties and remove all avenues of possible contact. This is regardless of the relationship. With close relationships I refer to it as, "loving from a distance". I am nothing like the members of my family, and I have always known it and celebrate my individuality and creativity. Blessings to all of you beautiful souls like me. You are loved.❤🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽😘💎

[@fionalamont6725]

I always thought I had grown into a sigma female because of past experiences and self growth & a lot of healing but also being a female Scorpio .🦂I’ve cut most people out my life for peace & your spot on I gave second chances for them to change but for my own peace and sanity I walked away thank you for this video 💜🦋x

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Thank for watching and welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 😘👌💎

[@Cmkrs34]

I didnt think people still believe in astrology.

[@keekim59]

At 65 I finally know why I walked away from people and work while they try to figure out why I didn't give them a notice. Be whole, be peaceful.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

👌👌✌️😍😍

[@EvelynKoehler-u3w]

My whole life I have been asking myself why I was so different from others, but with this channel I suddenly have learned that many people like me exist, and that they even have a name 😅 I was so happy and proud to belong to this group 😊 The more I have learned about sigma females, however, the more I got a little bit worried about our behaviour which seems to be rather uncompromising instead of sympathetic, which might be the reason for our problems with other people 😮 What do you think, aren't we too difficult towards others?

[@cynthiamartin2197]

I questioned myself through the years as well but by reviewing my life; I have been sympathetic towards those who needed that at the time. Sometimes, more than I should have been considering how they treated me overall, and then I’d quietly exit their orbit. Unless someone’s personality is rude or abusive I’m more apt to sit back and watch their actions, sometimes without realizing I automatically pull away when I see red flags erupting. I don’t think we’re uncompromising, it’s just we do know our boundaries ~ we may be the most independent personalities.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Hello Evelyn, Welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘. I get where you're coming from. Sigmas are some of the most genuine and sincere people you could ever connect with. They have no desire to hurt others. One of their mottos is "Live and let live, and let peace reign ." Sigmas are naturally compassionate and willing to compromise to make things work, but they often find themselves being taken advantage of. Think about it, you’ve probably made sacrifices for others at some point. My advice is this: don’t let others change you from a good person to someone you're not. Keep being kind, but always put your health and peace of mind first 👌😘.

[@EvelynKoehler-u3w]

@@cynthiamartin2197 Thanks so much for your comment, Cynthia. It helps me to see that others have the same problems. And I can keep on being proud ... 😊

[@EvelynKoehler-u3w]

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm Thanks so much for answering me 😊 I am so happy to see that I match with these sigmas in each point you mention. It has been such a relief to finally know why I behave like I do and this feels so good 😅 And you are right, I have often put my own self behind in order to support others. However, I had to walk away too often in the last years, and I have begun to more and more live my life according to my own rules. It's also a way to protect myself and live in peace. It's so good that I found you and your channel, thanks again for your unbelievable support 🥰

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

@EvelynKoehler-u3w welcome dearest.. keep being authentic you hence you are not hurting anyone or yourself 🫶😍👌

[@lariad2845]

Wow...never felt so well described/understood by someone on that topic. Thank you !!!

[@penniboo5818]

65 yrs old and this rings so true Those manipulative battles with controling individuals are over.. as soon as I see the futility of the situation Im gone.. Husband lovers and family including my daughter and now my son Children were toxically influenced I was very upset about the loss of my children But Peace has returned 😊

[@earthrooster1969]

So many of these resonate. Was feeling sad as i recently blocked my younger sister for barging into my life with zero concern but she is never there when I need her real support. I realised if i do not put an end i will keep feeling being used and abused, disguised in her sugary sweet communications only to be left feeling used... Most of the points validates my decision. Thank You ❤🙏🏽

[@Iamtiffanykirk]

Definitely me 100%, people think I’m harsh, but it’s more so that I realize my worth and just how precious time and energy is. I have straight forward discussions about what’s not working, then watch for change, then walk and block. It hurts at first, but I never doubt my decision

[@PilateswithMary]

Thanks!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Thank you for the supper thanks you gifted me.. I appreciate 😘😘

[@jaimecherie3430]

OMG you described me down to a T... I just ended an 18-year friendship because of those exact reasons...

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘✌️.. Welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎

[@RoseBuenoPH]

This eerily sounds like me… 😮 Never thought I’m a sigma female. No wonder I’m still single at 50. 😅 So many disrespectful and immature people these days, sadly. Thanks for this revealing vid! ❤ Keep rocking with your uploads. 😉

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Thanks for tuning in and sharing your thoughts 😘😘🙏🏽. Welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 😘🙏🏽

[@RoseBuenoPH]

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm 🤍🙂

[@sharonklauser9359]

Yes this is so right on. I do this without knowing why, now I understand myself better. Thank you

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏😘

[@earthmotherdragon4572]

Yup, have no time with people playing mind games, so f***ing over it. I have given people a thousand chances and when people get nasty, that is it, I am gone. Same with people trying to put me in a box or try to dictate how I should live my life, I am done. Much rather live on my own, even if it is harder, but I will not take people's BS. I cannot do small talk or toxic people. x

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

👌👌🙏🏽

[@renee4053]

Yes I totally agree I'm doing the same thing

[@StellaGizzi]

Me too. 63 and it’s heaven ❤

[@phuocle4113]

You had read my mind 😍 Thank you !

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘👌

[@lorimarzetta8538]

❤these videos always nail it, spot on. I resonate with this so much. My energy and peace is important to me to protect!!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘👌👌🙏🏽

[@ingebird3380]

Thank you for sharing this message. I am now learning what a sigma female is. This video describes me perfectly. I recently blocked my daughter in law on social media. I had enough of her nasty comments on my posts that had nothing to do with her. My posts were about helping those affected by the hurricane. Anyway I have been studying Stoicism for a few months now. I am 69 years old and have always been a people pleaser. Now I see there’s people who will never be happy and I cannot control their behavior. Rather than argue I am closing the door. My health and well-being is my priority. Thank you for helping me realize that.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙌🙌🙏🙏😘😘

[@neshama2195]

utter truth, I get very exhausted dealing with pettiness but will give so much to the real ones but the rest are like energy vampires and totally not worth it

[@Cat11629]

Number 2: I just did this. No reciprocal respect so I just walked

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Sigmas and respect are twins. Sigmas will not disrespect anyone.

[@renafielding945]

I was not born like this, but my own recovery in AA requires me to make a FEARLESS and THOROUGH moral inventory of myself. My being an old 76 year old Orthodox Christian lady means praying for my own salvation and that of my enemy. I know that this world is not my home. This separates some family members 😢. But I can’t change anything but what is in my heart and I must be true to myself. I have no other job right now. 😊

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Wishing you all the best 🙏❤️

[@fourthwaverevolution4114]

I used to be a people pleaser and after healing am now a sigma woman!

[@Songe467]

This total explains why I just couldn't handle having support workers 'helping' me. Why should I have to answer your stupid questions, listen to you ramble about your life, your interests or your ideas about what I should do with my life? That's not helping me. People just don't seem to know how to work professionally anymore. I might be disabled, and you might be at my home but to you it should still be treated as a work environment, personal questions, your personal life and 'helpful suggestions' have no place here.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

💪😘

[@elainebmack]

People confuse physical disability with mental disability. Big mistake. They make assumptions based on their bias and unwarranted sense of superiority.

[@chocolates62526]

This is so perfectly true I believe the person who is be talking about sigma females is a chosen one also. Because only chosen ones can figure out and understand this mystery. Others get completely confused.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Hi beautiful, Thanks for tuning in and welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏💫

[@rachelklein2319]

The interesting part is that I think I was a sigma female but went through a brutal childhood starting at age 7 and was changed, because of what happened. I feel I still have this inside me but that I need to sort out a number of faulty beliefs I developed as a kid that somehow block me. It is something I am going to investigate if anyone has info to share.

[@julierudd9904]

You hit the nail right on the head...I resignated with everything you said...so a big thankyou to your videos... you are brilliant in how you describe it to others that resignate with it

[@Cmkrs34]

Sorry but the word you mean is rezonate.

[@JaffnaMarcello]

This fits me, and now I am alright with being alone. Great video, and I needed to hear this. Thank you for describing me.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘

[@kellykasten7009]

❤🎉 this is, BANG ON TO MY SITUATION ❤🎉 TY!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🏽🙏🏽👌

[@CheriseStone]

I am glad I found this video it so much describes the way I am and also helps me to understand why over the years I have spent so many years alone I have standards and expectations in my relationships don't put up with any bull keep my inner peace cut out anything that tries to steal that peace. Thanks for posting this video and God Bless

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏😘

[@Somewhere-In-AZ]

Wish I could be more like this. I stick around for a vulnerable elderly woman. Once she’s gone, so am I. I guess my values have me trapped.

[@elainebmack]

Do what you feel is right. This person is elderly and vulnerable. She may not be around much longer. Just do your best. You will know when to let go.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

@elainebmack thanks for that advice 🙏🙏😘😘😘

[@linda6987]

Direct and to the point! PERFECT! ♥️

[@AnneMaï-05n]

Someone told me one day that i was childish and immature to do so. And in a sense, i now think that cutting people off is inconvenient for someone who has social anxiety 😢

[@Iconoclast1919]

I agree wholeheartedly with the content of this video. It's all true! Thank you for this excellent content! 😊

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Thanks for watching and welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

[@racheladams7131]

100% correct! Thank you for creating this!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🏽🙏🏽😘🙌

[@ctgeblue17]

Wow, this entire video is on point 💯💥👏

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘😘💎💎

[@cleonawallace376]

I realised a few years ago that I am a sigma. Although I think this is AI-created, it does make sense to me. I've had to cut off my parents and my sister, and I've also ended friendships where people have not been genuine. I value truthfulness and I don't play games myself, and I think if you're like that, you need to protect yourself from people who do.

[@GodChilds-gw8th]

I will not let anyone disrespect me anymore. ❤ Keeping the peace. I have been giving in too many times . Thank you Lord. Amen 🙏 ❤

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘😘

[@tigressatwork1708]

Spot on ! Very nice video

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏😘

[@carebear8316]

Oh my god. They said I had Borderline Personality Disorder but really I’m a Sigma Female.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Where were you diagnosed? Or people who feel threatened by you saying this just to justify themselves

[@catherineblair550]

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm This entire video is so sigmas can justify ending relationships with no consideration for others. There are ways to end relationships that are less hurtful. Sigmas aren't these perfect creatures just because they might be high acheving.

[@niecyj.1782]

​@@catherineblair550haha Grown folks can stop fucking with you when they want to. Narcissistic broad

[@anonymos5726]

​@@catherineblair550When people try to manipulate you, groom you, use your authentic character for their own personal gain, without any regard for how it hurts when you've given everything for the relationship and are disrespected, yes, you have every right to walk away. Eventually you learn from experience that this will not work out a lot faster, you walk away before you get hurt. Fake and toxic people can fake it for a while, but at the end it's impossible, the truth comes out.

[@skyealexander8189]

Lol same.

[@user-co8id5px1r]

Amazing video. Absolutely spot on. Thank you!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

You're very welcome 🤗 to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

[@Catherine-pz8gp]

Wow. So true. Every word. And other people are always bewildered. They never understand and you can’t make them. We don’t want to invest time and energy into someone to develop them - unless it’s a child. People who don’t get it aren’t worth it already.

[@EmpressDivineFeminine]

Looks like my community is here 🎉🥂 Cheers ladies & gents if you're here too! We all priotised ourselves & that's commendable! ❤❤

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

💎💎🙏🏽🙏🏽😍😘

[@movebeautifullywithhilda]

Oh my gosh this is so me…. 😂..

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘🫡

[@Anderson-g3r]

I always thought something was wrong with me, but this video explains exactly how I am. Thank you❤ I always slowly back off and leave.

[@Brandy3319]

Number one happens to me ALLLLL the time!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ~ We see everything and run fast!!!!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

👌😘

[@meghan7411]

Ahhh !! Finally i understand myself thru this video Thank you 🙏🏼

[@vickiereed643]

This is the first time that I have ever heard of a Sigma female. I may be one and I will have to check into this more. Thank you for the video.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

Hi Vick, Welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 🙏🏽😘💎

[@LoneWolf-sy5ht]

Wow 😳, this was so on point!

[@feliciajenkins5041]

If your words don't match your actions I'll be gone before you can blink. The same if you're just mean. I used to give chances but no longer for adults.

[@carolangeli1025]

Well this explains a lot of my experiences. Oh how many jobs and people I walk away from. I value my peace and make choices out of self preservation. However, I used to try and have a discussion about my concerns in my marriage. It fell on deaf ears. Lots of I’m sorry but no behavior change. I learned that I don’t waste my breath on many people. A recent job I gave short notice too surprised the boss. Oops. You lose. Always move forward.

[@MaybejustNarbe]

You covered everything. Life is about peace at all costs

[@amandahezoky3858]

👏🙌💯❤️ resonates. Big time!!

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏😘

[@HM-ec5vi]

Walked out away from a high paying job because it was too toxic and draining. Peace is more valuable to me.

[@roktimos]

sigma male here, happy to see that the signa girls are also shining with proud to be a signa living life by its own rules.

[@muniraqamri1778]

I didn't know the term but i actually operated like this all my life and now will continue to do so with pride ❤🎉

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

👌👌👌😘

[@zintlesingo9538]

Thank you for these videos.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

🙏🙏💎😘

[@finleyscotland]

Ive sung that Eagles tune Already Gone many times!! Our theme song

[@annem7806]

My theme song is Wide Open Spaces.

[@anonymos5726]

Who knew, this is 100% me. I call it ' put my hat on and leave '. It’s all about keeping inner peace. I cherish authentic, hate toxic, may God forgive us all.

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

👌😘😘😘

[@Sara-Smile]

I can’t help but say this over and over how extremely accurate this is

[@TheRareGems-ql8rm]

😘😘👌

[@HoneyRyderThree]

Unreciprocated respect really bugs me, so it's at the top of my list. I've straight up deleted or blocked numbers of people who disrespected me, especially if I don’t see a reason to keep them around in the future.

[@melissagoddard9902]

I must’ve known from the time I was a little girl growing up that I was a Sigma. Now that I’m older and wiser it’s easy to pick these up from other people and what they’re doing that seems rather off putting. But as soon as they’ve started disrespecting , gaslighting and manipulating me that’s when I cut all my ties with them altogether. That’s when I go into having No Contact.