10 Ways To RECOGNIZE ENVY And FALSEHOOD In Others | Stoicism

[@mimi4pdx]

Everyone is not your friend. Once I tested and observed my so called "friend" of many years, I was shocked at the depth of her envy & sabatoges of my life over the years. It hurt because I wasted so much time with her but the truth matured me. I'm glad God woke me up & told me to watch people's reaction to me more closely & take my inner voice more seriously and believe it. . Thank you God!! ❤

[@MaxineMartin-t6e]

Excellent information!

[@AJ-ow7xi]

Same thing happened to me. And what is even more shocking is how other people reacted when they realized I wasn’t tolerating any of this any more. I was shocked at how many around me were stuck in the same unawareness.

[@cocobrown1031]

I’m going thru the samething. How did you pull away?

[@JenHope118]

@@mimi4pdx some are very narcissistic. I have a friend who is so competitive, I told her that a friend got her promotion to a senior position and , she went like this: "it is not that hard to get promoted, I could be in her position if I stayed long enough" ..now if this isn't envy I don't know what it is. If she could have just said " oh congratulations"

[@mimi4pdx]

@cocobrown1031 I started being super busy. The longer I kept my distance, the more uninteresting she became to me.

[@diannajohnson903]

I treat people the way I want to be treated with respect.

[@gabrielscruggsjr9492]

Well the problem is jealous folks can still be respectful. It's an heart issue. A insecurity. Nothing to do with respecting others.

[@lynwood9615]

@@diannajohnson903 And the Jealousy comes from your God it's written and provokes it. And the contents written in that contradictory mythical mixed up bible make you people do evil wicked sick perverted things.

[@jehanneinglis9672]

@diannajohnson903. Yes, most certainly , me too dianna. 🌹🌠🌟 🌛

[@lynwood9615]

@@jehanneinglis9672 That's not true you both treat people the way Demigods goddesses and wicked perverted angels want you to.

[@StellaShiffer-u6w]

End ? Why does Stoic say don't believe in words and believe in actions?

[@cherylepps6717]

"ALWAYS OBSERVE CAREFULLY "

[@mariejones2669]

Right on & one of my mottos I live by is PAY ATTENTION

[@anabellelavinamero9374]

All are true

[@AncientWisdom79]

Yes, paying attention to the smallest details can reveal so much more.

[@1HackedAccount]

I’m so glad that I’ve NEVER had a jealous bone in my body.

[@Sheria1979]

i am ready

[@yverak5504]

Me too, i never jealous annyone but I have a lot jealous co workers.

[@mindhorizons_life]

I’m grateful that I've always been free from jealousy.

[@mjkman9585]

Well everyone gets a little jealous her and there of something’s it if you dwell on it all the time when its a problem

[@natalieflanagan175]

Same . I don’t understand it tbh. Wishing well for all and always happy for people to reach for the stars and be their best selves. Life is short and precious . Sad for those who feel this way 🇮🇪☘️

[@karolinah12]

I am watching this because i also need to evaluate how i behave towards others. Be who you want to meet, if you want positivity, act this way yourself

[@mindhorizons_life]

thank you

[@07themule]

❤

[@bettyegreer4958]

You are absoutely correct about all this but "KARMA" make her rounds also you sow goodness and reap goodness sow badness you reap badness😅

[@realtalkwithmsjay5004]

This. All of this 💯

[@AncientWisdom79]

It sounds like you're really taking a reflective approach to personal growth. I love the idea of being the person you'd want to meet-spreading positivity starts with how we treat others. Keep it up, you're on the right path.

[@anneramirez8777]

Jealous people will always find fault in you and accuse you of something you didn't do just to make you feel bad and inferior about yourself

[@JackieLarose]

Yes the projecting their own hate onto you they feel that way about themselves I know it's bad the Trevor you down they really hate themselves I know people act this way to me all the time

[@alegnalowe3679]

That is because they are miserable and probably a bit narcissistic.I can almost feel sorry for them.

[@StoicRiseUp]

I found the section on observing how people react to our success very insightful. It's fascinating-and a bit alarming-how some can mask their true feelings behind a facade of fake congratulations. It makes me wonder, have you ever been surprised by someone's reaction to your achievements?

[@AncientWisdom79]

You're absolutely right. Jealousy can drive people to project their insecurities onto others, often by criticizing or making baseless accusations. It’s important not to let their negativity bring you down or make you question your worth. Stay confident and keep moving forward.

[@catlady6938]

That is true they will gaslight you to try and make you look bad to make themselves feel better

[@shirleybraganza3155]

1. Observe their actions. 2. Evaluate their response to your success. 3. Notice how they interact with those who can't benefit them. 4. Distinguish between praise and flattery. 5. Monitor consistency. 6. Observe their attitude when criticized. 7. Attentively notice unintention comparisons. 8. Pay attention to their reactions to personal failures. 9. Evaluate how they share personal information. 10. Listen to your inner voice.

[@estherayoti5404]

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[@Soul2Soul.Goa2024]

Thanks for saving 30 mins of my time.

[@ladylagray]

❤

[@Violet-eh2wc]

Your info was very helpful for me thanks

[@terezachandler9787]

Thank you . Good job. Videos take forever. Round and round

[@Thesoulfulcrossroads]

Reminder to always be kind to each other 🙏 Even if they are not returning the favor.

[@caroletta451]

Nope, not any more! Lived that way for too long. Just ignore and avoid them now.

[@Thesoulfulcrossroads]

@Caroletta451 I firmly believe in letting go of grudges. Life is too precious to be weighed down by negativity. My personal philosophy is centered around showing kindness and determination in moving forward. This doesn't mean we should tolerate toxic individuals, but rather that we should strive to show kindness in our daily interactions.

[@caroletta451]

My wounds are fairly new. I am a firm believer in forgiving but I am wise enough not to forget! If you are a relative and tell me how much you love me but then ignore me on your daughter's special day, I will remember this. I have stood by and let these slights go on too long. When people show you who they are, believe them! These people are toxic!

[@Thesoulfulcrossroads]

@@caroletta451 I agree🖤! your words resonate deeply. It's incredibly powerful to acknowledge the pain and take a stand against toxic behavior. Your commitment to forgiveness while also setting boundaries and remembering past hurts is a testament to your strength and resilience. Remember that you deserve to be loved and respected consistently, not just in words but in actions. Keep standing up for yourself and your worth - you're an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles

[@Sanne-nw8hn]

​@caroletta451 😊☕️ it's not easy while your feelings are raw & hurt

[@Contemplate-s8p]

Wishing everyone reading this message a very lucky and joyful day

[@TellieBeauregard-w2b]

I once had friends but was hated and they all walked out from my life because I Changed My Life Around The Only Friend I Have Now Is The Lord Jesus For He Never Left Me I'm Thankful For Him And I Thank The Lord Jesus For He Removed Those Who Never Loved Me .. Amen ❤️ 🙏

[@tinamitchell7821]

OMG. The same thing happened to me. I had these friends since four years old we are now turning 56. They are gone because I decided to lift me and my daughter up and make us a success story. Not bragging. We did good. We put God first. We kept praying together. The blessings are still coming. They are still in housing court. Trying to find ways to feed their families and don’t care anything about an education or having God in their lives.

[@RobertMatlabeyane]

Yes I do have people like that around me but I stopped sharing my thoughts with any of these people

[@williamwebster1240]

I to had friends ,and lost them ,as I changed ,as well ​@@RobertMatlabeyane

[@TheJlee28]

Surround yourself with great friends and leave them behind 😂

[@sukimak9071]

❤🎉😢🙏 amen thank you 😊 🙏 🙌 depression go away yes truth.

[@donnadaniels5095]

When I bought my house🏡 that's what I found out the jealousy in my family even my own mother she taught my brothers and sisters to be jealous that is so sad🙏🏽 but to God be the glory⚔🦁 no contact living my best life 💃its there loss I am the blessing to be a blessing🙏🏽

[@SJUCityBoy]

Unfortunately, you're not alone. Many families have a similar dynamic. Something I have learned is that I save a lot of money during Christmas time and birthdays. Hope you're enjoying your home.

[@Joan-r6w]

I receive that and can totally relate..also living my greatest life 🙌. I am ready to embark on the journey ❤

[@Stoicism79]

Stay strong! Your journey is inspiring, and your resilience shines bright. Keep being a blessing! 🌟

[@ranjitharanju3551]

😮😮😮😮soo hurtful

[@angieharris8015]

YEP, my mother (and father) but definitely my mother was not happy when I bought my house. She wanted nothing more than to see me fail....she still feels that way. lol

[@colchicine1]

The golden rule. "Do unto others as you would like others to do unto you"

[@theafricanphilosopherqueen3032]

Few days ago I was giving my speech at my son's graduation dinner party and could see/ feel the sneers on my two sisters' faces and rolling of the eyes, causing me to cut off my speech because I was so pissed off but tried very hard to contain my hurt and disgust fò the sake of my son.. .the envy and jealousy was imminent, but I focused on my son's achievement, Magna Cum Laude.Thank you for the tips, I studied Philosophy in college and my son somehow did a minor in it and am sure the principles of Stoic Philosophy have contributed to the fine young man he has turned out to be ❤

[@bethatomy]

Congratulations for being positive and wise.

[@raphaelalukagfinay9739]

“The only person I would compare myself with was myself yesterday,” by wiser men. I like the encouraging wording, “watch, and, observe.” Thanks for sharing greatness!

[@KingStoic101]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@pinky2cats706]

My neighbor, a woman who I have known for over 40 yrs., would only call me when she was broke and couldn’t go to the casino. She always complained and talked about the other neighbors. I always felt her friendship was not sincere and that she talked about me too. She called me one day and asked about my blood pressure which had been running high, and she asked about my brother who had been in the hospital for a serious illness. She was always long winded so when I told her I had to get off the phone so I could call my brother, her response was: “don’t call him, let someone else call him.” I told her not to ever tell me not to call my brother. I didn’t holler at her, but my voice was serious. She stopped talking to me, but good bc she is not a real friend. A real friend would never tell a friend not to call a sick relative. Do you think I am right to stay away from her? I won’t let anyone bully me.

[@teeadam6800]

You right I had a friend that would only call me when she needed or wanted something from me

[@jimmyjameson8705]

She's NOT your friend. Never was. She's just a user. Been there, done that. Press on. You won't miss her.

[@BibleEcho-k1l]

Real friendships are built on mutual respect and support, especially in difficult times. If you feel that this relationship was one-sided and not supportive, it's understandable why you would choose to distance yourself. Trust your instincts, and it's important to surround yourself with people who genuinely care for you and your family. Staying true to your boundaries is a healthy approach, and it seems like you're doing what's best for you.

[@RC-ku8pr]

U WERE DEFINITELY RIGHT ... HOPE YOUR BROTHER IS FEELING BETTER...TAKE CARE

[@caroltaylor205]

You are right when your working on self ,whom ever make you feel uncomfortable about your own good faith of ,truth I'm gonna leave them alone because there lives actually don't depend on me nor MINE ON THEM so I must stand down at the end of the day ,when GOD call us we cant stop and say to someone's we do love GOD IS CALLING ME IT ALWAYS HAPPENS IN ONES OWN SELF !!! AROUND OR NOT

[@Johanna-iu6ly]

Over the years, I've recognised it in a lot of people, mainly co workers and family members

[@angeliqueknox5024]

Me too

[@dafnenoel9825]

Facts

[@ShirleyYake]

I have been working hard on my inner core, the truth of my being. What I have done is to eliminate many people from my life. I do my sincerest to not place judgments because everyone has their own journeys and chosen paths. I strive to perfect myself through honesty and humility. I was born alone. I will leave this earth alone. It's what I do in the middle that counts. Thank you for your teachings.

[@Stardust17316]

Thank you kindly. This is all make sense. I had a friend we get along so well, i can tell her everything feel she is genuine. Oneday i overheard her backstabbing me to the other lady.. That is when i started to gently dissolved myself away. God is good indeed. ❤❤

[@AnnetteGenovesi-c7h]

Terrible. Glad what you did but it must still be a loss to you.

[@waskyhenry6306]

This presentation has heightened the need for me to pay more attention to my inner voice. I should stop taking things for granted. Assuming that some people will not harm me. My carefree attitude about some people should stop 🛑. I should pay attention to my intuition and stop assuming that all is well. Having listened to this piece is priceless.

[@empress9857]

Yes because I have always wanted to see the best in others and it has really warp my mind because now I see the thru and it’s so hurtful recently with my eldest sister who held on a pedestal and valued her opinion was never real I told ha she is a fake a.. sister and she will always be sus I don’t even want my eldest daughter in touch with her and that itself is hurtful because I’m not a person to do that however I’m forced to boundaries now are hellah up and ain’t coming down idc how others view me no man

[@karolinah12]

Envy is real & sinful, we must cleanse our minds and accept our own life journey. There will always be people worse off and better off than you ❤

[@lastsouljastanding8023]

You are a good person karolinah

[@hotmomma1552]

Not just cleanse our minds but our hearts too!

[@VIP-n2c]

Being envied is not sinful, that’s my goal, to be the most envied by all men except my brother.

[@pushpasangma8275]

Really action speak louder than words,envy and jealousy exit everywhere, It's mostly occurred within, family members, close relatives and friends . Dear messenger you are extremely right 💯 .

[@MaryneSamuels]

I'm readrto inbark on this journey

[@gsb575]

Hevedaave, eersha, he tar sarvach family in madhe aste, 1ka bhaawaache dusrya bhawaanya, utkash jhalelaa baghwatach nahi, he mihi anubhawalay, on mhanun naate thodya yet nahit,madat karaawich laagte jivanat he sarv honar, he dharunch chaalaayche,mhanach aahe, aaila dusra mulga hoto, on pahilya bhaawaala wait I hoto.

[@alysiahite7086]

I had a so called friend that wouldn't take responsibility for her mistake or apologize to me for causing me a problem. 🙄 I no longer talk to her for my sanity and peace.☮️

[@brownsugarzeze2330]

That happened to me than she passed away

[@seethalakshmi4286]

Who r u

[@maryalex1401]

@@seethalakshmi4286she is alysiahite. 😊

[@pampeyton6302]

I let go of a friend for the same exact thing. I feel so much peace without the negativity. Thank you Jesus.🙏🏽🦋

[@rockydagamer8387]

👏🏾

[@stellanmeje4756]

It's important to be vigilant to how people react to your failures and to your success. This will help me to guide my own reaction and emotion.

[@joyjones7965]

Yes, get rid of those toxic people! You don't need them in your life!! Been there done that......

[@tinabrunson1633]

Amen!! Jealous people are very motivated to build up lies and create drama and always saying smart words toward you and constantly looking under eye at you. Be careful of family members, associates, and co-workers who are evil and negativity. Love to spread rumors or tell secrets because they're still trying to destroyed you and those who loved you. No matter who they are let them go and don't look back!!!!!

[@thyralmcrae7770]

I have had those experiences in my life. So sad that people can’t be happy for you. SMH 😢

[@teeadam6800]

@@tinabrunson1633 so true

[@rosinaflowerpot5515]

Oh my goodness you are spot on . I'm dealing with this for the last five years I have never seen it before, so much hate and bitterness and lies and jelusery is very sad , let them get on with it bless them xx

[@rosinaflowerpot5515]

This is so true xx

[@christinaing1052]

I’m in my golden sixty, still learning discernment & self preserving tactics. I tried forgiveness, these people only kept taking more inch & ground from you. I leaned that I hv to change myself, not them. Becos they would never change. Out of their jealousy, they seek every chance to bad mouth you even before you are introduced to new colleagues. They take the cream off from your crop. They add bitterness to your juice. My only way out were to cut them off from my personal social ground unless in odd occasions as in company functions. In such case, I pray to God to give me blind eyes to block the evil but see only goodness from others 😂

[@jasodadhupan9530]

Thank you. I currently have limited friends because of this.

[@KingStoic101]

Glad I could help

[@AnnetteGenovesi-c7h]

Yea. The truth is nobody is really true, as we all seem to be a mesh of all kinds of complex emotions and can't stay consistent no matter what.

[@theinsightfulvisionary0197]

I'd rather have no friends than fake ones!!! Pray for divine connections!!!

[@harrymohamad]

Thanks to God which give me a heart that i can treat A King and homeless poor people in same way. All people including mental homeless people can join my table at the restaurant including stray animal. All human are same, only God is superior.

[@balkisusewell6892]

❤

[@Abundance26]

Evaluate their response to your success. This is so true. I graduated 2023 and on the day of my graduation I sent my grad pic to this person i considered a "friend" and she skipped over the pic and answered every other msg BUT THAT ONE. It made me laugh because I had always suspected that she felt some type of way towards me but didn't want to believe.

[@victoriavitoroulis3273]

It’s not what they say … it’s what they didn’t say .., jealous indeed ..

[@empress9857]

Wow 😮😮😮😮

[@Abundance26]

@@empress9857 yup

[@olivetree8012]

I had many jealousy friends and people in my life it was toxic, awe full. God took many of tgem out of my life and others HE showed me red flags and actions i chose to walk away and it was the best thing I’ve done. My standards in the past 8 years got higher and my self respect, self esteem, self value I am in a stage now that this type of person I screen them from afar they don’t near me and if they would come I don’t allow them in my life. God has blessed me so, so much and be sure HE will do the same or better to you. . Be always watchful, observe and if you see something or hear one thing don’t insist or persist because that’s what I did I use to think that’s nothing, just a little thing, wanted friends a mix being emotional as well. I changed completely. I am so proud of myself 😊. Thanks be to God that helped me completely. Wishing you the very best!😊

[@glorypp2663]

I'm observing people around me, exactly what this video says. These kinds of people are the demons they are masking themself. They are very pretentious that they are good but they are demons. I'm suffering from this kind of people around me, full of lies and manipulatives,they are envious and jealous. I understand a lot towards their actions, because it is definitely different from what they said.

[@AnnoyedApron-wk2el]

free yourself from them, glorypp. it is sometimes hard to do but your mind and spirit are way more important and peaceful without knowing them and their drama. May God bless and help us.

[@theophilejulien9288]

Through observation, I have seen my own family members that are jealous of me. But I wouldn't describe what they have done to me. For that reason, I used a zero tolerance method to control their demonic aspects. Blocking them from getting me upset and even when saying negative things towards me. When I pray, I ask God to give me wisdom, understanding, and the ability to recognize evil person and descent one.

[@BlessedWithOutTheMess]

Always Observe Carefully

[@LatoyaHarris-t1v]

I am going through the same thing with family and so called friends or so I thought!! Very hurtful and painful when you know what is going on especially how they treat you! People only contact or reach out when they need something not to see how you doing or feeling! Glory be to our father God who is in control!!!❤

[@michellenelson4000]

I am TRULY ready to embark on this journey I have had my fair share of ups & downs with all sorts of people in my life but one thingthat I have learned to realize is you have to keep your inner circle and surroundings very limited✊🏼❤🙏🏾

[@KingStoic101]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@pinkiline881]

I think it was my house with jealous

[@DamianaPedrigal]

​@KingStoi. Just Dre story my lifec101

[@caroletta451]

THIS!!!

[@AngesclaudeMafoumbi-im4ch]

i always love not only listening to your podcast , but putting in practice your advice in my life ... i really appreciate you .

[@KingStoic101]

Wonderful!

[@deborahberylhulse1622]

a favorite saying of mine is "actions speak louder than words." I appreciate this video for encouraging us to be aware of other behavior but just as importantly our own.

[@anitapremprakashi1518]

I m surrounded with such competive insecured people n their words hurt me like weapons Affecting my health

[@gladiator22666]

My late father told me to mind my own business and do my own thing …great advice, that’s how I’ve lived my life ……unfortunately people still get upset with your achievements.

[@willharper7888]

When i bought my first house two years ago...i haven't heard from certain family members and friends since. Lol...they haven't even acknowledge the fact i moved and got my first house. PAY ATTENTION their ACTIONS will show you how they REALLY feel about you!! 💯👏☝️

[@crystallowery7127]

My husband brother and a so call friend does my husband the same way. As soon as they get something they come straight to our home and show off what they have.

[@mimi4pdx]

Same!

[@es9758]

I had that happen four years when I got my house also it took three years to buy it, even my own family members wouldn't even congratulate me, cause I'm mentally disabled I've been done that way most of my life.

[@jehanneinglis9672]

@@crystallowery7127 ; With respect . " Your husband, brother and a " so called " friend etc etera. " 👌👍👍💫

[@L.Fontein7]

Yes, real estate purchases seem to bring out the true character of others in our lives. Sad.

[@Mythoughtonpoliticaltopics]

This has helped me. I have a daughter. I love her but this girl that is all I can say. Her children do not like her. One of them call her toxic. It hurts me to my heart but I have to pull back. No one wants to be around her. No one so yeah I needed this

[@AnnetteGenovesi-c7h]

I have come to believe that some of us are born with bad personalities, just like we may be born with a physical imperfection. That means no matter how you swing it you come out looking bad. Just can't get the hang of pleasing people.

[@tinamitchell7821]

I have someone very close to me a family member that pretends to be happy for you when you get blessed as long as you’re not doing better than she is.

[@Singletonregina490]

@@tinamitchell7821 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 Amen

[@lindamiller4649]

They show jealousy by saying things to hurt you. They never realize they hurt your feelings.

[@lornareyneke8920]

Thank you for helping me through my life ,God is Good and caring i Love you God

[@lynwood9615]

God is who makes people jealous of each other it's written in that contradictory mythical mixed up bible.

[@shakiramcgee2023]

Spirit of discernment is very important. Your enemies are often the ones closest to you that you least expect.

[@WisdomWanderers-p9l]

"I treat people the way I want to be treated with respect" It always true

[@janicewimsatt4484]

This is exactly what I needed to hear.❤

[@7LaLaz7]

Always Observe Carefully I am Humbly Grateful Blessed that God Blessed me not to judge, to be jealous or hate anyone no matter what...Thank Goodness their are a few of us left...

[@KingStoic101]

Practice of humility and non-judgment. Cultivating a heart free from envy and hate reflects true inner strength. It’s a rare and precious path, may you continue to walk it with gratitude and grace.

[@frankie7508]

I was married to a person like this for twenty years. Confronting truth and closely examining her actions by observations were the key to finally getting rid of her. Actions revealed the truth about her. I thank God she is out of my life. 20 years ago she successfully used the civil/legal system against me to steal as much marital assets that she could. But, in the end I was able to rebuild and significantly advance my career AND personal life much further than I would have with her. To the credit of our legal system, it has gotten much tougher for women to game the system as they successfully have for decades with regard to divorces. And one of the lessons I have learned through the school of hard knocks is to ALWAYS And under all conditions have a pre-marital legal agreement written by a qualified attorney before moving forward with marriage. This advice applies to people of any gender. Stoicism is now an important part of my life.

[@keenlyaware-yt3li]

I had a man like that in my life once. It's unfortunate when our partners harbor such emotions.

[@rozee1507]

Currently going through it. 17 years of promises and still nothing. Something in me keeps telling me I need to go.

[@BudgetInnovation1]

@@rozee1507 Once over the trauma, life gets better and better as a divorced person. Less money but more happiness.

[@olivetree8012]

Wow,only after 20 years you saw the real her. Thanks be to God better late then never . Success to you all the best!

[@frankie7508]

@@olivetree8012 Actually it started at about 13 or 14 Years and I believed, at the time, that it was my vocation to stay married. But the situation became intolerable. Like many women she did not contribute at all towards the household Financially and with normal house duties. But, thanks be to God, I am rid of her forever. I wish I would have learned stoicism much earlier in my life. But I think you said it best, "Better late than never". I Think of how many men I know that remain in love- less marriages in which the women contribute Little or absolutely nothing, Both financially in with normal household duties. And I count myself fortunate. Thanks for the feedback and take care.

[@carolinemosupa1325]

My friend at church organization always praise me and tell me how clever I am, but only does it when we are together and never, never in front of other people. When I was wrongly accused, I expected her to comment but instead she kept silent and her silence hurt me very deeply. I lessons speak to me. Thank you I really appreciate

[@carolinemosupa1325]

Sorry I wanted to say your lessons and not I lessons

[@caroltaylor205]

AINT NOTHING REAL 0:53 WITHOUT THE GOD TRUTH🙏🏾SOMETHING ALWAYS TELL YOU SOMETHING AINT RIGHT 💯%

[@arlynoledan8106]

❤Thank you for these principles... "actions speaks louder than words" is true and proven. We just need grace from God to be consistently observant, and vigilant.🙏

[@Winning29]

The world has been divided into the righteous and the wicked. We are fighting a spiritual war. Everything is in the Bible. God bless you all.

[@EmpressofChrist]

Thank u for this !

[@godsroseinbloomh3246]

This is precisely the way it is today

[@irinamuzyka]

After 50 years in business I can attest that every word you have spoken is 100% accurate. Assume everyone hates your guts and is out to destroy you and you’ll be just fine.

[@DoreenMorrison-b5q]

This was Truly EXCELLENT & True!!

[@christinemolines6085]

action speaks definitely LOUDER

[@howardtynes1047]

Everything you speak of is very clear true and accurate.

[@AncientWisdom79]

I love how this video breaks down subtle signs of jealousy and dishonesty. Observing actions, reactions to success, and consistency are key to understanding people’s true intentions. Such practical advice for a peaceful life!

[@KingStoic101]

Wow, thank you!

[@BraundaB]

I am ready to embark on this incredible and wonderful stoic journey! Let's Go!

[@joycecubberley239]

Everything what you are saying is absolutely true. I have two co-workers who are pretenders that they are nice to you, but when you’re not with them, they talk negatively behind your back. I just pray for them to the Lord, that God will touch their hearts and open their mind to stop judging others.

[@juliaroache6137]

Pray for a spirit of discernment!!!

[@onChristhe]

I received criticism from a credible source, and though it did not feel good to hear, I accepted it for it to help me focus on my changing some things and ways.

[@chelseasmith9242]

A big indicator and red flag of someone who is jealous is, whenever you are good at something that the jealous person is not, they always have something negative to say to you and always have a problem with that one thing you are good at or whatever they are jealous of you for and about, and they are the only one who always has a problem with you doing something you love that they know that they will never be good at themselves, or whatever they are jealous of you for and about, and intelligence and how much money you have, is something else that jealous people can't stand. It's so annoying and childish when these jealous people come into our because jealousy is a common trait of not only toxic people but in narcissists big time as well. It's their own fault that they are so childish, immature, and jealous, no one else's. Jealous people can't be trusted, ever. When someone shows us who they are good or bad, believe them. Remember, you don't owe anyone any type of explanation for taking care of yourself.

[@AncientWisdom79]

I completely agree with your point. Jealousy often comes from deep insecurity, and those who are jealous tend to project their own frustrations onto others. Instead of focusing on improving themselves, they try to bring others down, which can be incredibly toxic. You’re right that this behavior is common among narcissists too-they thrive on making others feel small in order to feel superior. The best approach is to recognize these red flags early and distance ourselves from such negativity. As you said, we don’t owe anyone an explanation for protecting our peace and well-being.

[@WhatsNotKnownBC]

I'm so thankful for this knowledge , it has helped me to distinguish just what the hell is wrong with the people I have sincerely given my help to and why I am not actually able to achieve meeting my needs in health with their wants their only priority, until they need something from me they let me down on what had been agreed to beforehand and smirk about my losses only to expect the righty from me when they turn up again. Disgusting and blatantly a false friend as I am a prime joke in this town for being kind-hearted . Thank you for the reassurance dear thoughtful and humaine wise ones.

[@norama3998]

قال الحبيب الرٌسول محمٌد صلٌى الله عليه و سلّم : أَحِبّْ لأخِيك ما تُحِبّ لنفسك !

[@marchandtpinkney5085]

I believe in treating people like you want to be treated. I dont really think about who is jealous or not I just try to surround myself with people that are positive.

[@mariavmelendez8705]

My three sisters and I always got along fine. My younger, and my older sisters passed away many years ago, it was just me and my sister a year and a half younger than me. She had a husband that loved her so much, always buying her nice expensive things, my sister was spoiled. I was a single mother of six, never could buy me nice clothes, never could go on vacations. But we always got along, I was happy that she had a good husband, we spent alot of time together until the day she died a couple of years ago. That's because we were both Christians. I sure miss her 😢

[@rfb915]

This Whole video Describes my own husband, Grandchildren, some of my Children and people whom I thought was True Friends that I have Love For! This video amplified what I have Already felt warned about but because the Love I have for all mentioned this video has Opened My Eyes More! Still I care and love leaving Me Being Heart Broken! Thanks

[@KingStoic101]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@georgiak6017]

I feel this is over simplifying situations. I have acted the way described not out of jealousy but out of genuine dissatisfaction at friends' priorities. A friend scared of running out of money buying an electric car, 5 foot TV, gold watch.....not jealous, incredulous.

[@KingStoic101]

It’s true, not all reactions stem from jealousy. Sometimes it’s genuine concern or disbelief at the choices others make, especially when they seem inconsistent with their expressed priorities.

[@StoicWisdom-3368]

What an insightful video! The distinction between words and actions truly opened my eyes. The lesson on observing behavior over flattery is something I’ll definitely apply in life. Thank you for bringing Stoicism into modern context!

[@angieharris8015]

I had that happen to me from an Ex-friend + ex-coworker (one-in-the-same person). She could not visibly hide her disgust when i told her that I'd FINALLY got the job that I wanted. I will never forget her expression. Her name is *Jennifer Lynn Michel* 😆😁

[@shawnas6890]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@empress9857]

😂😂😂😂😂 cheers 🥂💃🥂💫😝

[@waskyhenry6306]

Wow 😲, you really went in deep. They must have hurt 🤕 you that bad 😞.

[@angieharris8015]

@@waskyhenry6306 Yes, it blind-sided me more like. I had only "heard" of people like this I just never thought that I would encounter such a person lol.

[@BudgetInnovation1]

I don't know her! Is she in Ireland?

[@Annewelch435]

Envy is terrible. Your eyes reveal a lot.❤

[@chrisdundas6277]

This sounds like a so called "friend" I let my guard down around managed to weasel and manipulate his way into my life. He was always the first one there when things went wrong like some sort of devil. If only I recognized the signs sooner.

[@AnnDavis-qc6zm]

For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, " He catches the wise in their craftiness". That part Amen 🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@Singletonregina490]

My gut / Holy Spirit is my first sign, it will quickly make me feel uncomfortable and tense and ready to get out of the gathering ...

[@alisonnapier5208]

I've lost myself these past few years, I have become aggressive and untrusting to anyone. I've watched a few of these videos and they help tremendously to get back the person I once was

[@margopaton3240]

I’ve had this all my life. I have an in-built radar for jealous people. It was imminent when I graduated. There is someone in the wings just now who is playing games and I have no idea why she would be jealous of me. But I now keep my distance.

[@mariaceciliauehara5054]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge to us who listened to your video. It adds to my knowledge more and more. God bless and more power to your program. Good day everyone.

[@KayMcGuffin-wr6gh]

I am ready to embark on this journey. I will listen to it too the end. Thanks

[@rosesutton7448]

Value this video.. I have been thur and been around people that have given uncomfortable feelings..now I understand.. and thank you..will continue to listen to your video as my daily recovery 😊❤

[@ileanagodfrey]

Always observe carefully

[@GreatQuotes-n1g]

This video touches on something we all experience - feeling off about someone despite their 'friendly' words. I think the Stoic philosophy of focusing on self-control instead of others' actions is especially relevant here. What are some ways everyone manages negative vibes in a positive, stoic way?"

[@VirginiaSado]

❤I am ready to observe the stoic philosophy. Yes. unfulfilled sayings, liars, dishonest, proud, self centered, easy to anger, selfish motives, quite rude, not sincere. So, I must be Positive Thinking, and trying to detach myself from them slowly, no attachment or commitment as soon as possible. Thank you Sir for the lesson I learned.Amen

[@colinscott2021]

True words I’m going through it right now with people who claim they are my friends and family

[@PeterYeadon-js7ou]

Jealously, a most destructive emotion. When my mother died my brothers Jealously and hate came out from him regarding me. A truly evil person. The signs were their all my life. This is a superb channel. He now lies his way through life. In truth, HE is a very, very sad person. The lies that have been told about myself. He and my x girlfriend made my life pure hell, they loved it and li. Girlfriend ex and brother got together when my mother past. Due to Stoicism I survived. My mother could put up with losers in life like my brother, I have not been a loser she and him tried to pull me down.

[@Geekspravo]

I realized that is all about trust with yourself and extend the same to community around,cause it seems to be a judgement.Which extends to competition which many people are chasing after but due to non control extends to name enemies.

[@patriciathomas9299]

Always Observe Carefully👑

[@MarieAMcNeese]

Amen 🙏 I have never been a jealous person. I'm happy for others when things go well in their life

[@KingStoic101]

That's a great mindset! Celebrating other' success brings more positivity and peace into your own life.

[@delorescampbell2899]

My own older brothers and sisters were jealous of me. I'm the youngest. They hurt me so badly!God fixed it. He turned thrm against each other. The main 2 that was behind everything.

[@millicentchisholm2567]

I am very appreciative of your teaching. You're not off course it's what we faced in every day life. I've encountered these kinds of people, stoic or stoicism is what we attract. Thanks for the lesson and the light you shine on it /them . THANK YOU VERY VERY MUCH, I APPRECIATE IT 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👈🏾👍🏾😊

[@territhomas1636]

ALWAYS OBSERVE CAREFULLY

[@kathygross9589]

Thank 's

[@renawhyte3651]

Thanks for your advice, I have had this experience, be a good listener and observer, most of all listen to that inner voice and you will never regret it

[@KingStoic101]

Wonderful!

[@gitaunjambi480]

I'm ready to embark on this journey

[@emmaeichin4955]

Masaya ako sa sarili ko na hinde naingit. At nagseselos sa iba kong ang mayroon cla ,masaya na ako kung anung mayroon ako.

[@denises.8203]

Sometimes we see in others what we feel in ourselves. Ask God for help with unmet needs.❤

[@shawnagunn9054]

Exactly, people see you rocking a hard time with true belief in God has me and their biggest fear is what is happing with you, their envy is your ability to be authentic and still using you God given gifts while you find God's divine lesson for you, you rest in his strength, they believe you are so strong and know they could never walk in your shoes. You tell them there is only one set of footprints in the sand of behind as it is God carrying you, your broken and his light shines.

[@priscillaafoma8671]

Thanks for this lessons. I love being with people and gas been soo opened but when I began realising that their praises do not match their facial expressions and actions, I learnt how to conceal my projects and successes to them

[@R.A.PMusic]

Am ready to embark on the journey!❣️

[@Harmonysunflower]

Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear that. 😊

[@farmdirecthay3075]

Choose your friends /inner circle wisely!!!! Especially if you are married. If you have a problem with your significant other talk with them directly. Jump in and get it settled before it becomes a big dragon you can not face! Some friends get too comfortable and think they can tell you what to do. Figure it out!! You know the answer you just may not want to address it😉🙏👍

[@Marisabel-hs8dd]

Oh yeah, now I'm convinced about someone that won't leave my life and fits all these discreptions. Thank you for confirming

[@anitameyer5529]

Never jealous of anyone ❤ ❤

[@playfulpatyy57]

Don't deceive yourself

[@anitahilario370]

It’s a human trait. Don’t lie

[@emilyarriola1168]

As we are all responsible with all our actions and reactions as we go through in our daily lives we learned how to deal with different kind of people no matter who they are since we are all unique and coexist in highest form called human created by God most High..we only differ maybe with our choices that mold us and made us who we are as we go through our journey in the life we choose.

[@lenardlewis9260]

KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING IT'S REALLY GREAT 👍

[@KingStoic101]

Thank you so much 😀

[@lillywilkerson7131]

Positive and negative its spot on the line absolutely 💯