Dad of 2 here. You are absolutely right. Buying new clothes for children is absolutely a waste of Money. You get everything you need for a bargain second hand . We bought most of the clothes second hand for 1 or 2 Euros a piece, and most of the items haven‘t Even be used. For our second daughter wie haven‘t even bought clothes because everybody we know is happy to give the used items of their kids away for free, just to clear up some Space. We have more clothes available than ever could be worn, so we choose the once we really like and donate the Rest for charity.
@puppydoodКүн бұрын
My dad always told me : “Buy cheap, buy twice”. Wise words I live by. ❤
@mbs8001Күн бұрын
Buy once, cry once 😂
@carinahotzel49962 күн бұрын
I only bought second hand clothes for our baby - not just because back then we were on a tight budget, but mainly because any chemicals that might have been in them had already been washed out.
@celticlass85732 күн бұрын
That's a good point. And they'd be done any shrinking they were going to do too. It's amazing to me that anyone buys new clothing for their children, they grow through them SO FAST it's just not worth it, especially when there is SO MUCH at thrift stores to choose from! Thrift stores even have the really nice stuff for special occasions.
@HannahRainbow882 күн бұрын
@@celticlass8573 yep, I do most of my clothes shopping for kiddo & I in charity shops. I also bought my mum's outfit for my wedding in a charity shop. That outfit that would've cost £150-£200 brand new from some fancy boutique, but it was only £20 AND the money went to the British Heart Foundation charity, instead of lining already rich people's pockets. My husband hired suits for him and the best men (instead of buying them) - another good option if you're only going to wear it once.
@BaconatorYummyКүн бұрын
you face chemicals everyday anyways. 😂
@celticlass8573Күн бұрын
@@BaconatorYummy OK troll.
@valerierogers9609Күн бұрын
My cheap cloths items work just fine. I get second-hand given to me as well, and I love that 😊
@amychen2504Күн бұрын
Mama here. Clothes in early childhood are either destroyed or barely used. I thrifted all my son's clothes except for a bunch of standard white onesies. And they don't need toys. Give them a box and a spoon. Absolutely on the giving parents presents (time!) instead.
@gretchenfadden36702 күн бұрын
As a child I remember having more fun with the box than I did the gift.
@marie-rayКүн бұрын
Right! Young kids, like pets, don't know the concept of toys. If they play with it, it becomes a toy. RIP to my shoelaces that went to my cats
@adriangarza7584Күн бұрын
I bought my nephew an R/C car for Christmas and my brother a flashlight. All night my nephew was playing with the flashlight 😂
@InnocentPotato-pd7wiКүн бұрын
My three cats love to sit in boxes! "If I fit , I sits - in any box!"
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Simple joys haha 😊
@flonotflow2 күн бұрын
I'm totally with you on the food waste, it drives me crazy! I hate having to throw anything out, it makes me feel like I failed LOL. The bottled water has never made a lot of sense to me either, I only keep a small amount around for emergency situations. Happy New Year!
@carinahotzel49962 күн бұрын
We only drink tap water (we bought a very good water filter that filters out literally everything). But I still use "bottled" water - our water from home filled in a stainless steel bottle to take to work since water in my office tastes aweful (I live in Germany, they say our water quality is good, but depending on where you live and on the pipes, tap water can taste really really bad. The only bottled water we have are for emergency, 300 glass bottles in our basement - always advisable to keep a good amount. We dont touch these bottles, except to replace them after a few years
@InnocentPotato-pd7wiКүн бұрын
Marylander here! My father was a former US Naval officer and scientist. Dad would always reprimand us if we complained about our dinner! Then he told us about seeing children going through the garbage bags the Navy offloaded on the beaches in Haiti looking for food! I will never forget that lesson . That was in the 1950s. As an adult ,I would send donations to Haiti. Lesson learned!Retired Teacher here 37 years! Thanks dad!
@ormedanimКүн бұрын
If only higher prices always ensured better quality and durability. It is extremely hard to find really good quality clothes, regardless of their price. Not to mention that organic materials that are suggested as better quality (like wool, cashmere) mostly involve terrible mistreatment and torture of animals.
@Mark7232 күн бұрын
My grandparents, survivors of the Great Depression, instilled in me many good habits and philosophies, the biggest and most important one being: waste nothing! Clothing, household items and most especially food. To this day, watching food being wasted makes me sick to my stomach. Even watching the scene from the video where those perfectly good pancakes were being tossed into the trash has left me sick and saddened. Pancakes can be so easily frozen for another day, though it helps first not to cover them with syrup and berries. Be conscious and mindful of the amount of food one prepares and eats, which is easily reduced to the age-old adage: "Waste not, want not." Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Best wishes for a happy, healthy and successful new year.
@Hinoema012 күн бұрын
Mottainai! 勿体無い!
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing this, and great thoughts. Hope more people will adopt this mindset! And that pancake clip I found online made me feel so uncomfortable as well. I really hope it made a person or two who have the habit of throwing out food rethink that
@dinapawlow1622Күн бұрын
Food waste drives me crazy, I have to bite my tongue when visiting my adult children , ( and my grandchildren) they throw so much away.
@AngzarrArts2 күн бұрын
It's sad how often we buy things to disengage from our lives and give ourselves more time to sit on the couch and watch other people engage in theirs.
@MrRolandMichelКүн бұрын
TRUTH!
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Yeah this is so true!
@janerkenbrack33732 күн бұрын
You're talking right up my alley. When budgeting for clothes, think in terms of cost per wear. I see this all the time with shoes. Men will spend $75 on a pair of cheap shoes or boots, and then wear them out and replace them in less than a year. But if they spent say, $300 dollars, they'd get a pair that would last them ten years or more. In fact, high quality shoes made with the right type of construction can have their soles replaced, and with care and rotation will last decades. The cost per wear is a fraction of what the cheap shoes cost. When it comes to babies and small children, in my town there are garage and yard sales spring, summer, and fall, where gently used baby and children's clothing is sold for pennies on the dollar. People I know spend only a few dollars to dress their toddlers a year, and then they have garages and yard sales too, getting back some or all of what they spent.
@neilmckay86492 күн бұрын
Water bottles: reuse a disposable one. Occasionally I have to buy a bottle of water but I reuse the bottle itself for months. Delivery: if you've waited to afford or decide on buying something, slow delivery fits with that.
@pamelalyon32642 күн бұрын
The 4 children in my family wore hand-me-downs and so did my 2 sons, plus
@californianorma876Күн бұрын
Exactlt. I was born in 1960 and I doubt we had many new clothes at all except for maybe an Easter dress for church. but then, both my parents grew up during the Great Depression of the 1920s. They had values.
@smontone3 сағат бұрын
I have a severe allergy to certain detergents. I buy my son’s clothes new because used clothes may have been washed in detergents and the smell never goes away no matter how many times I’ve washed them or with what. I’ve tried everything. I take comfort in knowing that I will give these clothes to my nephew and he will use them as well.
@TheMassif2 күн бұрын
Valid points, but good luck in convincing a new mother to buy second hand clothes for her baby 😂
@nataliet1260Күн бұрын
When I was pregnant with my first (and only) child, I bought a few sets of new clothes and was given several outfits as a gift, but the VAST majority of what I bought was 2nd hand
@mradoku2 күн бұрын
Happy new year Seve ! May less things and more meaningful experiences without saving in feelings for the ones we love enrich our lives. Thanks for the video!
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you and happy new year to you too! 😊
@SilviaN1Күн бұрын
Being a parent I can confirm, that you easily can buy clothes and toys second hand for babies. I got a few bags of clothes (actually from the 1970s!) from a friend. When my babies were grown out of the clothes, my sister in law was pregnant, so she got the clothes to use for her daughter.
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thanks for confirming ;)
@Simplewavesimple2 күн бұрын
Hi Seve, thank you for this new video and Happy New Year!❤
@DNA350ppm2 күн бұрын
Same words also from me! 🤩😃😍
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you and happy new year to you too! 😊
@Hinoema012 күн бұрын
Wow, 10 of 10! I *am* a cheapskate. Yay, me!
@danal10312 күн бұрын
You're always so sweet and insightful - and really very cute. Thank you for all of the tips on how to live more sustainably and ethically. Take care :)
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much :)
@amandawood70152 күн бұрын
I wish there were more people like. you in this world. Recent subscriber and loving your content. ❤
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@s.m.26922 күн бұрын
I’ve been watching several of your movies recently and I like them a lot, sharing most of the views and tips, thank you so much, so pleasant to watch you! I do not agree, however, with your view on bottled water vs tap water. First, the quality of your tap water is guaranteed by local authorities only to the main water hub of your building. No one takes any responsibility what happens throughout years/decades/centuries in the wall pipes across all the floors of the building. Second, bottled water for me means mineral water of good quality - no tap water could compete with it in terms of microelements and other valuable ingredients. Just a thought.
@Motheringhemother2 күн бұрын
Agree on the water totally.
@giuliamulattieri43572 күн бұрын
Actually in my city, in northern Italy we have 800 public water fountains that provide mineral water for free to anyone who needs it. The water gets checked daily and some people just refill their glass water bottles for domestic use
@s.m.26922 күн бұрын
@@giuliamulattieri4357 One more reason to love ❤️ Italy😍
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Yeah I totally get it that this isn't applicable in all places. Thanks for the comment!
@PattiWinker21 сағат бұрын
Bottled water angers me. It’s so stupid! It’s so harmful! 😔
@Kim-eh2ov21 сағат бұрын
Some of us live where the tap water is awful, full of chemicals, and tastes and smells like bleach most days, bottled water is the only thing we can use to drink, cook make coffee, tea. Only thing our water is good for is laundry and flushing toilets, if I could figure out how I wouldn't even bathe, shower in it, nor do my laundry. And it is very exspensive, monthly water bill is usually $100.00 plus
@trekkie-catКүн бұрын
Happy New Year, Seve!! Hope it's a wonderful,healthy year!
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you and happy new year to you too! 😊
@DNA350ppm2 күн бұрын
A good list! May you have very happy simple meaningful 2025 with your nearest and dearest, just as you love it the most!
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you and happy new year to you too! 🌿🥰
@DNA350ppm7 сағат бұрын
@@SunnyKindJourney
@extrememinimalistparent2 күн бұрын
Adults buying toys should be on the list. I don't understand the funk pops collection... they are hardly rare and 'worth it' when you resell them.
@lalablotz73482 күн бұрын
Or Stanley Cup collections. The are cups! It’s just silly and wasteful. 🩷
@extrememinimalistparent2 күн бұрын
@lalablotz7348 for real! Like, if it wasn't popular, you wouldn't care.
@giuliamulattieri43572 күн бұрын
Or any collection that can't gain value overtime
@nataliet1260Күн бұрын
@extrememinimalistparent That style of cup does have its uses, outside of being trendy. Having a 40oz tumbler with a straw was great when I was teaching. I still use it as a SAHM, but in the classroom it was a game-changer for staying hydrated. I wish there had been lots of knockoffs available when I bought mine, though.
@extrememinimalistparentКүн бұрын
@nataliet1260 having one. Even three makes sense. But 20? Is just stupid. And that's because the majority of people who own so many are doing so because its trendy.
@LFetterman7903Күн бұрын
Not to mention, most of these “fast fashion” clothes are made of man-made materials (as opposed to cotton or wool, etc.). They’re AWFUL! Many of them have a spongy feel to them, not at all like natural fibers! I purchased a fast fashion item last year and it looked shapeless and had started pilling by the second time I wore it! It went straight to a thrift store! NEVER AGAIN!
@marinasophie6336Күн бұрын
That is so true! I think I’d adjust his first tip and add to your comment the importance to inform yourself about fabrics because belive it or not sometimes fast fashion has quality clothing and then it’s also okay to buy because you buy it with the intention of keeping it and because you did your research and bought the shirt with cotton and not polyester you get that. So it’s not fast fashion that’s the issue it’s just not knowing what fabrics to look for. Just because something is expensive does not mean it’s good quality.
@Motheringhemother2 күн бұрын
Great video! I agree on all points yet have my personal nuances. For example baby clothes we have a mix of new and used but mostly new because we don't have a second hand baby store anywhere close, ordering online second hand takes up a lot of time to look for sth nice and has exactly what I need plus between shipping money and time it's often not worth it and my bay grew so fast it wasn't possible to wait two weeks or more to get the clothes. I hoped to buy all second hand but unfortunately for now it's not possible. I hope later on it will be. And water we also get bottles water as especially with thyroid conditions I don't drink Spanish tapwater which is no great quality for me.
@Ramu-10Күн бұрын
Bro has a personal vendetta against newborn babies
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
It wasn't supposed to be like that but yeah I realized it while editing lol 😂😂
@Bekinder34513 сағат бұрын
When I had 2 babies I traded my expensive clothes for baby clothes. Later; I buy second hand, and I took all my expensive school clothes there for consignment, since I retired.
@josephr9551Күн бұрын
A couple more things that are ridiculous. Fancy wedding at an expensive location that will cost me thousands of dollars or euros. Wedding registries with enough stuff to equip a McMansion. Bridal showers, bachelorette party. bachelor party which are just an excuse to gouge you twice. Baby showers for useless trinkets which promise to jumpstart a baby's brain for an elite university.
@lindsey881720 сағат бұрын
Where do I find quality women's clothing? All the places that used to be quality have gone cheap with the same high prices.
@neilschipper3741Күн бұрын
I take advantage of corporate greed! I buy top quality at seasonal closeout time. As a minimalist I do not have that much clothing and what I have I bought back in 1990s. Looking forward to another great year of your fantastic videos, Happy New Year!
@Lee-ob8dhКүн бұрын
Amazing video as always. Thank you for all you do 💗💗💗
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Thank you for the support :)
@iamjane9628Күн бұрын
New baby clothes are for the parent, not the baby. 😂 Yes, best gift for a baby and child is attention, love, and enrichment. Read to them, talk to them, expose them to good music.
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Well said! :)
@EMB2382 күн бұрын
Toy Library. We have one in our neighborhood. Kids lose interest in toys quickly. ❤
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
What a lovely idea 🥰
@dumoulinarnaud6663Күн бұрын
We also buy baby and child clothes to make them look good and comfortable on the pictures we later left keep as good memories. If every year your child has the same jacket and beenie on his head all your Christmas pictures will look the same. Maybe I'm wrong but I think so
@janetthoke80272 күн бұрын
Thank you Steve!
@1mcshandy2 күн бұрын
Thanks. Complete agree with you. Best wishes and take good care. Andy McDonald Scotland
@mostHumblePersonAliveСағат бұрын
Something you didn't mention because you not think of it - women will buy so much skin care products to try. I'm guilty of this myself. When I go to a friend's house I see like dozens of skin care products that are barely used, so I'm not the only one. According to dermatologists I think there are only a few products that are truly effective - the rest is marketing and packaging and different fragrances and inactive ingredients or ingredients that aren't proven to work.
@Kryzcek782 күн бұрын
Vimes boots theory in action with point 1.
@missjanelove2 күн бұрын
It’s super hard finding 2nd hand baby clothes. The amount of poop stains, food stains, etc… it’s almost nonexistent.
@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou2 күн бұрын
Except for shoes and socks, all of my baby's clothing was in practically new condition by the time we got rid of it.
@serenityjewelКүн бұрын
Yep. Babies destroy their clothes. I have no idea where people are finding decent second hand baby clothes. I took that suggestion with a grain of salt. Some of his suggestions were awesome; some were just his own privilege or cheapness.
@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYouКүн бұрын
@@serenityjewel Certainly not all babies. As I said, my baby's used clothing, except for shoes and socks, was basically still in new condition by the time he outgrew them. And I doubt he's some extraordinary super-clean baby. In my experience, a lot of parents just take it for granted that babies will be messy and disgusting and don't even try to make an effort to keep things clean. Some of my friends will let their kids do thing that I would've never let my kid (now 7) do when he was younger. And not just that, but he grew up to be better behaved and less temperamental, as well. The only clothing that should be regularly "destroyed" by babies is diapers. The rest shouldn't be that hard to keep mostly clean most of the time.
@serenityjewelКүн бұрын
@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou My comment was in response to missjane. Now that we're clear on that, you don't sound like you actually did your baby's laundry. Maybe your partner did and you're just on here blowing smoke. I, on the other hand, raised 3 sons, including doing their laundry. Baby clothes get stained, a lot. Formula stains it, throw up stains it, their food stains it. Their clothes get numerous stains and anyone who does laundry knows that. The fact that you introduced your child's behavior and criticism of your "friends" parenting style in a discussion about clothing stains is weird. I have no idea what your friends are letting their kids do as babies or toddlers but it can't be much because babies and toddlers can't do much, other than cry, eat, and play. If you stopped your child from doing any of those, that's not a flex.
@Furry_WallКүн бұрын
This video is just AI slop
@MistressYumi2 күн бұрын
I find that paying for cosmetics in games should be done with intention. I am a gamer, I have spent hours upon hours getting lost in fantasy worlds. In that time I have paid for cosmetics in exactly TWO games. I was intentional about the cosmetics I purchased, I very much enjoy them & it makes my gaming experience better. I absolutely find value in it.
@jim_bochoКүн бұрын
Don’t tell people not to buy new baby clothes, that’ll hurt the second hand market 😉
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Haha 😄
@Envy_Bruh2 күн бұрын
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
❤️❤️
@reallygoodatfolding2 күн бұрын
Please don’t use AI generated images, they’re bad for artists and the environment 😢
@shrivardha2 күн бұрын
Minimalism is about progress and minimizing traditional path so we have space for new things. So we should evolve.
@reallygoodatfolding2 күн бұрын
@ every single AI image has to be generated by a supercomputer that wastes the same amount of energy as boiling a kettle. For every. Single. Image. How is that ‘progress’ compared to a photograph that a human took with a camera?
@Nohc2 күн бұрын
@@shrivardhasay that to an actual artist/photographer
@shrivardha2 күн бұрын
@reallygoodatfolding according to your logic artists also uses different amounts of minrals as paint and papers . Also require processing fuel which also harm environment. Its really about our view to progress.
@Camis4192 күн бұрын
I have bad news for you. People won’t stop using AI because it’s much cheaper (and this channel is all about helping people save money). Also, I see nothing wrong with using it.
@os-qt1hcКүн бұрын
Where does this idea come from that cheap clothes will last you a short time? From my experience it is not true at all. For shoes it is sometimes correct, but for clothes it is not.
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
Sometimes they do, but it comes from personal experience. Clothes with better materials and proper manufacturing tend to last longer for me
@donnahogan29992 күн бұрын
❤
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
❤️❤️
@eugk13642 күн бұрын
О, Альфа-банк 😅
@jvladcliff4083Сағат бұрын
Want to save a lot of money, don't have children
@xdemgeo3581Күн бұрын
You are really cute :)
@SunnyKindJourney8 сағат бұрын
😊 thank you
@e123shadowaishaКүн бұрын
Discount Poke Daxi
@MrRolandMichelКүн бұрын
Onnellista uutta vuotta, Seve! Keep up your inspiring work!