2009 BMW 335xi Shatter

2009 BMW 335xi
Shatter that makes inside the car dashboard shake and transmission stick shake when this shatter happens
it is worse when car is in gear and I press on the clutch , Noise is not there when I shut the car off by holding start button for few seconds, and just cursing with engine dead. this shatter happens when I am slowing down to almost complete stop.
Any suggestions?
Car only has 45k miles, I think it is dual mass flywheel?
I've changed Transmission oil it was clean, I changed front diff oil it was clean, also changed transfer case oil it was a bit dark but nothing in it,

[@kaldyn55]

it's fixed all I did was put same tire sizes on my car before I had 255/35 front and 265/30 rear . once I went 255 all around noise is gone and shatter

[@teammillion2]

Did it make a whine noise when you were driving too?