10 Things Guys Are Insecure About

[@katherinekelly3400]

Male body insecurities need more awareness 💛

[@missreia]

Katherine Kelly uh, no. Virtually any blanket sympathy for men is like sympathizing for millionaires because they're not billionaires. Promise I am not a man hater, but effe this video and anyone who sides with him

[@ImWORTHITINC]

I'm gonna talk about that on my show

[@AlmaMarie333]

Male insecurities in general needs more awareness

[@ImWORTHITINC]

YES!!! EXACTLY! What if I made an episode on my channel about it? Would you take my word for it?

[@Mariajbh2]

@What Not To Do At a Stoplight they need care more for women before because they cause much problems that women have

[@etera2011]

Things dudes are insecure about: 1. People not liking us 2. Being too skinny/overweight 3. Being broke 4. Height 5. Being able to please a girl 6. Our personalities 7. Being single forever 8. Our hair 9. Not being able to fix things 10. Being a man in general You're welcome.

[@ThatCherriePie]

Notice how this comment will only get 30 likes, flip the genders and it will get 8-10K likes, goes to show how disproportionately represented gender insecurities are.

[@t.rok13]

Hahaaa thank you! If someone didn't make a list I was lol

[@lisavaes]

carefull, he is a hero

[@anela2890]

Ty sm😘😍

[@maddybannana123fun6]

There are 7 billion people in the world not everyone’s going to like you, but not everyone’s going to hate you. Most insecurities men and women have the opposite gender doesn’t even care. Most woman don’t care about height or money and most men don’t care about hair or weight. Some people are just jerks, but that’s always gonna be the case just remember somebody likes you for just the way you are and there’s so much different types of people.

[@rachelharris6599]

now i feel so sad like you need a hug andrew??

[@sophiewinchester8949]

personally height and muscle dont matter to me

[@lonelytrashcanxxx8781]

Emy Horan it doesnt matter to me tbh. its nice i guess but totally not required

[@alyssashoemaker3414]

For me I cant take a tall guy since I'm short af and I.. cant see your face well if you're like a sky scraper

[@tilde2435]

I don't really care about height... but I'm really tall for my age.. And I prefer boys that are taller than me, but it Isn't important. Btw I have a boyfriend and he's taller than me...

[@gizmo3714]

I feel like I'm too tall and skinny :/ I'm like a damn slinky

[@ThatCherriePie]

Good for you, but 95% of other girls will state otherwise.

[@ThriftyBeauty]

I didn't mind the blurry part! I just like to listen : )

[@musicjunkie4800]

It takes a real man to admit these insecurities! Thank you you’re amazing 😊

[@pennir8834]

Who put thumbs down for this video 😤 Brilliant Andrew thanks for being so genuine you're v self aware and it's obvious men go through alot as well as us ladies 😢...but you're beautiful promise 💗

[@ImWORTHITINC]

awwww! SO TRUE! WELL PUT, Penni Rowe! YOU ARE WORTH IT!

[@ma_kenz]

I knew height would be on this list because it's a constant conversation I have with my guy friends & I know there's a double standard. But I disagree that it's totally socially acceptable for a girl to be tall. Some guys I know who are average height find it pretty awkward to date a girl taller than them. But, on the same note, I'm a girl who finds it awkward to date a guy who's shorter than me. So, 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@grdeepa7523]

kenzie brie same here 😂😂

[@sugarblossom3715]

I kind of have that problem, I'm 5'7 and my boyfriend is like 5'10. I used to get made fun of because of the height difference between me and other girls, I can only imagine that it's the same with boys.

[@itzmystichatuka2601]

My guy friends are litalry all shorter than me. And I'm shorter than a lot of short girls I'm 5'3 and short guys are super cute. Short and tall poeple are both equally attractive.

[@sugarblossom3715]

@Your Name Yeah, I'm sure it is. Everyone thinks it's ideal for guys to be really tall. But it's really not.

[@monicalevyt]

You are extremely charming :)

[@peaceloveGen]

I feel like we don’t usually hear this perspective often, so I appreciate you sharing your opinions on insecurities, Andrew! I just want you to know you’re truly great the way you are! Thanks for the shoutout you gave me in the last video!

[@teresemaple4134]

We always strive for that unreachable perfection... I am insecure about my skin and I know that it affects my self confidence, but I also know that everyone is insecure. Anyhow, our insecurities are a part of who we are and therefore I have started to see things in a different light, hoping to spread that light to anyone who needs it💕🍀✨

[@leilaalaoui5177]

Terese Maple i find your skin really stunning💕.

[@itzmystichatuka2601]

If the profile pic is you. Than you are beautifull. It don't matter what your skin looks like or any of that other stuff you are beautifull I am beautifull everyone is beautifull so bullies and mean poeple can just go away.

[@bvntzu1]

I like skinny men, its beautiful!

[@blu3chick3n34]

Kim de Rose me tooooo

[@PpeachyquartzZ]

Kim de Rose i love skinny muscular guys.

[@Alex-ns9wk]

Kim de Rose same . And I'm not the thinnest girl ever too. But I love skinny guys

[@iceprincess5933]

So do l l think that's so sexy 😜

[@moonheartsky]

I'm sure you'll find someone who wants to marry you, you're really attractive and charming. You have a really nice voice, and you're knowledgeable about people, which is a useful trait to have. You'd be a real prize.

[@itzmystichatuka2601]

That is so true any person would be lucky to have him

[@grdeepa7523]

I had an argument with my guy regarding height cuz I'm one inch taller than him and he feels it awkward...well I always tell him that height doesn't matter when it comes to relationship..I love him the way he is..💖And I know guys go through a lots of insecurities. Anyways thank you Andrew for making it more clear about it..#loveyourself✌️✌️

[@Nina21_]

i really appreciate that you opened up about how guys feel about certain things, you're so genuine and funny and i'm pretty sure you're gonna meet the girl who deserves you

[@xTwinVipersx]

Children of abuse too. It destroys you. Please don't leave them out. ='/ It's like when you go to the store, who is going to want to buy something damaged? It's sad but its how we feel. ='/

[@rn8845]

Nancy Liz :(( ♥️ you are loved 💜💜

[@lillyzimmer]

Thanks that video helped me understand what my boyfriend going though

[@ImWORTHITINC]

HEY! I LOVE SHORT GUYS! THEY'RE FUN SIZE!! SOOOO CUTE...idk why...I've always loved short guys!

[@saganasivakumaran4242]

sameee 😍

[@laazysusan9608]

Agreed about the entire height thing! At the end of the day those memes can be hurtful.

[@lethabomalatjiot]

The power of memes 😐

[@evadebruin3824]

I don't really care about a guy's hair. Messy is also cute 😍😍

[@itzmystichatuka2601]

Messy hair on a guy is so freaking cute!!!

[@kookiemons9315]

Ikr??😍

[@emmacherry2093]

Hell yeah!! Messy hair is so cute. But not oily.

[@jordangracepatino]

Yess i love messy hair, esp when me and my ex boyfriend were together. Cutiesss ♡

[@AnonymousReader-er4eg]

Yeah, but bald?

[@goldenprize91]

Your beautiful just the way you are Andrew!💓... We appreciate your vulnerability

[@kookiemons9315]

Exactly

[@ilonamacdonaldsagittarius2173]

Thank you Andrew for being so honest with us. You are the best!👍🏻😁

[@daffymax8456]

Idk why y’all are insecure about crying, like tbh don’t hold it back, it shows your not heartless n have emotions, ye know?

[@caelenw6572]

KaskaVenom yeah, everyone has emotions and needs to express them, no matter who you are!

[@CarlosRuiz-gg5wn]

it's because girls like tough guys that is why they repress it, not me I'm okay if I am wanna cry

[@emmacherry2093]

Yes exactly

[@aboy4678]

You don't really know Guys are insecure about showing there emotion, We are taught from the beginning to not cry or show emotions I remember once my mom made fun of me when I cried and I can't belive. it's not easy for a guy to show emotions to anyone and it sucks

[@deanarodriguez4258]

Andrew, you've also validated that life is hard, when we have financial problems, all of us feel insecure. I can understand that. I can also understand men want to be the provider, have the money to treat you right and like a lady...no McDonald's, a nice restaurant. Some men, feel less of a man when the woman pays. I don't mind paying sometimes, when I can, it shows support of the relationship. Treating your guy is a nice thing to do. Thanks again for this video. I understand my guy more now and will show more caring and listen more...(💡📰) 😙❤ Andrew.

[@soffsoff2332]

Yeah, life sometimes is really hard...

[@ramonanaidoo3824]

I can't lie I didn't know guys are this insecure and emotional inside that hard shell. Really learned from this.

[@makenz3385]

As soon as I saw the video I called my friend and we talked for hours about our insecurities now we are closer than ever so thank you very much

[@emmaforbes1847]

Socially acceptable for women to be really tall or really short? I'm going to have to disagree with you on that one, coming from personal experience. I love my height, but it took me a long time to get here, and I am aware that many people don't like it - and they are always quick to share their opinion. I think all women should love the height they have and I myself think all heights are beautiful, but I don't think it's quite realistic to say that society has reached that point, yet.

[@belahbella_6039]

I have to say weight too . I lost a lot of weight but the part about not being happy with your body or not having enough is tiring . I’ve been that. But I love the way I am and it took me so long to accept that not everyone is going to be pleased so why should I try ? so I started pleasing my self and began to love the way I look and who I am .

[@belahbella_6039]

What Not To Do At a Stoplight yea I know but both are an insecurity . And some people learn to love themselves .

[@MsSimp-fy1dd]

Emma Forbes I think that what he means is that, it's seen as cute for a girl to be short and alot of girls want to be shorter, and if they are tall, they are seen as pretty as well, because they resemble models, and alot of girls want to be taller.

[@Lauren.marie4321]

Why this helped me understand my boyfriend a lot more

[@irenedaza9946]

Hi can you make a video about if guys like chubby girls??i really like to hear your reaction or opinion thank you im a silent viewer

[@xxnekoniamhxx]

The hight thing effects girls to if I’m the tallest girl in the room I feel like I’m not cute enough

[@layan6383]

Niamh Raven lol really? I always wish I was the tallest girl all the time

[@sugarblossom3715]

Same

[@lilianarodriguez4017]

Being tall is unique and attractive😊

[@goldfish8325]

tall people be having them hands😂😂😂and plus you can call people oppa loppas.

[@OurFantasyIsland]

For any guy, whatever insecurities you might have, they dont matter, its only whats inside of you that matters. I met a short guy once whose personality was so great that I would totally have gone out with him (but he is married, so i didnt). Just be your best self and the right person will love you the way you are.

[@dd1984mm]

Was like that with my SO. His intelligence is what drew me in hard.

[@luisar4482]

this is making me feel better about my insecurities but at the same time i just wanna hug every guy who can relate to this.

[@mountain-mornings]

Skinny guys are my fav 😍 I actually find too much muscle to be a huge turn off. You're always going to be someone's type regardless of your body size. Also, I'm almost 5'11 and shorter guys are not always willing to date somone taller than them so it can go both ways. Haha

[@tyfighter1859]

I like your hair. And your eyes😍

[@RainaAstaldo]

I'm 5 foot 3. Any guy is going to be taller than me so it's all good! You're a pretty cool dude, keep doing you Andrew :D

[@goldfish8325]

This is also a year old but😂you in your pfp pick is cute. I really think you're gorgeous.. (Ima girl btw😂😂)

[@goldfish8325]

If that's you in your pfp🙃

[@RainaAstaldo]

@@goldfish8325 Awww how sweet, thankyou so much :D And yes that is me :)

[@firebrand4Him]

First timer here & I just need to comment. Firstly, THANK YOU for making this video! 👌 It’s greatly appreciated! It helps to make us women more aware of what guys go through and even think. Secondly, even though you said that you’re not ‘the guy’ from the movie, being HONEST, GENUINE and your ability to be VULNERABLE (which comes across in this video are ALL STRENGTHS) and even when you ‘TALK A LOT’ as you describe it, are all quite charming qualities to have and makes me (& I’m sure other ladies out there) smile 🙂 Please don’t put yourself down or compare yourself to other guys, God made you unique! Just BE the BEST VERSION OF YOU & when the time is right, the lady who is the perfect fit for you, WANTS to marry you & who you also WANT to marry will come along! You can have the ‘LIFELONG’ marriage once you both continue to work at it! Being a child of divorced parents doesn’t have to define your marital destiny! A ‘big’ 👍🏻 for this video!

[@XGreySkyX]

I can't believe this isn't top comment. 🧐

[@RekindledBibliophile]

I’m so glad someone made this video because it’s an important topic that isn’t discussed enough. Because women are more open about discussing their insecurities, there’s more awareness of them, but men suffer from just as many insecurities due to gender stereotypes and expectations as women. Honestly, it’s sad that it’s 2018 and we still haven’t outgrown those gender stereotypical mindsets that all men should be able to fix things and provide for his partner/family etc. People are people regardless of their gender and we’re all different and basically just trying to figure out where we’re going and what we’re doing with our lives. It’s kinda crazy how much societal pressures can impact on a person so it’s always good to speak out against these things and raise awareness of them.

[@alyssashoemaker3414]

For me, sometimes I dont even have to be upset but I'll start crying from guilt or shame or something and then I'll ball my eyes out then be fine, or other times if people are concerned for me then it worries me and my eyes get watery and I get psychosomatic pain in my throat. Heck sometimes I'll laugh and it makes me cry, wow I cry alot. I actually life crying because it makes me feel human again and less stiff, like greasing up a rusty machine. It makes me emotional and brings me peace, it's pretty much like an emotional stabilizer for me. The actually contain hormones that make you happier! 😁

[@ceciliachristina8234]

I feel a lot of those same insecurities as well even being a women and but also being 24. Most of what you talked about, I feel has really hit me like a title wave recently cause I'm 25 in 6 months. More single than I would like to be lol I'm basically starting my life over again at 25 While I'm doing something that I love, the fact that I'm not where I thought I would be, scares me a little. I've been obsessing over losing weight a lot more. I'm working out 7 days a week mostly eating fruits and vegetables but I still feel like if & when I gain anything back, I'm some how failing. Almost like my whole future depends on it. I don't really talk to anyone about it cause my friends have their own lives, great jobs husbands and kids. I don't want them to worry about me or even feel bad for me cause I'm not giving up. I'm figuring it out and so are you. I think you're pretty fucking great! Insecurities and all! I wish I could give you a hug and tell you that your doing great! Even though it might sound cliché, it's so true! I truly 100% believe in you! Though your path is different, I know you, you're a fighter with a big beautiful heart to match! You're going to get everything you dreamed of and more Andrew! I can promise you that! ❤️ Ps. Thank you for making this one. I've felt pretty alone and kinda like a freak worrying about all of this stuff as well. It's nice to know it's normal and that I'm not the only one. Don't give up 💙

[@Mariajbh2]

It's same for women

[@JahneshaH]

Thanks for being so honest. I am female and always thought Male social pressures arent talked about enough.

[@Kkittycat3000]

You didn’t cry for YEARS? Omg ❤️😞 I am truly very sorry. It’s good to have a cry every so often

[@andronikit.896]

The reason i watch your videos is because you are YOU!!! No one is better than yourself, all the other roles are taken 😉❤️

[@tvaholicsquidney]

I think you are the perfect guy who I would definitely want to date, possibly get in to a relationship and maybe consider marriage, you have a great personality (that is the main thing I go for in a guy) you have great looks (which is a bonus in my books), to me money isn't anything a romantic meal picnic in the back garden means more to me than an expensive meal at a restaurant that costs a fortune, giving me a jacket when I'm cold whilst out on a date, picking up my favourite food when I'm not well just the small little thoughtful things from a guy just melts my heart, a relationship though works both ways and I would do things that would make him happy, to feel better when he isn't well etc to help him, I hope you find someone who is perfect for you where you inspire each other, help other become better people, helping each other achieve your dreams and hopes and stand by each other through thick and thin, through the good and the bad, that is what I want in a relationship, yet I'm different from most women, I have an old soul, I'm unique, I have also some health issues which put pretty much every guy off me, if they just got to know me then they would see me and not the brain injury or the weirdness, plus we would never date as you live in Canada and I live all the way in the UK, I hope you have a happy future, take care, Siobhan :)

[@deanarodriguez4258]

tvaholicsquidney Beautiful words and thoughts. I feel the same as you. Bless you.🕊

[@egyptnz27]

When u get older you will change your mindset of: concern about what others think of you. Realisation that you dont have to impress anyone but yourself! Just saying😊✌

[@CarlosRuiz-gg5wn]

Bullshit it's totally wrong! age means nothing to anybody... the truth is, not to be able to live up the expectaction of society... bullshit with that... it's all lack of personal development or inner woork you are insecure no matter what age!

[@locadiah]

I will die alone

[@vibekes2416]

Don't ever feel bad about yourself Andrew 😊 Your a really great guy... non of these things are important. It's the beauty we have inside that counts... 😊😊

[@farimasultani6138]

OMG I got featured on your video for the first! I'm so happy right now! Thanks Andrew!! 💕😂

[@julietteshelton113]

I just started watching your videos and I really like them. I have been bingeing on them for 2 days haha. Good job

[@simplyem.]

I can definitely relate with your outlook on love changing after seeing your parents go through a divorce. I find it extremely difficult to trust other guys and to let them into my life.

[@silversunastrology]

Are guys really insecure about being single? I feel like they're more insecure about not being a big enough player. Which is dumb. Because honestly, it is WAY easier for a woman to get a date than it is for a man to get a date... So if we want to turn this into a competition, yeah, women could easily get laid more than a guy ever could.

[@foreveronmywaytofuckyourbi5567]

Whackowitch Astrology well I mean look at the gender ratio. There are less women so we have the ability to be more selective. Where as men being more plentiful, in order to reproduce have to drop their standards. Dissipointing, yes. True? Yes.

[@PpeachyquartzZ]

Whackowitch Astrology i know I'm not a guy but I always have anxiety about that. I feel like I'm not pretty enough or not funny enough to find the right person

[@janicecrosby1986]

Women are 51% of the population and more girls are born than boys. Thanks, Gaia!

[@mariapazdebarrosbarretosca6406]

Loved this video, there are so much ways in which society standards limit and affect us even when we know some things are stupid and even unhealthy

[@victoriavsworld]

The whole child of divorce part where you’re insecure about someone wanting to marry you or if you even really believe in love is not just exclusive to guys (although obviously a lot of these can apply to all genders). I for one have settled on the aspect that I fully expect to never get married or have kids, and I’m not sure how much of that is due to me not trusting myself to find someone who loves me that much or how much is me actually not wanting that kind of life. Good video man, I’ve missed seeing you around 👌

[@BiblicallyHandle]

I have an appreciation for your content. Truthfully speaking however, many of society’s expectations are rooted in Biology. It is important to make this distinction because it makes many people seem like dicks for having natural inclinations. Women tend towards more emotionality to anticipate the needs of our infants. Men on average, tend to express less emotionality because a resilient mind is necessary to protect a family.

[@1julierowe]

I think you have a great personality! When you get to your 50s...sarcasm is a must! It's great for you to share these insecurities. I had no clue

[@PapiyoneVineland]

This is the most relatable video ever. I happened to be watching this right after a panic attack, and I feel better about myself knowing that I'm not alone in not having everything figured out in life. I'm also gonna try and use the information to boost my guy friends ego/reassure them when I have the chance. :) Thanks Andrew.

[@ayotaxi9282]

I’m surprised, these match up my bfs personality.... he’s out there but he’s shy, and he gets nervous that I won’t love him for who he is❤️.... thank you Andrew♥️😍

[@pastelarvocado2475]

I really like listening to you. Sometimes I just pick any of your video (the contents are also very good by the way), because you're really fun to watch and listen (especially when you're also being sarcastic). The way you explain things are actually very well elaborated, things people don't usually spill out, but actually very helpful to be discussed. Anyway, keep posting, I really look forward to your videos, and simply I wish the best for your future works! :)

[@Rookleyz]

this was the realest any youtuber has ever been. Love this, Andrew, thanks!

[@lauramassaro5610]

You r rly cute and vulnerable in a lot of your videos. I personally believe you shouldn’t have to worry about being “muscular” or being socially awkward or anything, just be yourself. I mean ur kinda my yt crush and anyone could fall for u lol ur personality is adorable

[@citlalyanaly]

I swear I felt like you were speaking to my soul although I am a girl you literally hit the nail in the coffin and I realized we're kind of all the same men and women we seem to go through it alike and it's refreshing thank you so much for being such an honest human being in public for people to learn from and others to relate I appreciate this video for some weird reason so much

[@happy583xox]

Honestly, after watching all of these videos (I’ve watched basically all of your videos tbh) I’d totally date you. You seem like you’re an amazing listener and you notice the small details. That’s a really attractive trait to have!

[@xariproductions8212]

Don’t feel this way I’m pretty sure we all feel that you are perfec. It nice that you keep it real

[@puiichawnghlut2582]

i like the fact that you are always in the right point.

[@bres5010]

Takes more strength for a man to cry then to block their sadness with anger! U mentioned it being ok for girls to b short or tall BUT there was/(is?) a stigma on both short & tall(albeit more so on tall).I'm in complete agreement with the whole body image thing! I believe a lot of mine has to do with BDD(BodyDismorficDisorder)...I used to weigh 386lbs & despite losing 206lbs in my mind I'm still just as big as I was. To the point I still, years later, am shocked by my reflection more often than not!

[@paigenoel5513]

Aw, don't tell yourself that! I think you're charming. Why else would I watch 17 videos in the last hour? : ) You know, some girls think that a little bit of awkwardness is cute. And I don't think a lot of girls really like guys that are too muscular, just some tone and you're fine. Finally, you are still taller than a majority of the female population, girls don't care as much as men think. We like good personalities. Humor is very important for most girls and I have laughed a lot over the last hour. Take my advice, if whoever is on these videos (which i'm sure is the real you) is perfect for a nice girl. Got it? Good (:

[@singing.winnie]

What I really like about these videos is that Andrew is just so great in speech. You are so articulate. I am amazed how you can express your thoughts like that, I mean, you have great thoughts and opinions, and you know how to express them into words perfectly. I love youuuuu. My twin and I think you are one of the few awesome youtubers. Love, from Korea

[@ameliafortune3749]

Genuinely mean it, height isn’t a huge deal to me. You can carry yourself like you’re confident and still make me feel safe and that’s the job done. Muscles kinda scare me about too like I’d be easily crushed. Thanks for being vulnerable with us Andrew it’s important we know about these things

[@nichole8609]

It took confidence to admit to all of this. ..I tend to binge watch really late at night.

[@shwetagoswami5149]

I think this is a very courageous video to portray to negatives of what men go through. There will be criticism for sure but I feel so proud of you @Andrew Quo to be bold enough to make us women and the rest of the society realize that men go through as much as women do, too. I feel there should be an awareness for men too. Again, great video and I'm grateful to be a part of your life in a way through your KZbin channel. I suppose this is one of the best videos I've watched till date. Thank you so much for all that you've done for us ladies. 😊🤗 This message from me to you is purely out of appreciation, gratitude, respect and support, no intentions of flattering. 🙂 Lots of love, empathy, respect and support to you boy, @Andrew Quo.❤️😀

[@slaggeylindsay7464]

THANK YOU for this video, the guy I’m into has told me he has very low confidence and self value which is not a problem to me except that his lack of initiative makes me feel like he doesn’t like me, especially cause I’m a pretty confident person that goes for what I want. I’m trying to understand his insecurities instead of just get frustrated and give up.

[@emmacherry2093]

8:16 This really hurts. I littaraly started to cry. I'm sorry you guys. I'm sorry you have to go through this. Feeling that way. I'm sensitive to it, when my guy friends go through this kind of paradox, I can feel it. I never want my boyfriend or guy friends to feel this way. It's scary because society is trying to change who you are. It's a bad place to feel stuck. I don't know about how other girls feel but, in my personal feelings. When my boyfriend or guy friends dont express or communicate. I get desperate. My mouth feels numb like whatever I say will only make things worse. I feel like I'm talking too much that maybe it's a turn off. Look. The truth is It's an insecurity but, The only way you can be yourself and express yourself, is when you know a girl really cares. Honestly. If you know a girl like that , trust me you can let it all out with her. I know not all people are perfect. But if someone really shows they care? Don't feel bad about expressing yourself to her. When a guy tells me about the things that make him feel insecure and expresses how they feel, even when it has something to do with something I might be doing, I feel loved. And I appreciate it so much. 5:46 Also I love it when a guy gets comfortable around me, I don't mind if you are goofy. It's cute. Really really cute!

[@littlemisseyface]

BIG respect from me Andrew for this video ! Very brave and courageous of you to share your feelings in such a public way plus encourage other guys to do he same. Nice one

[@Virvepaulina]

It's so weird listening to this because if I like a guy, none of that stuff will matter. This is good perspective. We are all sometimes too much in our heads. Let's live and enjoy more instead! ❤

[@zuzanastankova956]

I agree with that that is messed up that the guy's insecurities feels for some people socialy unacsepteble. In my opinion the hight, weight or anything like that don't matter.

[@fullelement4886]

Guy here, I resonate SO HARD will all of these except the height one. I'm pretty confident about my height at 5'11" at least. But everything else... it hits me right on the head. Women listening, these really are some of our biggest insecurities... I spend 3/4 of my life agonizing over these damn things.

[@rebecatj8494]

I think it’s crazy how hard it is for guys to cry. it is very liberating (specially if you’ve been bottling something up or get a sudden crazy wave of feelings) and you shouldn’t ever feel like it’s not manly or something like that

[@missb5134]

AQ - I think you are my dream guy? I'm really into your hair and sarcasm ... and the fact that you like girls who switch into accents. In one of your videos (I've been watching your videos nonstop for the past 24 hours, you're totes welcome) you said a girl randomly switching into different accents was just the most adorable thing and like dating many different girls at once... so that it something that I naturally do and used to be insecure about when I was younger. Now, I find it a completely endearing quality to my very vastly unique and ever growing magical personality :)

[@carlaa4140]

You are my fave youtuber. Such a genuine guy :)

[@s.k6044]

Honestly...I always asked myself what guys could possibly be insecure about ? I mean , they don't have to wear makeup , fix their hair , and all this other shit girls go through ....I'm actually surprised they go through just as much! .... thanks for this video

[@awkward291]

I'm sorry you lost your doggy, Andrew. I know how you feel. Last time I bawled my eyes out was when I lost my golden

[@blueant7988]

I loved reading the comments here. The video is awesome. Thanks for sharing those insecurities. We do have those too. Maybe that sounds weird, but all of them. Some may be directed in another way, from example not knowing to fix a car, but doing things like cleaning and cookong and such things. Anddddd, we all have insecurities. It is just a matter of having the courage to admit/accept them or not.

[@NileshR12]

I totally agree with you about the height & weight when you talked about those two things

[@sidney355]

I had never heard someone talking about this, so thanks for sharing it ❤❤ And I really hope this changes soon, we shouldn't see each other like the society wants

[@abourret1886]

I feel bad for you. You deserve better.

[@katykeeffe7137]

Thanks for sharing. Charming and all of that is so over rated and not what I value. A real connection is so much greater.

[@ImWORTHITINC]

Andrew, not to take away from you..I FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT MONEY (I get hungry sometimes, and THERE IS NO MONEY to eat..but to ask people...SO EMBARRASSING! TO ME THAT IS THE WORST THING!) Also, I DO NOT want to be skinny...i do NOT wish to be "fat" again ( I LOST 200 POUNDS) but I WANT TO BE STRONG! so now, I box DAILY and run, and sit ups ( so i dont have skinny fat thing!) and DRINK A PROTEIN SHAKE! I love you Andrew!! DO YOU!! DO NOT LET OTHERS' CRAPPY OPINIONS POISON YOU!! YOU ARE WORTH IT!!

[@lindseylee251]

this is such an honest video, still super relevant in 2021

[@saranicholls713]

I never really thought about guys being torn between being sensitive (like what girls want from them, and then the world sometimes thinking men should be strong and not show their feelings. I think it takes a strong man to express his feelings, because he is taking a chance of being rejected if they are vulnerable.

[@megsterchick5]

I’ve honestly been into literally all different types of body types for guys... honestly what’s gets me to like the guys is their personality

[@DianaAndPaty]

this was so sad :( you’re great! keep doing you

[@iamrandomsauce]

Honestly, I am very tall and I just feel awkward in the company of a shorter man, in terms of a couple. As friends - I have no problem. I don't care about any of the rest of the things you've mentioned as insecurities, but height is a must have! The frustrating thing is, that as much as you believe that it's ok for a girl to be tall, I'd like to say from personal experience that most tall guys like short "pocket size" girls...

[@skyesmith2099]

I love that he is so honest

[@lydiagrace8116]

“I take public transit”

[@annabelle7123]

Imperfect guys are fine... Andrew is really good enough, tall enough, handsome enough and we all know that! But I can all relate to insecurities here :)

[@rheali5143]

My ex was broke and short and later he broke up with me saying he had to let go of me be he loves me.. things do make senses in modern life

[@aurorap.7578]

KZbin is great to learn about mechanics FYI, also I get the whole single thing but I’m honestly okay being single for life there’s so much to learn and do in this world without being in a relationship.

[@midnight9386]

I think all guys have body insecurities. I’m actually in great shape right now, but with comes the expectation that I must stay like that, and I still think I’m to fat or skinny sometimes.

[@deanarodriguez4258]

Insecurites that result from psychological and physical abuse from a woman, former wife will keep a man from pursuing a serious relationship with you. I have a lot of patience. And, I love him very much. I'm supportive and loving. He's my ex from 30 years ago and we've found each other again. We have a strong friendship, where I think a relationship should start from. Having domestic violence in my former marriage, gives me the tools to be extra patient and caring. Thank you for this video. I've subscribed to your channel. Love the list you described here. Keep up the good work. Looking forward to more videos. Please make some videos on the shift from friends with benefits to a relationship. I like your video, Are you more than friends? Thank you. I enjoyed it very much. And, yes my guy and her more than friends. Thanks for your validations.💙

[@natalie_arty7360]

Hey Andrew! There's lots that I wanna say, so I really hope you read this!!. A few months ago I was struggling with some feelings that I had for a guy...he's older than me by like 5 1/2 years...and I was really hoping that he's be my first bf... (I'm 20 now, but I was 19 when this all went down). I felt insecure about the age gap first of all, and the fact that I'd never dated. Plus I'm a really small person. Like, REALLY small. I'm 5' 2" and have a good ole classic 'baby face'. I was getting so frazzled because I was contemplating on whether or not I should make the first move. And just as I got up the courage to tell the guy, he tells me that he was accepted into the navy!!!! 😭😭 it tore my heart out, because after that, I felt like there would be no reason to even try anything. And of course, nothing happened between us. Regardless, he's gone, I'm home, and I'm healing. 😄 what I wanted to say was, a few months ago, I started watching your videos, and I've subscribed really quickly. Idk how or why, but I found myself turning to you when I needed some advice or sort of confirmation as to 'why does he act this way', because your videos are always so helpful! In the end, I realized that you're a true gem, and if there's one thing that is always constant in your videos, it's your smile. 😊 legit you have such a sexy smile that it makes me blush like a 13-year-old having her first crush! 😃😃😆 I know that all people have insecurities, whether they admit it or not. You're a really great role model, and such a brave person to be able to actually open up and share your thoughts and insecurities with us. That's what I call a true man!! Like seriously, you're bf material. 💖💖 and don't get me started on your eyes! 😍😍 i love how they sparkle when you have that quirky smile of yours!! 😆😆 Don't tell me that you're not charming, cuz boy, you're owning the charm!!! And if there's one thing I'd want you to know, it's that, all of the qualities you see in other guys that you might not have....listen to me. EMBRACE IT! You have YOUR OWN qualities that make you so damn perfect and charming. There was a quote I read a while back, it goes; "Always be yourself, no one can tell you you're doing it wrong." And that should be a universal motto, because how boring would it be if we were all the same?? So be you Andrew, we wouldn't love you for who you are if you were someone else!!! 😚😚💖💖💖💖 oh and can I just say that you are so fine! Like you're perfect! Love you, and thank you for just being you. For all of your advice and time you spend making your videos. For BEING ANDREW QUO MAN!!! We love you! 💖💖💖💖💖💖 Sincerely, ~Your adoring subscribers! ♡♡♡