2 reasons why Indian girls leave their boyfriends (but don't say it!)

[@thelocalite6544]

Summary of the video- 1) build a career 2) Don't be too possessive

[@aakash950]

THANKS

[@masternobin]

build a career and earn more than her future guys

[@subitnath8751]

Focus on 1 and you don't have to think about 2

[@masternobin]

@Indian to girls relationship is all about survival

[@shivank2673]

Ha copy me likhlo

[@praveenshrivastava6404]

Conclusion is that : paisa, money, rokda, dhann is the main ingredient along with other masala of life curry. Hats of chetan bhiyaa. Love u boss.

[@joshimukul6467]

True when I was in radison hotel Jaipur ….party. Me models and high class girls …..bhai Mai surprise reh gya itni sundar ladkia….Ameer uncles ke saath thi sirf paisa aur extra affair b

[@Bipinkhorai]

Right

[@harshrathod4498]

“Focus on yourself, your career, than you will not have time to be possessive and insecure “ 💯💯

[@soumsgaming238]

Khb sara paisa kamao

[@yeelanma9165]

@@omjoshi8319 earn money its more important than a hole

[@deepjyotitalukdar3470]

@@yeelanma9165 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SunilSharma-rb9bm]

Lie and unfaith diatroye relation

[@paragkadam2169]

Being emotionally unavailable to my ex was the reason for my breakup. This happens when you take them for granted and don't invest enough time and efforts in the relationship.

[@rvi632]

Stop blaming yourself. Yeh sabka rona hai. Emotionally involved nhi ho, for granted le rakha h. This n that. Truth is she already found someone who is better than you.

[@paragkadam2169]

@@rvi632 you sound bitter dude.. Looks like a recent heartbreak.

[@rvi632]

Lol.. No bro!!! Had a long time back.

[@sarojbarikk6822]

Yaar parag achha kiya k tum usse granted le rakha tha, matlab kahin achhi jagah tumne invest kiya hoga. Kyun k ... Unlike other men you are different. Those men who revolves around pussy all day, they somewhere ended up hopeless, uncofident , not desirable goal in life. Yaar women are hypergamous in nature.. They likes to be stay in upper zone like they wants to wear good cloth, wealthy, fruitful lifestyle. Those men who have skill like u, stop idolise, stop pedastalise, taking granted kind of men who fall in this category called as high value men... So cherish your goal, your life what you wants to make

[@highvalueman-yy9mn]

@@rvi632 i agree with Ravi opinion

[@simranpreetsingh5835]

Don't fall in love until you complete your education love doesn't feed you money does 😂😂

[@Daddynotsugar]

Ok

[@techmentos]

My advice- 1.focus on financial independence 2.Enjoy each day -by doing something which u really love. 3.take care of your health.

[@abhisengar6046]

Yes yahi mool mantra hai.

[@mxd3484]

So easy to say but hard to achieve.

[@sujit2802]

👌🏻👌🏻👏🏼👏🏼

[@prithwishroy19]

"Financial Freedom" is a big word my Friend. Even a girl's father could not say confidently wheater he is financially free even at the age of retirement.

[@prakashgore8483]

Great Bro

[@nitinyadav829]

I always remember your lines sir, ( Being so busy to improve yourself that you have no time to criticise someone ) :-)

[@nitinyadav7525]

Wow , it felt so good seeing my exact name . Good luck brother 😃

[@sudipkrsinharoy3828]

Thanks for reminding

[@kpchandan25]

That is not love . If one loves someone then loves their unemployment, love family problems, love their personal problems etc. Then boys has only one solution. Get govt job then marry with girl whose father gives him hefty dowry. That is the slap on the girl who is pretend to b in love but in disguise c love his money, carrier, social status etc.

[@DeepakKumar-xv5tq]

@@nitinyadav7525 😅

[@sandeshrangari694]

And here he is criticizing almost the whole indian male youth ..🤣🤣🤣

[@vaibhavgarg4783]

3:40 First Point 6:42 Second Point

[@bhavnaygupta2106]

Hero hai tu bhaiya

[@harshsingh6319]

😂 😂 😂

[@ritikranjand1827]

Not all heroes wear cap U have my respect 🔥

[@swamagic2525]

💯💯💯🤘🤘🤘

[@swayamshashwatrodiya2183]

Thanks bhai

[@ameeshkatariya2984]

The career point is true, although my only suggestion is, don't work on your career because you want to impress girls. Just work on your career because you wanna do something great in life. You need to work on yourself for yourself, not for anyone else. And we gotta ditch this possessiveness. Look the problem with guys is, we don't have any value. The girl ignores us, and we keep running even faster behind her. I think its high time we pick up ourselves and leave this race for women, discover the best version of ourselves.

[@adm.721]

सच काहा भाई आपने👌🙏

[@nirajmishrabitspilani5945]

Hey Chetan, I mean honestly you said what mostly people fail to. Absolutely spot on. ✨

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much 😄

[@nirajmishrabitspilani5945]

@@ChetanBhagat1 I would love to see your opinion on “Self respect”. I personally think men do disrespect their self respect a lot. If one can’t respect themselves, they can respect none. Hope you make it :)

[@Viksit_Bihar]

Anyone can be bf with certain standard.. But when comes to choosing husband financial status becomes important 😃

[@yashrajasoda]

#facts

[@Its.ArtandSoul]

This is so true... Also, some advise for my boys Be confident Dress nicely for yourself Forcus on your career Don't be insecure and possessive Be real And the right type of girl will be attracted by you, bcoz if you are like this you deserve an equally great girl. *ignore grammatical mistakes

[@godslonelyman3878]

It depends on luck too. And past experience We can't say to a guy who was bullied in past to be confident He can try but to expect he will be confident always is unrealistic. But anyways I agree with your points

[@abhaverma787]

Totally agree with your points sir. One more point I wanna add is Career these days are equally important for both guys & girls, sometimes girls also don't focus on their career jus becoj they are so possessive for their boyfriends. Good career can lead to good relationship but not always vice versa.

[@v.e.y.r.o.n74]

Not true sister. If a girl is not focusing on her career or even if she don't have any job at certain age a boy who love her or any boy will marry her and will provide her the best life possible. But if talking about vice versa that shit is imposible. A girl with good or handsome career will never marry a boy even they love each other or any guy.

[@ritamdeb4979]

Abha Verma yeah I do agree with you entirely as in today's world both boys & girls require to be self relient as suppose if a boy losses his life after getting married & his girl stays just as a housewife then she will certainly become very much helpless

[@thebeatboxguy]

If career is equally important for both than girls looks for a handsome good looking guy. Please reply if any suggestions

[@abhaverma787]

@@thebeatboxguy For girls having good career:- Ofcourse girls can look for handsome guy if the that guy loves her and posses a good nature then both can live happily, but only looks are not important rather girls prefer to marry a guy who is loving & caring. Coj looks would exhaust when he get old,but good nature will be with him always so he can better take care of his lady & kids😇

[@thebeatboxguy]

@@abhaverma787 really nice answer ❤️❤️☺️

[@faesalwani963]

I agree with you sir. I just want to share my point on girls. 1, Dont try to understand a girl. 2, A girl is made to be loved, feeled & we should enjoy their presence.

[@thehelper8538]

wait wait wait .... mujhe aisa lagta hai ki mere papa mujhe esa smjha rhe h ... words pe mt jao .. but if you are someone jisko smjhane wala koi nahi hai ... is channel ko kabhi mat chorna .. chetan sir ..we all know why you are here . just to make someones life better and we know you will always help us .. thank you dear chetan sir.

[@jstpranab]

Good career that is the whole point of understanding,the theory of career linked with everything was great sir. Thanks for amazing video .

[@Indian2.5]

Our Name😬

[@sonamdeshpande7281]

@@Indian2.5 guturgu shuru ... huh 🥺😆

[@Indian2.5]

@@sonamdeshpande7281 😑😑

[@saurabhchandra7205]

"You're born alone, you die alone, and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one." Don Draper Mad Men S1E01

[@sourabh1234561]

jordarr bro

[@bhargavreddy7038]

kitne season hai ?

[@AyushKumar-lr4fu]

Agree 💯!!!!!

[@Mahesh-ox6sn]

lage raho bhai

[@tarunsisodia9157]

Don Draper and his personality is not something you should idealize.

[@mp47753]

My genuine feedback for young boys is to think of girls as partners/friends. I am now 12 yr married to a guy who is not only my best friend but also encourages and supports my career decisions. Once you move forward from the initial honeymoon phase of dating and romance, reality hits. Both individuals need to be happy and satisfied with their carrier choices( money matters). We need partners to raise our kids. Here in US, there is no support system. You need to be hands-on with everything. Giving space and respecting each other are very important. I think of my life partner as my purpose-partner. We are achieving success by literally taking turns in our careers. Coming from a mom of 3 little toddlers. Communication is the key 🔑 by setting the right expectations.

[@mikasa3202]

So much of learning 👍🏼 thanks for sharing, teenager this side

[@newrajesthanjewellers1964]

Agree 👍

[@sonamdeshpande7281]

@@mikasa3202 badhiya career banaalo beta abhi se .. warna life is tough ahead

[@vishvajitkale220]

Thanks for sharing

[@vishvajitkale220]

@@sonamdeshpande7281 😂😂😂he matr agadi khare ahe (money matter)

[@swatiswagatika2017]

I want to add 2 more reasons why girls leave guys 3. Having sexual desire or forcing girl without girl's concern 4. Maximum boys thinks ghar ka kam ladkiyon ka hota hai it became very hard when girl is working One Extra reason.: Not respecting girl's value . Well it applies for both boys and girls.

[@TheSomeone087]

These are good qualities, even I want the girl who have these qualities or we can reason, merko chahiye hi nahi koi chapri ladki. And sex to bilkul hi avoid karna chahiye shaadi se pehle no matter ladke ho ya ladki itne hawsi mat bano yarr.

[@sidharthasatapathy3491]

You absolutely nailed it Chetan bhagat ji..🙏🏻 I loved someone so much, I still love that person, but that person has rejected me, she outrightly rejected me, she didn't tell me anything, she just said No, and I Know why she rejected me, it's because of my career, I am not yet settled, that's the reason, hell I know, now Chetan bhagat ji just confirmed that, but let me tell you this, it's hard real hard, if you love someone so much, then it's going to hurt you as I am hurt, but I respect that person's choice and I am not that person for her, time will heal every pain stay strong boys.. ❤️

[@manyagaur2433]

Too much emotional dependency of boy over his girl..I guess is one of the reasons Or should I say irrespective of the gender... never be fully dependent on others STAY strong...stay HAPPY ❤️

[@monalishabal4910]

True. We should not depend on others.😊

[@luckybajaj1999]

Can you explain emotional dependency?

[@parulprarthana5413]

@Sumant Sahu Man,it's tooooo difficult to not to get attached .

[@amisha.3079]

@Sumant Sahu lrkiya apne parents k sath rhti h aur bahar jane ka v mauka nhi milta upar se agar middle class h to sare bhai behan ka ek hi kmra hota h jiske karan wo baat nhi kr pati apne bf se😭😭😭it is also a cause of break up.

[@jaydutta7711]

@@amisha.3079 "Yeh *_chútíya_* excuse kisi aur ko jaa ke de"....🤦🏻‍♂️

[@epitome7326]

“only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally,” whereas “a man is only loved under the condition that he provide something.... :-))

[@unknownerroridku7850]

Hehe u reel guy 😂 . I've seen this reel just before this video !!💔🌸

[@physicsislove6100]

@@shristiaditi538 so what a short boy can like tall girl And vice versa

[@sourabh1234561]

u forgot mothers love buddy

[@physicsislove6100]

If women are loved unconditionally then you shouldn't have any problem with them being workaholic and have big career dreams to pursue even after marriage which obviously no one should have a problem with it For everyone career comes first and you should know that and nothing even after marriage nothing should hinder it

[@sakshambhadauria5709]

@shristi aditi Stop generalizing, if killing of all girl child were true you wouldn't be alive today, neither anyone else. You have also generalized by comparing today's situation to earlier, by saying matured men only want to marry girl with job. Get your timeline correct. If you are considering how nowadays men wants to marry working women then also consider nowadays people don't kill their girl child. Give this a thought, anyways you'll get attention from feminized boys like @Electro OP, who thinks just by ridiculing someone for breakup or career will make their point valid.

[@praveenp5281]

Only Kabir Singh can get the girl despite being madly possessive and overbearing...!!!

[@hritikdalal6027]

He was topper also

[@Sonali_d_p]

True

[@anushkadubey5901]

So true.. it's all fictional

[@praveenp5281]

@@Amit-lh1jz that's exactly what I meant! I was being sarcastic.

[@shk082]

Kabir singh was a reel character ; come to real '

[@vasanthkumar2979]

Before some years ago, I used to watch such type of videos . Now there is no need. Iam very Happy No breakups No pain. Iam 38 yrs old, married and settled.

[@rajarshibose20041]

Hi Chetan... the coming generation will be luck to have you as their motivation guru. I am a 90s kid, who knew Chetan Bhagat after reading his first novel Five Points Someone. There was no KZbin or Insta to connect to you. We did all these mistakes and learnt from them. Luckily this generation will know all this before taking wrong steps.

[@theop107]

Truth into 100 . Bro , heart se zindagi nhi chalti . Its important but , girls look for security . And either way if you have a secure future and life , isn't it good for your own too . Plus you should also know your worth , don't sell yourself to anyone , just because you want closure , know what you want !

[@manjunambiar239]

Loved the comment "Quality girl knows her boundaries" Thats absolutely true. As such babies are clingy towards you, when husbands also get clingy it is rather painful :) ! Good point!

[@chiraagkaran9612]

Nice logic

[@AbhinavChoudharyOfficial]

low quality men get clingy. make yourself better so that she's afraid to lose you.

[@akshatsingh8857]

A girl doesn't deserve a guy if she herself hasn't done anything in her career

[@pa4760]

Career has nothing to do with partner. Its about the capacity of loving someone.

[@deveshsomraj271]

@@pa4760 ab ladki pr baat aayi toh love aur ladke pe baat aayi toh carrier 👏👏👏

[@akshatsingh8857]

@@deveshsomraj271 ekdum shi

[@akshatsingh8857]

@coco 07 yeah and nowaday both girls and boys are brain washed but the majority of the golddigers is increasing

[@enfp8618]

I second that.:)

[@EcstasyLyrics]

Chetan Bhagat told "Possessiveness insecurities se aati hai", I totally agree. But what if the girls actions makes the guy insecure, like talking with exes after break up, posting revealing selfies on social media where little to no skin is covered, keeping old memories of exes like photos, hiding small to big things, lying about small and big things. Isn't it enough to make a guy insecure, now who's fault is that? Guys cause he is being insecure or girls who is doing certain actions that are not suitable being in relationships and directly or indirectly making him feel insecure. If I plan to share my future with someone I need to know everything about her. Lies creates doubts that's how insecurities arises.

[@deb370]

i swear i went through these same thoughts when i was with my ex. what used to make me more insecure was cus she wad actually a hoe, she was a cheater in the past, also she wasn't a virgin whilst being only 15. she left me over me being over possessive which has taught me a lesson not to trust girls who've had a bad past. they don't change. and i don't really care enough to change this mentality of mine. im good being single. im too secure of myself now that i just don't bother caring about someone else 😂😂😂 you depressed ass boys need to listen to some Future

[@sharadswaraj]

Its totally true

[@TrueandpracticalIndian]

agreee

[@chanting8903]

Then leave the girl because she don't love you

[@himanshukanwar2672]

Brother she is a low quality women set boundaries and if she doesn’t respect your boundaries let her go Bro she is going to break your heart

[@riddhiaggarwal313]

The second point was so on point👌...like seriously this bothers so many girls...well said sir👍💯

[@sharadswaraj]

Chetan Bhagat told "Possessiveness insecurities se aati hai", I totally agree. But what if the girls actions makes the guy insecure, like talking with exes after break up, posting revealing selfies on social media where little to no skin is covered, keeping old memories of exes like photos, hiding small to big things, lying about small and big things. Isn't it enough to make a guy insecure, now who's fault is that? Guys cause he is being insecure or girls who is doing certain actions that are not suitable being in relationships and directly or indirectly making him feel insecure. If I plan to share my future with someone I need to know everything about her. Lies creates doubts that's how insecurities arises.

[@travel.mydrug]

Well said.. Every word of yours is linked to another, 1.yes its REALLY easy for a girl to get nice guys, but lemme tel you it's EASY for a guys too to get nice girls, IF they are sensible enough. 2.career is imp to everyone if it's a guy or a girl, if you ain't focused on your career even your parents are gonna take your case obvsly they wouldn't like you to waste your life so how can you expect a girl to accept you if you ain't focused on your career. 3. Don't ever be possessive, if she loves you, she won't leave you for any other guy, and if she doesn't love she can kick you anytime anyway, so why to get worried, and too much possessiveness ruins the relationship badly, 4.if you try to control her, she will definitely go against you... LAST....... if she is yours she will never cheat on you so why to get worried bro, BUT if she isn't urs she will eventually leave you so why to cry for some one who wasn't yours ever right !

[@Akashkumar-em1fs]

Hadd hai 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♂️

[@lsctherevolutionaryboy9281]

Ky thoughts hai ma'am sabasi dena hoga 👍

[@shivank2673]

Kuch naya baataogi madam ....jo sir ne bataya wahi eloborate karke eassy writing karne aai ho kya

[@shivank2673]

Kuch naya bato ki ladka safsuthra, sanskari , pada likha dimag ka tej ya joooo bhi h matlab jo sir ne bata diya wahi chaap diya

[@shivank2673]

Jaldi bataoo ab

[@LegalBird369]

👌👌you are right sir 👌👌Career is very important , lazy log kabhi bhi kishi ko pasand nhi aa sakte........... Unki soch big ho , hamesa apne aapko growth ki taraf le jaye..... Deeply soch rkhe ..... Netrual hokar kishi bhi cheez ko dekhe..... 👌👌

[@vinayaka004]

How focussed are you about your career?

[@vinayaka004]

@@riteeksinghania9185 mujhe uska bhaw nhi chahiye bhai. Mujhe pta hai wo kitna focused hai 😄

[@kpchandan25]

Mam Safalta ka percentage Kitna h ? India is a poor country 😢. Unemployment is reality. 200 seat k liye 5 lac farm Daale jate h.

[@kpchandan25]

That is not love . If one loves someone then loves their unemployment, love family problems, love their personal problems etc. Then boys has only one solution. Get govt job then marry with girl whose father gives him hefty dowry. That is the slap on the girl who is pretend to b in love but in disguise c love his money, carrier, social status etc.

[@Stephjohn26]

@@vinayaka004 0 bro 🤣🤣🤣 shes dead

[@rockybhai5844]

He is one of the most intelligent guy I have seen, his theories are amazing !

[@amananand3100]

I think power of two words( "SARKARI NAUKRI ") is more powerful than power of three words("I LOVE YOU") #indians😉😉

[@Amit-rk5hw]

Dude that's what you call bramhastra

[@amananand3100]

@@Amit-rk5hw Exactly 😎

[@LifeWithNaresh]

Sahi pakde beta😂😂

[@AnilKumar-yv5fz]

Yaha sarkari Naukri bhi lag gayi 🤣 par still single hain 🤣

[@chanting8903]

Sarkari nokri only attract gold digger girl's and gold digger inlows

[@vikashpandey2564]

I was doing very well in my career and I wasn't insecure about her still she left because I was too into career.... Girls leave doesn't matter how good you are... It's better to not focus on girls focus on Career when you are doing well in your career you don't need girl.

[@ronnie1074]

That's the main think most of men don't understand

[@Ragnar4104]

Management matters bro

[@Ksyed7124]

@@ronnie1074 yeah why does we need girl its totally fine to be single not forever but for a while at least

[@dhrubajyoti14]

Girls often keeps multiple options. They compare people basically based on their looks also the security they can provide. Unfortunately most of the times they choose the wrong partner for which they regret later although they don't disclose.

[@kshitijsaini3519]

agreed

[@iamcreativity732]

It's damm true , because whenever I used talk to my bestie about her relationship, she always used to say that her guy had no good career and therefore she can't see the future with him... really

[@srishtishetty8578]

As a woman I think that's because we owing to biology we know that we may be bearing children for which we will want financial stability. And it's not necessary that a woman should not earn for the household, but the traditional responsibility still rests with the man.

[@jayeshpatil9399]

@@srishtishetty8578 but traditional responsibility still rests with women for cooking , cleaning, taking care of family

[@redpilled4872]

@@jayeshpatil9399 yeah bro they are hypocrite 😆😂 they expect men to be provider but when we talk about household chores, cooking, cleaning they have a problem.

[@amarshrivastava2753]

A girl of good value system/noble character clearly knows her respectful boundary b/w her partner & other male friends

[@amarshrivastava2753]

Same thing is applicable to men as well

[@ketkipatil8309]

Exactly and same applies to boys as well

[@amarshrivastava2753]

@@ketkipatil8309 thank you for supporting n appreciating 😇

[@amarshrivastava2753]

@@ketkipatil8309 Absolutely Right

[@rachitaggarwal9564]

Many girls and much of boys want to control.

[@tarunnaaa]

And yes you attract what you are , quality guys look for quality girls.

[@anandkrtiwari]

do you think you are quality girl ?

[@amanupadhyaynitk3292]

@@anandkrtiwari tujhe kya karna?

[@anandkrtiwari]

@@amanupadhyaynitk3292 looking for quality girl

[@TheMsnitish]

@@amanupadhyaynitk3292 poochne do bhai, why are you policing lol

[@amanupadhyaynitk3292]

@@TheMsnitish inko real life me koi ladki ghans nahi dalti to comment section me har ladki pe line marte hai

[@masoodahmad8600]

Don't choose a selfish girl for that matter.If they choose you for your wealth,they may choose a wealthier one later ...

[@MonikaMonikaaD]

U r doing something really great for the youth , sir. I have read your book, making india awesome. It's really inspiring, sir. We indians are proud to have u

[@kirtiverma2940]

you have said god's honest truth sir!!!.....really appreciative :)

[@Shiwam_1250]

❤️

[@shivammahajan9051]

And you dont even have guts to make boyfriend

[@chintanpatel4471]

One thing i couldn't understand Boys will support a girl for her career but why girls are not supporting him until he get successfull in life ....he is trying his best then also .....

[@fitness_freakprince2958]

Agreed

[@akshayapathak2349]

It's not true, it depends on the girl you are dealing with. Be with a girl who is actually goal oriented, she'll support you for sure !

[@GoluSingh...]

Kyonki bhai wo STREE hai...wo kuch bhi kar sakti hai...🤣🤣😂😁

[@chintanpatel4471]

@@GoluSingh... sahi kaha golu ji

[@soumsgaming238]

Ye sab nahi hota reality main so accept it and move on.

[@redguitarwarrior2179]

Books which every guy should read :- 1) Rational male series by Rollo Tommasi 2) Models by Mark Mason 3) The way of superior men 4) Redpill handbook 5) love letter to America by Yuri Bezmenov

[@wanderingsandy]

And Watch Fresh and Fit Podcast

[@masternobin]

darius M is the best I G

[@Ayush_kumar123]

Models bro😍😍

[@martian.07_]

Love to see our Indian red pill audience.

[@Life21channel]

rollo is gift for manosphere

[@proxsin7422]

Tip Looks matter most then Personality is bonus and if you have Money too you can get anyone you want

[@deboraabh]

Yes ofcourse, YOU are RIGHT Chetan, GREAT SUCCESS you have greater the chances that all people (both boys and girls) come running behind you !!! They feel that you are successful so you will be able to do something !!.. Now, WHEN the same person has no more money or his CAREER falls inbetween or goes down for sometime - you immediately come to know WHO your REAL FRIENDS are and who your REAL GIRL IS !! .. including your wife at times depending on the QUALITY of the girl.. 😳 ISNT IT ?

[@seeratarora702]

Entirely agree sir !! Most relevant point is where no one should control other's life. If she is yours and you really deserve her, she would come to/stay with you !

[@tanujadon]

Same thing happened with me .. He became too possessive which i used to hate about him and he stopped focussing on his career and used to abuse me or throw his anger on me anytime which ultimately led me to be in stress for a long time and i am still recovering.. I have taken an oath not to come into any relationship anymore cause it's taking my peace away

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

Right ✅sis...my friend too very possessive ...now quarreling daily

[@Sachin_kumar709]

Maybe you had done something that got stucked in his head

[@tanujadon]

@@Sachin_kumar709 when he gets angry he abuses

[@Sachin_kumar709]

@@tanujadon fine

[@tanujadon]

@@Sachin_kumar709 nowhere

[@replicideayoutube919]

Focusing on study and career goals only...My mom will bring the sweetest girl for me❤️😊

[@aradhnamishra2896]

Ohhh great😍😍😇😇😍😍

[@htr5150]

You are going to have a brightest future....

[@janiejames9963]

Why not love marriage bro 👀

[@janiejames9963]

@@farheeennnnn3 apni pasand se insan khush rehta aur us insan ko ache se janta h arranged me compromise feel hota h baki sabki apni preference

[@wanderingnomad1]

He’s spoken the truth, at the end of the day having a serious career shows that the guy is responsible and able to financially support his family. Just like Chetan bhai says at 4:55 , the nerd or studious guy ultimately wins.

[@Dark-tk9xu]

Try to find someone who is happy with the way you are. Someone who does not want to change you or expect you to be someone else. Don't fall for someone who thinks you are a project to be delivered. Finally, don't just go by looks (what Mr. Bhagat said out of your league and some other crap), try to see the person within.

[@Killbill217]

i would also prefer to be in a relationship with a women who is focussed for her goals dreams who have something meaningful to do inlife 💯

[@thebestnoel3159]

Tabhi single hai kya bhai abhi tak q 😂😂 q ki abhi sab ladki reels baane mai busy hai 😂😂 no offense dude it is just a joke ❤️

[@yummyfood2257]

@@thebestnoel3159 girls go for money, boys go for beauty and relieving their stress to girls

[@thebestnoel3159]

@@yummyfood2257 boys go for a girl who understands them because boys don't share everything to anyone all they need is a patner to share everything

[@thebestnoel3159]

@Prasad Pvt. no bro it depends how supportive your girlfriend is for your and her goals too

[@heyhanshul]

same

[@sakshiyadav8534]

I agree! And mostly guys equate career with money which isnt always the case. Many a times, girls look for boys who are already into a good career or at least have an aspiration of one because such men/ boys generally (of course not always) tend to be practical in life and value certain morals like time management/ importance of time, being able to comprehend the gravity of the situations, living in real time and not in some lala land always, being able to shoulder the responsibilities, being secure, etc. Also most of the times, it is such self made men who are able to appreciate their partners profession or job which any ambitious/working girl would want.

[@snehyadav4285]

well said...

[@mylifemychoice5304]

@SOMA: Flowing With Life then leave that girl... and put ur brain in finding a girl ... who likes for who your..... update ur choices and see what u want in a girl and get here. if you still fail.... blame ur self for not finding such a girl... after knowing what you want.

[@imeanitslifeserioustalksbu202]

Really thank u for such deep insight

[@ManishKumar-ed3lt]

Don't make urself fit for crap. Someone who offers her by seeing money is a crap of course

[@ankitasahoo6524]

Just the perfect answer!

[@omraj3073]

Saari tension ladko ki hi hai...Gf v chahiye career v banana....😐😐😐 Nhi to gf chor degi... Aur ladkio ko..Bf chahiye well settled ho.. Bss..Simple.. By the way I agree with ur words..Sir...😊😊

[@guarav3560]

😂😂

[@ajeetkanaujiya2290]

🤣🤣

[@santanubasak8391]

The thing the guy needs to prioritize himself and prioritize his family that is his parents....you have to live your life ...there is a huge trust factor and if you do not have trust on them, you have to get rid of the elements which is harming you..career is important and you need to sacrifice everything to achieve your goals...my take is very clear reject everything other than your parents who are your best well wishers and live your life

[@jerryakshitavlogs9791]

video starts here 3:39😉

[@n.sambedprakashpati3271]

there are thousand languages in the world and man decided to speak "FACTS"!!!

[@gitansh9053]

💯

[@yashkaimariya]

😂😂😂😂

[@KiranVenkataraju]

You are exactly right sir, things change for boys as soon as the campus interviews in colleges are over And girls now know which boy has better career option and earnings.

[@guarav3560]

Sir, if we have a good career and money then why only one girl, we should have so many girls. 😀

[@rameshkoyyada318]

yes, I agree with you sir over possesiveness kills the relationships. Because, it creates trust issues and being insecured and jealous won't lead to a healthy relationship. Because trust is the key for any relationship or friendship. Relationships are too complicated. It would be better to focus on your career first. Relationships Don't go anywhere which we need to deal with them our entire life afterwards.

[@pragatiswain6914]

Agree to the Moooon!!! You are the super father of Indian youth. Pin point. Now, I am scared to share it with a friend who is having all the girlfriend repellent qualities you just discussed! 😂 He will jump to 🔥 probably.

[@Iamlegend91]

Share the video if you really care.

[@adarshp6550]

Treat a date like a date, a girlfriend like a girlfriend not like Your life.

[@guarav3560]

If you don't focus on girls then you will see your life is very beautiful 😊.

[@anshitajharia3608]

Sir I agree with your points , and second point is the strongest reason for a break-up.... Possessiveness is there in a relationship but within a limit only and if it exceeds far it will turn into ownership ...... Thanks sir for your thoughts and guiding us ❤️🙏

[@sidgaming6419]

@Anshita Jharia, hasi aa rhi thi na video dekhte dekhte 😂😂?

[@luckybajaj1999]

As sir said, possessiveness comes from insecurity, in many cases girl's are also possesive, the only thing which help to change the possessive behaviour of your partner is trust😊 that's what I think

[@surajdhas8131]

More often girl friend zone guy. That is why the guy developed insecurity and they are always in a dilemma whether the girl cheating on them

[@bhagatg1889]

Possiveness comes from the fear of losing ur dear one

[@btsc4710]

Possessiveness girl or boy both ko Aati he Gara larke Se jiyda Larki Sundar ho to larke ko Dr hota he ki ya Kisi or ke sath to Nahi he , ya fir boy smart hota he girl ko dar Lagta he ki sayd ya.to Kisi Larki ke sath Nahi he , logic Yaha pe ya he sir ya to hota he dono gendar me lekin girl Karti he possessiveness to larka ladta he lekin Uske hi sath rahta he lekin Agar larka possessiveness ho jae to Galat he 😑 wahh re duniya ,

[@bindu1922]

I started typing 'possesiveness' just as u asked girls to comment our views...n u mentioned it too in the 2nd point. 😂💚..

[@prasenjeetkhadse]

Chetan bhagat sir hai wo 😁sab jante hai...

[@bindu1922]

@@prasenjeetkhadse couldn't agree more 😅

[@aditi2783]

😂😂😂😳

[@sharadswaraj]

Chetan Bhagat told "Possessiveness insecurities se aati hai", I totally agree. But what if the girls actions makes the guy insecure, like talking with exes after break up, posting revealing selfies on social media where little to no skin is covered, keeping old memories of exes like photos, hiding small to big things, lying about small and big things. Isn't it enough to make a guy insecure, now who's fault is that? Guys cause he is being insecure or girls who is doing certain actions that are not suitable being in relationships and directly or indirectly making him feel insecure. If I plan to share my future with someone I need to know everything about her. Lies creates doubts that's how insecurities arises.

[@harshitkumar9555]

Girl who is there with her boy during his struggle period and support him instead of going with the career one's can change his life as well as hers.

[@physicsislove6100]

I wish exactly the same from boys ,are there boys who don't have problem with girlfriends or wives being workaholic and gets little to no time for husband during her struggle period? If yes then that's wonderful

[@adrutionam8905]

@@physicsislove6100 agreed!!!!

[@prashantpatil6934]

Bhai milti kaha hai aisi ladki ?

[@ananddarnal6702]

It's the true conversation starter lol

[@du_boy]

@@physicsislove6100 you said it as a reaction to his comment. Because you think he made a patriarchal statement. 😅😅 Grow up man.😅 Till the time you are reacting to someone you have no real existence. Speak something which you feel strongly about, not something because you want to counter somebody. Because that is always superficial.

[@ojharvce]

I can share from experience that guys should focus on their career first, your health and building a strong character. You will be more likely to get a better girl at 25 if you have a good career than what you will get whekn you are 19 when you haven't seen much of the world. If you are physically fit and making good money, girls will come to you.

[@soumsgaming238]

Sometimes even if you earn more money,girls will not come after you.Sometimes it depends on luck also.

[@mohitkumaryadav9150]

Indeed!

[@lalitachaudhary1704]

Sir, I totally agree with your words ..U are straightforward, no drama , nothing .. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@rahulboruahupsccandidate7822]

I like your straight forward approach and thought ,this is only never die attitude in the face of death 💞🇮🇳 Jai hind 🇮🇳

[@desisniper8634]

I am a girl and I completely agree with your points. I am myself a CA student and ambitious, so the very first thing I would look in a guy is the same ambition and career focus

[@vinayaka004]

Agar saare ladke aise hi sochne lge to atleast 25% ladkiyan unmarried/single rhengi puri life

[@desisniper8634]

@@vinayaka004 toh socho naa, no one stopped you. Guys prioritize looks and beauty over career and ambition. It's truth. I would love if guys start thinking like that

[@Stephjohn26]

Mr Indian girl I don't wanna marry an indian girl 😉😂

[@omjoshi8319]

I am in class 11th when she breakup with me , and she tell agar tumhe mere sath rehna hai too tumhe friend ban kr rehena padega . I agree with her decision then next day she'll call me and said kal se hum baat Krna band kr denge jab tumhe mere yaad aaye tab call kr liya Krna , too maine thik hai bola , Lekin uss din puri raat mai soya nhi , 2 months hamare bich batten hue ki kyu tumhe friends ban kr rehena hai kyu tum mujh se baat nhi Krna chahati but har baar usne alag alag reasons batayen or baat Krna band kr diya bcoz of this I am in depression for 6 month and today I am a b-tech student but still mai yeh he sochta hu kyu usne mujh se baat Krna band kr diya , vo mujhe uski family se bhi jyada pyar krti thi.... Please reply me ?

[@fbiagentkabaap6974]

That's completely fine. You don't need to give explanations. I am an ambitious guy and I love feminine and beautiful(mostly interior)women and some girls ask me why. I am tired of giving them explanations.

[@aadityarao1432]

Soo True, it's just a waste of your energy to worry that someone might betray you...the only thing you should be focusing on is yourself.. !!

[@anonymous-ss8yc]

I really agree with what you said sir... being possessive eventually make you alone.

[@asmita1490]

You are a deep thinker and you can observe and remember your experiences And these stories are all coming from your memory lane I like people who introspect and think

[@kpchandan25]

That is not love . If one loves someone then loves their unemployment, love family problems, love their personal problems etc. If anyone in love can't give moral support in struggle can't b lover. Then boys has only one solution. Get govt job then marry with girl whose father gives him hefty dowry. That is the slap on the girl who is pretend to b in love but in disguise c love his money, carrier, social status etc.

[@shivammahajan9051]

Tujhe ghaas nhi daalte ladke

[@trinayan5978]

Sir I totally agree with you but I want to add a point..... Sometimes we feel that we love someone bt actually we don't. We don't understand the difference between love and ephemeral emotion. Later when we understand so....We wish to move on in search of a true love, causing a heart break.

[@carpediem9407]

This is the main reason why my breakup happened , I am a career oriented guy , but because of my over possessiveness the girl went , and one more point I want to add , some people are lonely they just want to come in relationship to fill that gap , and once its over they will go . So be very sure before choosing some one .

[@deb370]

@@omjoshi8319 you okay now g? you wanna talk about it?

[@superslug2516]

4:40 As a JEE aspirant this is the best part. Thank you sir for making me believe my life was not a lie 😃😃

[@mr_sanket_mishra]

boys after watching this be like : *Nothing can stop me, I'm all the way up*

[@CrazyBoy-ns3wi]

Xd go to hell 😀😂😀

[@user-fo9kt3rq3d]

@@CrazyBoy-ns3wi 🤣😂🤣

[@pritam5278]

I was Broken for a year I used to cry at night ! ! My whole family suffered because of My depression. The girl who Betrayed me was the one who proposed me but when I started loving her she left without any reason!!! Anyways the experience made me strong Now I am only focusing on My carrier and Don't wanna get into any relationship Just want to make my parents proud that's it!! 😊

[@amansharma3249]

Thats fucking rude man.. Why she left you..?

[@aradhnamishra2896]

Why she left 🤔🤔reason bhai

[@pritam5278]

@@amansharma3249 don't know bro!! Still a mystery I don't think I have done anything wrong!!

[@pa4760]

Maybe you lost the track on you career. It's never old to learn mistake

[@redpilled4872]

@@pritam5278 it means u gave her too much time. spent too much time with her. women love men like kabir singh. not nice good men. women hate good guys.

[@gaurishukla3574]

3:42 first reason - guy doesn't have a great career or not focussed on getting it 6:50 second reason - they find them too possessive

[@HiDibakar]

None of these points apply to me. And yet, my girlfriend/best friend of 7 years left back in 2015 when I was in my First Year Engineering @ IIT Kharagpur

[@shashanks631]

Meri waali to meri job lagne k baad breakup karke nikal lee thee final yr me....😂 Pata nhi kya logic raha hoga us paagal aurat ka ?😆

[@contrastentertainment1749]

Chetan sir, your presence on the screen is beautiful and the way of explaining feels like some close family member is explaining. Thank you.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

So nice of you. Thank you!

[@ArjunSinghJangi]

career and money Wala point is so appropriate . Both the reasons are 1000% true. The truest video i have ever watched on the internet.

[@arkamitaroy6440]

"Girlfriend he yaar, gaay nahi leni"- Oh god!😂😂 You have my heart, sir. Just love your sessions.❤❤

[@prashantkushwaha4050]

😂😂😂😂

[@sonamdeshpande7281]

pls translate to English

[@manangosalia5829]

It's your girlfriend , not a cow... @sonamdeshpande

[@utkarshyadav1811]

"boyfriend/husband hai yaar, credit card nhi"

[@monika29singh]

@@utkarshyadav1811 not every girl enter into a relationship just for money..

[@CrazyBoy-ns3wi]

For me like boys also want their girls to have same career , productive thought yess I want she should motivates me each and every single day , otherswise no need of anyone 😂😂❤️❤️❤️

[@shah.Aamir4921]

Love u sir, Absolutely practical and true reasons. When u attach everything with the carrier ,that is the real motivation sir.

[@anjanasingh2000]

Agree. Career matters.

[@harshgoenka26]

You raised a great point! We all need to understand this.

[@ranjanabha]

I think parental pressure also applies in Indian settings. Only girls financially independent can dodge them.

[@65poojathakur72]

Totally agree with you because yes achi ladkiyan end me chomu hi le jaata h😂👍 Bitter truth though🤷

[@Light-kw1qk]

*Video starts here **3:40*

[@varshamishra9461]

whole video is intresting

[@Light-kw1qk]

@@varshamishra9461 *yes ur Right, but srarting ke 3 minute and 40 seconds mein Sir ne a kind of Disclaimer diya hai taaki kisi ko bura na lag jaye. Main video starts after **3:40* ☺

[@HariKrishna-mi6is]

1) career and money 2) posiveness and insecurity I saved you 10 mins .

[@abhilashmishra2037]

God gives girls a great power to switch but boys can't

[@simranagrawal9919]

Completely agree, my bf had career focus, that's why I never thought of leaving him. On the other hand, I rejected many majnu guys coz they did not have career focus nor career. For possessiveness I will say, those who wanna live with you, will choose to live anyhow. Those who do not want, will make a small excuse and go. Completely agree, thankyou

[@AnkitRaj-zm3me]

Exactly I too feel so,so I don't bother about if someone would leave me,but in initial phase of love blind trust on someone gives too much pain if she/he leaves u so take it easy,not like majnu who gets into depression after breakup.

[@AnkitRaj-zm3me]

In one word I mean to say excess trust is destructive

[@btsc4710]

I Request you Plz Don't give His tention and Then distroy his time , Give His Motivation , don't leave his

[@abhinavverma740]

What about your career? Or you are just dependent on your bf money?

[@btsc4710]

@@abhinavverma740 Ek to population itna he Bhai Bharat me ki rojgar Ka kami ho Raha he 😂or tum Sabko add Kar.raha he Sab job hi karega to duniya Ka. Kya Hoga 😂 wahh re duniya

[@sanketmudgalkar9500]

2 reason applicable to me 👍 perfect ......ohh ohh wait wait ...Again insecurities point ..galti se pat gayi...Very very perfect 🙌🙌

[@sushmitasingh115]

Sir your advice are very practical👌

[@nishantnimish7825]

How is life unfair for you

[@nilesh6193]

Video starts at 3:39

[@anandmishra-vr6ft]

दूसरों के भाग्य पर जीने वाले जीवन भर दुख और लानत के अलावा कुछ नहीं पाते।👍👍

[@RishirajDesigns]

Never fall in love before 25, this is my suggestion from my experience. Before 25 just focus on yourself and talk to everyone.

[@palakrathore5061]

Break up is way better than a toxic relationships!

[@apartofchange7834]

This is absolutely trueee... It's not like that the girl who wants will stay no matter what. Guys genuine actions awake feelings within girls. You should keep your career and family as your priority. Otherwise it's not gonna work the way you want it. If independence matters to you it matters for us too maybe more than you guys.

[@kpchandan25]

That is not love . If one loves someone then loves their unemployment, love family problems, love their personal problems etc. Then boys has only one solution. Get govt job then marry with girl whose father gives him hefty dowry. That is the slap on the girl who is pretend to b in love but in disguise c love his money, carrier, social status etc.

[@apartofchange7834]

@@kpchandan25 This is not what I said. You got me wrong bro. I just said instead of chasing girls n stuff chase your dreams. The goal should be to grow with the partner. Even if that person doens't help you to that he/she might not be good for the specific person. That's it...!!

[@monikatripathi3267]

Kaafi Sahi ! I don't know why KZbin recommended this but aaj hi breakup hua h. And for the very same reasons! Thanks for posting such great content.

[@ayanbanerjee4119]

Life Is Not Unfair It’s Real… And Real Is Harsh

[@shivamdwivedi5669]

He is right. I was in the same phase in college and She left me because One reason was, She was placed and I wasn't and Second reason, I was possessive. That's fine guys, We are in a phase of conversion of becoming modern and belong to very Orthodox family or society. There is a reason behind everything happened in your life. Today I am placed and focusing on myself rather than becoming a bodyguard to her. Peace!