13 Signs That He's Playing Mind Games With You 😱😬🤦‍♀️

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Sabrina Bendory

Sabrina Bendory

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@SabrinaBendory
@SabrinaBendory 4 жыл бұрын
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@stephanieduran4648
@stephanieduran4648 2 жыл бұрын
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@karinar.8259
@karinar.8259 3 жыл бұрын
UGH!!! He's doing about 90% of these things! I'm so frustrated and hurt. I really fell for him and I feel so stupid for trusting him, but my gut was ALWAYS nagging me. I really thought I was being paranoid and over thinking it, but I knew better. What pisses me off even more is that I rejected other opportunities to be exclusive with him. Big hugs to any of you currently dealing with this situation. It sucks to come to the realization that you're being used when you're sincerely putting your heart into it.
@antonianwoye5940
@antonianwoye5940 3 жыл бұрын
Always follow your gut it never lies
@andreawhite3851
@andreawhite3851 3 жыл бұрын
🤗💕
@alchemyseal9400
@alchemyseal9400 4 жыл бұрын
Mine already ended, but this video is a fresh reminder of NO REGRETS (about the ending)
@stormchylde3999
@stormchylde3999 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I was involved with a guy who did almost all of these. Ugh, I can't believe I let myself put up with this crap for as long as I did. But lesson learned.
@etorresrodz
@etorresrodz 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on walking away, I ended mine too and discovered he was dating someone else behind my back before I broke things up
@catherinewylie6959
@catherinewylie6959 4 жыл бұрын
But the issue is sometimes that when you step back, they come forward for a while to get you back in place, and then they start taking you for grantted and repeating the same inconsisent behavior to put you off balance again with them. So if they do it again, dump them. What he's getting now from me is crickets.
@tyangcovers4658
@tyangcovers4658 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! That happened to me too...
@tonyasmith8502
@tonyasmith8502 4 жыл бұрын
If a guy is insecure or cant open up cuz hes scared to have relationships, then what the Heck is he doing on a dating site !
@taylork3
@taylork3 4 жыл бұрын
to feed his ego : /
@tonyasmith8502
@tonyasmith8502 4 жыл бұрын
@@taylork3 i guess I don't understand the Ego thing?
@stormchylde3999
@stormchylde3999 4 жыл бұрын
Looking to get laid. Plain and simple.
@rosannamiranda4620
@rosannamiranda4620 4 жыл бұрын
Most guys do that and they wast of time
@daisystapleton8164
@daisystapleton8164 4 жыл бұрын
You just nailed it! I got to ask this question to the guy I'm dating for a year.
@Bridgets524
@Bridgets524 4 жыл бұрын
I've been seeing a guy that fits this almost to a tee as far as not making plans ahead of time, claims he's always falling asleep, can't do things certain days, constantly texts and acts all hurt when I've gone and something else with someone else! It's amazing! I saw some of the signs and was already headed towards ending things with him but I'm certain now! I have other options too and plan on exploring them instead! Thank you Sabrina!❤
@karinar.8259
@karinar.8259 3 жыл бұрын
Are we dating the same guy??? LOL
@Sharonshakinah
@Sharonshakinah 4 жыл бұрын
My current situation right now..😂I deserve better. Thanks
@SabrinaBendory
@SabrinaBendory 4 жыл бұрын
You got this!
@msallison7209
@msallison7209 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Sharonshakinah
@Sharonshakinah 4 жыл бұрын
@@SabrinaBendory yaaaaaas I got this...thanks love😘
@Sharonshakinah
@Sharonshakinah 4 жыл бұрын
@@msallison7209 we can do this
@composer19la
@composer19la 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on. I dealt with all of it. Glad I had the strength to leave a toxic situation! You are the wisest woman on KZbin.
@kristinsmith5954
@kristinsmith5954 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! I can identify with everything. I am having a hard time getting over three guys who didn’t treat me well in different ways. I feel sooooo addicted to them. Listening to your supportive voice helps me stay away from them while I detox. Thank-you
@stephanieholcomb9542
@stephanieholcomb9542 4 жыл бұрын
Pay attention to this list ladies. This is absolutely true. This can save you heartaches.
@noorfatima7404
@noorfatima7404 2 жыл бұрын
But now sometimes he's acting wrong and this behavior is happening he's distant . But I feel I caused it due to my behaviour
@MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals
@MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals 4 жыл бұрын
This type of guy sounds horrible...I'd rather remain single than put up with that 😉
@AshleenKaur
@AshleenKaur 4 жыл бұрын
I asked that guy straight away if he wants a serious relationship and he gave me bulshit reasons that I don't even remember! 😝 So glad I confronted him. Feels good tho. Best advice from my therapist! 💛
@jaceem4175
@jaceem4175 3 жыл бұрын
Thumbs ☝
@paulamitchell1653
@paulamitchell1653 5 ай бұрын
That is truth… he doesn’t know what he wants just ask point blank questions… I ain’t got no time for him… it’s just a bull💩 azz person…yes he is playing games!…run the he** away!
@bellabong8862
@bellabong8862 3 жыл бұрын
1. You're doing most or all of the work to reach out. 2. He cancels plans with you. 3. He's hot and cold. 4. You don't know where he stands (how he feels about you). 5. Makes you feel like you're lucky to be with him. 6. He keeps you hidden away from his life (friends and family). 7. He not there for you when you need him, but expects you to always be there for him. 8. He acts like a jerk to make you like him. Subtle criticisms. 9. His actions don't align with his words. 10. Refuses to take down his online dating profile. 11. Intentionally tries to make you jealous. 12. Not really interested in you or your story. Always only talks about his. 13. You feel it in your gut. LISTEN TO IT? Worth a watch for further details.
@pamyelverton7970
@pamyelverton7970 4 жыл бұрын
This is my guy total mind games. Moving on can't take it anymore. Now trying to find a way to heal.
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 4 жыл бұрын
This was an eye opener. The guy i used to like gave out so many back-handed compliments and i was oblivious to it 😂😂😂
@gillianba4240
@gillianba4240 3 жыл бұрын
My red flags with this guy right now (and my behavior): 1. I'm doing all of the work, but he gave me his number. 2. He hasn't bailed on me, yet. 3. He's been in and out of the relationship for 1.5 years. 4. I haven't a clue where he stands. 5. He makes me feel really fucking special, sometimes. 6. I know his back pocket feels really nice. 7. Sometimes he's there for me. 8. He's never been a jerk to me, I don't think. 9. His actions and words don't align, I don't think. 10. I really don't know what his situation is, and the old admonition of, if you don't want to know the answer, don't ask the question, comes up. 11. I actually have intentionally tried to make him jealous, but he has never done that. 12. I don't think he's that interested in my story. 13. I know what I know, and that's it.
@vickih8125
@vickih8125 4 жыл бұрын
Everything you pointed out was spot on. Unfortunately I/we seem to find these videos when it's too late 😢
@SabrinaBendory
@SabrinaBendory 4 жыл бұрын
It's never too late! Now you'll know going forward and will be better for it.
@vickih8125
@vickih8125 4 жыл бұрын
@@SabrinaBendory Thank you for helping me to see the signs, although I've been through this kind of situation many times before and was always in denial (still in denial) or making up excuses as to why they've presented themselves like this. It hurts to fall for someone you believe is genuine and think you've "found the one" because it was really REALLY good for the first 2 1/2 months. I made the mistake for letting them know I got caught up in my feelings. I'm an attractive 52 year old who still looks like 40. I'm a Gemini I'm in love with idea of being in love. I'm trying to move on I have many spectators. I'll be ok. Anyway, thank you again for the insight on what I need to do..MUCH LOVE
@rachaelgordove8430
@rachaelgordove8430 4 жыл бұрын
Very true I've been in that kind of relationship. Thanks God I found another guy who is really into me!!
@wildbutterfly3584
@wildbutterfly3584 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sabrina, I really love your content!!!!! I appreciate your awesome, straight-forward way of explaining general male psychology with compassion & care.🌸😊💜 I can't read all of the comments on this video at the moment, but I'm hoping that others have also noted to expand on terms like "negging" & "gaslighting". Most of us know the word Narcissist is soooo overused, but please clarify that it's very possible if some one is using those tactics, they very well could have those personality traits or disorders. True Pathological Narcissism can not be "fixed". I've been involved in 2 VERY (mentally & physically) abusive long-term relationships with narcissistic men & I've spent years overcoming the after effects & traumatic experiences. THIS IS NOT AN OPINION, IT IS FACT: Anyone who is intentionally making another person question their reality on a regular basis is NOT a candidate for a healthy relationship. It eventually causes the victim to truly feel that they are going crazy, losing their mind & think that there is something seriously wrong with their brain. (Search "Trauma Bonding") As much as they would always try to put the blame on me that it was ALL my fault that they weren't treating me well, I finally came to realize & accept that there was NOTHING I could do to change their behavior. (In my own personal experiences) If anyone is gaslighting, negging or intentionally being manipulative in any way early on, girl just kick your shoes off & RUN! It may start out as what seems like innocent, cute & funny "sarcasm", but it usually only gets worse. At the very least, they are truly just a jerk. Please listen Ladies- NEVER allow anyone to keep space in your life who doesn't value you in the way you deserve. Manipulation is ALWAYS abusive. Period. Value yourself more.😘💜💜💜
@saraharnold4277
@saraharnold4277 4 жыл бұрын
Did you date the same guy I did??! I mean all of this is exactly how he acted! Love this video btw!!
@alexaarrah696
@alexaarrah696 4 жыл бұрын
I told him how I felt about him to clarify things for myself and not waste anymore of my time. Since he wouldn't make things clear with me. He was nice about it and said he likes me as a friend. But after watching your videos and after thinking about the fact that I was basically chasing him (even though I didn't mean to & it's a bad habit). I feel like he kept me around as an ego boost. Bc were not friends were just acquainted with each other. But I'm learning more and more how to identify clear signs of genuine interest. Also I made a ton of excuses for him because he has a aggresive autoimmune disease which can make him bedridden and in the hospital.
@iselili2
@iselili2 2 жыл бұрын
Sabrina you are the BEST!! Thank you for these videos, so on point, clear and excellent. So easy to listen to you, straight out clear.
@michelletrusty660
@michelletrusty660 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Sabrina, your info is very eye 👀 opening. I wish I knew this months ago.
@cherrybacon5154
@cherrybacon5154 4 жыл бұрын
My Exes mind games would be unpredictable and completely off the board. The last one was a bare faced lie where he said he'd been arrested. Because I wasn't hysterically distraught with screams if anguish, he caused an argument and tried to blame me for it. I couldn't be arsed with him anymore and was bored of his 'wind ups' as he would call them, I threw him out. I'm moving on.
@noorfatima7404
@noorfatima7404 2 жыл бұрын
Things have been tough but my fault of being insecure and obsessed caused him to be distant . Ig
@katrina8078
@katrina8078 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is pretty spot on I'm glad that I walked away from the situation I was in, no regrets at all. Definitely a lesson learnt and know what else to look out for in the future.
@KidslearnplayNfun
@KidslearnplayNfun 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you girl love you for this 🤍🤍🤍🤍it’s not about us when it comes to them and their ego😔🌹
@mushypandaa
@mushypandaa 4 жыл бұрын
Can't believe everything you mentioned in this video is what my ex did to me during those 3 years of our first relationship. I am so glad that I am over him after ending up at the hospital and many months. My ex kept me hidden from his friends after a year and his parents for 3 years. He also never initiated things while I always initiated stuff. Can't believe how much I fed his ego and he rarely complimented me. Now the guy I am seeing always initiates dates and is trying to win me over other guys. He messages me good morning and good night. I hope things go well.... as we're taking it slow and see where it goes next.
@andreawhite3851
@andreawhite3851 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate everything you post! This is all the advice I would be giving friends & people I care about. But I’m not trusting my own gut or taking my own advice. My man has been married for going on two years together. I don’t know why I am afraid to let him go if he doesn’t belong to me. And deflects, changes the subject or just leaves if I try talking about these things, saying I am trying to start a fight. It doesn’t matter how gentle I am. How can I let him go???
@mikelarose4238
@mikelarose4238 3 жыл бұрын
You look really pretty and you are glowing, Sabrina!
@karinadaluz5422
@karinadaluz5422 3 жыл бұрын
Could have not said it better hard to hear but so true. Eye opener
@cristinaperezmoncada8595
@cristinaperezmoncada8595 3 жыл бұрын
BEST VIDEO FROM YOU!!! absolutely amazing all the info, tone and pace. Thanks!🖐🙂
@lhyngabat1270
@lhyngabat1270 4 жыл бұрын
How long distance relationship works??? How can u know if he is into you.
@user-msjazzy
@user-msjazzy 4 жыл бұрын
You wouldn’t be asking questions like this, you would just know. If you are confused it’s a clear sign he’s not that into you. There’s too many men out here!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️☺️
@kimmyfitness_
@kimmyfitness_ 4 жыл бұрын
Ive dated him 3 times now and he’s acting the same recently. I think its time to move on. I really thought he was nice tho. 🥺
@stephanieholcomb9542
@stephanieholcomb9542 4 жыл бұрын
Don't waste any more time when things will not change. Take the advice of someone who has been through this.
@kimmyfitness_
@kimmyfitness_ 4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Holcomb its my fault to fall so easily I guess. Maybe he just want me a little like whats mentioned on the video and I assumed so much. Thank you Steph! Appreciated your comment 😘
@mushypandaa
@mushypandaa 4 жыл бұрын
i know this sounds very harsh but you need to dump him. I dated my ex for 3 years and he displayed all these signs (e.g. not telling the whole world about me - hiding me from his parents for 3 years, rarely initiating). I dumped him once because he didn't appreciate me but then the biggest mistake was forgiving him and then a few months later his actions didn't change and he dumped me, using the "you're too emotional" as an excuse to end it. It hurt me a lot as I cared for him so much. But after many months I have finally got over him. My advice for you is to communicate it again with your boyfriend and see if his actions align with what he says. For example, if he says "I'll promise to meet up with you next week" and then he cancels last min and doesn't initiate another time to meet up then that's a red flag. Also, your boyfriend should be confident to show off your relationship to other people/the world and not hiding you. Another advice I have is to not sabotage yourself by giving sex with him unless he treats you right. But that's all I have for you and this is just what I think. From my experience when you're in a relationship it's hard to see so many red flags because you believe this person would continue to be the same from the beginning and you have hopes for them to be like that again. You're also in love. But when you're out of it you'll start to realise a lot of red flags that you didn't see before. You'll start to mature and also release what type of people are for you and learn better. But I hope you figure it all out. Like Sabrina I reckon the best thing is to listen to your gut. If you are upset then it's not entirely your fault, it is them that's making you feel this way. Good Luck Kim
@TheLoudseed
@TheLoudseed 4 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. I think on the other video you said there's no such thing as a mixed signal. And always, always, trust your gut! I just had a reconnection with someone from a few years ago. My gut told me he was hiding something, so I ghosted him after two dates a few years back. He reappeared on Tinder this week. And as soon as I followed the feeling and asked for clarification because a Google search on his name yielded nada, he all of the sudden was like, we aren't a good match, blah blah blah. He was totally freaked I was Googling his identity. My gut was right. I think he was using a fake name, burner phone and lying about being married. Ladies, buy and use social media catfish before you start dating someone! Trust but verify. I am disgusted by all the married men looking to cheat on Tinder, but at least those creeps are honest about being cheating creeps! You can never be too careful. Use the full range of public records before you agree to meet. It's time well spent!
@btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892
@btstakescareofmewhenimsick4892 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God i dont want a relationship either, just casual is ok. I dont trust anybody enough
@tatiana9761
@tatiana9761 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, Sabrina! I discovered your chanel by indication from KZbin. And I like to congratulate you for all this info that you're able to share with us. It's very important to hear this words time to time, and keep in mind that we are good women, and we deserve a nice person in our lifes. Low self steam it's a big issue for me, and I just realized, by seeing your videos, that I'm a "needy" kind of person... I have depression and anxiety problems, witch make all even worse... But even before that... I was always insecure. Always doubting of my potential in all the aspects of my life, specially those from the heart. I've been through 2 abusives and toxics long term relationships... And all that just gave me scars and let my self steam ever lower... Well, I try every day to be better, to be kind with myself, to respect my own time, to be a good mother to my son (he's 5 years old), to focus on me and my personal goals. I've met an Italian guy, online. We're about the same age basically. I'm from Brazil!! We spend a good time chatting, whenever we have time to. And because I saw some of your videos, for the first time in my life, I'm putting myself in first place. I confess that, sometimes, I feel some urges to do some of "don't do" things... But I'm holding on so far! It take time to rebuild ourselves, after so many years making the same mistakes, bonding with guys just 'cause I didn't wanted to be alone. Anyway, sorry for writing too much! (I don't do that with the Italian guy!! One lesson learned! ☺️). I just needed to thank you, for all the information that you share and say how much all this content is helping with the building of the new me version! Oh, and I like to suggest, if I may, a video about LDR. I guess it would be amazing to hear about this topic from you. I'm in this situation with this Italian guy, and I like to hear about this situation from your perspective. A huge hug, from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil!
@josemanuelgonzalez1351
@josemanuelgonzalez1351 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wise words, christiana.
@relaxationmee350
@relaxationmee350 4 жыл бұрын
I have a guy telling judgments about me, like from his first impression without even trying to know me. He’s constantly trying to put me down with little subtle comments about me. I don’t feel like he’s interested any more than hanging out. I have told him my feelings but he doesn’t seem to want to tell me his feelings and impressions about me.
@eddajustice8345
@eddajustice8345 3 жыл бұрын
Great video thanks
@paulamitchell1653
@paulamitchell1653 5 ай бұрын
I should’ve a Degree in Psychology when relating within a relationships. BC he is too complex and too complicated, I gave him a point blank question, and I’m treating; him like a human being but he has me feeling less than and I’m NOT enjoying that experience… he is playing MIND games… my gut has told me over and over again…treating me hot a calls, never writes, never communicates, he is just missing around, he is nice and pleasant, I feel like I’m his ego push/pull, we live in two different states, I’m just feeding his own ego, he has always goes in and out…. But men define the relationship…. I’m out….
@DiamondsRexpensive
@DiamondsRexpensive 4 жыл бұрын
1:06 this lady f-ing gets it
@ninajg2011
@ninajg2011 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent! Ready enjoyed this video. Clarification.
@247daydreaming
@247daydreaming 4 жыл бұрын
Can you guys maybe help me out with this :) Soo, my neighbor has been flirting with me for some time now IRL. He asked me for my number, so we wouldn't have to continue communicating via Instagram. He asked me to come over to connect his phone to my laptop and export pictures whatever, even though he said, he could also do it the next day at his parents house. Anyway, that night he was extremely flirty. I was very hungry, so I said, he could come over but I would be cooking. He kept "accidentally" flashing his abs at me that night and his tone of voice was very sweet and seductive the entire time but he didn't make any actual moves, except hug me a little longer in the end. Anyway, he went away on vacation and is never online and hasn't even texted me ONCE the entire time.While I ate, he asked me whether that's enough for me (Aww) and the next day, I called him because someone had shattered the window of my car and he called me "My little one" (in German it's a cute and popular petname).But he was on his way out to the airport and was stressed. .Now, even though nothing has happened yet and there's nothing really to be concerned about: Do you think I should immediately say: 'Thanks but no thanks, NEXT!' or should I not give up my hopes just yet, seeing as he may text me and make plans with me once he get's back? (*laughs, feeling gullible*) I've been crushing on this dude for 2 weeks because he was just too sweet to me but I just REALLY don't want to waste my time being hopeful, if there's no chance. Not even another day, I deserve better!
@stephaniebrooks6394
@stephaniebrooks6394 4 жыл бұрын
You are amazing and I love how you keep it real......
@hasnaebakhouch98
@hasnaebakhouch98 4 жыл бұрын
I love this video spot ON !
@rukia8135
@rukia8135 4 жыл бұрын
I am lucky my guy doesn't does anything of this sort with me❤
@etorresrodz
@etorresrodz 4 жыл бұрын
No, you just found a decent human being, and your worth it
@mushypandaa
@mushypandaa 4 жыл бұрын
you're very lucky, never take the for granted.
@rukia8135
@rukia8135 4 жыл бұрын
I just found out he was cheating on me today... People are not always as you think they are
@mushypandaa
@mushypandaa 4 жыл бұрын
Just for fun i'm so sorry to hear that. I know how it feels when someone doesn't love you anymore. I didn't think my 3 year boyfriend would do this until the very end as I ignored all the red flags.
@mushypandaa
@mushypandaa 4 жыл бұрын
Just for fun It took me half a year to get over time. You might be grieving now but in many months time, or a year (everyone heals differently) you will be in a better place. Just know it's temporary.
@babymuff2000
@babymuff2000 4 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say , I love your videos ❤️
@SabrinaBendory
@SabrinaBendory 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@maggiewanjiru2807
@maggiewanjiru2807 4 жыл бұрын
I like your video. It's full of knowledge.. Thank you.
@AshleenKaur
@AshleenKaur 4 жыл бұрын
Recently I've realised I've been attracting the same kind of guys like a phase and than move on to the next.... For eg - since few weeks I've been seeing a lot of strong personalities... Than before that was flaky guys... Before that all the serious relationship which I wasn't looking for at the time...
@RobinEntertainment
@RobinEntertainment 4 жыл бұрын
HOLLY SHIIIIT WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? I just got out of a relationship and I didn't ask her to stay because: I don't want anyone to stay against her wish. We are hot and cool to see if she is still interested in us. We are cold because we don't want to put her on a pedestal then loosing her. We don't show our deeper feelings soon, we are not needy. We must make her jealous so that she knows the value of the relationship.
@OShaughnessyC
@OShaughnessyC 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@firepuma777
@firepuma777 4 жыл бұрын
Of all the advice.....I loved the censor beep!
@noorfatima7404
@noorfatima7404 2 жыл бұрын
What if he's acting like this after months of being nice , bec of my clingy behavior and arguments . He's just not good with communication so that's why we always have arguments we even meet less and don't resolve conflicts
@rosannamiranda4620
@rosannamiranda4620 4 жыл бұрын
Soon as he go hot and cold and I will say goodbye and block his number and move on fast
@nohahanafi2629
@nohahanafi2629 3 жыл бұрын
What should I do or say when he shows up after a long period of ignorance or texts me ,after i realized he is that kind of person you described in the video, please?
@angelicavega2463
@angelicavega2463 4 жыл бұрын
Great videos like always...Thanks.
@jocelynlladones8765
@jocelynlladones8765 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much❤️❤️
@shsh-lv3wh
@shsh-lv3wh 3 жыл бұрын
Can you also give us advice how to end this black hole?
@beatriz638
@beatriz638 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Sabrina, big fan of yours. So what if he says he’s not ready for commitment but his actions are totally opposite. He is more committed to our relationship than some of my friends committed relationships. Everything you said here are not any of the signs he’s giving me - in fact they are
@beatriz638
@beatriz638 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry he’s doing the right things. At this point I’m enjoying where we’re at not concerned, but I wanted to ask
@sunnyloveless4240
@sunnyloveless4240 4 жыл бұрын
I'm all in
@kimnapped3091
@kimnapped3091 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in such a weird state w this guy. We've only known each other 3weeks, we hit it off right away and we really were into each other that 1st week. 2nd week he'd go a little longer in reaching out to me but wld still ask to hang out and we actually had a serious talk which was he's interested in me, doesnt want to hurt me, wants a serious relationship but isn't trying to rush anything bc work is busy and we're getting to know each other. He introduced me to his best friends' wives and let me know they all approved of me, but he has not been in touch w me for a day almost 2. I am hesitant to reach out to him bc i've been listening to these videos abt not chasing him and letting him pursue me. I just have no idea what to do bc i feel he's interested and he's told me that but am I expecting too much by wanting him to reach out more? Am I wrong to think an interested guy wld want to talk more or should i just go w the flow bc it is so new? I REALLY like this guy.
@Empearth2
@Empearth2 4 жыл бұрын
Has he reached out yet? No don't reach out ever! Just wait and be upbeat when he does. Men need to step back and get into their feelings again and also see how you react. So don't act needy. Think to yourself if he reaches out he wants long term if he doesnt then you know it's not strong that he likes you. Never reach out! Ever... I forgot this and have nearly scared this great guy away.
@kimnapped3091
@kimnapped3091 4 жыл бұрын
@@Empearth2 he did! It was 3 days after we had last talked so I was a little freaked out- especially when he started saying things like he'd understand if I didn't want to continue this bc he'd been distant, even though I hadn't been upset w him. But we made plans for Saturday and than again on Sunday and we had a serious talk abt things Sunday, which he initiated. Told me he wasn't seeing anyone else and that he was just busy w work and other things but wished I had just reached out to him bc he wanted to be sure I wanted this too. He took most of the blame for the distance but did say he wished I'd initiate texts and calls more myself which is true. I'm really glad I didn't get upset or nag him abt what we were or what he wanted on Sat night and instead just went w the flow bc he ended up bringing up everything on Sunday that I was worrying abt anyway. So all is good for now, thank you for the advice!
@Empearth2
@Empearth2 4 жыл бұрын
@@kimnapped3091 Wow interesting that he said "he wished you reached out to him more". But he opened up completely without you doing anything. Men need to see how emotionally stable you are at handling yourselves in their absence it seems. Would love to know how this goes x
@kimnapped3091
@kimnapped3091 4 жыл бұрын
@@Empearth2 i will totally keep you posted ❤
@cindysue97
@cindysue97 2 жыл бұрын
I need you as my coach.
@samantha8496
@samantha8496 4 жыл бұрын
Where can we go for advice from you???
@cherish.o.m4453
@cherish.o.m4453 4 жыл бұрын
Block him and move on.
@hninwhutyi9329
@hninwhutyi9329 4 жыл бұрын
How can i know his feeling in LDRS? He talk a lot twice or third in a week for past months but now,i see distance from him.He saw my post everytime i posted something @ social media.He didn't talk to me yet these days.I don't know how to figure his behavior out.
@etorresrodz
@etorresrodz 4 жыл бұрын
Have you talked to him about it?
@hninwhutyi9329
@hninwhutyi9329 4 жыл бұрын
@@etorresrodz not yet! I don't dare to ask him. Should i?
@etorresrodz
@etorresrodz 4 жыл бұрын
@@hninwhutyi9329 When I was in a LDR I experienced the same and got concerned, it took me long to find courage to ask him about it, which I regret, these things shouldn't make us suffer and wonder, find the right words and ask, there's nothing wrong with being clear about your expectations... and think about why is it so hard to think about asking him in the first place
@miriammwangi9802
@miriammwangi9802 4 жыл бұрын
How does long distance work ....🤔🤔
@eveahavahele-ojoh5420
@eveahavahele-ojoh5420 4 жыл бұрын
Love your videos!
@SabrinaBendory
@SabrinaBendory 4 жыл бұрын
So glad!
@junekaram1039
@junekaram1039 4 жыл бұрын
What happens if a guy hardly calls and only texts? (Long distance relationship)
@ivonetorres4434
@ivonetorres4434 4 жыл бұрын
Girls can you help me with your opinion? I used to date a guy that for some reason we never had the chance to see each other but only once (he lives in the states & im in Mexico) first the virus, then he had an issue with his truck, the hurricane i mean everything had happened & he used to date someone here also months before we talk so he always was here but when i met him all the "impossible" happened. I feel like God is trying to say to me that he doesn't worth it or so. What you think?
@stormchylde3999
@stormchylde3999 4 жыл бұрын
There's not really enough info to make a good call on this, but you did say he was 'always here' when he was dating the other girl so the fact that he's not able to come see you is not a good sign. If your gut is telling you he's making too many excuses, that's probably what is going on.
@etorresrodz
@etorresrodz 4 жыл бұрын
Relationships are weird nowadays with the quarantine and everything, I live in Mexico too where Hanna hit, so I know it's difficult, as someone else said before, it is hard to make a decision based only on these facts but may I I friendly remind you 2 things: 1. Don't do all the heavy lifting in your relationship, it takes 2 (or more of you're poly) people to build them 2. If you had to ask, you already know the answer :( Give it time, corona and the hurricane has us all turned upside down, work on yourself, focus in on you and being your best self and if he truly wants to be with you he'll find a way to connect, even if it's not face to face, chances are if you work on yourself and he loves you, when he comes back or you're able to meet, he'll find someone even more amazing than before! (Your improved, confident, and worthy self 🙂) ánimo!
@ivonetorres4434
@ivonetorres4434 4 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you so much for your kind messages! Well he has been ghosting me so I assume he already move on so do I. I'm not stressing over him cuz it's a lot going on in this world to be stress lol
@ivonetorres4434
@ivonetorres4434 4 жыл бұрын
@@stormchylde3999 exactly! It wasn't good signal after all
@ivonetorres4434
@ivonetorres4434 4 жыл бұрын
@@etorresrodz Thank you. You are right if I had to ask I already know the answer. When someone wants you it shows the other person make it obvious but he didn't & I'm good with that. Thank God I didn't waste more time with him
@tiffanybutler9691
@tiffanybutler9691 4 жыл бұрын
What’s going on with your neck
@marmel4086
@marmel4086 4 жыл бұрын
Wasted MANY years on one of these guys!!!!!!!!
@arleattahogan70
@arleattahogan70 4 жыл бұрын
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@lyndamcmullen9410
@lyndamcmullen9410 4 жыл бұрын
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