18 Signs You're An INFP (from an INFP)

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Michael Simone

Michael Simone

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@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
⚠️⚠️UPDATED VIDEO HERE: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKKlh2R7rMubrJo
@orchidsrising7910
@orchidsrising7910 4 жыл бұрын
Michael Simone 💗 About creativity, that doesn’t only apply to the arts. As an engineer, you are probably naturally an intuitive and creative thinker, problem solver and idea creator. Also creativity is found in every area of life, like how we do our hair or dress, or set up our living space... I’m definitely an artist, but I’m also just a creative thinker, always asking why, or creating new ways to analyze the human condition and creating new possible solutions to stuff, etc. I hope this helped you 💕
@HughH1111
@HughH1111 4 жыл бұрын
@@orchidsrising7910 like no one actually cares, literally immediately can not stand you and I don't even know you... WHO asked????? Why do you sound like a racist housewife from 1940. I have so many questions.
@nacmegfeegle2310
@nacmegfeegle2310 4 жыл бұрын
@@HughH1111 -Wow- I wonder why you are so mad, or are you just trying to get attention? Saying mean things online does not give you power, it makes other people not like you, did you know that?
@supercid1st
@supercid1st 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and I have a question about a hobby/job I have. First off I love doing woodwork although I have a great difficulty in that I feel I can only actually do any work on a project when the "inspiration" hits. Otherwise it just sits there gathering dust. And when I'm done I feel completely drained of all energy. I want to know if this is a normal experience or what? It's unrelated to the current video but halfway thru this I was wondering about it.
@popuptarget7386
@popuptarget7386 2 жыл бұрын
@@supercid1st same for me with drawing or painting. If someone asks for something, I can't do it but if I feel it, it just works.
@mg8553
@mg8553 4 жыл бұрын
The thing about being an INFP is that I always struggle with the fact that I really like people, but I don’t want to be around them.
@ladymich-j2e
@ladymich-j2e 4 жыл бұрын
I need a life this is so me !
@rutealmeida3331
@rutealmeida3331 4 жыл бұрын
Woww me! I thought I was an extrovert with social anxiety but my god do I get tired around people
@saikripa101
@saikripa101 4 жыл бұрын
Yessssss...ikr..
@blackharmonics4518
@blackharmonics4518 4 жыл бұрын
I love people, but I hate them. xD
@rajaairdinaa
@rajaairdinaa 4 жыл бұрын
If we're English Figure Of Speech, we'd be oxymoron.
@APaleDot
@APaleDot 4 жыл бұрын
MIchael: "INFPs are supposed to be good hearted" Me: "Most people are good-hearted, I'm just average" Michael: "He will not consider himself as good-hearted because he feels like he's not good-hearted enough" Me: _p a i n_
@潘-n3f
@潘-n3f 3 жыл бұрын
S A M E😢😢😢
@spriteniglo3697
@spriteniglo3697 3 жыл бұрын
true
@Domisimi
@Domisimi 3 жыл бұрын
"Pain" ...Me too my friend, me too.😪
@safi6749
@safi6749 3 жыл бұрын
Lol bruh we can never stop being self aware
@kywenmook284
@kywenmook284 3 жыл бұрын
I call myself heartless haha
@pastelpink1234
@pastelpink1234 4 жыл бұрын
"you don't mind being in the centre of attention as long as you've chosen it" omg that one is so meee
@loony3822
@loony3822 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss, it explains a lot, doesn't it? I never quite understood why in some moments I loved being the center of attention and in others I hated it. Now I've noticed a pattern, I liked getting attention only in the moment and occasion when I specifically searched for it.
@dayyuummm16
@dayyuummm16 4 жыл бұрын
Can relate! I was on a stage performance with my classmates. I was very spontaneous at that time so that i did a weird, unexpected move and made people laughed. But, until now i'm still like "how could i do something like that?" "was that really me?" whenever i remember that time.
@marmarino2070
@marmarino2070 4 жыл бұрын
Jep mee too
@darkpikachux3
@darkpikachux3 4 жыл бұрын
Makes sense though to me you should want attention when necessary and needed it's not like im ask for it all the time either.
@Musicgeek475
@Musicgeek475 4 жыл бұрын
@@loony3822 Saaaame. Also, for me it also has to do with how well I know the group, for whether I act more outgoing. Huge groups of people I'm not close to stress me out. :P
@clintdona4586
@clintdona4586 4 жыл бұрын
“You’re not a finisher” Me: *slowly turns to look at my 12 unfinished stories*
@blackharmonics4518
@blackharmonics4518 4 жыл бұрын
Felt that deep inside... :/ I also read that mostly all INFP somehow want to become an author, but struggle with that a lot when it comes to doing it. This is really me. xD
@sunwooscloud
@sunwooscloud 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I had around 30 ideas and unfinished stories :(
@clintdona4586
@clintdona4586 4 жыл бұрын
Black Harmonics yeah, I actually sort of enjoy writing but always feel too lazy to continue my stories :^)
@blackharmonics4518
@blackharmonics4518 4 жыл бұрын
@@clintdona4586 I feel you. xD I write for my work a bit but at home... I suck xD
@bchraelabasi8769
@bchraelabasi8769 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO SAME 😂😂😂😂
@rufaidahnurazizah9705
@rufaidahnurazizah9705 4 жыл бұрын
5:31 "You're not a finisher." That's right. INFP; I Never Finish Project.
@danielajanett1569
@danielajanett1569 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the laugh ;)
@RosequartzDivination
@RosequartzDivination 4 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@junebug9359
@junebug9359 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@butterflycolors2916
@butterflycolors2916 3 жыл бұрын
I decide to start a thing and then I start and then 10 sec later I be like no I can do even better if undo this recent moves and after that I undo again and then I give up
@lyramalta7430
@lyramalta7430 3 жыл бұрын
my god ahahahahahhaha
@3mi3mi
@3mi3mi 4 жыл бұрын
“you always doubt your type” me constantly
@Cheyenneguarapuava
@Cheyenneguarapuava 4 жыл бұрын
Emilia López INTP do this too
@futuristiccat5636
@futuristiccat5636 4 жыл бұрын
BRO I SWEAR- this is TOO accurate. I got intp like half of the times that I got infp, but whenever that happens, even with zodiacs, like I want the other type
@graciesan9058
@graciesan9058 4 жыл бұрын
Dont yall doubt everything? lol
@slvergle4697
@slvergle4697 4 жыл бұрын
I took the test and it said infp and intp were both very good matches. That just made me question it even more than I would have. I relate to these things but I think it will take a long time for me to fully accept whether or not I'm an infp
@Ella-le4lk
@Ella-le4lk 4 жыл бұрын
AA THE VELVET UNDERGROUND
@quiroszmelissa
@quiroszmelissa 4 жыл бұрын
I tried to learn new languages, loved them but never finished them.... *yikes*
@ashleyyyluvsu100
@ashleyyyluvsu100 4 жыл бұрын
Melissa Quirós same 🤣
@graham6525
@graham6525 4 жыл бұрын
My degree is in languages. I've learned like 10 overall and can never master any of them 😅
@aureliekakou3752
@aureliekakou3752 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you!!!
@Silvia-df2hm
@Silvia-df2hm 4 жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as finishing learning a language :D Even when it comes to one's native language, there's no way one can know absolutely everything. But yeah . . . I feel you, starting to learn a new language is much more fun and much less work than actually sharpening and developing what you already know, so you can actually use it in your work or communicate with natives :D
@jalanjalan3
@jalanjalan3 4 жыл бұрын
haha, same. i started to learn german, never finished it. then started to learn another like french, spanish, italian and never finished them too
@sopaesapos
@sopaesapos 4 жыл бұрын
Picture this: You are an infp, but you also have social anxiety disorder (social phobia), so you hate being the center of attention, even if you've chosen or not, but in your head you always think of yourself talking to a crowd , singing in front of a lot of people or doing a play, and it feels great, like, it would be an awesome idea but when it comes to actually doing it... oh the anxiety... it just comes in the worst way ever. yeah that's me and this has been happening all my life. I've always blamed myself for being this way but now that I know I have social phobia and I'm an infp, I think I can pass through this and accept myself more :))
@brrneko8667
@brrneko8667 4 жыл бұрын
Omg this is the most relatable things ive ever read !!! I though i was the only one thinkint this way but im glad i found someone who feels the same way ^^
@noone1602
@noone1602 4 жыл бұрын
Brr Neko I'm like this too!!!
@noone1602
@noone1602 4 жыл бұрын
I'm the SAMEE 😭
@MrJadeDoel
@MrJadeDoel 4 жыл бұрын
Me too! ♥
@psychedelic_salad694
@psychedelic_salad694 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I am too
@rebbbecckkccahhh907
@rebbbecckkccahhh907 4 жыл бұрын
“INFP’s go into hermit mode... especially after a social event” Me, covered in blankets and eating chocolate while watching KZbin: you don’t say
@misswills8
@misswills8 4 жыл бұрын
VERY draining! I have to prep before and have alone time after...even if its in a bathroom
@ellrisnerayazelaniga5308
@ellrisnerayazelaniga5308 4 жыл бұрын
SOCIAL EVENTS DRAIN THE HLL OUT OF ME. it's like you interact with people for a day then u go hermit mode for 7days....
@Tania-fb4zl
@Tania-fb4zl 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an infp teacher 😂
@Lindalindali
@Lindalindali 4 жыл бұрын
@@Tania-fb4zl me too!
@FahadAyoub
@FahadAyoub 4 жыл бұрын
So I have an infp friend... Who actually plans to be a hermit... He's gonna leave his family and friends behind.... Go to a monestary far away and serve God... For the rest of his life... How can that be sane?
@selaine_x
@selaine_x 4 жыл бұрын
Sign 19: You relate to every single comment here
@miikael123able
@miikael123able 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like INFP is one of the most mistyped types there are. I dont know, I just feel like most people dont really know their type that well. I like to see myself as an INFP, because after going through the mbti theory and every type, its the only one that fits. I Just cannot relate to every comment here myself. Or maybe im just wrong. Sorry about possible typos, English isnt my native language
@EarthAna44
@EarthAna44 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@CometTheNerd
@CometTheNerd 4 жыл бұрын
Broooo
@lizzieb3816
@lizzieb3816 3 жыл бұрын
literally, i've found my people
@SS-rw4qb
@SS-rw4qb 3 жыл бұрын
Me: liked every comment while scrolling down the comment section (which is something I’m usually pretty selective about in the first place).
@tobidobkins1743
@tobidobkins1743 4 жыл бұрын
"INFP really hate small talk" yo I really connect to this cause I'm rly bad at small talk. It just doesnt appeal to me
@malumalz774
@malumalz774 4 жыл бұрын
really really true!!!!!
@dr.v.2301
@dr.v.2301 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I had an ISFJ friend who was constantly complaining about not being interested in conversations on everyday topics and looking for more depth in the talks. From that moment, when someone wants to know me or I want to know him, I tell that I'm like this and that if he wants superficiality, it is better that each one continue with his life as two strangers.
@abigailindaseli7447
@abigailindaseli7447 4 жыл бұрын
sometimes it makes me wonder do i hate human bcz i feel tired when people started to talk about sth tht i 'think' meaningless but i do love animals 😕
@denisemayosky1955
@denisemayosky1955 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I actually don't mind it, like when you're somewhere like in line or on vacation and meet someone who's being friendly - but only if they get a little more in depth like "Where are you from?" Otherwise, I just figure they're being polite and act accordingly.
@erniemastura8819
@erniemastura8819 4 жыл бұрын
for me, I will talk to them bout them but I tend to felt bored and sometimes left them hanging🤣
@sumiencem8187
@sumiencem8187 4 жыл бұрын
Usually when i want to write a story ,almost all part of the story are just written in my head rather than paper.
@nekoaile
@nekoaile 4 жыл бұрын
I feel that on a spiritual level xD I like imagining stories in my head most of the time and sometimes I even finish them entirely, but I don't feel like writing them unless I've imagined a really good story
@pauljack2267
@pauljack2267 4 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@aynnsnow
@aynnsnow 4 жыл бұрын
somehow, i managed a chapter or 2 with few of them.. i wish i can just narrate and someone will write them for me😇
@saimei4450
@saimei4450 4 жыл бұрын
Oh god I feel you😔 , I was about to start a story in wattpad about something fantasy but I just got bored and tired so the stories keeps on my head and also sometimes act it ;-;
@MidgetMalone
@MidgetMalone 4 жыл бұрын
If the paper could just read my mind it would be so much easier.
@j.clover2078
@j.clover2078 4 жыл бұрын
You know you're INFP because: -You can "feel" it while watching this -You love pretending you're in a movie -You empathically relate to people in the comments -You feel invisible and like everyone is watching you, somehow at the same time
@davidcomperda2555
@davidcomperda2555 2 жыл бұрын
The last point is what keeps me up at night
@JotaInu
@JotaInu 2 жыл бұрын
Holy sht that's so me
@k.qqyomi
@k.qqyomi 2 жыл бұрын
this is one of the reasons i read the comments. i find so many things to relate to
@NinaThyme
@NinaThyme Жыл бұрын
😂 I'm actually having lots of fun reading everyone else, like the thickly warm laugh 🤭🤭🤭🤭 But still doubting 😳😂🩷
@Silky2687
@Silky2687 3 жыл бұрын
To all my INFP brothers and sisters, I present a quote I’ve found comforting and profound I think you will all enjoy: “May you find someone who speaks your language so you don’t have to spend a lifetime translating your soul” All the best
@myfriendjustin8381
@myfriendjustin8381 2 жыл бұрын
True that!!! I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who understands me as much as my grandmother does. We are like on the same wave length all the time and understands how I’m wired because she’s wired that way too. The rest of my family are extroverts and more practical so it’s really hard finding someone who thinks the same
@Perfectliliies
@Perfectliliies 2 жыл бұрын
Actually I know another infp and it's kind of annoying because I feel like we're now 2 people stuck together and no one is pushing forward I need someone who is opposite of me so he can push me forward and inspire me
@thepointlesswords290
@thepointlesswords290 2 жыл бұрын
My esfp partner understands me well than i do myself. So i am so happy and comfortable with him.
@k.qqyomi
@k.qqyomi 2 жыл бұрын
@@Perfectliliies the thing with me and my infp online best friend is that we both like ghosting people. therefore we can talk and then go inactive for like 5 months and then talk to each other again. i dont mind having an infp friend, but i feel like we'll just not talk as much. i need that 1 friend that messages me first lmao
@tiagonthego
@tiagonthego Жыл бұрын
AMEN!!
@arianarain7749
@arianarain7749 4 жыл бұрын
Him: Says "INFP's doubt their type and spend a lot of time researching it" Me: No, I don't think so, I don't doubt it, that's not true.. and I don't think I research it too much? Also Me: Realizes that this is the 8th video I've watched since taking a 16personalities test two hours ago. Also Also Me: Oh.
@MidgetMalone
@MidgetMalone 4 жыл бұрын
So you are just getting started.
@rynne1104
@rynne1104 4 жыл бұрын
this is so fkn true,
@aye428
@aye428 4 жыл бұрын
16personalities isn't that accurate use truity's test instead
@thatoneguy4584
@thatoneguy4584 4 жыл бұрын
@aye it mostly depends since everyone is different than the exact description of either test, and the tests aren't always going to be accurate
@thatoneguy4584
@thatoneguy4584 4 жыл бұрын
But I would take them all lol I like those types of things
@emilyskulmoski5637
@emilyskulmoski5637 4 жыл бұрын
When you binge watch videos about being INFP
@emilyskulmoski5637
@emilyskulmoski5637 4 жыл бұрын
@Romain Cialle How did you know? 😱😂
@psychedelic_salad694
@psychedelic_salad694 4 жыл бұрын
Bro wtf I’m doing it right now ahahha
@janariealegre8694
@janariealegre8694 4 жыл бұрын
Mee either LOL
@enoziwit830
@enoziwit830 4 жыл бұрын
since it's quarantine lmao
@supportmainyingpipserissne3875
@supportmainyingpipserissne3875 4 жыл бұрын
I feel called out lol
@juliaa_678
@juliaa_678 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, you watching this video is already an indicator that you are an infp😂
@rajaairdinaa
@rajaairdinaa 4 жыл бұрын
because we're making sure we're really an INFP
@shahrazade26
@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын
But some are actually INFJs.
@SomiaDz
@SomiaDz 4 жыл бұрын
Or maybe because you don't know whether you are an INFJ or an INFP 🤷‍♀️
@shahrazade26
@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын
@@SomiaDz True but I think she meant that INFPs love watching videos about themselves.
@SomiaDz
@SomiaDz 4 жыл бұрын
@@shahrazade26 I think most people love watching videos about themselves not just INFPs.
@angelicatrino2498
@angelicatrino2498 4 жыл бұрын
My pet peeve: “Hi, how are you?” “Are you ok?”. How am I suppose to reply? Do you mean spiritually, financially, emotionally, career wise? It so vague. It is like an essay question. Why do I have to be working this hard?
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
ahah yes. Actually you're right I agree with you. Really answering the question "how are you" would take a long time! But somehow we just pretend and say "I'm fine". A lot of us don't even know how we feel so.. We truly lack some vocabulary as well
@agafaithrilles6274
@agafaithrilles6274 4 жыл бұрын
I usually get the gist and say something like "not much" or "same old"
@agafaithrilles6274
@agafaithrilles6274 4 жыл бұрын
They ask so vague so imma answer very vague too.
@thatParawill
@thatParawill 4 жыл бұрын
It’s a loaded question, but I’ve learned the context of the situation has implications to the direction of the question. General banter means a simple answer or an opportunity to share something interesting to start a conversation. In times where they press for me such as “no, I mean how you really feeling” then it means they’re probing for deeper. Sadly the ladder rarely happens, so most often it’s just a simple: “tell me how you’re feeling without me having to exhaust some mental stamina and space for you.” Obviously not a one size fits all explanation, but most of my experience has had this pattern occur.
@orangeziggy348
@orangeziggy348 4 жыл бұрын
Angelica Trino same for me
@33_zulubenlajamir59
@33_zulubenlajamir59 4 жыл бұрын
"INFPs often doubt their type and spend a lot of time researching it" lol this is why I am here for the record.
@thefarmerswifeknits6190
@thefarmerswifeknits6190 3 жыл бұрын
This is about the 50th INFP video I’ve watched.
@ataneur
@ataneur 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, the last thing that i am worried about is infps are good at math? Cuz i am not
@dragonfly4841
@dragonfly4841 3 жыл бұрын
@@ataneur not good and I figured out why!!!!
@dragonfly4841
@dragonfly4841 3 жыл бұрын
@@ataneur We day dream a lot so when learning math in school if we zone out and skip a step then we don't know how to do the whole problem.
@ataneur
@ataneur 3 жыл бұрын
@@dragonfly4841 wow ahahah and also i am wondering if i am infp or enfp cuz in my little friend group i am laughing and telling jokes often but except it i feel like fi dom and i am just myself
@dark._.reunion
@dark._.reunion 4 жыл бұрын
"You think you are a logical person" and "You feel you think all the time" hit HARD
@Oongaboongabigfatdoggy
@Oongaboongabigfatdoggy 4 жыл бұрын
I mean “logic” and “thought” is different , I think infp mostly just overthinks and it’s not always logical
@cherrykid161
@cherrykid161 3 жыл бұрын
And then you’re like “hold on😟” when you meet an actual thinker type. My best friend is an istp and so is my brother haha.
@Mumumta_ni88
@Mumumta_ni88 6 ай бұрын
that's me-😭😭
@nikkijp4120
@nikkijp4120 4 жыл бұрын
INFPs: Jack of all trades, master of none
@teddie552
@teddie552 4 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh because this is so me. I speak like 10 languages crapilly and none fluently >.
@claryfray4434
@claryfray4434 4 жыл бұрын
So true 😂
@MrCementer88
@MrCementer88 4 жыл бұрын
I decided to start learning Spanish. I got really exited about language learning. 1 week later I was learning Spanish,french, German and Chineese at the same time😂 2 weeks after I stopped the language learning project.
@NoOne-ut9wx
@NoOne-ut9wx 4 жыл бұрын
This literally describes me so much
@Oongaboongabigfatdoggy
@Oongaboongabigfatdoggy 4 жыл бұрын
Holy shit , my dad used to say this phrase and i used to think that I related to it sooo much- now someone has said it too !!!! Haha
@marijosearenas8463
@marijosearenas8463 4 жыл бұрын
The "empathy by mirroring" really got to me. It happens that most of the time outside my house they tell me that I'm very empathetic, but in my home I am often seen as selfish. Because of this I doubted really much for a long time about the empathy part and often doubted if I was really a good person and therefore being an INFP. The thing is that I just really can't understand my family's way of thinking and it's so hard to relate to them. Now that I see this I am shocked. I feel like I tend to be nicer to the people outside because I relate to them, because it's easier for me to connect with them. I don't know if it happens to you that is easier to be nice to some people than other, but wow, that explains things.
@GagePurple
@GagePurple 4 жыл бұрын
SAME! I don't have a lot to say to people in my family, its usually small talk and thats it. What am I supposed to say? I manage because I still want to be courteous to them and I love them but they don't give me much material to work with and their responses are pretty boring so its hard to even try sometimes and in the moment I don't have anything interesting in my head to say usually. At work and school I could express a lot more of myself, and especially when talking to some of my best friends I could pretty much fully be me and feel accepted and it feels really good to not feel bored being myself just because I am surrounded by people with boring things to say 😂but I seriously formed a couple of very deep connections with my friends and we help eachother through hard times and emotionally support eachother in such a mentally healthy way
@slvergle4697
@slvergle4697 4 жыл бұрын
This part got to me too!! There's been a voice in the back of my head for a long time making me wonder if I'm a good person or not. If I can relate to someone then emotion hits me like a bag of bricks (especially if it's something sad or upsetting). But if I hear someone talk about something sad/upsetting and I don't relate to it, I still feel for them but it doesn't have the same impact. Part of me as always thought that was selfish and bad. I'm not really sure how to explain that logic, though. I do find that it's usually easy to relate to people, though. Even if I haven't been in their situation, most of the time if I remember a time I felt that way, or ask myself how I would feel in that person's position, it does the trick
@FalconWindblader
@FalconWindblader 4 жыл бұрын
Family can REALLY be a pain in the ass to us at times, especially when they keep hounding us to interact with them more, or worse, be more like them. We don't have that much of such pressures outside, as we could just shut those that we don't click with out, yet we get called assholes if we were to do that to our families. We tend to be shut-ins when we get home anyway, & if we ain't allowed to do so, we'd just get more shut in instead.
@maxcheekies
@maxcheekies 4 жыл бұрын
This is very true. I relate to this. This is honestly why I cannot share feelings with my family. They tend to shut me off and think I’m living in my own world. It doesn’t help that we weren’t allowed to show negative emotion in our household growing up.
@rachaelsimone521
@rachaelsimone521 4 жыл бұрын
omg same!
@bitsnthings
@bitsnthings 4 жыл бұрын
"i have to look at my notes so i don't forget" . . . "the next thing is infps like writing"
@bloodyhetza
@bloodyhetza 4 жыл бұрын
Totally me ahahahaaha
@potatocat2445
@potatocat2445 4 жыл бұрын
i felt that in so many levels
@eval4495
@eval4495 4 жыл бұрын
I keep notes on a game I play 😆 There's just so much to learn and I kind of forget things too.
@starrysky4216
@starrysky4216 4 жыл бұрын
"we can be emotional because of a very small detail in movies, musics, etc" yo i relate to this so much... when i told my friends i cried in this part of a movie, they will say that they didn't find it sad at all lol
@rachelwharton4245
@rachelwharton4245 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@littlebutterfly884
@littlebutterfly884 4 жыл бұрын
I once cried watching ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT, yes! The comedy show haha
@rachelwharton4245
@rachelwharton4245 4 жыл бұрын
Little Butterfly - omg that’s so hilarious! 😂 I just started my third run through of that show, which part was it?
@littlebutterfly884
@littlebutterfly884 4 жыл бұрын
@@rachelwharton4245 the one when George Michael explains to his father that he wants study hard to get into a good college to make him proud. And so Michael tell him to don't worry about I guess I just would like to have the same conversation with my mom... And, yuup! The show is great. But the 4 season...oh, boy :/
@rachelwharton4245
@rachelwharton4245 4 жыл бұрын
Little Butterfly - Aww cute part :) And yes after the third season..... 😳 My word was it difficult to finish that show. I struggled through once because I clung to a masochistic love for the characters, but I will never rewatch those last two seasons again. Shame on Netflix.
@globe00
@globe00 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and I'm so bad at making good first impression! That's why I really don't like meeting new people because I'm sooo weird, like, wait! I'm not like that! just give me some time and let me show you who I really am!
@bycarlaxxx7540
@bycarlaxxx7540 4 жыл бұрын
I relate so much, I really try to make a good first impression but it’s so hard for me!! I’m a really nice girl but people sometimes think I’m rude and boring cause I don’t talk when I first meet them
@lelelew2735
@lelelew2735 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao true or I make random enemies by unknowingly / knowingly ignoring people like I'm sorry I'm so rude I like talking to you but then again I hate it lmfao
@yaikunamanya3038
@yaikunamanya3038 4 жыл бұрын
Just be u, ok? U are not weird, that just "judgement".
@charlesfaure1189
@charlesfaure1189 3 жыл бұрын
The need to make a first impression has the smell of inauthenticity, dishonesty, manipulation. If I have to lie to you to get you to like me, do I not betray my own integrity if I do it? Have I not wronged you as well by that lie? And what is your good opinion worth?
@globe00
@globe00 3 жыл бұрын
@@charlesfaure1189 what I meant was that I have terrible interpersonal skills and I'm kind of "rough diamond". Not that I want to please you with my behaviour and not that I want everyone to like me.
@nathalierabearijao
@nathalierabearijao 4 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for something that I don't relate with but every point are soooo relatable... And INFP is the most personality type video made on KZbin because INFP can't stop researching on things we already know and question and evaluate it over and over again... doomed INFP hahahaa...
@audreykirsch3675
@audreykirsch3675 4 жыл бұрын
So trueee!
@amaryllisnightingale6309
@amaryllisnightingale6309 4 жыл бұрын
Oh. Ok. I feel called out
@nanadapricot2952
@nanadapricot2952 4 жыл бұрын
ah, so thats why 😂
@aniella1409
@aniella1409 4 жыл бұрын
i feel attacked
@manishahazarika7019
@manishahazarika7019 4 жыл бұрын
True😂
@panengskie5994
@panengskie5994 4 жыл бұрын
"they feel that they are logical" yeah literally all these time i keep telling myself that i am an intp bcuz i seek knowledge and meaning of everything...but then i digged deeper and realized that i am more of a feeler
@korleone4547
@korleone4547 4 жыл бұрын
Holy moly why is this so true.. 100% me, contemplating whether I am INFP or INTP, for the same reasons.. my mind = blown rn
@josephgulliford393
@josephgulliford393 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah same thing happened to me. I used to love the prospect of being like Sherlock Holmes who is known as an INTP but that was totally idealised. It's incredibly liberating to discover the real INFP hidden within all this time.
@palmonjune5597
@palmonjune5597 4 жыл бұрын
I am an INFP but my enneagram type is 5 which is thinker lol
@Tatsiana_Sil
@Tatsiana_Sil 4 жыл бұрын
@@josephgulliford393 omg, the thing about Sherlock Holmes is sooo true it hurts
@radicalfan8743
@radicalfan8743 4 жыл бұрын
Same :") now I feel kind of stupid. Just a little
@inesbarbosa8517
@inesbarbosa8517 4 жыл бұрын
If I tried to explain anything I would sound exactly like you. Yeah, INFP.
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
Ahah classic ^^
@gomgyu140
@gomgyu140 4 жыл бұрын
" you can be seen as an extrovert " I CANT AGREE MORE
@davidmurdock6098
@davidmurdock6098 4 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of my friends would probably say I'm an extrovert because I really come alive in small groups...! But I know the deal... (INFP)
@sarouh7
@sarouh7 4 жыл бұрын
Buddy you just described me😫
@pooja350
@pooja350 4 жыл бұрын
I can testify to that lol
@cherrykid161
@cherrykid161 3 жыл бұрын
I was at one of my best friends party for her birthday and even there I was extremely quiet since a lot of them are extroverted. I felt very shy and only talked to one of my other best friends for a lot of the time but soon opened up more the more comfortable I got and I seemed more extroverted when I got more comfortable and opened up more. That happens a lot.
@loony3822
@loony3822 4 жыл бұрын
"You don't mind being the center of attention as long as you've chosen it" this seems so simple, but yet it explains so much. I was really confused, because there's times where I absolutely love the attention, wanting to go on stages to perform whatever, or just being a person who calls attention. But at the same time, when I'm unwillingly put in the spotlight, I hate it, I get so insecure and nervous that I feel like crying. I never understood why, but now it makes so much sense.
@smithism0
@smithism0 4 жыл бұрын
you just describe what i tought my whole life
@perhaps5095
@perhaps5095 4 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking I was more of an extrovert for the same reason. But not too long ago I was put in the center of attention against my will and I wanted to crawl out of my skin
@funkuchen2
@funkuchen2 4 жыл бұрын
@@perhaps5095 what happened?
@aleenatj5360
@aleenatj5360 3 жыл бұрын
Omg yesss
@deekay5992
@deekay5992 3 жыл бұрын
When I'm playacting in social setting, I small talk about the weather! But there's a subconscious feeling that I'm just doing it to gain acceptance or a conceited thot reg. lowering myself so that common people understand me!
@lxtvse
@lxtvse 4 жыл бұрын
Me: *questions if I’m actually an INFP* Also me: *relates to every single reason 100%*😭😂
@yak3543
@yak3543 4 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@jalanjalan3
@jalanjalan3 4 жыл бұрын
that's why Im here watching this video to make sure "am i really INFP?"
@AK-jt7kh
@AK-jt7kh 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to a lot of these but I test as an INTP. I think one of the keys here is when he was talking about thinking all the time...I do think all the time, but I don’t really think about emotions that much unless someone inflicts next with them. Even when I have feelings I have to think about, I usually try to come up with reasons for them and solutions to them. I see them less as the truth, and more as things that have to be fixed.
@ellyananr
@ellyananr 4 жыл бұрын
And then you still doubt it lol
@Totallyfine29_
@Totallyfine29_ 3 жыл бұрын
Me
@dianadias3
@dianadias3 4 жыл бұрын
I was sure that I was an INFP when I found out that INFP are weird with people. Like I fear social interactions, because I feel people wont be receptive of my whole personality and way of being. Also, not being quite sure what I want, and difficulty making decisions? Yeah, that`s me.
@SophieBird07
@SophieBird07 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely prefer texting. I can be sure that my thoughts and point is made. I hate making snap decisions, texting gives the receiver time to process and respond without being immediately pressured, which I hate.
@isa-4596
@isa-4596 4 жыл бұрын
This as so accurate. Well said
@biscuits2463
@biscuits2463 4 жыл бұрын
i’ve never felt so seen... thank you.
@thefarmerswifeknits6190
@thefarmerswifeknits6190 3 жыл бұрын
I write text novels and comment novels as well. I go back and edit them incessantly. Gotta get it right, wouldn’t want anyone to misunderstand my intent.
@cherrykid161
@cherrykid161 3 жыл бұрын
Fr. Even when texting I get nervous cuz sometimes idk how to reply 😟 but it’s better than calling
@Silky2687
@Silky2687 3 жыл бұрын
Empathy described as mirroring instead of absorbing has been so comforting to me. I’ve found people describe empathy mostly as being able to just feel another persons emotions whenever they’re feeling it… which doesn’t always come very easily to me. It’s made me feel like I didn’t have empathy at all and felt very narcissistic. However, I feel profound connections and empathy to music, tv characters and other people when I can relate to their experiences. Thank you for this
@azizalgafari8212
@azizalgafari8212 4 жыл бұрын
I hate to agree on the "not project finisher" because it described me so much. People already started to believe me on doing something, but I don't know I just never completely finished my works. I have 6 unfinished writings, all different stories and have different excitements. But yeah, till now it remains unfinished. It made me hate myself sometimes lol.
@justtrent9519
@justtrent9519 4 жыл бұрын
Keep going!
@josephgulliford393
@josephgulliford393 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree, you've got to keep going. I tell myself, just do a little bit every day and even if it's never going to be anything as good as I want it to be or of tremendous value to others, the journey is worth it because there's so much to be learnt. I always function best when I'm just allowing myself to enjoy it, taking the pressure completely off myself, rather than getting caught up in all the overwhelming details that are swirling around in my head about its worth, significance and all the things I want to include but can't process. We've got to forgive ourselves and allow ourselves to be ourselves.
@FalconWindblader
@FalconWindblader 4 жыл бұрын
I've gotten VERY reluctant with starting things for the past few years, due to being sorely aware that i probably ain't gonna be sticking with it for too long. Of all the 'ventures' i've started to hone since i was a kid, only 2 had ever been 'finished'.
@LuVoNeKNee
@LuVoNeKNee 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much. I am currently facing trouble finishing my tasks even due dates are coming near. But others seem not to understand what's going on and asked for explanation. The problem is, I can't even understand myself why I am behaving this way. So how do I explained to them that I have no excuse. Due to this, I always hate & blame myself.
@jasonlampa
@jasonlampa 4 жыл бұрын
Same! I 'finished' a few drafts of a novel when I was 17/18, but just left it alone. I'm 23 now and think I can write a better book now, but I can't stick with it. I'm always so distracted :/
@lauramayfair7887
@lauramayfair7887 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP and I relate to everything you said. I think one of the hardest parts of being an INFP for me is making decisions. Ethical or philosophical ones, not everyday decisions (I'm fine with those). But moral decisions... there are so many facets and perspectives to consider and there's always new information. It's so hard! I think it can come across as wishy washy but I'm really not. I just hate having to pin down something that can be so fluid.
@AmyAndThePup
@AmyAndThePup 4 жыл бұрын
I have the opposite problem. I know what I believe when it comes to faith, moral issues, and those things are far from fluid for me. But give me big things like career, wondering what I'm good at, and other such things, and I am quite literally paralyzed with indecision or uncertainty.
@ellrisnerayazelaniga5308
@ellrisnerayazelaniga5308 4 жыл бұрын
right!!
@migz_8894
@migz_8894 5 жыл бұрын
all of these apply to me and i'm still assessing whether or not I am an INFP..Thanks for your research
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! That's a good starting point, have you looked into the cognitive functions? I share more resources about this in this video ☺️: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rnnEhah3Ytx6hLc
@christinebuvet7834
@christinebuvet7834 4 жыл бұрын
OMGOODNESS!!! Me too! Lol Confirming the confirmation and then researching the confirmation to be sure! Lolol
@loony3822
@loony3822 4 жыл бұрын
I do feel like I fit perfectly an INFP right now, but my problem now is: will I always be an INFP? Cause I feel the need to. I don't know, what if I take the test after a few months and get a different result?
@haileylaine4584
@haileylaine4584 4 жыл бұрын
uncovered loonatic I don’t think your type can really “change.” However things can change so much in your life, and you’re going to behave differently in different stages depending on stress, mental health, etc. So during some parts of your life you may feel like your behaving like a different type, but from what I’ve learned, I believe that your type is who you are at the core and that never changes even if your behavior and environment does.
@loony3822
@loony3822 4 жыл бұрын
@@haileylaine4584 I did a bit of research, and apparently the mtbi is not that consistent. It can change. But I guess that's because the test itself can't possibly get to know your 'core' personality. Sometimes you don't know it yourself. But I guess there are things that never change, just the way you deal with them.
@gils102
@gils102 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like the ‘supposed to like people but don’t’ ties into the feeling misunderstood a bit - i want genuine connection, but when it’s such a struggle to feel known/understood, it can make interacting with strangers/acquaintances really tiring and frustrating
@Dhrjktbt
@Dhrjktbt 4 жыл бұрын
Truee
@FalconWindblader
@FalconWindblader 4 жыл бұрын
It's sad that most of the world just don't bother with forming true, meaningful connections.
@valerielaurence
@valerielaurence 4 жыл бұрын
So true! Well said 👌🏻
@SFQ14
@SFQ14 4 жыл бұрын
Lots of my misunderstandings stem from Fe not understanding Fi, and Fi users either unable to explain their thoughts or are unwilling to talk about it. I know that Fi users don’t want to label their feelings or can’t explain then well enough, but it’s very important that you verbalize to others why you feel the way you do. People aren’t mind readers. This is exactly what I’ve tried doing a few years ago, and needless to say, I’ve found a great set of friends who can understand me! And that’s despite half of them being high Fe users c: heck, the closest and dearest people to my heart are 2 ISFJs ❤️
@julieolson1402
@julieolson1402 2 жыл бұрын
As an older INFP I can relate to everything you said! I have been enthralled by math and science all my life with high aptitudes in both subjects. I even became an engineering student 5 years after working as a registered nurse. I returned to a career of critical care nursing because it was the only field that permanently captured my heart. I took up art at age 62 because I felt like I would never understand our Creator by using only the analytical aspects of my brain. I was shocked at how much creativity supported my every analytical thought, and how I had been blind to my own creativity because it had been too automatic. At first I was sure I couldn't be an INFP. They were just too weird. I couldn't understand them at all. Then I remembered how my closest friends fondly described me. I think we have a hard time recognizing ourselves because each of us varies so much within the framework of our cognitive functions. Perhaps the INFP foundation allows more variability than some of the other types?
@dianadias3
@dianadias3 4 жыл бұрын
I guess you are an INFP when you like all comments on your comment seccion.. I have done this too in my youtube channel.. I just feel bad when I dont like people who are cheering for me ahah.. Or maybe I just like to be valued Great content
@lisaterp7489
@lisaterp7489 4 жыл бұрын
Yo now this is scaring me
@dianadias3
@dianadias3 4 жыл бұрын
@@lisaterp7489 why? Ahah
@lorrainececilebenoit1749
@lorrainececilebenoit1749 4 жыл бұрын
Hi are you french I am! I’m an info haven’t taken tests for 30 years but sometimes my responses to things seem like I’m an infj.
@lorrainececilebenoit1749
@lorrainececilebenoit1749 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I was a biomedical engineer. Then I went to school for nursing cause I really love doing something Meaningful
@futuristiccat5636
@futuristiccat5636 4 жыл бұрын
‘You might go into hermit mode’ ME ME ME ME ME ME ME. I LITERALLY NEVER GO OUT. IM NOT KIDDING.
@danieldancza6171
@danieldancza6171 4 жыл бұрын
Could this commenter be one of "my people"?
@futuristiccat5636
@futuristiccat5636 4 жыл бұрын
Dániel Dancza yes please do fellow infp 👽🖤
@danieldancza6171
@danieldancza6171 4 жыл бұрын
@@futuristiccat5636 Then I greet you as equal! Welcome my fellow INFP
@lyllaphoenix
@lyllaphoenix 4 жыл бұрын
What about me? 🥺
@futuristiccat5636
@futuristiccat5636 4 жыл бұрын
Gh0st in The Cosmos yes 🥺 :3 you can join the hermit squad
@Moonbeam729
@Moonbeam729 4 жыл бұрын
“You like to write things” true I was having a text convo with my ESFP friend and she was sending her messages as recordings of her talking while I was still texting out all my responses. She asked me why I don’t also talk instead of text and I explained that I liked to think about my responses before I send them. I did try sending a recording of me talking but I felt like I wasn’t able to get my points across as well and felt like I wasn’t making sense
@june5831
@june5831 4 жыл бұрын
👍
@WhoCares-zy1fe
@WhoCares-zy1fe 4 жыл бұрын
This!! My friend will send me one 30 sec voice message and I will respond with atleast 10 separate bubbles LMAO
@ellrisnerayazelaniga5308
@ellrisnerayazelaniga5308 4 жыл бұрын
true!!! i always re read what I type, most of the time because i am afraid that my words will come out wrong...
@xenias5618
@xenias5618 4 жыл бұрын
That is so true
@jenie9977
@jenie9977 3 жыл бұрын
Omg...so true😂😂😂...everyone be sending voice message because they are too lazy to type while me sending message since I dont want to talk😂
@starrysky4216
@starrysky4216 4 жыл бұрын
when i told my mom that i'm an infp, i showed her the famous people who are an infp too. then she said she didn't believe me because i'm not good at art. but i really really love art. i maybe not good at it, but i enjoy it very much. i am usually good at science and math.
@carmen9758
@carmen9758 4 жыл бұрын
"INFP are no finishers" THis is the struggle of my life. It's becoming a problem. What should I do?
@yukinokoyuki1488
@yukinokoyuki1488 4 жыл бұрын
You asked in a whole infp video that full of infp people lmao. I'm looking for that answer too 😂
@carmen9758
@carmen9758 4 жыл бұрын
@@yukinokoyuki1488 hahahahaha good point..... the struggle is real!!
@AndreasDevig
@AndreasDevig 4 жыл бұрын
​@@carmen9758 You just gotta find something you really really love. And
@favss6084
@favss6084 4 жыл бұрын
I've had this question all my life.
@mariah.thecreativethinker
@mariah.thecreativethinker 4 жыл бұрын
I find making a to do list , actually helps me get things done. It might not be the day of but definitely the week of. Not say, I get everything done on the list, but most. Which then means I get things done.
@mariemmattoussi7469
@mariemmattoussi7469 4 жыл бұрын
This hit the nail on the head! I think this is the best video I've watched so far that describes INFPs -INFP
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@PrissyHippie
@PrissyHippie 4 жыл бұрын
@@MichaelSimone I concur!
@pendongengventriloquistbal6274
@pendongengventriloquistbal6274 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@kkkrace
@kkkrace 3 жыл бұрын
(4)
@shahrazade26
@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын
INFP here. Everything you said applies to me. I'm good with languages, though I wouldn't say they're easy for me to learn. I taught myself Turkish with an online ap, not because I found it easy but because I became obsessed with all things Turkey. Usually I only do things when I'm obsessed or hyper focused on them. So in life, my endeavors, careers and paths have chosen me and not the other way around. Everything is mega intense. Romantic love never had a chance of working out because the intensity goes through the roof. You didn't mention depression but it is hard to avoid for INFPs.
@mellowcuddlekins
@mellowcuddlekins 4 жыл бұрын
Merhaba, Turkish infp here.
@mavc9766
@mavc9766 4 жыл бұрын
Bi Türk daha. Ama infp kısmından emin değilim.
@shahrazade26
@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын
@@mellowcuddlekins Türkleri burada bulmak çok güzel, özellikle sen de INFP olan. Eylül ayında batı Türkiye turuna çıkıyordum ve şimdi ne zaman seyahat etmeye tekrar izin verileceğini bilmiyorum.
@shahrazade26
@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын
@@mavc9766 Selam. Keşke Türkiye'de yaşsaydım. Keşke Türkçe iyi konuşabilseydim.
@shahrazade26
@shahrazade26 4 жыл бұрын
@Sky Cookies The name is Duolingo. Yes, you can learn all kinds of languages if you know English. It's pretty good for learning grammar, reading and writing but it's bad for listening skills and for actually learning how to speak. The biggest advantage is that it is free.
@a.ramponi6962
@a.ramponi6962 4 жыл бұрын
Holy smokes I have never related more to a video in my life. Never been more sure of my type!
@rachellynmara
@rachellynmara 4 жыл бұрын
It feels so good to almost have a dictionary about yourself so you can refer to it if you feel you're going crazy!
@teddie552
@teddie552 4 жыл бұрын
What you said about empathy is spot on. I think sometimes I actually really lack empathy for situations I can't relate to
@Miles1103
@Miles1103 Жыл бұрын
Several good points. Some of the things that one might think disqualifies them from being an INFP are actually strong indicators. INFPs unite!! Tomorrow...maybe.
@curlymckee4125
@curlymckee4125 5 жыл бұрын
I think understanding these are so great, not only for ourselves, but also understanding how to help and connect with others (from an ESTJ lol)
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 5 жыл бұрын
You're so right, I find so interesting to understand others better. We too often suppose that other people think like us, so it's very helpful to get a better understanding! Thank you for watching and commenting Curly 🙂
@Goat.Cheese
@Goat.Cheese 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an ESTJ watching this as well! Trying to understand several INFPs in my life :)
@agafaithrilles6274
@agafaithrilles6274 4 жыл бұрын
I always look for meaning in everything. Especially in symbolism in movies, books and other things. Also im a very spiritual person so instead of closing my eyes and praying, I write down my prayer because i have a tendency to pace out when i pray with my eyes closed. So i write for me to focus. I wanna write more but i guess this is long enough soooo yah
@agafaithrilles6274
@agafaithrilles6274 4 жыл бұрын
@Meli9719 study feel more hearty right?
@Dixongrac
@Dixongrac 4 жыл бұрын
When it comes to listening to music, I tend to look for meaning in songs.
@nordswill1
@nordswill1 4 жыл бұрын
"INFP's doubt their type" Me: Wait, that's why I clicked on this video.
@lexpark7163
@lexpark7163 4 жыл бұрын
I'm amazed. It's like you know me better than I know myself. Like I wonder why I prefer texting over voicenote, why I am hyper when I'm with my friends, why I am so uncomfortable when someone confront about my feelings. It's because I'm an INFP. I'm glad I found myself.
@erniemastura8819
@erniemastura8819 4 жыл бұрын
Da relate
@potatocat2445
@potatocat2445 4 жыл бұрын
when someone confronts about my feelings and i start talking about it i feel like crying "for no reason". I cried because i started to talk to psychologist because she asked if i wanted to talk about something but i just didn't know what, started rambling that i didn't know and then cry :'v
@graciesan9058
@graciesan9058 4 жыл бұрын
I have two infp besties. I have to be so careful around them cause they take everything so personally. But they try hard to understand my personality. They are a bit crazy and both try hiding things from me which they think I will judge them on, but always and up telling me everything lol One of them is really good at writing. But they waste so much time on facebook posting memes. They never finish anything. (I don't either though) Also when they are hurt they can say some pretty mean petty things. -istp
@seahorse4149
@seahorse4149 4 жыл бұрын
Omg you're such a good friend*-* 💚
@crimson_cloud5049
@crimson_cloud5049 4 жыл бұрын
As an infp, I can attest to being bitchy with a sharp tongue when hurt. Another way we can express our hurt is to avoid u and not talk to you at all, like a cold war. 😅 But I guess it gets better when you become more mature and learn to just not give a fck abt every single thing. It helped that I had really awesome friends, most of them were enfp, esfp, and entp, though. Keep up being their good friend. Infps generally have a hard time keeping them. 💖
@xx-sc4zb
@xx-sc4zb 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to everything, even with the last part. I can be really mean when I'm angry, and if it has anything to do with being an INFP I think that it could also be about the constant question and scenario we are creating in our minds. Sometimes I think that something is happening when it really was overthinking, so I feel somehow like I have the right to be so angry, and consequently to sound so mean. Even if I'll feel incredibly guilty about it for ages.
@yukinokoyuki1488
@yukinokoyuki1488 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an Infp and I have two infp besties and one Infj. You can imagine the peacefulness when we've met 😂💕
@aquamarinealibi3161
@aquamarinealibi3161 4 жыл бұрын
K but, being bitchy is not an INFP thing. Neither is being insecure. Open communication just solves pretty much all the problems I keep seeing in INFP comment sections. Just work on open communication and emotional vulnerability one step at a time. Overthinking stuff isn’t an excuse to hurt people or be nasty smh. (Like I can understand how things can get overwhelming and anxious,) but that still doesn’t make it okay to be dishonest and cruel. 🤷🏽‍♀️ honestly a lot of the time I get embarrassed about being an INFP cause every other INFP I hear about never speaks their mind, is so freaking sensitive, and unreasonably petty. There is a line between reality and fantasy, and just because something is really bad in your head doesn’t mean it’s that bad irl. Just take a second to chill, maybe use some logic, and know that people don’t deserve your hostility. The stuff that goes on in your head- aside from situations where people actively manipulate you- ɪs ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴘʀᴏʙʟᴇᴍ. Grow. Up.
@diaaro9406
@diaaro9406 4 жыл бұрын
All this time I thought I was ISFP (I still do actually) and clicked on this video to make sure I’m not INFP, but... I relate to all the things you said... Now I’m even more confused.
@teejay5432
@teejay5432 3 жыл бұрын
Same! Well there's three shared letters so I guess there'd be similarities. Only difference is sensory vs intuition
@keehanmaahiabdurahman3230
@keehanmaahiabdurahman3230 3 жыл бұрын
Actually I am An INFP, When I First Take The 16 Personality Test, I Got Result As ISFP, Then Another One Is INFJ, When I Take With All Of My Facts And Condition. I Got Result As INFP. Truely Amazing Right (Sorry My English Is Bad XD)
@glaceRaven
@glaceRaven 4 жыл бұрын
This was a great video, and very insightful and helpful! I no longer have a single doubt in my mind that I am INFP, so thank you ^.^
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it helped you! Thank you for being here 😊
@karolinasowinska
@karolinasowinska 4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic analysis. I'm a data engineer, yet I've suspected myself of inherent INFP-ness... All your points confirm my hypothesis.
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
Have you checked my last videos where I talk about INTP instead?
@karolinasowinska
@karolinasowinska 4 жыл бұрын
@@MichaelSimone Yes, I have! Frankly, it led to my greater confusion, as I couldn't identify which side of the fence I'm on (this is not to say that I blame you for this!). If you're feeling particularly helpful, would you like to see some of my videos and take a long shot at guessing my type (judging by the way I think and speak, I suppose)? Perhaps it's a pointless exercise, yet introspection seems equally as imperfect! I'd appreciate that, but also get it if you don't feel like it :) Anyway, thanks for making interesting content and keep it up! :)
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
@@karolinasowinska I just watched some of your videos. First congrats for your content! Keep it up ^^ I can't figure out your type. I'm not at that level where I can spot which functions you're using and determine your type based on your speech. I could guess something but it would be like 10% sure ahaha. We can talk about it tough. What are the reasons that made you think that you were an INFP?
@karolinasowinska
@karolinasowinska 4 жыл бұрын
@@MichaelSimone Thanks Michael! What makes me think I'm an INFP: I crave creativity, I feel like my true self has drowned (and I took a pragmatic approach to life, finishing technical degrees), and now I need to help it get to the surface, I'm exteremely interested in psychology, I'm very aware of people's emotions in a room, but I never act on it. For a long time I thought I am an ENTJ but I think it was my escape, trying to numb my Fi's cries with work. But on the other hands, I'm quite driven and ambitious, I go after my goals, I want to take care of my family, I feel like I need to be responsible for them (yet somewhere deep inside I'd love to be able to just give in and let myself be weak and vulnerable, and express myself [especially by writing]). Hmmm. Feel free to make guesses and/or ask questions!:)
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
@@karolinasowinska Okay, from what I see here, you could be both INTP or INFP. Both types can have these behaviors. An easier way to tell them appart would be to pay attention to why you're doing them, what's your mental process. If you want we can discuss it further on instagram, just add me and DM me ^^
@helmi7923
@helmi7923 4 жыл бұрын
through this whole video my mind was going ”yepyepyepyepyepyep” it literally feels like you climbed into my mind and just put everything into proper words
@eleonoralydia8884
@eleonoralydia8884 4 жыл бұрын
What you said about empathy makes soooo much sense to me. I often find myself trying to explain something to others through a similar personal experience or give examples from personal experiences when someone is talking about something to make sure that I have understood them correctly. I think this also has to do with the fact that I often find myself moved by something in a book movie etc, that when I describe to others they really do not get it.
@JoshBeetler
@JoshBeetler 5 жыл бұрын
Really cool explanation, I've always found the myer briggs interesting.
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Josh! It's very interesting indeed :)
@JJ-io9ms
@JJ-io9ms 4 жыл бұрын
As soon as I heard 8 I never related more to a sign ever, Im still doing a project I spent 3 years doing
@moonpriest8016
@moonpriest8016 4 жыл бұрын
I mean I’ve taken that test multiple times with at least a few months apart and I’ve always popped up as INFP so I don’t have many doubts but just wanna make sure
@ToxicCandy116
@ToxicCandy116 2 жыл бұрын
Small talk doesn’t bother me as much as it used to, I actually kinda enjoy it now. That being said, you will almost never see me *starting* small talk.
@matilde8824
@matilde8824 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the "mirroring emotions" bc everytime someone comes at me searching for some emotional help, I end up to using my experience in order to give advice to the people around me. Because of that, I've always thought I was simply selfish bc I couldn't completely relate to others but a friend made me change my mind. I struggled a lot bc back to school I was addressed as emotionless, but now I know
@rawr1248
@rawr1248 2 жыл бұрын
Oh same. I also use my experience to give advice.
@angelleejieun1004
@angelleejieun1004 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve taken the mbti test for couple of times and it always shows that I’m an INFP. I constantly find myself questioning the result and this video just helped me understand it thoroughly. Thank you so much for this informative video. Kudos 🤙🏼
@lya__
@lya__ 4 жыл бұрын
I've watched some videos on INFPs but I have not related to one as much as this one. I think nailed this, you explained everything so well
@chrissynovful
@chrissynovful 4 жыл бұрын
When I write my feelings and thoughts I’m fine. It’s A-Z. When I explain my thoughts and feelings, it’s A,P, F,S,B. What I refer to as “the scenic route”.
@walling2197
@walling2197 4 жыл бұрын
" You're not a finisher. " I could feel my 6 unfinished paintings, mountains of writing that I never completed and thus lost to the years, emails and texts which I probably need to take care of if I ever want to be a part of my loved one's lives, musical instruments I've picked up and left halfway, and all the bookmarks and tabs I've kept open from those random times when I wanted to learn a new skill and moved on to another one which I then abandoned for another one- All shooting daggers into my back from behind me.
@istp1967
@istp1967 4 жыл бұрын
"'Cause I'm just a soul whose intentions are good; Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood" -- Santa Esmerada.
@kikigogh
@kikigogh 4 жыл бұрын
After many doubts of thinking if I'm really an INFP. Finally I can say that I am. This video also helped me choose Psychology as a course for college, also after being torn between Accounting(which my family told me I should pursue) and Psychology(as my passion). Thanks for this vid! Have a good day! 💙
@thalia2580852
@thalia2580852 4 жыл бұрын
This is so crazy and insightful. I've known for a long time that I'm an INFP, and recently I've been feeling so unfulfilled by what I do (I'm a PhD in chemistry) and the more I dig into my type the more I wonder how in heavens I decided to do chemistry. I was always interested in it and I'm not bad at it, but I'm hating it. This makes some sense, but still doesn't help me figure out what I actually want :D ah the ongoing quest for meaning
@lifegoeson6461
@lifegoeson6461 4 жыл бұрын
Hey ,getting a PhD is definitely not easy for an INFP. You have really pushed yourself to stick to a problem , dig dip and actually finish it. I'm a chemical engineering graduate who does something unrelated for a living.I was really interested in research as a grad student but realised that getting a PhD will be herculean task for me as an INFP and as someone with ADHD.
@thalia2580852
@thalia2580852 4 жыл бұрын
@@lifegoeson6461 if you realise early enough that you shouldn't do it then that's amazing haha. I wasn't that lucky. It is a herculean task even for me just as an INFP and it's a soul crushing experience. I just hope I can pull together the reserves and finish it, and also end up doing something unrelated for a living!
@lifegoeson6461
@lifegoeson6461 4 жыл бұрын
@@thalia2580852 It took me 5 years to figure out things , I was job hopping, wont say I'm pursuing my passion now . I've made peace with the fact that it's okay to take up a job that's not my calling if it pays my bills , I could always have interesting hobbies. It's okay not to figure it out at all. Taking up a PhD program is not for the weak hearted. I'm sure you ll definitely finish it with flying colors. Best wishes!
@sirCharon
@sirCharon 4 жыл бұрын
The thing with small talk is, I really hate it but often keep doing it because someone else starts it and I don't want to be rude so I just listen but am actually so annoyed Also I really thought I could be an INTP so thanks for that explanation Really good video(I should do school work until tmr but I'll just watch INFP videos to feel better)
@balromasant
@balromasant 4 жыл бұрын
I use to do it first because i dont want the other end feel uncomfortable. I hate it tho, but i know somehow it helps in digging the deeper conversation.
@aqar2243
@aqar2243 4 жыл бұрын
Relatable 😅
@246lizrules
@246lizrules 3 жыл бұрын
thank you, i thought i was INFJ for the longest time and obsessed over it never feeling like it was the right fit for me even with multiple people telling me I was an INFJ. INFP just feels more right. thank you!
@gomgyu140
@gomgyu140 4 жыл бұрын
"you're not a finisher" me: * looks at my 70 drafts *
@jade5167
@jade5167 4 жыл бұрын
DUDE! thanks so much. i’ve struggled with my identity for a while and this really helped me go “oh yeahhh that what i do.” i don’t know it just makes sense now :)
@dreamersilverfox
@dreamersilverfox 4 жыл бұрын
So right about the career bit where we think we have a logical way to something. I’m just feeling that all our attributes are extra struggle to survive in what the world needs from us ...it’s just the practicality that’s required doesn’t sit with our inner core
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, we are capable of using practical tools, but we're more skilled with other fields. Unfortunately society does not reward them very much!
@ManifesttheGreaterYou
@ManifesttheGreaterYou 5 жыл бұрын
Spot on video for identifying traits of someone who is an INFP. Your point about being misunderstood at times is spot on, it takes us some time to think through our thoughts and assess the situation. Feeling empathy for whatever I am listening to is also very relatable whether it's the music I'm listening to or the video I am watching. Great video for anyone getting to know someone who is an INFP! :)
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Nice to see you're an INFP ☺️ I find it funny to see other people experiencing the same thing Ahah, especially for us INFPs who can feel alone sometimes. I'm glad you liked the video, thank you for being here!
@ipsally
@ipsally 2 жыл бұрын
the point about being creative but not aware that you’ve created really got me. i’m giving myself anxiety at work when i have actually delivered a lot of value!!!
@SD159AZ
@SD159AZ 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! I'm an INFP too. Just letting you know that most of us have a misconception of creativity as art creators, however creativity is an ability to solve problems in unexpected or innovative ways, so a manager or a mechanical engeneer can also be very creative :)
@sulimanfadel4496
@sulimanfadel4496 4 жыл бұрын
OMG this video found me, I’m an INFP mechanical engineer too
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
Really!?! Ahah awesome! And what do you think of it?
@AnaMaria-pc5zn
@AnaMaria-pc5zn 4 жыл бұрын
"you need time alone" part got me thinking that i find so much comfort in being alone with myself and thoughts and being able to analyze literally anything i want without people disrupting me that if i get the opportunity to be left alone for a long time i feel like i will be stuck in that hole XD
@MsNaush
@MsNaush 4 жыл бұрын
I studied programming but I always had a creative side within me. Yup, I'm an INFP.
@arianaduckett5223
@arianaduckett5223 4 жыл бұрын
I’m an INFP too! I definitely want to get into programming but I love being created so I decided wanting to go into mobile app development because I also love art too.
@maryharutyunian7302
@maryharutyunian7302 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to this video, I finally settled on my type. INFP for sure :"D Been confused with INTP and INFJ, and now this finally makes sense. Funny, because I used to be a BSc Financial Analyst, and now I'm into Creative Writing and feeling so much better. Honestly, the entire video just clicks big time. Thank you.
@soumyapandey996
@soumyapandey996 2 жыл бұрын
the accuracy of this talk is shockingly on spot.... thank you so much for such valuable insights
@laudemgloriae3
@laudemgloriae3 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!! Yes to everything! 😂Thanks for the good laugh at “INFPs are not project finishers” For me I never had any confusion over being an INFP (except wondering yes if I’m really an extrovert) for many reasons including, often being totally lost in my thoughts and feelings and unaware of what is going on around me (often being late and disorganized because of it, and stuck in a rut yes!) constantly making up stories and looking for meaning in everything. That is interesting though about being a mechanical engineer because I also was good at math and especially geometry in high school and diagramming sentences. Thanks for taking the time to make this and share what you learned! Fun music too ☺️
@MT0707
@MT0707 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed this affirmation. I'm definitely an INFP. And I love it. 😃
@christellecaj
@christellecaj 4 жыл бұрын
watching this has made me realize that i’m definitely an infp :)
@OlesDeyneka
@OlesDeyneka 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I was really not sure between INFP and ISFP but after this video I relate a lot more to the INFP. Feeling less lonely now as well :)
@BeeKaye
@BeeKaye 3 жыл бұрын
This is the most relatable description of an INFP that I’ve found so far. Thank you! I also wonder how our types correlate with our astrological charts.
@rajaairdinaa
@rajaairdinaa 4 жыл бұрын
Alright, I'd like to know how many INFP is Hufflepuff? Like if you're INFP + HUFFLEPUFF
@rachelwharton4245
@rachelwharton4245 4 жыл бұрын
Ever heard the theory that the houses are based on the four different groups in the 16 personalities? It’s kinda cool 😆
@carolinamadronalmachero7583
@carolinamadronalmachero7583 4 жыл бұрын
I think I am a INPF but I am a Slytherin
@valj137
@valj137 4 жыл бұрын
INFP and proud Slytherpuff here ^^
@nimisha6584
@nimisha6584 4 жыл бұрын
INFP and Ravenclaw💙
@pooja350
@pooja350 4 жыл бұрын
@@carolinamadronalmachero7583 I feel like its a type that shouldn't exist 😂. I'm a slytherin infp btw
@linkinpark8628
@linkinpark8628 4 жыл бұрын
i watched the entire video and without a doubt, i`m definitely 100% an INFP. Thanks for the video. Have a good day/night :-)
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Welcome here :)
@Tubbysneederful
@Tubbysneederful 4 жыл бұрын
I’m an INTP and I relate to all of these. But I “feel” logical because I assess information and come to a conclusion without an emotional attachment to it. I’ve met a few INFPs and all of them are or either have considered following a vegan or vegetarian diet, because they “wish”/“feel” it’s the best for them. In other words, do you follow or believe something because it morally gives you something? I think that’s a better way at explaining the logic of an INFP
@wanyuchen8647
@wanyuchen8647 3 жыл бұрын
I can't agree more, especially the description about wanting to be a good-hearted person.
@antipro8
@antipro8 3 жыл бұрын
I am 100% sure i'm an INFP and i still needed confirmation.
@mcwhirlpoolinc2641
@mcwhirlpoolinc2641 4 жыл бұрын
after hearing these signs. I am now 100% certain that I am an INFP. Some of these were scary accurate. Like "thinking you're logical" and "mirroring empathy not absorbing". Also, I am gonna finish my art projects............................someday.
@whit5208
@whit5208 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFP, for sure, but I love watching videos like this anyway (: Typically I don't agree with some things other people who've made similar videos say, but I loved this one, very relatable on each point you made, great video! I never knew some INFP's were attracted to STEM subjects, hahah but I can see that. I used to love programming and robotics, but now I'm a concept artist, both still very creative areas (:
@littleastronomer8863
@littleastronomer8863 4 жыл бұрын
Hey mate! I'm in MBTI for some time and have typed myself for a milion times yet. Thanks for your video, now I think I know which type am I:)
@MichaelSimone
@MichaelSimone 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that it helps! I know that it can be really hard to make up your mind, it's so easy to be confused. But it's a good way to know yourself better!
@1madphoenix
@1madphoenix 4 жыл бұрын
Wow out of all of the INFP descriptions this was the best! My personality is 200 percent INFP.
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