10 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Pregnant Wife | Dad University

[@TheKickshaws]

“The sooner you realize that the child is 50% yours, the sooner you will stop asking dumb questions.” 🤣🤣🤣

[@devyndowling689]

Being a husband to a pregnant wife is extremely hard. Watching your videos has helped me understand sides or her I didn’t even know we’re going to exist years ago

[@andresalazar2745]

extra tips: dont look at memes while youre at the doctor with her and dont look at your phone while shes explaining how she feels

[@justajinx3]

The accuracy of this is mind blowing. I’m 8 months pregnant (will be 9 months next week).

[@NoFillyEryn]

My boyfriend was talking to my stomach once and said “dang, you living in a mansion” ...I walked out crying.

[@NoFillyEryn]

So I’m not even as big as a house... a mansion.

[@steffsrzz4971]

I’m sorry. I’m pregnant and this made me laugh but I would cry too. I’m sure he meant it in a cute way, but our hormones makes us insane!

[@NoFillyEryn]

@@steffsrzz4971 he said “no babe I meant that you’re housing our daughter in such a luxurious environment that I called you a mansion” 😭😭 I said “that was a very poor choice of words”

[@henrymclean8548]

Glad I read this before I say this to my wife

[@lolab6770]

I'm 5 months and literally started tearing up when I saw that. Oooohhh these hormones are ridiculous.

[@vnomik]

00:00 intro 00:53 I have it just as hard as you do 01:48 why are you so emotional? 03:02 you look really tired 04:11 you are getting really big 05:03 you shoudn't eat that 05:55 my friend's wife gained (x) pounds 06:35 do I need to go to the doctor? 07:24 this drink/food (that she can't have) is so good 08:19 this house is so messy 09:30 I feel like you are neglecting me

[@Crypto_Brandon]

Agreed . My wife had it hard. The hardest part for her was swelling ankles. Aches and pains. Felt so bad. ..the 2nd worst part was the actual delivery. Pushing and pushing and no luck for almost 2 days and they finally pulled the plug and did a C section. This was our 3rd day and I didn't really eat or sleep because the nurses were coming in-and-out / plus tons of stress of things no going according to plan. You can see the frustration on the nurse and doctor's face and that's when I started to feel sick. So they decided to do a C section (last minute) then when they cut her open And took the baby out I heard a cry I instantly felt more sick then doctor said stand up and look and once I did and saw her I turned white / pale and almost collapsed and they took me out of room.. I can see blood no problem ,, I have a strong stomach but from not eating or sleeping and seeing my wife cut open just turned me white as a ghost. They gave me some juice and I put water on my face and I had to go back in there. And then I did and by the time I got back in she was already sewed up. But she handled it like a champ and she was totally fine I just felt bad. And I think the biggest reason was because we didn't expect it, I didn't mentally prepare my mind for A C section it just happened in a split 2nd .. That was the only bad thing about me ..but my wife like you said - all women have it way worse than us men... As soon as they rolled the baby out My nauseous feeling turned into tons of emotions It was a wild rollercoaster and it was only the beginning of the rollercoaster. If I was mentally prepared I think I could have handled it. ... Anyways just thought I share great video Jason. Thanks. (Any videos on C section?

[@DadUniversity]

Thank you for sharing. Glad to have you as part of the community.

[@BobbyRamirez]

I’m here to learn some skills to be a better dad and husband. Thanks for the content.

[@siren0318]

When he tells you you're "so emotional" because you cried after he told you to shut up.

[@arnoldcastillo2055]

Main thing shut up when it comes to a pregnant wife , do whatever the mama says

[@PinkFaline]

I know this is a year old but THANK you for this/these videos!!! Sending this to my husband because he just doesn’t get it 😩.

[@paulamorosan3782]

I’m there with you 😢

[@shashamarie4760]

How did he respond after you sent it..????? I wanna send this to him, but doubt he'll care 😢

[@SgtPietroUSMC]

Just got told from the wife, another thing not to do is to watch a video about this in front of your wife while she is having hormones lmfao

[@lizzycpeck252]

🤣🤣🤣

[@smokyquartz5817]

The wife?

[@StoneTribe]

Go super dad!! Thank you again and again! 🎉

[@ladybweyakapita5372]

My husband told me that he can’t wait for me to not be pregnant anymore!!! He can’t deal with the hormones anymore! Gosh I got so angry!!! He definitely needs this as he always pushes my buttons. Thanks for doing this!

[@krueltality]

Your poor husband :(

[@thevisionprojectmedia5884]

Your a lucky lady

[@MM-pj4bl]

Out of line

[@smokyquartz5817]

He doesn't deserve children.

[@MichaelFG]

I already know how to take care of a child, cook, and clean I just need to learn when to shut up and say the RIGHT things...

[@rosemikebossi9471]

Sleeping on the couch now as this plays.. 😔

[@shashamarie4760]

Real question: are you a male or female?.my husband just hurt my feelings so I slept on the couch. 😢

[@ellisisland4902]

I felt the cleaning part. I'm 16 weeks pregnant. Cleaning was more challenging in the beginning because I was sick and fatigued. Now I'm getting bigger and not as flexible as I used to be. I can't be on my feet like pre pregnancy. I have a completely new body.I carry a stool around the house just to cook and get ready in the mornings. Sometimes I felt like my boyfriend would look at like me are you gonna do something other than lay down? It was hurtful. I know I wasn't making my usual contributions but it wasn't because I didn't want to. It changed when we found out we were having a girl and he could see how she was growing. He started to realize how much work it is creating this life and that my symptoms were just reflective of the work he can't see or feel. I also got him a a first time daddy handbook which really gives insight into the pregnancy. He appreciates the process more and isn't so touchy about the cleaning. Overall he is very supportive but yes dads do have down days too.

[@RCP511]

My husband called me lazy yesterday. I almost went nuclear on him. I’m 8 months pregnant. With a 16 month old.

[@DadUniversity]

So he should be watching the video? :)

[@MoonFoxASMR]

Wow what a jerk... I hope things got better.

[@TheBmonster1]

Sometimes there are laziness issues before the pregnancy and it's not taken care of and it boils over when you feel like your taking care of everything again and ya feel like it's just excuses.

[@RCP511]

@@TheBmonster1 He’s never once called me lazy before. Ive always take care of the entire house keeping it clean and organized. I had some off days with my second pregnancy and needed to rest more. I thought it was pretty insensitive to call me lazy given the circumstances. I always caught up on what was not taken care of later.

[@mr.curtissmith539]

My wife is 8 months pregnant and I'm trying to run a landscape business. I have broken a few of these. We don't automatically understand! As much as we would like it's just out of our realm. We are trying. I feel the pressure of responsibility building. Being a husband and father... I'm overwhelmed with joy and anticipation, yet the feelings of failure are always at the back of my mind. Thank you for letting me vent. Love the videos

[@MM-pj4bl]

When she’s sick and you’re having to do more NEVER SAY “I can’t do everything!”

[@DadUniversity]

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[@mountainyou1116]

This content has been very helpful.....this is so good. Thanks man

[@krueltality]

Don't say "one more outburst like this and I think we'll need a divorce". Sigh

[@moon2001batch]

The vedio was really nice... But my husband absolutely says these things most of the time... He doesn't help me at all... Even if I ask he will not listen... I feel what's the point of staying with such person

[@monicapyle]

Been there, done that. I was way happier after we split. I hope you guys can work it out ♥️

[@selekwa5647]

I needed this unfortunately

[@seang641]

Challenge Accepted...

[@a.dmagbatt9311]

RIP

[@lilsy5018]

My partner spends 6 days a week playing games since ive been pregnant. I feel so lonely and then when I said I was really struggling with feeling neglected, and so low, he told me to stop being so selfish and that I should think about the kids.. i sobbed my heart out. Everything he said in this video seems mediocre in comparison 😢

[@shashamarie4760]

I'm sorry. I'm only 5.5 weeks and feel so alone. How are you now?

[@vinithageorge613]

I wish you spoke a little bit about mood swings .. my husband is unable to bear my mood swings and I feel awful

[@shashamarie4760]

My husband doesn't understand. Does it get better?

[@Teezypeezy21]

The minute she starts getting on your nerves, outsource to another activity. I just do to the gym blow off steam and come home.

[@bricelegendnducho]

I just discovered your channel today and I ama loving it, you've got great contents here.thank you for this

[@leahsegaetsho3066]

My husband continues to break up at each time he gets. Im really broken inside, we always arguing over unnecessary things, i get interrogated everyday, im not heard, I have no voice in this marriage. I’ve been having headaches and neck pains everyday and I think I might be suffering from signs of strokes being my right side gets so numb or losses sensitivity. Theres a lot of name calling or I being told that im suffering from emotional stability and I should get professional help. I am tired, I even feel like leaving this marriage because its not healthy for me or my pregnancy

[@leahsegaetsho3066]

Another thing, its the finances, we are draining in debts because of his gambling addiction which he wont admits. Man i really don’t know what i got myself into

[@shashamarie4760]

​@@leahsegaetsho3066how are you now? I'm only 5.5 weeks and suffering too. 😢

[@Gouthamsunny7]

My bad luck... I already living in the doghouse by watching this video lately in 3rd trimester

[@stlccstudentoralcom-lauren6244]

“you’re so sensitive”

[@karolinasvobodova5278]

Or "You can't be so sensitive!" 😅

[@ChristopherDolby]

Never laugh at your pre natal classes when they show videos of the birthing process...my Mrs didn’t appreciate my hysterical laughter in the classroom! 🤣🤣🤣

[@smokyquartz5817]

Christian to laugh at women in labor? Holy shit.

[@blockchainbiker2549]

Most is common sense but I guess it isn't so common lol

[@Alemharris]

I asked my husband to take my first belly picture for my “ pregnancy timeline “. He didn’t know what I meant or how to take the picture so I showed him some examples on KZbin, and he said “ oh your belly looks like that lady’s belly at 21 weeks”. I just turned 5 weeks! :(((((((

[@shashamarie4760]

What an idiot. I'm 5.5 does it get better?

[@mdgaryproductions]

This is a very interesting video. Every single this in this video should be discussed when it comes up and very seriously. The issue is that you shouldn’t be saying things THAT way. I mean😂you have to communicate. Just basically shutting it is a really stupid idea that could cause resentment to build up (unintentionally). But saying something in a rude or inconsiderate way is just really stupid even outside of pregnancy (and now that stupidity is on steroids). Communicate and discuss in a loving way and solve the problems.

[@haykay0306]

And when your wife complains about her body and getting bigger don’t say “well you’re pregnant so it’s fine”.

[@TheBmonster1]

So shut up and let it bottle up sounds great thanks

[@hisemhagras6358]

Summary of the video: Be quite and suck it up

[@danielschomaker3839]

I wish I would’ve watch this video earlier I wouldn’t screw it up so bad

[@josemeneces7537]

Damn, so basically having a kid is the worst and we have to chug it down all of it, there is no solution, just chug it....

[@DadUniversity]

Some people will look at things in a negative way while others positive. You get to choose.

[@cootook]

That's what I need))

[@jaredjones8229]

I did 4 of these already.

[@smokyquartz5817]

Nobody thinks this is horrifying? Grown men need a video telling them not to call their pregnant wife fat and after the babys born, people will pay attention to it? These poor women.

[@MrMasters10]

Better to know for sure than to guess and get it wrong. No point in shaming anyone, especially when someone is trying to improve themselves.

[@Realtrenchhsixx]

Don’t come crawling back to me 😂

[@pleblira]

TLDR: be a man, not a child

[@triptijain9381]

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[@rudysolis4204]

Call me crazy, but no man should ever be ok with coming before the family pet. If you are, you've got a problem.

[@JaydenFoster-ld2vf]

Can we take a fact to notice that everyone n this comment section is a woman😭😭

[@viperne2930]

The policing food part. I don't go on about what my wife eats it's the amount. She had weight loss surgery years ago. I want her to eat enough for her and the baby. Am not worrying about what she eats I just want her to eat the right amount

[@olegariorodriguez7757]

Dude made me want to divorce my girl

[@demillpugh430]

Tired of not being able to say a damn thing without stupid outbursts. Being pregnant isn’t an excuse to just go off cause you can. This pregnancy has been the worst experience of my life. If I could take it back, I would. Absolutely unbearable after 12+ hour shift. IDC how you may feel.😒😒😒

[@TheSpiritBolt]

Achievement Unlocked: Called her fat everyday since I found out she was pregnant.

[@triptijain9381]

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