我们在美国生活了二十多年。我们是中国人。我们结婚32年。我们养育了三个女孩。现在都成年了。中国小三插足,前夫偷人。前夫把房子以市场最高价卖给了我。他不想支付我赡养费,离婚官司打的漫长,最终赡养费是多少都没有确定的数字。我放弃了赡养费和他应该给我的退休金,最终buy him out. 你讲的故事很轻松。我的“事故”,却非常“惨烈”。
Do you have a decent statistic survey? Some people make conclusions too easily before collecting enough info
@wonderyear46043 жыл бұрын
My personal conclusion after being here almost 30 years.
@witwittfive81073 жыл бұрын
@Zoey Yang Alright I believe you. I'll learn from you 更珍惜自己和寬容別人 some organizations conduct proper surveys that result in more convincing conclusions. That's better than just feel or estimate.
Your boy friend is not strange at all. He paid for so much money to set himself free. the big difference between most western women and most Asian women is that the latter think the spouses should belong to them forever. Most western men and women treat themselves as individual entity. I don't think your boy friend was so cruel when he devoice since he paid to get his freedom. Women feel hurt from devoice always she did not have enough confidence on herself. If she can find a better or already found a better one, I don't think she will feel sorry. Maybe she will feel happier too. That's why most devoices in western society were not wrongful just not suitable. that's why a lot of them still can be friends after devoice. You and Your boy friend still have big gap on cultural background. just dating.