19 Unwritten Rules For Living In Australia!

[@k1ng401]

The “fair pay” thing is covered by the Australian ethos of “a fair go” which basically means you’re expected to treat people fairly, give them opportunity to advance themselves, pay them what they’re worth, give them a chance to speak or explain themselves etc. “A fair go” is one of the most important parts of the Australian ethos. It’s why we treat everyone the same regardless of race, “class” or wealth and discriminate when it comes to attitude or behaviour, especially behaviour that rips off or tries to take advantage. We totally believe in people getting Unemployment Benefits to help them over a rough patch till they can get a job; that’s giving them a fair go. We despise people who permanently live off the dole when they can work; that’s them not giving us a fair go because they are a) using other people’s taxes for their lifestyle and b) taking advantage of other peoples labour; we work while they bludge. That’s not on. There are so many other instances where our attitude toward something is a result of “a fair go”. It’s a major cultural belief.

[@DanDownunda8888]

Re : flashing headlights. A few years ago in Victoria the police booked a driver for doing it and when it went to court the police lost the case as the magistrate said the driver was getting people to slow down and in fact was helping to promote public safety. There was another case where someone put a sign up saying that there was a speed camera ahead. They were charged by the police and again the magistrate literally laughed at the police for the same reason.

[@michaelhennessy4754]

Yes. It has never been an offence to advise people to obey the law or that they are in danger of being penalized if they break the law.

[@RUHappyATM]

Yeah, I thought that was an urban myth, that the police could charge you for flashing out their disguise.

[@markeaston7353]

As an Australian who has spent a lot of time inn other countries I find your observations to be very insightful. You've nailed it guys!

[@donnachatterton1639]

I moved to country Victoria about ten years ago. Just before going around a bend in the middle of nowhere, a car came the other way, flashing his lights. Naturally, I thought it was the police and slowed down a bit. When I got around the bend, there was a large cow walking on the side of the road. 😃

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Living in the country is a whole new experience - we regularly see escaped chickens now 😆

[@jassewalton1768]

Yes, two or three flashes are 'the cops are ahead, LOTS of flashes means 'ow down there's a problem ahead' = cows, flooded creek, car accident, loose dog, etc etc.

[@jassewalton1768]

sorry... 'slow down...'

[@donnachatterton1639]

@@jassewalton1768 as I’d been living in Melbourne my whole life prior to that, I had no idea it meant anything other than police on the road ahead.

[@samday6621]

Yeah, Australians need a light system. Lights for cops, Lights for animals or idiots on the road Lights for Kangaroo on side of road (but we know it’s gunna jump out and test you) Lights for “River is high, don’t test it!” ...🤔.....

[@georgecurrenti]

Bring a “plate” to a function… my mum did just that in the 70s, as an immigrant from Italy didn’t know. Nowadays she would bring a full tray for lasagna or home made pizza, or both. 😄

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha we have heard of this happening alot, she is not alone! 😆🥰🇦🇺

[@michaelmayo9048]

An empty plate ..? That would be so funny...

[@lindsaysmith8119]

Sounds like I should invite her over.

[@omaronnyoutube]

Thanks for sharing your mom's "bring a plate" experience with us. I'll take note and I'll make sure I'll bring a plate of delicious Malaysian asam pedas fish (tamarind stew fish), nasi lemak, satay or laksa to my neighbour's house in Australia. I would love to invite your mom over to try her delicious pizza and lasagna.

[@debrafrost5264]

I’ve known of people doing this! Poor buggers😂

[@glenwillson5073]

Don't complain. Reminds me of a true "wingeing pom" story from some years back. They came, they complained about everything, they wanted to go back to England. Their English relatives got on Australian TV and said they didn't want them to come back because they were always complaining.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha so the Brit’s didn’t want them back 😂😂

[@randlecycling2462]

I lived in England, it's called pissing and moaning and they are ask "why would you come here? The Australian weather.. " when it gets to 26 degrees the pissing and moaning starts, they wouldn't last a day in the Australian summer. If the English are miserable, to be fair the Australians are angry.

[@lindsaysmith8119]

I do recall that story and one of their main complaints was that they were sick of seeing the Sun and blue skies almost most every day. They should have moved to Melbourne and would of felt right at home.

[@club1fan552]

60 Minutes. Jana Wendt was the journo. Circa mid eighties.

[@boofhead7338]

They are not complaining, just having fun with it, sshhh.

[@roslynjonsson2383]

Well said guys, and you're spot on. Us Aussies don't care where you're from, what car you drive, or what size your bank account is - if your a fair and honest person, who treats others with respect, you'll be accepted everywhere you go. If you judge, look down on others, don't treat others fairly or respectfully, you won't do well in Aus. We ENCOURAGE each other to call out bad behaviour, to keep everyone as safe as we possibly can....Yes, we do take pride in the care of our country, wildlife and unique eco surroundings, if we lose that, we lose who we are. We're VERY happy to share all we have and welcome ALL, as long as they respect Australia, it's people and all that makes it Australia.

[@reallyskeptical]

Spot on for you! not all. Don't speak for 25million.

[@reallyskeptical]

We call out bad behaviour "where" except for politicians rich and big business ect ect.

[@reallyskeptical]

Care for our country buy destroying our water systems the Murry is destroyed by water rights selling for profit.

[@roslynjonsson2383]

@@reallyskeptical when we see people litter, when we see someone causing harm we don't sit back and just watch. When "DON'T" us Aussies call out bad behaviour is more to the question. The Australia I know just doesn't sit back and allow b/s to go on without someone calling it out, so not sure which part of Aus you live in, or who you mix with

[@roslynjonsson2383]

@@reallyskeptical Ahhhh you're in the east. Well m8 im in the west, and that's a totally different kettle of fish. Vic and NSW were under Liberals for farrrrrr too long THATS the Aus you know

[@timf3304]

Thanks, I really enjoyed the video and your friendly humorous style. I've been away from OZ for 20 years except for an occasional brief holiday home every year or three and it's good to see most things are the same as I grew up with. Cheers mate! :)

[@matthewcullen1298]

I'm a strange Aussie I guess. When I ask how's it going, I'm actually interested. I am keen to make sure people are ok. I've been called unAustralian before because I don't all fit into weak natured stereotypes bought about by recent generations. Funny considering my family ancestors come here as convicts on the first fleet. I believe in decency and doing the right thing by others which is an old Aussie value not using profanity for every second word which is a bogan type value. I grew up in a rough neighbourhood, went to a rough school and have spent 33 years in the building industry. Doesn't mean I can't think for myself and watch my language. I work around family environments and don't need kids hearing that sort of language. Being able to think for yourself is very much Australian.

[@Bonstergirl1]

most aussie are interested in hows it going , however if ppl make it a novel when replying, thats when most of us fade out. I too am interested genuinely but not if they give me their lifes history so to speak. You're not unAustralian if you do the right thing and help others. We(our familly) help others were we can. It is good for you and them . Have a nice day

[@shaz464]

Haha, my Scottish friend got caught out with “bring a plate”. She’s been here over 50 years now, but she still laughs about it.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Oh my gosh that’s so funny! We love these stories! 🥰🥰

[@heatherfruin5050]

I know a number of people from overseas who've been caught out on bring a plate.

[@jonbartels7612]

My dutch grandmother also got caught out by “bring a plate”

[@johnpage7735]

Hi, I've watched a few of your videos now and as an Aussie I can say you are the best advatisment for Australia that I've seen. So glad you chose us and not Canada.

[@nunya2171]

The best description of senses of humour I have heard is, Yanks take the piss out of someone else, Poms take the piss out of themselves and Aussies take the piss out of everyone.

[@joanokeefe6316]

Well done. As an Australian you held my attention throughout. The best one I have seen about things to be aware of here.

[@TombstoneHeart]

The flashing of headlights to warn of police sure takes me back. I lived in Melbourne in the early 70's and drove trucks long distance and quickly learned that in the days before truckies had UHF radios in their trucks, they communicated with each other through a series of signals. For instance; Flashing your headlights and pointing at your wheels meant the bad guys were weighing trucks up ahead, looking for overloaded ones. Flashing your headlights and making an up-and-down, flat palmed gesture meant slow down - there are coppers up ahead with a radar trap. There was even a few signals that were used just out of courtesy. When another truck overtook your's and was clear to move back into your lane, you were expected to flash your headlights or, at night, your high beam, to let the overtaking truckie know he was clear to move back in front of you. Once you had done this, he was expected to give you a quick flash from his left and right hand indicators as a "thank you". There were heaps of these signals and they were a wonderful example of the camaraderie that once existed in the lives of Australian truckies out on the two lane terrors that were our national highways back then. Nobody would ever drive past a broken down truck without stopping and asking the usual, "You OK, mate?" And nobody would dare to drive past a truck involved in an accident. There was only one possible outcome to that sort of thing - you run out of mates really fast! Nothing stops time and change, but I sure miss those days.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

The use of flashing headlights and indicators for moving lanes and saying thank you is used by most people in the UK, it took us a while to stop doing it here. We have noticed people stopping for broken down vehicles and accidents here, it is really lovely, such a sense of community spirit 🥰🇦🇺

[@kerrydoutch5104]

Also flash light to warn of an accident up ahead or wildlife or livestock or some sortvof hazard on the road

[@lindsaysmith8119]

Its also popular on the M4 freeway in Sydney. Get in the right lane even if exceeding the speed limit and you will get flashed to move over so some dingbat can pass.

[@michaelmclachlan1650]

The quick flash of lights to indicate it's safe to return to the left lane and the "thank you" indicator flash are still in use amongst truckies.

[@TombstoneHeart]

@@michaelmclachlan1650 TY. Good to know, in case, in my dotage, I get foolish enough to think I can handle a spell of "goin' up the track" again!

[@ruthvanmackelenberg9034]

My grandmother felt terribly sorry for her new friend, and took half a dozen empty plates. She had no idea that they expected her to bring a plate of food! Loving your experiences!💖

[@blacksorrento4719]

Yes my mother had a similar experience. The Masonic dances were a big thing on a Saturday night. Someone off the cuff, trying to help no doubt, told mother to bring a plate. That’s what she did, stowed away in her very big handbag of the day. She had no idea that the plate was supposed to be full of food. As one can imagine, that plate never saw the light of day in that hall, and my brother and I were told to eat nothing on the tables, as we had not contributed. I don’t think there is any migrant who hasn’t got either an embarrassing or funny story. 🥴😊

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha, it catches so many people out - we love that she took lots to be extra helpful though 😆❤️

[@Bonstergirl1]

@@blacksorrento4719 awe poor thing. Hope they didnt rib her too badly.

[@blacksorrento4719]

@@Bonstergirl1 many of those people way back then, became lifelong friends, yes she got ribbed over the years, all in good Aussie humour, after she got over the embarrassment, eventually she could laugh about it. To any other migrants who she came across, she went out of her way to tell them a few of Australia’s do’s and don’ts. 😊👍

[@debbiewbd2359]

There's many similar things in Canada, like "How's it going" and many others but especially cold beer and bringing food to parties

[@debkendall]

"Got a bingle out on Broady...towies on site, but as a result it's chockers in that direction." Melbourne radio road report means: car crash in broadmedows (suburb) - tow trucks are at the scene but as a result there is a traffic jam on the road. Slang has changed dramatically over the last 50 years - lots of Australia slang has been lost as our population has become more diverse

[@TheBAMFamalam]

We wouldn’t have known bingle! We’re still learning new things every day! ❤️

[@trekkie-cat]

Perfectly understand that broadcast!

[@paulmckee8142]

Another good vid, few add on’s though. Another answer to “how’s it going” is “ living the dream” . Also taking drinks to a bbq is a must however, do not under any circumstances take the full ones home with you. They are left behind for the host . Cheers guys 👍

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Thank you for those add ons 😁🥰

[@godamid4889]

Unless the host insists. Nobody likes my lime infused Carlton drys, so I never drink them all by myself and the hosts always insist I take them home.

[@christopherharvie8716]

Another on is. “another day in paradise” used sarcastically.

[@JohnWilliams-iw6oq]

I love the look on a shop assistant's face when they ask if I need help and I reply "No thanks, I'm beyond help". Going to visit people always required a "Ticket", a beer for the men and a wine for the ladies.

[@samb1110]

Hello Bamfammers, newish viewer and first time commenter here. I enjoyed the video, thanks! That "Un-Australian" term was something virtually never used or heard here prior to the late 90s. It's something popularised by ex PM John Howard, and really meant anyone who disagreed with him. We all thought it was a bit silly and very American ultra nationalist sounding, but sadly it's caught on to some extent. It certainly doesn't allow for the cultural and other diversities here. You may find it's often used in a sarcastic or parodic sense. Personally if I'm called Un-Australian I take it as a compliment. I'm not trying to get political but thought you may be interested as to it's origins, at least recent origins. Cheers.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

We’ve heard it being used about politicians! It’s interesting to know where it’s come from 😁

[@markriley9943]

I was about to write something along these lines. I feel the same about t. It grates every time i hear it.

[@kayelle8005]

Yes came to comment something similar. Much as right wingers like to complain about so called political correctness they are usually the ones throwing phrases like unAustralian around as a way to constrain debate. Anyway prior to Howard if someone did something unbecoming you would say “it’s not cricket” which is an expression I’m sure you’re familiar with as well.

[@legoqueen2445]

When my son was 4 he dobbed on one of his mates for something that happened in the playground at childcare. I have him a stern talking to trying to get him to understand that dobbing on your mates is un-Australian. I think that's the only time I've used the phrase and I was taking the piss.

[@k1ng401]

That’s right. Definitely started with John Howard. I’ve only ever heard it used ironically by ordinary Aussies. Like I tell my wife when she works in her home business on a public holiday “That’s bloody un-Australian mate!”

[@RolandjHearn]

The correct way to say "thank you' when you driving, although it tends to be only the truck driving community that is aware of it now, is to alternate your blinkers - one or two on the left, one or two on the right and then one or two on the left. Also if you are driving on a duel carriage and you see that it is fine for the person behind to pass you should pull slightly to the left and indicate with your right indicator - although to be honest farmers turning into their driveway often do that too so you just need to watch a bit. Oh and BTW, fantastic job, really good work - you were spot on.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Yes! That is what we’ve always done with the blinkers, but we noticed no one does that around here! ❤️❤️

[@jimlofts5433]

when a B double passes you can also flash the lights when they have safely passed - a bliker flash may be the response - feel goodies all round

[@aussiejohn5835]

@@TheBAMFamalam The practice of using indicators to signal someone to overtake is now illegal in most states of Australia as is flashing headlights for any reason. The reason for this is the number of accidents occurring due to indicating unsafely and blinding headlights at night.

[@Ozgrandmother]

The younger generation of drivers don't know about this signaling. Also on country road , just wide enough for one car, you automatically go to the left to make enough room for the vehicle coming opposite to have enough room Unfortunately , young city people have no idea about that. I remember years ago, 4 stupid young city women taking ALL the road, we were driving behind them when a truck came the opposite. They stayed on the road and the truck driver nearly got the fence as he tried to avoid them ! My husband started flashing his lights at them, but they just kept going. A while after we saw them at the petrol station. They looked at us laughing like idiot and showing the finger ! sad generation...

[@daveedwards3212]

No way! That indicating is the worst thing to do as it can cause accidents if a right turning vehicle is mistaken for a '[please pass' signal

[@flibbinflah22]

Well done guys. You were so accurate. Not just the same old things people find different. A breath of fresh air.

[@melissalayton213]

I had the opposite, I've moved to the UK and was taken aback when everyone kept asking me if I was alright. I thought I must have looked sick or tired at first. 😄

[@Aussie-kim1631]

I'm such a fan of your video's and happy that you've made Australia home 💞

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Ah thank you 🥰🥰

[@helenebennie3961]

You two are lovely. I have lived in Australia all my life and never realised "How ya going?" was a form of greeting. Now I can not get annoyed when people don't wait for a response.

[@grandmothergoose]

The flashing lights is part of a somewhat complex communication system that's mostly used between truckers but anyone driving a car that knows the codes can use it too. It has varied a bit over time and can change a little bit depending where you are. Usually one single flash of headlights means you're driving with your high beams on and need to turn them off. Two quick flashes means cops are ahead of you, or a speed camera, etc. Three quick flashes means there's a dangerous hazard on the road ahead of you. The lights system also includes indicator and hazard lights and how many flashes of each side or both together will tell their intentions to overtake you, or tell you whether or not it's safe to overtake them, and various other signals about the road ahead for when you're behind them rather than driving towards them, as that communication gets a lot more complicated and I haven't been able to memorise which combination of light flashes mean what. Originally, the bring a plate thing was divided by gender. It was customary for the women to bring a plate of food, and the men to bring the booze, but that's fallen to the wayside over the years to the point of everyone just brings their own booze and a share plate.

[@lindsaysmith8119]

Also used in slow moving heavy traffic. Vehicle coming from the opposite direction wanted to turn and you leave a gap and flash once so they can go. Well that is what I do.

[@daveedwards3212]

Safe to overtake indicating is a thing of the past because of the dangers it creates

[@davidbellwood4759]

Would love to see more of you guys showing us Australia and even them house tours you’ve done before! Keep up the great work 🙏🏻

[@TheDeldaisy]

When my daughters came over to visit we went to sit on the verandah. They AUTOMATICALLY quickly checked under their chairs. (For spiders) SO not just shoes. Check your outdoor furniture.

[@robinhahn6987]

Cheers for that. There's bushland just back of the house: I should wear gloves for the redbacks and boots and long pants because of the eastern brown down the back, but I sort-of forget to, and mow the lawn in shorts and flip-flops. The boss tells me she's not impressed. 😜😜😜

[@alanbaskaev3907]

Oh folks, so happy that I discovered your channel. Moving to Down Under next Friday. Excited AF 🤣

[@VicodinElmo]

Great video! A few things about some of the points that surprised me: 1. Some of the language stuff feels familiar to the UK as well. “You alright?” and “You okay?” seem to fit the same purpose as “How’s it going?” although I think we sometimes use that term too. The “mate” thing even in quite formal settings is pretty common too. Maybe it’s a regional thing? I live in Cornwall but grew up in Wales so perhaps we are more casual than the rest of the UK? 2. My best mate’s sister has been working at Uni of Melbourne for the last 10 years and said that Islanders and Indigenous communities were kind of discriminated against? That was about 8 years ago though she said that so perhaps things have improved? 3. Flashing lights to warn of speed cameras - I thought this was common in UK too? Pretty much everywhere in Cornwall does it (on the rare occasion you see a camera anyway).

[@robinhahn6987]

Don't complain - abso-freakin'-lutely! I had an issue with some 'friends' from the States that were constantly whingeing about stuff they sort-of didn't 'get' about QLD. I finally said something to the effect of: "sounds like you'd be happier back in {name-of-state-they're-from}." They looked at me with surprise... didn't sort-of get it. Me, I'm ever so grateful to be here in Oz: got my citizenship a year and a half ago and never missed where I came from, at all. This IS the best place I've ever lived in, and I've seen a little bit of the world.

[@kayelle8005]

If it’s a big event yes you may be asked to bring a plate. If it’s a smaller dinner party then a bottle of wine or flowers or after dinner mints/chocolates or a cheese.

[@LSturboguy]

You been here 7 years and have prospered here so that makes you an asset to Oz its the people like you we want in the country, after the time you have been in Oz your pretty much Aussies

[@LilliR4116]

Great video! The flashing lights section- we use to alert for police traffic cameras, also we do use it it to allow a semi trailer [truck] to overtake and wants to get in front of you, sometimes we flash to say it's okay mate you have room to move. Also, a tight narrow road and we take turns to drive ahead, we flash to say thankyou! For allowing me to go first. A cold one is also called a "frothy" 🍺. 😉😁 different states and regions can have their own but most of what you mentioned in the video is true!!

[@TDRKB]

Ahhh you left out the abbreviation for sandwich - Sanga! I moved her from England when I was little ( over 50 years ago) and am still adapting. Welcome to Australia and hope this place works out for you. Dont forget to slip slop slap! What a delightful pair you are!

[@club1fan552]

Very accurate with a couple of caveats. Obey the road rules? Often not. Yes, take something to an informal gathering but if it's formal, taking food (unless by prior agreement) is the height of rudeness. Booze is always the exception of perhaps high quality chockies. Check ya!

[@thescourgeofathousan]

We do flash our lights in NSW to encourage someone to go first if there’s any hesitation or to let someone in to a queue etc. Aside from the police or speed camera thing it’s also used to say - “your lights are off” when it’s dark and someone’s forgotten to turn their headlights on - you’ve left X item on the roof of your car - your boot is open - there’s a dirty great spider on the roof/door of your car

[@beckystokes7645]

Loved this video, thanks for the tips. Very much needed before I fly out from Heathrow in 2 weeks & 3 days (not that I'm counting or anything 😀) and I will be sure not to flash anyone on my journey from Sydney to Brisbane 😉

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Hahaha we’re happy to be keeping you on the right side of the law when you arrive 😂 That’s so exciting, we’re counting the days for you! 🇦🇺🐨

[@beckystokes7645]

@@TheBAMFamalam I literally cannot wait 😀 I mean, just for a change, we are actually having an awesome summer here in the UK right now (my summer clothes have been out for more than 2 weeks lol) but I know I'm gonna get out to Oz and just not gonna want to come home again 🙈

[@TheBAMFamalam]

@@beckystokes7645 is this your permanent move, or just a holiday? Xx

[@beckystokes7645]

@@TheBAMFamalam unfortunately just a holiday...one that I've been waiting to do for over 50 years. If I could move out there I would though & I have seriously considered it, but my options are limited due to age. Plus husband still needs convincing! I'll see how he feels once we have to fly back into the UK on the 18th September...the holiday may convince him yet 😉

[@TheBrierose]

@@beckystokes7645 You might want to pack a light jumper for cooler nights, it's still winter here, not as cold as UK, but not as hot as your current summer, yet.

[@etnocs]

"How's it going?" is basically equivalent to "Alright?" in the UK (which absolutely confused the hell out of me when I lived there for the same reason, so it goes both ways haha)

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha we have accidentally said it here a few times 😂

[@alancampbell1161]

On a visit to Britain many years ago, I was impressed by the flashing of lights to say you were OK to change lanes etc. We could do with adopting that here. I was also impressed on the motorways with being able to travel at sensible speeds rather than our (forced) obsession with speed limits. I remember lines of trucks in the left lane at whatever speed worked for them, I tended to take the middle lane, which seemed to sit on 80-85 MPH, and the adventurers did pretty much what they liked in the outside lane. The police watched from lay-bys and let it all go unless someone did something pretty stupid.

[@blacksorrento4719]

Did you ever think that forced speed limits were not only for us but for our wildlife, many are nocturnal, or those that have the propensity of jumping out at you, especially on moonlit nights. Also the truckies will give you the signal either with their blinkers to say it’s okay to pass, or flashing lights that you see in your rear view to say thank you for leaving enough breaking distance for them when you overtake. Depends where you travel, country drivers are more courteous and forgiving than those in the city.

[@alancampbell1161]

@@blacksorrento4719 Being a country driver, cyclist and motorcyclist, I'm acutely aware of the wildlife issue, and of the fact that speed limits don't help save the wildlife. What does save them is travelling at appropriate speeds, and trying to avoid travelling at their most active time, which is about an hour either side of sunrise and sunset, and on roads where they are known to be. All this is part of "situational awareness", which is the greatest safety item on the road, at sea or in the air.

[@blacksorrento4719]

@@alancampbell1161 wish there were more people like yourself. This previous urban dweller, both in 🇬🇧 and 🇦🇺Married an Australian country boy, I learned a lot. Keep on doing the good work, and I guess we have to forgive those who don’t 😊

[@alancampbell1161]

@@blacksorrento4719 Thanks, and best wishes to you.

[@wwooww63]

just started watching your channel, great work , trying the educate people about Australia and its people it's a hard place live and people are really hard to understand at first but in a short time you realise that its one of the best country in the world to live with the most friendly people aussies know how to enjoy life, and have a great work life balance, something we all should take notice of

[@Paul-MP]

Just found this. Spot on. 👍 Most people do flash their headlights to warn of police, speed camera, or a problem ahead, but I don't know anyone that's said they were caught and fined for it. Although it is illegal

[@daleriddell785]

The flashing lights to warn of speed cameras is somthing that I've always done in the UK, maybe its a rural thing here?

[@beckystokes7645]

Ohh I love a bit of a banter 😉 makes life more cheerful 😊

[@TheBAMFamalam]

It sure does! 😁🥰

[@DaveWhoa]

im pretty sure Aussie and English cricketers also enjoy a bit of banter when it's played in good spirit

[@lisanewman6065]

We also don’t use sandwich. It’s a Sanger. 😜

[@TheBAMFamalam]

We’re still learning haha ❤️

[@OzPozzy278]

Also known as sambo

[@WesternAustraliaNowAndThen]

Pretty good list guys. The light flashing thing is pretty much the same all over Oz, almost always means coppers or speed trap ahead.

[@petert24turner71]

In NSW flashing your lights to give another driver the go ahead in a tight situation when almost or stopped is a friendly gesture. But as you said to warn about police traps can incur a fine.

[@overworlder]

Speeding used to be the same as elsewhere but they set out to really crack down on it. $300 fine for going more than 10% over the limit. A couple of those and you really try and avoid getting any more.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Us poms learn pretty quickly haha - the cops hide everywhere here 😆

[@Summerlove21ful]

Only been here just over a year myself, alot of these unwritten rules are familiar as most apply in NZ as well. Especially treating people fairly no matter who they are or where they come from. And yes "Bring a plate means Bring food" as in sharing the cost. However with "Flashing lights" - coming from NZ, it means you're indicating Cars to join mainstream traffic at peak hour or You're thanking a driver for giving way to you - join mainstream traffic or give you space to go down a road where heavy traffic flowing mainstream makes it difficult to cross. When I ask "How's it going?" I'm asking "How are you in general?" Your day, your week etc. As a Kiwi I also find it difficult socially; we don't enjoy being laughed at or mocked, so I end up just switching off to conversation or person altogether. But its helpful to know what it really means.

[@kayelle8005]

Flashing your lights is for police and for hazards like animals on or near the road. A thank you wave is for someone being courteous to you. Letting you in etc.

[@t0msie]

Yes light flashing is mostly to warn of a speed trap but it's also used when you have a semi needing to pull in front of you. You let them know they're clear and usually once they pull in they will flick a left right left on the blinkers to say cheers

[@boofhead7338]

Welcome to OZ, great Vid, great sense of humor, and yes makes us realize we are an odd bunch. Cheers 🍺

[@patrussell8917]

You pair have adjusted in a good way making conditions better all round for everyone here Regrettably there are people living here just for a safe place without appreciating the Australian lifestyle or manner yet complaining about the differences

[@Gealaiche]

Just a heads up as to how hot it can actually get in a car in the summer. This place i used to work we had to park in a paddock over the road. Well i used to have a little plastic digital thermometer on the dash and one day there after work i went out and the thermometer was 70c and had started to melt and this wasn't even a super hot day....

[@graemebayles6652]

Sorry guys you blew it. The abbreviations example mentioned a sandwich. It is of course a sanga

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha we’re still learning 😬😆❤️

[@wallacebrown9308]

"Dinkum" comes from "hard work" and the "fair" meant "fair pay". So then originally, "fair dinkum" was fair pay for a fair days work. In this way the worker and the employer both got a genuine deal. That is why "fair dinkum" means something that is genuine.

[@philipo9624]

Flashing lights once or twice means speed cameras- continuous flashing means danger, an object or animal on the road.

[@Danger_Mouse3619]

Flashing your lights to someone here in Sydney and I'm sure others parts not only saying cops ahead but they do it if your waiting to turn and get in traffic saying they'll let you in. Not open you'll come across it but it does happen.

[@tammy9411]

Extra avo on ya sanga, luv. You guys are absolutely getting the hang of things here. Welcome 😊

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha we are getting there 😁🥰

[@newbris]

FYI In inner Brisbane I flash my lights to let people in and people do it to me as well.

[@ginalou5774]

The ‘How’re you going?’ Thing is similar to the English ’alright?’ greeting.

[@daveedwards3212]

Queesnslander 64 years. Flashing lights to say you go first is definitely a yes in our area, which is SEQ.

[@lifelonglearner56]

I think it's pretty standard throughout Oz to give a flash of lights to show you will let someone in from a side-road etc if the traffic is queuing: certainly the case in NSW and VIC.

[@SingTas]

Are you on the Sunshine Coast? I used to live there and it looks like it in your video. Amazing place

[@TheBAMFamalam]

We sure are 😎❤️

[@turquoisebubbles2042]

How’s it going … as an Aussie I was curious and clicked … all good , pretty spot on and so much so I didn’t realise they were Aussie things 😝

[@danielabaroni4832]

Flashing lights is illegal in Italy too...but some do it anyway.

[@barnowl5774]

Spot on guys! You are learning fast. Using the word 'mate' is a sign of friendliness as is "how ya goin' ." However change the tone of voice for 'mate' and that means you're in trouble!

[@TheBAMFamalam]

It is all in the way it’s said 😁🇦🇺

[@tracyleecornish5398]

Also beware of the pot holes on Australian roads usually the locals draw a big round white mark around them so you have plenty of warning beforehand. It will ruin your cars suspension not to mention cause an accident.

[@mariannebarker795]

You hit the nail on the head with all your comments!

[@waza987]

In NSW flashing lights generally means cops, but I have also seen it used to flash at a car that has forgotten to turn on their lights. I have not heard of that cross marking road kill as checked. Cat restrictions do depend a lot on the local area.

[@steveoconnor1230]

Usually, people who say "Fair Dinkum" a lot, are lying. Another gr8 video guys!

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Thank you 🥰🥰

[@duncancallum]

Fair Dinkum died out here about 50 years ago at least.

[@cheezy1969]

Um yeah Queenslanda's if ya comin down new south stay in the left lane on the bloomn highways we have only 2 lanes for a reason for the right lanes are dedicated to overtaking as posted on signs all up and down the highways.

[@Blissbomb2]

My family had access to a beach cabin in the National Park in Sydney, so as a child we spent all holidays and long weekends at the cabin. I thought everyone had a beach cabin and it wasnt until I hit the teenage years that i realised not many people had a beach cabin. First world problem.

[@nigelhickman2274]

Your not a Tasmanian if you don't have a 'shack', somewhere within one hours driving time of where you live...

[@TheBAMFamalam]

I think that may be all of us… it’s funny we always assume that what we had was the norm ❤️❤️

[@j-1159]

It's not a sandwich, it's a Sanger 👍

[@j-1159]

Best comp yet

[@TheBAMFamalam]

We’re still learning every day 😁😆🐨xx

[@eddiestone1509]

Hi folks. My first time on your channel. I really love the well-ballanced way you describe the life here, such a friendly way of explaining things. Cheers.

[@LORDOFJOY1818]

With the shortenings of words, you do have to pick your place as well, I grew up in apart of Australia that used received pronunciation as its standard and it was seen as rude to shorten words. Works in most scenarios but be careful.

[@michaelreifenstein2114]

i had a car flash me one time, it turned out it was a cop warning me to slow down before his radar tracked and clocked me. i thought he was warning me about stray sheep on the road, so i was looking for sheep instead of slowing down. His radar locked me up and he had to book me. But he was sympathetic.

[@mikequinn6206]

On the issue of flashing headlights, a friend of mine who lives in Hahndorf in the Adelaide Hills, was “flashed” by the driver of a police car not far from his home, some years ago. Sure enough, there was a speed camera set up just around the next corner! Tipping is not expected here, because the employer is legally obliged to pay the correct wage to their staff and the vast major do. However, most of us will round up the bill to the next highest dollar or more.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

The police let your friend know? That’s so funny 😆

[@mikequinn6206]

@@TheBAMFamalam Furthermore, some of us live a charmed life. In 1995 another friend of mine (from Cheltenham, Gloucestershire!) was stopped at a red light in Adelaide when the car in front rolled back into the grill of his 3 month old company car, in which I was a passenger. The other driver was a Uni student who looked and sounded inebriated. It turned out that he was a diabetic and hadn't taken his insulin that day. We exchanged details and were back in the cars when a police car pulled up. We were directed to pull up around the corner on West Terrace. As we sat there my friend said "I've just had half a bottle of scotch with the boss, should I do a runner?" Err, no Adrian I said. I peered over the "walloper''s" (there's a new word for you) left shoulder as my mate registered 0.12 bac, more than double the legal alcohol limit. With that and after a second test, the very friendly officer, who was alone, thankfully, told us "get in that car and YOU drive" I told that story at Adrian's funeral 3 years ago.

[@DiHandley]

You look and sound like really nice people. You are well on the way to becoming true Aussies! You really do understand who we are and the way our society works. I’d love you to be my neighbours. 👍🇦🇺

[@biggin9077]

Greeting manners in Australia is a legacy from being a British colony, although we can be a little crude too, i.e. G'day, how they hangin'? You can guess the response.

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Haha no one has said that to us… yet 😆

[@barnowl5774]

@@TheBAMFamalam That's among guys with no sheilas around.

[@pistnbroke2]

@@TheBAMFamalam if Ben dose get asked this. Reply heavy and to the right. On a cold day you say short and shrivelled and to the left.

[@TamaEnergy]

Super helpful! If i dont drink is is still expected to bring alcoholic drinks for others? Thanks!

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Not expected if you're not - but if you do intend to drink alcohol then you're usually expected to contribute to the supply xx

[@lemoh30]

the old flash is a must as an aussie

[@themoviehobbit355]

Minimum 4-5 cars

[@lemoh30]

@@themoviehobbit355 the perfect amount of heads up

[@fionaheales8481]

You guys are great Aussies!!!

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Thank you so much 🐨🐨🥰

[@BearsTrains]

Hi guys, your channel just popped up. Your observations are very accurate, though the main reason you take your own drinks to a barbie is, that it is guaranteed that the host will have shit beer.

[@m.macdog5113]

You guys are so together. So glad that you have settled in Aus.

[@elliskaranikolaou2550]

Classic. You guys are learning fast.

[@acrescapes]

Absolutely spot on, great video guys

[@finlaydavies7760]

Brill my fav is 'Fair Dinkum mate' love that expression

[@TheBAMFamalam]

It’s a goodie! 😁

[@Bonstergirl1]

Just gotta say you guys are great amd those 19 unwrittens were spot on. Ive heard that plate story from you b4 and as soon as you started it on this I burst out laughing . Im really glad you love it here . So thanks for choosing our country to stay.. Youre right about the flashing light thing. It wasnt always illegal but as alway some clown whined about it and now it is.. But we aussies will still do it as its keeping other aussies up to par with whats going on ahead of them.. Truckies always tell other truckies where the cops are. You guys are fun and thats why I stick to watching you on here.. Love the out takes too lol.. "aveaniceweekend" another one ya :)

[@beano9343]

"Hey Benno, goin to Maccas and gettin extra avvo in my sanga this arvo" You almost nailed it :) Except I would ever say that. But it's a demonstration haha

[@eternallycuriousexplorers]

Love your videos....always so much fun. x

[@The_Stoic_PhilosopherAU]

Bam time…my favourite part of the day!

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Woohoo! 😝🇦🇺

[@grahamoldfield3474]

Australia introduce a points system to the drivers licence in the early 70"s It started at 9 point to last your for 1 year , then they made it 12 points for 3 years and a few years ago made that 3 years and 3 months . Exceed that and you lose your licence . Then on top of that they double the points you loose at different times of the year . Its completely stupidly over enforced IMO .They say it reduces road toll , well better roads have reduced road tolls everywhere they do it and its proven . Cars have improved so much in braking handling accident avoidance assistance etc , . being tough on drink driving reduced the road toll the most along with compulsory safety belt wearing and baby seats . It's governments addicted to speeding fines for revenue . Just remember a lot of mobile speed cameras are privately run and the Government pays them a % of what they get , not based on bad accident areas .

[@TheBAMFamalam]

It is very much more policed than we are used to. And we had never heard of double points on public holidays before! It’s a quick way to lose your licence 😬

[@jaynemeulman8484]

the most un-australian thing is to nick other people's stuff .especially if they are vulnerable..e.g....when they are in the surf...if they are elderly and in the shops....if they are broken down on the side of the road...

[@BigGen222]

I was greeted by a colleague who's from England with 'are you alright'? And I was like yes I'm fine, why do you ask (do I look as though I'm not)? I understand it now, it's a way of saying hello.

[@annarose477]

Oooo I'm Aussie and I did not realise people were saying "un-australian" like that. It honestly makes me so uncomfortable, it sounds so nationalistic. I have so many questions... Like, what makes someone Australian vs un-australian? Who gets to decide this? Is there any flexibility on what qualities make someone Australian? Some bloke from Sydney will likely have very different answers to this than an indigenous elder from the APY lands for example. Can we not just call out the quality we don't like? For example just say "that's unfair" or "that's unkind/not right". If you care about particular values and you see them as "Australian " just be specific about those values - you're still encouraging those "Australian values " without being nationalistic. Being nationalistic restricts us from seeing our flaws and striving for better.

[@christiephillips106]

Maz you have a look of Bindi Irwin about you!

[@TheBAMFamalam]

Thank you so much - this has been mentioned a few times, it’s the biggest compliment! 🥰🥰

[@omaopa6923]

Yes I agree with you

[@raybright5805]

Worst insult would have to be... "Lower than a snakes belly..."

[@nolesy34]

When people say this i would say.. well that makes me well grounded

[@rebeccahunter5862]

I thought you wasn't supposed to approach a joey? We are moving in 18 months

[@Ausecko1]

11:20 you're not a true Aussie until you've got back into your car at the beach and accidentally branded yourself with the seatbelt :)

[@kayelle8005]

Great video