I'm an atheist myself. Alex o Connor has helped me better understand Christianity than many other channels both on the internet and in real life. His presence in this online discussion is a very welcome one!
@baselius66210 сағат бұрын
Yes he is much different from the Dawkins and Hitchens kind of atheist. Growing up watching Hitchens debates Alex reintroduced my to the possibility of God.
@not12077 сағат бұрын
could someone explain how point 8, argument from reason, is an argument for the existence of God?I struggle to see the link
@philippevangucht76746 сағат бұрын
@not1207 I see the argument as such: 1. Some people argue that our rationality, our ability to grasp the "truth" of the world, is a byproduct of evolution. 2. This suggests that this aspect of rationality has not evolved for its capacity to grasp truth, but for its survivability. 3. These reasoning steps strike a legitimate blow to our capacity to trust our own reasoning, as our reasoning would not be optimized for getting to the truth, but just to be better at staying alive. 4. This includes, ironically if I might say, evolution. Resulting in a semi-paradox, that we used reasoning to come to a conclusion that undermines our reasoning... 5. (Implied) As we believe our reasoning capacity to be sound, we have good reason to suggest that there is more to our minds than it just being the product of evolution. This conclusion does not bring you directly to the existence of God, but might imply something along the lines of a soul or something similar. Hope I was able to represent this argument well!
@a.i.l10746 сағат бұрын
If you want to have productive conversations with Christians, and if you want to make arguments that actually make us think, keep watching Alex. I get how good it feels to watch the New Atheist types DEMOLISH strawmen and OWN the low hanging fruit, but this is a serious topic for grown-ups so let's all treat it like one.
@nataliamundell62664 сағат бұрын
I'm Christian i concour Alex is harder to argue against as he plays our position closer to what it actually is The new atheists, I read all four of the horse men's books. I left just thinking they don't understand Christianity and hates God and wants to mock religion ( not very empathetic) So ironically I was more in believe after reading Dawkins, Harris, hitchins( all though I liked him better then the others) and Dennit I probably should read again to be honest So the strongest arguments are not ones that don't mock and strawman but attack our actual arguments and I prefer Alex over new atheists every day of the week
@ericbixby6 сағат бұрын
Alex really feels like a true inbetween of theist and atheist. He actually pokes holes in both sides, unwilling to give ground to bad philosophical arguments from his own side, and feeling unconvinced by Christianity/Theism
@CheeseMonger6020 сағат бұрын
Alex is a brilliant orator with an exceptional ability to research and prepare. He often understands his opponent’s arguments better than they do, effortlessly dismantling their points with precision and insight. His skill and intellect make him absolutely fascinating to watch.
@shelterit19 сағат бұрын
It's because he's a proper philosopher, we're trained to give our opponents the best version of their argument, in order to be a good thinker you always have to be your own devils advocate
@johannesdorr9590Күн бұрын
"When Jesus saw that he had answered wisely, he said to him, ‘You are not far from the kingdom of God.’" (Mk 12:34) I vividly imagine Jesus giving a similar response to Alex O'Connor. If truly the hiddenness of God is the decisive part that keeps him from becoming a Christian then I believe this is for a purpose and God wants him to be in just the place he is for the time being, but eventually will reveal Himself to him in a clear and unmistakable way. Let's thank God for who Alex is and what he does and let's pray that--"God willing"--the missing part will be given and received when the time is ripe. Just imagine Alex O'Connor as kind of a new C.S. Lewis (whom he seems to know and understand very well, by the way)--what a blessing could he be to the world!
@flyshy880613 сағат бұрын
Or god has already shown him, but he doesn't see. like the concution jesus made many times over, if you don't want to believe then you won't believe, if you want to believe to eagerly you'll be deceived. Jordan is just way too catious, as he already understood this point from around the start of his yourny. Which does make him lose the obvious.
@SeanusAurelius20 сағат бұрын
I've never listened to this Glen Scrivener before. He's unusually good at summing up the progress of an argument between two parties, as a third party.
@historian948423 сағат бұрын
I have watched Alex since he was 16.He is really seeking the truth.I pray that he will have the divine intervention that he is looking for because he worked so hard for it
@someonesomeone2511 сағат бұрын
I really hope he doesn't fall into any such delusion or illusion.
@lukelaws3545Күн бұрын
Came from Gavin Ortlund! You were a great recommendation
@SpeakLifeMediaКүн бұрын
Love Gavin
@VikingrGaming-x4l3 сағат бұрын
I used to be a Christian (now an Optimistic Nihilist) and I think the sign of a true intellectual is someone who can argue all sides of a given argument with great success. If I were to convert to a religion, so to speak, it would be what Alex speaks of. Not the gnarled and corrupted attempts of Catholicism, Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Mormons, etc. maybe we should call it O'connorism. And I would have to agree that Alex is more capable of arguing the existence of the Abrahamic god than most actual Christians, it's lowkey impressive, just watch his argument for theism video. I actually liked stumbling across this video, showed me some new instances of Alex being God's Advocate.
@bruhmoment52192 сағат бұрын
Ive never really did research on nihilism or stuff like that, so im interested to hear, what does being an Optimistic Nihilist mean for you. im an atheist so maybe il agree with it
@someonesomeone252 сағат бұрын
Cool, I too went from Christian to nihilist and am much happier. Nice.
@yourfavoritesteve19 сағат бұрын
You will know them by their fruits. Alex produces more, real fruit than a lot of Christian commentators out there. I’ve been saying for a long time now that he exemplifies Christianity better than most Christians.
@MrPurple122118 сағат бұрын
I was actually thinking about this earlier that Alex is a really good God advocate. When people say they don't believer in God because they can't see him it is a silly reason, and Alex (as an agnostic) likes to point that out to other non christians/non religious
@rolan.r5 сағат бұрын
This video is great, and I was impressed by your meaningful commentary. So many Christian channels suffer from lack of substance outside of the clips they show. Keep it up!
@frogstupiduk798712 сағат бұрын
I love Alex for his intellectual integrity. This video was superb. I'd love to see him sit down with you, Glen.
@acrum245718 сағат бұрын
Alex fan here. Awesome video, made it to the end.
@PaulVanderKlayКүн бұрын
Bold! I like it! :)
@ThisDonut19 сағат бұрын
Alex has done so much good to bring both sides to conversation. As an atheist, one of my greatest fears is both parties will vilify the other party to the point that conversation can no longer happen.
@someonesomeone2511 сағат бұрын
I fear that conversation is mostly useless. How many change their minds eitherway? Preventing childhood indoctrination, making an ideology culturally and socially unpalatable, and presenting superior alternatives are more impactful, I suspect.
@doublejay7414 сағат бұрын
Loved the content, my friend. Liked and subbed. God bless.
@IamGrimalkinКүн бұрын
I think this should be a call to pray for Alex O'Connor. He is close.
@Stephen-gn2brКүн бұрын
He definitely isn't close, but God is a God of miracles 🙏
@IamGrimalkinКүн бұрын
@Stephen-gn2br He doesn't seem to be in as much of a state of mind to ignore miracles now though. I think that makes him close.
@S33THEFUTUREКүн бұрын
Usually natural disaster will awake your supernatural interest-in help and answers.
@MoNtYbOy101Күн бұрын
He’s not remotely close, he just understands Christianity better than a lot of “apologists”
@IamGrimalkinКүн бұрын
@@MoNtYbOy101 I don't mean close in the sense of understanding christianity well. I wouldn't say Bart Ehrman is close for example. I mean close in the sense of not being closed-minded and being open to the supernatural. If God tommorow were to cause a clear supernatural event in his life I think he may convert on the spot. I don't think that's the case for, say, Dawkins.
@HolyYudaria6 сағат бұрын
im a christian, i think Alex O'connor is awesome
@xman416123 сағат бұрын
I'm just gonna say, I really don't think anyone should be listening to Destiny. He's not seeking anything, and he's not striving toward a greater good. On top of that, I have serious doubts whether he's a good faith arguer. From my limited observation, he's most interested in being right, with everything else coming in 2nd.
@donnyettaКүн бұрын
We either feel God's presence and support in our lives, or we don't. It would be arrogance to tell someone who has their prayers answered in an amazing way - that it was all just co-incidence. At the end of the day, Heavenly Father reads hearts. It is up to Him who to help further His purposes - believer or not ❤
@g1lbert6823 сағат бұрын
😂
@ArcherMVMaster15 сағат бұрын
I'm genuinely curious, what would you qualify as a prayer answered in an amazing way. I think it's fair to say that if one's prayers are demonstrably answered then it would qualify as good evidence. However I often find a huge flaw in this, when it comes to the type of prayer, and the rate to which these prayers are answered. I do believe that what people call answered prayers are often times coincidences because 90% of times when a specific prayer is made, it fails. But people tend to ignore that and take the 10% of the time when it works to deem it a success overall. So, to you, what counts as an answered prayer?
@g1lbert6814 сағат бұрын
@ArcherMVMaster 😂😂😂🤣 Bro you were not supposed to say this part 😂
@ArcherMVMaster13 сағат бұрын
@@g1lbert68lol aight I'll turn myself in to the police then 😄
@g1lbert685 сағат бұрын
@@ArcherMVMaster I'm guessing you're a logical person 🤣🤣. prayers is basically wishing
@duncanmcintyre441011 сағат бұрын
I don't like KZbin debates and videos that are about winning and scoring points. So full marks to Alex for not doing that.
@erakus7 сағат бұрын
Alex is exactly how I imagine CS lewis during his confused athiest/agnostic time.
@tobias44116 сағат бұрын
No, Alex O'Connor and C.S. Lewis differ significantly in their philosophical perspectives. Alex is known as Cosmic Skeptic, an atheist who critically examines religious arguments, including those of Lewis. It would be more accurate to say that he is a mix between Sagan and Hitchens, in their approach to critical thinking and skepticism. Confused? 😂. What are you talking about? Atheism is simply the lack of belief in gods or deities. It doesn't inherently imply confusion; rather, it reflects a different perspective on belief and evidence. Maybe your perception of confusion arises from misunderstandings about what atheism entails?
@as_in_riders_of21 сағат бұрын
Cosmic Saint, God willing
@dogsandyoga1743Күн бұрын
I think it's less of Alex channeling an "inner christian", and more the idea that he likes ideas clarified , and is genuinely curious. As an atheist myself, I often cringe when I hear bad arguments against the existence of "God".
@kbeetlesКүн бұрын
God willing, his curiosity takes him where he would like to be!
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
You did not choose to be an atheist. You were hardwired by the same ideology which is trying to replace you.
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
You were hardwired to be an atheist by the same ideology which wants to supersede you.
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
You were hardwired to be an atheist by the same teaching that is trying to supplant you.
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
You were hardwired to be an atheist by the same ideology which is trying to supplant you.
@TheProdigalMeowMeowMeowReturns22 сағат бұрын
The chimney comment is good. Still operates within the framework of physicalism, but sometimes you have to use analogies in that framework to help one grasp the underlying concepts
@matthewposton3243Сағат бұрын
CS Lewis’ most reluctant convert seems quite appropriate for Alex
@elijahpetty763810 сағат бұрын
Another worthy mention is Alex's discussion with Peter Boghossian.
@RickyNicks722 сағат бұрын
Glen, your thoughts on balancing spiritual books that feed your soul (Tozer, Spurgeon, Bunyan, Baxter, Edwards) versus apologetic books (Aristotle, Aquinas, Chesterton, Lewis)?
@robertguidry21687 сағат бұрын
I know I'm not Glen, but I would encourage you to pursue apologetics in a devotional way. It will still strengthen your ability to defend the faith to questioning believers and nonbelievers, but at the same time will feed your soul. Think about how the divinity of Christ, his humanity, his historicity transforms you and His presence is with you. I find apologetic study really encouraging, that God is with me and His Spirit revitalizes my soul. Devotional and contemplative works are great as well!
@RickyNicks75 сағат бұрын
@ i understand but Tozer and Aristotle are a world apart and the apologetics will never nourish my soul like devotional books would.
@robertguidry21684 сағат бұрын
@@RickyNicks7 true, but if there is some truth in Aristotle's work that points to knowledge of who God is, I think that is something where you can see God's common grace working even if he didn't recognize Him fully.
@RickyNicks73 сағат бұрын
@ my problem with reading too much apologetics is this, it makes my soul lean: “He is a deduction from evidence which they consider adequate; but He remains personally unknown to the individual. “He must be,” they say, “therefore, we believe He is.” Others do not go even so far as this; they know of Him only by hearsay. …They do not know God in personal experience” -A.W. Tozer
@RickyNicks72 сағат бұрын
Tozer said somewhere, “People talk about God as if all He had to do was exist.”
@non45218 сағат бұрын
I think I remember Alex once saying that he wants to be a Christian but just can’t quite get there. He didn’t exactly elaborate why but I imagine when he is around atheists he becomes more Christian because there atheist does not understand Christianity. But if he’s around a Christian that doesn’t understand science/ethics or even Christianity he becomes more like an atheist
@HearGodsWord3 сағат бұрын
I think similar things with Tom Holland, although he's further along than Alex as he attends church services
@Jbaggy815 сағат бұрын
I feel like anyone speaking to Destiny just needs to repeat this phrase over and over: “your belligerent dismissiveness is not an intellectual virtue”
@onlyeveryone22539 сағат бұрын
He did not go into the question as he finds it boring. He knows Alex understand the ridiculousness of the argument.
@onlyeveryone22539 сағат бұрын
saying "The universe is God" is the same as saying "The universe is the universe". Leaves zero room for any God of religion as one of the premises are that no patterns outside of the natural law can be found
@myjunedayya23 сағат бұрын
This is great!
@Indorm17 сағат бұрын
Matthew 11:25 At that time Jesus declared, “I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that you have hidden these things from the wise and understanding and revealed them to little children;
@RickyMasterChiefLaw22 сағат бұрын
God is using them to plant seeds even though they themselves are not believers.
@livingthedream853916 сағат бұрын
I don’t particularly need any seeds but my missing limb. All god’s miracles that one we still can’t count on .
@onlyeveryone22539 сағат бұрын
Would you do a debate with Alex? Not just a soft ball discussion, a challenging debate where you go into depth into two or three questions.
@tonyabrown779622 сағат бұрын
Alex is only open to the idea of a God if that God agrees with his own standard of morality. 🙏 he comes to truth
@livingthedream853916 сағат бұрын
That’s why Alex is my god. Alex don’t endorse slavery and genocide .
@tonyabrown779615 сағат бұрын
@livingthedream8539 by what standard do you call either of those things bad?
@livingthedream853915 сағат бұрын
@@tonyabrown7796 Please, don’t tell me I need god to have morality as clearly my morality is not to god standards
@tonyabrown779615 сағат бұрын
@livingthedream8539 no, but there does need to be an ultimate authority in order for there to be absolute standards. So what standards do you base your morality on so that you could say that slavery and genocide are objectively bad?
@livingthedream853915 сағат бұрын
@ “but there does need to be a ultimate authority standards” No…! It don’t. Different cultures have different standards of morality. Is slavery and genocide morally bad to you?. My self preservation tells me I don’t want that to myself. I never need any god concept to act with reason to my standards of morality. If you say that morality is imposed to me by your god I have to ask you about my free will.
@ThisDonut19 сағат бұрын
in destinys defence he wasnt mad, he just enjoys edgy gamer humor
@onlyeveryone22539 сағат бұрын
God being the universe is the most boring answer and removes the biblical God from the equation. So you are just saying that the universe is the universe
@TheProdigalMeowMeowMeowReturns22 сағат бұрын
Glen sounds like he’s constantly chewing peanut butter lol
@authenticallysuperficial987421 сағат бұрын
Sounds fine to me
@HiHoSilvey20 сағат бұрын
Sounds like someone is beginning to need a set of hearing aids.
@niccolopaganini178216 сағат бұрын
@@authenticallysuperficial9874 nah, it sounds the crunchy nutty kind to me
@CraigBoyer08619 сағат бұрын
If you get rid of the hiddenness of God, then why do we need faith? You could then delete the entire chapter of Hebrews 11 and Jesus words to Thomas. When God chooses to keep himself hidden it is His choice, and it is ultimately for our good.
@onionbelly_16 сағат бұрын
Atheist here, but how are you defining faith in this context? If God chose to reveal himself to you, would your faith in him go away?
@CraigBoyer08614 сағат бұрын
@ I would define faith as trust in the Lord. I believe God rewards those who trust in Him. Those who pursue him. Those who declare a belief in the Lord will find that their belief gets tested to see if they are sincere. Ask any Christian if this is true for them. If God appeared to you before you started seeking him wouldn’t it tie your hand a bit? It would mean that there was less freedom in your free choice to follow God. Those who choose the way of Christ must believe that He is the son of God, and must believe that he died for you that you might have right standing before God. If you read Hebrews 11 it gives a list of heroes of faith past. Those who died before seeing the fulfilment of all the promise they had been given. They had all lived before Christ had made a way for them. They all understood that according to the Law they were not going to get to live with God based on any rightness that they themselves had, and yet they rested on their faith in the Goodness of God and trusted that he was both capable and wanted to fulfill all He had promised. Sorry if this is a bit too long an answer but.. :)
@CraigBoyer08613 сағат бұрын
@ I would say that if someone chooses to put their trust in the Lord then their faith will be tested. And God wants to leave you totally free here and not tie your hands, if he appeared before you and told you that you had a choice to make then how free would you be. “For whoever would come near to God must believe that God exists and that He is the rewarder of those who earnestly and diligently seek Him.”
@onionbelly_13 сағат бұрын
@@CraigBoyer086 No need to apologize. I do appreciate the long answer, but I still don't see why putting your trust in a God is predicated upon him being hidden from you. All the characters mentioned in Hebrews 11 (Abel, Enoch, Moses, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Sarah, David, Samuel, etc.) had encounters and interacted (some of them even had verbal communication) with the God of the Bible in the OT. God was clearly not *hidden* from them. If God revealed himself to me before I started seeking him, I would still have the free choice _not_ to follow and worship him under libertarian free will, so I don't see how pointing to free will addresses divine hiddenness. Paul became a follower of Christ after God appeared to him in a vision according to scripture. It was the transformative vision that led to his conversion to Christianity, not because Paul chose to seek God first.
@onionbelly_13 сағат бұрын
@@CraigBoyer086 Looks like you deleted your previous reply and posted a new one.
@JMC501321 сағат бұрын
Peterson is almost there. God must draw him to fully understand the relationship, the reconciliation he hasn't experienced. Alex is smart but not wise.
@TheProdigalMeowMeowMeowReturns22 сағат бұрын
Christians DONT have to affirm the literal historicity of the Canaanite story….
@Evan_Floyd15 сағат бұрын
Christian here, i can listen to the other atheists like dawins or Harris talk and make their points but Destiny is just so repulsive on everything, drives me crazy
@matthewbazeley29844 сағат бұрын
Calling Alex's philosophical objectivity "Inner Christainty" is relgious delusion and quite insulting.
@HearGodsWord3 сағат бұрын
I'm sure he's not insulted by it.
@matthewbazeley29843 сағат бұрын
@HearGodsWord that's what your inner Satanist tells you 🙂
@matthewbazeley29843 сағат бұрын
@HearGodsWord that's what your inner Satanist tells you 🙂
@camythomas686020 сағат бұрын
Dear Glen, I am looking forward to watching this, but I hope you have stumbled on Alex's conversation with Fr. Gregory Pine release yesterday? kzbin.info/www/bejne/bpyccmqaZ7yhoM0si=DMf2HfA53lHhsPWq I think it is evidentially clear where Alex is at in his wrestling/musings. But also, how the answersand dialogue from Fr. Pine seem to be so on point for a wrestler/muser like Alex.
@gravitheist54314 сағат бұрын
I've found it strange that people who say there must be a God because every effect must have a cause , then how does it follow that there is an uncaused cause ? Everything has always existed is the only logical answer , if you could prove the existence of nothing then God is possible , but once you start to define nothing it becomes something . I think the God in the bible is a metaphor, you choose which God to follow or which spirit to call forth to guide your actions , it's your choice to live in heaven or hell , there are consequences to your choices . Jordan has said God is a mode of being and not real in the sense a table is real , I don't know why he didn't say that when talking to Dawkins , they might have had a proper conversation ....maybe next time !
@ElRepositorioHDQ19 сағат бұрын
I just think that Alex is just a good person, and by correlation it seems like a Christian by Christian point of view.
@dmi3knoКүн бұрын
First!
@SpeakLifeMediaКүн бұрын
You win… a video! 🎉🎉🎉
@myjunedayya23 сағат бұрын
Lol Dawkins is ridiculous.
@JonTonyJim8 сағат бұрын
This is not his “inner christian”. this is playing devils advocate. The harris argument is not even that hes just arguing as an emotivist
@wakingupat2pm3497 сағат бұрын
I never realised how arrogant Dawkins is
@HearGodsWord3 сағат бұрын
It's one of the things that turned me off him in my non-Christian days
@ProsperityManifested11000Күн бұрын
Richard dawkins has debated many religious people the idea that he doesnt know what he doesnt know should probably be appiled in a miror before someone else.
@DaChristianYute11 сағат бұрын
Rationality Rules is by far one the worst atheist Apologist and yes he is definitely an apologist but one of the worst.
@hondotheology22 сағат бұрын
define "christian"
@TheBaselessMountain5 сағат бұрын
atheist but great video
@SeanusAurelius21 сағат бұрын
JBP: God isn't real like a table is real. Bible: Jesus was God and got nailed to a cross.
@rickardarvidsson465922 сағат бұрын
I agree, people who want to makes sense of reality are ridiculous. Let's compare fantasies instead.
@jonah98616 сағат бұрын
Atheism is for teenagers.
@HellyersКүн бұрын
I'm intrigued as to why you go so hard after Peterson in this, you just come across annoyed that he hasn't converted yet... rather than just accepting he is a seeker on his own journey. All this whilst praising Alex, who is another seeker on his own journey. They're both in the same boat in my opinion, but you treat them very differently for some reason.
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
One is crudely honest on his seeking, the other is just a teenager masquerading intellectual vanity.
@jonathanhagger791Күн бұрын
Which is which?
@SpeakLifeMediaКүн бұрын
I come across as going hard after Peterson? I don't mean to. What I was trying to communicate is that Alex goes hard after a straight answer from Peterson on God and resurrection. I'm glad he goes hard and I think Peterson respects him for going hard here.
@historian948422 сағат бұрын
I didn’t see him going after Jordan.Jordan can be frustrating at times with his psychological explanations of things
@FriedMetroid19 сағат бұрын
I'm a big Peterson fan. Peterson is frustrating on this topic. "Is God a conscious rational entity or the basis of a value heirarchy?" "YES!", I impotently shout at the screen
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
Atheism is for teenagers.
@dogsandyoga1743Күн бұрын
If that makes you feel better 😂
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
Dogs & yoga.. a perfect post-womanist.
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
@@dogsandyoga1743 Dogs and yoga.. a perfect feminist.
@MoNtYbOy101Күн бұрын
So are fairytales that make you feel warm and fuzzy at night..
@jonah9861Күн бұрын
Your demigod Dawkins is peeing his pants seeing the hell coming up to replace him.
@montagr21 сағат бұрын
Every time you talk about Alex O’Connor I find myself deeply frustrated with your rush to forgo his input and strip his agency in favor of your self-congratulatory fantasy that he might be leaning towards belief in Christianity. You might sound polite, but this reeks.
@HiHoSilvey20 сағат бұрын
Glen said twice that Alex makes some good points. Whether or not he is really leaning toward Christianity, time will tell. But he's thinking. He's no Dawkins.
@livingthedream853916 сағат бұрын
@@HiHoSilveyAlex is far way from leaning toward Christianity. He is honesty Devil's advocate.
@jonah98617 сағат бұрын
He is just a teenager masquerading intellectual vanity. Swine cannot look up.
@jonah98617 сағат бұрын
Just a teenager masquerading intellectual vanity.
@livingthedream85396 сағат бұрын
@@jonah9861 Obviously you don’t know nothing about Alex O’Connor. Very smart young man.
@someonesomeone2522 сағат бұрын
Its much better to be a materialist nihilist than a Christian. I hope Alex helps deconvert many.
@jonah986121 сағат бұрын
The adolescents laugh and mock blithely… until the hell pops up. Then the maturity comes.
@HiHoSilvey20 сағат бұрын
Quick. Somebody turn the lights back on. It's dark in here. And depressing.
@SeanusAurelius20 сағат бұрын
Lol at your big value judgement there, Mr Nihilist! Third word in!
@dogsandyoga174316 сағат бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 Eh, for some of us, it's not a choice 😋