12 Things That Ruin a First Impression Immediately

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BRIGHT SIDE

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@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL 6 жыл бұрын
TIMESTAMPS A weak handshake 0:38 Keeping your hands in the wrong position 1:25 Chewing gum 2:15 Avoiding eye-contact 3:01 Playing with your hair 3:41 Picking the wrong conversation topics 4:25 Invading someone’s personal space 5:07 Making distracting noises 5:49 Constantly checking your phone 6:34 Forgetting people’s names 7:23 Being late 8:00 The wrong attire 8:47
@ХуланАмар
@ХуланАмар 6 жыл бұрын
BRIGHT SIDE k
@wania5741
@wania5741 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks I didn’t have to watch the full video
@strangestranger8532
@strangestranger8532 6 жыл бұрын
BRIGHT SIDE i don't wear expansive clothes or clothes in which i look my best but i do satisfies all other conditions that give my good impression to some1.. so Basically people judge me wrong at first then later they finds me awesome.. sory 4 my bad English
@evbev4708
@evbev4708 6 жыл бұрын
10:00 moneys
@Mrherbertrpg
@Mrherbertrpg 6 жыл бұрын
You can prove otherwise by actions, if you get to get the chance. . .
@DavidCRichards
@DavidCRichards 6 жыл бұрын
As far as I’m concerned, never judge anyone by first impressions
@crimsonmcknight635
@crimsonmcknight635 5 жыл бұрын
Except it goes against human psychology.
@slpiegehdt
@slpiegehdt 5 жыл бұрын
@@crimsonmcknight635 hahaha, nice one.
@24casfur
@24casfur 5 жыл бұрын
If you can do this, in which you can. Your going to be an incredibly awesome person.
@sanjana.varandani
@sanjana.varandani 5 жыл бұрын
Well, that wouldn't work in job interviews.
@zachfabbian1441
@zachfabbian1441 5 жыл бұрын
David Richards Definitely agree. We all judged on first impression but we can be right or wrong. But we never truly know someone till we develop time with that other individual
@shamneermuhammed2001
@shamneermuhammed2001 5 жыл бұрын
At my first interview I tried to maintain eye contact for too long and they thought i was cross eyed *I'm gone*
@TT-th1gb
@TT-th1gb 5 жыл бұрын
Mohammed Bhasha 😂
@shivsmishraofficial
@shivsmishraofficial 5 жыл бұрын
😂 😂
@pubgofficials5747
@pubgofficials5747 5 жыл бұрын
😢😢 so sad u should maintain some time interval
@rahulsenofficial
@rahulsenofficial 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@pubgofficials5747
@pubgofficials5747 5 жыл бұрын
@@rahulsenofficial What was that job?
@Abhinav30000
@Abhinav30000 5 жыл бұрын
The thing which ruin our whole of the life is: 'fear of impression'
@markking9435
@markking9435 5 жыл бұрын
Yep knowing people are judging you is bad enough
@professorfaizzudin1270
@professorfaizzudin1270 5 жыл бұрын
I think we should make name of it by phobia at the last of the word
@shumailajaleel3106
@shumailajaleel3106 4 жыл бұрын
exactly...
@frankanthonyfloreta7597
@frankanthonyfloreta7597 3 жыл бұрын
I think i have a fear of impression.
@jiyaissleeping
@jiyaissleeping 3 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY
@TakerRIP
@TakerRIP 6 жыл бұрын
First impressions are supposed to be a glimpse into what someone is like, not a final call to who he or she truly is. Don’t let a first impression be the guiding point to someone's overall demeanor. Everyone deserves more than just an initial judgment call.
@24casfur
@24casfur 5 жыл бұрын
Loneranger Yes totally agree. if one can judge one that severely, then that only reflects that one needs to work on themselves. I learned this as a kid. I was once standing outside of my classroom and this other person said something mean about a new girl. And so I looked at this new girl and thought to myself she doesn’t seem so bad. And from that time on she was my best friend.. People who can pass judgement on first impressions and not like them are closer to bullies, in my opinion Honestly it’s a strength to be able to not pass those first impression judgement and find the good you like in that person, before.
@aprilnicole8096
@aprilnicole8096 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@InvestingHustler
@InvestingHustler 6 жыл бұрын
12 - a weak handshake 11-keeping hands in wrong position 10-chewing gum 9- avoiding eye contact 8-playing with your hair 7-picking wrong conversation topics 6-invading someone's personal space 5-making distracting noises 4-constantly checking your phone 3- forgetting people's names 2-being late 1- wrong attire You're welcome 😊
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@medguide2777 6 жыл бұрын
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@IrenaDeacon
@IrenaDeacon 6 жыл бұрын
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@wantimw
@wantimw 6 жыл бұрын
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@watchiologist8918
@watchiologist8918 6 жыл бұрын
You just saved 10 minutes of my life
@manewalew2845
@manewalew2845 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro u said my time
@tudorpanait1064
@tudorpanait1064 6 жыл бұрын
I think a bad hygiene can also ruin a first impression
@akshitsharma4793
@akshitsharma4793 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@wayne6931
@wayne6931 3 жыл бұрын
That's kind of obvious already
@vicold
@vicold 2 жыл бұрын
@@wayne6931 exactly
@ittolover6662
@ittolover6662 6 жыл бұрын
I just ask "what your full name" when I don't know some ones name.😂😂😂😂😂😂
@faaahad.x
@faaahad.x 3 жыл бұрын
Gr8 Trick I will use it🥀
@saiyashaswin2397
@saiyashaswin2397 3 жыл бұрын
Tq brooo... I'll use it
@nidhul9160
@nidhul9160 3 жыл бұрын
😀
@Sagar.ikasingh
@Sagar.ikasingh 3 жыл бұрын
Ohh nice one 👍 thanks
@KiranAshraf-pf6zt
@KiranAshraf-pf6zt 7 ай бұрын
I also use this😂😂
@Trending4Todayall
@Trending4Todayall 6 жыл бұрын
Whenever I feel nervous infront of others , i try to avoid eye contact with them, focus on what they are saying, which keeps me more strength.
@alhamdiuallah2989
@alhamdiuallah2989 4 жыл бұрын
same
@henryokeke3437
@henryokeke3437 8 ай бұрын
Bad habit
@darshitrupda1082
@darshitrupda1082 6 жыл бұрын
When with friends or in a meeting, even keeping hands on your lap that means inside the table indicate that you are hiding something.
@abbysipad
@abbysipad 6 жыл бұрын
When ever I forget someone’s name I ask how do you spell your name?or ask for them to make there own contact in my phone. edit: wow thank you for soo many likes
@sarangtokki2045
@sarangtokki2045 6 жыл бұрын
Abby’s Life it would kind of be funny/awkward if they were like.. B.O.B or A.N.N...😝😂😏😖😱
@bassemshalaby
@bassemshalaby 6 жыл бұрын
well , this isn't available in my country because our names are so easy to be pronounced 😅
@satinderpal1981
@satinderpal1981 6 жыл бұрын
haha, even I asked him/her, that wre you had been, before meet me this time, place, job etc, it gives you clue about tat person. :-)
@ambrosia7904
@ambrosia7904 6 жыл бұрын
Really? Wow
@bharadwajnarayanam9922
@bharadwajnarayanam9922 6 жыл бұрын
@@bassemshalaby I don't think so😅 I don't know how to pronounce yours!
@soryu__
@soryu__ 5 жыл бұрын
my uncle passed the interview but he got fired after he do slight mistake. after passing interview, all candidate is taken for site visit or something like that, my uncle gave a slight pat to the interviewer shoulder, like a friend do between friend. got kicked right away. (my dad tell this and the interviewers is my dad friend, sry for bad grammar, i just want to share story)
@justlove2072
@justlove2072 6 жыл бұрын
Eye contact is HUGE!!!
@IrenaDeacon
@IrenaDeacon 6 жыл бұрын
Just Love true
@itscaiti
@itscaiti 6 жыл бұрын
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@mayuricho6396
@mayuricho6396 6 жыл бұрын
Just Love
@mayuricho6396
@mayuricho6396 6 жыл бұрын
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@enigmatic9178
@enigmatic9178 6 жыл бұрын
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@nasuhahasna8069
@nasuhahasna8069 6 жыл бұрын
Having patience and meditation before and after any interview or meeting a new discussion or debate...This makes the person comfortable if it happens again ..😀😀
@GianniMorelli90
@GianniMorelli90 6 жыл бұрын
“Picking the wrong conversations” my life LOL
@kapdiyavishwa8080
@kapdiyavishwa8080 7 ай бұрын
How u doin now ?
@مستريحييانجلش
@مستريحييانجلش 5 жыл бұрын
the tone of voice is crucial, especially in interviews or formal situations.
@comebackkidtom1004
@comebackkidtom1004 4 жыл бұрын
I learned from this video that there is a lot of ways that people ruin their first meeting of someone. I found it interesting how little things such as chewing gum and your hand placement has a effect on people where they look at you differently if you do these things. One benefit of the material that is presented is that you learn that normal things you do in your culture such as certain greetings are not normal to do in other cultures, then you know not to do these certain things.
@talllkid
@talllkid 6 жыл бұрын
I think the only thing you forgot to mention was to stand up right. Someone who stands confidently upright with their chest up in their hands by their sides are always seem to be like they’re confident and in charge and know what they’re doing even into scenarios when they don’t know what they’re doing. Other than that I really enjoy these tips and I kind a new at all of them already. Thank you bright side
@zorisnagustania2396
@zorisnagustania2396 Жыл бұрын
From watching this video, I learned about the many ways that a first impression can be ruined, from hand placement, to the way you dress. it has an impact on people where they look at you differently if you do these things. One of the benefits of the material presented is that you learn that normal things you do in your culture such as certain greetings are not normal in other cultures, then you know not to do those certain things. This video will help draw attention to actions you may not be aware of, so you can prepare for your next interaction with someone. First impressions are very important, especially when you are applying for a job. This is also important when you communicate with other people.
@florencebenye3984
@florencebenye3984 6 жыл бұрын
When you laugh unnecessarily it also shows that you might b lacking self confidence and it can so irritating 😠.
@dilpreetsingh7914
@dilpreetsingh7914 5 жыл бұрын
Hii
@anish_19099
@anish_19099 5 жыл бұрын
Not more irritating than a shallow and judgemental person :)
@bobjacobson858
@bobjacobson858 6 жыл бұрын
Regarding remembering names, I believe it is important to make certain you hear and understand the name when introduced. Some people say their names quickly or in a noisy room, so it's easy to misunderstand it. I like to make a point of spelling it mentally to help remember it, and if I didn't catch it the first time, I might ask again; I figure this also shows that I care enough to get it right. If it's just someone trying to sell my something in which I have no interest, then I don't really care if I hear it properly.
@slpiegehdt
@slpiegehdt 5 жыл бұрын
13) Bad or unpleasant smell. 14) Smiling too much or never smile 15) Speaking too fast (considered as insecure) 16) stammering too much 17) touching your face for no reason too much
@talllkid
@talllkid 6 жыл бұрын
You also forgot to say excuse me or pardon when trying to move past some one, and you also forgot to mention to say thank you because that is the most important thing for everyone and anything. Thank you bright side!
@Fiveleafclover180
@Fiveleafclover180 4 жыл бұрын
Eye contact really depends on the person and the region. For instance, people from certain backgrounds may consider it rude for a younger person to stay in constant eye contact with the elder.
@Abobi_Jonez
@Abobi_Jonez 2 жыл бұрын
Very true ....
@Geroge_real
@Geroge_real 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@isobelndoro
@isobelndoro Жыл бұрын
Yes. Our culture is like that.
@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
@BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL 6 жыл бұрын
Hey guys! Do you believe there is a second chance to make a good impression?
@franklincarnes5264
@franklincarnes5264 6 жыл бұрын
I believe you can show you've grown or improved and move beyond their first impression
@anonimus5996
@anonimus5996 6 жыл бұрын
Always, but not always.....
@SanoopAI
@SanoopAI 6 жыл бұрын
Good impression = First impression so no chance
@roxbren5786
@roxbren5786 6 жыл бұрын
I think it can be done but not easily. Depending on the faux pa. Say you show up late, I think that would be easier to overcome than being rude or anxious (tapping something during a meeting)
@uwewilken8321
@uwewilken8321 6 жыл бұрын
It just all depends on how easy flowing that person is
@LostSoulAscension
@LostSoulAscension 6 жыл бұрын
When I forget people's names, which I do all the time, I ask them and apologize for forgetting later, and I try to use their name in a sentence, even if its awkward, it helps remembering a name if you use it. Its extremely common to forget names when you meet so many people in college or a new social community, so I think, for those that are aware of that, can be more forgiving. Or it can be considered honorable or make things easier between people when you are open and admit your accident. Lets other people know they don't have to keep some perfect image cause their acquaintance doesn't seem to hold themselves to that pressure either.
@Hootowls5
@Hootowls5 6 жыл бұрын
Putting your hands on the desk or table folded together is a form of high interest.
@medguide2777
@medguide2777 6 жыл бұрын
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@toniok.4726
@toniok.4726 6 жыл бұрын
No, it reveal that you want to be overwhelmed.
@IrenaDeacon
@IrenaDeacon 6 жыл бұрын
Folded how exactly?
@midwestkatie8068
@midwestkatie8068 6 жыл бұрын
It looks like grammar school.
@SaadMohammedGhori
@SaadMohammedGhori 6 жыл бұрын
maybe it varies from culture to culture
@jadenkarim5367
@jadenkarim5367 5 жыл бұрын
whoever you are, just get out there and show em how it's done! always be yourself and confident, just don't be fake!
@jazzblackvalcin3097
@jazzblackvalcin3097 5 жыл бұрын
U forgot the 11th bad breath🤣🤣🤣🤣
@todayforme3219
@todayforme3219 5 жыл бұрын
Always understand that even you will have this sometimes ans im for sure it has happened
@idakhoinfluencers2036
@idakhoinfluencers2036 5 жыл бұрын
This is true. Bad breath pushes people away
@veronicaalmeda8014
@veronicaalmeda8014 5 жыл бұрын
Some people have health problems so I wouldn't judge someone based on this tbh.
@vikramdeshmukh1207
@vikramdeshmukh1207 5 жыл бұрын
Bad breath & / or body odour.
@watch2muchtv
@watch2muchtv 5 жыл бұрын
That would be my top 5.
@summernguyen757
@summernguyen757 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve learned so many things from this video. Thanks to Bright Side! 😊
@curtistinemiller1560
@curtistinemiller1560 6 жыл бұрын
BE SINCERE AND POLITE LOOK DIRECTLY AT A PERSONS FACE.IT ALWAYS WORKS.......
@sflm9277
@sflm9277 6 жыл бұрын
Not writing sentences entirely in capitals also helps...
@curtistinemiller1560
@curtistinemiller1560 6 жыл бұрын
SFLM ARE YOU A ENGLISH TEACHER?
@razmuzen1090
@razmuzen1090 6 жыл бұрын
An English teacher*
@Maria-tn2qm
@Maria-tn2qm 6 жыл бұрын
Curtistine Miller "be sincere "always always for me....
@ararix3722
@ararix3722 6 жыл бұрын
And don't look at those juicy lips i SAID DON'T LOOK
@DougSConfederateHammer
@DougSConfederateHammer 6 жыл бұрын
Regarding eye contact...there's a fine line separating attentive eye contact and the unblinking stare of a psychopath
@PouchMaster
@PouchMaster 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's perfectly normal to relax your gaze.
@nonhlanhlapreciousRadebe
@nonhlanhlapreciousRadebe 5 жыл бұрын
I think another important thing not to forget is personal hygiene, one has to look clean, brush their teeth and basically look put together
@raenathompson1178
@raenathompson1178 4 жыл бұрын
tone of voice, ego, personality, facial expressions. how they treat others
@ashnaanifer6689
@ashnaanifer6689 6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, joking with a new person can ruin the first impression.
@vainkteshupadhyay2232
@vainkteshupadhyay2232 6 жыл бұрын
Do whatever you want and as you want to don't be fake First impression is the best impression but not the last so remain whatever you are
@jessesaunders8458
@jessesaunders8458 6 жыл бұрын
"That is what Therapists are for..." Priceless! X'D
@hanzlearningsolutions
@hanzlearningsolutions 2 жыл бұрын
Great tips! Very important to keep in mind what we say and do for sure if this hand shake, eye contact and smile are top 3 for me.
@manavkumar4889
@manavkumar4889 6 жыл бұрын
Being too personal or Asking personal questions to someone whom you just met ruins first impression as well. If other person is polite, he/she has to answer those questions.
@garrisonianff2195
@garrisonianff2195 5 жыл бұрын
Pray for me i am having interview in cadet college
@girijagopimv4802
@girijagopimv4802 4 жыл бұрын
Did it go well
@merimuk4science708
@merimuk4science708 4 жыл бұрын
How about it now. I hope you earn
@ME_Toons
@ME_Toons 3 жыл бұрын
How is it
@arianne8912
@arianne8912 3 жыл бұрын
How is it
@signaller
@signaller 3 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@Catwv1230
@Catwv1230 6 жыл бұрын
So I shouldn’t give shoulder rubs to the person interviewing me At job interviews. Avoiding yelling at the ringing in my ear is also probably a good choice
@jargalanjandavsvren8244
@jargalanjandavsvren8244 6 жыл бұрын
sdhxgjtyjs ndnf f
@arnabpersonal6729
@arnabpersonal6729 6 жыл бұрын
Caleb Turner .
@mahmodsheikha3458
@mahmodsheikha3458 6 жыл бұрын
Exaggerating things to show others how super you are , will also be an effective negatively
@poetrysinitial572
@poetrysinitial572 6 жыл бұрын
I get angry when people interrupt me when I'm talking. It's like they don't care what I have to say or they just don't want to hear me speak. It ticks me off
@minifolko
@minifolko 3 ай бұрын
It’s also important to remember to not talk to long without not letting anyone else talk
@bill091086
@bill091086 6 жыл бұрын
Sneeze really sloppy into your right hand, then shake hands immediately afterwards without missing a beat! 😂😂😂
@satheeshkumar8420
@satheeshkumar8420 4 жыл бұрын
I included eye contact with my class mate (a cute one) and when we were talking about some issues he started trusting me . It works
@helveteoslo
@helveteoslo 6 жыл бұрын
Best strategy is always to give the worst first impression and then impressing all with your radical change....no sweat, no stress, no worries this way ))) (works)
@sriarunasundararaj
@sriarunasundararaj 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm a kind of that
@angelsintahoe
@angelsintahoe 5 жыл бұрын
But you may not have a second chance to meet again.
@zero2105
@zero2105 5 жыл бұрын
angelsintahoe Then we don’t need to meet em
@mosesallanadam1955
@mosesallanadam1955 5 жыл бұрын
The problem is you might not get a second chance to amend your first faults.
@johnland8372
@johnland8372 6 жыл бұрын
When im in the middle eating and someone asks me a question. And then i forgot what they ask me because the food was good.
@brendonbentley6617
@brendonbentley6617 5 жыл бұрын
I've never had food that good!
@mikku1857
@mikku1857 4 жыл бұрын
can relate
@marshallposey2063
@marshallposey2063 5 жыл бұрын
On the executive level...... I like taking our prospective employees to lunch. The way they interact with the staff will speak volumes about them.
@johntziannis359
@johntziannis359 5 жыл бұрын
The main problem for me would have to be shyness. Although I'm an adult it still hasn't gone away.
@fapgod4307
@fapgod4307 5 жыл бұрын
some people have eye problems l.e. a weak breeze or sunlight leads to falling of tears. in order to prevent it they have to avoid eye contact
@izz8648
@izz8648 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly I can't do anything about my watery eye unless I avoid eyes contact
@fapgod4307
@fapgod4307 5 жыл бұрын
@@izz8648 yeah man
@donotuse1277
@donotuse1277 5 жыл бұрын
I think it because of eye dryness
@fapgod4307
@fapgod4307 5 жыл бұрын
@@donotuse1277 yeah that's what I just meant
@luuphanthoang5275
@luuphanthoang5275 6 жыл бұрын
I always forget other people's name that is really annoying and makes me confused in front of them
@IrenaDeacon
@IrenaDeacon 6 жыл бұрын
Lưu Phấn Thoáng me too lol
@zakosist
@zakosist 6 жыл бұрын
Me too. I often cant remember people's name before we have a rather close relationship
@saimqureshi5393
@saimqureshi5393 6 жыл бұрын
Lưu Phấn Thoáng same here brah lol
@evearcana2392
@evearcana2392 5 жыл бұрын
I still think handshakes are weird things we do as humans lol
@afroprince5262
@afroprince5262 6 жыл бұрын
Constantly playing with your hair doesn’t make me think a girls flirting , I just assume she has bad dandruff
@kathyphillips2727
@kathyphillips2727 5 жыл бұрын
Playing with your hair may mean many of those things on a psychological level..not a 100% sure on that..but if i think about it..i would most likely see it as flirting..or more so as a nervous reaction through awkwardness. What i am sure about... Is that playing with your hair stimulates blood flow..and does increase the rate of which hair grows..provided there is hair..
@SimKosays
@SimKosays 6 жыл бұрын
Great summary about the basics of conversation, especially in a formal setting! I would be interested in a video about the effect of subconcious bonding in formal conversations with people with the purpse to reach specific goals, e.g in settings like calming down emotions or conflicts, negotiations products or salary etc. What principles from a psychological perspective could help?
@jyoster6447
@jyoster6447 6 жыл бұрын
*#3 Forgetting people's names* I'm terrible at remembering names. So, I'm in trouble with this one.
@IrenaDeacon
@IrenaDeacon 6 жыл бұрын
jesus jimenez same here
@sehunslines
@sehunslines 6 жыл бұрын
Same
@wantimw
@wantimw 6 жыл бұрын
jesus jimenez same here
@SaintNine
@SaintNine 6 жыл бұрын
Me too. I don't know why, coz I've got a pretty good memory in all other respects, just, for some obscure reason, I'll forget names in seconds. I think the tip about repeating the name is a good one. The only other thing I can suggest is to try and come up with a mnemonic image: eg if you've been introduced to someone called Rob, imagine them robbing someone, or being robbed. We are visual animals, so that technique is quite effective.
@coiledsteel8344
@coiledsteel8344 6 жыл бұрын
jesus jimenez Oh I forgot your name. Jesus! Oh that's your name!🤔😅😂😁😉
@jahangirmatloob7362
@jahangirmatloob7362 5 жыл бұрын
Confidence is everything
@homenparentingchannel5771
@homenparentingchannel5771 3 жыл бұрын
Some people need to see this this helpful.
@simranzaheed9001
@simranzaheed9001 4 жыл бұрын
Well, gestures is also 1 of them. Putting your hands around the nose, mouth or eyes, can also show that you are lying. Coughing suddenly when the boss asks you a questions indicates a lie. Rubbing your neck or looking away indicates lack of interest. And drawing maps on the floor indicates nervousness. :)
@grantchow13
@grantchow13 6 жыл бұрын
The "better or good looking" you are, the more you can get away with some of these points.
@midwestkatie8068
@midwestkatie8068 6 жыл бұрын
Grant Chow quality ppl notice behavior, style, personality
@drstalone
@drstalone 6 жыл бұрын
The videos is not intended to show how to interview with quality people. Quality people look beyond style, surface behaviour, personality, dress, etc, and see way deeper.
@midwestkatie8068
@midwestkatie8068 6 жыл бұрын
drstalone One thing about Bright Side vids is that they share tips on how to improve. A lot of this info isn't easily available. Lot of kids watch these, too. Says a lot about them. :)
@r.devachandranchandran4225
@r.devachandranchandran4225 6 жыл бұрын
Wanted job
@burryeezy8837
@burryeezy8837 6 жыл бұрын
Anyone can get away with some of these points.
@HKB108
@HKB108 6 жыл бұрын
Great Video! You're so popular in India
@TheJust22az
@TheJust22az 5 жыл бұрын
As an HR Director, hands off the table give me the impression they are not interested. Hands folded on the table, leaning forward tells me they are interested. I guess it is a western thing.
@AyushSharma-wb7yl
@AyushSharma-wb7yl 4 жыл бұрын
I never used to judge a person from his/her first impression or their physique.... Bcoz I can feel their pain in my heart 😔😞😞
@IOSALive
@IOSALive 3 ай бұрын
BRIGHT SIDE, awesome video dude
@musicenjoyer168
@musicenjoyer168 5 жыл бұрын
Me: does everything on this video Also me: FAIL
@sarathps223
@sarathps223 5 жыл бұрын
eye contact is good. but do not overlook at someone's eye. it shows you are faking it. if there is 2 interviewers in the room... take turns to look at each of them when you speak / answer. one more thing- smile sometimes not all the time. good luck
@KarLopez
@KarLopez 5 жыл бұрын
i have a Job interview tomorrow, I will follow your advice, thank you for share.
@sarathps223
@sarathps223 5 жыл бұрын
@@KarLopez good luck to you
@sofiafiorillo9771
@sofiafiorillo9771 4 жыл бұрын
From watching this video, I learned about many ways you can ruin a first impression, from the placement of your hands, to the way you dress. I found it interesting that small everyday actions can have a large impact of someone's impression of you. Just shaking someone's hand for a second too long can affect how the other person may view you. This video will help bring attention to actions that you may not even notice yourself, so you can be prepared for your next interaction with someone. Just having a firm handshake, more eye contact, and being on time are all positive actions that will benefit you next time you have a date or even a job interview.
@solomonchetri8398
@solomonchetri8398 3 жыл бұрын
Be smart be who you are. And respect others.
@pietersenrahul0
@pietersenrahul0 5 жыл бұрын
Be who you are don't fake it until you make it
@adilahmed1238
@adilahmed1238 5 жыл бұрын
Be Natural What U are ... The Word "First Impression". Is just Filmy...Best Thing is be confident and Polite..
@LuckyLynette
@LuckyLynette 6 жыл бұрын
I just put the gum under my toung. I think almost everyone should still be able to talk without someone knowing you have gum.
@IrenaDeacon
@IrenaDeacon 6 жыл бұрын
Rey 27 true
@midwestkatie8068
@midwestkatie8068 6 жыл бұрын
Except most ppl can't do that. You may think you are hiding your gum, but most ppl can tell.
@endashawregassa2340
@endashawregassa2340 6 жыл бұрын
cheater
@Idowu_Balogun
@Idowu_Balogun 6 жыл бұрын
Not allowing people to speak before interrupting
@laurentiusforever
@laurentiusforever 6 жыл бұрын
IndigenousGenius that’s exactly why it always pays off to be a good listener
@1nfowars
@1nfowars 4 жыл бұрын
The thin Blue line can learn a thing or two from this informative video. Good job!
@secretsquirrel7300
@secretsquirrel7300 7 ай бұрын
The The TBL would never want to learn anything about making people feel comfortable. They want to do the opposite. That's why they call it the TBL. They like separating themselves from everyone else and think they're special. Think narcissist.
@aneeshkasturi8331
@aneeshkasturi8331 3 жыл бұрын
A bad odour could also ruin a first impression, but thank you so much Bright side for this video cause I have an important interview coming up and I will definitely avoid these elements
@KathySueTube
@KathySueTube 6 жыл бұрын
“First impression”- remember their name... ? But wait... I hadn’t met them before...
@yinloveyang
@yinloveyang 6 жыл бұрын
To me it's almost impossible to make a good first impression cause of me being a big introverted person.... I hope one day it will get better but it's really hard not to be soo nervous especially when I'm looking for a job....
@tiffanyheilman6119
@tiffanyheilman6119 2 жыл бұрын
I have the opposite problem when I get nervous. I can't stand the awkward silence so I get diarrhea of the mouth lol
@soaceba
@soaceba 6 жыл бұрын
Farting in the first 7 seconds
@Lex-Rex
@Lex-Rex 6 жыл бұрын
My dream woman.
@shehryarkhan731
@shehryarkhan731 5 жыл бұрын
Hehehe 😋😉😉😋
@kingofkings714
@kingofkings714 5 жыл бұрын
Michael Max Funny I farted within the first 7 seconds of reading this comment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@christiankayemba3251
@christiankayemba3251 5 жыл бұрын
LOL... how did you come up with that? looks like a joke but it is so true. LOL....
@j.obrien4990
@j.obrien4990 5 жыл бұрын
Just make sure its silent and there are several people around to blame it on.
@sandeshthane8012
@sandeshthane8012 5 жыл бұрын
According to me Forgetting someone's name might indicates that how you would love to him that you have not enough time to remember their name , It probably shows your strong relationship....
@keerti6706
@keerti6706 2 жыл бұрын
Other things are Lip movement Eyesight ,especially when a girl talks to a boy ,she checks his eyes So , look into the eyes,or if you are pretending to think then just look at the other side or little upper side (like in the sky) Don't look her / him which makes them to feel awkward Language,accent does matter Mouth smell Nails Shoes 👞 May be makeup 💄 Nose , eyes ,hair( dandruff) The way you look The way you make her or him to feel comfortable 😌 👍❣
@emersonsrandomvideos248
@emersonsrandomvideos248 6 жыл бұрын
I am touching my hair but i'm bald. Am i flirting or what?
@dfwaviation2066
@dfwaviation2066 6 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@emersonsrandomvideos248
@emersonsrandomvideos248 6 жыл бұрын
FlurryOfStyx Ahh lol...
@omarferatovic413
@omarferatovic413 6 жыл бұрын
Pinoy keyboard warrior 😂
@sandrarichardson761
@sandrarichardson761 6 жыл бұрын
😀😂😊😂🤣
@1PITIFULDUDE
@1PITIFULDUDE 6 жыл бұрын
Nose hair touching is gross!
@opz_flint5054
@opz_flint5054 5 жыл бұрын
Going to the restroom every minute.
@alisheradilkhan3289
@alisheradilkhan3289 5 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so persuading, i am surprised with the things even i knew them))) you know your work!👍
@TheHappyYouChannel
@TheHappyYouChannel Жыл бұрын
This video is an eye opener! So helpful to learn how to make the best impression possible. Thanks for sharing! 👍
@todddesiato6179
@todddesiato6179 6 жыл бұрын
Another way to make a good first immpression is to not take a call if your phone rings after you have just met someone and are talking to them in person.
@jiffyjim4038
@jiffyjim4038 6 жыл бұрын
Good advisable video.. Thanks for posting!👍🌞
@PaiviProject
@PaiviProject 6 жыл бұрын
Ok cool. Good to know 👍Thanks 😀
@PaiviProject
@PaiviProject 6 жыл бұрын
Very cool. What video did you liked the best ? ...and why ? ....and when I go to my video analytics...I will see those green lines on all of my videos...right ? ...because you watched ALL MY VIDEOS 😂
@grandmastercid
@grandmastercid 5 жыл бұрын
I've always had trouble remembering people's names the first time I met them. So I would do is repeat their names a few times and let them know why. Great ice breaker plus we all get a laugh.
@green_eye_gossip
@green_eye_gossip 5 жыл бұрын
This has been the best narrator voice on this channel
@BasicEducation
@BasicEducation 6 жыл бұрын
Many of the things share by you people based on common sense but many of us ignore these tips or due to their careless attitude so they loose. However, interesting tips share by you. Thanks
@anushkajoshi.1631
@anushkajoshi.1631 6 жыл бұрын
Who eats chewing gum on a job interview
@FBI-mb5we
@FBI-mb5we 6 жыл бұрын
Anushka joshi.16 🤣 go learn grammar first
@irfandy8
@irfandy8 6 жыл бұрын
Sukhman 2192 can you mention her mistake? While it's not edited? Might help people learning their grammar too.. Otherwise, don't criticize people to learn grammar if you don't help them.. A good critics is the one who help other people's life.. Otherwise, avoid it.
@Cxore.58
@Cxore.58 6 жыл бұрын
Chews*
@Anonymiss28
@Anonymiss28 6 жыл бұрын
Lol I chew gum. It makes me feel less anxious.
@emersonsrandomvideos248
@emersonsrandomvideos248 6 жыл бұрын
Anushka joshi.16 Me. Yes it happened to me back in 2001. I got kicked, immediately.
@theluckinspirationandposit655
@theluckinspirationandposit655 6 жыл бұрын
*NICE EXPLANATION*
@ararix3722
@ararix3722 6 жыл бұрын
The luck, inspiration and positive from Uliana WHY ARE YOU *SHOUTING?*
@bryandangol8223
@bryandangol8223 6 жыл бұрын
These things are never always right, terms and conditions applied and varied accordingly.
@dongwang1801
@dongwang1801 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your so wonderful and helpful advice.
@SoulFlowWaves
@SoulFlowWaves 6 жыл бұрын
the body language can 'say' lot but actions speak louder!!!
@MRyzlot
@MRyzlot 6 жыл бұрын
A weak handshake can and IS a sign of arthritis. Some of those hearty shakers cause pain to older people. JR
@babblesp1367
@babblesp1367 4 жыл бұрын
James Ryzlot yes, many people fail to realize there are medical issues that can cause some things that people view at first impressions. I’ve had back surgery. I have nerve damage. I get very cold and shaky which people see and assume it’s out of nervousness. However, it’s not. Unfortunately, it hasn’t been easy to find a job because of that as they assume I’m just incredibly nervous. It’s not always what people think it is.
@mahinabil5081
@mahinabil5081 5 жыл бұрын
How can u think ... Anyvody will chew gum in a interview
@CforChiTwo
@CforChiTwo 5 жыл бұрын
Yes,don't be late 👈❤
@shahhetvi9713
@shahhetvi9713 4 жыл бұрын
Needed to compose you a very little word to thank you yet again regarding the nice suggestions you've contributed here
@mohamedadel9295
@mohamedadel9295 6 жыл бұрын
very impressive. the content the back ground music, the situation, the way talking and expressing. Well done and amazing.
@B69ne
@B69ne 6 жыл бұрын
Flimsy handshakes are so common these days.
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