Over 40? 2024 Fall Fashion Trends to Avoid and What to Wear Instead | Fashion Over 40 & 50

** GET ALL THE LINKS HERE **I'm sharing 5 fall fashion trends to avoid if you're over 40 along with what to wear instead. Thank you so much for watching, your support means the world to me! XO, Heather.
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[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

SHOP THE LOOKS HERE: LOOK 1: SHOP THE FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/49d228a0-3934-11ef-b388-0242ac110024 BLACK HALTER TOP VEST XS: rstyle.me/+g4up6xQeWTzaofwi5JT6rw REFORMATION JEANS 24: rstyle.me/+ug4Bl_DI7BQqBnVA5q8zHQ BLACK KITTEN HEELS SIM: rvlv.me/m5lzev GOLD COIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+ymd74MwsX2tbdcb-bXg5xg LEOPARD HANDBAG SIMILAR: rstyle.me/+y9sbmFuMFq6dBXrmxriLIw LOOK 2: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/2a2c1e7e-3887-11ef-9bad-0242ac110016 WHITE SLEEVELESS TOP S: rstyle.me/+xxZHB7WqtU0lvpvdjuUekQ MOTHER JEANS 24: rstyle.me/+A2xBcF3WB0kbqEZbYPXd_g RED LIP STAIN IN DRAGON GIRL: rstyle.me/+BEDNzDhOrOK8iLbW2V-_9w GOLD HEELS SIM: rstyle.me/+XuMUfT-H-fMYsryZCOdqiQ LEOPARD HANDBAG SIMILAR: rstyle.me/+y9sbmFuMFq6dBXrmxriLIw LOOK 3 ON CATHY: LEOPARD JEANS 24: rstyle.me/+uPasW8y4t9ydTMxHTi_xOg WHITE PUFFY SLEEVE TOP SIM: rstyle.me/+7r_ccRnu5MoDfKXNbHL7_Q LOOK 4: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/9978dc2a-386d-11ef-a0d6-0242ac110026 WHITE DENIM DRESS XS: rstyle.me/+dUphoW2uocV7EjtYK3ECwg DENIM YSL BAG SIM: rstyle.me/+MFBn2oaQG_J2QRr8_DtMxQ FOR LESS: rstyle.me/+e4mPpx42InapfacyfArhKg GOLD COIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+ymd74MwsX2tbdcb-bXg5xg GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+7hZN4D_AY2LtXG1jquFypA NIPPLE COVERS: rstyle.me/+cCQvRzRsGemR2yw6-xVxXQ LOOK 5: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/21a744b6-3ac7-11ef-9f8e-0242ac11002b TAN DENIM TIE WAIST MIDI DRESS XS: rstyle.me/+3m5fT3Udu1JOL3IPjZUMpA MORE SIZES HERE: rstyle.me/+EgRKXmj96BZ6az4fn-SCJw DENIM YSL BAG SIM: rstyle.me/+MFBn2oaQG_J2QRr8_DtMxQ FOR LESS: rstyle.me/+e4mPpx42InapfacyfArhKg GOLD COIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+ymd74MwsX2tbdcb-bXg5xg GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+7hZN4D_AY2LtXG1jquFypA NIPPLE COVERS: rstyle.me/+cCQvRzRsGemR2yw6-xVxXQ TAN STRAPPY HEELS SIM: rstyle.me/+FXj__wPFvdfCmlH35c-jKA LOOK 6 ON CATHY: SHOP FULL LOOK: www.shopltk.com/explore/soheatherblog/posts/bcbd816d-2cb5-11ef-b6eb-0242ac110027 DARK DENIM VEST XS: rstyle.me/+BS_zCerjKt-H_NiuqDJgtA DARK DENIM CUFFED JEANS 24: rstyle.me/+6jHKLeMrivLnNnk0JOA2jA DIOR LEOPARD BAG SIM: rstyle.me/+ZimHmNF9KGIcc3Ma-hV5Rw LEOPARD HANDBAG SIM: rstyle.me/+y9sbmFuMFq6dBXrmxriLIw LOOK 7: LIGHT WASH DENIM MIDI DRESS XS: rstyle.me/+KbwzyOOnovCcSw6HvM4DOA DENIM YSL BAG SIM: rstyle.me/+MFBn2oaQG_J2QRr8_DtMxQ FOR LESS: rstyle.me/+e4mPpx42InapfacyfArhKg GOLD COIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+ymd74MwsX2tbdcb-bXg5xg GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+7hZN4D_AY2LtXG1jquFypA NIPPLE COVERS: rstyle.me/+cCQvRzRsGemR2yw6-xVxXQ GOLD HEELS SIM: rstyle.me/+3c7VL-71hM3Dy6BMfN_CIA LOOK 8: FAUX FUR JACKET XS IN BEIGE: rstyle.me/+BuOSpdgN71ksDrmhSgDwAg WHITE BODYSUIT XS: rstyle.me/+JBne2x2Qvo7NcBx9QZT3fg WHITE JEANS 00: rstyle.me/+KoGfQ1FDVUqd0Fcx47EhDA SILVER HEELS SIM: rstyle.me/+X2-vejRfT9yWETXcLUCFQw GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+7hZN4D_AY2LtXG1jquFypA SILVER BELT SIM: rvlv.me/5vbfxc LOOK 9: BLACK TIE WAIST TOP XS: rstyle.me/+MyYGvXaaHHXskfzy5eIBeA REFORMATION JEANS 24: rstyle.me/+ug4Bl_DI7BQqBnVA5q8zHQ BLACK KITTEN HEELS SIM: rvlv.me/m5lzev GOLD COIN NECKLACE SIM: rstyle.me/+ymd74MwsX2tbdcb-bXg5xg BLACK BELT: rvlv.me/yl9tre BLACK YSL HANDBAG: rstyle.me/+SlOvJ_asUpl2HAWGYrXIog LOVE THIS ONE TOO: rstyle.me/+w3g3m3gSr8QO_q4JmlNrHA FOR LESS: rstyle.me/+NJKmo4hFnBlhsp926oq1Sw

[@kayjohnson5524]

No feathers for me ! I’m not into the BIG BIRD LOOK 😂

[@cherieroberts3502]

I’m turning the big 70 next week and enjoy your classy with a sexy edge style. Thanks for sharing your stories. I’ve been single most of my life…I had three short marriages. Learning to trust my gut and instinct helped me to make better choices in men that are respectful and worthy…sadly I was well into my 40s before I figured it out. Sharing your experiences will help other women learn these lessons soooner. ❤

[@aahmonddelite690]

Read "What Men Dont Want Women To Know" Smith and Doe.

[@christinelove7491]

He was trying to hold your hand under the table while winking at your girlfriend?!!? Soooo inappropriate, disgusting, and my stomachache twisted all up as well when you said it. I am sorry for your broken heart, but glad that you were able to see who he really was. You deserve better! Thank you for sharing that, and your fashion advice. It is nice to have influencers like you to help us "seasoned" gals look and feel great!

[@marieoliphant8305]

I’d love to see you in something totally different than your usual style. With your figure you could wear anything. Maybe you’d be surprised at how much fun it would be. It’d be fun to see, for sure. Our style is completely different. I’m more influenced by European style, but still continue to watch. Funny you say linen looks cheap and other stylists refer to it as Old Money/Rich style. I happen to love linen. Can’t win them all. 😂

[@SuzanaPaklar]

She has no idea about fashion, being stylish, feminine, or classy.😊. Starting with her hair and make up. Brrr. Most of the looks are slinky and cheap. But is fun to watch 🤣🤣

[@user-kg8mp1qf2z]

He was out of line and, yes, very disrespectful! Thank goodness for your friend coming forward rather than keeping silent. FYI from an older woman who has been through this-cultivate more platonic relationships. Sometimes they take time to develop; but from these relationships true love can show up❤

[@antoinettejoubert]

I love the lux feel of fur!!

[@kayjohnson5524]

NO POOF FOR ME ! 😂

[@amymcginty6634]

I like to feel elegant, current & chic. Love your videos, Heather, & commend you for your honesty in everything you say. So sorry for your awful experience with that terrible jerk! It’s definitely his loss & your win, to block him permanently! Love & hugs… also, love your puppy 😘

[@steveguti6452]

Wishing everyone a blessed happy July 4 honoring all military personnel military veterans coast guard Navy all people serving the USA praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you All

[@phillipsmeca]

Great content! Hello from Dallas Trusting intuition is my super power ! The universe made sure that situation ship was never to continue that is probably the most disrespectful thing a guy can do to a woman.

[@anned8443]

Oh Heather, the dating scene for over 40 is daunting (I hear my daughters' stories also). I applaud you for getting this guy out of your life. We live and learn!

[@pamrocks5098]

Stay strong, girl! Great video!! What eyeliner do you use?? Eye tutorial..so pretty but subtle!

[@sarahsartain3333]

Hi Heather, I’m met you last summer R&D kitchen. I sure you don’t remember me but recently I bought a white Jean dress I love it and my husband loved it. I got a lot of compliments the night I wore it ,thank you. that was definitely flirting and good for you for believing your friend something like that happened to me and I lost that friendship for a while because she believed him over me.

[@floridanativelh568]

You know, this new "vulnerable" sharing you've been including is really endearing and makes you very relatable on a whole new level. I honestly do not dress like your channel but enjoy your videos and occasionally glean some ideas. I'm a fitness instructor so I'm in that gear or just casual shorts and comfy stuff. Thank you for including Kathy and for the quality content you produce! Any Austin guy update coming soon? Have a great week!

[@zornikzornuk3187]

Nice video, thanks for sharing

[@kayjohnson5524]

I love leopard ! I recently bought a leopard jacket & skirt on sale. I’m excited for fall. ❤

[@secondeve610]

Hi Heather! Wow he's a dog!! Anyway, I love those bubble dresses and the father's! But that's because they are good for my occupation, lol! Here's to your best life ever! ❤

[@TheBohemianStyle]

Thank you for. Introducing the Fall trends. The dating story you had, sadly, it happens, especially when we don’t know the signs when it is the wrong person. It is so easy to feel, and trust. You are a strong person and good for you that your friend was honest and told you.

[@krcal3020]

We’ve all been guilty of holding out blind hope that someone will change. I remind myself of the Maya Angelou quote (via Oprah): “ When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.”

[@TheLMRod]

I can't hear you say the word "butt" without thinking of pickleball / butt cheek 😂😂😂😂

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Ikr!! lol!!!

[@steveguti6452]

Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive life threatening Situations hurricane beryl massive wildfires massive heatwave in USA they desperately need your Prayers please pray for them God bless you all

[@antoinettejoubert]

You pray to the guy who sent the storm😂😂😂

[@mercedes523]

Will do right now!

[@sandysandy1937]

Appreciate your relationship info.

[@kayjohnson5524]

Love this jacket. ❤

[@teriwills5876]

Heather, I love the tan Paige Denim dress so much--and it's on sale right now (I might have ordered it!). About the guy...thanks for sharing and for trusting us with your heart. Sometimes it takes a while to recognize dysfunction when the physical attraction is strong. But you did, and you're stronger because of it. His behavior was juvenile and slimy for sure.

[@patricialee753]

Thank God your friend had the integrity and security in your relationship w her to tell you! It was the sign you needed to validate your instincts. Don’t look back… you did it! You got away in time.

[@sweets0916]

I think at the very beginning by him saying he wasn’t looking for commitment might have been a red flag. That pretty much says he open to be with anyone. Very disrespectful what he did. If I were to see him again i wouldn’t acknowledge him.

[@Papeeshka]

Nordstrom has been doing leopard every year for like 20 + years! I think it is a classic instead of a trend at this point because I love it every fall. I got my Mom a leopard print crossbody in calf hair several years ago from nsale for a really reasonable price and she never wears it! I may have to go “borrow it.” 😂 I know this is the opposite angle we usually hear about for inclusivity but as a tall thin woman with narrow AA feet…..👠 ❤please point out when shoes will work or not for AA narrow feet ❤please point our when tops / dresses / blazers will or will not work for long torso/tall women. For example the NSALE blue leather l’agence jacket is adorable but I can tell it is really for petite or maybe normal torso by the way it looks on the model. It is floating above her hip bones and looks awkward. Please try it on, tell us your torso length (regular vs petite vs longer). Also it looks in the reviews like it requires to size up. So please also tell us this on the 8th/9th/10th before it is gone!!! Love your channel! He told you who he was and what he was about and you didn’t listen. Then you admitted to yourself who and what he was but you let him buy you and your friends drinks because it appealed to your ego to have a man show off what he could do for your friends thinking it was about you and making you look good in front of your friends. Then he showed who and what he was again by winking at your friend. He wanted attention, you all let him disrupt your night and make it about him and what he wants. When he shows up and is a distraction from what you need and want he is pulling you away from preserving your energy for the right person. He is a really manipulative and destructive person that will constantly take advantage of you and other people because you are hoping that it will become something it will not. I feel for you and am not judging you at all. This is a good person to practice on for setting boundaries, standing up for yourself and moving on quickly and efficiently. Whatever the chemistry was it was not healthy for you because it was not coming from a place of love and respect. It was coming from a narcissistic self serving place. Thank you next!!!❤❤❤

[@Userk998]

I've taken a couple of selfies. I don't like pictures. Used to be kind of cute. Russ Brown 1st commercial. Funny 😁 😂 vibe. Didn't know they were shooting. I'm camera shy 🤭

[@annlatham]

I love leopard and zebra print 🖤🤍🤎💙❤️ Over 40 and wearing bubble skirts? I just don’t know about that 🤔 30 is even pushing it in my opinion. So about the wink. He sounds like the flirty type but his eye should only be on you. Period. End of discussion. Would you wink at one of his friends? Absolutely not. Smile yes. Wink no. You’re doing a great job Heather! I also loved Kathy’s looks too. I love Fall and cannot wait to to wear my fall pieces.

[@eleanoretutwiler7010]

I laughed about the burgundy bag. I have one that is 25 years old, but I don’t use is in a dust bag and I won’t part with it. As to him, no shame at all for you from us! Did you feel duped? Is winking just a thing he does as part of his communication? Whether it is or isn’t, you were mortified by his behavior, so it is a dealbreaker. You did the right thing. ❤

[@amygerges6974]

Heather, they added an animal print faux fur jacket to the sale

[@GailSilverman-vy5qi]

I like watching your videos but I’m short waisted and I buy good clothing but sometimes I look old. What do you think I should wear. Thank you

[@fortmacmom3122]

Our fall can be very cold, even get snow. Can you show warmer choices?

[@HeroTalesProductions]

It is completely inappropriate for that guy to be winking at your friends. I think you handled it just right.

[@angellawalker4948]

Thanks for sharing Heather you dont need to feel ashamed of your past experiences. Dont we all have situationships in one form or another sometime or another? Yes, it was bad for him to be winking at your friend. Im happy you got out of it though. Whenbi get dressed i want to feel beautiful, modest and confident 😊

[@stevensweet5793]

Hi Heather, I'm with you on the checkered fashion's I think they're a bit much. Although, I have a story to share with you pertaining to checkered shirts. When I was about 11 a friends dad owned a Purina feed store. And he had a bowling team called the checker board squares. And our bowling shirts were checkered red and white. Your fashion comments reminded of those shirts, and my bowling days. Wasn't that interesting...... Now! I want to tell you how much I enjoy watching you as an influencer. You're as good as it gets.Your charm, beauty, and the narrations of the product lines are spot on. And as to your LOVE LIFE hang in there Mr. Right is on his way. Unfortunately, I have to disqualify myself due to the age difference. It breaks my heart to say this, but I'm to old for YOU. But I have fun watching you, and I prefer, that doesn't CHANGE......... Steve

[@melbelle2049]

He was truthful from the beginning as to not wanting to commit, etc. Take these statements seriously. As he described his true self at that initial meeting. Now onto fashion, no barrel jeans, checkers or feathers for this petite woman. Also. I've been wearing kitten heels for 20 years and am so grateful that they are much easier to find these days!

[@ramandeepgill4075]

❤❤❤

[@andreaporet2755]

I like feeling appropriate, attractive and stylish in my clothes. I usually like something that I’m wearing to be extra special.

[@mariannehettinger]

About the guy: even if you're not officially together, winking at your friend is so disrespectful. This is how he's wired.No class. And thanks for your wonderful fashion tips!

[@MsRight-sb5ds]

I don’t agree that the puffy dress / skirt means that you are looking for attention. It’s simply a trend that accentuates your waist and gives the inverted triangle ladies a proportionate look.

[@glai5752]

My dear lady! Love, love, love how you look today! ❤️🌷😍

[@sandysandy1937]

Interested in your Dallss 😊dating stories. Would like to see m😊ore dresses.

[@bellonjm07]

Yep you’re right, that guy is gross and it’s good you dropped him like a hot potato. Good for you! ❤I’m glad you didn’t bash your friend when she told you about the winking.

[@catherinegardner8407]

Absolutely, winking is part of flurtation. This man is a disrespecting jerk! Somewhere in his life he wasn't called out for his terrible behavior! What a wonderful friend to be honest!

[@bluelotus973]

❤Heather ❤ You are so awesome and yes I'm glad you kicked his lame ass to the curb. Your person is out there, keep doing you and it will happen when you least expect it❤❤❤

[@mariannepetersen3985]

Loved your fashion picks today! I can relate to your experience with the guy. I've had the exact thing happen to me. Totally humiliated when my girlfriend told me he was hitting on one of my best friends. I was glad she told me though. I too got sick to my stomach. But I guess that's what it took for me to get out of that toxic relationship. I think men like that have very poor self esteem and try to prove their worth, attractiveness etc. by seeing how many women they can get to fall for them. It's disgusting and weak! One you finally see it, staying away is easy...

[@MartaStroll]

Your girlfriends are keepers, he is not. Kudos to you for accepting what your girlfriend told you and not turning a blind eye to let the jerk back into your life.

[@christinemack2153]

Great fashion tips here! He's a player, disgusting to do that in your presence. and with your friend. Yes, stay away.

[@mpbeautyinsight]

Gawd, wish I was at your table, I would have asked him if something was wrong with his eye!!! Anywhoo, I wouldn't blame the guy as he has already revealed to you what he is (non committing, player). Next time .. keep walkin' to your intended destination 🙂 That said, really love the Alex Sleeveless Denim Midi Dress, but no can squeeze the pear shape in that silhouette 🤷‍♀

[@robinnewton1061]

Absolutely disgusting. You deserve better Heather❤.

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

I literally changed his name in my phone to I DESERVE BETTER....!!!

[@kimrobinson8243]

You have a great sense of fashion but you sound like a high school girl with your drama and men.

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

I know! I'm working on it!! Thanks for your honesty.

[@kimrobinson8243]

It’s all good. You’re too beautiful to play that game. Be patient, live your life and God will bring you the perfect man He has chosen for you. 🙏

[@aprilwichman98]

Always, ALWAYS trust your gut and run away.

[@dawnfrye4343]

Edgy, classic,feminine. Not all at the same time.

[@doriscistrelli9560]

Barrel leg jeans look ugly. Checker print is a no. Hate puffy sleeves and feathers are a big no 😅 . I love the faux fur and I also like my clothes with a little edge to them...Glad you saw that guys true colors, what a jerk.

[@princess2772]

Yes definitely disrespectful! If he can do that imagine what he does behind your back. Gosh… am dating long distance for almost 2 years and it’s been like a roller coaster!

[@janekraft1359]

I was dating this guy ten years younger I thougjt i looked better than him but apparently you could tell. We went to dinner and he was flirting with the waitress. Anyway i had on this black pantsuit It was form fitted, so i looked good. She was saying i was gonna buy your outfit for my mother I couldn't think of any smartazz comment to say back I had this gut feeling he was cheating on me. He was planning on moving.....i just said goodbye an didn't lookback.

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

@@janekraft1359 good for you!!! Way to trust your intuition ❤️

[@sharmanolshan9367]

Heather, why do your hands look white and arms slightly tan? I have been married 43 years and not once did i expect my husband to be different or change. He is perfect in my eyes. Major mistake that women think they should bend a man to their whims. Recipe for unhappiness in my opinion

[@jamidow4283]

I want to feel cute and confident.

[@DebbiePociluyko-gt3xu]

Oh yeah, he's a flirt and he'll be a cheater. That was disrespectful and very rude and no woman wants to be with someone that Ask that way , or would even think that way.

[@purplethumb7887]

6:30 Yes, the giant white blouse is overwhelming on her and not a good pairing with her trousers. The 80s called, and they want their bubble hems back! Does NO ONE remember that these are soooo 80s?! However, I will be wearing the puff sleeves foreverrrrrr! 🤣 The giant cuffed jeans look ridiculous no matter who's wearing themj, sorry. Don't EVER waste your tears on a d-bag! Delete his number and block him.

[@gail4972]

Cute outfits!! As far as the guy winking at your friend, that's creepy. Glad you stopped seeing him!

[@fabulisa5561]

I too LOVE Faux Fur!! They make me Happy, Feel Expensive and Glamorous! I actually have a separate closet for all of them🥰 PS, that guy is a total Douchebag, flirting period when you're married or dating someone shows how inmate a person is!! Such a turn-off!!

[@logicalrealism]

Winking just shows how bold and egotistical of a player he is. When dating I would not follow a guy’s words but through his actions. Since our emotions can mislead us and not pick up on the initial red flags. When you treat yourself with respect a respectful and honest guy will show up.

[@Amy-601]

He’s a sleaze-bag & winking at her was waaay outta line. I’m glad you dumped his a$$. Yeah, the “ no commitment” bit was a red flag 🚩! Separately: Sylvester to Tweetie “ hello my feathered friend” !! lol 😂! Yeah I’m not into over the top feathers 🪶 either!! Just a couple of feather 🪶 earrings maybe! - Amy

[@joycepenn6123]

Continue to block that guy!!

[@user-oy1ub9rw8x]

Sounds to me like the gentleman you are talking about is a player. He doesn't want a real relationship. You deserve better! Keep the ties cut.

[@radioheadkids2]

I wouldn't put much stock in winking. I mean, how seductive can a wink be really be. My bet is that he is highly attracted to you.

[@yeghinenazarian9878]

A liar and player, obviously charming naturally some of us fall for it but can't go far as far as relationship so sad for him.

[@user-gq8pz4ew8k]

Yes he was way out of line. I mean no disrespect but with you seeing Austin guy, I wouldn’t have been talking to another guy. That’s just me though. I don’t know your relationship with him so maybe you see it differently.

[@agnieszkazurad5984]

His behavior is unacceptable, Heather, it is a wasting of your time to have any relationship with him. You’re right never to talk or even look at him. Not worth of your time.

[@AnnetteSaylor-mx6pu]

Ask yourself if you are worthy of this treatment. More respect for yourself. Dress classy.

[@pamelakeys6190]

Thank you for sharing , He is disgusting. 😘

[@rochellelorito7955]

Wait. I must be behind. Is this the Austin guy or someone before him? Anyway, he’s a jerk and you’re too good for him. Guys like that are controlled by their egos and cannot be trusted. Ever!

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

Yes this guy was before the Austin guy.

[@mscathyg7270]

Yeah, he sounds like a cheater. Who knows if he’s even married. He might’ve wanted to do a background check on the guy he’s sketchy red flag.

[@Haydee483]

Not acceptable not a good man…

[@steveguti6452]

Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all..

[@mw6320]

Huh?

[@pace777]

Is your friend telling the truth or is she jealous of you?

[@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40]

I got the feeling she was being truthful....but good point

[@pace777]

@@HeatherAndersonFashionOver40 You never know...... lol

[@Avoid_Low_Frequency]

Disrespectful!!!

[@sensationallyyours6520]

I love this video, Heather. Ok, I would like to feel edgy , sexy, but always classy & modest in terms of showing so much skin! Truthfully, all of these trends when done in good taste, are probably great. I love (when done in a classy way) the feathers as a little accent, the faux fur, always!🎉❤😊 I don't think I would pair the puffy sleeves with the leopard print pants, ever! I might wear the puffy sleeves, however, only with sleek bottoms! Leopard has ALWAYS been my jam! I am 66, thank Go.d I don't look or feel like it ,yet! I like to dress the way I like to feel. I celebrate life this way. In 2012, I was diagnosed with Stage IV Chronic Metastatic Breast Cancer The prognosis wasn't good. Go.d has given me more time. [ the treatments have left their mark😢] I have a "grumpy" but wonderful husband who is my tower of strength! I dress one day like biker chic, the next like a Palm Beach Lily Pulitzer lady who lunches. Most of the time I am tee shirts, blouses, and jeans! 😂❤ Love your videos! I am happy you are enjoying your current relationship witth Mr.Austin!🎉🎉🎉

[@jobuffolino631]

I am glad your GF told you and you believed her and didn’t get angry with her or not believe her. That does happen on occasion and I’m happy your friendship is stronger.🩷