10 THINGS TO DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE

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[@nairah1]

I found this video today as I am preparing to marry soon. Thank you for posting. 5 years later it is still blessing others.

[@kitan-ID]

I just remembered this video I watched in 2017 , sharing it with my friend 3 years later 👌🏾

[@dami3812]

Great stuff Tosin. The sex part really stood out for me because most Christians are too shy to talk about it. I have actually heard someone say it is a sin to talk about things like that but really, thanks a lot for sharing.

[@ritaeni9018]

Even after 2 years, this video makes sense, love u

[@seyiwickliffe]

I couldn't agree more with all you pointed. At the end of the day, communication, transparency, understanding (and other values) are key foundations for a married life

[@BemiBadmus]

God bless you so much Tosin, i actually jotted these things down, sending the link to my partner so when we meet tomorrow, we discuss these things even though we already know some of it. hehe thanks. And Congratulations once again Tosin and Happy Married Life.

[@SilviaDwomoh7]

This are so important for every person waiting upon God;s timing. I pray more get to watch this. God bless you Tosin!

[@OyinHunnieTV]

adding to my watch later because I'll still need it in the near future 😊 very important. thanks Tosin

[@lolaadekola]

Thanks for sharing Tosin- they mum pulls the generator part tho 🤣🤣🤣

[@toyinbankole9308]

This is so valid!!! Love it thank you

[@diy9ja]

Tosin I tell you this video is so on point abeg! Especially the finance and expectations part, that is so overlooked and hidden in relationships today. Next thing you know people are making demands their spouses cannot meet up with both emotionally or financially.

[@joydibia7529]

Tosinnn, thanks a lot for this video. quite insightful. I particularly love what you said about being open with what u earn and all, I grew up in a family where my dad earned a lot but had issues telling my mom anything about his pay and trust me we re a Christian family n all, the Baba just felt he s way older than my mom and He provides for us so there s no need for the info. thankfully, I m not in the least like that and the man I m courting is as open as I am.. one thing I couldn't stop staring at though are your edges.. Lord, you have hair Tosin.. very nice. congrats on ur union and God's continued blessings.

[@winifredoribhabor]

Thank you!!! I'm single but this video is so sincere and lovely. You definitely hit very important points. And it was funny too lol

[@deborahosinowo]

This video is very good. Thank you Tosin. I started out watching without a jotter but I had to pick up one along the way.

[@kitan-ID]

Definitely saving this video and sharing with others

[@abisolafasuhanmi]

Enlightening !!! Thank you

[@la_lah]

All these points are so right. Especially the conflict resolution. I Will be using these tips in the future. Thanks!

[@LaVidaAsArikatB]

This video will not play. I just found your channel today and subscribed. Love you two.

[@yejideoyafunke8723]

This is actually one of my best videos of you 😘

[@savedtosave1894]

Thanks for sharing sis Tosin! God bless you greatly!

[@tolufadeyi]

This is really enlightening ma, I'm so blessed. Most times, relationships or marriage go sour because of unrealistic expectations or uncommunicated expectations.

[@henriettaefeadue5216]

This video is so rich, blessed and full of wisdom. Thank you Tosin.

[@talikhibekas]

Thank you so much Tosin for this video.. i really like the idea of having a family mentor and how you acknowledge that some issues will arise where a third party will have to come in. I wish you the very best in your marriage xx

[@chineloelizabeth6619]

I love your videos and this is coming at the right time, thanks for all the insights.

[@oluwadamilolashodeinde5337]

I looove you so much. You are such a blessing

[@jenniferlitanda3416]

This was really good!!

[@jareya]

Such a lovely video Tosin! God bless you for sharing.

[@adebimpe-susankujero7414]

Hey, my first time here. I feel like your channel needed to be created to correct notions on certain societal norms. And you're doing a good job!

[@LadyDami]

THank you for this video. My self and my would-be will sit and listen to you videos this Saturday by God's grace, with our pens and books to discuss each points you highlighted with our answers.. We've been discussing oO but this is just perfect for us to discuss.. Thank you!

[@zain90s]

Great video and great timing for me. Thank Tosin. I wish you a beautiful married life

[@ganamary1601]

Very valid and solid points..Thank God we get to see this and Learn. Tosin you are such a blessing I wish you a very happy home.

[@evuasa7080]

thank you for this and the other well detailed videos! thank you so much and well done

[@lurvlie]

Saving this video for when I start my courtship

[@adunnithedancingchef]

You’re so full of Grace and Wisdom

[@tamaratarere]

I appreciate your transparency in this video. You said a lot of things that were note worthy. God bless you💜

[@akachiokoro5492]

Enjoyed every part of it.well detailed

[@amzolinek]

Very much detailed and educative,thank you sister. I forgot to mention how gorgeous you look 😊 so i had to edit my comment.

[@olawaleopeyemi9057]

didn't think of criminal history and family mentor...thumbs up Tosin!

[@GracefullyKaren]

Congratulations on your union. God bless you both 🙏🏿. May this channel continue to flourish. I pray that more people come across your channel. There's always something I learn ever since I came across your channel. Great points made 👍🏾😊. I love the gender expectation. I know my mom talked to me about how when she was younger Sunday was also a day to rest/no cooking but it's different now. P.S. Loving that makeup look/outfit.

[@lyndaihechimerenwaimo7395]

This is awesome. Thanks Tosin.

[@abiolaoluwaseun8997]

Thank you Tosin, this is so detailed

[@bluejazzwavehumming7296]

Whole + whole = Completely Whole. Blessings to you❤

[@nkese4547]

this video is too good.

[@miracleokenwa4906]

you hit it well my sister and this was right in time. more grace

[@ToluFalode]

Hey boo I particularly enjoyed discussing your health concerns and also the in-laws. I feel these are very important to discuss prior to marriage just to make sure you are both on the same page and avoid any uncomfortable and complex situations later-the longer these issues are left unattended-the more they could affect the marriage negatively-very informative video :) Thanks for sharing!

[@Omotokeo]

A truly timeless video thank you Tosin 💛

[@egemonu-williamsemmanuella4093]

Thank you so much for this, I love your videos and I get to jot down a lot of things too.

[@bisolanaomiolowu9228]

Thank you so much for this video❤️❤️❤️

[@temitopechinedu-ihekwoaba6303]

I love this video.

[@flocshair6754]

Great video thanks a lot. God bless you and your union 😊

[@oluwaseunayodele1548]

Thank you very much for sharing this. It is really helpful. God bless you!

[@akinwumiolayemia.4544]

Thanks Tosin!

[@eddystechmarketplace1624]

deep insight. this really went down so well. grateful dear

[@ItunuoluwaLambo]

This video is so helpful. Thank you so much. There were number of things I didn’t put into perspective before now. Thank you for sharing.

[@belloubaydat1381]

First time coming across this video and I would say this is really good and very enlightening Welcome a new subscriber Tosin 😊

[@uzonwafor415]

Congrats newlywed! God bless your union

[@adeolaakintaju9146]

Many thanks Tosin.

[@jenniferlitanda3416]

Thank you! God bless you

[@adelekemary5014]

So educative ,timely .more great

[@biancaihua5841]

Listening to Sister Tosin Alabi is so soothing 🙌💆.

[@tifuhtheodora9938]

Very educative, thank you

[@osakuadeifeoluwa1210]

Great content.

[@olawaleopeyemi9057]

Gosh! I am loving the married Tosin

[@delightsalami5890]

Thank you ma'am!!

[@opeyemiomoloja328]

My Lady..... You are just too much. GOD bless you heavily

[@Jackie.Mpengo]

the makeup is beautiful

[@lapek7608]

Well said tosin!! Very enlightening!! The part of "if you like hang on the wall" 😂😂😂😂

[@TosinAlabi]

Buhahahahahhahahaah thanks for watching girl!

[@temiquadry]

Lape K 😂😂😂 on the freezer

[@Tolulope88]

Great Watch

[@opeyemidada7240]

God bless you Tosin. This is the pure undiluted truth.

[@opeyemidada7240]

My fiance bears the same name with you. I hope we make it.

[@kellykind7381]

God bless you sis. This was really informative.

[@valeriemmani5083]

Awesome love

[@o.r.avlogs]

Well detailed

[@emioduntan]

Thank you sooo much for this video. It's sooo helpful. I pray God continues to fill you with wisdom and use you as His vessel. God bless you real good! ❤️❤️

[@eniolaadams]

Fine girl! Ride on my dear💃🏽😩

[@rosa629]

thank you so much...

[@excellentvicky1120]

It is really helpful....God bless you

[@modesolaojumu2654]

wow. Tosin you're blessed. This is a great video, may the wisdom of God continue to multiply in your life

[@honeta11]

Congratulation once again dear. Very useful video as usual. Are you already relocated to glasglow ?

[@JAchica11]

Good video.

[@oyindamolaakintola432]

I was watching a video about purple frogs when i saw this by the side with the tag recommended. Lol, these 2 videos are not even related at all. but I clicked on this out of curiosity and I am glad that I did. I am single but I trust God that I will be married some day and this video was quite insightful. Great job! I just subscribed.

[@daughteroftheking4301]

I absolutely love you videos! You're so blessed with wisdom and you're well spoken. I enjoy them because I feel like it's God speaking to me thru you. Continue being obedient to God and be you. Stay blessed, beautiful woman of God! 😊

[@Ella_Babygirl]

Thanks so much ma

[@onaolapoolajumoke9125]

You made sense baje.

[@tarahs9917]

@tosinalabi thanks for this

[@graceorshio8962]

Thank you so much. This is such a blessing!

[@kemipen]

I'd like to Congratulate you on getting married. I know it might be coming late but I know you would not hold it against me. Congratulations! And May God give you the grace & wisdom to be the best wife to your husband. This topic you shared is very important whether we like it or not. Thank you for sharing. I know it is not easy to find out all habits but I do pray that the Holy Spirit will guide us to all truth. In Jesus Name. Amen.🙏

[@MomentswithKitan]

Great content! Important point mentioned as well :)

[@marya.8087]

Thank you ma'am; ...be back, God willing.

[@ihuomaokpara]

I'm not married yet, but I had to sit down with my journal to take down these points. I will definitely place utmost importance on them. congratulations on getting married Dear🎉

[@dami_ooh]

Thanks for sharing,my husband and I had all these discussion before we got married and I thank God we haven't had any money fight because we keep everything open, we have been married for almost 4 years now. What is your take on joint account, this topic keeps coming up in different group I belong to.

[@yemi5193]

For singles like me what Christian materials would you recommend whilst waiting on God for the right partner.

[@BoluAdekoya]

I haven't even watched it and I'm so excited. yaay thanks aunty Tosin!

[@kmichel2797]

This video is so good and informative! I'm not getting married soon, nor do I have any prospects in sight haha, but I believe that this video is very helpful to anyone. In the future, if it is His will for me, I desire to speak to my future husband about these things so that they don't become problems in our marriage. Also, Congratulations on your marriage, Tosin! May God bless your union.

[@obianujuikeaka9947]

😂😂😂girl you are funny

[@phurplkyxxex]

Also with transparency, ask your partner if they have kids. African men are not immune to this! Every woman should have her own. God forbid her husband dies/disabled.

[@Jojo111]

NICE VIDEO SIS

[@Naomii549]

My name sake

[@aderonkefalusi9454]

Can someone be so busy that they won't call you at all if they are into ministry

[@rhodaenietan]

Someone who intends to build a home with you must see you as a priority and be ready to make time for you to a large extent there is a place for compromise on your part but not to the point of rarely speaking, intimacy via communication is very important for any relationship or marriage to thrive!

[@ogeokoye6053]

I must confess, this is educative, but what if the partner is the type that doesn't like discussions? should I continue with the person or wait for another?

[@toluwanimib6409]

oge okoye it's important to be able to communicate with your partner. You should be able to have these discussions or you'll have problems

[@t3m185]

I think oral sex is unnatural and it dehumanizes humans regardless of the fact that we've come to be at home with it. This is an adult section, should the mouth go to the anus as well? Ewww Unthinkably irritating