2 No Contact Success Stories

[@Lanes8930]

A breakup is the most excruciating painful thing I've ever experienced. You feel like you're going to die. Separation anxiety is horrific.

[@ceyciemateo9411]

Yes, I thought there was no way I was going to recover… but there is light at the end of the tunnel!

[@Troy12-fitnessmodel]

How are you doing now. I'm 7 weeks NC and I still have rough moments

[@Lanes8930]

@@Troy12-fitnessmodel we got back together after 2 months 😊 if the person is right for you, it will work out. But I promise no matter what, you WILL be OK x

[@n26c88]

I needed this today! Still feeling the loss from abandonment, 6 months of NC down, growth doesn't mean you can always avoid the pain. Will never stop doing the work regardless of the outcome

[@dr_candiru7817]

Hang in there Broke up almost 6 months ago. No contact for two months. She initiated most contact the first 4 months. I’m still feeling the loss as well. I hope you can emotionally disconnect from them soon.

[@mattyslicks]

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me two days before my birthday. She went to her mom's and stayed there for two weeks until I moved out of our apartment. From watching these videos I've learned that she's an avoidant, is emotionally immature, and sometimes maybe even a gaslighter. Even though I'm probably better off I love her and being abandoned like that really hurt.

[@rigomartinez7217]

Give it time... I was in your boat 2 months ago.. doing way better now. Never thought I'd get over it... and I did. No contact works to reset your brain. But yes the rejection sucks and how cold they become.

[@Ben-ok5ps]

Mine just left after 10 years with no reason she is also emotionally immature it’s been 4 weeks now I love her but I don’t think I want her back after all the games she plays. We bought a house together 2 years ago that need a lot of work which is ok as I am a builder but also work full time so it’s been a slow process (not fast enough obviously) we have cctv on our phones I have the front she has the back I unplugged hers so she couldn’t spy on me while in no contact but she keeps coming round when im not in and turning it back on I had a heart to heart with my mum and didn’t realise it was on now im fuming 😡 with her but I can’t stop her coming round as it’s half her house takes showers and leaves a mess all over the house like a little child shes pathetic.

[@williammusic390]

Same situation here.

[@auroraschjlberg9062]

Any updates?

[@mattyslicks]

@@auroraschjlberg9062 no updates. We haven't really talked at all.

[@glendasolis8676]

Hi coach, I just observed myself lately that I'm doing ok, feeling happy because I wake up in the morning and no longer feel an emptiness or sadness. But then, this week I noticed I'm back at missing him again. Then, I just realized our Monthsary (Monthly Celebration here in the Philippines) is coming. But then I always turn to your chanel to sooth my anxiety. I know healing is not a straight road, but rather a bumpy, zigzag road to reach my destination. It's been 2+ months of NC, there are days that I want to reach out. But I always hear Coach Margarette, Victoria and Craig voice. Thank you for your videos. You've been so helpful. ❤️

[@LG-ly7pw]

Really nice stories. And thanks for yours in here too, Craig. I felt both ways about no contact success stories, felt upset and compared that it wasn’t or wouldn’t happen like that for me, and then liked to hear them as hope. I feel now, 8 months later I’m calm, starting to get a real handle on my growth and indifference to my situation and I can listen to others’ success stories and be genuinely pleased for them. 😊 Thanks Craig for all you do, really appreciate it. Love from Melbourne Australia. I wanna come meet you in person one day!

[@alekmdjl2]

Thank you for sharing your story of loss Craig. Personally I lost my girlfriend about two months ago, she dumped me. About a month later my grandmother passed, my last grandparent. The road ahead might be long for me but i'm sure its going to be worth it in the end.

[@dusan2569]

Same story, my grandma passed away month ago, and ex left me in August... Trying hard to stay normal and strong... Do you have update? How is now?

[@alekmdjl2]

@@dusan2569 Def doing a lot better. My ex reached out just to go ghost on me. It set me back a little but made me car even less for her.

[@wrestlebdk]

Always love success stories!

[@holyroller7743]

Just wonderful. Great vid👍

[@MovieReviewJustin]

Craig. When I’m certain I have a more substantial success story, I want to share mine. Particularly in regards to overcoming anger if that is an issue other men might be having. I know that some people can get very frustrated in no contact. It might feel like your ex is never going to reach out. If you had significant anger issues, this can be a heavy barrier to your ex reaching out. So how can you show your ex that you can manage your emotions better? And I don’t mean just show them, but actually really manage your emotions. Anyway, when my success story is more substantial I would like to share it but I would also like to hear your and Margaret thoughts. It was great that you got a little bit personal in this video. I am starting to talk to my ex again but you already know that it’s time to double down on the work and be over prepared. I am really focused on personal growth still and managing my stress and anxious behaviors. There is no let up from me.

[@semen7673]

How did you manage to start talking to ex again? Did they reach out or it was your move?

[@pepsicolla123]

It sounds great!!!

[@Cafelattechic]

I was the dumper. We had only dated for 2 months and it was almost perfect. But i broke up. Two days later i reached out and apologized and regretted it. He said he couldn’t get over it and couldn’t see us starting over or continuing. I know he is back on the dating apps. We left it on a good note, saying that we still liked and cared for each other and we might go back together in future if we are stil single etc. I feel sad about it. I’ve gone into no-contact but I don’t even know if it is useful in this case. Advice needed please!!

[@mattyslicks]

No contact is more for the dumpee. As the dumper you need to be the one to humble yourself, apologize, and try to get him back. if he doesn't want that though then you need to respect his wishes and move on.

[@carlfreiermuth5424]

Wow, a pleasant surprise to have an only Craig video. I very much liked the abbreviated version of the whistling track as the outro. I've been listening to all the Spotify podcasts most days lately and then every few days go back to the KZbin. I find the workbooks to be very helpful and maybe I will go for the creative healing course eventually.

[@IsraelSocial]

No contact doesn't work if your partner had a backup ready for them! Keep growing and looks what you did wrong and when they come back, send em to hell

[@obitobetancourt3138]

My situation is very peculiar. I was seeing this girl & we never got to dating but we kind of had a thing. A month ago she started acting distant & I tried really hard not to take it personal because we weren’t dating even though I was very attached to her. She said she had lost feelings & I just played it cool & stopped responding. I wonder if no contact will work in a situation like this but even if it doesn’t I’ll just work on myself for now.

[@number1fan19]

I think if you stay completely silent, she will wonder about you and come back.

[@obitobetancourt3138]

@@number1fan19 thank you! I’m not having any expectations but every day i find myself thinking about her 😅

[@Jacobo8448]

I had a similar situation. This girl and I were very close and attached to each other and saw each other regularly. We basically lived together. She had been recently single when me and her started seeing each other. We hit it off and we’re very into each other. She just wasn’t ready to commit. The way things ended, I messed up. I broke her trust. I would talk to close friends of mine at the time about me and her and revealed personal I formation to them about her as well. I wasn’t doing it to talk about her behind her back, I said things in a panic over a stupid nightmare. I also went to them for advice and reassurance but they got mad after me and this girl had some issues and threw me under the bus saying I was victimizing myself and making her out to be the bad guy in all of this. I had no idea those friends did that and I went to them again and they made it worse. So she decided to give up and call me and her quits. I made a mistake and broke no contact with a clean slate message in a long and overwhelming message. Which she hates. She threatened to block me but didn’t because I finally left it alone. Then she did block me after two mo the from that message I sent right after her grandpa passed away. I hadn’t contacted her but she still blocked me. Turns out more friends of mine tried throwing game under the bus again because they felt they needed to shield her from me and called me a creep and obsessed. Third parties are awful and please be careful. Not everyone, even “friends” are going to be there for you. Even if they try to say you can trust them. Sometimes strangers are more kind than people who call themselves your friend. I still haven’t contacted her. It’s been almost 4 months since she blocked me and it sucks because I was very close to her and her daughter.

[@aidanjack3094]

@@Jacobo8448holy shit man that sucks. For me I was doing A LDR and she had just made friends with a coworker 2 months after we started dating. Around 2 months into this friendship they became best friends and got matching tattoos (should of seen this as a red flag) anyways a week or 2 later she started going through a really bad depression so I sent her a few around 3 daily messages to her saying good morning i hope you’re doing well and have a good day. 2 weeks after slowly distancing herself she just sent me a long message about how there’s opinion that I have she can’t get over and she’s done with the relationship I asked if we could have a conversation and she said. “The fact you think you have the right to a conversation shows how controlling you are towards women” I was shocked and though her friend had to have convinced her of something so I told her sorry and she said “so and so ex bf acted just like you before he started beating her wether you know it or not it’s just a matter of time” that fucking killed me I ended it off with saying “I’m so sorry I wish we met under different circumstances and you didn’t think of me this way take care I hope for the best.” And she said I was being pathetic trying to get her back didn’t respond to that and she sent another message 10 mins later saying “I bet so and so and you would respond because you just can’t catch a hint and now it’s honestly just annoying” man I’m fucking gone

[@brownsugarglamour]

I did no contact with someone that I went on 2 dates with, after they told me that they were “sorting through things” (I know, it doesn’t make sense to me either) … I replied “got it, thanks”. We did not talk for 4 weeks. He reached out the other week asking how I was doing & inviting me over for friend gathering at his place. I told him that I appreciated him reaching out but didn’t like the inconsistency & pulling away. He has not responded since. Did I did something wrong by relaying a boundary? I feel like I failed no contact

[@nancybogart3899]

Brown sugar. Girl !!! ABSOLUTELY NOT !!! Excellent on YOUR PART FOR SURE !!! I AGREE 100 percent with you… he wouldn’t do it in the FIRST PLACE. SHOWED HIM YOU AINT A T O Y. THANK YOU

[@Ekb620000]

But it has only been 2 dates… you aren’t even in a relationship to expect consistency 😬 Its fine to have boundaries but I could imagine it came off as demanding.

[@brownsugarglamour]

@@sloanmagnum5009 I was moving on lol, and then he reached out

[@brownsugarglamour]

@@nancybogart3899 thank you that’s the message I was trying to relay, I just feel stupid for freaking no contact just to be ignored again

[@brownsugarglamour]

@@Ekb620000 the issue was him pulling away, if you fully read what I wrote … he wanted us to be friends when he was pulling away even though we were pursuing things romantically… THEN he reached back out weeks later after I told him no & went into no contact

[@wafflesrfat1303]

Thank you Craig

[@anairaham]

Hi Craig! Do you think you can do a video on chances of getting back together after breaking up 2 times?

[@lisawong8005]

Hello! I have complex PTSD due to physical abuse from childhood. I’ve just come to realise I have very strong anxious attachment style. Would the creative healing course be beneficial for me?

[@Se7enn_Sinz]

You did a video on compatibility and chemistry not to long ago. What do you believe is more important?

[@aamacphisto]

Hi Craig, could you do a video talking about if the death of my ex’s mother could affect on our break up? Since she noticed about the diagnostic until the death she broke up with me 3 times, the notice was a year ago and they unfortunately her mother has already passed away. Our relationship lasted 4.5 years, this is the third time she broke up with me in this last year since the tragic diagnostic. The first 2 times she reached out in 2 and 3 month after the break up. In this last time we have 3.5 months since talk and she hasn’t reach out, just once to say how great I see in my profile’a picture and to tell me a notice about our favorite band. She is avoidant, how many times do they come back? Thanks.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Do a coaching with Margaret

[@j0cconnor209]

I struggle to grieve and process situations. What can i do to help my situation. I feel numb

[@chevchelioz6663]

Hi! Can you Make a video of hypergamy? Woman wanting to level up?

[@chrlskrkl]

I have skin cancer and have surgery to remove it in a month. My ex and I still are friendly and she knows I have the skin cancer. I’m not sure if I should ask her if she would come with me to apt. Or just do no contact

[@Michael-qq9kk]

I was in no contact but made the mistake of seeing her out in town and her friends told me to leave her alone as I was making her feel uneasy one of them was on about someone being a guy and I came out with it's not always the way and that was it after that they didn't like my attitude and one said I didn't try and should have wowed her by taking her on a holiday or something I thought it was a bit much as if your not getting anything to work with and it's just one sided why would I want to do that

[@winnielimhuiyee2800]

Nice happy and secure

[@masudzhasan5879]

Coach you didnt reply to my comment in you last video of emotional maturity. Im interested in email coaching

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

We got tons of comments. Just sign up on the website for coaching. Important note. There are scammers out there. The ONLY way to get coaching is through my website

[@druuiden]

Go to his website, he tells you in every video on how to get in touch with him or Margaret/Victoria. Best of luck to you

[@masudzhasan5879]

@@CoachCraigKenneth yes Craig i will but wanted to know if i can add a few of my quick 1 minute videos in email for your advice on them. Im creating Tiktok contents on attachment styles and relationship and plan to post them on tiktok but my ex is my friend on tiktok. Not sure if ibshould post them since im in no contact day 47

[@jasonmerchant2451]

@@masudzhasan5879 If your ex is a friend on your TikTok, you're not really in no contact. Sorry, not trying to be rude...just trying to help.

[@masudzhasan5879]

@@jasonmerchant2451 Thanks, but doing no contact doesn't mean you have to unfollow or block your ex in fact if you are watching carefully coach Craig' or other good coaches videos unfollowing or blocking ex is a bad strategy if you wish to get your ex back.

[@3104core]

Still Facebook friends with x n she posted pics of her coloring her hair. Looks great. Makes me miss her more. Have had no contact since July 4. I know short amount of time . How do y’all deal with social postings or do you just unfriend them? I’m leaning toward doing that now.

[@brownsugarglamour]

Mute her. Or unfollow if you can, that’ll be an impact

[@3104core]

@@brownsugarglamour hi been thinking cuz I have her n her mom on fb to just post n hide it from them. Idk hate what things have come to

[@Enigma32174]

Mute/unfollow but don’t unfriend

[@timcook7649]

Don't look at Facebook- I don't, it makes it 10Xs harder to move forward, notice I said move forward, not move on.

[@j0cconnor209]

1 year and nothing. I'm starting to give up

[@frauschmitt7244]

Same here

[@rebeccapattison4391]

Do the work books, focus on growth, you will soon realise you deserve a lot more than what you had and when you are in a better place that person will just show up! Keep your focus on you like Craig always says, my ex even though he's reached out hasn't said sorry or even ask how I am, it's just about himself, if I hadn't done the work books I would be back at square one, make sure you choose someone who's willing to work on themselves too, it can't be one side. It will get easier! Level up. Smash it, know what you want and conquer it.

[@kellyjford1]

I would reach out after that long. Just me

[@thehardtruth3027]

One guy lost 50 lbs. I mean, it shouldn't have taken heart break to change that. I don't get all of these guys who wait for tragedy to hit the gym. And no contact didn't work, he found a whole new girl

[@Ekb620000]

I don’t get it either. I mean… you would have to start dating at some point anyway or just in general to maintain your body for yourself.

[@Momon1i26]

Can you not be a hater?

[@t.6071]

It did work because she did contact him, twice. And then met each other. He didn’t choose her.

[@signsignsign74]

Sorry, but you just don't change after 2 months lol.

[@MYGmusic97]

@Unbounded Creator which books did you read?

[@timcook7649]

Don't underestimate the power of a breakup to motivate someone. I have absolutely changed and will continue grow and change more as time passes. You're certainly entitled to your opinion, just saying that meaningful change can begin in the first two months

[@kerryotoole5729]

2 ?

[@klodiaki]

❤️🎉

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

❤️

[@aamacphisto]

First!

[@xninplay]

First comment

[@clarasvensson2798]

Hi from sweden! Please do a video how to do ”no contact” when you have a dog together and have to see each other every week. What do you do in this situation? 🥹❤️

[@Ekb620000]

Can’t one of you keep the dog permanently? Because I guess if he starts dating again (or you) then this other person wouldn’t want you in the picture anyway.

[@ammu.live100]

Sir I'm going through relationship problems. I met a girl on Instagram, she started liking me and got very attracted towards me. Then we came in a relation and fell in love. But now she is acting weird. She use to love me a lot but now she is acting cold & don't want to be with me anymore for no reason. We never fought, we never argued, I never disrespected her still this happened to me. When I asked her why? She said that "I'm not having same feelings for you now & want to move on" Now she is ignoring me on social media and don't want to meet or hangout. I asked her for a chances to make this better but she is not willing to do so. We both are from different colleges & have no common friends. I don't know what should I do now. What's the reason behind this. I just love her and she gets irritated whenever I try to explain her what I feel for her. All she wants is just to come out of this relation. I feel so miserable & defeated as this was my first love experience. This was first time I came much closed to a girl. First date, first hug, first kiss and ofcourse my first breakup. I don't know what went wrong. I am perfect & I knew it and even she use to say this. She use to appreciate me a lot. She use to say that the only thing a girl wants is love, care & support and you give it all. Your the best boyfriend, why didn't we met before. But then after few months she said things are not same anymore and "I don't have same feelings for you anymore". I don't feel the same when you hold my hands, huge me, kiss me as it use to. Is this a reason to break-up. With this reason I can change girls every month. Why she has no sense of commitment and responsibility. Why can't she see my love for her. Why can't feel my pain. why? She is not a bitch like many girls around me in college. She is a decent & very humble and that was the main reason why I came in relation with her. Please & tell me why is this happening and what should I do. I knew its easy to say move on but I'm not able to. Please help me 🙏🏼

[@oleugh]

There can be many reasons. She found someone else that she caught feelings for, you could've shown behaviors she didn't like. It's impossible to know anything without knowing the full story. You won't be able to move on if you keep telling yourself that you can't. This isn't healthy either when you feel like you need her in your life to be able to be happy. You need to be happy with your life regardless if you have a partner or not, cause if you are not, you will cling to them and be terrified of them leaving you, cause like Craig says; If you are terrified that they will leave you, you will behave in a way that causes them to leave. Feelings change over time, just because she says she loves you and wants to marry you, doesn't mean she will feel the same a month later. I recommend watching Craigs videos, really study your own behaviors and learn from what happened as much as possible. I also recommend watching The Love Chat, he also has a lot of really helpful videos. Hope this helps.