Why Men Shouldn't Date Single Mothers

[@MeanOldLady]

As a kid of a single mom who regularly dated around. It's NOT the kids that matter more to her, but her own desires & escaping loneliness always come first instead. It's sociopathic behavior.

[@stevenmichaelfletcherjr4464]

M Halvaresh Very true, I'm around single mom's ALOT. I'm an 18 yr old who loves milfs, and mom's with actually bitch and complain about how horrible you kids are. They'll even tell me how much they hate you kids and how you ruin their lives, but you keep her company when nobody else will. And kids don't have a choice

[@shelbyk7675]

M Halvaresh Wow, your situation must have been awful... But that's definitely not every single mom's priority.

[@TheControlBlue]

Single mothers are a disease, or rather the symptoms of a sick society. Sorry you had to be one of its victims :(

[@shelbyk7675]

Wtf is up with these insanely hateful comments...

[@TheControlBlue]

Maddison Keaton The Truth is most of the time on the side of Hate. Love is biased and easily fooled, only those who hate mediocrity can approach the Truth. And the deepest truths are the ones that hurt the most.

[@MrNick-]

Dating a women with a kid is like starting someone else's saved video game.

[@357GameDawgGamer]

Mr. Nick lmmaaooo

[@michaellopez9846]

lmaoo

[@kufudokungfu]

Mr. Nick ha very good way of looking at

[@vidard9863]

You forgot that the other person lost the game.

[@michaellopez9846]

still doesnt mean u take care of someone else sperm..

[@puravida5683]

You are spot on! I am a veteran, world traveled, educated and of means. I fell into this trap, of marrying a single woman with two kids. Worst mistake of my life! Fortunately, I am divorced now, and had enough wealth off-shore to financially break her financially, for a very good divorce settlement. I was on the verge of losing 50-60% of what I had worked 40 years to achieve. I will never make that same mistake twice!

[@plc3653]

could you elaborate more? sounds like an interesting story

[@Michael-vc2cs]

I'm catching this late unfortunately. Definitely appreciate this. I spoke up every time when her child was acting out. Even though this was a "conservative" woman she sided with her daughter most of the time. Needless to say, and thankfully, I escaped that hell. I even think she came across the article one day about your opinion on single moms. She brought the details mentioned in the article up to me and while I was still very much with her I said straight up, "the guy is right."

[@nerdygirl003]

I was a single mother. I met a man who was willing to have me and my girls. I admire him for it. I have never chosen my child's misbehavior over my now fiance. my children act badly they get punished. simple as that. I do not tolerate bad behavior in my home. I understand that not all single mothers are the same way. most are just as you described. just here to let you know the unicorns exist

[@Iamgemsthevessle]

I am Nerdette Amen. I was sitting here thinking the same thing

[@scottt3407]

VERY Rare gems those are ... you have my respect !, I genrally stay away from single Mothers , because then I have to focus on the Kids first, to make sure they are happy while neglecting their Mom and her needs , but most mothers ... in a survey answered the question Which would be better , your man or your Kids .... 89% answered their kids ...Must be a mother thing , men asked the same question , if it were the wife or the kids ... 21% answered their wife

[@mylifeisinhishandsamen4167]

Well, we need to hear from your man to know if he feel the same way you feel about this.....u never know....the guy may not be happy but feeling stucked and keeping quiet ....I know ppu in this kind of situation....

[@Ohenry0828]

MylifeisinHishands Amen true. would love to hear his side of the story.

[@mylifeisinhishandsamen4167]

And also we dont know if he is cheating on the side with a single lady with no children just to make up for what he is not getting from you

[@k_gene2816]

The one thing that sucked when dating a single mom was trying to hve alone time in bed and right when you’re about to bust .. “knock knock” momma!! Can you come in here! … and then she actually goes in there … fuckin terrible

[@sinanuygur5273]

Children are like farts, you can only really tolerate your own ones.

[@toksbanks7113]

Oh boy! U cracked me up with your comment🤣🤣😋

[@shadow-wolfgaming1737]

LMFAO good one 😂

[@scottyhines7824]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@gowiththeflow2568]

Fucking true man. U got my shit out laughing

[@ademolakoledowo7256]

Rib-Cracking

[@neshaun87]

dated a single mom for like 8 months, ugly break up, the same day we broke up she mentions how she's scared that she left me alone with her son at times....that's the moment i realized how easy it would have been for her to invent some child molestation lawsuit against me...never again with a single mom, not even for a pump and dump....stay smart my dudes.

[@queenb9668]

That's wicked AS FUCK! Glad you left before she could even dare. Lessoned learned. Good on you.

[@lateranjohnson1833]

@@queenb9668 shut up. Not saying this man is a child molestor but don’t act like child molestors don’t exist and prey on their spouse kids. You have to be cautious about who around or left alone with your kids cause its really some sick ass men Out here plus they only dated 8 months trust do nt come easy and who know he haven’t gave her a weird vibe that made her feel that way?

[@loganstroganoff1284]

Very common scenario. Unless they were married and divorced or widowed most single moms are immature headcases that will either do this sort of thing out of spite to punish you or they are legitimately paranoid delusional who think you really are a molester based on absolutely nothing,same type that will falsely accuse men of rape based on nothing at all when it didn't happen but somehow convince themselves it did.

[@mikeheaton8424]

That’s what I always say , don’t put yourself in harm’s way !

[@evathespeaker9537]

Lets hope you didn't touch the little guy... because that'd be pretty sad if you did... and evil.

[@joshdaywalt5848]

I remember this single mom I dated, her kids were out of control and she did everything she could to alienate the father. It got to the point that I was telling her to let the father see the kids. She tried to get the kids to call me dad after like a month. I got the hell outta there.

[@D-Thang_]

😂

[@jonesystef]

Good for you!

[@matthewmcarthur8748]

That was probably my baby mama and I'm sorry man!

[@iamgriff]

Sounds like you dated my ex wife

[@CM-rm3xj]

Christ what an evil lunatic

[@RaulFelixINC]

Whenever I think about liking a single mom: I come back here for refresher training. Problem solved.

[@othasida2639]

Good job, I have a friend with no kids dating a single mother of 5 (got her tubes tied), it’s too late for him now to watch something like this, the pussy put a spell on him and made him fall in love, he thinks he found the one

[@koloradi1]

Me too

[@iamgriff]

Well stated

[@allentam5754]

lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@ekaterinavalcheva9025]

Do you want to become lonely like Rich then keep listening to him. He is a lonely 50 yo man that is pathetic. He is not going to get a 25 yo woman without kids trust me. The most she can do is use his old as$ and leave. He will be alone forever. What if he gets a 40 yo woman without kids you think- well she must be mentally struggling because every woman by this age if she never had kids she must have lost her mind because of that. Anyways keep listening to Rich there is already a backlash from his fan base that many dudes haven’t touched a woman in years - Rich Cooper looks like the typical fake guru- what I can guarantee for you is listening to him is that you will be lonely

[@Kabodanki]

dating a woman with kids is like "damn I really need complexity in my life".

[@fpridgeway]

Sapher Yep

[@bartstarr2371]

dating a single mother of 5 kids and living with them literally drove me to alcoholism. i havent been with her in a year and im still in recovery til this day.

[@bartstarr2371]

you sound like a single mother

[@sagephillip6119]

conor mcgregor WoW you have a lot of time to comment....you are replying to every post you disagree with ......your opinion is sooo valued. .

[@Thechist781]

d2dak87 in Chile is impossible no matter the age lol

[@Jeff-uq7iu]

Was married to a single mother. I coached her sons hockey team taught him everything I knew about the game he was 4 when we met. He's 16 now just got sent divorce papers. I will never see him again. And we didn't have kids now I'm 48 and out of luck I guess. Don't date single moms!!!!! you will never Truly be apart of the family just a convenience and handyman.

[@philbloom1606]

Sorry brother i know exactly how you feel👊👍

[@Peterpiperofthes]

Pretty much same here brother

[@oneldelorbe1413]

Dated a single mother for 2.5 years with two kids, one 13 boy and a 21 year old girl. Never tried it with her daughter - actually I got along with her. The boy was at times a thorn. The father gave nothing so I spent my resources on them. 9 months later she put me on the street, partly because in her mind I wasn’t going to help her get citizenship. Now some other lame is smashing her on the mattress I bought and lifting the weights I bought. Single mothers are not worth it.

[@johnjames2817]

Same here. I’m 44 and need to leave this woman. You don’t have anything to show when it ends.

[@sitdowndogbreath]

I wonder what God has to say about all this Yeah Alright that's enough preaching for me today.

[@Dollface98]

Most single moms I know use their mom as a live-in babysitter whilst going out with a different guy every week.. oh yeah and they are always complaining about how life is so hard for them because they are a single mom 🙄

[@ParodyAccount_]

THIS. All while lying to the guy they’re “dating” in a lot of cases too. Me and my roommate proved this. These girls on tinder will hook up with 1 of us, then put on their Instagram something about her bf (who she never mentioned and is cheating on).

[@rumbajunior6991]

tu sabe mucho ...

[@justjenny8210]

Im a single mum, it is hard being a mum. nevermind if you're a mum doing it without the help of a dad. And vise versa. Being a good decent parent is hard, there is no man or women on this earth whom is perfectly awesome at being a parent. And mums and you dads if u wanna go out on weekend remember let ya hair down and enjoy yourself. Remember your not just a parent you is a human.

[@KingJamesKingChaos]

Yep

[@LadieBjj]

My dad was an alcoholic. My Mom basically raised us by herself. You have NO idea what is like for a woman with 0 help. I doubt that you are a mom. If you are, you are probably being helped by your mom and dad so you shouldn’t be giving opinions in such subject. Some woman didn’t choose to be a single mom. I clearly saw how hard it was for my amazing mom. Work + kids. Alone. No one to leave us with. She never dated no one after my father to protect us. We were her priority. Man nowadays love cold hearted abortion type of woman. Please, if making your kids a priority is bad, you have no business being with a hardworking single mom that has no time for games, immaturity and weakness. They are too strong for most man. I am happily married by the way with 2 kids. It’s hard while married imagine alone!

[@djadams3356]

Your channel has allowed me to dodge so many bullets and I'm only 15.

[@DrsJacksonn]

Good thing you started watching early. All these stories of guys who got screwed over by marriage n shit make me sad.

[@Aldo7899]

There are not many bullets for you to dodge yet. It’s a good thing you’re getting an early start though, because they will come.

[@5.5.Below.5]

Focus on your career. You'll attract better quality women but be careful due to the gold diggers out there. I would say stay celibate if anything.

[@garygwin1741]

Your still a pup. Dont become an incel

[@scottyb.8710]

I highly, highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend you read "The Tactical Guide to Women". You have no idea how much that book would have helped me back when I was your age!

[@jayp629]

Dating a single mother is like doing time for a crime u didn’t commit 🤣😂

[@amaurypineda1834]

J P that is funny 😁

[@lykedady72]

Samuel Sweetmann Smart man

[@juanitamccord639]

😂😂😂😂

[@evatomenio5]

@Samuel Sweetmann wow 😂😂😂 thanks dude thinking that single moms ........will hate you... Let them love you then dumped them.. Sorry dude single moms can live without a man in there life..

[@casanova2267]

Oh yes y rigth man

[@frankherman5195]

You'll find these women in bars every weekend

[@believewomen165]

Frank Herman I never go to bars, I don’t want I waste my time on “men” like you

[@stevenhighams4190]

@@believewomen165 Just as a matter of interest, would you take on the children of a single father?

[@stevenhighams4190]

@@ng7280 Well, I've seen more than enough of them in the street, yelling and swearing at their children and threatening them with violence, and most of them have never been inside a church in their lives, so I don't quite buy your idealised portrait. It may be true of you, but not "women" per se. I don't go to bars, I've never chased a woman in my life (as a matter of fact, they chased me), or indeed chased anyone or anything in my life. I don't have children because I never married, and I never put myself about, so if you want to deliver a po-faced morality lecture, you've come to the wrong place. My morality is second to none and always was. Mine was a perfectly simple question: men get castigated for not wanting to take on another man/men's child/children, yet women don't when the situation is reversed. We all know how you hold your double-standards close to your collective bosom and your unnecessarily heated response proves that. I also think you protest a little too much, but I'll you the benefit of the doubt.

[@stevenhighams4190]

@@ng7280 Good luck.

[@mattjones8254]

@@believewomen165 we are glad you don't go to bars...... but we are still not going to date you LOL.

[@luischavez4130]

i support single moms every time i go to the strip club.

[@qntainmnt]

🤣

[@zenmoment8113]

Savage 😂

[@PDZ2028]

Beast mode!

[@Jay-vr9ir]

Or Rub and Tugs .

[@Sean-no3zv]

Luis J Gomez?

[@captainkirk9602]

I notice that if you are the biological father she will still put her kids first, image how bad it will be if you are not the biological father

[@1Nynja]

Ditto. That's why she's now my ex. For her to think I didn't matter destroyed our marriage. Fact is, I was and am still a very involved father and I think that drives her crazy. Good. I will always be in my son's life, no matter what. No matter how shitty she is too me. Get used to it.

[@kkkkk695]

Captain James T Kirk so if your a single father you would put your new gf before your kids. Evil !!

[@leoscarpoli1nonly]

If she doesn't though then its usually because she has little to no mothering instinct at all and not because she is rational. Women that have little mothering instincts are usually in the headlines for child neglect.

[@chrismontreuil2206]

When the kids grow up and leave the house now the father can put the kids first. Revenge is sweet. Now it's time to pay back the bitch.

[@Paaka]

Koko Chocolate His name is Captian Kirk you know that's what they call men who saves hoes

[@americanscarelines2757]

The kids appreciate nothing and will find a way to ruin your relationship. Don’t do it.

[@james_bam11]

Right

[@Darth_RaZa]

I was the kid in that situation, and I tried to ruin it, so yeah. To be fair though, it really was his fault. Regardless, that was a lesson I didn't need to learn by making my own mistake.

[@Hellenicheavymetal]

3 of the kids yes. But 2 of the kids werent like that. They wanted it to happen.

[@keithlukeswanson9345]

Let me tell you. In a nutshell I was talking to a single mom for like 2 weeks. Her Son couldn’t stop pulling my pitbulls tail. Twice, back to back I told him don’t pull his tail or he’ll rush you...what do you think happens next?...she heard him cry and without even talking to me. She scoops him up and she storms out of my place. Then a few hours later she blows up my phone “You need to put Nicco down” “he likes to bite children” “why the fuck did you let that happen you asshole”. I didn’t respond. I simply ignored her and haven’t talked to her since.

[@Toast-un2gd]

so just like you? you were a kid too

[@gordyj2472]

I am currently in this situation...I have FINALLY seen things for what they are. Oh sht life is hell. This is all true. All of it. It's rough every day. Be safe out here fellas

[@zacherynagy8445]

I too am in this position aiming to emancipate myself from the ignorance. How have you faired from then til now 1 year later? Still in that position?

[@madissander]

Well, my life as well. Not that harsh but all the basics are here.

[@TheJSmithBA]

Single fathers should only date single mothers and vice versa. Those without children should stick to other people who don't have kids.

[@timg1099]

The JSB naw...I have a kid and still avoid most single mothers. I think men and women handle things differently. Even though I have a kid, my patience with dating a woman with kids was just slim to none.

[@Ryu0rKen]

The problem with this is you get slim pickens as you get older. I am 38 years old and have no kids. Try finding a woman at my age with no kids

[@timg1099]

Ryu0rKen Limiting belief. Get rid of it. And also, there are plenty of women "your age" without any kids. I've met and enjoyed experiences with them. Or Like brnt034​ said, go younger, 30 up, or if you feel like robbing the cradle, go 20 something. My point is this, women without kids are plentiful. Finding a woman with honor and sensible logic, kids or not, is something entirely different.

[@Ryu0rKen]

Not in this area. My company is in the coal region of PA unfortunately. Most people here are blue collar with kids by early 20s and divorced. I can't just leave because I took the transfer in the company for a better position. Back home yea you are correct plenty of women with no kids and middle aged even.

[@donmerrigan2362]

no people should date whoever they want to. if a guy with no kids wants to date a single mother then by all means if he's willing to deal with the children. same thing goes for the other way around. if you're not willing to deal with children then don't date a single mother or father.

[@johnchristophertonks2528]

I once dated a women who had two boys. She was cruel to her ex husband. Would not let him see his children, even though he paid child support and lived locally. He became a heavy drinker and his health deteriorated. I told her that the children were equally his and she should be fair to him. She looked at me like I was speaking Chinese. That was the last time we spoke.

[@markoakes8620]

John Tonks good job! She's the toxic one...

[@gabrielamartinyuk6438]

John Tonks omg. Poor guy! She is a narcissist! I’m so glad u told her and good thing you walked away!! She is evil. Period. Makes me sick actually.

[@MYDODGEYUTUBENAME]

You did the right thing. A woman who doesn’t permit the children to see their father is a woman you DONT want to associate with. She put herself above her children like the controlling biatch she is. Just because the mum and dad don’t get along, doesn’t mean the kids can’t. You dodged a bullet.

[@catman351]

你告诉她搞砸了吗？(Did you tell her to screw herself?)

[@23lnp]

Im in a similar situation but the single mother tells me that the ex husband is “ too dangerous “ to trust because hes an alcoholic coke head. She has a point but at the same time, im no ones fool and theres two sides to every story !

[@davidhobson8284]

Told a single mother who would not leave me alone once what my rules were: MY House, My Money, My Rules, My style of child discipline, never talked to her again after I explained that. She went crying to her daddy about how horrible I was, he told her that I sounded EXACTLY like the man she needed LOL.

[@ThebigGLRams]

You look abusive anyway

[@BillBiggs1]

Gee rams you mean he looks like he takes no BS from you women, frankly you need someone like him to set you straight

[@niyiaf1]

Gee rams..passing a judgement on a guy who values his own personal logical belief is abusive..It's his bed and he decides how he lays on it..mind your business and focus on being a better person, and Not an abusive one

[@christopherboudreau6328]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Candlelight787]

@@ThebigGLRams Your autistic screeching can be heard from far away...REEEEEEEEEEEE

[@brianm5637]

I wish I knew this stuff years ago. I married a single mom who had a 7 year old daughter. I scolded the daughter once because I saw her wind up and kick my puppy in the guts while wearing boots. The wife threatened to go to the police with a child abuse claim. After the divorce was filed, and the wife was out of the house, I discovered there was a lot more going on. While watching a video on my ipad of the wife screaming at me (I had the foresight to record things) the dog would start wimpering, cowering, and crying. I tested this by watching the same video a day later, and the dog once again cowered and cried. I'm guessing she abused the dog (pup) when I was at work, and that's where her daughter learned the behavior from.

[@yodesuyo]

Wtf!!

[@tom2754]

I think your suspicions are correct.

[@dookiepuddle]

Stone Cold Stunner for anyone who abuses my dog

[@jakepv1]

in the interest of helping others... I dated (I wanted to marry this girl. loved her to death) a mom with two kids. I made a decision, in my heart and mind to do this. I knew deep down, it was probably going to be a bad idea, but I went through with it anyway... because love... I set my heart on this girl, and her kids... It wasn't long before the well being of her kids became the most important thing in the world to me. and honestly, I still look back at that time like the best time in my life... but, like you said... shit just didn't work out, and in an instant, I was no longer a part of their lives... these children I loved with all my heart, where no longer a part of my life, and there wasn't anything I could do about it... that shit broke me down so bad, it took me literally years before I would even let somebody close again. I don't exactly blame her for my heart ache, but I do look at every woman I meet a bit different now...

[@mgtow6450]

My sympathies. I guess you didn't know she was turning those kids on you behind your back ? That's why they could dump on you like that. It's not their fault. Down side is they'll never believe you. Sad fact, it's called parental alienation.

[@jakepv1]

MGTOW I don't think she did that. When I saw them a few times after, they would both run up to me and grab on-to my legs, and tell me they missed me. A couple times, they told me they wanted to come live with me. Which just fucking killed me inside... But what was I supposed to do right. Thanks for the support. It is appreciated... This was kind of a long time ago, and I'm a grown man now. Live and learn, I guess.

[@TheControlBlue]

Go /r/redpill or MGTOW, dude. If you had, you Would have avoided that mess.

[@jakepv1]

TheControlBlue I keep hearing that. What does "red pill" mean exactly? I think of the matrix, Everytime somebody says that. Lol

[@TheControlBlue]

It's actually /r/theredpill, and yes it's inspired from the Matrix but it's more about the false reality and myths ("Single moms are so great XDDXD", for example) that has been created around the relations between men and women by modern society. It's kinda like swallowing the Red Pill. You are up for a ride.

[@Glace1221]

You're NOT my *DAAAD!*

[@marimac182]

🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@alfredoperez9017]

Family doesn't end In blood .I got that line from a TV show .

[@erickkisreal9398]

When the kid says that, just cut him off. Don't spend time or resources on him.

[@alfredoperez9017]

Erickk isreal I mean u kinda have to spend resources if u want to be with the mom .😐

[@erickkisreal9398]

alfredo perez sure I'll spend on the mom depending on how she treats me but I definitely won't spend on kids that aren't mine unless its my job (teacher)

[@johnwicksfoknpencil]

Do not father children you did not produce. Ever. Period. They have a father; let him be one and let her deal with the consequences of selecting him to be the one.

[@nubiankhaleesi2945]

Dismal_Trauma 86 and what if he died of an illness, car accident, murdered.... then what?

[@johnwicksfoknpencil]

In the case of a widow I would be careful. Because while it is not her fault that she lost the father of her children, she may also cling to him forever whether she admits it or not, which would cause a lot of problems with any new perspective man. The man has to do what's in his own best interest because the woman isn't going to do that; she'll be pre occupied with the best interest of her kids and rightly so. I don't think a man should settle for that because it will never be the same experience as with having children with a woman for the first time together.

[@jusme1705]

why is it that in videos about single mothers you see an awful lot of "widows"...never seen so many "widows" in my life

[@supern0is349]

"the best part of dating a single mothers is all the amazing sex, respect and fun we have together. They appreciate that i'm steping up to this difficult challenge they respect me and treat me well" said no men, ever.

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

its that they can give honestly

[@carlkpsplucky5554]

Camille cw elaborate?

[@c450-v2b]

single *mothers, I presume you meant..

[@proph-od1bj]

🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@johnbrown7013]

Huge price to pay in the near future. Stand by..

[@audeamus1180]

Single mothers priority order: 1. Kids/Herself 2. Cat/Dog 3. Her fellow single mothers 4. You (subject to move up the list briefly if she wants you to buy her something for herself or the kids).

[@michaelalguire419]

You forgot about all of her baby daddy's. You'll be supporting the women and her bratty kids while the kids sing praises to their daddy's who see them once a year at Christmas time.

[@tofu86oc55]

you forgot her family (eg mom). so you are #5

[@goldennightingale5791]

😂😭

[@Toast-un2gd]

of course her priority is going to be her kids dumbass how selfish are you

[@miket6094]

One of the hundreds of reasons why I don't date women with kids. I don't want to be number 2\3\4 in a woman's life I want to be her main priority as she will be mine.

[@TheoPetzold]

Women aren't even that nurturing anymore.

[@Shootskas]

No...they expect you to be strong enough to not need nurturing.

[@loverschoice885]

think about these kids growing up with these women. i thought incel femenist women buying sperm would create monsters. but, this, omg, if we think 2020 been crazy. the next lvl of crazy shit will be when these grow up into their 20s and above. The new normal for young men will be the psychological profile of Norman Bates from psycho. Or Ed Gain.

[@stevenhighams4190]

@@Shootskas I think he's talking about children here, who do need nurturing. And we expect womyn to be as strong and independent as they claim to be and not expect us to nurture them anymore.

[@kekesdream3886]

Idk what type of women your dating but i love to caress my man and take care of him , make him dinner . And get in the bubble bath with him give him massage. With a bottle of wine of course .

[@loverschoice885]

@@kekesdream3886 u give him massage with a winebottle? Seems painful.

[@bilbobaggins7095]

💯% Undated a woman with a 12 year old daughter. The daughter like to boss us around and the woman would just go along with it. I brought it up to her and she acted like it was a personal attack on her daughter. I didn't have an issue with the child my issue was with her not correcting the child. So I broke up with her.

[@StevenGrahamHypnotherapist]

Hey Bilbo Baggins - Wow, I had the same situation with a single mom only she had a 12 year old boy who did the same thing, and his mom reacted the same as the mom in your story. Amazing.

[@karelklumpers]

You did the right thing. Women need to learn how to correct their own children.

[@onatskable]

damn it really does seem single moms are all the same. I just broke with my gf. she has a 12yo daughter bossing her around. two days ago I was leaving for a beer or two after spending the whole weekend with them. when her daughter asked where I am going I said I am going for a beer. so the kid started yelling "alcoholic". quite disrespectful since I have my shit together quite well but like my damn beer. mom just laughed and thought what a fun. at the door mom told me "see even the kid says so". that was it for me. I know that little spoiled one is just too stupid to understand but I expected her mom to stand up. nope, not all. when I told her what pissed me off she acted like I was attacking her child; however, what pissed me off was her not doing shit about it and using it for her own agenda. fuck that. always fkn high drama, daily mood swings and at the end of the day I was the bad one. just don't date single moms.

[@force9485]

Not only does the single mother allow her kids to disrespect you, but the kids also allow their friends to disrespect you. If its teens it gets worse..the male wants to kick your ass, and gets his friends to help, if its a female, she calls her boyfriend. This mess just mushrooms, and the single mother sits back and watches.

[@ronaldmharrison7137]

Well done.

[@Gr8tgadspy]

Had a gf with a 6 year old. She used to sneak me around and never made it known to the child we were dating. That ended in 4 months. Years later we tried to make it work but this time I asked if I could be more involved in his life. She thought that was a great idea. Weeks later she told me I was doing to much and that he doesn’t need 2 dads. That relationship ended again in 3 months. Damn I was a dumbass.

[@jangolub8240]

Yes you were, i hope youre not anymore

[@timothybooker5168]

Ya live, ya learn.

[@therealkoolaidandkale]

Damn. That's unfortunate. Women in their 30s without children feel the same, though.

[@dx7354]

You were a dumbass wanting to carry a next man's burden but I'm glad that u have realized your mistake.Keep your head up brother

[@ianfortuna9385]

Single mom dating tips: 1. Don’t 2. Her kids are not my financial responsibility 3. Single mothers create the very men feminists they complain about 4. To call a single mom a unicorn is like saying a horse with a bad leg makes a great racing horse 5. Single mothers make life needlessly difficult 6. Single moms should wear a sign that says “Don’t date me I make bad decisions” 7. Single moms raise broken children who grow up to be broken people in a broken society 8. A single mom is a parasite to everything in her environment 9. She makes her life better by making yours worse 10. You can’t please a dead heart

[@808BJJ_Black_Belt]

I married a woman with 3 kids got no respect, used my money, no return, kids never thanked me, no authority only disrespect, got taken advantage of . Getting divorced was the best decision and not adopting them thank goodness 😅

[@alexandra.mirka.]

I’m really sorry.

[@nordiccombatant2167]

Congratulations on being able to divorce her. I’m surprised that the courts did not go after you for Alimony and Child Support. Because even if you did not adopt those children the court can make you pay child support especially if you got envolved either raising them and stuff.

[@splashmoby]

You live and you learn. Never be a doormat. Good luck brother.

[@mr.horse1801]

Every date ive gone on with a single mother only revolved around what i could do for her and her kids. There was never anything in it for me. Ill never date a single mother again

[@jeremyarroyo360]

Did she stand you up come up with a bullshit excuese that she can not find a baby sitter

[@ONpopularTopics]

That's the way all women are generally but it's worse with single moms.

[@sullivanel1975]

Single broke moms make the most demands lol.

[@jcrabbit6342]

..........and You are one of the smart one's

[@ngugi7279]

East africa in the building

[@me2me242]

My mom always, since I was a teenager, told me NEVER date a woman / girl with luggage. And listen I did. 😁

[@catman351]

“Fortune you have” in my best Yoda voice.

[@edwardmiller2249]

WISE CHOICE!

[@richardcooper5354]

she gave u good advice

[@staceycampbell8076]

Your mother is a wise woman

[@SMH-ic8ov]

I was married for 15 years to a women with two kids from two different men. The part where Rich says, "You Will Never Matter as Must as the Kids"!!!!! is dead on. You are there to help facilitate the support and upbringing of the kids and depending on the type of women the upbringing part is suspect. Your time, money, resources, the stress and B.S that you put up with is never truly appreciated.

[@seanhuntsman7834]

Learning that now

[@seanhuntsman7834]

@John Billing amen ☺️

[@sungkim742]

Truth.

[@gregoryevans2063]

I was about 20 or 21 years old when my granddaddy told me to never get in a ready made family and he said it just like that. He was born in 1914 dropping knowledge like that, I decided to go my own way and I didn't take the advice. I'm now 45 years old and my granddaddy has gone on and now I'm going through it with my soon to be ex wife, who told me after 10 years of raising her two kids who now are 16 and 24 that her kids come before me and not only did she just say it she showed me. I should have took my granddaddy advice. This vid is so on point, no matter how much of yourself you give you will always by the end never get your crown 👑..

[@klaiken989]

Gregory Evans wow, I am learning alot browsing through the comments... Ill take your lessons to heart!! As a 20 something year old, ill use your unfortunate experience to grow, learn and avoid the same thing. Thanks and sry for your shitty experience 😓

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Gregory Evans Noticed the timing of that. You say 10 years. That's the magic number for her to qualify for your social security benefits. May the 4th be with you.

[@latashajohnson1787]

Gregory Evans I’m so sorry that happened to you. Unfortunately there are some women who are not ready or that has been hurt. But every woman is not the same.....

[@thatguy0515]

@@latashajohnson1787 jeez i wish feminist believe that bout men too

[@DJ-ur9ol]

I was in the same situation. The thing is when you cut ties, CUT TIES! Don't talk to her AT ALL! Not even a hi, text, wave NOTHING! Move on. Women have a tendency to want to "stay friends" with their past relationships which is toxic. Especially for you.

[@shadowman1222]

DJ High This is good advice.

[@MeanOldLady]

I had a toxic ex-boyfriend who tried pulling that crap too. It's largely a sociopathic control thing.

[@Nobody-did-it]

M Halvaresh Not everything a guy does is a sociopathic thing, can't we lay down these ridiculous terms for a minute and just say the guy was a douche!

[@theadventurebiker]

Yup!

[@JustinStLouis-jm1zn]

DJ High VERY TRUE BRO

[@randomfactor3599]

I'll never date a single mother again.

[@wii166]

Me either this is my last one final.

[@JJ-pi3wz]

The only thing that did not get mentioned a whole lot in this video is dealing with the kid's biological father. Ive heard countless horror stories of a father and step father getting into a violent confrontation which usually ends up with one or both either going to jail or to the morgue.

[@lordflame89]

The worst part is that they expect you to treat them like they are 18yo virgins again.

[@FionaAWolfe01]

Lord Flame not like an 18 yr old but a little respect goes a long way.

[@lizmadrid7996]

What? 😂😂😂 So what are you like a rich prince from Arabia? So we don't deserve respect since we're not 18 year old virgins anymore? 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011]

lol bro they not 18 year old virgins no more they thought they was when they were 18 but really lost it at 14.

[@thethankfullservant2206]

Lord Flame Western country are the place where people don't care about virgin or maybe they lose it before they knew they have it

[@thethankfullservant2206]

Liz Madrid so your use up you ability to pair bond decrease more likely to switch partner easily

[@Knight766]

The only guy who thinks single mums are an option is a guy with no options.

[@teeve1500]

The only woman who would look at you would be a woman with no options

[@Knight766]

@@teeve1500 Oh shit, you're right...how am I gonna sleep tonight? XD

[@Knight766]

@@teeve1500 NAWALT ?. I don't think so.

[@dailybread1656]

i beg to differ my friend.

[@louiegats1106]

@@teeve1500 u have a preference? Well my preference is no fuckin kids

[@deplorabledave1048]

I can't imagine ANY scenerio where I would date a single mother again. Ever.

[@jbertrand5959]

I actually married a single mother... I would not recommend it to anyone

[@timothyfarrand8407]

J Bertrand So did I. It's hard to find a decision I've made that was worse, and I've done meth before. FML

[@jbertrand5959]

Timothy Farrand I hear ya.

[@timothyfarrand8407]

bryan81 Jesus helped me not beat the brains out of her. I was gonna drill her face one time in a rage. Jesus woke me up before that happened, thank GOD. I don't need a DV charge that will take away my rights to own a gun

[@BowDownToTheQueenx]

That’s really sad. What happened that you would recommend it?

[@kamranc.1977]

J Bertrand Wow - Respect for that insight.

[@JohnSmith-ix3pd]

Man, is like I'm living right now the exact same thing you talked about. I have been thinking about getting out for the last few weeks, I literally can't take it anymore. I have been in this relationship for about 6 years now, both her kids were 9 and 11 when we got together, they are now 15 and 17, I have raised this kids for the most part and have been with them longer than his real father, but no matter what I have done and provided it was never good enough, on top of that the youngest goes to his biological father's house for 2 weeks out of a year and comes back insufferable, with all kinds of new ideas and believes, I mean we had an argument where he said his parents (mother and father) not me, support him financially for all his expenses, that man has never given a penny towards anything!!!.he was never even put on child support by the kid's mother. He abandoned his family when they were 1 and 3 years old, signed a paper that said he gives up all rights to the kids in exchange for not paying child support and yet this boy thinks this guy is the best father in the world. I have had to deal with all kinds of shit and I am just tired. I mean he wanted nothing to do with them until only 4 or 5 years ago! is a ridiculous situation and I'm convinced after watching this video that I had it.

[@shadowman1222]

John Smith Run run like the wind.

[@shadowman1222]

city lights Pattaya lol

[@J.I.0]

John Smith leave her fast

[@shadowman1222]

MGTOW agree skeet and skedaddle

[@TheControlBlue]

Get the hell out of this hellhole asap, they are someone else's kids in the end, you are going to spend your life to raise kids that won't even share your blood.

[@williamm9305]

Dude, I just broke up with my bitchy GF and I must say your videos make me feel much better of myself.

[@rheafelabang5562]

Hahaha

[@ThebigGLRams]

Lol. You watch these videos so you can feel better about yourself?....

[@5thhorseman982]

Amen. You're lucky you got out!

[@yourdaddy9986]

@@ThebigGLRams Yes! These videos are more pleasant than you are!

[@misscleo_]

I’m a childless woman age 25 (waiting for the right one) and you’re speaking facts! I always avoid having single mom friends. Growing up I always felt weird seeing any single moms dating all the times and it must be confusing for the child to see their mom with many men. My old friend is now a single mom now and the dad is someone she met a short time in a vacation 🤣 What a shame. She couldn’t control her legs doing hook ups even tho she always talked about having a family. It didn’t go well.. Stay away from single moms or any single parents!

[@maverick6775]

all the best finding mr right sister, you are smart

[@bellerose5013]

I've always had respect for single mothers bc my mom is one. I have had single mothers as friends. Now I'm just shocked. I feel sorry for the children the most. I also realized what my mother had done to us. I'm also waiting for the right man at 25. I wish you luck!

[@misscleo_]

@@bellerose5013 I wish you the best luck too! Being a single parent was very normal back in early 00’s I think.. Cause they find a spouse and the marriage stays.. today single parents just go with one person after another without being in stable relationship.. Now that is weird…

[@bellerose5013]

@@misscleo_ Thank you very much! I think being a „single“ parent is the most selfless thing in the world. I have realized that single parents in particular are looking for attention from others because of this. And in this day and age, that's easy to do through social media and Dating-Apps. I would love to be selfless for my Family in a healthy way of course.

[@ay.ali4]

Did you get picked for this?🤣🤣🤣 are you not embarrassed judging someone

[@psychotropy101]

"Never date/marry a single mother" was rule #1 when I was single. Never raise another man's kid...NEVER. Single fellas, learn from this man's past mistakes. Leave those women alone. There are millions more

[@omegadragoon1544]

And those single women are even sexier than those single mothers

[@godlymike1070]

@@omegadragoon1544 Sorry we're not interested in promiscuous woman.

[@saiyansnake]

Investing my time, money, and energy into another man's seed?...... no thank you!

[@Shanedog76]

tell my exWife's boyfriend that?

[@petecamacho3513]

What if he grows up and murders you one day. At least with my own crazy fuck kid,at least I'll live on in a way.

[@mgtow6683]

Never Do With A Woman. Never bail a woman out of jail. Never lend money. Never get married. Never be with a woman that spends more money than she saves. Never pay a woman's bills. Never co-sign on a credit card. Never get too attached to a woman. Never get involved in a expensive long distance relationship. Never get too attached to a woman's pet. Never leave too much stuff at her house. Never get in a serious relationship before 25. Never buy strange women drinks at the bar. Never get involved with co-workers that could jeopardize your job. Never be dependent on a woman. Never get too involved with women without studying her family & friends. Never get into any kind of legal relationship with a woman. Never get involved with single moms. Never put a woman on a pedestal. Never get involved with a woman that doesn't have custody of her kids. Never get involved with a woman with more debt than you. Never get involved with high drama spoiled women.

[@moneybags999]

Well, damn. Lol In all seriousness, perhaps you should consider dating men or join the priesthood. I mean if women are so much trouble, sheesh.

[@roninjolin7687]

Fuck that shit... And Vegeta for life!!!!

[@KristinaKreamer]

Ah yes.....This is where some strange guy comes up to you,and says,"How's your Wife and MY kids?"

[@alexjones28]

🤣😂😂

[@simpslayer4793]

LMMAAOOOO

[@iRemainNameless]

That puts it into perspective

[@markymark5352]

"Wifes hot, kids are retarded" 😊

[@jameslougheed6605]

If you are dating a woman with children just know that you can be dismissed at the drop of a hat. She can always retreat emotionally to the comfort of being a mother and caring for her children. The state is the father and you are replaceable.

[@hilldrossassociateslawfirm6129]

It’s rough because when you’re in your 30’s almost all chicks have kids.

[@jellybeans9283]

Date younger

[@geese.with.knives]

I'm 35 & many ladies in their late 20's & early thirties already have kids.. Dating single moms can be hard...

[@AlexanderGeorge]

No it's not. You have to date 20 year olds.

[@Xkalnar]

@@jellybeans9283 This. Im mid-30s and rarely date older than mid 20's.

[@radurusu6530]

u date 20s .....duhhhhhhhh

[@danniewolf1266]

Worst experience I ever had in my life. Nine years wasted trying to raise someone else's children. You nailed it bad behavior is never addressed by the mother.

[@ragnarocks7681]

Same here man and she had three kids .We lasted ten years ,seven married .Never again with a woman with kids.

[@lizmadrid7996]

Well that's not due to beeing a single mom that's just her parenting style, Wich is permissive and very damaging to a child, I'm a single mom and I set boundaries for my child.

[@scruffy6151]

That is true i lived it for 8 years never again.

[@force9485]

@@lizmadrid7996 You have a point..dysfunctional parenting, but also dysfunctional in how she handles her romantic relationship.The problem isn't being a single mother per say, but it can be a symptom of a bigger problem. A person who isn't capable of nurturing healthy relationships will end up alone. Not all single mothers are damaged, but all damaged women with kids will end up single mothers.

[@lizmadrid7996]

@@force9485 I've never heard that before about single mothers and is intersting, I will look into it or ask a therapist if I get a chance!

[@essa6315]

Dated a separated women with a couple of kids, got to know them, made a big effort, bought them gifts helped with birthdays and halloween costumes. I put up with only seeing her when she was free and didn't make any demands from her. After a year, her divorce became final and she ended the relationship so she could be free. A couple of weeks before I was decorating the Christmas tree with her and the kids. Now I don't see or hear about them or her. You don't matter in this scenario, you're like a treat, a luxury, you're not a necessity. The last I heard from her was that she was dating men from Bumble because she gets 'lonely'. It's honestly a lot of investment from you, for very little return and a slim chance of a future. The heartbreak was much worse because you fool yourself into thinking that they're family. They're not. They care about each other, but not you.

[@sixt3denied]

Very very true...

[@TexasLariat]

🎯🎯 sums it up... They care about each other, but not you! She needed the help. The kids might've cared about you but they always - ALWAYS chose the mom right or wrong.

[@BishopZammit]

Dang bro. That last part hit home.

[@D4V1D_03]

Yep.. It happening to me now.. After so many efforts, not a ''thank you'' or nothing... She just block me and bye

[@tom2754]

Absolutely true. You are always the outsider, and no matter how much you do for them it's never appreciated.

[@luigiritchie]

He’s right and I know from being the son of mother that was in a relationship like this. Thankfully my Step Dad came into my life (I just call him dad) when I was young and I’m so happy he did. They got married pretty quickly and they stuck it out til my mother passed but I saw how hard she was on him. His life was a living nightmare to the point that I’d step in every once and a while and ask my mom to stop. I remember many times that I’ve wanted to hang with my dad and do something cool but she always had to ruin it and never let us go anywhere. I felt bad for my Dad, he really tried. He still my best friends and we love each other so much but my point is that you will have it hard. Don’t do it if you can avoid it. If you can find a single mother that is a reasonable woman and makes time for your guys relationship, than I think that’s fine but that’s hitting the lotto in this time and age.... unfortunately

[@adamknight5089]

I've found a lady, who has a kid but the kid lives with the dad. She only visits every now and then. Do you think this is safe for me? She would like to start a family with me.

[@LA-lq1zf]

@@adamknight5089 there’s a reason why the kid lives with the dad ?

[@adamknight5089]

@@LA-lq1zf I'm not totally sure, but she spends about 3 months a year in another state, for financial reasons (more pay). And travels to her home country maybe once a year also.

[@LA-lq1zf]

@@adamknight5089 if you’re okay with her being away for those time periods and she’s shown to be a woman of substance then I see no problem with it. If you think about having a family with her make sure you’d want your daughters to be raised by a woman who will have to leave for months because of work. As long as you’re okay with it.

[@jenniferdover7506]

My step dad has been in my life since I was two. I wish I would have never been forced to know my blood father. My stepdad is who I call dad today

[@tyronewalker5764]

I hear you man, the sad part is that this is about all that's left! The one's that don't have kids have this "Sex and The City" attitude and who needs that?

[@goondocksaints9597]

There are strong ripples of truth around what you just said. Very nicely put.

[@teehaze934]

That's so true. Sex in the city attitude.

[@valken666]

Surrogacy, have your own children instead of supporting strangers.

[@goondocksaints9597]

In college I read a dissertation by a feminist critic of the first 'sex and the city' movie. This is a common critique of the film among all sorts of critics. The key to every one of the main characters' happiness is found in a man. This is the message in a movie aimed at fans of a show based on the ideal of strong, successful, independent women. And the funny thing is, most fans of the show didn't even notice the contradiction.

[@tyronewalker5764]

Goondock Saints Or will never admit it.

[@jsarratt1]

In this order: 1] Men love women 2] Women love kids 3] Kids love puppies

[@jusme1705]

and puppies love men....men if you want unconditional love get a dog..you'll never get it from a single mother

[@martinbernardino1]

Jus Me Tbh I don't want to fuck dogs.

[@theadventurebiker]

+Martini Bernardino LOL right?

[@1533ramsay]

TheSilentObserver How true !

[@mclovin6032]

Lol so true

[@yahnessahyahsharel6777]

TRUTH!!! 2 years ago, My little brother dated a single mother with 3 kids from 3 different men. Our family didn't like the idea of him dating her and dealing with the kids and the "babies daddies drama" and the stress... My brother been through so much with that woman and her children. My brother is a very generous person and he always supported her kids financially most of the time and he was never a priority in her life. I knew my little brother was not happy in that relationship But guess what, God sent the right woman at the right time in the right place into my brother's life. The babysitter hahaha. Yes, the babysitter who used to watch my brother's ex girlfriend kids while they were out on dates Lol She is absolutely beautiful inside & out, no children, educated and a God fearing woman. I just loved how things turned out at the end, my brother now is engaged to her and I can't really wait to be there at their wedding day in August :D :)

[@journeytrials]

Vanessa Perry amen 🙏🏿

[@Kyle36776]

A wish it was me

[@skateboardb94]

Vanessa Perry I was that idiot brother a few months ago....i wake up and celebrate every morning I dodged a bullet

[@dericklopez5081]

Vanessa Perry 3 kids from 3 different man that's a come dumpster

[@w3nsm693]

He dodged a bullet from the 1st one but he is now vs a full loaded gun, aka the babysitter, just wait some more years until the divorce court knocks on his door, 94% guaranteed, according to cdc.gov .

[@atmosphericpressure3560]

I made the mistake. Dont do it!!! Run!!!

[@uk9383]

Its hard enough to stomack a girl wit a high body count. A kid? Nooooo way.

[@nelsonmcgee3545]

I did a feeble attempts and thank God I did it feebly because I dodged bombs most only had 1 child but I met a woman who at the time had 1 child ok we started talking but she turned me off when the next time I saw her she was pregnant with her 2nd child I never looked at her the same again and she now have 5 kids single mothers with more than 1 child put your tracks shoes on and run as fast as you can.

[@waldorsockbat5737]

I did the same but she had a demon kid that put a stop to that relationship. Lol

[@marqshir]

Im in the process of getting out

[@ukjcjc8104]

Like Di carpio said on the film Wall street "Run motherfucker run!"

[@marysimas1792]

I don't have children so perhaps I can't know anymore than a man does about what a mother feels for her children. All I know is that I have noticed that childless adults of both sexes are in tremendous demand as second spouses. Any childless single woman who has been roommates with a single mother understands why men don't want to date single mothers. My time in such a roommate situation lasted less than a month. We were not a same-sex couple, but she sure started thinking that she could use me for financial support and free childcare. I have compared notes with other women and found that my situation was far from unique. I can imagine that my problems would have been much worse if I had been a man because she would have been even less willing to accept my leaving. I am sincerely sorry for the difficulties faced by single others, but I would not live with another one.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Mary Simas appreciate you sharing that experience.

[@11UncleBooker22]

Finally, I'm in demand..... YEAHHHhhhhh

[@vidard9863]

I have tried dating several single moms in the past few years. I am coming to the conclusion that there are plenty of reasons they are single.

[@abike3969]

Vidar D wow

[@linkbelt111]

The Big 4: Money, sex, work, and hobbies. They’re divorced for one of those 4....

[@agotapongor2069]

5. The daddy turned into asshole after short time.

[@livinglifeoutdoorstv7634]

5 reasons a woman is single at 30+: 1- divorced, his fault... all men are at fault 2- divorced, her fault ... she crazy 3- divorced, his fault but ultimately her fault... she crazy 4- widowed... you’ll never be as good as the dear departed 5- never married... she crazy cat lady

[@livinglifeoutdoorstv7634]

I married a divorced, his fault but her fault. He cheated on her, because she is a narcissist crazy woman. He searched for peace. I’m divorcing her for that same reason. Yeah her kids were demonic. All I’m going to say on that.

[@NA-sr9pv]

Dating a single mom is like paying full price for a tub of Pringles with only 2 left in the packet. The majority/ all of the value has been eaten away.

[@deaddropsd1972]

Savage

[@Temboz]

Lmao!

[@D402S]

I genuinely feel like vomiting when some people force us to find single mons attractive. Imagine if women were forced to find single dads attractive even if they were unattractive to those women. Yuck.

[@justinadams345]

A woman told me she will not date me because I dont have any kids I said why not she said she had experience with a guy with no kids so I can't do anything but to respect that I'm 35 no kids no child support no marriage I fine with that MGTOW

[@SC2Turnip750]

If that picture is you, then it's more likely that it was just an excuse. I'm not saying you're ugly (because you're not), but you really need to lose some weight.

[@hanukkahp0rnoagent679]

SC2Turnip750 Lol burn!

[@Crukren89]

Fuck these twats in the comments funny how you guys didn't call out the bitch on her fukery aswell. She knew her kids would be a burden on you so you dodged a bullet.These single mums should date single dads. They will shame you for not having kids because your free from the bullshit

[@MYDODGEYUTUBENAME]

Her problem was that she didn’t give you a chance. It’s her loss as the biatch should have been greatful that a single man without baggage was interested in taking her and her kids on. If she couldn’t value you before the relationship then she certainly wouldn’t have during it. You dodged a bullet. You would have been treated like crap and been miserable with her.

[@Zoza15]

She did you a favor tho, that's quite rare..

[@TKnuckles333]

I ride a motorcycle. Single moms want nothing to do with me, which is perfectly fine by me. Ha.:)

[@diegodf59]

they take everybody, because they are desperate vor they just want extra money. your bike will not save you from beeing selected

[@teeve1500]

maybe you take everybody @@diegodf59

[@emello4you]

Gregorius T Get your motor running, head out on the highway! Looking for adventure, and whatever come's our way. Yeah darling gonna make it happen, take the world at a lovely place, fire all of your guns at once and, explode into space!

[@alteredstateskustom]

this video is on point! it was like you were explaining my last relationship I dated a single mom of 2 adolescent boys, she would never say anything to the boys when they would treat me poorly. after 10 years I had to MGTOW thanks for posting it hopefully it'll help someone that is currently in this situation

[@kdr6065]

My wife of 15 years just left me. We have 3 kids. The last 4 years I was pushed back of that line. When I would bring up how I felt, She would make me feel bad and I had to apologize! Lmao. Even after that I never thought of leaving. She’s so consumed by the kids and her mom. She completely kept pushing me aside always prioritized the kids and her mom. Good luck to the next guy!! Not going to lie Best thing thats happened to me. She will regret her decision one day.

[@Kai...999]

Wait those are your biological kids?

[@kdr6065]

Yeah all three are mine, a year later now I’m being alienated from them. Being accused of abuse. All cause I’ve moved on from her.

[@kdr6065]

@@Kai...999 yeah all three. Now I’m being alienated from them. All because I’ve moved on from her. It hasn’t been easy, she’s thrown a lot of crap my way this past year. I dont react to anything she does, drives her crazy. Reason why I’m being alienated now, trying to hit me where it really hurts.

[@jeffsmith8197]

You made a good, honest testimonial. I was married to a single mom with one child about 35 years ago. The marriage was an unmitigated disaster and lasted 3 1/2 years. It was everything you pointed out and more because she had mental problems that existed before we got married and she hid her affliction from me. Plus, she only married me because I had lots of money and a terrific career. She was a '8' in beauty and I'm not a prize in the looks department and that's how I got hooked. I've been single ever since and am loving life. I'm near retirement and am pretty well set for life. I will not subsidise another woman ever again.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Thx for sharing that brother

[@jeffsmith8197]

She's living with her single-mom daughter in an apartment in the same city she's lived in all her life. The ex-wife never had any kind of job skills for anything more then a minimum wage job. She worked as a receptionist and in fast food restaurants and never could plan for retirement because she lived paycheck to paycheck, so it's going to be a tough time for her in her old age. The reason I know this? Because my co-workers son is her daughter's ex. Small world isn't it? As I sit in my comfortable home that was paid off long ago, with my future plans nicely configured by me, I can't help but consider the 'what ifs' in life. If she wasn't such a egotistical bitch, she would be here with no worries and never having to work a day in her married (to me) life. To paraphrase a line from Russel Crow in "Gladiator"; "The decisions you make in life today ripple throughout your future".

[@jeffsmith8197]

I feel sorry in that she fell for the empowered "I Am Woman Hear Me Roar" crap and could never conceptualise a time when she wasn't a hot babe. But I don't see her as a 'victim' because in today's society that can be a cop out for losers. She is a loser. She had a nice mom and dad. Her siblings did okay. She wasn't an imbecile and she wasn't physically handicapped in any way, so that puts her in an upper percentile of people in today's world. She was born with the exceptional looks that easily opened doors for her when she was young and she abused her unearned privilege with arrogance for men and a superiority complex with other women. As George Carlin once said about people: "There are a few winners and a whole lotta losers" in life. In my mind, that doesn't mean you can't have compassion for folks who are going through a rough stretch in their lives, or those unfortunates who don't have the smarts to have comfortable lives, but rather it's about poor choices and exhibiting repellant attitudes. I cannot abide that.

[@jeffsmith8197]

I last saw her at the divorce. You said there's no feminism in your country? What country is that?

[@jeffsmith8197]

I've read that the Nigerians have a firm hand with their women, as it should be providing it's the firm hand of a benevolent husband and not the rule of a tyrant. The Nigerian birthrate is 5.5 per woman with European Union nations trailing with a pathetic average of 1.35. and the United States at 1.93. What this tells me is that in countries that have control of their women and where the evils of feminism do not exist, then that country enjoys a high birthrate and has maintained the traditional family unit. In the "progressive" and feminised countries of the West, the European people are dying off because we do not have control over our women and the idea of a traditional family unit has been ridiculed and demonized for several decades. The west is committing suicide by feminism.

[@arizonajoseph4421]

Dating a single mom = dating a lady in a relationship with 12 other guys

[@mauricemorty4687]

@Lilly i think that the difference relies on that the single mother has lost his man (so to speak) and she knows that her family will never fix back so all that it's left are all the other men that she didn't choose therefore she could choose whomever it just doesn't matter anymore, she already have chosen her children's father, for the better or the worse, her second choice are all the other men so they all worth the same to her. all this happening at an unconscious level

[@jbar85jb22]

Yup not really a relationship on my end 1. Her baby daddy who cheats on his wife with her. Was with her for 3 years while married too but they hook up on and off 2. Her cousin yes her cousin who is married to her immigration papers but...suspect more 3. Her ex in between her baby daddy 4. Her 1st boyfriend who is now married but still wants too hook up with her by regularly hitting her up 5. Unknown friend who she says wants her. But says she can't be with me after feeling bad hooking up 20 times because she needs to be good with God....

[@uk9383]

I dated a son of a single mother. The mother made him into a replacement husband

[@chriskelly509]

I see a lot of guys online this time of year who are complaining about not being able to afford Christmas for their kids and step kids and I'm over here going this is exactly why I live the single life

[@JEFFMAN90]

Chris Kelly84 lol facts

[@marimac182]

Teach them kids to give not get, that is where most parenting goes wrong, shit... they grow up to be spoiled, manipulative, all about me adults... shit, its about giving not getting, I never stress out on the holidays , I told my kids santa is mexican he got deported hanging with El Chapo long time ago, we don't celebrate xmas😂🤣🤣😂...plus the xmas is not set up for minorities

[@BXD84]

Dated a single mom for 7 months after coming out of an 8 year relationship. We had top tier chemistry but she was very aggressive in pushing to advance the relationship and when I tried to slow it down she would emphasize how she “doesn’t have a lot of time and isn’t here to mess around.” She has a victim mindset and brought a lot of drama and tried to pit my friends against me. I broke up with her. Reached out 4 months later to rekindle and we attempted to give it a shot but she held a grudge against me from the first go around. Kept telling me this most recent time how I needed to earn her back, constantly gave me mixed signals, was selfish, solipsistic, and backed out 3 weeks into the rekindling process. Overall, she was drama ridden, victim mindset, and put down the vast majority of men she dated. The only ones she didn’t put down were blue pilled betas who she used them for their resources and left. I doubt she will ever find her Hallmark ending. Avoid single moms like the plague, boys.

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

I had a ex friend like this I don’t talk to her at all

[@racebannon96]

"how I needed to earn her back," Scary. She did you a favor. Be thankful you got out. I dated one like that too for a year. It was a nightmare. She was calling me and dropping by my home un-invited for 20 years. I asked her to pay back the money she "borrow" from me. That set her off and decided to punish me by ending the communication. Im just glad its over.

[@cougarcandy921]

Sounds like you got issues aswell

[@godsmacked1000]

Yea I dated a single mother...at least I thought she was single. The other guy was still around. Kind of a psycho. Never doing that again. No kids. Don't care how hot you are.

[@SilveryFoxster]

I’m divorced and have dated several single mothers. Without exception I was always the lowest on the pecking order and there just to provide financial support. Also, why would I want to take on responsibility for another man’s child who viewed me as a barrier to their mum and dad getting back together. Single mothers can keep their baggage, the price of being with them is far too high. It’s better to be single than be with a single mother.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

👫💑👪😍❤❤ single parent

[@junefulgado6038]

I went thru the same situations, good thing is I left after only 7 months being with her and her kids, it's the most tiring , depressing thing I've been thru in my whole life

[@10044thousand]

Yooo, i went through it a year back. I feel the same way bro...

[@terrauncebowie6712]

Same here

[@izu4272]

Very depressing

[@jonnyfranco7]

Why is it depressing?

[@Splakyy]

@@jonnyfranco7 because your never enough.. NEVER..

[@franzlyonheart4362]

"You will never matter as much to the woman as her children." Well, and in the rare cases where this is not so, then those are the kind of women you certainly don't want to associate with.

[@AN-jz3px]

What about prominent men who don’t need a mommy to support them ?

[@franzlyonheart4362]

@@AN-jz3px , what are you on about? Do you not love your mother?

[@thresher7772]

He's telling the truth, I dated a woman with a child, the acted like a brat, and the woman totally defended the child

[@Himlee335]

Jack Creaig You’re hundred percent right. I did myself a favor got the fuck out of there. No regrets doing so

[@DonStemple]

100% spot on. I am just coming out of almost 4 years of the same situation. Zero or inconsistent discipline every day. As a veteran and career police officer, this was more challenging than being on an actual field of battle. I don't think I'd be willing to ever do it again.

[@gentugo]

I have experienced this. Now at my age I will never meet anyone who does not have kids. I was always expendable. It is better to be alone than to be expendable.

[@Vlad-tt9is]

People are always expendable, that is nature.

[@dislikebutton4981]

Tom Hänel That's fucking bs! Plan well and save and you can hire someone's adult child to wipe your ass... "Being alone is only possible because of the welfare state" Get real! It's the welfare state that has created these Queens and made men disposable. Sorry it's late for me... I just had to respond to your silly comment.

[@dislikebutton4981]

Tom Hänel I'm sorry man... I thought you were implying that single men are a burden on the system when they get old. It was late...and I made a mistake. Jokes on me! Lol have a nice day!

[@klaiken989]

Gentugo how old are you??

[@MaleficWeegee]

Tom Hänel You worded that horribly, my man. If you wanted that to be the desired result, it should have been something like: "The only reason you have to be alone is due to the welfare state."

[@toulane7172]

Yeah agreed. Going through one right now. In a situationahip. They dont appreciate qnything you do. Just leave them and dont date them. Left mine today! Greatess choice ive made!

[@deaddropsd1972]

Happy for you

[@MMODoubter]

Good video, sir. My last GF was a mama bear, and I eventually broke it off after she expressed the desire for me to move in and 'lay down the law' with her kids (whom she admitted were out of control). I have stayed single and childless, but at 50+ the loneliness makes it difficult to be careful sometimes.

[@inferno1305]

MMODoubter get a dog they are better company

[@101thetruthguy]

MMODoubter PREACH IT LIKE THE BIBLE

[@matthewbaumann630]

Can you elaborate?

[@inferno1305]

Matthew Baumann no what i said was strait forward. a dog is better company

[@danbruh]

1:10 you don't know what the hell you're talking about dude. I'm 34 years old and I've been to taco bell enough times to know exactly what it's like to feel something moving inside you and then giving birth soon after.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Daniel Caprar you are right, been there too. I stand corrected.

[@kentimig]

Daniel Caprar hahahaha!

[@kattefelt8819]

OMG i damn near shot coffee out of my nose! LMAO

[@FionaAWolfe01]

Daniel Caprar thanks Dude, I needed the laugh.

[@huntmatthewd]

Lmfao!! I am eating a TB burrito right now. 😂

[@issaccaballero3929]

Woman need to appreciate men who are willing to come in a relationship with a child.

[@nakedglass]

Lol... most usually complain they've been treated poorly and demand to be treated like the queen they are. The load to take on is too high for the return in most cases.

[@justjenny8210]

@@nakedglass i dont put anyone on a pedestal. And im not a queen, and neither are they. Most are loud mouths with no dignity. I know how it feels to be treated unfairly. shit happens.

[@nakedglass]

@@justjenny8210 I wasnt talking to you. But you have no proof to your claims

[@justjenny8210]

@@nakedglass no proof about what?.

[@force9485]

Unfortunately most women are all too quick to let a man into their kids lives especially if she has sons rather than daughters.

[@doesntmatter2505]

Dated, married and divorced a single mom. One thing I felt when with her and her daughter, was I felt at times I was the daughters older brother... I couldn’t disappoint, and was expected just to be a friend... was very strange and broke me down.

[@Graciehunter32]

You’re not the dad so why would you think you would be viewed that way

[@Takedownman]

@@Graciehunter32 probably because he was expected to be like a dad, paying bills, time money, doing everything abdad would do, but be called a dad

[@Graciehunter32]

@@Takedownman you’re not the father and never will be, you’re not related to them, it’s his own fault for forcing his way into someone’s life and expecting them to thank him

[@Takedownman]

@@Graciehunter32 And he should never try he should leave those children to rot

[@Graciehunter32]

@@Takedownman who said the kids would rot? If they have their own father in their lives they do not need another one

[@goatismyname]

I dating a chic with a 12 year old son. For whatever reason, in Wal-Mart he decided to kidney punch me, laugh and jump back. I told him to knock it off, he didn't. I cracked him one right across the face. He told his mom, she confronted me, I told her what I did, what he did, and that I'll do it again making eye contact with the kid. He got it. She got mad. We broke up.

[@janedoe2299]

Lul Lipop Bummer

[@chubbydexter8707]

Lul Lipop. You have to set boundaries with these brats. If you are reasonable and, in a situation like this, the little bastard doesn't react to explanations, then the only way that remains, to set boundaries, is with pain. If the mother doesn't understand, then you have to leave. The conflict in this triangle will only escalate.

[@raggy-raggy]

Then this mom is going to blame the absence of a man (father) for her ending up in handcuffs

[@reggaetennisman]

🤣

[@markboettcher9412]

Lul Lipop You would've broken up anyway you might as well show the kid what happens when you like the bear.

[@D.Anderson]

Divorced was marrired to single mother. 43-year-old no kids I will never do that again.

[@eveharris30]

David RUDEBOI Anderson Your rare.

[@aileraguilar3976]

matt smith W

[@AlonzoChico]

David RUDEBOI Anderson Dude in in the same boat & im also 43...I will never date a single mom again...

[@Albertojedi]

Alonzo Chico You can always try a married mom, lol!

[@AlonzoChico]

Alberto González LOL!!! Yeah hit it & quit it....

[@velveetaslingshot]

Its a romantic notion that it doesnt matter that they have kids, but it does. I have dated a few single moms and it was ALWAYS a terrible experience. Their entire existence revolves around their kids and once in a blue moon, when she feels lonely AND has a few minutes of free time, then and only then will you receive attention. And most, if not all of them, are still obsessed with their ex husband/boyfriend to the point of absurdity. And here is the most brutal truth of all gents, one that never gets brought up, they will ALWAYS look at you as a beta male for being with them at all. Women are attracted to alpha males and alphas do not go after women that have already spawned with another alpha. Sad but true, but you will always be seen as a beta male simply because you are willing to look past all the bullshit just to be with her. Try as we might to convince ourselves otherwise, we are simply selfish animals. Complicated selifsh animals, but selfish animals nonetheless.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

velveetaslingshot the truth

[@robgoren8628]

velveetaslingshot Women are instinctually hypergamous and will, as you say, always see you as a beta male for settling for a woman with kids. Instead of seeing you as more courageous and heroic than the so-called alpha who would not settle, she sees you as inferior. However sad, it is the cold hard truth. You're a chump in her eyes.

[@vitalsign0]

I married a women who had a 4 year old and a 1 year old when I met her. We are long divorced but the the 1 year old is now 15 and stays at my house 50% of the time. She is the best thing in my life and we couldn’t be closer. She’s always called me dad.

[@richiee8817]

just got out of an engagement because of her 13 year old son

[@chriskelly509]

supposed to go on a 2nd date with a single mom.... after reading these comments I'm going to cancel, done dating single moms.

[@chriskelly509]

not to mention chick has been flakey which tells me shes talking to other guys, makes the choice easier.

[@Tony-dh]

Lucky

[@muammaralissa6717]

Chris Kelly84 smart man, RUN FAR FROM THEM

[@MrPrettyBoyChina]

Richie E smart move

[@kurtgoldston5532]

this is precisely why you don't get involved with a single mom!!!!! STAY AWAY FROM A COW WITH CALVES!!!?

[@RulershipMentality]

Kurt Goldston 😂😂😂😂

[@Wolverine8091]

:D

[@drb77918]

What a dick

[@brielleanyez7113]

I am a widow and have a 15 year old son. My husband died 9 years ago. It's been a struggle ever since his father died. Now he has become a disrespectful holy terror. He's bigger than me and he won't listen to me. I would honestly love to have a big strong good man to whip him into shape!! He would never be acting like this if his father was here. Being a single mother is beyond hard. And to those women that still have their kids father alive and well, either try to work on the marriage for your children, or be fantastic co-parents! Either way, kids don't take mothers seriously, and they desperately need boundaries and discipline! Good men are priceless! I would treasure, at this point having a significant other who would maybe teach him how to grow into a good man and respectful human being. Ladies, don't throw the fathers of your kids away. It's about the kids, not you. So if you still have the opportunity to reconcile, for the love of God, take it.

[@your.dark.lord.]

Christopher Stuart, if she was still grieving it means she was still in love with him therefore not with you, there was no place for you there man, you were just a utility.

[@your.dark.lord.]

@@cstuartdc If it wasn't hurtful for you, then it was good. It's better if you are not in love.

[@saalikwhite348]

Brielle Lombard I would love to talk with you if you’re serious. I am that male, you’re speaking of, so first things first. I am the father of an 11-year-old daughter, who is ruling her mother with an iron fist, it just seems to me, there is little hope her mother is going to be able to control our daughter‘s behavior. It’s interesting how at the site of me my daughter falls in line quickly and happily. She told her mother she doesn’t have any guidelines, and allow her to do anything she wants, my daughter even told me, she feel it’s wrong for her mother to give her the freedom she’s giving her, but I don’t. My daughter told me for this she feels like I love her more, can you believe that. I told her mother what my daughter said. The mother thinks our daughter doesn’t understand this, what a foolish thing to think, she’s 11 years old. It’s gotten completely out of control, in fact my daughter doesn’t allow her mother to tell me anything when daughter is misbehaving because she knows I am not going to tolerate it. So now she threatens her mother, she’s hits her mother, kicks her mother even spit on her mother......yes yes yes she’s done it all to her mother to the point her mother is completely afraid of her. I am so freakin angry, but not at my daughter, I am angry at the mother because I warned her many years ago these things were going to happen if she does not apply some discipline in my daughter’s life and or behavior, I saw the signs.

[@dadsarepeopletoo3785]

You are a widowed mother not a single mother. Don't group yourself in with divorced moms and out of wedlock moms. 💕 sending you good vibes.

[@vanessaroper3028]

In such instances, would you find boys club, or all boys boarding school or a male mentor to help him out? but it needs to be consistent. of course a remarriage would make things easier.

[@rstelzer2928]

A smart mortician can tell when he is working on a single mother. Whenever he turns his back to her gurney she tries to pick his wallet.

[@Mad.Maxx.77]

MGTOW. Better to be alone and sane than date a single mom.

[@Shanedog76]

thanks for that sobering advise??? tell me this then, does a Women with kids after a mirage gone bad want sex again or not???

[@cool08player]

It's better to be alone than to be married AND alone. Likewise, it's better to be single and wish you were married than to be married and wish you were single. Think about it !

[@Oshaoxin]

@Shane Dahlke: One does not simply have a bad mirage unless you're hallucinating. And yes, they will undoubtedly want sex again but that is irrelevant. Sex is not a basic human need for survival, it's secondary. Sex is meant for procreation, only liberal school material will tell you otherwise. Liberals are known for their biologically incorrect 'facts'/values.

[@suburbia8831]

Hell yea bro 👍🏾

[@5.5.Below.5]

@may day if you were married or been in a relationship long enough with a woman, you would see why men are deciding to go celibate (not screwing other men) or stick with escorts. Less headaches, misery and more money with time in your pockets. I tell other men marriage is for selfless people whom are willing to sacrifice for their spouse. Sadly, the system ensures that the husband stays traditional but the wife doesn't have to. There is no benefit for men today to stay in a relationship with a conniving being whom only wants what she can get out of it without putting anything (or as minimal as possible) into it. She may put up a good act at first until the man thinks he's marrying his dream woman only to find out who she really is later...like black widows I tell ya.

[@AGRANT716]

my bio dad was a raging alcoholic who beat the shit out of my mom and me. after she left him, we struggled. ramen and Mac and cheese every day. she met my step dad who accepted me as his own and raised me to be a decent human being. I could have easily become a statistic. I am grateful for that man. dating a single mother isn't for everyone, but thankfully there good men out there who do.

[@My_Darkest_Hearts]

Ashley grant, yeah being on both sides of the coin I am conflicted. I was raised by a great man, he is my stepfather, as much of a father as any good dad Ive seen. Yet, I was in an LTR with a single mother of three. Idk. It got pretty messy and yet, my stepdad and mom are still together, going strong. I wanted to replicate their success, but I am just lost now.

[@My_Darkest_Hearts]

My Dad can spit, harder than you can punch, Luis. 😋Yeah, my life is great, how's yours? Opinionated I'm guessing... lol

[@mylifeisinhishandsamen4167]

Does yout step dad has a child of his own or your mom just used him without thinking about the need for him to procreate

[@carter102]

A man taking care of another mans kid is one of the most noble acts a person can do. It helps to heal society. The problem as I see it, is most single moms don't show the proper respect or appreciation for what the man is doing. Humans are funny, when they don't get the respect or appreciation they deserve for being kind, they stop doing it.

[@frankpoleski5423]

Ashley grant mom should have been smarter who she laidb with

[@robgoren8628]

This is so true. I dated a single mother for 5 years and was reduced to a babysitter/chauffeur/handyman whom she treated like garbage near the end. Forget about being a priority in her life; you are #324, after the kid's school, the kid's taekwondo, the kids piano, soccer. You are valued to the extent that you can be a resource provider for her one true love. Despite all I gave to her and her child, she would still dismiss my sacrifices in order to claim the perverse pride of being a single mother. AND, if the woman is a mother to a boy, get ready: at a certain age her subconscious lust for that boy will surpass her lust for you. You will see a deep intimacy in their relationship that doesnt exist in the shitty one she maintains with you. Guys have their heart in the right place, and a messianic complex, thinking they can rescue a woman. YOU CANNOT. The woman has already been rescued by her child. At best, you're the comic sidekick to the rescuer. There are no absolutes in life, obviously; but dating a single mother in the hope of finding love, affection, and a soulmate is pretty much a fool's game. Her child is her soulmate.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

My experience was nearly the same at the end. The amount of things I was fixing was endless. I felt like I was maintaining two houses, mine and hers. These self proclaimed feminist mothers, that say they can do it all... yes until something breaks, then they lean on you. Also had a similar experience where there was some creepy son/mum behaviour going on, like she was leaning on the boys for way emotional support then what a mother should have.

[@jamescorsey6041]

Robgoren absolutely right im going threw this right now i need to get away from this situation

[@USA-zr9zy]

Moral of the story fellas don’t do it especially if you have none of your own 😂 it’s a total waste of time

[@ashrpblond]

i thought i was going to listen to this and get angry but you said everything and it was totally true this is a great video and honest

[@Bobochee]

U should see his video about to how to become a better person. Childhood trauma spouses and therefore the roots of his struggles.

[@laatdovahkiin7405]

Not all red pilled men act these two morons. Lol dont judge us all.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am single parent 😍😍❤❤

[@KOPunch-xb3tp]

When a woman allows her child(ren) to disrespect you it is because they don't have any respect for you themselves = Get Out !!!

[@kekesdream3886]

Or they need a good whooping

[@richardcooper5354]

agree as i have seen this and i have had this done to me when i went out with a single mum

[@MedievalFantasyTV]

You know what is even more stupid than dating a single mother? Have another children with her. I was that guy. I love my daughter, but I won't lie to you guys, I literally ruined my life and I have PTS from this relationship. I regret it every single minute. It is even worse because I do not want my daughter to know my regrets, so I put on a mask and I live a nightmarish life everyday. I did not take my life away because I love my daughter too much for that. Sorry for my bad English. But I warn you: if you are going to date a single mom, make sure that you really know what you are doing...

[@heyhuda56]

LDM STUDIOS get a divorce. Don't do that to yourself

[@djslowtunes]

Michael LopeZ you a bitch

[@Rlqax]

michael lopez Youre a piece of shit ... must feel pretty tough saying that behind a screen to someone who didn't do anything to you

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

Aren't you in the same position as "single moms" now though? You have a child from another woman, you chose to lay with her, surely that puts you in the same category? However there are people telling you to find a nice childless woman, yet if you do, she will be in the exact same position as you were when YOU dated the single mom. I don't understand the hypocrisy... 😂 I truly don't think you should be lumped into the stereotype however. I don't actually know you, so I'm in no place to judge or have an opinion I know nothing about, or what isn't actually any of my business. Even if we think we choose the "one", there is certainly no guarantee of a happy future. People change, life happens, and those who judge solo parents should bite their tongues as there is no guarantee in life they won't become one too 😘

[@workingshlub8861]

my neighbor who is now in his 60s married a woman who already had 5 kids with 2 different men...and then he went on to have 2 kids with her 7 kids total 3 men..the oldest stepchild is early 40s..so this woman had her first kid when she was around 18....one day I helped him repair his roof and we were talking had a few beers and he told me all I he wanted was to be a air force pilot but he was young and stupid and had the save a hoe mentality..he was already accepted to college and ready to go...told me do not let anyone get in the way of your dreams no matter what...this was 20 years ago and I run into now and then and he always asks" do you remember what I told you" I sure do.

[@escapableentropy9576]

Tried it once when I was 35. Absolute worst relationship ever. Woman was a closet alcoholic, the Ex was a drug addict with a gun. they fought non-stop, she moved her DAD into the place, the 2 kids were 1-3 and she tried to make me a stay at home dad. I was the 5th priority. When I broke it off after 3 months she lied to me about being pregnant, then gangstalked me with her friends. SHE WAS NEVER PREGNANT. NEVER DATE A SINGLE MOM unless maybe shes a widower and the kid is dead and the ex is out of the picture. LMAO

[@maryfeasley7775]

Made me laugh hard and I a single mother with a GROWN kid

[@freedomfighter8109]

Bro😂 dead kid 🤣

[@goodmaninabadtime117]

I disagree you don’t put the child first. You put the spouse first. If the foundation isn’t strong the house crumbles. Kids need to see they aren’t the center of the universe. They need to see how a mom and dad take care of each other first. Single moms use “my kids come first” as a cop out to avoid discipline. Single mom raise spoiled brats. They don’t want to stand up to their kids. But they will tell you not to make them behave. You are allowed to be a wallet and entertainer to the kids. That’s it.

[@karlkindle5275]

Totally agree. Kids do not come first.

[@melvinletterlough9587]

I swear I heard this from so many ppl cause 1 day the child will get older and have a family of there own

[@mtlb4906]

So true. Learned it myself when dating a single mom.

[@RobertCuillo]

well said

[@davidregi7571]

I suppose you took it from bible.God first,spouse second, children third. Well ,what you forget is that bible also bans premarital sex and remarriage