2023 Fashion Trends To AVOID In Your 50s | What NOT To Wear

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2023 Fashion Trends To AVOID In Your 50s | What NOT To Wear
I've never been one to follow rules and that goes for rules around fashion trends too. I like to think there should be no limits when it comes to fashion BUT I also believe there are some trends that do become a little tricky to wear as you get a little older. Of course I'm not expecting everyone to agree with me but I thought I'd focus on a few 2023 fashion trends and share my thoughts on making them work when you're in your fifties and older. I'd absolutely love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Also I was trialing a different microphone in today's episode and wasn't very happy with it to be honest so I'll go back to regular transmission next video but please excuse the sound quality in this one.
Anyway, thank you SO much for watching and I can't wait to see you in the next one.
Leonie
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[@murrielcrawford2060]

Wow, I am 70 and think that older ladies should wear what flatters them regardless of age. I think that is the way to think about it. For instance, I know a 70 plus lady that wears high heels all the time and she wears many trends. She can do this because she has kept herself slender despite having two kids. I also wish more fashion vloggers would talk more about us black women. We age so differently and can get away with more cause we look younger (as long as we watch our weight). Me, I could easily pass for a fifty something woman and lost weight in the last few years so I truly look much younger than I did just a few years ago. I am enjoying some of the trends and I am way older than fifty.

[@Yougotthis1212]

So true! My exact thoughts. People dont want to address this issue but there are significant differences between Black women in any decade and other women of other ethnicities. As long as Black women take care of their weight and skin they normally look at least a decade younger and can wear many of these style effortlessly

[@maryabdel-malik656]

Totally agree

[@goddesst5405]

Facts! 💖

[@pearlinerobinson8555]

Miss you said it perfectly as black women we approach style differently so I did all these when I was younger when it was considered tacky. So I look forward to playing with them in a new way anyway. this is the first time I am seeing black women able to age publicly with eyes on us and they are doing it well...But this lady did a pretty good job and I was pleasantly surprised.

[@NatashaRaisorGlam]

Yass👏🏾 I’m wear what I want. I keep my body in shape and show it off. Us older black women have a whole different swag.

[@catherinehouser3788]

71 and totally agree with everything you said. I remember when mismatched earrings were big and I was excited to wear them. I glanced in my mirror and heard an imaginary voice whisper "That poor old lady got her earrings wrong this morning!". I sighed and changed it back.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh gosh I had to laugh at your comment because I remember doing the exact same thing with mismatched earrings and also when just wearing one dangly earring was a trend. I can definitely relate and it was the reason I decided against it too LOL

[@kimberlywilliams4800]

😂

[@jennifermarie8979]

😂😂 Such a light hearted yet effective way to get a point across to anyone who was debating that trend

[@justme061666]

😂

[@LiLi-ps5vb]

I live in jeans. I’m 62. I will never give them up. I don’t wear the trendy ones though. Never understood the distressed jeans. I wear straight dark rinse. Always look classic.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Perfect!

[@patkuykendall-weeks2617]

Amen. I am 64 and straight black or dark rinse jeans are a staple in my work business casual wardrobe. Some of these items didn’t suit my style ever.. lace dresses and drawstring pants never had a place in my wardrobe.

[@DaisyChain3339.]

I've never owned a pair of jeans and am proud of it.

[@bernadettehawes]

Same age, and thought the same until I bought a 2nd hand pair intending to cut the legs to make Bermudas. Only they were higher end, so comfy and so super flattering I’m wearing them as normal jeans even to the office. Do love slim dark rinse though.

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

I’m in my 60s and agree with everything, except heels. While I can no longer wear them because of foot and ankle problems -ironically both caused by wearing stilettos when younger- I would still wear them if I could 😆. And you made an excellent point regarding the sheer trend: it is totally appropriate when worn to *add coverage* rather than to reveal what you otherwise would not. On occasions where I might once have chosen a strapless or spaghetti-strap dress or top, I now opt for something sheer over a cami, or a top/dress with sheer sleeves. A *suggestion* of bare skin is more flattering at my age than the skimpy garments I sometimes wore in my 20s. But completely sheer dresses clearly showing underwear beneath? A hard NO at any age!

[@juliannerogers5283]

I don't believe in letting age determine what we wear, if you feel comfortable and confident wearing something then you should wear it. I would wear many things that you have put an age limit on.

[@bethspez5796]

100% Agree

[@kimberlywilliams4800]

Now that I’m older, I realize why my mother’s generation was so insulted by this mindset. Fashion and what’s considered stylish is so subjective and is forced down our throats by a handful of designers, buyers, stylists & fashion editors. IMO fashion should be more about fit for the average woman and the style is the woman’s own. If something fits you well and you love it, I love it. Do you! BTW I love your videos. I just vehemently disagree with your opinion on this one.

[@stephaniehinds1481]

I am 42, I appreciate this video. In my opinion, I'm in that in between phase of what I can get away with and what is too much. I try to balance a trendy piece with everything else I'm wearing more timeless clothes.

[@bernadettehawes]

Paper bag waists I would actually take issue with Leonie. Regardless of age, I think they are super unflattering for hourglass figures. They really enlarge our already slightly wider hips. To me, they only look fabulous on boyish figures (for whom they serve to give an illusion of hourglass shape) or tall ladies like yourself I’m just at the top end of petite at 5’4”” and they look awful on me.

[@nancyvasquez3621]

I totally agree! I’m 5 feet tall and short waisted so the paper bag waist just doesn’t work for me.

[@comkver]

As a plus size rectangle/apple shape person I wholeheartedly agree with you!

[@fozia1301]

You're spot on! I also have an hourglass shape and I've tried them. They don't look good on me.😅

[@marissashantez6051]

They look good on all short people, because they give the illusion of longer legs, which is probably the most important thing.

[@nancyvasquez3621]

@@marissashantez6051 unless it looks like your pants start right under your boobs.

[@karenthomas4575]

Completely agree with all your comments. Im in my early 50s and am careful not too look 'foolish' but still stay current

[@jesss2145]

I'm 41 and think all of these are wearable at any age if paired with the right items. Same goes for the replacements, they need to be styled with things to make them look up to date (if looking stylish is your goal). Anything that has come back around (including Platform shoes, pleated tailored pants...) runs the risk of looking outdated. Hair style makes a huuuge difference too. I think shoes and hair style (not color!) are a couple of the most important things for looking current, but it is the look as whole that matters, not single items.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks for sharing Jess x

[@tracyramos1019]

I'm almost 54 years old, I totally agree with you.

[@traylong]

I actually just bought a crochet net sparkly gold sweater that is very mermaid core, and it looks great on me. I also love stripes in all sizes and vibrant colors, and this also suits me also. I get many compliments on my attire, often being stopped on the street by complete strangers. Sheer dressing where you can see underwear, is not flattering on anyone no matter what age you are other than perhaps celebrities, and potentially dangerous if you are out in public wearing it, some very aggressive men out there who still do not know how to behave decently in 2023. I'm 56 also, and if you can rock any fashion, go for it. Fashion should not have any age limit - look at Iris Apfel, who is amazing and inspiring at 100.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Iris is my hero - she's FABULOUS!

[@maryabdel-malik656]

Totally agree I don’t believe in age restriction

[@christycarter1571]

Gotta admit, the title had me ready to be on the defensive….but, at 52, I agreed with all of your points and alternative options. Love your videos and insights on fashion!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thanks Christy and sorry if the title was a little brash x

[@Kmiracle1]

Hi! Could you please do a video on style with sustainable clothing? I’m very I to not adding more clothes to the landfill and supporting brands that pay the employees a fair wage. No one does videos on style in sustainable clothes though! It’s all about what it is, what it isn’t, who does what! I like your style and recommendations so I am hoping….🤞🏼 thank you for your time! Best wishes!

[@labogaerts]

SUPER AGREED ON ALL, except the heels. If you can still rock them, yes! If you are hobbling in pain and dexterity, skip them.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Absolutely!!

[@silk2949]

I was ready to disagree with limitations put on over 50’s…..but I agree with most of what you said. I have seen older ladies try to stay toooooooo current and ended up looking cartoonish. I try to stay on trend in a quieter way. I like wide leg and cargo pants, but they have to fit my proportions. Wide but fitted. Not a fan of lace. Tried eyelet and still looked like I was trying too hard. Made a couple of crocheted tops and again ensured they fit my proportions and then I looked fine. I found that looking in a mirror wasn’t always enough to see what works and what doesn’t. Take a picture of your reflection in the mirror for a better take on how you look. Stripes, absolutely always good, but classic Breton is best. And at 63 I have finally learned to keep pieces that fit, even if not on point at the moment…..the style will be back and you will wish you hadn’t given a particular garment that you loved away.

[@33Jenesis]

I am Leonie’s age. I personally never like tie waist pants and skirt. I don’t like the bulk created by a fabric bow tie. I also don’t wear tops that I must tuck in completely.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Fair enough too. When I wear tie waist pants I never tie them in a bow for that reason - thanks for sharing.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I’m 63 and have never been able to wear high heels (3 inches and up), so I’m not about to start now. I love 2 to 2.5-inch block or wedge heels, instead. The extra height gives me more confidence, but I can still walk comfortably in these. If I’ll be on my feet all day, like when traveling, it’s always sneakers for me. I haven’t been able to bring myself to wear sneakers with my skirts and dresses yet, but I do want to start this summer. My self-critical eye just needs to get accustomed to the look on me, it looks fine on others, but we’re always our own harshest critics. Maybe with my Superga white flatform pair, they’re the cleanest and freshest pair I have and give a little extra height. I couldn’t do the vintage running-shoe type, they’re too clunky, I’ll save those for trouser outfits.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Your mission this Summer is to crack the sneaker / skirt look! It's definitely one of those looks that feels strange at first and like you said seems to work on everyone else but once you get accustomed to it you'll be wondering what you wore beforehand. Maybe start with a longer, floaty skirt and ease into the look x

[@g.970]

There are so many cool sneakers now. I don’t wear my athletic walking shoes with dresses or skirts but wear more stylish slim styles. I just bought a pair of metallic Paul Green sneakers at the Nordstrom sale and I love them with dresses. Just try more stylish sneakers and you will love them with your skirts and dresses. And you’ll be comfortable.

[@tdsollog]

I’m 52 with an egregious c-section scar and loss of muscle tone. I definitely don’t do super low rise. The waist physically irritates my scar.

[@flowergalpower2681]

If you are over 50 and can still wear certain trends and look good wearing them go for it. I don't dress for anyone except myself. I'm 68 and I dress in younger styled and I look good . Everyone is different. Some people look good in certain styles some don't.

[@katrussell6819]

I agree about mature women avoiding distressed clothing. As we age we get a tiny bit ragged around the edges so we need to wear clothing that looks fresh, new, and in excellent condition.

[@margaretames6522]

I’ll be 70 in 2 weeks. It’s flattering for people to say I don’t look my age but I also know that I have to be thoughtful about what I wear! I like to feel youthful but not ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ (one of my favorite expressions)!

[@maryokeefe5351]

Totally agree with you, Leonie. I aim for a sophisticated look with luxurious fabrics, simply cut and tailored for a perfect fit. This never goes out of style IMHO.

[@stephro74]

As i swiftly approach 50 (less than a year!), I'm starting to realize what this message is and why it's a thing. It's because almost everything out right now is retro to when I was in my 20s. It's probably why I can't seem to work these trends - I already did them!! 😆 This is a wonderful fresh take on revisiting these, with a nod to them to look up-to-date, and not a deep dive back into them as if I haven't changed anything about my look since 1997! Love it, thank you!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Thx for watching 😊

[@marlenegiuliano6566]

These restricts are not necessary.

[@stephro74]

@@marlenegiuliano6566 I'm sure you're allowed to watch other videos instead, then. Personally, I found this advice to be constructive and useful.

[@janicebillingsley1287]

I think age doesn't matter. We should wear what looks good on us. J Lo is over 50 and she wears trendy clothes and looks great! So wear what makes you feel good ☺️!!! That's what matters.

[@frankvelez4997]

Hi I'm Loretta De Los Rios using Frank's account to make this comment with his permission. You got to have the body too ! remember that! and the facial look., 🤲🙏

[@felinacandeias7057]

are you 56? Really? I’ve watching your Chanel for a while and I never though you were a day older then max 44. Well I’m 38 and just think you are gorgeous and I hope to look as beautiful as you do when I’m your age then 🥰😘

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Aww that's such a kind comment thank you x

[@63Lsp]

Mermaid Core: Give it a wide berth😂Done! Love it

[@Thestyleinsider.]

LOL

[@yensid4294]

I get what you're saying about Lace. When I was in my 20s I went in hard for vintage inspired "Victorian" blouses & Edwardian jackets as well as 1950s shirt dresses worn with ankle boots, Ren Faire tops & dresses, etc. At 22 it was obvious what I was doing (I mixed it with jeans & leather jackets so it wasn't too costume-y) but now at 63, going Victorian/Edwardian can look matronly (unless it's done deliberately as Steam Punk which is an aesthetic I actually like)

[@DeeWaterlily]

I like what you’re saying here. I like some lace accents such as a trim in knit sweaters or a touch at the sleeves of a blouse, but head to toe lace might not flatter so much. But I hope you continue to rock the steam punk look because that seems like a lot of fun!

[@LaRubia62]

Love this video Leonie but I'm going to dissent 😊. I wear black bike shorts under my crochet dress midi dress and a couple of my black sheer pieces. I think it just depends on the piece and the person. However I am more uncomfortable with the idea of wearing denim shorts etc which I know you are a champion of 😊

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Fair enough too Shelley - thanks for sharing your thoughts and I do agree that it does always depend on the piece and the person x

[@FreshGrey-pm4vw]

Some years ago I started wearing cotton bike shorts under my summer dresses and its so comfortable. They go about to my mid thigh - so if its a semi sheer dress, the shorts keep you from any see through issues.

[@FranksLair]

I’m a young 57 and agree with everything. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@mikki3961]

Some trends just need to come and quickly go. Keeping it simple, chic and classy is always in style, think "old money" .

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

Every style comes back around with a modern flare...and most are for trendy, younger, less sophisticated women/girls. I remember wearing certain things 20 yrs ago & would never do so now. I've luckily never really fallen for ultra trendy items, no matter my age. I rocked a few styles back in the day and even then remember feeling uncomfortable simply bec it wasn't my style. I think knowing your style,having confidence and limits is key to being fresh & sophisticated.

[@neldanunez-corte6810]

I’m a hopeless fashionista, and I do always agree with your opinions, I’m over sixty and always manage to look timeless. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jdmom29]

Thank you for sharing your honest opinion. It's hard for me to face the true! 😭(Packing up my lace see through dress) but I'm saving my mermaidcore sequin top for my future senior tap dance performance! (Yes, I'm 56, too).

[@pageremick5504]

I'M not going to come at you! I totally agree! Take a trend and TWEAK it to suit you! And don't forget, there is nothing wrong with ELEGANT, CLASSIC AND TIMELESS! The definition of a trend is something that comes....and GOES1

[@lynnpetti3817]

I like what you did with these trends. I’m well in my 70s plus very short and some of then I wouldn’t go near but I have stuck with the more classic understated look scattered with a few trends. Happily I get compliments, even from girls in their 20s. So thanks for good advice. ♥️

[@marieaxen645]

I’m 53 and I agree with you. Thanks Leonie for always great videos about what’s the trends and how to wear them. Useful as all of your videos. /Marie from Sweden

[@jodybode7284]

I completely agree with you, Leonie! Thank you for the tips ♥️

[@bernadettehawes]

I actually owned a sheer lacy top that I’ve worn for years with a black tank top underneath before this was a trend. Would never wear sheer showing my underwear. Everything else totally agree with. Crochet is a hard one. Our weather here is extreme and I realise that I wouldn’t reach for a crochet top (had one). Too hot for summer and too cold for winter. I don’t regulate my temperature well to cope.

[@marissashantez6051]

Cotton ones are quite comfortable.

[@danasmith6688]

I NEEDED this video! 🎉

[@gracevittoria9467]

I agree with all of this. I just turned 50 and when I go shopping I always try to think if certain pieces would be more fitting for me or for my daughters. I try to go for pieces that are classic but still have the modern edge. And I totally agree with the heals. I had a wedding recently and just the thought of wearing high heals made me cringe. I ended up buying a higher block heeled shoe and I feel as if it suited me better. Thanks for the tips!

[@rydersteves8620]

I agree with every word! Great video and style suggestions! ❤❤

[@Karen-ve6ds]

I don’t disagree with you regarding any of them really. I would look ridiculous in all of them, I’m sure, and would have done 30 years ago too! I went over in a pair of wedges that felt fine to walk in, and almost staggered into a shop window trying to stop myself so if I do wear heels it’s very rare. I’ve had too many accidents in them which have been a bit embarrassing and I can’t walk downstairs in them anymore. Or downhill. I have to take them off and put them back on when I’ve got to the bottom. 😁

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh gosh I can relate :(

[@hinaynihorvath3926]

I think some of these trends look dated and ugly (like sheer trend showing your underwear) even for younger women

[@suedyer1428]

Totally agree with all you have said great advice ❤

[@audrywade7874]

Excellent advice, all of it! I love elastic waist pants, but only in the light weight flowy fabric pants, like palazzo pants. I only wear them with things that can cover the elastic, like a blouse that barely falls below a high-waist on the pants, or a blouse that ties in front at the bottom and is not tied too high or too tight. I am 100% with you about the high heels. You suggested great options to wearing stiletto heels! Thanks so much for this one!

[@JamGermi]

Thanks for the suggestions. I will keep them in mind whenever I go shopping again.

[@sadhnaguptabrown186]

Thank you for making this video! Would love to see one featuring things we should wear over 50 to look age appropriately stylish so I would have a clear guide. I would especially appreciate links to the pieces you suggest should you ever make this video. Love following you!!!

[@sarahbarker8198]

Great advice as always. I’m a few years under 50 but I think the advice was spot on for most people. Some of the looks your talking about are hard for many people . Like wearing underwear as outerwear or shear fabrics. Crochet tops can look good with nice denim jeans but I totally agree with them not been a good look all over. Thank you as always for all your help with your alternatives to these tricky fashion pieces. 😊🌻

[@michelleevans7334]

I'm. 54 it's refreshing to find a video like this that emphasizes thst we don't need to try and look younger or the opposite end of the spectrum and look frumpy. But the best modern with still a fun fresh twist to our style. I appreciate all your videos it's not just fashion nut great advise for older woman who are bombarded today with confusing images.

[@antoinettecroker6384]

Just wear what you like and what makes you feel good. I’m soon to be 63 and that’s exactly what I do. And those who don’t like it know what they can do.

[@maryabdel-malik656]

I love modern lace I am 72 and just bought couple of lace top and dress and looking gorgeous I don’t believe in age restriction if you look and feel good in something then this what matters and I do love heels flat shoes make me look frumpy Sorry I disagree with you

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Please don't apologise I enjoy hearing what everyone thinks x

[@michelebrotman5345]

I love a lacy top . Worn with jeans is modern and flattering.

[@maryabdel-malik656]

@@michelebrotman5345 Absolutely ❤️

[@rupinderjitkaur8306]

Completely agree ❤appreciate yr video🌸🌸

[@bernadettehawes]

sorry for commenting as we go along. As regards distressed denim I swore I’d never pay money for ‘damaged’ garments and then ended up looking in a second hand store for a pair of jeans I could cut the legs to the length I wanted for shorts since they were not trending at the time. Found this gorgeous pair with mild distressing and one rip on one knee that was from a higher end brand. Pricey for this type of shop, but the fit was amazing and sooo flattering! I decided to wear them as is and look elsewhere for another pair to ‘chop’ Now if I’d cut them, I would not have worn them to work, whereas these distressed ones I have been wearing a lot (except for winter). But I wouldn’t wear anything with rips all the way down.

[@giedrebey5444]

Ha ha stripes never been my thing. I like classic stripes , nothing too bold. Now crochet i dont know. I am not so much into it, but the dresses that i was looking for, it would be fine. I really wanted Chloe off white crochet dress, but i wasnt able to find my size so far.But with any crochet, i would need a slip underneath, because sheer, or sometimes even if its lined, no matter what age i was, once i met my hubby, and i was 30, looked 20, but he was like its inappropriate in my circles 😳🤪 and we argue all the time, when i wear cropped, or more form fitting🤪 Have a blessed day🙏💗

[@normahuber8645]

Thank you for the tips !!!

[@Thestyleinsider.]

No problem!!

[@tygressblade]

Some trends are hard no matter what your age. But I prefer to keep things simple and neutral. If I wore bright colors and opened my mouth it would terrify people.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Oh that's funny x

[@stayfaithful4860]

Totally agree!

[@FashionWithShannonA]

Hi Leonie! I really appreciated all of the points that you made regarding all of the different trends for this year. Some are definitely more wearable than others! It's all a matter of finding out what works best for your body and your own style. I think I'm going to make you an honorary Canadian (I'm from Ontario so I'm allowed to do that, lol!) because you apologized for your own opinion and least every other trend that you mentioned! You shouldn't have too; however, I understand why you would. Again, I really enjoy your videos! :) Shannon A.

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Aww that's cute - is that something Canadian's also do? I think I do it because I know what sort of kick back I'm going to get so I pre-empt it LOL :)

[@americafirst9144]

Lace and leather worn together looks great.

[@michelebrotman5345]

Yes!!

[@denisejackson4819]

Thank you! 💯💯💯💯 agree. 👍💜

[@bernadettehawes]

Sneakers have been a fave discovery as of last year and I’m not reaching for my smarter shoes so much any more

[@alisonkovacs9871]

Hi Leonie thanks so much for your really useful vlog I agree with you on everything

[@danamatsukawa4762]

midrise pants are okay by me, but I don't ever want to return to low rise. I dislike fashion that is uncomfortable and doesn't function. The years of careful squatting, bending over, or even sitting with the fear of exposing my behind are still fresh in my mind. I just want fashion to evolve past clothing that tortures people who have to wear it. The looks part of fashion comes and goes. My response to it, is never say never.

[@maxinemuhammad5979]

Great vid great ideas and helpful advice loved it 😍😍❤️❤️❤️

[@pearlinerobinson8555]

I tuned in to be like "WHATEVER" but ended up agreeing and subscribing. Plus I already wore everything that the young are wearing now when I was young in the 90s the only difference is when we were doing it MAINSTREAM ppl called us TACKY🤣. Iook forward to seeing how creative I can be in reimagining what I have done already.👏🏽🇯🇲

[@ruthasdisardottir4835]

Love this episode! The only thing I am really hesitant about is the Tie waist pant. Have never thought those flattering unless you are very thin. I do use high heels but now I make sure they are comfy and kind to my feet and knees 😄 I just discovered your Channel! Love it already ❤

[@alisonkovacs9871]

Thanks so much Leonie so lovely to see you stay safe babe xx

[@mizz.wizz.fizz.]

Life is short, wear whatever you feel good in regardless of age, whether that’s a trend or classic. And why is being a grandma something to avoid looking like? It’s a privilege to live long enough to be old.

[@lauriejordan2716]

I am going to get killed for this. However, I think heels, flats, wedges, are all cute. That being said, I think kitten heels are the most unflattering, awkward looking, unattractive shoe ever made. I have honestly never saw anyone who looked good in them. They also makes ankles look like cankles, legs look stubby, and calves look big. Nothing about them are good.

[@kimberlywilliams4800]

Haha! Even in my 40s I wore kitten heels in the corporate world, BUT only with pants. Flat shoes stress my back. Also, I never wore a kitten heel sling back. Never will. Nobody needs to wear those😂.

[@drusillabarron2568]

After reading most of these comment, I'm feeling practically alone in being over 50 and wearing much of what has been labeled unfortunate for my age. Whereas there are girlish trends I no longer find interesting, there are also designs within those trends that would work for me and fit seamlessly within my wardrobe. So, for example, I bought my oversized, Disclaimer, pink/orange ombre jeans jacket before Barbie came out only to discover that it's the pink from the movie. (I was packing to move across the country and wasn't paying attention to the advertisements.) It's also a perfect colour against my skin - it lights up my complexion year round. Women (and men) of all ages love it. (I want a wide, bright, multi-striped something!) Of course, I follow my own personal style rules. I've never liked feeling that I look like a clown. It doesn't matter if anyone else agrees. What matters is that I feel I have the contrast and balance that work for my complexion, on my body, for my personality, and in my life. I wear the jacket mostly with monochrome black or white, or with denim. And since I now live in an area that doesn't have any real winter, I might wear it with grey once in a while. (I can see it with my vintage Kenzo jodhpurs and either sneakers or jodhpur boots. Certainly, style ought to develop as time passes and there are some general style rules one can tweak and make one's own, but what works for me may not work for many other women. Look at Grace Grece Ghanem, Iris Apfel, Iman, Cicely Tyson, Jennifer Lopez, Salma Hayek, Mariah Carey, Gina Torres, Angela Bassett, Alfre Woodard, and so many others we may know personally, may pass as we shop or walk down the street, or elsewhere. There are so many 50+ women who have their own impeccable taste and wear many of the trends "to avoid" in this video. I think we should wear what we love with the only caveats being that we should continually educate our tastes and be honest about what we see in the mirror. (If we put it on and find ourselves frowning, no matter how "in" it is or how we used to love it, it's not for us today.) It might not be possible in a video such as this but style advice ought to encourage us to discover and express ourselves through our clothing and the ways we put our clothes together. That will vary depending on the many factors that make us who we are.

[@robyndowling3685]

Love your advice 🤗 keeping it classy but on trend for the win

[@Thestyleinsider.]

So true!

[@hinaynihorvath3926]

I"m 53 I have a sheer skirt in a tree bark type pattern but I wear it over a pair of blue denim jean look leggings or shorts which I think looks stylish without looking over the top

[@Thestyleinsider.]

This sounds like a great way to wear sheer! Bravo

[@kamibeckmann196]

GIRLLLLLL !!! I just came across one of your videos from a couple years ago when you were rocking a Lob and some face framing highlights ! Leoni whhhaaattt ! THAT LOOK has NOT gone out of style and you were killing it ! Don't get me wrong you're beautiful (and my age) but I realized my straight and long do was aging me (hint hint) try some new and fresh.. like a beautiful Lob again.. STUNNING ❤

[@lynnblack6493]

Agree wholeheartedly - and great ideas! Will definitely be cautious when making any slack purchase...

[@elizabethpeterson455]

Have you ever really looked at the way tie waist pants make someone even without a tummy, look around the middle? The last thing I want is added bulk across the tummy area. Love high waisted pants with a wide leg...even smooth elastic if done well. But I always remove that big bow tie at the center of my waist when I get these pants.

[@karenwilliams2522]

Agree 100%!

[@doniafflick800]

I agree with everything. I will say low rise pants are evil. So many young girls wear them and shouldn’t. After all when was it ever flatting to see the crack of a butt you sit, or a muffin top. That trend should go away again and stay buried.

[@sharonshmuel3386]

Hi Leonie, I found this interesting and you are entitled to your own opinions. If you have a flamboyant nature then I think you will be more daring in your choice & color of clothing. I personally dress modestly as I am a religious woman 64 but can still incorporate a few of the trends by adapting them accordingly ❤ lol ❤

[@Thestyleinsider.]

I totally agree Sharon 🙏🏼

[@Yougotthis1212]

All women in their 50’s aren’t the same. There’s some women you’d never know they’re in their 50’s. I think you’re projecting what doesn’t look good on you but doesnt mean that all women in that age group look that way.

[@HelenaSayegh]

Thank you for your amazing videos ❤ I am 55 and fully agree with you 😀

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Glad you like them! 😊

[@lisajenkins9011]

Great video.. very unique ideas for us ladies... thank you 😊

[@Thestyleinsider.]

Glad you liked it!!

[@helenzielasek1812]

You're right. Griwing more mature we have to find a balance in our out fit staying beautiful but embracing the changes of life. Thank you 👍🍰☕

[@kirstireinholdtsen5844]

Aha, so it's the elasticaded waistband. I felt something wrong with the new linen trousers I bought at Kap Ahl. It's 30 days full return, so I will bring them back to the store today. Thank you for telling me that.

[@Allgoodthingsbeyond55]

Let people wear what they want.

[@catherinehouser3788]

Of course! But if your "want" is influenced by how others perceive you, this is good info to have in your back pocket.

[@OMich-jb6fw]

@@catherinehouser3788, look at the models. They are in their 20s. Unprofessional vid.

[@camm8832]

Nice video Leonie. Can you please do a video for short waisted large busted inverted triangle body types featuring classic/staple pieces? Your skin looks great by the way! 💕

[@fozia1301]

I love the laser cut trend. ❤

[@deniseyounger6004]

I miss wearing heels! I’m 66 and wear trainers and ugly Birkenstocks! Agree on most of this

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

The ugliest shoes in my wardrobe: Birkenstocks. The shoes that I have the strongest irrational love for: also my Birkenstocks! 😄😉

[@Thestyleinsider.]

LOL and SO true re the Birks x

[@janiesmys461]

Agree with you on the mermaidcore. I am a bit aged to pull that off. ;) I don’t wear low rise pants. But I did just grab a few blazers and shooties for fall.

[@squirrly001]

Nailed my thoughts on all those trends. What looks good on twenty somethings is not going to always work for those of us of a certain age. Coastal grandma for instance even if I am partial to it, just looks like you are grandma when you are over 50.

[@momcc7882]

I agree with all 🤩

[@lorzz4939]

I don’t wear heels everyday but they’re essential to giving nighttime outfits the ‘feel’ and I hope I never lose that esp at such a young age as 50! (41 now) Also disagree on sequin tops which I believe bring light to the face

[@tracybarr7308]

I agree with most of everything you said except: Jeans. I think you should wear what you think looks good on you. Short waisted people don't like high rise. Too low of a rise looks bad on anybody. But, love love low rise boyfriend jeans and cargos. I like some embroidery on jeans sometimes also. Like Driftwood jeans. I'm 58 and also wear bright strips sometimes. I don't show my midriff. I think that isn't age appropriate for me. I agree on crochet dresses, and I Love knit body con dresses. I just purchased two. Basically, I think you should wear what makes you feel beautiful!

[@Trissa.33]

Oh my gosh, yes. A male friend spoke about elasticated waists in a positive light recently, because I said I'd put on a few pounds, but I looked at him absolutely horrified (not actually a good look in itself, but hey). No way. For me, it's all downhill from there! I just couldn't. I would say well fitting clothes are the best friend of us older ladies, not squeezing into anything a tad small or burying ourselves in the baggy outfit. Wearing the size we are, not we wish we were...

[@user-jp9tg9on4n]

Discussing about fashion over 50s is like discussing about humour over 50s..You either have a sense of style or not.Of course you can educate yourself n improve your relevant skills but the truth is that style has nothing to do with trend choices n everything with your personality.

[@smsc9397]

I am 50 and love your fashion comments

[@trishhobbsphillips3478]

Great video Leonie! I am 57 and I agree with everything you said! ❤

[@Thestyleinsider.]

So glad! Thanks Trish x

[@marionmarino1616]

Phooey! Wear what you want. It’s your body, your choice. If you feel good you look good!

[@meloneecruse3572]

I love these style options but I think it would be nicer to see the style on more mature women. Maybe a segment on mature women who wear it well.