10 THINGS TO DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE

[@nairah1]

I found this video today as I am preparing to marry soon. Thank you for posting. 5 years later it is still blessing others.

[@kitan-ID]

I just remembered this video I watched in 2017 , sharing it with my friend 3 years later 👌🏾

[@ritaeni9018]

Even after 2 years, this video makes sense, love u

[@thedamidowu]

Great stuff Tosin. The sex part really stood out for me because most Christians are too shy to talk about it. I have actually heard someone say it is a sin to talk about things like that but really, thanks a lot for sharing.

[@BemiBadmus]

God bless you so much Tosin, i actually jotted these things down, sending the link to my partner so when we meet tomorrow, we discuss these things even though we already know some of it. hehe thanks. And Congratulations once again Tosin and Happy Married Life.

[@seyiwickliffe]

I couldn't agree more with all you pointed. At the end of the day, communication, transparency, understanding (and other values) are key foundations for a married life

[@SilviaDwomoh7]

This are so important for every person waiting upon God;s timing. I pray more get to watch this. God bless you Tosin!

[@lurvlie]

Saving this video for when I start my courtship

[@OyinHunnieTV]

adding to my watch later because I'll still need it in the near future 😊 very important. thanks Tosin

[@opeyemiomoloja328]

My Lady..... You are just too much. GOD bless you heavily

[@Kosiso-by1mc]

Omg.. new sub here. There are so many things to talk about before marriage, so many profound points you hit in this video, I’m 23 in a committed relationship. Hmm am I really ready to get married😅

[@lapek7608]

Well said tosin!! Very enlightening!! The part of "if you like hang on the wall" 😂😂😂😂

[@TosinAlabi]

Buhahahahahhahahaah thanks for watching girl!

[@temiquadry]

Lape K 😂😂😂 on the freezer

[@olawaleopeyemi9057]

didn't think of criminal history and family mentor...thumbs up Tosin!

[@winifredoribhabor]

Thank you!!! I'm single but this video is so sincere and lovely. You definitely hit very important points. And it was funny too lol

[@ToluFalode]

Hey boo I particularly enjoyed discussing your health concerns and also the in-laws. I feel these are very important to discuss prior to marriage just to make sure you are both on the same page and avoid any uncomfortable and complex situations later-the longer these issues are left unattended-the more they could affect the marriage negatively-very informative video :) Thanks for sharing!

[@biancaihua5841]

Listening to Sister Tosin Alabi is so soothing 🙌💆.

[@talikhibekas]

Thank you so much Tosin for this video.. i really like the idea of having a family mentor and how you acknowledge that some issues will arise where a third party will have to come in. I wish you the very best in your marriage xx

[@miracleokenwa4906]

you hit it well my sister and this was right in time. more grace

[@amzolinek]

Very much detailed and educative,thank you sister. I forgot to mention how gorgeous you look 😊 so i had to edit my comment.

[@Omotokeo]

A truly timeless video thank you Tosin 💛

[@tolufadeyi]

This is really enlightening ma, I'm so blessed. Most times, relationships or marriage go sour because of unrealistic expectations or uncommunicated expectations.

[@belloubaydat1381]

First time coming across this video and I would say this is really good and very enlightening Welcome a new subscriber Tosin 😊

[@ihuomaokpara]

I'm not married yet, but I had to sit down with my journal to take down these points. I will definitely place utmost importance on them. congratulations on getting married Dear🎉

[@GracefullyKaren]

Congratulations on your union. God bless you both 🙏🏿. May this channel continue to flourish. I pray that more people come across your channel. There's always something I learn ever since I came across your channel. Great points made 👍🏾😊. I love the gender expectation. I know my mom talked to me about how when she was younger Sunday was also a day to rest/no cooking but it's different now. P.S. Loving that makeup look/outfit.

[@diy9ja]

Tosin I tell you this video is so on point abeg! Especially the finance and expectations part, that is so overlooked and hidden in relationships today. Next thing you know people are making demands their spouses cannot meet up with both emotionally or financially.

[@joydibia7529]

Tosinnn, thanks a lot for this video. quite insightful. I particularly love what you said about being open with what u earn and all, I grew up in a family where my dad earned a lot but had issues telling my mom anything about his pay and trust me we re a Christian family n all, the Baba just felt he s way older than my mom and He provides for us so there s no need for the info. thankfully, I m not in the least like that and the man I m courting is as open as I am.. one thing I couldn't stop staring at though are your edges.. Lord, you have hair Tosin.. very nice. congrats on ur union and God's continued blessings.

[@bluejazzwavehumming7296]

Whole + whole = Completely Whole. Blessings to you❤

[@adebimpe-susankujero7414]

Hey, my first time here. I feel like your channel needed to be created to correct notions on certain societal norms. And you're doing a good job!

[@adunnithedancingchef]

You’re so full of Grace and Wisdom

[@eddystechmarketplace1624]

deep insight. this really went down so well. grateful dear

[@LadyDami]

THank you for this video. My self and my would-be will sit and listen to you videos this Saturday by God's grace, with our pens and books to discuss each points you highlighted with our answers.. We've been discussing oO but this is just perfect for us to discuss.. Thank you!

[@opeyemidada7240]

God bless you Tosin. This is the pure undiluted truth.

[@opeyemidada7240]

My fiance bears the same name with you. I hope we make it.

[@adelekemary5014]

So educative ,timely .more great

[@lolaadekola]

Thanks for sharing Tosin- they mum pulls the generator part tho 🤣🤣🤣

[@oluwaseunayodele1548]

Thank you very much for sharing this. It is really helpful. God bless you!

[@ItunuoluwaLambo]

This video is so helpful. Thank you so much. There were number of things I didn’t put into perspective before now. Thank you for sharing.

[@uzonwafor415]

Congrats newlywed! God bless your union

[@Jackie.Mpengo]

the makeup is beautiful

[@modesolaojumu2654]

wow. Tosin you're blessed. This is a great video, may the wisdom of God continue to multiply in your life

[@ganamary1601]

Very valid and solid points..Thank God we get to see this and Learn. Tosin you are such a blessing I wish you a very happy home.

[@oluwadamilolashodeinde5337]

I looove you so much. You are such a blessing

[@pearly-greaty]

This is awesome. Thanks Tosin.

[@kemipen]

I'd like to Congratulate you on getting married. I know it might be coming late but I know you would not hold it against me. Congratulations! And May God give you the grace & wisdom to be the best wife to your husband. This topic you shared is very important whether we like it or not. Thank you for sharing. I know it is not easy to find out all habits but I do pray that the Holy Spirit will guide us to all truth. In Jesus Name. Amen.🙏

[@ArikatB]

This video will not play. I just found your channel today and subscribed. Love you two.

[@zain90s]

Great video and great timing for me. Thank Tosin. I wish you a beautiful married life

[@yejideoyafunke8723]

This is actually one of my best videos of you 😘

[@egemonu-williamsemmanuella4093]

Thank you so much for this, I love your videos and I get to jot down a lot of things too.

[@deborahosinowo]

This video is very good. Thank you Tosin. I started out watching without a jotter but I had to pick up one along the way.

[@emioduntan]

Thank you sooo much for this video. It's sooo helpful. I pray God continues to fill you with wisdom and use you as His vessel. God bless you real good! ❤️❤️

[@oyindamolaakintola432]

I was watching a video about purple frogs when i saw this by the side with the tag recommended. Lol, these 2 videos are not even related at all. but I clicked on this out of curiosity and I am glad that I did. I am single but I trust God that I will be married some day and this video was quite insightful. Great job! I just subscribed.

[@henriettaefeadue5216]

This video is so rich, blessed and full of wisdom. Thank you Tosin.

[@la_lah]

All these points are so right. Especially the conflict resolution. I Will be using these tips in the future. Thanks!

[@delightsalami5890]

Thank you ma'am!!

[@toyinbankole9308]

This is so valid!!! Love it thank you

[@daughteroftheking4301]

I absolutely love you videos! You're so blessed with wisdom and you're well spoken. I enjoy them because I feel like it's God speaking to me thru you. Continue being obedient to God and be you. Stay blessed, beautiful woman of God! 😊

[@kitan-ID]

Definitely saving this video and sharing with others

[@dami_ooh]

Thanks for sharing,my husband and I had all these discussion before we got married and I thank God we haven't had any money fight because we keep everything open, we have been married for almost 4 years now. What is your take on joint account, this topic keeps coming up in different group I belong to.

[@olawaleopeyemi9057]

Gosh! I am loving the married Tosin

[@tamaratarere]

I appreciate your transparency in this video. You said a lot of things that were note worthy. God bless you💜

[@tifuhtheodora9938]

Very educative, thank you

[@jenniferlitanda3416]

Thank you! God bless you

[@chineloelizabeth6619]

I love your videos and this is coming at the right time, thanks for all the insights.

[@jenniferlitanda3416]

This was really good!!

[@eniolaadams]

Fine girl! Ride on my dear💃🏽😩

[@ForesightFi]

Great content.

[@honeta11]

Congratulation once again dear. Very useful video as usual. Are you already relocated to glasglow ?

[@evuasa7080]

thank you for this and the other well detailed videos! thank you so much and well done

[@nkese4547]

this video is too good.

[@jareya]

Such a lovely video Tosin! God bless you for sharing.

[@bisolanaomiolowu9228]

Thank you so much for this video❤️❤️❤️

[@savedtosave1894]

Thanks for sharing sis Tosin! God bless you greatly!

[@flocshair6754]

Great video thanks a lot. God bless you and your union 😊

[@akachiokoro5492]

Enjoyed every part of it.well detailed

[@temitopechinedu-ihekwoaba6303]

I love this video.

[@akinwumiolayemia.4544]

Thanks Tosin!

[@adeolaakintaju9146]

Many thanks Tosin.

[@graceorshio8962]

Thank you so much. This is such a blessing!

[@kellykind7381]

God bless you sis. This was really informative.

[@excellentvicky1120]

It is really helpful....God bless you

[@kmichel2797]

This video is so good and informative! I'm not getting married soon, nor do I have any prospects in sight haha, but I believe that this video is very helpful to anyone. In the future, if it is His will for me, I desire to speak to my future husband about these things so that they don't become problems in our marriage. Also, Congratulations on your marriage, Tosin! May God bless your union.

[@abisolafasuhanmi]

Enlightening !!! Thank you

[@rosa629]

thank you so much...

[@BoluAdekoya]

I haven't even watched it and I'm so excited. yaay thanks aunty Tosin!

[@JAchica11]

Good video.

[@Tolulope88]

Great Watch

[@valeriemmani5083]

Awesome love

[@tarahs9917]

@tosinalabi thanks for this

[@marya.8087]

Thank you ma'am; ...be back, God willing.

[@Ella_Babygirl]

Thanks so much ma

[@yemi5193]

For singles like me what Christian materials would you recommend whilst waiting on God for the right partner.

[@onaolapoolajumoke9125]

You made sense baje.

[@MomentswithKitan]

Great content! Important point mentioned as well :)

[@phurplkyxxex]

Also with transparency, ask your partner if they have kids. African men are not immune to this! Every woman should have her own. God forbid her husband dies/disabled.

[@aderonkefalusi9454]

Can someone be so busy that they won't call you at all if they are into ministry

[@rhodaenietan]

Someone who intends to build a home with you must see you as a priority and be ready to make time for you to a large extent there is a place for compromise on your part but not to the point of rarely speaking, intimacy via communication is very important for any relationship or marriage to thrive!

[@obianujuikeaka9947]

😂😂😂girl you are funny

[@Naomii549]

My name sake

[@ogeokoye6053]

I must confess, this is educative, but what if the partner is the type that doesn't like discussions? should I continue with the person or wait for another?

[@toluwanimib6409]

oge okoye it's important to be able to communicate with your partner. You should be able to have these discussions or you'll have problems

[@Jojo111]

NICE VIDEO SIS

[@tdemjayz]

I think oral sex is unnatural and it dehumanizes humans regardless of the fact that we've come to be at home with it. This is an adult section, should the mouth go to the anus as well? Ewww Unthinkably irritating

[@abiolaoluwaseun8997]

Thank you Tosin, this is so detailed