#18: Heartbreak, Cheating and Secrets to a Long Lasting Marriage

[@IbnMurrah]

*Jzk Allah to you guys, I’m glad to be a part of the team bros. If any of the brothers and sisters have more questions, leave them in the reply section.* Here is additional information about me: - I am not completely disconnected from Somali culture. I’m familiar with the food, clothing, language, and other aspect of the culture. - Speaking about language, I can read and understand Arabic (only from the Qur’an). I can also speak fluent Somali in a social setting. Basically, I know enough Somali to talk to people casually and get around places but not enough to listen to the news. - Aanghel mentioned that he was going to teach me some martial arts and get me into exercise. I’m actually interested in weightlifting and I have some experience with Taekwondo, (only until Yellow Belt though), and I used to be hella good at running. I quit Taekwondo because the place that I was learning at never did any sparring and they never trained anywhere near real fighting intensity. It would be nice if I had a mentor to guide me along my weightlifting journey and martial arts. - We delved into my basketball hobby more in-depth but I also like drawing stuff occasionally and I love writing (especially writing first-person narratives). I also love learning about history, it’s another thing that drives me to study Islam and learn about how everything came to be. I don’t like my history class at school though, the way they teach it is trash. - When it comes to choosing a career or a path, I don’t like Math or Science type stuff, but as you can tell I’m more interested in History and English Language Arts. I’m also interested in designing things and having my own brand. I enjoy making my own design, my own title, and running my own thing. That’s all I know so far. And I have short term goals so I’m not completely unsure. I already know what type of things I like, I just don’t have a “dream job” *Ask me more questions*

[@The3Muslims]

Sounds like you're making your bio for muzmatch 😂😂😂 lmao much love though brother. Look forward to meeting you in person. - Anghel

[@IbnMurrah]

@@The3Muslims 🤣🤣 And inshallah we’ll meet bro. Looking forward to it.

[@Urbro_meast]

@@IbnMurrah One of my favorite hobby and sports is playing basketball.

[@Btraain]

Finally I can see who the fine brother is ma shaa Allah, keep it up bro may Allah help us and strength us in our deen

[@batta7363]

Allahoma barek habibi may Allah increase you and show you the love he has for you

[@saf1999]

Just like Anghel I feel like no one really knows me because I never open up to people. Ever. I go through so much emotionally, and I dont go to anyone about it. People will crumble you and I’ve been through too much to let people wrong me. This was great advice from all the brothers. Thank you so much.

[@The3Muslims]

Ofc sis, keep striving for God - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Much love sis - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

May Allah bless you - Rami

[@saf1999]

@War Ter Thank you so so much! JazakAllah Khair, I really needed all of that.

[@AbuIsmailFletcher]

Mashallah Tabarakallah, it’s finally good to put a face to the name! May Allah bless brother “ibn murrah” ;)

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen akhi - Faiyad

[@IbnMurrah]

Suppp my bro Fletcher! You’re a G bro.

[@The3Muslims]

Aye it's the big man mashallah - Rami

[@teeeshizzle]

Brother aanghel I'm actually so gassed that you're a Muslim now. I remember watching your first vid a few years ago and my intuition told me you would be a great Muslim. Mashallah bro

[@The3Muslims]

Allah guides who he wills. Alhumdulillah 🤲🏽 - Anghel

[@salmaahmed2366]

This is my new FAVOURITE podcast. I'm so blessed to have found it, Alhamdulilah. You brothers always talk about such interesting and relevant topics. Keep up the great work and may Allah bless you abundantly.

[@The3Muslims]

Got you sis - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Aye! May Allah bless us all abundantly - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Alhumdulallah ya Rabb and ameen- Rami

[@TheAnonYmouse]

Masha'Allah, my homie Ibn Murrah looking fresh! Imam Murrah would be proud!

[@The3Muslims]

Yerr - Faiyad

[@TheGloriousQuran6236]

I always thought it was just me. I never tell anyone about my struggles. It doesn’t matter how close I am to them. I only open up to telling people about it once I’ve already run to Allah and I coped with the situation. It makes me feel down when I run to someone right after the emotion hits me. They have this, “What am I supposed to do?” vibe even if they’re trying to help me.

[@The3Muslims]

A real one you are - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Yes exactly bro. - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

I know those ones - Rami

[@faizaa1244]

2:28 the same advice is relevant to women too. emotional unavailability is one of the worst things ever, and venting to them may create further distance... while Allah wants to see us cry and complain to Him. when you do that with He alone, you learn how to emotionally regulate yourself, and show up to relationships feeling more at ease - not overburdening someone, or being overburdened. plus Allah DESERVES to be singled out in those things, because He knows you the best. He can actually change & support you! And doing that can be a form of worship, having taqwa and tawakkul in Him

[@The3Muslims]

Yuhh - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

facts - Rami

[@IbnMurrah]

*Here is the Verse I mentioned @**1:21:51* “You will never be able to maintain [emotional] justice between your wives-no matter how keen you are. So do not totally incline towards one leaving the other one in suspense” (Qur’an 4:129)

[@The3Muslims]

My interpretation is since you won’t ever be able to maintain true equality (first part of ayah), do your best to not be overtly or apparently deviant in how much u favor one and try to be generally fair (second part of ayah). Otherwise the other verse saying if we cannot support more than one and be equal than only have one, would be a contradiction to the fact that we’re specifically allowed to have more than 1. My two cents. Always a good vibe with you akhi - Faiyad

[@rupok2994]

1 week ago! What?!!

[@The3Muslims]

@@rupok2994 he’s part of the team so has access to our videos beforehand - Faiyad

[@IbnMurrah]

@@rupok2994 Early access + Time Traveling business

[@rupok2994]

@@The3Muslims ok, btw I'm ya all's regular viewer of almost all Videos. Keep sharing knowledge 😇

[@bintarchetype]

This was a such a wholesome full circle moment! This is so cute Wallahi I kept smiling knowing the brother who used to comment and help with content is now part of your team. SubhanAllah Allah opened a wonderful opportunity for him, just out of his sincerity to help you guys. Also this brother is so young and intelligent Allahumma Baarik!! May Allah preserve you all🤍

[@The3Muslims]

Agreed 200% - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Yeah it's crazy but makes sense that this was going to happen, you know? Maktub. - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen ya rabb, it's a great addition to the team! - Rami

[@bintarchetype]

@@The3Muslims Exactly! I hope yall shower this kid with love🤍🔆

[@zayneb2333]

I don't even know how I came across your podcast but I'm so happy I did! Jazakom Allah khair and Inshallah this continues to grow to what you guys deserve!

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen thank you - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Glad to have you here - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Wa iyaak! May Allah bless you - Rami

[@EquinoXReZ]

I love y’all it’s so genuine feels like I’m having a discussion w my brothers. May Allah bless all of you.

[@The3Muslims]

I love you for the sake of Allah - Faiyad

[@alishazia6328]

"The believers are but brothers, so make reconciliation between your brothers and fear Allah that you may receive mercy." Great episode fellas ✍️

[@EquinoXReZ]

Yooo best part of the podcast was the second half I’m glad I stuck around. I relate heavy.

[@The3Muslims]

Ofc akhi, hence why I titled it that - Faiyad

[@down9062]

Podcast with the fans is the best thing ever 👌

[@ifra8860]

I'd go as far as to say...it's part of Allah's mercy to test you with a hardship which you find difficult to reveal or find someone who will understand your situation in full. This puts you in the default position of confiding only in Allah, hence bringing you closer to him- the one who put you through the test, and the only one who can get you out. Alhamdulillah always 🙏

[@The3Muslims]

Always sis, thanks for tuning in - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

I'd go as far as to say - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Alhumdulallah - Rami

[@ibtizamabdulakadir7005]

THATS MY BROTHER MASHA ALLAH🥰

[@FaheemMalur]

I found your channel from Apostate Prophet video.🤣🤣 I knew Anghel but was not regularly watching him. After Apostate's video I just came and gave a sub. Was happy for brother Aghel.

[@The3Muslims]

My guy - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

lmao much love brother - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Alhumdulallah - Rami

[@IbnMurrah]

Please don’t give that dude watch time 😞

[@FaheemMalur]

@@IbnMurrah I only watch him if I get frustrated and wanna bash on someone..😅🤣

[@ahmedimtiaz3481]

Yo Wallah I needed to hear this one 💯

[@The3Muslims]

Glad you did - Faiyad

[@Romon111]

Compatibility is more important than pheromones ...but about masculine frame aanghel was spot on about that

[@The3Muslims]

you knowww - Anghel

[@shannons6188]

Read “Reclaim your heart” by Yasmin Mogahed

[@an-dv8ul]

Literally feel like y’all are my older brothers, such great mentors Ma Shaa Allaah! May Allah ﷻ bless T3M!

[@bademjan]

need that money episode asap. need to learn how to manage. fr i am relearning so much from you guys. may Allah grant you all success here and akhirah.

[@The3Muslims]

Soon inshallah and you too brother - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Ofc akhi - Faiyad

[@yasinfazley8313]

Rami is 6'1? Yooooooooo that's mad I thought he was 5'5 loooool.

[@The3Muslims]

Tallest in the team - Faiyad

[@yasinfazley8313]

@@The3Muslims Capppp, I thought you (Faiyad) were like 6'4 😭💀, you give off "tall" vibes if that's a thing.

[@The3Muslims]

lmaooo - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

loool dkm - Rami

[@EquinoXReZ]

#brokenglasses jazakallah for the wisdom brothers.

[@The3Muslims]

Glad you enjoyed - Faiyad

[@mohammedkhatib4337]

great talk

[@batta7363]

Subhnallah akhis allahoma barek may Allah reward you for everything you do and may he unite us all ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen - Faiyad

[@randomhuman5298]

Give the video a like guys.👍🏽

[@The3Muslims]

Get the likes up - Faiyad

[@agatsuma22]

54:26 @anghel BROTHER HAHAHAHAHAHA mashaAllah I will never understand ppl who think that you appear to be "dangerous" I mean, yeah, you are definitely one hell of a masculine guy alhamdulillah but I truly recognize what a lovely energy/aura you express especially when you talk. So soothing to listen to you. Ps: yes, I do cheer for your attitude "I don't debate, I got my body" :DDDD Barakallahu feek to all of you brothers for your time and contribution in this video, may Allah always guide us the right path🤲🏿

[@AJ-je1lt]

"And among the people are those who take other than Allah as equals to him. They love them as they should love Allah. But the believers are stronger in their love for Allah (2:165). "If a heart becomes attached to anything other than Allah, Allah makes him dependent upon whatever he is attached to, and he will be betrayed by it" (Ibn Qayiim)

[@The3Muslims]

Alhumdulillah - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

DAMN - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Mashallah - Rami

[@HoboManAwesome2001]

Raah when am I ganna jump on the pod cast? 😭. I was there since day 1 uno. I can be your first U.K. guest

[@mohammedkhatib4337]

Great video

[@zahraahmed7999]

'A woman being submissive to her husband is part of her submitting to Allah' Wish more women understood this. Muslim women keep parroting on about Aisha(ra) and Khadija(ra) to justify their views tainted with feminism, but somehow completely pass on over this aspect of Islam.

[@zahraahmed7999]

@precizion funnily enough, many of the people who use this argument are people who don't really practice the other things Aisha(r.a.) and Khadija(r.a.) used to follow, such as the way they practiced modesty. Yet they have the audacity to use these noble women's names for their own benefit. May Allah forgive us and protect us from misguided beliefs.

[@blueflame3531]

They don't mention the fact Khadija RA had her Mahram around to deal with Men. She knew the dangers of free mixing. Today you're maybe at work your wife loves the Colleague. Check Reddits Surviving Infidelity, majority of Affairs start at work.

[@alysellin686]

What do you mean by woman should be submissive to their husbands? Can I get an example?

[@R3DHWXXN]

That beginning was really true subhanAllah. There is a Hadith where A'isha RA asked the Prophet SAW if the worst day he ever experienced was Uhud. (Notice how the Prophet SAW didn't tell her anything relating to the question before). He replied the worst day of his life, SAW, was the day he went to Ta'if. The profundity of this is that the Messenger SAW only complained to Allah, just like Yaqub AS in Surah Yusuf. This is the Prophetic example for us, the men of Rasoolullah SAW's Ummah. 'He replied, “I complain of my anguish and sorrow only to Allah, and I know from Allah what you do not know.' - Yaqub (AS) in Surah Yusuf 12:86

[@AbdulHayy1423]

Top 3 podcast ep

[@shayan-wasim]

Great episode! I can fully relate to what aanghel was talking about regarding his experience, especially when being reluctant to giving a 100% to a person if things go south. I also had a topic idea for you guys. Why not talk about Khilafat and making Hijrah to muslim majority countries, due to the onslaught of liberalization and dilution of islamic practices in the west? You can probably ask to have on Abdul Rahman Hassan for such a topic. May Allah bless you all and your efforts.

[@jaredbis]

You know your making it when you have haters. Fr there’s people hating on your videos!! Y’all big time now. I’m ride or die with you all. Alhamdulillah

[@The3Muslims]

My brkther - anghel

[@LionoftheSunnah]

baarakallahu feek me brudda for another good video, what are the requirements to join the podcast table just curious, kind regards

[@The3Muslims]

Ahaha shoot us a dm - Faiyad

[@theseedoflife5825]

Man I love you guys. God bless all you in the comments. Man got no words man may Allah allow this to manifest higher Ameen

[@TheGloriousQuran6236]

Imam Murrah lookin fresh Mashallah 🤩

[@The3Muslims]

facts mashallah - Rami

[@SindhBaabulIslam]

Maa Shaa Allah bro you are so mature at 16 . i m 22 and very dumb. pray for me

[@The3Muslims]

Saif you good bro dw - Faiyad

[@SindhBaabulIslam]

@@The3Muslims Jazak Allah bro ❤️❤️

[@The3Muslims]

We all learn at our own rate

[@SindhBaabulIslam]

@@The3Muslims right bro

[@mohammodsubhan]

Masha Allah Great Podcast. I started watching you guys a few weeks ago Keep it up! I'm trying to watch everything in order and will hopefully be caught up soon insha Allah #brokenglasses

[@alphafish4756]

mood is anghel pouring hot sauce on a meal during a video discussion 😂

[@kaleele7741]

Mansha alaah my allah bless you all. Mohamed good to see u

[@hudaahmed1998]

No should give their all to anything or anyone in this world. Absolute love is for ALLAH and his prophet. Yes khadija was his favorite but the reason why he had alot wives after is because there was alot of muslim women in need and to bring people together. If u want to be polygamist or monogamist its ur choice.

[@The3Muslims]

Very true - Rami

[@sadatkhan2012]

Ahahaha Much love to Murrah Jr.

[@IbnMurrah]

Much love to you my bro ❤️

[@The3Muslims]

mashallah - Rami

[@RB-nh1om]

1:28:47 Just some advice for the brother...I know so many friends of mine that have gone through what you have been through this. Tbh with haram relationships, it is bound to happen that's because being a girlfriend/boyfriend is taken so lightly. And haram relationships essentially set you up to have trust issues. However, this is less prevalent in halal relationships because you have to *marry* the person to even go to the depth of showing so much of yourself to them. And obviously, marriage isn't something that is easy and simple. I feel like before you or anybody who has experienced what you have... you really need to heal yourselves before going into a relationship again. because marriage is a partnership and you should within that partnership be completely open with each other. if not it will inevitably lead to trust issues between the two of you and that would then lead to you both having a toxic relationship. whether it be 1 wife or 4 wives...if you don't trust one another the relationship WILL NOT last. (sorry for the long talk lol and please excuse any typos or grammatical errors)

[@thenameisyaso4254]

2:07:00 Subhan Allah, that’s exactly what the Qawamah of a man on his woman is about👏👏❤️

[@AdamKhanx]

Rami reminds me soooo much of Adam saleh hahaha. Love you guys btw.

[@The3Muslims]

Big fax - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

you gassed him up. Now you gotta say something to bring him back down

[@The3Muslims]

lool I don't see it but jazakallah khair - Rami

[@HoboManAwesome2001]

#BrokenHeart #BrokenSystem #BrokenBackBoard

[@ahmedabdelrazek7809]

Thanks bros for the episode, keep up the good work.

[@The3Muslims]

Ahmed you the MVP - Faiyad

[@ahmedabdelrazek7809]

@@The3Muslims habibi ya faiyed, god bless you.

[@The3Muslims]

jazakallah khair - Rami

[@ahmedabdelrazek7809]

@@The3Muslims same to you Rami, bark Allah fekom habibi

[@roni_aust1594]

Bad energy flows from one person to another even on the internet

[@nmekari17]

1:53:00 Bravo spot on

[@baraji4653]

Salamz guys! I essentially agree with brother Aanghel on the topic of conservative love. I think his approach is accepted in islam. Islam advices us not to put or expose ourselves in harm's way. If she conducts herself then of course you must love her otherwise you will be on the wrong. Peace for all

[@musak5232]

#BreakYaAnkles

[@The3Muslims]

Made it - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

There you go - Anghel

[@roni_aust1594]

Those slaves that went back to owners did that because they were not trained to survive on the outside world on their own.

[@Thebestoneever_]

💯 !

[@an-dv8ul]

1:34:47 😂😂😂 weaakkk

[@pinar8735]

We should never inform someone about everything in our lives or about ourselves, but a spouse is different. In regards to investing into someone, you need to be vulnerable to have a close and real relationship. You should feel comfortable with your spouse or else you are not creating a strong relationship. I think that Yasmin said it best that we need to make sure that you put the right things in the correct box in our hearts. You don't put your spouse or anything into the spot where Allah is supposed to be. This way Allah comes first and we aren't as hurt when someone hurts us because we didn't make them the most important thing in our lives. We need to make sure that our priorities are set correctly and that we don't worship someone.

[@Faith760-]

Great episode mashaAllah! I just want to say regarding the emotional support, yes Allah is number one to pour your heart out to but I think there is nothing wrong with a man seeking emotional support from his woman, one because the essence of marriage is Mawaddah and Rahma, and Allah says “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect” . Even prophet Mohamed peace be upon him the best of all mankind when he got his first revelation, he was scared and rushed back home to his wife Khadijah may Allah be pleased with her and said “cover me, cover me” and Khadijah took care of him and comforted him as the Hadith says. So I think it’s all about whether you can trust each other enough and believe in each other no matter what.

[@The3Muslims]

💯 man but we’re speaking from anecdotal experience with modern women on avg - Faiyad

[@KimTaehyung-mk6ks]

Subhanallah It's so refreshing to hear such solid facts becuz nowadays ppl try to twist things around to make the world happy. Like nahh there's a reason why a man should act like a man and a woman like woman becuz when this gets messed up. Ur literally disturbing the dynamic of nature and how allah created everything. We are only humans and if we try to go against Allah's perfection. Relationships would crumble down. From a woman's perspective even though I believe all of this, the feminism and influences around the world impacts u alot. It's rlly nice to hear this and be brought back to track again

[@umme5501]

As they say looks fade away emaan doesn't if Allah will. Now a days you never know with all the makeup, how real she is

[@purplelove3666]

Looks doesn't fade away if you take care of yourself And that goes for both men and women. And when it comes to emaan you have to work towards your eeman everyday.it Does'nt stay still like an object that has not been moved. Please learn your religion.

[@hanzalamehmood2991]

‘He looks like an African Muhammad Hijab’ LOOL I’m sure Hijab is African too?

[@xmuhmd]

Hijab is egyptian

[@hanzalamehmood2991]

@@xmuhmd which is in Africa though right?

[@umer488]

what was the special announcement?

[@IbnMurrah]

There ye go my bro 44:11

[@umer488]

@@IbnMurrah asalamoalaikum akhi

[@IbnMurrah]

@@umer488 Wa Alaykum Salam Warahmatullahi Wa Barakatu

[@The3Muslims]

Ibn Murrah - Rami

[@umer488]

@@The3Muslims asalamoalaikum akhi rami

[@blx_z]

Salam alaikum, can you guys please cut the “coming up” part from the audio version of the podcast or say “this is what’s coming up” it gets confusing!? Thank you

[@The3Muslims]

Wsalam Qesa, every single episode except episode 15 and 16 are only the episode without the intro or coming up. We only put the episodes on audio formats with the exception of these 2 episodes - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Why is it confusing if you know it's showing you what's coming up - Rami

[@IbnMurrah]

@The3Muslims I get where Qesa is coming from because the “coming up” parts have evolved to become minutes long instead of a few seconds like they used to be.

[@mohamedsaeed9388]

#BrokenGlasses #BrokenAnghel 😂

[@The3Muslims]

lol - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

[@The3Muslims]

lool - Rami

[@simplynomadic393]

#breakyaankles if you made it all the way! #breakenAnghel

[@The3Muslims]

Yeahhhh - Faiyad

[@johns8819]

Have you guys discussed whether you would marry a Christian or a Jewish woman?

[@The3Muslims]

We have yet to discuss this. Inshallah we'll get into this - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

We haven't. Scholars say this is only under certain conditions. I personally would not, if there are good Muslim women. - Rami

[@tmz1428]

100% agree with aanghel on polygyny. When u have 2 or more you’re less needy & this creates & maintains attraction. Plus as a man it keeps you sharp. But I hear Faiyad & rami too about, if u have purpose & Allah then you won’t be putting 100% in to a woman. However I would say neediness, what I mean by that is sexual energy can only be released through the opposite gender & we all know that when that spikes up then men become narrow and put the blinkers on, which results into neediness. But if u have many options to release that energy then that neediness is lessened. Emotional energy is for Allah only. Hopefully this makes sense lol.

[@The3Muslims]

Makes complete sense - Anghel

[@mrstandupguy]

💪

[@wenky_facewenky6257]

A man doesn't cheat he exercises his options.

[@y_bss7326]

I love your videos but your „Coming Up“ Intro is Toooo Long

[@YasserMaghribi]

#BrokenAanghel

[@The3Muslims]

Lmao - Faiyad

[@IbnMurrah]

Yessir 🔥

[@The3Muslims]

Not as broken as how Ibn murrahs and ramis ankles are gonna be pretty soon. - Anghel

[@YasserMaghribi]

@@The3Muslims ahahah hope you'll record it 😂

[@IbnMurrah]

@@YasserMaghribi Fax we’re gonna have to shoot an IRL basketball video like the KZbinrs

[@tahirrauf8894]

#breakyaankles

[@The3Muslims]

Made it - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

lool - Rami

[@Ahmed-eg7kd]

#brokenGlass

[@jannah2564]

@the3muslims Aanghel: Even though you're not speaking from a hurt place, the source/root of what you are saying is coming from uncertainty, fear or doubt. Those feelings come from satan but its rationalized due to unpleasant experiences. satan is deceptive and will make it seem like your thought process is rational and just but the root is impure. It needs to be replaced with an inner knowing that no matter what pain/hurt you go through, Allah swt gave you unconditional strength to not only endure for his sake but despite the foundation being rocked, as a man you still maintain that unconditional faith in God & still perform your duties as a husband. Don't let people's imperfections be the reason why you don't show up in relationships, love and in life 100%. God doesn't only want us to be the best follower but the best spouse, parent, sibling, child, etc. We can't control other people, but we can control ourself from spiraling when we experience an unfavorable outcome. Nothing is really unfavorable if you look at it, because in the experience we've gained more wisdom of what we want and don't want but also how to be here for self more. God will keep stretching us just when we think we've been patient enough, compassionate enough, or understanding enough. Trust that you won't allow yourself to be lost in your relationship & don't hold back because your wife earned to be in that position. I hope this brought you comfort and ease. Thank you for your efforts. I have learned so much from watching these podcasts about Islam & how men think and it's helped me learn how to better show up for my future spouse.

[@Enacaus]

What Ibn Murrah is American? I have never been proven wrong so badly. I thought ibn murrah was some extremely conservative guy from Saudi who never looks at non muslim youtube. But damn ibn murrah looking fresh. Wallah but he gotta grow a beard tho.

[@The3Muslims]

Guy is 16 lol give him time.

[@IbnMurrah]

I got like 3 hairs on my face 😂😂

[@Urbro_meast]

Somalis in general can’t grow a massive beard and it takes some time for it to even fill in .

[@roni_aust1594]

How can you ask a mad Men are you crazy? The poor thing doesn't know himself if he is crazy or not

[@roni_aust1594]

DID THE PROPHET KILL ANYONE FOR NOT BEING ISLAM OR LEAVING ISLAM?

[@Thebestoneever_]

#brokenanghels

[@roni_aust1594]

1865

[@AhmedMohamed-pg2bb]

AYO IBN MURRAH????

[@roni_aust1594]

Don't take up anyone's debate challenge unless & until they are of your standard or higher as they are using your crowd towards them to get more attention for credits and money making. People see your name or famous people like Zakhir Naik etc on his video they click thinking it's your video. Then these kind of garbage get crowd. I see it as different type of crowd funding. They are so desperate.

[@tahirrauf8894]

Are money earned by pro martial artist halal. I always wanted to be a boxer

[@The3Muslims]

Bro this is going to be my opinion so please take it as just that. It is a sport like any other sport. Sure, it's more violent but still, it is a sport and even then, people who engage in martial arts have higher levels of pain tolerance than people not in martial arts so something that might seem insane to a bystander is pretty normal, everyday type thing to a martial artist. As far as the bodily harm goes, that is an inherent risk but almost every sport has this inherent risk to certain extents. For example, skateboarding can pretty much kill you, would it then be considered haram? Also, if the money is being used appropriately on your end for lets say, charity, or let's say to further progress you in your journey to learn the most so you can teach others, then again, in my opinion, I see it as perfectly fine. I will agree with the fact that that alcohol, ringside chicks, and overall environment where these fights are taking place are haram but ultimately, again, in my opinion, if you're going in there to do your sport and get in/get out, then I see no harm since we cannot control others nor our environment 24/7. It's like saying being a soccer player is haram because the fans are drinking alcohol. It wouldn't make sense. I have a hard time comprehending a lot of the things that are supposedly "haram." Not because I want to do them but because it was just something that scholars agreed on and therefore it is now a ruling that it is haram when ultimately what is haram/halal is decreed by the creator, not us. As for the hadith where the prophet pbuh said to not strike your brother in the face, I believe that's up for interpretation and my interpretation of this is that for training purposes, it's fair game since for self defense it is halal. The only way to be able to strike to the face and avoid strikes to the face in a real life situation, is to train them in a controlled environment. If not, you won't be able to do much if god forbid the moment ever arises. And again, in my opinion, since martial arts is a sport, fight nights are still just another training day, just more intense and with a pay check. I may get a lot of sh*t for this but it's how I see it and I'll own up to it because at the end of the day, the only one who will truly judge me and my actions and know my intentions 100% is none other than Allah, not other people. In the end, you should seek guidance from the creator on your decision. Much love brother. - Anghel

[@tahirrauf8894]

@@The3Muslims thank u very much may allah bless u ameen

[@The3Muslims]

Yes, it is difficult to make a lot from it. But it is possible. But scholars say you shouldn't partake in these things because there may be a lot of haram in it. Ring women, male and female awrah showing striking the face, fighting for money, etc. - Rami

[@spiscold50]

@@The3Muslims 💯💯💯Bro there are so many more Muslim boxers and MMA guys coming up these days

[@xmuhmd]

Aanghel A lot of men will have multiple wives if their wives will accept this... But They do not want to lose the first one Maybe Rami and Fiya too! But sure You will find women like this If she cares only to pleased God And do not put a man as higher goal... And purpose

[@RaspberryTech]

#brokenglasses

[@faeiger9215]

I can tell you guys watch a lil bit of AMS😂

[@The3Muslims]

We all had a past - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

lol yeah i think most woke guys have watched a few of the dating coaches videos at one point or another - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Hell no - Rami

[@spiscold50]

@@The3Muslims We all the same lowkey lol

[@galbi8335]

Can you please make a video on Shiia Muslims and what I need to know about it. I kinda was Sunni. But I feel like I am now calling myself a shiia girl, as I practice like them. The reason I converted was a shiia man I fall in love with, he introduced me all his ideology of shiia. And it all seem so right to me. I also consider Ehlul bayt. Though I do not know much about them yet. Thank you in advance!

[@The3Muslims]

Already filmed, it’s on Mondays episode coming out in 4 days - Faiyad

[@galbi8335]

@@The3Muslims Al hamdulelah. Because I need some advice here. Shookran soo much you guys. Allah bless you bethn ellah taala. Much love!!!

[@IbnMurrah]

Inshallah, we have an episode coming out soon about Sects in Islam. Sometimes people claim to be from a sect but their beliefs are not extreme enough to exclude them the rightly guided group.

[@galbi8335]

@@IbnMurrah Yes. There are so many prejudice about shiia for instance. I sometimes don't know what is true or not. The right and real source that is reliable is so important. I am happy you guys are out there enlightening us! Allah bless you all inshallah!

[@Urbro_meast]

@@galbi8335 Search into the search bar : •Reality of Shia Naseeha Session • Origin of Shī’ism Al Madrasatul Umariyyah • Shias Uthman ibn Farooq

[@whenyousmileismiletoo5419]

dont get into haram relationships. Allah is trying to save us from the hurt

[@n2snavin]

"Hay I'm poor".🙏🏻 "I want to raise my family from poverty " "But youtube is not go giving me view"'. "Ya I am worse then others"'.

[@aliay2743]

please don't tell me your work problems. Sorry its not manly.

[@IbnMurrah]

#BrokenAanghel

[@The3Muslims]

lol - Anghel

[@SlickAllDayyy]

#brokenglasses

[@n2snavin]

"Hay I'm poor".🙏🏻 "I want to raise my family from poverty " "But youtube is not go giving me view"'. "Ya I am worse then others"'.