19 THINGS YOUR DAD SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOU THAT HE NEVER DID | Richard Cooper

[@21s]

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[@ddero1979]

I'll be there yes sir.

[@mediatool9596]

Tell me right now how to make $270 a day, every single day and ill start immediately.

[@GrzegorzDurda]

Find a woman that likes Anchovies and you're set ;) That or find a woman of God.

[@matthewnelson325]

@@ddero1979 Make sure you take notes ! kzbin.info/www/bejne/joHbkJd9naaVr6s

[@redress5]

gawd you guys are like that tom cruise character in Magnolia. Cringey balding guy.

[@TheWinterShadow]

No matter who you listen to....all of these cats are basically saying the same thing....'get on your own purpose".

[@chanceklein]

Facts

[@rohanadesara3775]

I think you listen to the saint and the sinner!

[@aliensystem1528]

it's the key

[@tadeuszarciuch9681]

Thanks for the heads up. Almost wasted fifty minutes.

[@sbeast64]

I agree, it's incredibly important. There's some tips and pointers in this post for those interested: Finding Your Life's Purpose - www.reddit.com/r/MindOverMatterScott/comments/a114mp/finding_your_lifes_purpose/

[@eknoke01]

Finding a woman that doesn’t take selfies... umm sure. Easier finding Bigfoot.

[@stefanandersen7726]

This makes me love My girlfriend even more, thanks u made my day

[@ecsancho]

A few selfies is not a problem, it's the constant attention whoring and narcissism

[@cliffordwaight2412]

Is nothing wrong finding the woman just don't keep them remember fellas if you put this in your head it's just your turn and then keep it moving

[@eknoke01]

stefan andersen your a lucky bloke 👍🏼

[@Re3iRtH]

I have 3 long term girlfriends in my life that don't. Come to Asia and Hawaii.

[@Football__Junkie]

I would add my 20th rule: anything you need to learn about or figure out is found in a library. Rich guys have big libraries. Broke guys have big TVs.

[@laurenbatson5918]

Smart guys have big libraries, stupid guys have big tvs. (Because rich people can have both. Poor people can have neither.)

[@MindBodyStorm]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rahimgaymon4243]

Facts!!!!...people don’t understand the point of a personal library , my mother told me this , if you read one book a month, you learn 12 new things a year ...which is more knowledge attained than a full time student

[@clheppermann]

I watched this on my tv

[@MayBlake_Channel]

@@rahimgaymon4243 I don't get it. Why 13? Shouldn't it be 12?

[@pietroaretino6390]

How about: 1) I love you son 2) I'm proud of you son 3) How are you doing son? 4) It's gonna be ok son. I wish I got one of those from my dad.

[@hamothemagnif8529]

There was a great meme with four panels over a boy’s life. In each, the boy would call out to his dad but the dad would say, “not now, son”. In the final panel the father finally says, “hey, son”. The boy’s response, “Ruff!” (Dressed as a blue dog)

[@dickieblench5001]

Can't recall those 4 either

[@briggsc4]

My dad never did this but I make sure I tell my son regularly you do the same and correct the generational curse.

[@jarroddavid8352]

If you didn’t have that man then become that man

[@JulesJules707]

5) Are you winning son?

[@AGRANT716]

Ironically, my mother would have never allowed my father to teach me these things.

[@21s]

That's why you're here. Welcome brother!

[@abelbabel8484]

Same deal, brother. Bet you anything it was about control. But the cat's out of the bag now, time to become what we were always meant to be.

[@JustMe-mg6vw]

To espouse these values will never make you popular w/ married couples. This is very great advice.

[@jorgefigueroa2231]

Really? Why so? Why was your mother against this?

[@AGRANT716]

@@jorgefigueroa2231 my mother was the domineering type. She treated my father like shit. He stayed for his kids. Subsequently, I've always dated these types of women. I truly didn't know any better. I'm sure I'm not unique.

[@UntilItIsFinished]

"Women don't care about the struggle. They hang out at the finish line, and ****** the winners."

[@strayaDaz]

So fking true. When you stop winning it can change real quick

[@brycejohansen7114]

Here's another tip: "Time is precious, so scroll to that one commenter that tells you the whole list"

[@karencourt5684]

Aslong as its not this bozo.he doesnt know squat

[@lumpystilskin5367]

Yes I will avoid people who has low attention span such as yourself

[@yesihavealastname1562]

@karen court how is he a bozo, when everything he's saying is right?! yeah, there might be a touch of misogyny there, but he's speaking facts. can you disprove anything he's saying?

[@karencourt5684]

@@lumpystilskin5367 good avoid this bozo he knows squat

[@stfu6397]

@@karencourt5684 I mean, your first name says it all…

[@Imokyourok440]

A few years ago I did a little experiment. I told 5 friends my bank card wasn’t working and I needed gas to get home. Not one person helped me. Not because they are completely hateful. The reason for them Not helping me is because none of them had 5 bucks to spare. Most didn’t have a car. 5 bucks. At that point I realized why my finances were in disarray. I hung out with people who didn’t have shit and didn’t care. I was the average of my 5 closest friends. I had to jettison them from my daily life. Amazingly, my financial situation improved.

[@bluezy1]

How’s your relationship with them now?

[@Imokyourok440]

@@bluezy1 I don’t see them very often anymore. Several have moved. I just worked a lot and drifted out of their lives. Without me needing them to help me obtain drugs, they served no real purpose.

[@alanroberts6918]

I delivered pizza one time poor folks tip rich folks tip very little.

[@justinbouscher3066]

@@alanroberts6918 men tip more than women though in my experience but expect more tips when they're servers...

[@alanroberts6918]

If you have lunch with a millionaire , you should pay for lunch?

[@firefighterps2]

'If you put women on a pedestal, they will surely look down on you'

[@AmbuBadger]

Yup. Or as the other saying goes, "Treat her like a star and she'll treat you like a fan."

[@robertwasinger2286]

I absolutely put nobody or anything above me but God.

[@AmbuBadger]

@@robertwasinger2286 ^^truth right there-- you can worship God or you can worship women, but only one will take you to the Promised Land... The latter will drag your ass through a nasty divorce...

[@crowncontrol3637]

@@robertwasinger2286 i say we are all our own god.

[@keepcreationprocess]

No, this is not correct...

[@bartanderson328]

I never had a dad so I had to learn everything by myself. It was difficult for me to start an adult life. Thanks for the video, very interesting! :)

[@tharrell5544]

Better no dad than a bad one. We had an abusive alcoholic who terrorized us. A war zone.

[@midnull6009]

There are plenty of ppl who had no dads and they managed. Depends on you how hard of a toll it took. But don't expect sympathy just because other people have or had what you didn't. The most difficult challanges in life builds a person, either up or down but that depends on you.

[@danegilnss9056]

Feel ya, I can ad an alcoholic mother and no father ;) Always felt am 10-15 years behind everybody else. Soon to 40, did ok still ;)

[@morpheus6394]

Seek the Kingdom of God that is within you, you will be fine. Jesus Loves you man, trust the small voice in you and doubt every thought.

[@josezamora1639]

I’m just learning

[@christianbevins6069]

“You’re suppose to be a compliment to my life. Not the focus.” I’ll be burning that quote in my head Great stuff here.

[@garyfrancis6193]

Supposed to be a complement.

[@BitsyBee]

Well... if you're married, it's the hub of your wheel. If your primary relationships suck, your career, and definitely your children will be negatively impacted.

[@karencourt5684]

Dont burn it in your head .just burn his garbage

[@sencrew5293]

@@karencourt5684 what?

[@perpetualretrograde9764]

@@karencourt5684 Single mom much?

[@ArtursPavulans]

270 dollars a day? Sir, you are delusional, an average man can't get that kind of money, this is not a fairy tale where you have to "believe in yourself and work hard", no, where you live, who your parents are, your race, nationality, whether you were sick as a child, the way you were brought up, which school you went, most of the things that make you a millionaire are not in your control.

[@cbillings85]

Every single one of those excuses you just mentioned are exactly that, excuses. I will tell you this: Law of attraction is real and your doubts are your limitations. I started a business 3 years ago with absolutely nothing to my name and $100 in my bank account. Head of household with 4 kids living paycheck to paycheck. Heart attack at 27 from stress. Fast forward to today and I’m making no less that $1250 a day, sometimes $5k. It took lots of adjustments. I got knocked down so many times. I stayed the course because failure was not an option if I wanted to feed my kids. Sometimes you have to get real primal. Succeed or die type of shit. You have to adopt a different mindset and not see yourself as “an average man”. Separate yourself from the people that will hold you back. Don’t tell everyone your business and keep your nose down and your eyes forward. Make big, DETAILED goals and let creative part of your brain do the work in the background. TRUST YOUR INTUITION. Identify your gifts (which I know you have) and exploit them instead of finding the excuses as to why you may or may not fail. One more thing I will say and can’t stress how important this is: work out. Get up early and run every morning. Building a strong body takes a crazy amount of discipline. Because it’s hard but you do it anyways. That discipline will carry over into every area of your life. Because shit will get hard, but you’ll do it anyways.

[@jasonmarachabond7598]

I'm 18. This is saving my life

[@yesihavealastname1562]

you're very lucky! i'm 28, and would be better off today if i had this advice at your age. here are some other tips that will make you effective as a man: 1. always honor your word 2. hold yourself accountable for what is in your control (take responsibilty for your actions, control your emotions, such as directing your aggression constructively, improve yourself daily (especially when it comes to building your financial acumen), etc.) 3. be honest with yourself; you have to know your fears and limitations to conquer them 4. life has its ups and downs, so take life as it comes 5. practice self-defense 6. present yourself properly (good manners, acceptable physical appearance, showing gratitude to people who are good to you by also being there for them, etc.) 7. learn how to communicate as effectively as you can 8. help others as much as you like, but don't be afraid to confront them if they try to take advantage of you, and don't overextend yourself. 9. be ambitious in your own way. move forward and improve yourself at a pace that is good for you, but never shy away from competition. men are built to compete! 10. love yourself!!! yes, you should try to be the best version of yourself, but don't compare yourself with others. this also includes enjoying when you do manly things (building something from scratch, fixing something, (___)ing a woman damn good, even something as boorish as belching louder than your friend or male relative, etc.)

[@jasonmarachabond7598]

@@yesihavealastname1562 wow thank you so much for this advice man 🙏🏽

[@yesihavealastname1562]

@@jasonmarachabond7598 you're welcome. and like Rich said, use the advice!

[@hemisuperzee1287]

I never realized how much fatherless boys/young men miss out. Seems to be more and more vids on this subject matter. My dad was fricken awesome, I appreciate that more as life goes on. RIP.

[@Parktrizzle]

This is why I care so much about redpill/mgtow/men's rights. As a young man who couldn't get this wisdom, and paid dearly for it. I would spare every boy that, and I'm 100% certain the world would be better for it.

[@robpolaris7272]

I grew up without my father even sending a birthday card my entire childhood. I grew up with a single Mom who was affectionate but abused alcohol and drugs. I married a single mother and raised her 4 year old daughter. I had 14 misrable years of marriage but stayed to care for "our" daughter. I adopted her at 5. I took her skiing, camping, surfing, kayaking, to Girl Scouts, church, Father/Daughter dances, taught her to ride a bike, rollerblade, change a car tire, how to tie her shoes, cook, ju jitsu, hook up speakers, use tools, do math, U.S. History, Psychology, Philosophy, Theology and a thousand other things. She was loved and treated as my daughter. Once we got divorced after my ex cheated on me, the daughter I raised for 18 years never spoke to me again. I was not invited to her college grad (which I paid half)or her wedding. To this day I would help her if she called me because I love her as my daughter. But I do resent the way she has treated me. I wish I had known at 26 I was nothing more than a rental/bank/nanny. If I had a son I would tell him to NEVER marry a single mother starting out. No matter how well she treats you before you marry, you will NEVER be her first priorty. At least when you have kids together with someone their first priority will be your kids! To a single mother you will ALWAYS be expendable. If you are a single man with no kids, find a single woman. Not divorced, not a single mom, not a woman with kids that live with the father. You will end up regretting it.

[@allenclark4235]

@Ismael Barrera I do feel like a strong male role model is pretty crucial. Something will teach those lessons and if not a respectable wholesome source there will be issues...

[@hendriknieuwenhuizen4397]

Too many children are badly influenced by their school mates and friends. How can a parent protect them from bad characters?

[@danch10]

Same here he was hard working as fuck and worked with his hands as a builder. He now owns 5million worth of assets. He gave me nothing but hard lessons from a man. I respect him a lot now and we get on great

[@financialeducation4433]

Most people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year, and underestimate what they can accomplish in a decade. -Bill Gates

[@AndrewEvenstar]

Leave his name out though lol

[@bazoozoo1186]

those are NOT his own words

[@gaildorries4064]

Screw Bill Gates

[@samlee2562]

@@gaildorries4064 nah screw fake news and misinformation instead! ✊😅

[@rockjeep_tj9692]

@@samlee2562 Ok ill give you that....screw fake news and Bill Gates, he's a weird ass psychopath!

[@drimblewedge2789]

What your espousing and teaching was given to me for free on childhood/teenage fishing trips. I was blessed with an old school WWII generation father. The content of your lecture was everyday typical conversation with dad on a daily basis. What is considered as toxic masculinity today was wisdom in my family life. I wish the best for all of you.

[@megacrocosaurus]

it's like you people are using cheatcodes lol

[@nzonesportssocal2458]

32:00 "People never get jealous of losers." Excellent.

[@ulriklange3924]

.. what is a Loser??? ... Money is nothing!!

[@staceycole3007]

If you truly think about it for a bit, that's very incorrect. We live in a world where people, no matter their circumstance, are always hating and being jealous of people on several different levels. One man's winner is another man's loser. It's all contextual. Billionaires are some of the most depressed people on the planet, because they can't feel true satisfaction, and their fear of loss is actually increasing. They think more stuff, money, attenttion, etc, will make them happy, but it doesn't. they are screwed mentally. The real challenge in life is not to conquer the world, but to conquer the desire to conquer the world.

[@MichaelGustavsonArchitect]

It would be better if we didn't make decisions based on temporary negative emotions like "Jealousy."

[@marcd3659]

@@MichaelGustavsonArchitect jealously is one of the 7 traits of a Loser

[@liamc1102]

@@staceycole3007 Go talk to a Billionaire face to face instead of meeting them on the internet.

[@leogol6045]

Me, who doesn't have a father: *desperately scribbling everything down*

[@MayBlake_Channel]

Awe

[@MajorRager504]

Sometimes they end up not being the person you thought they were. Keep on keeping on, dude.

[@FuNkU59]

Glad I’m not alone on the note taking! Men need more input from Men

[@MrRevern]

Haha same

[@itsspoodini]

@@MajorRager504 sometimes the mothers keep them away and poison their child's thoughts. I had this growing up

[@alexfrazier6948]

"Poor planning on YOUR part doesn't constitute an emergency on MY PART." GENIUS!

[@prathamsrivastava1367]

"Poor planning on YOUR part doesn't constitute an emergency on MY PART. and also, Poor planning on MY part doesn't constitute an emergency on YOUR PART. Still, we can work together if it is possible."

[@haselbasil2488]

You realize this is a very old saying, he did not make it up himself.

[@alexfrazier6948]

@@haselbasil2488 totally aware. Nothing new under the sun duke. It just resonated with my spirit so much at the time I said the above comment homie.

[@MrJoeyWorldWide]

I had this as a bumper sticker in my tech office 17 or 18 years ago and I know even back then, some folks saw that as offensive but I didn't care, because of the chaos in the other offices it had to be done

[@jameshamilton9191]

Heard this from my career Marine (E-9) BiL along with another gem... "Proper prior planning prevents piss poor performance"

[@wampaswomps3975]

I’m blue collar making 60k per year driving a dump truck hauling clay to a tile factory. It’s plenty of money for a 36-year-old who has everything paid off and has no intentions of marrying or having kids. I may not be putting a dent in the universe, but I’m certainly putting a dent in the earth! 😂

[@ShinobiShowdown]

Men in general are better off not marrying women or settling down because woken complain all the time and usually never really appreciate what you do for them. I know I was married before she was miserable and using me to get a higher status.

[@mandurian792]

Good luck when they clay mine ain’t up anymore.

[@donaldsmith9642]

@@mandurian792 well since he doesn't have a women or kids, so long as he has a saving safety net then it won't matter

[@ARdave311]

60k and no wife and kids!? You are richhh as hell!!

[@jesseespinoza7554]

That's bout the douchest thing I've ever heard anybody say smh. If you can help, then help. I'm embarrassed for these guys when they take this level of pride in public 😢 How quickly the forget that time they were down n out😮? Every man alive was gifted their ability, and life! Tell me? Did you decide to be born? Were you privileged enough to choose your parents?? I think not. Try and think of it this way; "If I lost everything tomorrow, I couldn't even be mad, cause it was all gift in the first place.

[@phoqueewe7230]

I use to listen to Rich. Most of what he speaks is truth-ish but nothing amazing. Where he fails is speaking to men in a pretentious downturn. 9% of Americans earn 6 figures and he basically shames you as if you are failing as a man if you don't accomplish this. I've earned well above that but would never talk down to a man who doesn't. Many studies have shown that a single male that earns $70,000 isn't going to have a better quality of life earning more. His mindset on FU money is misplaced. I can see where it stems. He has the same personality. When you speak Rich your words should come from a place of reality that can be applied to the majority of men. Not just your lived reality. The one thing I find throughout his videos and mindset is applying to the angry, hurt, and jaded men. This will get views and subscribers but will not lead these men of all ages to a place of balance.

[@HouseofGausss]

Truer words have never been spoke.... THIS, THIS is exactly what I was thinking when I watched this video. Thanks a ton for saying this, god bless you. And yes, you are 100% right, his anger towards women and his arrogance from making a lot of money is just too personal and not necessary for everyone.

[@phoqueewe7230]

@@HouseofGausss his last convention speech he had written "stretched out floppy vaginas". I have absolutely no respect for this man. What adult male talks this way and expects to be taken seriously. Hopefully these men he's fooled for the moment will find better.

[@phoqueewe7230]

@@HouseofGausss the other thing he spoke of was TRT testosterone replacement therapy. He was misleading again. This will not make you look fabulous and solve depression amd other issues unless it is a direct result of that. It definitely helps. But it's not a magic potion. You have to put in the work. It's not steroids. With steroids you can get results literally doing nothing. And the spray vs the pill. I take the injection and do it myself. Injections are the best. Side effects, increased blood pressure, sleep issues, high red blood cell count, bloating, etc... you have to be monitored and either donate blood or have it drawn from your doctor. He makes it sound like what I call unicorn theory. I really feel he likes the sound of his own voice regardless of the misinformation, lack of information, and toxic language.

[@phoqueewe7230]

@@HouseofGausss thank you, bless you as well, and you're welcome.

[@shessoheavy6130]

It's all about "niche-ing." Any content creator worth his salt finds the demographic that's their background and they identify with and run with it. He was that angry, hurt, jaded guy. He says so. Maybe he still is, who knows. In the online world you can't be all things to all people, in this case, all men. There would be no way to differentiate yourself and it would be bland, very basic stuff. As a result, he would lose money, or at least not make as much. It's all about marketing. Yes, he sometimes comes across as smug, condescending, etc. However, he does add value with what he has said here, and God knows it's needed by thousands of men.

[@supertruthfortynine]

I'm in my 40s now. Looking back I can't think of one woman I've ever been involved with who brought anything to my life worthwhile. They were all a massive drain of my time and energy. Not to mention a financial sink hole. All of them!

[@kroelie8139]

I’m so sad for you, that you didn’t meet the right people, I am so shocked to hear the red pilled men, it’s sounds like something is very wrong in the US. You should try another country

[@asphalthedgehog6580]

It seems to me the money issue is related to the English speaking countries. It's all money related, marriages kept together by money, not by the pleasure of being married. To be honoust I don't see this a lot in the Netherlands, ok, people get divorced, but they mostly live on walking distance from eachother so that the children can walk to the other parent. My father was a kind of super alpha, and that was not a very pleasant situation, causing my mom raising me to be careful, turning me in a sort of beta. My sister tells me I was an alpha male when young. So if you're an alpha man, do raise your children the way you think is right, and I see this happening at home. I get angry at my son's, my wife says: you shouldn't do that, just talk it over... Do not defend them, let them defend themselves! And it appears I was right. They listen. I'm with the same girl () for 35 years now, and I see things on the 'market' have changed. I hope my boys can differentiate between a woman like their mother - who has a higher education than me, works 48 hours a week, does >75% of the household and cooks every evening, spends almost no money, runs twice a week and hasn't gained any weight in all those years, doesn't complain if I'm lying under a car the whole weekend and knows a man's needs- and the trash walking around. And I, well I look like Richard now 61 years of age. That might help... I just cannot imagine women in general have become bad in 30 years.

[@matthewnelson325]

Some times you find out the hard truths of life in college or military bases ! : ( kzbin.info/www/bejne/joHbkJd9naaVr6s

[@supertruthfortynine]

@@matthewnelson325 Ive got over 2 decades of dating and relationships experience racked up. I've lived with 3 different birds (as in 3 serious relationships) - 2 of them LTRs and the other lasted 2 years. I've had an assortment of short term stuff including flings, being the bloke in affairs, and all the inbetweens. So I think I have a decent amount of experience of being involved with women. Here's what Ive learnt... They DONT ever love you and care for you quite like you think they do. They will and certainly do LIE! Repeatedly. Straight to your face. No hesitation. They do and will cheat on you. Repeatedly. Without remorse. And when discovered, theyll think of a reason why they did it which will involve either an ex or you being the cause. They will coerce you and manipulate you with regards to money. She will gladly spend your money and receive it from you, but will be reluctant to spend her money back in your direction. And should she meet abother man that is financially more succesful than you, she will jump ship. Every time. So there you are. Now you know.

[@stevewoodson4635]

Captain America civil engineer job

[@santo9032]

I didn’t have my real dad, just step dad that didn’t help me much. Thanks to the internet and all the great men out there for sharing their Wisdom and Knowledge that made me the great young man I am today. 💯🔥

[@jere478]

Me 2. Check out Jordan peterson if you havent yet.

[@BernieSanders-bn5dk]

Me too especially as a poc people love to humiliate and emasculate you as it is, So imagine not having any masculinity around you.

[@justincredible5406]

Just don't flatter yourself :P

[@ingridarvidsson7597]

What?

[@jbaxter55]

I agree with a lot of the content but I am shocked by the arrogance of the speaker. I wonder does he have a family. I am 68 and married for 42 years and know that life is not so black and white. I agree that so many women are so into themselves these days,that they could not make a good partner.

[@ulgk]

Being married doesn't mean credibility. It does not make what you have to say important.

[@briantrought525]

There's plenty of material of value here, but be discerning as to the material that you use. Not all of it will add value to your life.

[@brendanking6110]

Just like your opinion

[@xybersurfer]

@@brendanking6110 Brian makes a valid point

[@lelamaciolek1166]

Yep. Some of it is advise that will give women red flags if you follow. If I see a man using women that he has no LTR goals with, he looks like BAD marriage material. Men tend to practice predator or protector traits. My kids don't need a predator sleeping down the hall.

[@james.yt.00]

I felt the same way. He has a lot of blind spots and funny one liners, but not exactly sure that they add value to people’s lives. Just because he say something with arrogance, doesn’t make it true.

[@anthonyhughes8026]

@@brendanking6110 and ... yours ... about his?

[@taliesinhalliday2483]

Many of us never had dads because our mums forced them away and used the law to do it.

[@paulmwai5988]

It's so disgusting how women can be selfish

[@guyo1]

@@paulmwai5988 true💯

[@deaddropsd1972]

Bummer. My folks divorced but saw my Dad regularly.

[@morpheus6394]

Bruh

[@offgridhomesteaders863]

Yep, Same here

[@newguy6935]

Well, that just about knocks 99% of women out of the running.

[@MikeBarbarossa]

100% of your possibilities are knocked out if you are not a handsome Chad

[@newguy6935]

@@MikeBarbarossa Not too sure about that. There are plenty of women that date less good-looking guys because they don't want the competition.

[@hemisuperzee1287]

@@newguy6935 100% true, but some average guys will keep complaining anyway...........and complaining is not attractive to women. Many women do not trust good looking guys. Note: good looking and well dressed are not the same. An average looking guy who is well dressed is upping his game for the ladies. Women like style, most men dont (I dont haha).

[@rudy1999]

@@MikeBarbarossa Not really, I live in Eastern Europe and pretty women here are with average and ugly dudes all the time. I don't know any guys who had problems getting girls because of their looks.

[@Ematuresco]

@@rudy1999 Srbija il Poljska ? :D

[@patrickburns4821]

I wonder where Biblical scripture falls into any of these equations.....NOWHERE!!

[@harmhoeks5996]

53:45 "I'm a younger guy, most women my age are attention-seeking women on Instagram and all that stuff. So like, am I just screwed?" Yes.

[@matthewnelson325]

Some times you find out the hard truths of life in college or military bases ! : ( kzbin.info/www/bejne/joHbkJd9naaVr6s

[@budoyong1]

hahahahah. even in ur 30s u cn still see attention seeking woman though hahahha

[@RealLadi228]

Diamonds aren't easily found..this is why they are a rare find..don't give up don't settle. Once found treat her as the treasure she is......

[@OneSelfActualized]

Don’t give up kid. Lots of American men are retiring in in places like Colombia and Brazil with some of the most beautiful women in the world. Live like a king 👑 for under $1000 a month

[@RichWilco]

@@RealLadi228 and then watch as she destroys your life because she found someone better after ten minutes scrolling on Tinder.

[@SoReacts]

“You started off as a winner. You telling me you can’t end as one?” Just absolutely blew my mind like a Christopher Nolan film. Wow.

[@manny2493]

haha tenet

[@SoReacts]

@@manny2493 Absolutely lol

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Yes sir...ASCENDING THE APEX

[@benhartart9487]

Everyone ends well it’s called Dissolution

[@MrDeykar]

That thing was actually not that smart because by that logic literally every person born is a winner.

[@Remington-wl7jp]

RIP to that guy at the end who never got to ask his question

[@RDA8191]

Young men, take this advice seriously, especially the advice about choosing a wife or you could end up in my position. Business owner, making well into 7 figures a year, and I'm completely trapped. She is very aware she has the full weight of the government behind her and I will be destroyed if I get a divorce, which I desperately need. It sucks, guys. I can't come to terms with giving half of my business that I worked so hard for to someone who was not only zero help throughout the process, but was a massive burden, always trying to bring me down and belittle my accomplishments. Do not marry a woman just because she's a 10 physically. It was a huge mistake. You'll get tired of fucking the same 10 everyday anyway.

[@marionmjones3415]

Avoid women with mommy issues as well, a mother teachers her daughter about self love. If a woman don't love herself therefore she will never love you!

[@MalcolmRandall]

A woman can love herself All she wants. Will she throw some love Your way? THAT is the question.

[@marionmjones3415]

@@MalcolmRandall that is a good question. But really i can give a rat's behind if she loves me or not just as long as she respects me!

[@akaLuptonPittman]

This is not exclusively true. Her father, from what I’ve experienced, has possibly a greater influence. I speak from personal experience

[@JeGill]

AMEN

[@marionmjones3415]

@Matthew Baum My sentiments exactly. My ex girlfriend was abandoned by her mother as an infant she is a full blown narcissist. 🏃 🏃🏃 far far away from whom- men with mommy issues.🤷

[@JamesStaaks8182]

Where were you 20 years ago? You could’ve saved me a lot of grief. Anyway, great video.

[@erichayes2890]

WOW!!! Same here!!!!

[@francisco1495]

more than likely he was on the same boat going through bad experiences, that's how he came to be

[@johnnybodank959]

I had the same thought, but I don't think I would've listened to his advice back then. Seems like you have to go through some shit first before searching for a new way of thinking.

[@RogueBrit]

Ain't that the truth

[@matthewnelson325]

Some times you find out the hard truths of life in college or military bases ! : ( kzbin.info/www/bejne/joHbkJd9naaVr6s

[@theeangelman]

Great talk Rich. I became a entrepreneur at age 50 (now 61) after 28 years of working in fortune 500 world. As you mentioned it is hard hard work for the first couple of years. Absolutely worth it fellas. Also you talked about TRT, I started my therapy 3 years ago. One of the best decisions I ever made. Older you gets younger you back. After years of laziness I got busy working out 5 to 6 days a week and looked forward to it. Lost 50 lbs and now my physique has changed for the better. Like you said Rich lift heavy shit put it down and do it over and over again you won't regret it fella's.

[@karencourt5684]

Well if your basing your life on him i feel sorry for you.but if you changed because u woke up and decided using your own brain then good for you

[@lilid5016]

@@karencourt5684 he fixed his own life, that’s a win period

[@lilid5016]

@@karencourt5684 sometimes even the people you hate most have that golden nugget you personally need to succeed , in this case maybe the dude just took the golden nuggets and successfully applied it, it worked for him

[@HTSW]

@@karencourt5684 Why Karen, what's wrong with him? Don't worry, you can tell me, I'm the manager here.

[@karencourt5684]

@@HTSW i dont know u so why should i talk to you

[@dingusdingus2152]

My dad never told me any of this stuff because he himself never knew any of it. He was the ultimate beta. Had I known the red pill info 50 years ago it would have spared me incalculable suffering

[@isaacmaldonado6572]

TONY STARK BUILT THIS IN A CAVE... WITH A BOX OF SCRAPS

[@deejin25]

Don't forget it's a fictional character, building a fictional cave, in a fictional nonexistent universe.

[@nathanielyoung7418]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@shaund9790]

😂😂😂

[@mediatool9596]

"Im not Tony Stark"...

[@FA45ACP]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@williamjeffreys2980]

Number 2 is a great point. Typically "success" is not one big break, it's all the small choices you make every day. The choice to not eat that candy bar, the choice to work out instead of going drinking, the choice to save and invest rather than buy that boat, the choice to study and learn new skills rather than simply watching TV. Every day. Consistency.

[@rubydooby1679]

I'm going to save and invest and still get that boat. I work out and still go out drinking with friends and women. I study and learn new skills and still watch (some) TV. Everything that is in this world that I like, I go get. I'm drinking the good champagne and flying in comfort. I go out with the hot chicks no fugly's. It's all out there for the taking. You must put yourself in the position to get it. Why live an austere life when we are only here once(as far as we know)....?

[@williamjeffreys2980]

@@rubydooby1679 If you can do those things successfully, hats off to you. You are an eternal being, whether you believe it or not. Subject for another time. I wish you well in your pursuits.

[@FatManJackson]

@@williamjeffreys2980 I love you

[@FatManJackson]

@@williamjeffreys2980 forever

[@johnhendricks8140]

Thats so true.

[@JustinCrediblename]

#22: "women actually aren't the same as men"

[@justustherighteous371]

Every man kinda knew that since kindergarten but we were never talked to about it so we kinda forgot because we were being talked into believing things like equality in school

[@tonyjk]

Yup. Both are wired differently

[@stevewoodson4635]

PBJ sandwich period

[@nextlevelamazing7865]

Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, This is for those who are waiting for marriage or already married or in between marriages, While you are waiting, here is Scripture To Keep you on track, 1st Scripturally you both must be each other's first spouse ever, If you happen to be a 2nd, 3rd spouse Scripturally God does not even see the marriage because no divorced person is Scripturally they "CAN NOT" re-marry no one new, they Scripturally "MUST" go back to their very first spouse, Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONVILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all, ●●●●●●●●●●●●● Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage* ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER! ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV* “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. *LUKE 16:18 NKJV* 18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery. ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■ *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV* 10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. 12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV* 39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV* 16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously. *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV* Jesus' Teaching on Divorce 19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there. 3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?" 4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,' 5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." 7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery." ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● These Scriptures apply to 1. a male and female marriage only 2. those who are married to their very first spouse ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses V/R

[@AruberutoSan]

@@nextlevelamazing7865 please I've already read the same response from you twice. Stop copy-pasting!!! Be original! Be free and leave religion for yourself when people is talking abou something else, out of respect!

[@steveorick2271]

There were a lot of red flags that I noticed when I was engaged.i ignored them because I was really in love with her. After 5 years of us being together,I realized she was never going to stop cheating on me so I broke up with her.hard lesson learned,but I learned it really well.

[@heinuchung8680]

I am sorry to hear that, take some time to work on yourself and build a better life for yourself and better person.

[@rickarda9232]

Several times? Jeesh... How do you cope with that.... I thought cheating was a one-strike-rule for most men, universally?

[@steveorick2271]

@@rickarda9232 just being dumb I guesd

[@rickarda9232]

​@@steveorick2271 atleast you own up to it. Btw. How did you catch her cheating if I can be so rude(?) to ask?

[@strayaDaz]

You cant control others behaviour. not your fault. Just move on. Never stay with a cheater.

[@adammcallister3293]

"Your mom is a psycho and if I broke up with her I'd never see you again and she intentionally trapped me but I love you anyways"

[@TheGra325]

Literally the exact same conversation I just had with my teenage son

[@lamourgladygesner4583]

@@TheGra325 damn you teaching him the game

[@stevewoodson4635]

Stéphane King Présentation

[@stevewoodson4635]

@@TheGra325 distance primaire Lena.

[@kristenmarie9248]

"Intentionally trapped me", 🤣😂🤣😂 You had your 30 seconds of fun.

[@gybx4094]

I didn't have a Dad in the house, but I got raised by the United States Navy for 6 years.

[@morganmorse2086]

You were raised by an Uncle.

[@jonwojcik4494]

Ignore the other comments, thank you for your service!

[@samuelmmmk181]

You were already grown before they came into the equation

[@AlejandroGonzalez-wo5fk]

Same but I had my jiu jitsu team

[@philr182]

Same...

[@ryanday9737]

Great men have the wisdom to help others overcome their limitations. Weak men are experts at pointing out the flaws in others while telling you how awesome they are.

[@ryanday9737]

@@Wahhhhhhhh-hhh That's it? Come on, you can do better than that.

[@charliehobson33]

I notice this too. The most judgemental are likely the most insecure. The least forgiving also seem to have more that needs forgiving. Also in my experience, the least trusting are more likely to be liars.

[@masterpain7742]

@@charliehobson33 hmmmm

[@Philosophyoftruth_]

This is gold. I’ve already taken a screenshot of this.

[@slicknick5387]

Rich Cooper and Coach Greg Adams are two voices I desperately needed growing up. I’ve read both their books and had to learn the hard way with a lot of the things they discuss. The importance of their message cannot be stressed enough fellas!!! 🙌👏✊

[@rocstarang5747]

The only two guys I listen to in this space on the regular. Peace brother ✌️

[@victorokumu3611]

You forgot to mention about Rollo Tomassi.The Rational Male. Perhaps you haven't interacted with his Articles or podcasts.

[@garybulwinkle82]

Those of us who had hard core, blue pilled manginas as fathers had to learn the lessons about women the hard way! I was lucky and had two sisters! I thought to myself, "What idiot would want to tie himself to that!" And my sisters were beautiful back in their time!!!

[@chanceortolano]

Never had a father, and was raised by that exact same woman he said to stay away from, no wonder why my heads fucked up

[@PDZ2028]

But you can change! Chase excellence and be the best.

[@sheiladawson1648]

At some point we have to stop blaming others and start making changes and taking the risks necessary to become a person without regrets

[@nextlevelamazing7865]

Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, This is for those who are waiting for marriage or already married or in between marriages, While you are waiting, here is Scripture To Keep you on track, 1st Scripturally you both must be each other's first spouse ever, If you happen to be a 2nd, 3rd spouse Scripturally God does not even see the marriage because no divorced person is Scripturally they "CAN NOT" re-marry no one new, they Scripturally "MUST" go back to their very first spouse, Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONVILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!! May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all, ●●●●●●●●●●●●● Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage* ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER! ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● *MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV* “Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. *LUKE 16:18 NKJV* 18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery. ■■■■■■■■■■■■■■■ *1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV* 10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. 12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife? *1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV* 39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. *MALACHI **2:16** NKJV* 16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously. *MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV* Jesus' Teaching on Divorce 19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there. 3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?" 4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,' 5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'? 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." 7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery." ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● These Scriptures apply to 1. a male and female marriage only 2. those who are married to their very first spouse ☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture ●●●●●●●●●●●●●●● God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses V/R

[@CornerTalker]

Here's a great list kzbin.info/aero/PLcOdvtrBqYywTMhYOsEPv1qYNaqsxtNfo

[@zinknot]

Same situation for alot of Americans.

[@xwhiteskin]

As a 21 y/o, this is some of the realest information ive ever heard. Makes me mad that i wasnt taught any of this when i was younger, everybody always giving shitty advice that never worked and led to nothing and frustration. Nobody ever teaches you how important your Manlihood is :/

[@FirstLast-gk6lg]

Learn about investment and personal finance, study deep. I started at 21 and it changed my life

[@hectohrz]

I hear ya man

[@Cristian_D63]

Hey man we're learning now. I just turned 23 don't look back wishing you learned sooner look forward and be proactive to make sure you don't look back and think the same thing.

[@xwhiteskin]

@@Cristian_D63 very tru, gotta remember this

[@investertiger3777]

If you are in your twenties then you are still young lol your not technically old till you hit 40. There are older men just getting this information and after divorce and drama. 20 is a clean slate and you get to learn from older mens mistakes.

[@carlosanderson4479]

The hard reality is that not everyone is destined for greatness and/or FU money. Not to say you shouldn't try of course. Once you've gotten shelter and food and clothing quality of life doesn't change much.

[@Nina-hk7ub]

Yes! Many personality traits make for better humans.

[@saathoff1220]

That's very true, I've been poor and I'm now wealthy...you're right

[@davidnorman2134]

Everyone is destined to die and be lost or forgotten in time though

[@cindyrobertson3798]

Carlos yes I have so much value beyond $$ I garden can dehydrate raise chickens and rabbits both egg, food .

[@alexlindekugel8727]

ive never seen or meet a person who dident get out what they put in. the only limit to what u can do is what you want to do.

[@jleezy259]

Treat a woman like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan

[@carlosmoreno3162]

I’m 18, this was an extremely useful video! And the best thing about it is that it is 100% free! Truly grateful for this, thank you! 🙏🏻

[@Hundred.Man.Slayer]

Same

[@natnaeljohn5103]

u pay with your time

[@natnaeljohn5103]

nothing is free amigo

[@davidcoffman9326]

No fair get out of here and figure it out like the rest of us

[@carlosmoreno3162]

@@davidcoffman9326 hahahah, even then, with this learned knowledge, im going to have huge mistakes in my life.

[@TheBlinkyImp]

There are a few decent cheat codes to life: being born intelligent, being born to a wealthy family, being born tall. Unfortunately you have to input them before you start the game.

[@TheTylrBllmn]

Looks like this prick won already

[@mattbog2057]

Dont forget born good looking.Or all of the above.Someone who was born to a wealthy family and is good looking and tall on top of that basically has life on easy mode since the day he was born.

[@QuadraAce]

High - medium - medium. Meh, I'll take it :)) /s Guys, make the most of what you have, and push to develop your strengths.

[@QuadraAce]

@@mattbog2057 add "born healthty"

[@TheGiantMidget]

These things can also be a motivation killer. A lot of people who have these advantages get lazy because they assume they'll always be okay and they don't have to work hard. I know plenty of people who take their gifts for granted and end up doing nothing with them

[@PInk77W1]

When I was 18 I was a high school drop out. My dad had a talk with me. He said I didn’t have to go to college He said I did have to be fair Work hard tell the truth have integrity Pay my taxes, admit when I was wrong Do my best, go to work everyday, be on time And u will have a good life. Now I’m 59 and have my house paid off No drugs no debt never been arrested Traveled the world. Love my job. Walk every day big savings in bank. Still can do 10 pull ups Still can ride my bicycle 100 miles.

[@mechkapechka]

Great man ! Happy for you , i'm on my way too

[@PInk77W1]

@@patriciacole8773 I have a 31yr old daughter. We rode bikes across Italy and China together. Now I have a 1.5yr old granddaughter. I got to see her recently. I tried to pick up my little granddaughter and she said No no. LoL

[@matthewk6731]

Dang! I'm 62 and can no longer do 1 pull up. It's time to get off the couch and stop using pain as an excuse.

[@PInk77W1]

@@matthewk6731 I been practicing daily since I was Nine. LoL. I did 400 pull ups on my 40th birthday.

[@PInk77W1]

@@patriciacole8773 be more specific. I don’t want to offend u

[@Madkre8tor]

Rich really needs to do a spell-check before he presents his slides. - Grammar Nazis

[@mannyotz5980]

My mother use to say to me " never give a woman all of your love, or all of your money" she didn't say why but I never forgot it.

[@johannwilder1437]

Probably because she, herself, is the kind of woman who tries to get all of a man’s love and money...so she was speaking from experience and warning you.

[@chriscook3169]

My mother told me the same fucking thing, they try to prepare you, they know they can be heartless.

[@kyshizzy4438]

Totally accurate - If they think they've squeezed everything out of you (love or money), they will think that's the peak of the "relationship" and see it as to move on. You want them to always think there's more layers to you - more to discover

[@prefix253]

@@johannwilder1437 The reverse is also possible, she may be a woman who doesn't want to drain a man of his time and resources but is aware that most women (especially young women) are this way to some extent. Thus she warns the son to beware of this behavior and never let himself get taken advantage of.

[@Thunder_Yoda]

"Always leave them wanting more."

[@nole8923]

If only there was a Richard Cooper or Rollo Tomassi around when I was in my 20s. Back then all we got was BS and lies from parents, church, pop culture, Disney, etc.

[@SenorTucano]

Amen brother 👏

[@PABeaulieu]

So true. I'm almost 50, and I wish I had a chance to learn about all that content when I was 18, at the end of the 1980's. My life would have been different.

[@shawnbruce6934]

True. We Go Forward From here.

[@LightofBlack]

I am 23 now. I am gonna capitalize on these for all the elder bros.

[@ILoveTheGreyScale]

@Ronald Mitchell this is not clear are you saying a parent teaching a kid religion lead to Millennials? Seems sus. Religion has been around since forever and we are just now developing this terrible generation. Not sure what you were saying there but the increase in secular individuals is much more likely the culprits of such a weak generation. After all they are the children and some grandchildren of Hippies. Raised by the "I don't spank my kids Gen."

[@michaelm9621]

I so needed this when I was 18 years old. Great talk dad.

[@dankashiochosinko1080]

Just call him daddy already 🤣🤣

[@beasthaven1571]

Your welcome grandson.. damn i needed this 4 years ago

[@colinstringer561]

If this came to you now, you need it now. Don't look back brother, look ahead

[@jojotheweirdone]

My dad taught me a new lesson today. Know who you’re dealing with. Meaning know who they are, how they work because they might take advantage of you and take your money or jip you on prices.

[@treyichabod5840]

"Never stop gaming your wife." is probably one of the best advices I ever got in my life. Same goes for women, "Never stop gaming your husband." We could even say more and extend this advice to life in general. "Never stop with self-improvement."

[@refugeeblues2736]

I started working in construction at 18 and it changed my life you get a real perspective of hard work and get a killer work out, you become way hungrier for the world and make friends with older guys who yeah some are dicks but some will teach you how to work in roofing or concrete and you’ll learn from their mistakes it’s the best choice I made I lacked so much in confidence but when you learn how to break things and build things you become confident your body changes doing asphalt at 95 degrees will teach you how to value a cup of water I’m 22 now and I’m going to EMS soon and I feel ready and confident with my self also part of the no dads club *had to edit this * When you pass by where you worked and built a side walk or a roof you get a silence sense of pride

[@universalg_]

respect to you brotha!

[@louisjwiese5515]

Being married with children whilst having a full-time career, is one of the biggest challenges to a man in my opinion. Takes balls to raise a family and at the same time be successful in your endeavours.

[@louisjwiese5515]

@Blake R I have to add to it, that is why I probably don't listen that much to "motivational speakers" talking about being a man, when they have no children, or when they are not involved in raising their own children. Being a father is on a whole other level in my opinion.

[@didiash]

Say that to the women who do it all career, kids and all

[@louisjwiese5515]

@@didiash again, respect. The context for this was for men, which was why I was referring to fathers. But yes, women who do the same also need and deserve respect. In the modern West, good parents, are generally not given the respect they deserve. Well, in my view at least.

[@CAGonRiv]

Rah

[@vladimircurkoski1455]

Nope it's not, it's far away from biggest chelenges man can have but for western men that might be somehow true. I can't even tell is it funny or sad

[@brandonlewis3379]

My father was a Marine and believe me he had no problem telling me most of this stuff in which I thank him for today I am a strong physical and emotional man that I am today

[@whatsthatmagic]

I had a great father in different aspects. He taught me humility and how to treat other people. Unfortunately he wasn’t a driven man and didn’t teach me how to utilize life and most of the topics discussed here. My mom left him for another guy and that was a turning point. I am 23 and have already struggled/struggling with substance abuse and depression, I let a girl hurt me. Thank you for this man, I hope everyone takes a lesson from this.

[@angel.montanopeabody2012]

Ur not alone keep up the progress

[@charlesg7926]

The J media and their religion have convinced white men to be weak, and it’s why often our women don’t respect us. Your father’s “Judeo Christian morals” resulted in him being cheated on and left. This is a hard pill for me to swallow but it’s true

[@petervaldez7413]

I loved this guy in Ironman, Tony Starck totally kicked his ass

[@dannyhassam6514]

😂😂😂

[@Noir0rioN]

Dude.... I KNEW I knew this guy from somewhere! Obidiah fucking Stane!

[@ryanbarker3978]

He built this video in a cave with a box of scraps.

[@RackedandStacked]

tony stank

[@osbaldosaenz8001]

I thought it was triple H

[@dpeagles]

I have always said if a woman has sexy photos available to the public on social media then don't get attached to her. I guess I have been red pilled before I knew what red pill was.

[@matthewnelson325]

Some times you find out the hard truths of life in college or military bases ! : ( kzbin.info/www/bejne/joHbkJd9naaVr6s

[@taimourshah622]

Everyone in the east knows this lol

[@dpeagles]

@@taimourshah622 East what?

[@stevewoodson4635]

Thanks again for all your schedule like tomorrow is still in traffic for iron out early today so great mostly because of operations manager for the next couple weeks now so I'll ñpññ PP for the update on the mountain of operations

[@dpeagles]

@@stevewoodson4635 huh?

[@joecoolioness6399]

Don't take advice from a man in trouble - one of my favs from my Dad.

[@JJ-ri8es]

I’m a mother of a 16 year old son who has told my son most of what you’ve said. But felt as though he wasn’t really paying attention to me. I’m surely going to show him this video. And hopefully he pays attention to EVERYTHING..!!!

[@vprice509]

Show him in another 16 years. He might listen then.

[@vprice509]

@@theterriblepuddle1830 ok

[@sherpaderpdingo3405]

32 year old here. damn....

[@beasthaven1571]

Did he watch it ?

[@Pastor_Sempa]

Well done Jessica

[@tangrui1992]

“More red flags than a Chinese Communist Parade" 🤣🤣🤣 I come from China and I find this amusing!

[@riotact9718]

7:19 dude's describing every woman born after 1990 Based.

[@stevewoodson4635]

Captain America civil engineer job

[@rexmundi273]

Lucky my girlfriend is born in 1990 then.

[@RealLadi228]

Lol...

[@dakotadellafera5850]

I can get on board with this.

[@ant_b7878]

Wow you noticed that too. 🤔

[@rockriver2652]

My 20th rule - beware of self-centered bullshitters. I tried to listen to this guy, but only made it halfway through. He certainly had many good points, but then a bunch of his stuff sounded like the kind of advice a worldly 20 year old would dispense to some high school boys. He walks and talks with confidence (think Eddie Haskell), speaks with authority on topics that he probably isn't much of an authority on (think G. Gordon Liddy), and casually points to Trump as a measure of success in life. I guess we all measure success differently, As far as making your own dent in the universe, when this guy said he had been "in the credit collection business for about 25 years", was that his dent?

[@paleamigo8575]

🤣🤣🤣 I can't speak for anyone but I believe his reference to Trump specifically refers to his ability to "create" wealth, not make money. People must put their feelings aside, study the "strengths" of individuals and ignore the rest. The speaker obviously has mentors and a team of some sort so he should not be expected to be an expert on all topics. If people would stop looking for leaders in other people and focus on the leader within, it would be much easier to accept the fact that you can learn from anyone without putting them on a pedestal.

[@redfolgers2233]

His presentation skills leveled up SUBSTANTIALLY....this is not just a great content but also a case study in how to present/ speak...Thanks Richard

[@thehalvening8942]

@To the point. and minus the spelling errors

[@kirdazemar6931]

Big facts✅

[@stevenharder308]

Mkay

[@kainezillah]

The repetition, the humor, the chill responses; it's all excellently done.

[@Shaggy9763]

This guy is focused in the wrong things, I won't tell my sons most of this stuff. I have 4 sons, a beautiful wife who is my equal partner. Combined we make $130k, we have more than we need and couldn't be happier.

[@wellnative1]

Thank you for sharing. This guy is going to be one of those people that regrets his life decisions on his death bed. Not sharing with my son either.

[@valizaroschi7073]

I agree with you!

[@alanarzate93]

I'm blessed to have both parents till today but I watch these videos because I always want to learn more and understand other people's perspective

[@maumiceli]

I'm 30 and I feel I don't excel at anything. Did so many things, nothing I loved that much that got so much into it that I became an expert in. But I'm determined to find my path. Thank you for your content and this talk.

[@nathanjames2934]

I feel you bro. Gotta risk it for the biscuit! Let’s get after it!!

[@Mr_Sh1tcoin]

Just do the work bro. You don't have to love it and chances are you will hate it but that's not important for now - get the cash being expert at something and then deiverisfy into something you want to do or just early retire at 45. Wanting to 'love' your work is from listening to women give you life advice.

[@Mr_Sh1tcoin]

Don't wait any longer and jump on it. I had my first expert level job at 30 - I am now 37, mortgage and debt free and the plan is to keep working the job (i don't enjoy but get paid very well doing) until 40 and semi retire and just play sport/train full time.

[@strayaDaz]

If you follow your goals the rest falls into place.

[@colinwattonville3744]

“Most men live quiet lives of desperation”

[@Mockduck2020]

Woman too.

[@Lizards_Lounge]

@@Mockduck2020 maybe you, but most complain ALOT and usually someone cares enough to listen.. often even believe or take them seriously...maybe even try help. THAT I think is the point...but I could be wrong.

[@simonholyoak8869]

I think that should be amended to most people

[@sandlotscout6358]

@@Mockduck2020 stop making everything about YOU

[@Mockduck2020]

@@Lizards_Lounge pull a 10 pound baby out of your nether regions and get back to me 🥴

[@timpeterson2738]

Wow I bent the rules, married a single mom on purpose( So I knew she could have kids cause I wanted lots) older guy told me about that when I was about 14. We have 7 healthy, beautiful and damn smart kids, no looses allowed. I make 6 figures and pull in a pension on top. She runs the house but I control the big purchases, no one else touches my vehicles I do all the maintenance. Same as my house, I learned how to do shit early and realized by 15 that I didn't know anything and started educating myself . Drop me anywhere in the world and I'll be fine( Well except the Artic, those Inuit are friggin tough people) wife looks 20 years younger than she is and that is cool at my age( 55) we are best friends and lovers , what can I say I like her still and she likes me. I am lucky to have what I have but worked my mind and body hard to get here.

[@usarmymedic07]

I’m happy for you but just because you found the exception to the rule, does not disprove the rule as a whole. Also, I think there is a differential between a woman with one child and a woman with multiple children from multiple men. Making a mistake more than once speaks volumes

[@PlatinumHustle]

Why the fuck would you want to bring 7 kids into this world? That’s just weird beta shit to me bruh, not even gonna lie. Even celebrities that have hella kids

[@politicalcorrectnessbelong5300]

Right on brother! Dude has some points about self worth I guess, but coming from a single mother I always treated women with the utmost respect. Because why TF wouldn't you.... and what that's gotten me is 15 years with the best woman on earth! Proud to have her by my side. You can be a man in the world and the world at home at the same time.. This guy sounds angry his model didn't work on a few potential marital agreements 🤣🤣

[@FirstnameLastname-jz1ux]

yeah this speaker had some good points but sounds like he has some issues with women. dont ltr with a woman "beneath" you? come on. also, i am a single parent. my wife died when our kids were babies and i raised them myself. if i heard a woman giving a lecture saying "dont date single dads" i wouldn't appreciate that very much.

[@charlesg7926]

I’m not assuming anything, but have you gotten a DNA test for the kids? Because unfortunately, single moms have a very bad habit of USUALLY not having children with the man that she eventually marries. They often partake in the “two-part mating strategy”- aka, kids with 1 guy, and use another man for money and support. She may be breeding with a guy that has the same hair color and skin as you- But are they actually your biological children? You need to get that figured out. If they actually are, then yes, you got lucky and you should be happy. But you shouldn’t stick your head in the sand and try to ignore the possibility entirely. Get a DNA test. if you’re so sure they are yours, then that shouldn’t be a problem. If you’re afraid to get one, you should ask yourself *why*

[@remvolations3733]

Powerful! 45 years and iv be walking backwards blind folded shoes on wrong feet carrying flowers and candy... Thanks pops💪

[@michaelkraft218]

Most of what he said can apply to the mental health community. I do not have a family of my own or a big job, and "Life kicked my ass" anyway. The self-care required to live and survive trauma and depression of any type is of heroic proportions.

[@aquiledelrosa]

Same, what he told is real but im against people that are normal, im very far behind, why should i be willing to do the hard work that people can do easilly, and not just give up?

[@MrHeavy466]

@@aquiledelrosa Give up then. Stop wasting everyone else's time, since you don't value yours.

[@lelamaciolek1166]

"Play them, don't date them". NO don't play them. Sex is an attaching bond. It is meant to be and that is good. The truth is that most people keep going back to where they get it. They end up marrying someone they meant to have as a short time killer. CHOOSE WISELY. And for God's sake these women don't need ANOTHER predator in their life and you don't need to practice being one. Practice being a protector because that is what everyone in your future family will need. If you can see a woman isn't ready for a LTR back off, don't play her.

[@lelamaciolek1166]

@Young Victor One of you men should have bought it up. I REALLY don't want to be anyone's dad, but I'd rather warn men then hear them complain about a life they set up.

[@isabelaguzei8745]

Also: "son, don't abandon your daughter if you don't want to create daddy issues..." Very important, the mother-son relationship and the father-daughter relationship. Other then that, great talk. Good and usefull advice:)

[@sagenosnibor9173]

I cant identify with the women he's explaining? -Both parents still married -Dad in my life - Through my dads actions I learned to work hard for things. - Worked 2 jobs and pushed myself through school - 1st in my family to go to college - No social media - No selfies (I hate taking pictures) Except my profile pic - responisble for my own bills Etc. The males I encounter look for weakness in me? THEY dont have daddies approval THEY dont have a healthy relationship with their mothers THEY want women attached to them and are attention seeking THEY don't know their purpose THEY cant live alone and instead live off women then jump from relationship to relationship THEY are single daddies with baby mama drama looking to find a place holder Etc. This guy honestly offers great advice. But all within context guys! ALL women and ALL men are not the same. Protect yourself but dont be shallow. It will only hurt you in the long run.

[@ArchangelMJZ]

Great point. He frames this talk in a way that makes men seem to come with no baggage and they should only pick women that just check the boxes. I don’t think either of those views are accurate

[@dcdarden111]

Consider yourself blessed.

[@Lupenapster]

He's speaking of, and to, men who have drive and want to accomplish their goals (alphas). You're speaking of men who don't do either of those things (betas). His boiled down message is for accomplished men to seek accomplished women, and vice versa.

[@westrokker]

Never to late. Wife and I both spent 43 years at a Fortune 500 company and retired. We then started our own S Corp and doing very well as professional organizers and retail consultants...

[@jesusbarajas9444]

Let your wounds be your strength. Rich is the perfect example of simp to alpha.

[@duumek201]

He was simp ?

[@jesusbarajas9444]

@@duumek201 oczywiście.. all who end up in this genre were at one point in their life.

[@duumek201]

@@jesusbarajas9444 Unless you will have a badass father like us 😎 hahha nice polish brotha keep up like that !

[@detectiveMM]

What were his wounds?

[@RealLadi228]

Somebody did permanent damage!

[@blues03]

RIP to the last guy who didn't get the question in xD.

[@alexcirstea9272]

That Testosteron - Alzheimer correlation sounds like bro science .

[@anthony949495]

Yea I mean your brain is an organ and let’s be real organs will eventually fail with time and no amount of supplements is gonna change that. It’ll just buy you time if that.

[@saathoff1220]

Be careful with testosterone, the biggest, most long term medical experiment was when women were given female hormones to reduce menopause symptoms. When a long term study was begun, the first part was stopped because women began getting heart attacks, the last part discontinued because they began getting breast cancer. Supplementing sex hormones is dangerous.

[@williamlechner4573]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who heard that. Spurious correlation.

[@claircook4768]

This is really sad. Who would get married male or female after listening to this. A presentation to end civilization, but hey get rich first. 😢 Narcissism at its finest.

[@LaitoChen]

I can only comment of the stuff I have medical training in. Rest of the video is ACE! 1. Speak to a *DOCTOR* first 2. *Vitamin* *D* Please Check your levels before taking supplements. No benefit for supra-physiological levels. It will only build up in your liver cause kidney stones or liver toxicity. While you're on it, check your levels every 6 months. If you're dark skinned and living in a temperate country, high likelihood of needing a booster in the winter months 3. *Testosterone* Normal levels between 300-800. Booster injection might help if you're low. It will *NOT* help if you fall within this range. Going above 800 puts you at risk of *blood* *clots* and *strokes* Sure, muscle is good. But you aren't building an empire with half a brain if you stroke out. Go to the gym and lose weight. *Belly* *Fat* acts like on *OFF* switch for testosterone. No amount of testosterone shots will help if you are fat. Anyway, thanks Rich

[@ralval5376]

I’m a conductor is that a c level job? Lol

[@eastcoastitalian8758]

Thats a great job

[@thomascrane7547]

Certainly seems that money is this fellows god an even though I’m happy for him, egotism doesn’t fit into my puzzle of life.

[@mindfuldrone]

Admires Trump? That's not admiring success. That's admiring a cheat and a bully bien on 3rd base. May as well admire royalty.

[@snoutysnouterson]

Same for me buddy :)

[@xanderisloading8310]

@@mindfuldrone orange man bad

[@squeaker19694]

Guys, I dont think this mans advice is balanced. He is very black and white in his thinking and loves to stereotype. He comes across as a machine, not a human being. My husband and I have been together for 30 years and still each other's best friend and the main focus of each others lives. I started out with both mummy and daddy issues, but we overcame them together. We are closer and more content than ever and have 3 very well adjusted grown children who are loving, compassionate, humble human beings following their passion rather than chasing money. The way to live that brings the most happiness is living for others, not just for yourself and being committed to a life of personal growth and compassion. A life focussed on chasing money, power and prestige is a hollow life of ego and narcissism. Focus on family and community is the way to a truly successful life. If you really want to know how to live your best life, listen to what the dying have to say about what they regret the most. They all say they wished they had been a better person and spent more time with their family and Friends and less time in the pursuit of money and stuff. Best wishes on living your best life.

[@politicalcorrectnessbelong5300]

Preach! This guy seems very angry at women in general 😂 Thought this was life advice. Turns out this was watch out for homeless people and gold diggers lmao. Don't hang out out with less fortunate people or you'll catch whatever they got and you'll be less fortunate. Comedy gold🥇

[@josephabraham4058]

1. I spent age 15 through 19 homeless. On the streets, eating food out of dumpsters, stealing food from grocery stores, homeless. 2. At age 20 I met a single mother - she was bipolar and had a personality disorder, two things I neither fully understood at the time, nor was remotely capable of dealing with. 3. Within months she was pregnant with my first son. 4. We were married 10 years and in that time she had 8 affairs. In that time I did not cheat on her 1 time. I stayed to be with my children. 5. We divorced in 2008 after the economic recession. 6. After the divorce things really went to shit. 7. I nearly lost both of my sons to drug use - due to her manipulation and bullshit. 8. I have lost everything. 9. I nearly parked a round into the brainpan. I stayed single for 10 years, and I've just started a new family, bought a new house. We're three years in, and I'm ready to park that round into the brainpan again.

[@lilid5016]

Feel bad for ya

[@acaughey09]

While it's not what you expected out of life, the struggles we overcome give meaning to life. Nothing is bad or good until we see the absolute finish. Check out Man's search for meaning by Victor Frankel. Wishing you better days ahead

[@joecoolioness6399]

Have you seen a professional counselor or psychiatrist? One not from your church, or someone you met at the gym, find someone completely detached from your life and talk/see them often!

[@rooster555555]

I was suicidal from 16 to 27. Things change and now ppl look at me like an alpha male. Overcoming the past brings a type of satisfaction

[@docbohemian1328]

Dude. Don't use a permanent solution to solve a temporary problem. The world needs you. Believe it.

[@katherineg9396]

Hey, I'm a winner too! We all are! Guys, do the next generation of men a favor and be a be a great dad to your daughter. The next generation of women will be strong and whole for decent men. Thanks Daddy! I love you forever!

[@asatruteutonic2490]

You’re implying that the next generation of men will be engaging in relationships

[@BitsyBee]

Let's be supportive of men so they can be their best. Let's not undercut or criticize them for doing it their way.

[@garmisra7841]

God bless you I hope I hear those words from my daughter when she is your age.

[@elerigwen8013]

acting like men will be good enough for next generations beautiful women tf 🤨

[@ravenzyblack]

Katherine- I guess you haven’t heard the message... The Future Is Female.

[@Cookefan59]

When it comes to financial and relationship advice he’s great! But when it comes to TRT and his assessments of how it affects the body and especially the heart, he’s an example of a little knowledge making somebody very dangerous. The advice borders on stupid. Never ever start making comparisons with other people in that area unless you have their medical chart in front of you and you’re a trained professional. These high powered executives are often doin a plethora of treatments that you have no idea about. Go to your physician and heave them either asses and treat you or send you to a competent physician who can. The rest of this car salesman advice about women and money or whatever appears to to be spot on. I’d give him a Grade of B.

[@chemquests]

Dunning-Kruger effect

[@whatsthatmagic]

He is not saying to get Test illegally and start self treating. Clearly go to a doctor and get the medical screening and if you need it then start therapy. A lot of men don’t know about this option that could change their life’s

[@OldSchoolOriginalGameDogs]

Preach

[@jasongravely7217]

@@whatsthatmagic Exactly. I don’t know how that isn’t obvious

[@splashmoby]

Bro is triggered

[@bradleyelliott404]

I've always felt I was smart about certain things but this guy has changed my outlook and motivation towards life I'm 45 I see where I've been blinded I'm very hard headed so this isn't a fake or plaid this guy is remarkable I just hope I've not wated to late....

[@ricco7000]

Same here👏🏻

[@colinstringer561]

If you're gonna be 90 you're only half way!

[@ruseangirl]

Avoid women with daddy issues….even though talks like this are aimed at guys without dads or good relationships with their dads I.e daddy issues. Cool.

[@sfctapia4529]

It's sad millennial kid's have to learn this common sense stuff from a KZbin video. I am so glad I was adopted into a family with a Dad that knew how to communicate common sense.

[@Bigchungus1987]

"losers make excuses, winners make sacrifices. Don't make excuses for your friends because they don't need them. Don't make excuses for your enemies because they don't care."

[@waltbryant0860]

What elevates one man over another is not dominance-it’s confidence.

[@godwinkatakiti4771]

You Sir have the best comments on KZbin i have ever read.

[@strayaDaz]

and money which probably comes with money

[@charniceb]

1. Don’t let people make their problems your problems 2. J.O.B Just over broke 3. Do not get into LTR’s with attention seeking women 4. There are no cheat codes to life’s challenges 5. Stop ignoring red flags 6. Avoid women with daddy issues 7. Pick up heavy shit and put it down 8. Optimize your endocrine system as you age 9. Never allow the state decide 10. Learn how to deal with rejection 11. You will always lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing excellence 12. Make F U money 13. Treat life like it’s the only one you got 14. Don’t LTR a single mom 15. Haters are confused admires 16. You have 100% responsibility and 0% authority as a man 17. The burden of performance is 100% on you 18. Stop giving fucks to things that aren’t fuck worthy 19. You’ve started as a winner

[@richbrazee5054]

I'm 39 and have known all of these things for a long, long time. I guess I have a good father and learned from observing others, but this is all just common sense that I take for granted. I can't believe people pay to hear these speeches. It's very alarming to see how weak guys have become while I stayed busy and focused on learning how to be a man.

[@sindisotebele7130]

Watching this from the sahara or savanna or wherever in Africa

[@henrychileshe9479]

Same here bro ..😂😂🇩🇿

[@mtpta4947]

Bro meet me at the top of Mount Kilimanjaro it's lit here

[@Krwler]

Honestly, I balked at Rich’s comment there. I wonder how many African countries he’s visited?

[@ewolz]

Hahahhahaa

[@BrianHeidik]

Vitamin D in pill form works. I've had my levels checked multiple times.