2 Types Of Men Come On Strong (One Bad, One Good)

[@sheilaseniff9338]

Huge difference when a man chases vs persue. Persue is what I want. He sees my value in me not what I can do for him.

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@blueeyedwolf2205]

I actually tend to agree that men need to "hunt" to an extent. I want to feel desired, I want to see someone make an effort. They dont have to make ALL the effort, of course. But a big part of what makes dating exciting is that someone is excited enough to ask me out. It really does make a difference. I've spent so much time trying to ask men out that it's killed something in me. A woman is aroused and excited by a man's excitement for *her*. I feel off balance having to be the one to "make the moves" or the first suggestion all the time. Show some excitement, extend yourself, show me my desirability..you won't be sorry.

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@dylevsis8329]

Thankyou for ur honest advices. May GOD BLESS YOU!

[@thinishot]

I hear you girl. Unfortunately with all these woke feminist and equal rights been thrown down the throats of men, the men are too scared to act in a way which is natural to them. I wish I was born in a time where the men courted the ladies, and the women behaved as such. All I want is to be the woman in a relationship and let my man be the man.

[@bridgetmurphyv]

@@JonathonAslay I actually had a boyfriend like that needy clingy and everytime I kept trying to breakup with him he wouldn't take no for an answer and constantly kept calling me ugh

[@alejandrabonita8355]

never ask a man out ! thats not your place ..masculine energy is a turn off to men and asking a man to do something is masculine !

[@sourgummiez]

When a man is excited about me and acts like, it’s seriously the purest thing in the world and it’s so beautiful and genuine. I love it ❤️

[@juliannatrure]

THIS was so important to talk about... The last guy I dated before my bf came on STRONG, yet it ended up just being that he was trying to play me and make it seem like we were exclusive but we weren't bc he was still on dating apps dating/picking up other chicks but yet wanted me to be exclusive LOL, i dumped him for my now bf and it was the better decision. There is Def. a GOOD and BAD kindof strong, the good kind like you said is the consistent kind. I haven't seen any other dating coach touch on this except you!! I know women will appreciate this video. Bravo!

[@sirennem.6890]

a player.

[@laurelandhannah]

Thank you for suggesting “The Hoffman Process” and “The Untethered Soul” . I just finished both, truly transformative books for sure! “The Untethered Soul” in particular helped walk me through the process of getting past the inner dialogues and negative energies that were keeping me from moving forward in my relationships, even my one with God. Loved the book’s progression and how Michael Singer ended the narrative.

[@JonathonAslay]

You're so welcome!

[@judith3608]

Enjoy your BirthDay, Jonathon. You are a gift to all who know you. Biiiig hugs 🤗

[@marshareed1438]

I enjoyed that! I’m also dyslexic, so I totally got you during your video. I just encountered the unhealthy come on too strong. He wanted me to sell my house and marry in within only 3 days of knowing me. That is crazy! We lasted for less than two weeks. I’m sure you know who broke it off 😂

[@lisalove1491]

Thank you I really needed this message today! A man is coming on strong, but in a good way, and I found myself wondering if it is all ok. He is telling me he is excited about me... keyword.. that you also used. We are long distance right now and he calls everyday so we can get to know each other better. I hope it keeps going in a good way!

[@JonathonAslay]

Great last name... 👍

[@naturalbeauty8366]

HAPPY HAPPY 🎂🎉🥂🍾 BIRTHDAY HANDSOME. FULLJOY YOURSELF TO THE FULLEST.! BLESS 🤗💕🌷

[@deborahburns473]

Happy Birthday! We're all so thankful for your guidance on self love, relationship and dating journeys. ❤

[@TazzyGirLL8]

Jonathon May you enjoy your birthday with self love. We all care about you and wish you all the best. Thanks for helping me change myself for myself

[@bonniebenton1903]

Hope you have a super birthday 🎂

[@lauraswanson6161]

You have alot of great advice Jonathan! I especially like where you said to think of dating as a journey, it certainly is. I am starting to think, staying single is not so bad, lol. I'm glad I came across your channel ❤

[@JonathonAslay]

Awe... thank you

[@sandradaeschler6620]

"Happy Birthday Johnathan" to you and hope your day is the happiest yet!!

[@christinem8170]

I had the needy omg I couldn't breathe, I begged him to listen, It was all to much. I COULDNT be the women for him. BLESS his heart was a good person, grateful regardless. Un braided respectfully finally... took a longgggg time

[@hazelgrace7601]

I met bad one who come on too strong ...who doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. Now I m talking to another one who come on too strong but I feel like he is not mentally stable and not in a good place in his mindset.I 've learned my lesson in hard ways ...I got hurt..so I m taking time with new one . And I m really needing to listen those kinds of videos

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@ms.vsmith7881]

Happy Birthday Jonathan... from one Leo to another :) Hope you celebrate all month long... as only Leo's can, lol.

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy birthday!

[@joyanne1213]

''How men bond" Happy Birthday Jonathon!!!

[@JonathonAslay]

👍

[@ginak6977]

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY, JONATHON......I hope your wish comes true!

[@tin1138]

See every encounter as an adventure and a learning experience.....HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIG JONATHON....

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@debbie6533]

Happy Happy Birthday Johnathon! May all of your wishes come true! I hope you had FUN too with your bday on Friday with your friends.❤

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@ms.tinaadams3381]

Jonathon, you have helped me so very much! I love your directness and no b s approach. From one Leo to another x o

[@cynthiaziegler6558]

I’m a Leo too. Will be 51 August 13

[@enchantedrose7595]

So very true. I am sure we have been in both sides of the isle. We want to be with someone but haven’t gotten passed our last relationships or are ready to find out later that the other person isn’t. Hurtful but the way life is.. we live and learn. Happy Birthday Jonathan! May you continue to be blessed everyday! I had forgotten, I just got tour book what is Self Love… yesterday…looking forward to start reading it today..

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@meditationavecmaryse7293]

Happy birthday Jonathon!!! Your video helped me a lot understanding why someone can come strong on a first date. Really appreciated!! Love your insight and the acceptance of the result no matter what happens or happened. Enjoy your day 😊❤🎉🎊🎈

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you...

[@Jojo-gq3nv]

Best video yet. I needed to hear this. I'm dating a man and after 3 dates he asked me to be his girlfriend. It was so sweet but I'm a widow and I'm hesitant to open my heart again. I was honest with him and he told me he would wait. I thought something was wrong with him because he was coming on so strong but now I know he's one of the good ones. Thanks for bringing clarity to this situation.

[@boostmobile9249]

Self ACCEPTANCE Mental Emotional STABILITY. NEEDS PROMOTING!!

[@justme8274]

The ones that want to constantly chase and hunt are the ones that are monogamously challenged and don’t do well in relationships even if the relationship looks fine and dandy they still want other women. I’m guessing their unsatisfied with themselves somehow so chasing and obtaining women give them a sort of satisfaction

[@almam2133]

You’re so mellow today on your bday, me like. Happy birthday 🎉

[@ancoisnaude4087]

You teach me to love myself, so thankful for your guidance, take care and a big hug for your lady, take care😊💕

[@barbaraverikios8452]

Happy Birthday Jonathon and as we say in Greece…Xronia Polla !!! ( Many years) 😊🌻🌷🌺🌸🌷🌼🥂🎂🍰🍾

[@aliciaoberman83]

Happy Birthday Jonathan, thank you for your great videos. Enjoy yourself and remain the same.

[@tdhawk167]

So true... Been there, as well. And Happy Birthday fellow Leo! My birthday is today, actually😊 wasn't able to celebrate it, but hoping to gather a few people (if not, I will just take myself👍🏼) and go for a trail ride on horseback this week. Hoping for some clear weather! Will check out that book, thanks! And my birthday book to check out would be "The Book of Awakening" by Mark Nepo. I've had it since it first came out, and read it year after year and learn new things. You aren't the same person each year... You grow, learn, go through traumas, grief, celebrations, blessings, etc... You are new, you read it from your new perspective. And it's content is amazing and edifying. Enjoy. Much love to y'all, from the Catskills along the Delaware in NY💕🙏🏼 Big hugs

[@jeancooper7953]

Happy Birthday Jonathan 🎂!! My new (about a month old) relationship is with a Leo man and we adore each other in a healthy way. I’ve been watching your videos and absorbing your wisdom. I have watched my Leo man open up to be more and more who he really is, as he feels safer to be himself. Again, Someone I grow more and more attached to in healthy ways. Thank you so much for your work ~ sincerely Jean

[@soysanch2]

Great video. Really enjoyed hearing about the diff kinds of "coming on strong" and the motivations behind them. Helps me know what to look out for. Thank you

[@amyflynn1768]

Happy belated birthday! ❤ I hope it was wonderful.

[@thelmahangubo6190]

Am probably watching this alot later....but... HAPPY BIRTHDAY JONATHON, thank you so much for what you do..❤

[@canadiancinderelly3518]

Happy birthday, Jonathon! Glad you're still here.

[@mrs.gonzalez7202]

Happy Birthday Jonathan 🥳🎂 May our Lord grant you many more! You are a wonderful coach and I always look forward to your videos either live or not. You do not know how much your words of wisdom, book recommendations are helping me each day so, thank you. Enjoy your special day to the fullest!

[@yvonnegrijalva1047]

Jonathan, Gracias for you are a gift 💝 to many through your video’s and book , I wish you a Beautiful Bless Birthday 🎂 an enjoy it with Familia and friends and Share Loving ♥️Memories made today and MAY IT BE AWESOMENESS !🪅🪅🪅🪅Enjoy the FIESTA 💥

[@nnwonfelix3182]

Hi Yvonne Can I chat with you

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

Happy Birthday! 🎁🎉🎂🎈🎊 Mine is in 8 days! 🎉🎈🎁🎂🎊

[@lyricallioness373]

Happy Birthday Jonathon (Coach) 🌟

[@woopiemiddleman8232]

Happy birthday Jonathan! ❤️

[@wei-jen]

Dear Jonathon, be-lated happy birthday 🎉🎊🎁 🎂 I saw your picture that you were having a great time with friends & family. I’m so happy for you and grateful you still remembered us by shooting the video and sending us love message on your special day. Yes, I got the book you recommended “The Surrender Experience” and I would love to keep riding my journey with your spirit & energy & knowledge. I really appreciate your loving-kindness, guidance and every little efforts you put in your videos. 💕🙏🏻😇☀️

[@carrielegg5480]

Happy birthday Jonathan! 🎂🥳🎉🎈🎁🎊🎂 have a fun spectacular birthday!! 🍬🍫🍭🍬🍫🍭🍬🍫

[@spir-it-u-alhuzzgirl13]

Happy Birthday with Self Love Johnathon. Thanks for helping me for better decisions in my life

[@gcohen9855]

Happy birthday Jonathan .. i hope you get all you desire.. your a great person!

[@nennettedebs8333]

I am seeing thisnon August 2 2021. Happy birthday.🥳🥳🥳 I loved this conversation thnk you so much. 😍

[@suemoran9087]

Happy birthday big brother Johnathan 🎉 mine is next Wednesday. Great advice as usual. Big hug

[@karenvanness6952]

Happy Birthday Johnathan Aslay

[@JOriginalMuse]

Happy YOU-Day, You…! I hope YOU made it a memorable one 🙏🏽

[@cherbug1197]

😂”this dating process is a mess,”. nailed it!!!

[@sallgrey5494]

Happy Happy Birthday!!! Have such a great bday celebration, Jonathan!!!!

[@bethshaferman6712]

Happy Birthday, Jonathon! Thanks for being our big, protective bro. Wish you an abundance of blessings 🍾🎂🎉💕

[@marianaortiz3523]

Hi brother…! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! 🎂🎊🎉

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@dawnabernathy2078]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JONATHAN!

[@TifaAnnTheEmpressJourney]

Thank you for the hug and the video I will read ur recommended book!

[@kathleenkirby2904]

Happy Birthday .. Johnathon! I hope u went somewhere fun & special .. for your B'Day! It's sad to be alone & spend it .. home alone. Great Video! :)

[@tinasasso5769]

Happy belated Birthday!!!🎉🎂🎈

[@nellylim5332]

Woww.. Happy birthday Jonathon!! Wish you a greater life ahead 🥰🥰

[@kristenkz]

Happyyy Jonathan Day⚡️☀️🎁🎉! love the book❤️🎉

[@yvonnegrijalva1047]

Happy HAPpY Birthday 🎁 an GodsLoving Blessings for a Beautiful Bless Day 💝

[@JonathonAslay]

Thanks so much

[@wandahudson4581]

Happy Happy Birthday!

[@maritagasper4427]

Happy Birthday Jonathon and thank you very much for your work.

[@musclegurl8302]

Hi Jonathan, just wanted to say happy belated birthday 👑🎂❤🙏, I just watched this video, so I missed the announcement on your birthday, however, I still wanted to acknowledge it, I appreciate you sir. I'm like a sponge at times when I watching and listening to your utube videos. 😊👍

[@those_eyes]

Very thoughtful vid!!! New subscriber! Happy birthday, Jonathan!!!🎆🎇🍦🍨🎈🎊🎁🎂🥳

[@ramonaheck5797]

Another great video, no less on your birthday 🎈🎁 - thank you !! 🙏🏻💝🤗🤗

[@monicalindberg9147]

Oh I really loved this video 😍 and happy birthday 🎂 J. Hugs from North Sweden 🇸🇪

[@hawaglam540]

Happy Happy Birthday Jonathan!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@sherollrichard7695]

Happy belated birthday Jonathan. Hope you had a great celebration with your friends. Love the t-shirt btw🤗

[@shonabrooks2611]

Happy Birthday Leo..Your advice is always Spot on. Thanks 👍🎂🎉💖

[@zenquest0705]

Happy Birthday! Thank you for sharing all of your insights and wisdom.

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@kristen8501]

Happy birthday Jonathon! 🥳 God bless you! ❤️

[@tina2750]

Happy Birthday! Jonathon. Big bear hugs 2u.

[@JonathonAslay]

TY

[@jeanettesuzannebrooks1963]

Thank you for sharing the example of acknowledging ourselves on our birthday. I know we appreciate others loving on us as well. That’s my goal for my granddaughter Shadden’s birthday this afternoon too!:)

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

Happy Birthday Johnathan🥂🍾!!! I hope that your day is full with fun, laughter, love, happiness, and loved ones 🥳😎!?!

[@JonathonAslay]

🥳🥳🙏💥🎁🎂

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

@@JonathonAslay Ahhhh YEAH!!!

[@rebeccapressley3232]

I like you , thank you for sharing and I like you even more that you told us you were dyslexic very humble of you to do that x

[@susannanoonan]

Belated birthday wishes Jonathon!

[@sarahcroy6212]

I love hearing from a Leo man when it comes to LOVE!

[@rebeccacarraway480]

Happy birthday big guy!! Thank you for what you do. You have truly made an impact in my life and I know it’s the same for many others!

[@JonathonAslay]

🤗

[@susanblake9946]

Happy Birthday, Jonathon! Thanks for all of your help!

[@marylynnelizabeth1631]

HAPPPPY BIRTHDAY JONATHAN!!! 🎈‼️🎉❤🎁💗🎊👏🍷😘❤🎂🍺🍰🍸 (Fellow Leo here....my birthday was yesterday the 31st...😘😉) Enjoy your special day!!!

[@JonathonAslay]

🎉

[@yvonnegrijalva1047]

Yes I will enjoy my journey ♥️an I thank you for sharing, mucho gracias 💝

[@elizabethodell4964]

☆Happy Birthday ☆ ♡Hugs to you♡ I'm a Leo too; 22nd August.

[@JonathonAslay]

WooHoo... Leo yay!

[@traceyjones9049]

Happy birthday Jonathan

[@kiransharma7848]

Happy Birthday Jonathan! Wishing you good health, great good fortune, protection and boundless joy in your life. 🤗❤ I love this meaningful video...I💞

[@c.b.2321]

Happy happy birthday dear Jonathan, from a thankful listener from Germany :-)!!! A lot of virtual hugs! C.

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏🎉🥳

[@marilynbarrett8519]

Many happy returns of the day!!!! Can I have a taste of your cupcake?

[@pittsburghgirl9898]

Happy Birthday Jonathan 👏🤗🎂 Hope you have a wonderful birthday

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@pittsburghgirl9898]

@@JonathonAslay your welcome

[@Carr2409]

Happy happy birthday to you!!!!

[@gracecase998]

Happy Birthday!!! Love the shirt. Thanks for this video.

[@gayleanders6248]

Happy birthday..I wish you all the very best. Congratulations! Yep.. from observation, you have achieved so much. On many levels. I wish you well. Always. BTW. The weather there looks much better than here! ☺ I am in Melbourne, Australia. I entertained ( for want of better term), a relationship which has gone on, yes, you guessed it.. 18 months.. long distance.. .. I am old school. I don't believe we know anything really unless we are in the same space together.. it's cost me a great deal.. on every level. Time, love,,financial,... pain & suffering. Am at the end of being able to cope with it. At some point, it's time for the other, apparent willing partner to step up to the plate. Pandemic, aside.. This has taught me a great deal, 1, That I am struggling to navigate the digital world. 2. Just deal with it, as this Pandemic has caused restrictions. I don't believe we are all at a fault as such. Am not convinced it's just 2 kinds of men. I believe it's very individual..doesn't mean one or the other is less worthy for example. These are extreme times and whether we like it or not, we must adjust in our ideas or ideology of what true love is. Self love is one thing. Some of us give much more.. the balance plays out eventually.. albeit, at times painful. There isn't a person over 8 yrs old who doesn't have " baggage ", the formative years. Let alone what happens between then and now. I am 58. I still have love to give.. though, perhaps my fussiness is a an issue.. let me sign off as.. yours truly. A tad confused. Warm regards.. Happy Birthday once again. I am always grateful for your insight. G.

[@JonathonAslay]

TY

[@lucytlau6834]

Happy birthday day Jonathan!

[@lynnesummers4591]

🥳🥂Happiest of Birthday’s to you Jonathan!🥂🥳

[@jennifercalcagno1282]

Happppyyyyy birthday Leo! I truly appreciate your straightforward, and heartfelt content!

[@sherriflemming3218]

Happy Birthday Jonathan Your information is excellent!

[@christinemartin9577]

Happy birthday 🥳 you funny genuine human being. Have a fabulous day 🥂

[@reginamiller3153]

Happy Birthday 🎶

[@serenityseeking01]

Happy birthday to a fellow leo! Hope it was a wonderful one. Great video. :)

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you! 🤗

[@JonathonAslay]

And back at ya... :)

[@vyeronikashapovalova1106]

This is a really good video. Giving so much courage to believe in yourself even when going through rough times and being emotionally messed up. Thank you! And happy birthday, Jonathan! ;)

[@walstonv]

Happy Birthday Leo lover 😉

[@victoriafontana3520]

Wishing you the happiest birthday Jonathan. And many many more and I hope you find that special person. Thank you for all your advice that you give. ❤️❤️🎂🎈🎉

[@gaylejones5192]

Happy Birthday to you Jonathan! 🎉🎉 You have brought so much love and knowledge to us here!! Hugs 🤗