13 Things I Quit to Simplify My Life & Grow Closer to God

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Maryl De Milo

Maryl De Milo

Күн бұрын

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@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
What have you quit in order to invest more energy into your life with God and others?
@beyourownforceofnature7291
@beyourownforceofnature7291 Ай бұрын
After my divorce nine years ago, I've learned to love myself and I'm most important in my life. If I am not well, I will be no good to anyone. So, I gave away way too much of myself to a life that did not love me back. My two children are the greatest gifts!
@That1grI
@That1grI Ай бұрын
worly stuff made me miserable but being close to Jesus brings peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
@@That1grI Great!
@Triciamarysh
@Triciamarysh Ай бұрын
Social media 😊
@susanmartin870
@susanmartin870 Ай бұрын
1. Doing It All 2. Worrying About Things I Cannot Control 3. Buying Problems 4. Volunteering Out Of Guilt 5. Stop Talking Negatively Towards Myself 6. 'Don't Should On Yourself' Said My Friend Once 7. People Pleasing 8. Overthinking 9. Neglecting Parts Of My Soul Care 10. Negative Energy (Toxic People) 11. External Noise 12. Stop Grabbing My Phone (First Thing In The Morning) 13. Overworking
@mushroombird9400
@mushroombird9400 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!!!!
@susanmartin870
@susanmartin870 Ай бұрын
@@mushroombird9400 no problem! Was bugging me.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Thanks! 😊
@GGGirl55
@GGGirl55 Ай бұрын
Great but I would highly recommend everyone watch the video! Everything she said I’ve also stopped doing over the past 1-2 years and my well-being and relationship with God has never been better 😊
@susanmartin870
@susanmartin870 Ай бұрын
@@GGGirl55 yes of course. Great information in there that isn't captured in just the topics
@beyourownforceofnature7291
@beyourownforceofnature7291 Ай бұрын
I pray more and worry less. My dog says, “Wag more and bark less!” I’m a new subscriber 🌟
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
lol welcome
@beyourownforceofnature7291
@beyourownforceofnature7291 Ай бұрын
@@maryldemilo Thank you, honey💜
@seamusdrumm4507
@seamusdrumm4507 Ай бұрын
I am a 50 year old male, and have just come to the same realisations as you, especially when it comes to serving in the church. I was trying to do an internship and my blood pressure was through the roof. since taking a step back from ministry and slowing down my health is returning to normal.
@GodsSoldier33
@GodsSoldier33 Ай бұрын
Hi I was doing the same I am 54 and was new to a church, made a year this month. but in the very beginning I was volunteering constantly to all the different ministries and became sick a few times and very tired from dong too much , and giving up my gym workouts as well..so I had to pray on it and I stepped back a bit and put back the things I was doing for my health and also rest and now I have a better balanced life. God Bless
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
That’s good to hear
@lindam7518
@lindam7518 Ай бұрын
I've found at church when ask to be in charge they don't mean it. They want me to do what they want. After several attempts I don't do anything. Like certain peoples ideas are exceptional and others idea's although good can't be used. No thank you.
@emmahannagan6381
@emmahannagan6381 Ай бұрын
“I am not divine”-this is a great point to help me put my limits back in perspective. I am actually ok with not having to hold the weight of the world-thank you Lord for being the one in control.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
That’s beautiful
@mariewalby3157
@mariewalby3157 Ай бұрын
There are so many things that resonated with me… this one really stands out… “ when we are compassionate towards ourselves, we are agreeing with Jesus that we deserve compassion”
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Aw that’s a good one
@ChildofGod98765
@ChildofGod98765 Ай бұрын
Jesus give me strength. As a single mom and it is hard to have everything on my shoulders. Especially because both of my sons are special needs but despite the challenges I face it’s only because of GOD I MADE IT THIS FAR. I keep faith even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. Faith over fear. I love you Lord.💕❤️
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh that’s so hard! Praying for you!
@LevelUpInChristYouTube
@LevelUpInChristYouTube Ай бұрын
I didn’t realize how much God has changed my habits until I saw this list. Everyday we get to decide how our day will go and for that I am grateful. I’m still working through number 7 and trying not to get sucked into scrolling (at any time in the day) but when I struggle I know I can lean on God and He never fails ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh wow I’m glad it was eye opening
@joaniecarothers9352
@joaniecarothers9352 26 күн бұрын
Just because “I can do it” doesn’t mean I am the one who has to do it!! A good word for me today!
@midsouthhomestead7527
@midsouthhomestead7527 22 күн бұрын
Thank you. Looking at the words helps to better retain it. God bless. 🌞
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
Yes!
@jelig72
@jelig72 Ай бұрын
When things don't add up, subtract them. Less is more. Elevation requires separation.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Yes
@Pallanos7
@Pallanos7 29 күн бұрын
That takes the cake!
@carriefinding40
@carriefinding40 8 күн бұрын
I LOVE this video !!!! Thank you ❤ It is ok to do less and take the pressure off ourselves! As a Christian wife it's so refreshing to hear you say it's ok to not have to constantly pour from an empty cup and to put energy towards myself. Its not selfish it's very important and God doesn't want us to feel burned out. ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
Yes! so true. My cup runs over! Thats my motto..! I wholeheartedly agree that burnout is not God's desire for us.
@HeatherLaurenCo
@HeatherLaurenCo Ай бұрын
I really appreciate this video! I am currently struggling with overthinking/worrying, people pleasing, and dealing with a negative person (a parent). I really appreciated your perspective on limits and people pleasing. So insightful.
@Catherine-ti5by
@Catherine-ti5by Ай бұрын
Praying for you❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I hear you! What’s your support system like as your grow?
@shubhamshubham7746
@shubhamshubham7746 Ай бұрын
hi
@kokalol8501
@kokalol8501 9 күн бұрын
I literally felt like you have spoken of my journey in the past 3 months. All these things are what the Lord has woken me up too. I am more" ALERT to WHO I AM AND WHAT I FEEL" So crazy to think we dont do that daily when we are flooded by emotions. But to sit back and use discernment with every thought is so powerful ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
I am so glad that it resonated that encourages me too! I get that!
@dbruce5760
@dbruce5760 6 күн бұрын
Thank you. This is so me. I am so burnt out and do not like myself very much because I'm not able to do it all, and I am exhausted. Thank you. I needed this so much. I need to listen to it 3 times a day, probably more to sink into my brain!!!!!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 2 күн бұрын
You're so welcome! I am sorry to hear you are burnt out and dont feel the freedom to be you. Bless you as the grace of Christ grows in you.
@shielaforehand7128
@shielaforehand7128 14 күн бұрын
So much goodness in this!! I had to watch it twice in a row. And saved it to hear again. There is so much...its like layers and layers of wisdom here. The one thing that hit me square between the eyes was "I am not divine." Im not sure at what point in life i adopted that notion...but i needed to hear that. A big wake up call in that statement. Thank you for making this video. God bless you and your family.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
OH i am glad to hear it resonated. Bless you!
@judygarzadavis2946
@judygarzadavis2946 21 күн бұрын
I really liked what you said about not checking emails and your phone first thing in the morning. I will try this. Thank you!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
Its a game changer. Let me know how it goes
@GracefullyKaren
@GracefullyKaren Ай бұрын
Everything that you said 👏🏾. When we make room in our lives, the more we will know God. Too much of everything isn’t good. We must let go and let God. Contentment is also found in Christ. We must find balance in being and doing. God wants us to stay connected to Him. Thank you for sharing 😊
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You’re so welcome
@BuzWeaver
@BuzWeaver Ай бұрын
Often times the sooner you learn these lessons the better. It's a challenge sometimes, but you certainly have put a lot of this into perspective. Glad to see you're doing well.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Yeah for sure
@avamichelle4384
@avamichelle4384 Ай бұрын
Thank you. God bless you all
@RyanMayerCoaching
@RyanMayerCoaching 14 күн бұрын
Sister MDM: you just EARNED yourself another subscriber. 🎉 This was the most thoughtful, valuable KZbin video I’ve seen in quite some time! 🙏 I’m so grateful that you’re listening to what God is telling you to do in your life. Keep going! And please - let me know what I can do to help spread the good news about your work.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
I am so glad to hear!! Its been a gift to pray and process through what to share.
@e.jackson1308
@e.jackson1308 29 күн бұрын
Just because it’s good, doesn’t mean it’s beneficial & just because we’re busy doesn’t mean we’re being productive. 🙂
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 28 күн бұрын
:)
@susanreese515
@susanreese515 22 күн бұрын
This!!👍
@ELLA888
@ELLA888 29 күн бұрын
Right now I am in this process of change and this video came as a prompt or a message from God to know what I have to do. I have to let go of all that you have exposed in this vlog. God help me and everyone who has decided to make this major change in their lives. God bless you richly 🙏
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 18 сағат бұрын
Wonderful!
@Dionilita-m9b
@Dionilita-m9b Ай бұрын
Most resonated with me. Now I have a slow and quiet life. My prayer life revolves on The Practice of the Presence of God (it's also a book), pray from the heart wherever and whenever and recently kept track of my prayers by using A Prayer and Devotional Journal, and some of them have already been granted, one of them in one day's time as if a miracle. Thank you for your efforts and devotion to your You Tube channel. You deserve a million subscribers!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I’m so glad to hear that! Yeah journaling is such a great tool. You’re so welcome thanks for appreciating it!
@TheresaSarvis
@TheresaSarvis 20 күн бұрын
All so good… but started to feel overwhelmed with all the great “ to do’s).. then I realized “ only take on one or two of these suggestions at a time! Being a “ doer” personality can pour over into the “ undoing”! Ty for these videos🤩
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 14 күн бұрын
Seriously! Well said it’s a lot
@lauracragun
@lauracragun Ай бұрын
Oh my goodness this gave me goosebumps. BEAUTIFUL testimony. Thank you dear sister
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You’re so welcome
@ThePlannerPlaceCo
@ThePlannerPlaceCo Ай бұрын
“Don’t buy problems” That has been huge for our family when it comes to home projects! 💛 great video 😊
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
So true!
@MoraimatheTraveler
@MoraimatheTraveler Ай бұрын
Just working with my coach today, I agree to become a "Master of One" when it comes to my business.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
💯
@janeboehr1611
@janeboehr1611 Ай бұрын
Loved your perspective! Thank you for making such a helpful video! As the wife of a pastor I can relate to all of these! ❤ So helpful to know I'm not alone ☺️ God is definitely not done refining me. I've learned that sometimes God brings situations or people into our lives to pray over and they may never change but it sharpens us. Thank God He doesn't want to leave us as we are, but the best version of ourselves 😊
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh, I’m so glad it was a helpful video! I totally agree. God brings his divine appointments all the time and we can move with his spirit to Will and work for his purposes! Bless you being a pastor’s wife I imagine has a ton of growth, opportunities! Pray you feel presence and peace :)
@GenX071Guy
@GenX071Guy Ай бұрын
This is so good. I actually saved this and intend to watch it many times. I'm going to create my own list of things I need to subtract from my life to get closer to the lord. Thank you so much for this great podcast
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh that’s great! Share with me the list when you complete it! Would love to support you!
@Blessed77792
@Blessed77792 17 күн бұрын
Wow, it feels like you’ve read my story 🥹 Thank you for the content and sharing your journey. I will be more intentional to slow down and do the things that matter most 🙏🏻 Looking forward to similar topics
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 14 күн бұрын
Wonderful! It’s hard to slow down
@kimlewis-freeland779
@kimlewis-freeland779 26 күн бұрын
I’ve been on a journey of subtraction since God brought me to a point where I had to eliminate due to my health. He made me aware of my choices and poured so much love into to my life.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 18 сағат бұрын
Thats great! Yes! Praise God you are feeling poured into!
@engelaengelbrecht6564
@engelaengelbrecht6564 Ай бұрын
Hi Maryl, Thank you so much for making this video. As I am working towards adjusting my life to grow closer to God, this video has given me the confirmation I needed to cut back guilt free, keeping in mind what I gain by cutting back. MAY God bless you !
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@AdrianClement
@AdrianClement Ай бұрын
I've been feeling such a detachment and a letting go of everything that you mentioned here. I haven't really been able to put it into words. But you said it perfectly. And I feel that shift and I don't feel they need to apologize for it to anyone. I feel this is what God wants.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
That’s awesome yay for more inner freedom to say yes to God
@virginiakraft8331
@virginiakraft8331 3 күн бұрын
I quit alcohol, nicotine, and CAFFEINE. My anxiety disorder? GONE. 100%.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 2 күн бұрын
Oh PRAISE GOD! Its amazing how much our bodies hold
@waterbuckethomestead
@waterbuckethomestead Ай бұрын
Thank God, KZbin algorithm put this is my feed. New subscriber. ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@thethriftycab5834
@thethriftycab5834 Ай бұрын
Growing up in a very controlled home and trying to be a peacemaker I carried those habits into adulthood I’m so glad that God and my husband have helped me learn that some things are beyond my control and it has been so freeing ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 18 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! How great that you now can create new patters of relating. I pray God blesses your marriage!
@scopeway
@scopeway Ай бұрын
Those last few points reminded me of that most insightful quote from Edward O. Wilson - "We have Paleolithic emotions, medieval institutions and godlike technology. And it is terrifically dangerous, and it is now approaching a point of crisis overall."
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Interesting quote!
@Newme818
@Newme818 Ай бұрын
Wow I have to say thank you again!! Everything I’ve been struggling with this week was addressed in the video :) I now understand why I may have been feeling the way I’ve been feeling :) thank you
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh awesome
@irenafields3324
@irenafields3324 Ай бұрын
Wow! You are so beautiful and really made me see the way I’ve been neglecting my life. 🙏🙏🙏
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I’m glad it’s been insightful
@ColinStagner
@ColinStagner Ай бұрын
Wow! Great awareness! I stoped caring. In a good way of course. Practicing detachment and quitting all the adjustments I would make allows focus, clarity, strength, patience and perseverance. Far from being perfect ( don’t want it either). Unless it’s perfect LOVE. Great video. I bet your husband loves you. Be blessed
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Heck ya I love it!
@HomeOnMerryRidge
@HomeOnMerryRidge Ай бұрын
Thank you! I appreciate the platform God has placed you. I’m 58 and there were a few of the 13 topics that made me say “ouch” and that’s a good thing! God bless and keep you in his care! BTW I just subscribed!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Yes, ouch can be a good thing! I’m grateful for your comment! And welcome any other video suggestions I welcome them. Talk soon!
@chriseldaador3239
@chriseldaador3239 Ай бұрын
The LORD knew I really needed to hear all these. Thank you for sharing! 🥺🤍✨
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@britneejjohnson
@britneejjohnson 27 күн бұрын
God has shown me to subtract a lot in every area of my life. He has taught me it’s more than decluttering for mental freedom, he also showed me to apply that in all areas of my life so relationships business, literally everything less is more, life is more free
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 18 сағат бұрын
Nice good for you! Decluttering is great.
@midsouthhomestead7527
@midsouthhomestead7527 22 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I liked each one of the points. Trying not to say YES to everything is hard.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 22 күн бұрын
Absolutely!! Yes. and saying no to myself is even harder! Sometimes ha
@andrewtesti
@andrewtesti 29 күн бұрын
Be grateful that you could do a lot of things. The quote is actually right, but you just need to read into it a little bit more. Jack of all trades a master of none is more often times better than the master of one. It’s a blessing to be able to do multiple things.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 28 күн бұрын
Cool
@LoveThemWell
@LoveThemWell 29 күн бұрын
I’m glad this video showed up this morning! Thank you very much for sharing this:)
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 28 күн бұрын
Oh I’m glad
@countryhrtgirl9820
@countryhrtgirl9820 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! I really needed it.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I’m so glad!
@lovewins699
@lovewins699 Ай бұрын
I needed to hear this message. Thanks for sharing.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
So glad!
@kadd4415
@kadd4415 Ай бұрын
Lots of good suggestions about simplifying and adding value- I liked especially asking God how does He wants us to respond- and the one about rumination could be due to avoiding emotions.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh nice ! Yes
@pattyterry6432
@pattyterry6432 Ай бұрын
Excellent!!! Thank you. So true!! “ things” are a burden! Loved that you said “because I can do t it, doesn’t mean I have to”
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Yeah so true right
@gracevannortwick2027
@gracevannortwick2027 22 күн бұрын
“ The need is not the call’
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 22 күн бұрын
;)
@KathKeel
@KathKeel Ай бұрын
This really resonates with me. Thank you! Kath
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
So glad!
@yeetruckinyee8284
@yeetruckinyee8284 Ай бұрын
This is really good content for young ladies who are new believers
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Awesome 👏🏼
@ellees3521
@ellees3521 Ай бұрын
Alot of these resonated & have done personally ✔️
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh that’s great
@Newme818
@Newme818 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, I really needed to hear this today. 😊
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh you’re so welcome 😉
@pattyterry6432
@pattyterry6432 Ай бұрын
You have gained so much wisdom at such a young age. God bless you and thank you for this!❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Aw thank you
@Catherine-ti5by
@Catherine-ti5by Ай бұрын
What a priceless video! I know I will be watching it several times! ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh I’m so glad!
@janeswire8351
@janeswire8351 Ай бұрын
Good content. I am glad I found you you are good sent. Thank you. I am learning what I should be doing ❤❤❤❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Welcome! 🙏🏼
@gwenewing6837
@gwenewing6837 Ай бұрын
I had a nun teacher once that said, make sure your life is in order before you volunteer for anything else. I have a friend whose home, is a shambles, she is always volunteering. I always remember what that nun told us.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Ha thats great!
@jomandy5688
@jomandy5688 Ай бұрын
Depends what you mean by a shambles. Could be that it really isn’t important to her and volunteering fills her soul
@357pls
@357pls Ай бұрын
@@jomandy5688 Exactly. I like a neat and clean home, but that is not more important than using my time to help others. I will choose to spend my time volunteering over worrying about a clean house. In the end, I think my volunteer time will be something that glorifies God more than a perfectly clean house.
@BookmarkthisLPR
@BookmarkthisLPR Ай бұрын
Yes, God is a God of “ order”. He wants our own heart posture to be right with Him- not for us to run around like we are “ God’s little helper”.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
@@BookmarkthisLPR he’s the god of a lot of things! Order is one of them. He’s also mystery so there’s some chaos for us in that regard lol
@samvaartjes1099
@samvaartjes1099 Ай бұрын
I just discovered your channel! I am so glad I did 🎉Know that this really affirmed and encouraged me in some things God has been guiding me in. Your many many hours of work on this beautiful video have been so worth it - thank you for your obedience and hard work! 😊
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Welcome!! So glad
@jonizabel1952
@jonizabel1952 Ай бұрын
Oh, this all resonates with me so much. 😩 Thank you for these reminders, Sister. 🙏🏼
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@Yes.blessed
@Yes.blessed Ай бұрын
Needed this
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Yay I’m so glad
@subashnigovender807
@subashnigovender807 Ай бұрын
I really needed this. Coming from a works based mentality its was really eye opening to watch this. We cant do more or add more to the finished work of the cross
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
For sure glad it resonated
@janeswire8351
@janeswire8351 28 күн бұрын
Thank you❤❤❤❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 28 күн бұрын
:)
@chaocoordinator6972
@chaocoordinator6972 Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this video. One small suggestion please, leave the bullet points on the screen throughout the discussion of said bullet point. I had to go back a few times to remember what the bullet points were exactly as you were talking so I could retain it better. Thanks
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips
@CANDA-o3v
@CANDA-o3v Ай бұрын
Wow!!! This entire video resonated with me. Thank you for saying all the points you did. I'm so glad I found you ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh I am glad!
@jenniferdeloach6023
@jenniferdeloach6023 4 күн бұрын
Thank you! This has helped me a lot. ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 3 күн бұрын
I'm so glad!
@luisasterioquerubin6829
@luisasterioquerubin6829 Ай бұрын
Very helpful, just came from lakeshore, Ontario, Canada and made a video thanking God for His creation. 23:15
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh good
@wheelie642
@wheelie642 Ай бұрын
I have a keep your eye on the prize way to think of God. I noticed getting rid of things we idolize is a fantastic way to be closer to God. From the model cars I used to keep on shelves from family photos. Everything. No idols at all! I love my family and do everything I can to love them and help them and honor them. Everything!! But I don’t require idolizing them with pictures around my house. I am closer to them without those pictures around if you can imagine that.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!!
@sbingham1979
@sbingham1979 Ай бұрын
This is extremely helpful and insightful. Thank you.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Oh I’m so glad! 🙂
@Lmmarshall4
@Lmmarshall4 26 күн бұрын
I feel the same way about doing all the things. I just found your channel and totally resonate with your content. Thank you.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 7 күн бұрын
Oh I am so glad!
@Newgrist
@Newgrist Ай бұрын
God bless you, Maryl!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You too!
@joshfuller3321
@joshfuller3321 Ай бұрын
The consuming part! Big help for me
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Yes 🙌
@FunzyBunzy
@FunzyBunzy Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I feel like I want to do it all and I attempt to and then burn out. Then the cycle starts over again. Now I’m going to try doing less.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You got this!
@ihama99
@ihama99 Ай бұрын
I dont buy problems!!!! Love it
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Right! That one struck me so I had to share
@lizneel1212
@lizneel1212 Ай бұрын
This was very helpful, thank you for sharing.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@olivero-j1r
@olivero-j1r 26 күн бұрын
Stoicism and Minimalism 🙏
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 22 күн бұрын
Sure there are some values there!
@tylersnow9340
@tylersnow9340 Ай бұрын
You are amazing Mary
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You’re amazing!
@mbellramirez4833
@mbellramirez4833 29 күн бұрын
Stop volunteering is the one I decided to let go because, like you said, I want to keep my energy and volunteering was not providing that to me anymore.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 18 сағат бұрын
Nice!
@14jasminedel
@14jasminedel Ай бұрын
Thank you for this!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You’re so welcome
@JAZZYB21
@JAZZYB21 Күн бұрын
This sounds like the Alanon principles! ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Күн бұрын
I could see that yes! Good stuff
@CheetahSnowLeopard
@CheetahSnowLeopard Ай бұрын
Really good. I did a double take when she said "don't should on yourself" and quickly walked back over to the laptop to see if she said the other word. 👀😄
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
😂
@JRenee-gf3kn
@JRenee-gf3kn Ай бұрын
Excellent video! Thank you!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@keekee8760
@keekee8760 Ай бұрын
Great video, thank you for sharing.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You’re so welcome
@MJ-kd7dp
@MJ-kd7dp Ай бұрын
Thoughtful lists like this inadvertently cause our soul to double down on operating towards Jesus, rather than from the resurrected Life of Christ Jesus within us. Yes, such practices are a reflection of choosing to abide in His ways, and to aid our soul in dying to its insufferable devotion to preserve self, but the transformative Life nonetheless can only come from Christ within the Christian. If we can train our soul to look only at Jesus, then, God willing, the Holy Spirit is allowed to graft His Resurrected Life unto our soul life. The wise habits of lists like this then become Fruit of the Vine, so to speak, and not of the branch. Thank you for the room to share. - Shalom
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I imagine they can! It’s also a organize information so that you’re mine can take in retraining. Every soul is different. Be blessed.
@MJ-kd7dp
@MJ-kd7dp Ай бұрын
@@maryldemilo I'd be remiss in not replying :) I agree with you that every soul is different, and that lists as such are typically beneficial. I was speaking to the notion of the soul's "salvation" (liberation) as a matter of exchanging our soulish life, for His Resurrected Life within us; something that the exclusively unique soul of every human being is called to come into the bridal-ing submission to (union with). Anyways, you are the teacher on this channel, and I do respect that :) Shalom
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
@@MJ-kd7dp I hear what you’re saying! But having the heart open before they can even recognize, Christ is the first step. You can be religious all day long and try to do everything right until you clear things out of your way you are not going to take on reality. I come about this through the process of spiritual formation. Some people start with creeds. Theology. The right dogmas.. however I believe God can meet people where they’re at, so I am so grateful that you wanted to share. I also don’t find anything wrong with the way, I presented this information in terms of it structure. If there are content, that is unhelpful, please let me know so that I can continue to share from the truth of my own experience and pray it blesses someone else! The Holy Spirit is responsible for revealing Christ! And I hope we continue to look for him in everything we do, whether it’s simplifying our lives to orienting ourselves to the holy mystery that is revealing himself through the spirit moment by moment.
@MJ-kd7dp
@MJ-kd7dp Ай бұрын
@@maryldemilo I understand. Shalom
@alisonhomann1585
@alisonhomann1585 Ай бұрын
I must stop volunteering for everything
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I fully support this!
@lectramae9673
@lectramae9673 Ай бұрын
This really resonated with me!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I’m so glad! Did one particularly resonate?
@connj67
@connj67 Ай бұрын
Less scrolling Less channel surfing 🏄‍♂️
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Good ones! Yes 🙌
@2024WalkwithGod
@2024WalkwithGod Ай бұрын
Great Video! Sharing with my wife....😂
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
lol 😂
@jdog804
@jdog804 Ай бұрын
Blessed Be! Happy to see your channel is continuing to grow. keep up the great work :)
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Thank you!
@That1grI
@That1grI Ай бұрын
Wow I needed this thank you Jesus for speaking thru Maryl
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Totally haha
@wingchu8395
@wingchu8395 Ай бұрын
I like your video 😊thanks
@jacksonamaral329
@jacksonamaral329 Ай бұрын
I enjoyed it.
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
I’m glad!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Awesome 👏🏼
@24DividedByTwo
@24DividedByTwo Ай бұрын
Fantastic video. It spoke to me on son many levels. Thank you
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@carolynspapertherapy
@carolynspapertherapy Ай бұрын
Wonderful video full of great information and advice, and I also sent it to my daughter who goes full speed all the time and is very anxious all the time. Feedback for you from me would be to slow down a little on the video so I can follow you….you talk really fast!
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 18 сағат бұрын
Oh Thank you I am so glad. Nope I love my speed. Peace.
@carolynspapertherapy
@carolynspapertherapy 18 сағат бұрын
@ I’m just old and don’t hear well. You are good and very inspiring
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo 17 сағат бұрын
@@carolynspapertherapy I get that! When I am on a roll it takes me out to think about slowing down. I will try not drinking coffee before lol!
@donniep.1513
@donniep.1513 Ай бұрын
Thank you Maryl ❤
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@rainbowpeapod2796
@rainbowpeapod2796 Ай бұрын
this is beautiful :) looking forward to exploring your videos :) happy i discovered your channel
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@GM-tu7di
@GM-tu7di Ай бұрын
I too criticize and judge myself horribly, and it doesn’t allow me to even except God’s love or the love of others because I’m constantly finding fault it’s brutal and I don’t know how to stop it
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
It is such a hard process to heal from that internal critic. Have you ever explored internal family systems as a tool to retrain the voice?
@bbangel6935
@bbangel6935 Ай бұрын
I’ve been having problems with letting go 2 things: like clothing and fashion but finally I just realized that I just need seasonal proper clothing like wool and linen and 2 my playlist , I Iam a believer but I want to get more closer to GOD, I definitely like rock music and it’s been a journey for me to let go it I still like secular clean songs but I’m trying to find worship Christian rock songs that may I will feel comfortable with it ! Thanks !
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
Bless you on your journey to find what leads you more to the holy!
@antoniolaguna6103
@antoniolaguna6103 Ай бұрын
thank you
@maryldemilo
@maryldemilo Ай бұрын
You are so welcme~
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