2 Children Same Home Opposite Nature - Riri G Trivedi | Raj Shamani

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[@twinklechauhan4866]

Parents are the reason if sibling relationship is not working.

[@dollysri5394]

100%

[@shikhayadav8753]

I agree 💯

[@SofiaRashid-dg4xe]

Absolutely right

[@deeptigangil8497]

Right

[@irshikha]

💯Couldn't agree more!

[@Sarma.k_123]

I'm the second child nd my I've an elder sister. She was always that golden child. I was weak in studies because I didn't like to study. I have discalculia nd my parents didn't know that. My father always loved her more . People started to compare us, even my parents. They were like "we fed u same things, we're giving u the same environment. Then why r u not good in studies?"... They started to compare me with other children also. It broke me. Now I'm a rebellious woman. I love my parents, but I always stand for myself now. I don't let them insult me anymore. Nd I'm a patient of depression and anxiety. My parents are actually very nice people, but unintentionally they hurt me during my childhood nd teen age time.

[@Eshankashyap23]

My god you just someup my story😂😂

[@Sarma.k_123]

@@Eshankashyap23 kahani Ghar ghar ki🥲

[@Satyam_Mehta]

​@@Sarma.k_123 same with my younger sister

[@andromeda-l1c]

Same with my younger sister...but I don't want her to feel this ...and also don't want ki wo mujhse door ho jaye I love her most in this world...but gradually she is changing...what should I do ?

[@Sarma.k_123]

@@andromeda-l1c make her feel special. It really hurts when our parents do partiality with us. I was lucky that my mother loves me and my sister equally. I was hurt mainly by my father's actions. If it goes like this with ur sister she'll completely detach from your family. She will no longer care. In my case, now I don't have any feelings for my father. I don't hate him, but I don't love him also. I actually don't care now. His words even doesn't hurt me anymore. I've given up on my father. Don't let this happen to ur sister too. Plz take action before it's too late. Talk with ur parents.

[@minakumari1515]

This is very true...parents are never same for all their children...they can say however many times they care same for all in sameway...but the one being discriminated and mentally abused and emotionally abused knows the truth😢

[@sunandabehera5075]

True

[@falgunibhoi2854]

True sis

[@jxalxo09]

True

[@tinklingcrystals6489]

My parents are the reason for my extreme anxiety and depression. I have always been their problem solver but they never appreciate nor give value to my attachment to them.. they broke my self confidence.. my younger brother who never there for them is appreciated.. since im extremely attached to my dysfunctional parents as i have no one else in this world and after my fraud husband abandoned me im petrified of being alone without anyone.. but they totally spoil my peace😢

[@shivip513]

The worst kind when the parents mistake The wrong one to be The Golden child

[@ar1079]

There is no wrong one with kids.. If you judge them so early on in life..then there is no difference between your thinking and those faulty parents

[@Sarma.k_123]

@@shivip513 bro, there shouldn't be any golden child. They should treat all their children in a same way

[@Olivia_thegoldenretriver]

​@@Sarma.k_123the so called golden child also becomes depressed because they are now living with the mentality of never fail..if failed to golden kese rhega,, everybody will be taunting ki are ye to intelligent tha ye fail ho gya hahah .. 🤨

[@MyMusicAsCia]

My younger brother is the golden child in my family. My female gender also played another role for being the silver child, or bronze, or coal.

[@studyvibes3195]

Don't worry we know you are a diamond

[@abhinavsharma2179]

You are gold sister. Parents who treat sons better always regret in future

[@amberrain1069]

Coal = Black Diamond

[@ThatsAniya-23]

Same with me

[@dtravellerblog]

Coal 😂😂😂 ... Me that one in my family 😅

[@shwetashukla2116]

The golden child of my parents, my sister is married now... So they don't have any choice... I am experiencing the love and care like never before 😄😄

[@mostlygroovy]

😂

[@nityarajput1318]

😂😂

[@MonuPawar-zz7eq]

Same with me 😂😂

[@manosahani]

Sukun wali feeling a rhi hogi tumko😂

[@nusratbhat825]

Same

[@denovo1148]

जो बच्चा काम का होता है माँ बाप उसको ज़्यादा प्यार देते है । जो बच्चा बचपन मैं प्यारा था , अगर दूसरा बच्चा उससे ज़्यादा पैसा कमा रहा है तो माँ बाप अब दूसरे को ज़्यादा प्यार देंगे । जो काम का वो प्यार का

[@irshikha]

Wow! 💯

[@Yt-le2mu]

True. I am the second child, polar opposite of my older sibling. I've learnt the lesson the hard way, I was always undervalued and lonely as a child, now I stay alone, introverted and stand up for myself as I no more can take the treatment I was given. I was never loved and now I don't even crave love from anyone.

[@yashvishukla6823]

Finally found someone who resembles my feelings. For the longest time I thought it's only me who is feeling this way

[@Yt-le2mu]

@@yashvishukla6823 It's okay. One day, all will be fine. 🙂🙂

[@lunalupin4352]

Lonely part was really relatable.

[@snehaghadge9749]

Seriously second child is always undervalued and disrespected

[@dr.aashnasharma5598]

Same with me. I am also a second child

[@Shivam25Verma]

Leave it, i think I'm forgotten, they just remember to feed me. I hate to be middle child, i topped my grad, got into 1 of best law CLG, still they never appreciate me, but look even at slightest innocent flaws with wide eyes and make sure it attains publicity, perfectly opposite to what my siblings are treated like. I just wanted to grow up early, since childhood.

[@kaminisanwariya9315]

Same here Want to connect n share some thoughts I am also middle child

[@awantikakashyap8397]

Same is with me i'm in bhu scoring 70-75% no appreciation ,always finding the flaw in me even if it is actually not a flaw wheras my brother somehow passed 9th standard yet he is treated as the darling and not even an ounce if affection for me ,they told me to be happy with the food &clothes😢

[@kanaksikarwar223]

Ikr middle child's do well in exam just to get parents attention.We become obedient type yet get called out more than other siblings even when they do more wrong things😐

[@sharfishaikhi8192]

Chalo kisi ne aaj bacho ki side li

[@Information_mining0904]

Yeahhh🥲

[@irshikha]

😂 ... That's true!

[@tulika_9519]

In our society...its mostly gender based partiality. No matter how much a daughter does or behaves well, she is never enough. I wish to god to give me a daughter only, so that i can show how to treat a daughter well.

[@AryanSingh-cm1ds]

Opposite with me being a study lover topper and independent older male child still my parents favour my younger sister who is weaker at studies and lazy but my father just can't accept her any mistake and mother will say she will become better in later life she will improve someday and you will see 😂😂the

[@deepak17907]

If you have son,his life will be Traumatised by you.

[@tulika_9519]

@@deepak17907 Sorry dude...the gender of my child is still in not in my hands. It's my husband's department. I didn't say that how I will treat my boy btw. I just want he won't turn out to be men like your kind who disrespect women for nothing. That's how I will give him upbringing.

[@khushbusharma2206]

​@@deepak17907 honi bhi chye nobody wants boy child these days as they are worthless in old age in terms of supporting parents

[@ManonLucas14]

​@@deepak17907 Brother, are you okay??

[@Best.time.]

At first, I used to be jealous of my sibling bro.... But now he is one of my inspirations ✨️ ❤️

[@shysolos5422]

Blessed I am to have 2 daughters. And blessed are my daughters as they have me. I have always taught my girls is they have only one competitor.....that is themselves. No classmate....room mate...or even sibling is your competition. You both just have to be a better version of urself then yesterday. That's the only Rule of our family.

[@dollydolly8574]

I'm the older one... I'm perfectionist hardworking ND the most unimportant

[@awantikakashyap8397]

Same here

[@Ms._Uniquee]

Exactly once we do make mistake or not top one exam they become disappointed but the other one does it every time still parents don't have any hopes and already accepted that he is not good so they pressurize me 😢

[@smilewithnature820]

My elder 1 says that....but every1 is important sweety ..

[@Olivia_thegoldenretriver]

​@@smilewithnature820 oh don't u start with this manipulating line

[@theSapphireee]

I think i m the golden child because i can see people admiring me more thn my sister Even at my home I dnt like it i dnt want it I try each n everytime where i can defend her but somewhere i feel i m the reason for this comparision b/w us and this is making our bond weaker day by day I wish i had a solution for this I really miss my cute lil sister who has become vry silent She dsnt smile out loud n this makes me cry louder

[@irfanaqadiri7289]

Nautanki

[@shalibhaskaran8401]

True to all your words. Because of that i have only child to stop the comparison between the two which faced my whole life. There will always be comparison between children how much the parents say both are equal to us

[@bhupalivaze5222]

Same here. I was afraid I might have twins since me and my husband both are one of the twins but luckily I didn't.

[@niteshmeena2029]

Then don't compare them with others child too... Because when parents havve only one child then they pressure him to succeed in all way ... They compare him with relative and other classmates.. They only want that their child will be doctor or engineer like on future ... Please educate your child in all sectors but don't pressurise him to do what you want ......

[@shalibhaskaran8401]

@@niteshmeena2029 agreed . I Never compaired my child with other Childer now my child is 19 and doing graduation in commerce and we are kind of best friend

[@Seema-ankita]

I am crying really thinking my parents love my brother more than me even I was weak always had issues in my life but they never appreciated me whatever i have achieved i will always hate them for this

[@sowmyavp8938]

All of the people commenting are either younger one or the middle child. But I am the eldest child. First of all the reason why they take care of us more is because we should become more reliable for the younger ones. Also I am not the golden child of the family. Even elder child has it hard. Not always they support our decision. Our freedom and privacy is taken away. And we are expected to be good at everything.

[@Rise_and_thrive-f1z]

My brither is 8 years older than me so when i was in class 2nd (7year old) he went to kota for further studies he completed his 11th and 12th there then went on to study engineering in another state so like i was treated as a single child and my parents whole world revolved around me but when covid hit he came to work from home and then my life was upside down.. I was only getting the golden child treatment because he was far away he lived with us for 4 years in covid and those 4 years were really traumatizing my mom would not even care if i have eaten or not and also if i eat something she will come and ask 100 times that bhaiya ne khaya bhaiya ko diya tumko khaana bhaiya ko jao de do 5min baad khaa lena.... Mtlb i got to see my parents real colour and now i cant love then as i used to

[@falgunibhoi2854]

Sad to hear your story, I hope you find your way out to deal with such kind of situation.

[@fg4513]

All his life spent in hostel that's y think from his side

[@nabinkousalya3261]

That's the 💯% Correct words of every family...

[@naveensharma4780]

Dusra bachcha pahle bachey jaisa nahi hoga tou zaruri nahi hai ki rebel hoga opposite jayega..ye wrong parenting ka nateeja hoga jahan parents comparison se unhe compete karayenge...right parenting mein dusra bacha compete karne ki bajai apni alag jageh banayega..aur pahle se koi rivalry nahi rakhega..kyonki wo uske raaste mein nahi hoga..

[@SunitaDevi-lf1yo]

Right 💯

[@auraaura3723]

Wait till ur the middle child...

[@Uff1234]

As a first born, I can assure you a lot of us crumble under the pressure of parental expectations and needing to set the right example for the younger ones. It triggers depression and anxiety in great measure.

[@ketakipatankar6641]

Logically correct 💯

[@tesuthegreat]

❤My brother...best thing provided by God to us.🎉

[@Satoru_Sugoru]

Finally somebody older than my parents generation is understanding our problems and difficulties Still they'll (parents) never understand our struggle and insecurities

[@priyarawat741]

I think the worst feeling is being the middle child.. i am middle one and it's so frustrating. I have a elder sister and younger brother and my parents specially my mom have very different personality with me .. sometimes it's unbearable but i know its never ending cycle that why I don't expect anything big from their side..

[@nikitamahato4100]

I am the middle one and I can relate you

[@nymas1626]

Can you explain more about your experience.

[@irshikha]

Sadly, they have options that we don't. I've tried to be patient with them and explain them everything to run life smoothly. I've been angry. I've shown them the emotional pain. NOTHING WORKED! I've come to a stage, wherein I don't listen to them and have claimed that I'll adopt a mother the day I find a good one. Let's see how intelligently they'll behave when they too have a competition. Narcissistic parent/s are the ones responsible for sibling rivalry and emotional rollercoaster.

[@mayurinadkar4912]

Yes it's true... It's true even with the twins... And parents do differentiate..... I agree with this lady...

[@nehadutta2005]

So the best advice to the upcoming parents is to have one child. It will also reduce India's population.

[@nandinigupta8775]

But parents never accept that they show and expressed their feelings for every child..that what i have observed...

[@juhi4]

My parents saw good in both of us.Especially my father.He always mentioned our qualities to each other.He was a great father.We are blessed 🙌

[@nehabiswas9592]

So nicely interpreted

[@dhathris3585]

Why were u even born? No one will marry u? I am fed up...these were the words I got to hear as the elder one even though I only studied and studied throughout my school life, topped my state in 12th to make them proud, if I take a stand for myself then I am labelled "bigdi hui" but my younger brother always takes my side whenever I get to hear such things, he is a sweetheart❤

[@CC-kk8fb]

Sorry you went through all that. Gives the feeling...Nothing is ever enough no matter what you do. Being someone who has been through similar situation, my humble advice to you is carve your own life path, and be sincere towards your path. Otherwise, you would have to deal with several fallouts of living the life of pleasing them endlessly and still never being enough. Believe me, those issues are likely to crop up in your spouse too and you'll be force to deal with it at some point in your (mid) life when it becomes unsustainable. Wiser to carve a stable good life that is in resonance with your own values and aspirations. Be a solid anchor to yourself.

[@mruthaliammu8139]

I have been trying to convince this matter my parents but it never went well so the gap between me and my parents are rising day by day and my introvertness they can't understand. I'm happy someone is talking about this

[@Sandyy833]

Chalo let me agree I am younger one and that golden child too

[@Gurleen_k0127]

My parents also only care about my elder sister, they neither appreciate me, nor my achievements, yes I love my sister a lot but bcz of my parents I sometimes feel jealous of her as well, I crave the love they are giving to my sister, but now I am just focusing on my goal, hoping to hear appreciation from them one day..

[@priyanshirawat-eu3cx]

Sara attention younger siblings ko hi milta h .elder ho elder hi rahte h

[@Ms._Uniquee]

Exactly be perfect still get neglected😔

[@mb8456]

Sab youngest ko attention nahi milta. Mere Ghar me toh mere parents meri di ka jyada sochte hai. Ushe sab bina mehnat milta hai but mujhe sab khud jugaad karna parta hai. But I've no issues kyuki me v apni di se pyar karti hu just kabhi kabhi bura lagta h jab log generalize karte h ki sab youngest pampered hote h.

[@mgpadmaja1644]

I have seen and experienced so much i have decided to have one child and give my life's best❤

[@irshikha]

One or five. If parents are not emotionally healthy and intelligent, they're bound to make such mistakes. Conscious parenting is important. So, reading books and watching content according to their age works well.

[@handleistaken13]

very good explanation

[@asmitapaithankar2857]

Not always, we hear in so many families all children do great, achieve everything

[@vanamatrika..]

Very true.... Not only parents often unknowingly trigger the difference in their children but the biological composition,the genetic fragmentation,the overall physiology, morphology,anatomy, psychology, philosophy,innate tendencies,and perception differs in siblings even identical twins. It is only the wiseness of parents know the individual traits of their children and guide them carefully.

[@Raghuvir--]

Bhai halat sab badal dete hai 😂

[@BincyVarghese-px6hu]

It's sooo true.. 😢my parents have always been damn partial😢

[@meghauike233]

Mee too

[@sgfrmindia]

Myself doctor , brother dentist, he is 5 years younger but he did follow my career path and life values, that is life value of our parents as well. Don't know if we are exceptions , but we are quite alike

[@PriyaSharma-2118]

Finally someone said the truth. Parents can never be equal to both the children.

[@animemasteranish8392]

I live in a joint family but i never face any problems or issues with my siblings even i am the 5 child in generation in my family.everyone loved us all as one i think these thoughts are true but not for all because when your parents chase for your achievements then only your downfall starts but there are few families just like mine they want me and my siblings to enjoy these life .

[@kaushikankush3569]

I am a middle child. My parents always loved my elder sister more than me. She is good at studying and she is also very mature but my nature is totally opposite. I am average in study and immature. I am very childish and clumsy type person. But I recently got a job in Gurgaon. Whenever I come back home now I get a special treatment which somehow makes my sister jealous.

[@richarastogi2224]

Hamare yaha to dono 1 direction main ja rahye hai 😂😂😂😂 14 wali 22 walye ke jaise😂😂😂😂

[@monalisajena4586]

Pata nhi age v esa jaega ki nhi Now I'm 30 and my brother 24 Hum dono ek jese the 4-5 yr phle .... Jese jese Mera Bhai bada horha he wo mere quality ka opposite quality arha he uske andar Sab different krta h avi ...

[@Akansha_pandey5]

Do bache 😂 mere parents sare sanshar ke bacho se compair krte hai har field mai... Wo ssc kar rha wo upsc wo padhai ke sath sara kam krti hai wo sirf padhti hai but topper hai ...etc etc 😂😂 feelings sucks man karta hai bas ghar se nikal jau kahi tbhi kuch kar paungi kunki agar kuch krne ki kosis bhi kro toh distract krte rhte hai 😢

[@castlefly4490]

absolutely true,as a middle child i can feel

[@devanshishukla34]

Me and my sister are both straight a students i dont think this is same case for all if you love equally and show it to them children will never doubt you and feel insecure my parents have made me secure ❤

[@ambecappmanikam3351]

Very true!!!

[@asha2957]

I am fed up with my parents and siblings behaviour. It doesn't affect me now I have cried alone I have motivated myself alone I have failed alone I have handled my difficulties alone

[@Learneasily21]

After reading the comments i know how people r jealous of their siblings... Logo k complain h parents klie k parent unknowingly thode se bhed bhab krte he Now I'm thinking what my younger brother feel 😂 He always told me tu jo bolti h ghar m sab wohi krte h but kvi bola nhi ap log apne beti se jada pyar krte ho

[@calmyin7073]

Honestly i feel parents shouldn't have more than one child except for a few certain conditions..

[@snijapk8654]

Yes , true .. even the other day my mother said straight on my face that I'm the worst child among her four children.

[@deepalinigalye6469]

Being mother of two daughters...i agree.its true

[@Gurleen_k0127]

Please try to treat both of your daughters evenly and don’t let any of them suffer

[@deepalinigalye6469]

@@Gurleen_k0127 Offcourse I do..but as per situations treatment differs. But I shall work on it

[@darnavreena6522]

Its harsh reality facing currently 😢

[@sana__3950]

This is true😢

[@bhupalivaze5222]

Yes totally.. not just with young and old siblings but also with twins. My parents always had softer spot for my sister because they thought she is weaker. They gave everything same to us but when it came to fights between us, I would be the bad guy every time. They wouldn't even listen to my side.

[@watcherolic9930]

Middle child here 🙌

[@sangidaislam326]

This is so true mannn

[@AfrahMumtaz]

I’m golden child of my house (oldest daughter,16) . I would say my siblings are exactly opposite of me but I always treat them with love And yea sometimes my parents treat my siblings without patience , although I always I try to talk to my parents how it can affect theirs and their children’s mental health.

[@Zingat231]

I am middle one, elder in sister. My mum always give brother and younger sister 1st choice. I am least one needed and always heard lines Ye APNE Baap pe gayi he. I become rebellious and introvert. Has many night crying, suicidal depressed. Now i am 39 still i feel what i feel in my younger age. Ny mum still choose those siblings. I am forgotten one.

[@Nndini14]

Thank god someone said

[@kanaksikarwar223]

Just to make their own individuality they become rebbelious.I was overachiever regardless of being middle child but my parents were never satisfied simply bcoz of eldest nd youngest love 😐

[@thulasirao9139]

It is because each individual differs and actions will be different. Only brought, love will be same.

[@lifewithdance8592]

Sahi kaha

[@eshabowlekar4447]

1 kid is the best thing

[@sakshishukla5197]

It's s human nature everyone likes the best one. Nah u tell me who doesn't want their kid to be perfect in all aspects. It's not something to sulk about as you people are doing in comment section . Parents have certain expectations with their childso it is very normal

[@AjeshRamakrishnan]

I am the middle child. Of course my character is different from my elder brother but I would not blame on parents. I got equal opportunity while growing and carved my path. We both are well educated and have reached good position. Still close to each other regardless of physical distance.

[@pragya000]

It's so true I "was" a golden child and then I had to take drop for my NEET due to COVID - over which I think I ruin all my reputation - all my self esteem - confidence - like nobody gives a heck bout me neither my parents nor relatives ( I have no friend too as I'm very introvert and back then too didn't like to do any small talk - .... rn I dunno... I think I'm dumb n futile regardless I top in my coaching classes/I'm in ranker batch - It just it doesn't matter anymore to any not even me rn I'm just a dropper nothing more - this time too I unable to clear my NEET and rn I feel I'm stuck at this spot for a life - tbh nothing makes me happy rn nor even sad ... It's just Numb. I have a younger sister and She's The Golden child Obv she got 97% in highschool board... Dunno but I sense they are just biased like she hang out with her friends almost daily and no one even heed to ask where's she going/when'll she return - like she go every hidious night for momo like seriously who lunatic going for momos/stationery every single night and returning at 08:45ish without any queries...but if I go even for an hour in fricking noon even - I get tons of calls ... However I think it's all in my mind but....yeah I'm a dropper and good for nothing if I was smart enough I would have qualified it in my first attempt but .... Hm yeah It's all in my mind it's just I'm too scared to leave cause I think if I enjoy even a little someone will taunt me over my NEET so... I just don't want to give them any chance so yeah... Yes.

[@pragya000]

Kay tbh I think I'm very insecure of everything !!! My parents no wrong. It's just because I'm insecure I suck I'm good for nothing seriously - like even if ya talk to me you'll too feel - Jeez she's so dumb ! Couple of years back I was that introvert studious mysterious person but Rn I'm just dumb dumb. I hope this pass soon and I leave this all ASAP . I'm kinda suicidal I feel like even if I leave - nobody will give a flying f - Even if I'm with my parents/ relatives/siblings I feel like I'm invisible and they can't see me Dunno why but rn they don't even talk to me or give me no importance - I'm not even important on any aspects however so yeah I don't think it hardly make any difference if I leave. I'm just dumb idk I even lisp I gain 10kg this year I have fricking double chin I'm not even fine - I'm uglier rn - I'll turn twenty this august and still get no college yet I'm just "kalank" as an elder sibling - I just can't argue to anyone can't make eye contact because I'm scared that they'll point out this and prove how useless I'm - Indeed. It's my third drop and I'm doing from PW online Yakeen batch and if I unable to crack this year I'll most prolly end this - I don't even care bout myself so yeahhh my presence doesn't even matter - I'm getting 640+ these tests but what ? I got in prior years too so...? What difference - it doesn't matter - get in your main exam otherwise who cares- no-one not even Me. I'm sorry I overdid the comments.

[@piyalidhar3744]

My mom is not like that I never in my life feel that😅

[@Vp13217]

I knew this. 😂 That's why I have only one child. 😊

[@prashamsaadhikari130]

This ain't always true , both me and brother have been equally golden children to my parents , my brother got a good rank and one of the best engineering college, and i brought similar rank and the same engineering college, even our marks are quite similar, he is now a passout and working in usa, have carried the same aim, though i am in 1st yr😊, sometime the family's good environment pushes both the children to their best

[@divyavenkatesh9072]

Well said!!

[@vidyashautecuisine720]

Thats why course on parenting should be made compulsory for the couple before they plan to start a family

[@parentingwithme]

I hate this comparison word...no one has right to compare one person to other...

[@akhileshiyer296]

Psychology yehi hoti hai bolne ke badle psychology aisi honi chahiye bolna chahiye. Badlaav agar khud me laayenge log to apne bachchon me bhi dekh paayenge. Aur doosro ki galatiyon se bhi to seekhna chahiye. Kab tak bachchon ki tarah khudki galatiyon se hi seekhenge log. Apne maa baap ne jo kiya woh yaa to karna hai, ya nahi karna hai. Aur iska andaazaa insaan khudki zindagi aur rishton ko dekhkar lagaa sakta hai. Aatma-vishleshan ki aavaahyaktaa hai bas.

[@superhero6621]

If they can't be the same with all their kids, they're not parents.

[@shivanipardeshi3114]

Itana relatable

[@namruthavp9854]

very true

[@emiwaypublicfans4700]

While me being 5th child of mom and dad😂😂😂😂

[@Sakshi-xz8zw]

Her voice is very similar to sudha murthy😮

[@dr.s.choudhury8089]

Thank god my parents are not like this. We 2 sisters are poles apart and our parents appreciate and admonish us both equally depending upon the situation. We both are taught to imbibe good qualities from each other while letting go of our bad habits. My father always says that if parents do partiality among their children then as parents they have failed.

[@janhavimishra...]

@@dr.s.choudhury8089 you're really blessed

[@aarti1273]

Totally agree with u.

[@slay5936]

Meri mummy to same h mere or bhai k sath ❤

[@khadija.02]

Opposite nhi jate h hamesha... Me or meri behen grades and percentage me almost same h but yeah I was more obident in my childhood than my sisterand a silent girl in my school, but she is somehow bindas and speaks for herself in public.

[@mansirathor5043]

Finally someone said something about this 😅

[@b07jiya53]

So true

[@studiouspsycho1516]

True

[@mohdahmed6663]

She is saying 💯 true ..... I'm the elderest

[@Alizarin1crimson]

I am government officer my younger sister sister chose to be a doctor and my younger brother is in airforce 😂😂😂 all three chose to be in completly opposite paths😅

[@Oceancalling8888]

I am the elder but my younger sister is the golden child n perfectionist

[@star-kg5yx]

I am 3rd middle child and girl. My parents hates me

[@Saf4ron469]

I am never rebellious but my parents claim that I am because my elder sis took the position of being the perfect child...polite kind help intelligent Nd all good stuff

[@sandlake5673]

A mother bird always neglects to feed a chick till it dies, cats also reject a kitten same with lions, tigers monkeys etc. sad reality is parents don’t do justice to children

[@umadhakal8746]

I am the 2nd child , my brother was good in studies but I have never been less than him but I compete with him always🎉

[@drpadminishinde7820]

u r right

[@aminoacid777]

I am that Golden child. But my parents treat my sibling well as well.

[@nevermindme127]

I totally agree.