10 Tips to Help you Look Younger

[@beverlymartin179]

Excellent presentation. As a lady of almost 75 and someone who has little support or encouragement, I fight most every day to be more positive and less critical and sad. Youth is very much far from me, so I appreciate those tips you gave us today. Prayer, self awareness and self improvement helps. Also, I try to learn some small thing each day. LOL

[@flowerpower3618]

Little encouragement is part of being older I think. That’s why as women we need to be kind to each other and compliment each other as we rarely get it.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yes! Continuing to learn is so important. Thank you for sharing that Beverly. 💕

[@norbbee5581]

Agreed! I am 63 and love to give encouragement and compliment to those around me, I also have had to learn to accept and consider compliments and encouragement

[@chilibandit6660]

Dear Beverly, although I do not know you please let me compliment you on your wisdom, self awareness and wins in your every day fight that you mention! And a lovely name too. 💕

[@beverlymartin179]

@@chilibandit6660 Thank you. I don’t view myself as very wise but someone who has been weathered by life. I have learned much on my journey. Never really liked my name partially……my middle name is Ann and I like it better. I was named after a dear lady who helped my mother with two little girls to care for. I was the youngest and my sister was just 19 months old when I was born.

[@user-xs6ng3bg7o]

My favorite tip....Work on my spirit...I can be judgmental, critical, etc. sometimes. I have noticed this in my older years. I am consciously working and praying about this. I want to be happy and have a smile on my face, especially around my family! Thank you, Kay.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

It is indeed a constant struggle, especially because we can be so unaware until someone points it out or we just happen to really hear ourselves. Thanks for sharing, Jacqueline. 🥰

[@bobbiewilliams5101]

At 70, after years of working at a school, then 17 years with the public at a very large coffee company, I have learned that a genuine smile, a positive attitude and assurance in how you carry yourself are natures best tools for gracefully navigating the privilege of getting older. I absolutely try to eat well,(most of the time), I walk or do Pilates or weights most days and I love how strong I feel. Had both knees replaced in2019, rehabbed at home following the exercises, and never looked back. I know to value my mobility, and to keep moving. All that said, I do want to look nice, take care of my skin, and put my best face forward…..because I know that makes me feel better and more confident. Love your channel, your grace and your kindness. Have a beautiful weekend.💕😊

[@peggy-ann1961]

I’m a 69 year old new subscriber from Canada and I found your tips to be right on target. I especially appreciated the last few....posture, balance and attitude...there’s nothing worse than a “ crotchety old lady” ! 😌👏🇨🇦

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Lol! Thanks for watching! 🥰

[@maryann9929]

I just turned 60 years old over the past weekend. I enjoyed this video a lot. Good, natural suggestions Kay and great reminders to us in this age bracket. Especially liked your last comments because being fun to be around, laughing, sweet spirited with a positive attitude, etc..is key to staying "youthful". ❤️

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely. Thanks for sharing, Mary Ann. 💕

[@franlynch9428]

Happy birthday, and Welcome to the club! It’s great ❤

[@maryann9929]

@@franlynch9428 Thanks Fran. So far, so good. 🥰

[@utboca9999]

Happy Birthday! Watch how fast it goes from now on. lol. 73 here.

[@lindalee8952]

I found this video very helpful! Question: Do you put mascara on your bottom lashes? I feel like it shows there more than on the top, so I try to do it. But it tickles and I often make smudges. Q-tips are great for this!

[@wendyelliott6828]

Loved this video, Kay. When you show your un-made up self, I know I can trust you are speaking to me. You absolutely are a model of grace and positive spirit.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s very kind, Wendy. Thank you. 😊

[@HappyLife-wv5ms]

Castor oil on my eyebrows and lash line has worked wonders….and is inexpensive 😊

[@lauraellsworth7700]

Oh that last tip is the best! I agree 100%! We need to to emulate a more open, accepting, loving, and hopeful outlook on everything. 2e have lived long enough to know that things will work out and good will win. We don't have to be in contol all the time. It isn't always on us. And it isn't always our responsibility or our fault.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

And it causes such inner turmoil and stress! And that shows on our faces. Thanks so much for sharing, Laura. 💕

[@LivingMyBestLife517]

I really love how you made the disclaimer at the beginning stating upfront that you’re not trying to deny your age but embrace it so we can still look vibrant and energized. I am going to try some of the makeup you suggested. This is one of the best videos I have seen on the aging/dressing/make-up/hair topic and love, love, love your final tip.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much!!

[@fionafrazer8820]

So happy to hear you say "pro-aging"!! A couple of years ago I tried to get some influencers on board with getting skincare companies to stop saying "anti-aging". I was met with absolute resistance. I have stuck to my guns, and refuse to purchase anything that says that! I couldn't agree with you more - I'm an almost 76 year old, and have always strived to look not younger, but the best I can at whatever age! Eyelash/eyebrow serums have been a wonderful addition to the beauty world - have been using one for as long as they have been around (which is 10+ years) - an integral part of my routine. All your points were good - especially grooming (invest in a good mirror, and check yourself before you leave the house (I have a full length mirror on the inside of the coat closet door), well fitting clothes, and standing up straight!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great points, Fiona. Thanks for sharing. 😊

[@lizminnaar3630]

Hi. I'm 61 and living in South Africa. Most if the time I can't find the products that you suggest in my country. Can anyone maybe recommend similar products or brands in South Africa please

[@Aim4God]

Aww, you are such an adorable lady, Kay! Loved how you had that "swagger, sassy attitude" when you said "1st one." I'm only 40 but was diagnosed with MS a while back. Your tips help me feel like a good version of ME! God bless you, your family, and everyone here! 💕

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you, Aimee. I’m so glad you find encouragement here. Bless you back! 😘

[@mirifox8083]

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[@terryomalley2089]

I turned 70 this year, and I am happier than ever. I'm still teaching English in high school which keeps me young!!! Yes, keep your spirit calm and happy, and it will resonate with others!!! You are so cute!

[@paulasiefert2059]

“Give yourself a little bit of grace”. These are words to live by.

[@kathybriscoe1474]

I have worn dark color straight legs jeans for several years and have never liked distressed faded jeans nor have I worn jeans with holes in them. I have always thought women wearing holes in their jeans were trying to look like teenagers. I stay with a color palette that works for me not necessarily what is currently fashionable. I’ve always liked turquoise especially for summer. I have a pink wool winter coat and a mauve slim fitted quilted 3/4 length coat with a hood everyday. I don’t like dark drab colors during the winter months.

[@kathybriscoe1474]

I’m 78 and have stayed with 3/4 length sleeves for summer since my arms have began to have wrinkled skin on the inside of my upper arm. Creams do not work getting rid of crepey arms. I agree about moving with “energy” and we have to stand, walk and sit up straight. I go to silver sneakers three times a week not to look like I’m 30 again but to maintain balance which gets harder as I’m approaching 80. We do have to laugh and smile more often.

[@bonnieabrams8737]

Kay, I love your sense of humor. I laughed out loud at some of these! You are right on. I'm 75 and have been a dancer over the years so moved easily. After a cancer diagnosis and treatments, I developed some problems in my lower back and had to walk slowly and with a cane. I felt like (and probably looked like) I was 100 yrs old! It eventually healed and back to walking well which I am thankful for every day. Yep, I love your comment about attitude. I need to work on that as well. Thank you for all you share with us.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for sharing, Bonnie. I do know that sometimes we just can’t help these visible signs of aging. But we can do what we can. Bless you! 🥰

[@kathygann7632]

Yep, I’m 73, and when I can’t dance, I feel older.

[@christinekellyrose9435]

As a Certified Bra Fitter for 19 years, I comment on your videos when you mention getting a well fitting bra. I tell women I can make them look 10 lbs thinner and 10 years younger. Don't forget to get new panties!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for sharing. 💕

[@dorisbooth8669]

What brand of bra do you recommend? What features? Thank you!

[@patjohnson6147]

I just got a white denim jean at Walmart yesterday. They're kinda a slim straight leg. They don't fit tight like a skinny jean. And they're cropped. So they show ankle. Shorter in front than back hem. I also have white denim bell bottom jean. I think you just answered my question. I should keep the cropped slim straight. They're the current modern. Ty. 👍

[@rapunzelz5520]

I like this vid a lot. Something that occurred to me was that as a person ages, we tend to have more physical ailments. Arthritis in our hands, a bad back, worries about a surgery etc. I made a promise to myself that when that time came for me, I would not give an “organ recital” everytime I went to a social engagement. Of course I would mention it to family or friends, but I would not take half an hour to do it. People are sympathetic to chronic pain but what I decided was that it really doesn’t serve any good purpose for anyone to drone on and on about it. I try to stay positive even when things aren’t the greatest and try to focus on encouraging others.

[@terridelozier7780]

I love working on the critical spirit! I 100% agree and am trying to be mindful and aware of my attitude towards others! And that is the inner beauty that shines through all our physical appearance. Thanks for reminding us of that!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Beautiful. Thanks for sharing, Terri. 😊

[@tplayspiano]

I really appreciate your thoughtful, positive comments on aging and how to stay positive! Love your fashion tips as well.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much, Teresa. 🥰

[@moonbaby8743]

I loved this video. I am 64, and grew out my natural silver hair at 54 because I loved my lighter hair. It took the Pandemic for any of my peers to join me, yet I have no silver sisters among my closest friends. That's okay with me because our male friends compliment my hair color, not theirs. 😉My theory is that the men have natural color and they notice when a female is brave enough to join them. ♥️ I loved getting a peek of your gorgeous daughter and you in the wedding photo.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. Yes, Abby’s wedding day was a lovely one. Thanks so much for watching. 💕

[@annem3354]

I always enjoy your honest recommendations. I did purchase the lip oil as I really love the lip plumper. However, I believe your best recommendations are the last three: posture, smiling and spirit. I find that smiling, laughing and keeping a positive attitude make not only me happy, but the people around me.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely. Thanks so much for watching and sharing your thoughts, Anne. 😊

[@christinehild221]

I’ve been quietly watching you for over a year. I’m turning 59 this year and struggle with chronic pain. Today’s video really made me smile. I try to put into place your suggestions as they are practical and attainable. I loved seeing you without make up today. You are just great!

[@sonalpurohit5673]

Hi Kay, you give off such positive vibes. I hope I can be like you when I'm 50+. Honestly, I think younger people can also benefit from your videos as you emphasized a few things like exercising and stretching and balancing which will DELAY aging if started early. Love your videos and your spirit ❤

[@EmilyWilliams1967]

I really like your message here, Kay. I just wish this video didn't feel so much of the video was a City Beauty ad. I'll be looking forward to more fashion content in the future!

[@deloresakins733]

Thanks Kay! I appreciate all the tips. I let my hair go natural at about 58. So about ten years! My hair grows so fast that I had to color every four weeks and it became too costly. I could color myself in my younger years but didn’t know how to color the white. My husband and all my family love my natural color and I think my skin tone looks nicer. I’m learning how to choose clothes that are me and throw in some seasonal colors. Jeans are fun and my leggings are great at home. And I adore your hairstyle!

[@meredithtento2980]

The color clothing that you are wearing helps to bring light and roses to your skin!! I love your colors!

[@carrollniesen1129]

Your sweater and blouse are so pretty! They make you look ready for spring

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. I love them, too. 💙

[@kymgabriele297]

Thank you Kay Loved this video, your presenting skills are so happy and positive . Really liked that the tips you gave us are achievable and not all about having face/lip fillers so refreshing . And I loved that last tip about smiling, being positive, being happy and not being negative or critical , I absolutely agree we need more positivity and love in our lives . God Bless you and your Loved Ones Xx

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing, Kym. 🥰

[@darlenebuck3991]

I loved this video. Your videos always make me feel better about myself and my style choices. I'm definitely going to try the makeup brand you recommended here. I loved your last tip about being a little softer toward others. I've really been working on that myself and I find it very freeing to let my grown children make choices and just support them through those choices. I feel a lot less stress and am enjoying my life more. Lastly, I absolutely love your hair!!

[@cherylruley9965]

I am almost 59. I love your tips. I just lost my mom in January she was 86 and had beautiful skin because she stayed out of the sun and uses sunscreen

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Bless you. Thanks so much for sharing, Cheryl. 💙

[@trishdale5447]

I am 67 and have never colored my gray hair. But my fading eyebrows were aging me more than the gray in my hair. I recently went to Ulta and had them tinted. It cost about $30. It does not look fake. It is just my natural eyebrows, only darker. I love it and will do it again!

[@megpierce979]

Great idea! Do you know how long it lasts?

[@beverleyphillips2198]

I tried just for men hair dye that they use on their beards & moustaches and it worked great. Lasts about six weeks before you need to do it again.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s perfect! Wish I could do that. I just don’t have enough to tint. I know I could do micro blading, but I just don’t want to. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@trishdale5447]

They told me it would last 6 to 8 weeks. I had a friend that had hers tattooed. It looks good, but I could never do anything that permanent. 😳. I asked if they did eyelashes too and they did not.

[@ritastutler1470]

@@megpierce979 I am a hairstylist..I tint my eyelashes with the same tint..about four weeks for me.

[@sharischmidt4712]

All great tips!!! One thing l think keeps anyone younger is to have a fun social circle! I get together with my girlfriends at least once a month for lunch and see them individually most weeks . We have alot of fun getting together and catching up.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Good point. Thanks so much for sharing that Shari. I know that must be fun and encouraging. 😊

[@doreenpettit6553]

Kay, I agree with adding color. So many women 50 and iver look all one color, hair and face

[@pattyward6514]

Kay, I just loved this video. Thank you for these tips. You are a blessing to us.

[@kathleenkelly6028]

Thank you for your common sense and upbeat approach! Grace and fun just radiate off you. There are many of us lively and interested wise older women who want to look our best and stylish without falling prey to the too young fads that are so popular but inappropriate for us. I am 77, a former model, tall and still slender, and it is a challenge to find clothing that is youthful but suitable. Your videos give me some new ideas.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Thank you. 😊

[@denageorge994]

This is one of your best of many wonderful presentations. The part about a critical spirit is key, as are the comments regarding posture and movement.

[@anitamoss9408]

Thank you so much Kay! You have helped me to age gracefully and I am not afraid to turn 55 this summer! God bless you and ALL you do for beautiful women everywhere 💖

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! Thank you so much for watching, Anita. 🥰

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I don’t shop at those “mature” brands, their clothes are super-frumpy, like: capri leggings and tunic tops, 3/4 sleeves, long tops that hang down to cover the whole trunk, novelty prints and sweaters and weird colors. These clothes have a definite granny vibe and are designed to obscure the shape of the body.

[@SallySmith-em7jt]

My eyebrows are blonde and thin. I had permanent shading & microblading done. Omg! Life changing. Really research and find an expert with pictures and reviews. Would 100% do again!

[@bev3279]

Hi Kay this was wonderful! I’m 70 and several of these tips hit home. You’re always such a joy to watch!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you, Bev. 💕

[@rhonaklipp]

I like the way you wear your hair now. Brings attention to face and looks playful. Great bonus tips!!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much, Rhona. I’m enjoying it. 😊

[@kellyyork3898]

Get an excellent education, put money in your own “bank” first so you can give back to others when you get old, if you so choose. Stay healthy, accept your limitations and build on your strengths. Beauty/youth is fleeting, and we all age, (time will not remember us). Do not spend too much of your money and time on clothes, makeup, hair, and men. But if you must, these videos are excellent. ( And thank you for posting them. ) If you ever get lonely while living a fulfilling , exciting life, get a dog. Dogs are loving, funny, and especially, loyal.

[@veronicwbrennan4002]

I was once told a beautiful natural lip look was to get a lipstick the colour of the Inside of your lips. For every day that is what I do. You did at one point say 'youthful.' I think that is a better look to aim for than younger. Thanks Kay.

[@jennifergoodman8335]

Me too on the City Lips...now I have to try the oil. Love this video and the optimistic vibe as someone who is starting to see a new reminder daily that I'm now in menopause. ugh. ha!

[@kathleneevans1969]

I love seeing you in lighter summer colours. Your whole face brightens up! Reminds me to stick to lose lighter shades of colour as we age too.

[@pamelah2850]

Kay, Love your suggestions. I wear glasses all day. If you wear glasses, take a look at and consider changing to a new style of glasses from time to time. Despite beautiful makeup and clothes; old, tired glasses will not enhance your look. I decided a few years ago that my go to color in glasses is red. It is amazing how they seem to perk up my face.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yea! I love colorful glasses. 💕

[@christinepatterson45]

Thank you Kaye. I really appreciated your comments on staying positive.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You’re so welcome, Christine. I was speaking to myself more than anyone! 😉

[@debbiestoufer-zy2sl]

Kay, I loved this video. I especially loved your attitude. Thank you for the work you do helping us to look and be our best. Thank you also for your comments about a critical spirit.

[@margaretflorsheim9247]

What a lovely, balanced, thorough presentation! Tomorrow is my 67th birthday, which made it a particularly timely one for me. I definitely want to be my best self as I age. For me, it’s been a combination of staying healthy and fit, attention to self-care that enhances my appearance, and and being open to new ideas, experiences and people. I’ve just ordered the City Lips Night Oil and am looking forward to giving it a try. Thanks again for your positive, gentle and thoughtful approach to a sensitive topic.

[@julainetraxler2641]

You have given such great advice. Love your sweater! You are right about a critical spirit. We must watch out for seething anger and a critical spirit. People can see it. I journal about things that upset me, and it often leads me to gratefulness. I am 76, and I must do an attitude adjustment often. Thank you for all these great beauty tips.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely. Thanks so much for sharing that idea. Love it. 🥰

[@KathInNJ]

My biggest struggle at the moment is the crepe-iness (is that even a word, haha) of my eyes. Whenever I wear eye makeup it's so much worse. I'm in the process of trying different eye primers but none seem to help. I don't usually put foundation on under my eyes, just to keep the crepe away. I wear glasses, so when I'm outdoors and they tint it's fine. But inside the glasses really just make me think the crepe-iness is accentuated. I'm sure it's in my head, but when I look in the mirror I'd almost rather skip the eyeshadow completely.

[@kathyrice9748]

17:18 I saw an advertisement for City Lips on FB, but couldn’t make up my mind about purchasing. Then, I saw your video with real results from someone in my age group. I will be buying City Lips!! Thank you. ❤LOVE YOUR VIDEOS❤ My husband went to bed 2 hours ago and left me up watching your channel. 😂 I’m learning how not to be frumpy, make up tips, shoe recommendations and fashion all related to my age. Thank you for what you do. I am so glad I found you. May God continue to bless you. 😊

[@rozannamurayama934]

It is very hard to figure out how to dress myself at 63 and 15lbs heavier than usual. Ugh! I really appreciate you style and makeup information and tips. ❤

[@lisak927]

After watching your video, I tried a medium feather cut hairstyle. My hairdresser, whose shop I have gone to since I was 9 years old, says that I look younger with this cut. Thank you for the suggestion!

[@rozannamurayama934]

I am 63 and love the City Beauty product!!!

[@nataschajudson7509]

Hi Kay! I am new to your channel and the find the content so helpful and doable. In this video, I so appreciate your encouragement to exercise and stretch on a regular basis and also laugh and smile more. Thank you and may the Lord bless you. 😃

[@heidiegger9712]

I’d love for you to do a session on gym clothes and makeup at the gym. I never wear makeup to the gym because I’m just going to shower afterward. But would appreciate your take on more youthful looks at the gym.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for sharing Heidi. 💕

[@kafcampbell]

Kay: this is such good content, good advice, good tips!! I do a good bit of diy pro-aging treatments to look my best. Outside of some of the more intense things I diy, I say that the three things women can do to look great is exactly what you recommended: get yourself some eyebrows, in whatever way you want (I did microblading), get your eyelashes going (I do Latisse) and have white teeth. And for myself, I use those white teeth to smile as much as I can!

[@ruthwillrich266]

I agree with your tips and bonus tips..thank you!! Love your look in this video. The necklaces and the v neck top makes our necks look longer..❤️👍🏽

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching , Ruth. I’m glad you liked it. 🥰

[@juanadelaluz6838]

Glad you are wearing some Sundance. My faves. Timeless western-boho.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

🙌🏻 I do love them. Thank you.

[@dawnt5587]

I needed to hear the critical spirit advice today. That’s definitely something I need to work on.

[@wendyelliott6828]

Me too 🥺

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Well that kind of receptiveness and humility is definitely a step in the right direction. 🙌🏻 I’ve just heard myself complaining a lot lately…even complaining about other people complaining 🤣😂 So I’m making a real effort to take my complaints to the Lord alone and fill my conversations with positivity instead. 💕

[@ChrystiLove]

Wonderful to hear your truthfulness. Sometimes we need to be reminded about simple ways to stay young at heart. Thanks, Sister!

[@novanorman1091]

I am so thankful to be here too!

[@elizabethivey9326]

Kay, I love your content AND your gentle, kind spirit in how you present it. I appreciate your pro-agiing view too. I'm 61 btw.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you, Elizabeth. 💕

[@prycelessly]

I LOVED this video! Great info & reminders. Thanks for sharing the grace.

[@joannvanhorn6928]

Looked at the City Lips lash serum & a tube is $90…. Im retired & thats way out of my budget for product that wont last long.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I understand. It is not inexpensive. But just for reference, I’ve been using the same tube for over 5 months.

[@janethammett3605]

Love all your videos but I have to say this was one of the best! I especially loved the last few tips. Being happy and cheerful makes anyone fun to be around and a youthful sprit and smile draws others to us as well as us to others! That’s the person we all want to be! Thanks again for a great video.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yes, it is. 💕 Thank you for sharing, Janet.

[@helenhoier1742]

I love your philosophy on life Kay. Thank you for the helpful tips to make the most of ourselves ❤

[@universaltruth2025]

I’m in my early 50s & trying to get adjusted to the next stage in life as I notice more & more signs of aging. Plus the worsening eyesight to see the details. I’m light coloured as well & have never worn much makeup as it can overwhelm me, but also mascara & eyeliner seems to invariably run. I also have always had dark circles underneath my eyes and it can seen to accentuate those. But I notice eye makeup does look better on others as our eyes can lose definition so I’m trying to figure out how I could wear it more successfully.

[@lucindamoran8686]

Lovely tips from a lovely lady! Thank you! I wear false eyelashes now for kicks! So fun! Instead of mascara!

[@elizabethreuter5112]

Loving your shorter hairstyle Kay. Thank you for an enjoyable, informative video x

[@jayneneal2281]

Wonderful ideas, wonderfully presented! I just found you. I’ve been using clear City Lips in place of lipstick for several years. Over time it plumps your lips! That, plus a big smile, makes the best pictures

[@bessieholmes9212]

WOW! Thank you for making me feel GREAT this morning with your encouraging words.

[@rosycurtin8437]

It also helps to be away from being offended ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely. 🥰

[@jillkent6134]

One tip for eyebrows is to dye them and if you use a moustache or beard dye it lasts for a years worth of applications.

[@debravannett2876]

As Dr SWINDOLL said , Life is 90 percent attitude and only 10 percent circumstances ❤

[@dianethompsonbusch6005]

Filling and shaping eyebrows is a must do! Thank you for the wonderful tips! 😊❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

🙌🏻 thank you for watching. I know it was a long one! ☺️

[@janwynn2731]

Such a great presentation! I try hard at 72 to do these things. I appreciate your videos so much!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing, Jan. That’s inspiring. 💕

[@katharinewowk9519]

You really lightened my mood. I really liked the part about not being critical as we get older. Softening the spirit. Very very good advice. I really enjoy your videos. Your well put together videos suit my age and stage in life, and I enjoy the “inclusiveness” of your ideas, that are so so practical. You have a wonderful smile and a joyful countenance. I really appreciate it. Thank you from Canada.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for your kindness and encouragement, Katharine. I appreciate it more than you know. 🥰

[@raquel5401]

great tips, for the brows, I went and had mine tatooed on. They lool absolutley real and now I don't have to try to see well enough to penci them in anymore

[@SallySmith-em7jt]

Me too ❤

[@meghobbes950]

Oh Kay, I am so thankful for you. You present such practical tips in such a gracious way. I have learned so much from you. God bless you.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Meg. So nice to see you here today! 😉

[@cdavham]

Good advice sweetly offered. I strive to be your graceful example of beautiful soul growth. 🥰

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much, Cathy. 🥰

[@Leslie-vz3dr]

Thank you for all the tips! Sometimes I get frustrated with how quickly fashion trends come & go. I live for n the Midwest & we are always behind the times. I like my skinny jeans & January 2024 I actually saw them in a department store as being back in style already! Thanks again.

[@donnaschindlbeck7457]

These are great tips Kay! Taking care of one’s self as we age is crucial! Wether it be exercise, what we eat, how we dress, hair and makeup it all makes a difference. Many women have spent their lives taking care of others and have put their needs on hold. Your City Beauty code came at just the right time! I really like their sculpting cream! Has made a difference for me.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great to hear. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and watching todays video.

[@tamaraallspaugh2962]

Your hair style is looking lovely and modern!

[@lisaannfick]

Wonderful mindset. Thank you for the positive message. And I love City Beauty! You introduced me to the lip products and hand lotion. I just added a few more lip glosses to my collection. Thanks for the discount!!😘 I just joined the 60 club. I appreciate the tips!!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You bet! Thanks for watching. 😊

[@flowerpower3618]

You look so pretty in that soft green

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 😊

[@debbiemabrey9240]

I love your cardigan! The color is so fresh and springy!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks. It’s a fun new find indeed. 😊

[@marieschmidt9416]

Kay, the pics with your daughter are beautiful and I love your sleek, sophisticated, youthful hair in those pictures.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you.

[@kathyforst6577]

Great video, Kay! I especially appreciated the idea of softening one's spirit and being less critical. The City products looked wonderful, but are out of my price range. Could you possibly do a video or just include in your blog, similar products with a different price point?

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Honestly I’ve not found an effective lash or brow serum for less. In fact, most of those cost much more unfortunately. And I really haven’t found any lip plumpers or serums that work as well either. But I will definitely share them if I find some.

[@JanGreig]

What a terrific pro - aging video. Excellent tips.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you for watching, Jan. 😊

[@2PuppyProductions]

I think your last tip was the most important of all. Very well said and a very good reminder.Thank you!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching to the end, Kathy. I know it was a long one. Next week’s is shorter. 😉

[@reginasemenenko148]

I cannot use mascara at all do to severe eye allergies. I use castor oil every night. I apply it with a q-tip to my eyebrows, eyelashes and my face. I do this about 2 hours before bed because castor oil is a bit sticky, but it is worth it! Your pocket book with thank you as well because you can purchase a very large amount of product at Walmart.

[@jenniferludwick4685]

Enjoyed your video very much….I need some new updated jeans for sure..Also, I liked your small delicate necklaces. They are very on trend right now. Staying away from critical people is so true and keeping faith in our life will keep us humble. We are not the be all end all….thanks for your video…you’re beautiful inside and out…and that’s the best of life..Thanks again, Kay…🥰

[@rebeccawoods4488]

Such good tips, Kay! As we are hosting our son’s wedding in two months, I am really trying to work on that last one in particular.😊

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Congratulations. It will be a lovely time. 🥰

[@danitapowell2291]

That green is a great color on you, Kay.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. I love it too. 😊

[@shelahogletree7711]

I use City Lips too, but I didn’t know about the night plumper!

[@mosaicgirl4002]

I must say that was terrific! So thoughtful & useful … and KIND! Wishing you a lovely day from 🇦🇺 Australia!❤️🌻

[@susanlarkin3790]

Such a sweet video! I appreciate all the suggestions, but most of all, I do think that a smile that comes from a joyful spirit is the most important! This takes “spiritual exercise”, because it is not our own joy, but the joy as fruit of the Lord’s spirit that is the difference. ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely. Thanks so much for sharing. 🥰