The Masculine Energy of Men Who Women Adore

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[@helpmeinburning]

You can tell hes a hack cos hes trying to look like johnny depp

[@AAMM101]

Yes Johnny Depp-David Spade pretty much nailed it.

[@Ergomanic]

Johnny Depp makes a good point here.

[@patatoe15]

😂😂😂😂

[@ronnyjnr4398]

lol

[@user-ub8uc8gq7r]

😂💀💀💀

[@QFilmz]

💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@anthonyg7181]

@S S I'm fucking dead😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

[@xfaroutzx3637]

A lot more men would be attractive to women if they had the confidence to show their sexual energy. I’ve had a lot of men show interest in one way or another and I can tell you that the ones who made the most impact in my memory were the ones who’s sexual attraction was written all over their face. It’s very rare to see that.

[@rtorres9150]

Carla you got a good point but its just the way that they have been raised, when he said about the coffee that she said”i have a boyfriend” saying sorry is a bad thing but saying: “ i didn’t ask you for that, just for the coffee”....is a bad thing too because eventually she will think other things that makes her wonder...when she already said i have a boyfriend...men that have both is a good thing and a bad thing...but some woman don’t control their emotions and disrespect the boyfriend....so easy to say “No thank you” right lol

[@coldser]

Baaah lies as always if the men are good looking then you will attract to him because of his sexy face errrr sorry sexual " energy" as you say

[@jiggajigjones8210]

Carla no. You mean attractive men. Danny Devito coming at you with rape face...not so memorable.

[@talkingtreefrombugaboocree4847]

@@jiggajigjones8210 I’d be on cloud 9 if I saw Danny DeVito do that 😂🖤

[@hopefullyanonymous3466]

@Aa 69 we’re going with the assumption that he already has a great bone structure/is chad

[@initiatorhater0688]

this is how I see it: "Men either sink or swim, women pretty much float if that makes sense", "Men either rise to the top or sink to the bottom, while women exist somewhere happily in the middle"

[@yggdrasil3134]

Women float waiting for a man to tow em somewhere....When they reach the destination ,and their utility is used,they leave them until the next bigger tow boat comes :)

[@cmj199318]

@@yggdrasil3134 lol

[@maximalexis9872]

That's Official!!

[@Mockduck2020]

Although I find your comment extremely black and white and basically untrue for the most part, I would suggest you consider that woman do most of the daily things that need to be done regardless of whatever else is happening, so they know how to live in the middle. Whether they’re all happy with that is a whole different discussion.

[@maximalexis9872]

@@Mockduck2020 he is right......wow......since history from the gaveman ...kings.....emperors....presidents.....rich people...... look at almost all the divorces???......usually its money involved... Jeff Bezo (amazon) dr dre ...Kim Kardashian is never happy so many marriages. ...many MANY MORE....ya just carry babies ..we do it ALL..few of ya hold ya weight.....funny how u say this untrue....ok?....but ur right to ur opinion tho

[@katherinekelly6432]

Human beings are social animals. Being social domesticates men similar to how the dog has been domesticated. The difference between the wolf and the dog is an observable energy. The wolf lives much more in the world of instinct than the dog. A man who counts money and works at a desk will have a different energy than a man who carries a gun for his work. The more a man is domesticated, the less masculine energy he will have. A man loses what his forefathers naturally had because the conditions of a mans life is very different now. The wolf is being replaced by the dog. Any animal that can be domesticated loses its instinctual vitality and it is this vitality that women are drawn to. When you are in it presence your body feels it. It is similar to riding a spirited horse. There is danger but it is not the danger that makes the ride thrilling, it is the horse, yet the danger is a spice that adds to the thrilling meal.(ride). A woman wants a man to be both wolf (unpredictable /wild) and dog (predictable/tame). To much Wolf (alpha)and she will not trust you but to much dog (beta) and she will not desire/respect you.

[@wowathena]

Thats kinda like when ur living with girl and u gotta cook, wash dishes, clear apartment, mop up floors and do all sort of usual stuff when she orders it, but problem is, even if she wants it and seems like happy with those things on outside lvl, on primal instinct lvl inside,bit by bit ur becoming a turn off for her and submissive and kinda like Dog u mentioned and less like alpha (wolf). So how to cope with this? How to please her and still keep her lusting for ya xD Do we ask her(or demand, in kinda alpha style) to split up chores equally or behave more like al bundy xD Would love to see video based on this :)

[@RYEINDUSTRIAL]

Great analogy. In my dating life, I find it hard to meet women who understand that dynamic. A woman always in her masculine is just as unattractive as a man always in his feminine. As much as men are learning about how to become a better man, I only hope that women are taking the time to understand how to become a better woman. I'm tired of hearing "where are all the good men at?" . Thru my own observation, Im finding it difficult to meet a great woman who balances her masculine and feminine. Love the fact that we have so many resources online to learn from and improve ourselves to help in finding a great partner by becoming a better partner ourselves. I enjoy the hunt tho and am patient with the process. Its not "If" but "When". Cheers, Katherine

[@funkymunky]

I'm neither wolf nor dog. Wanna be my prime mate?

[@manusharma1518]

Woww Katherine, That's it. You put it out wonderfully. Nothing else needs to be added.

[@mrStraker888]

so in other words like with everything else: balance?

[@ultrararesabra6159]

If Johnny Depp and David Spade had a love child.

[@ItsmeEz10]

Ultra Rare Sabra after some years of meth but now freshly clean

[@mitchywilliams5638]

Hahaha

[@anirudhkumar4507]

😂😂😂😂

[@luisforeal8676]

Not masculine at all...

[@rockyvaladez2188]

Johnny depp X Rober downey jr

[@dudewat212]

Zan might honestly be the greatest inner-game Coach of all time. Every video of his is a winner. His book 'Alabaster Girl' is a life-changing experience to read.

[@Bossssssssssssssss]

dudewat212 How about getting rid of terms like "inner game"? I mean this guy begs to differ and is successful at it.

[@BAlvn-yr6ej]

I just started reading The Alabaster Girl thanks to your comment, and after only 100 pages (huge font size, so that's like an hour of reading, by the way) I can honestly say it has changed my reality and I'm sure it will change my life going forward. He is beautifully honest, and a true wordsmith, as well as a sage.

[@RYEINDUSTRIAL]

Keylanos Lokj..... and if Zan invited you to be his wingman for a night you would say no? Zan can be my wingman any day of the week and twice on Sunday. I hope to meet him one day to shake his hand and personally thank him for what he has taught me.

[@ideasandtrucking]

Fax

[@arthursimsa9005]

Absolutely. But I have not found his equivalent for the « outer game » unfortunately.

[@cynthiadomenack7383]

I agree with him! As a female we enjoy the strong male energy that is balanced in the upper and lower energies !!

[@jiggajigjones8210]

Cynthia Domenack you enjoy wallets

[@Steely_wire54]

Lmao people are fucked and i agree with you thats why girls always say be yourself.

[@kutaytezcan-v4h]

@@jiggajigjones8210 ultimate masculine energy

[@dennisasmith1230]

@@jiggajigjones8210 so true!

[@michahartt298]

And whamen are *FIGHTING* *FURIOUSLY* *AGAINST MASCULINITY* .... ya know it is "toxic" 👉🏻🖕🏼🙅🏼‍♀️

[@oscarespinosa3276]

"masculine beauty" i love that phrase

[@SerginhoSM9151]

Que tiene de extraño? La belleza puede ser tanto masculina como femenina

[@AuthenticSelfGrowth]

I think sexuality is repressed in most cultures not just in the West.

[@adrianstere]

Because they try to destroy the connections between man and women. This is how you create segregation and separation which is in the benefit for the ones that use the old axiom "divide and rule". Unfortunately, many are caught in this drama this times both women and men. Men they are not man anymore (no masculinity) and women they are not women anymore (no femininity.)

[@jesusmendez1663]

Adrian Stere 👏👏👏

[@jiggajigjones8210]

Authentic Self Guide look At Asia lmao. They dint have sex...ever

[@doggydolittle1698]

@@jiggajigjones8210 then why is china over populated 😳

[@Mockduck2020]

@@doggydolittle1698 do the math

[@kahlernygard809]

watch his hand movements as he talks, manipulating the energy like a shaman

[@manusharma1518]

That's a damn interesting comment man, and this adds so much potency to whatever that fella says

[@PurplePlay5]

Kahler Nygard get the bible quick!

[@jraybay]

Interesting take, I can see it too Lol

[@taosux1]

Exactly. It's all about energy. The secret here is to have well developed 3 lower chakras (root, sacral and gut).

[@NevenSrb7]

This stuff is super cringe, and could be pretty bad for any guy that watches this in attempt to gain something out of. Jesus christ, dude's whole life has turned into chasing women to sleep with and trying to show off.

[@harlem6365]

This man looks like he can't decide between looking like Johnny Depp or Salt Bae

[@bsherman8236]

A problem i found is that woman always asks a lot more than they can offer in return until they get way older.

[@MasteryOrder]

That is because there will be moments in a woman's life when it will be required to do much more than what you are currently capable of doing. Take it as a challenge and push yourself and see what can come out of it. All the best to you!

[@deinlebenleben7700]

please Keep uploading more from Zan!! Highly appreciated! !

[@WhoaaaMama]

I like this guy. He seems to know what he's talking about and not spewing out a bunch of nonsense.

[@BAlvn-yr6ej]

interesting way to put it...man i wish we had youtube when i was 18, because the stuff i'm learning from videos like as a 40-something is really changing my whole life and when i think of all the missed opportunities, really for the exact reason he says here, it is just tragic. multiply me X hundreds of millions of people and its not hard to see why the world is in such a bad way nowadays....

[@RX-qv2xc]

B. Alvn I’m also learning in my 40s. Imagine learning in your 70s. Nothing but mistakes your entire life. Oh man!

[@lok6314]

@@RX-qv2xc now imagine..that this is all on purpose..to keep you as nothing more as economic slaves to create wealth and produce and technology and to extract it as a process, whil e keeping you tangled up in your 'problems' The rulers of the earth behind the scenes, say this: we don't care about the bees..we care about the honey, therefore we need to keep the bees alive, but not give them the honey...

[@TheAnalyticalFailure]

I'm learning at 27. I kind of always understood a large portion of my personality was being suppressed. We do it to avoid stigma and to seem like we are above base urges or somehow more "in control" of ourselves than "other men" who are more in touch with their privative drives. I would also include other privative male drives in this such as violence. Masculinity is essentially taboo and that is why so many "nice guys" (who always seem transparently creepy and manipulative to me) or people who just gave up (I'm in this category) and just simply stopped trying or never started. It's really sad and there are not enough men doing things the right way who can lead by example because they are relentlessly targeted by western media and social pressure groups for harassment and defamation.

[@shikhtv192]

I am learning at 18 :)

[@Tsourfetis]

Zan is such an inspirational man, i feel like he speaks in to my nature and everything else is just noise.

[@asuichan8436]

First minute in and I’ve learned so much valuable information. This has cleared so much confusion in my head. Thank you.

[@cartierboi6438]

Basically just have a balance of everything. Balance is everything. Without balance everything fails

[@agracefulfox6252]

Oath.

[@nrc73]

This was the video that brought me into 21 Studios. Watched it many times.

[@d-vision2426]

I have Zan's book. The Alabaster Girl. EVERY man should read this book!

[@ozzymorrison8628]

What did woody allen say? We may never know

[@briansalazar7397]

“ we should adopt more kids”...

[@Mockduck2020]

@@briansalazar7397 😂😂😂

[@LintRiggs_]

He's basically talking about balancing Freud's Supergo and Id

[@paulraagas8079]

Now I get why GoldJacketLuke suggested to work on your testosterone by working out your legs. Leg day is very important.

[@andrewevans6826]

No fken shit? You gonna build a house with a weak foundation? Fk no you wouldn’t

[@3irdseyeviiiew]

Squat everyday bro

[@DaSauceful]

He looks like the love child between johnny dep and David Spade.

[@SpongeBath_ShitPants]

And Mr. Van Driessen from Beavis and Butt-Head.

[@MrFuchew]

word this is the real deal. I have always known this and had good luck with women. but i didn't know what it really was until you just said it.

[@Jacno77]

zan's one of the greats but nothing here is solid, specific. But to hear a man preach honesty and sincerity is a real light in the community

[@Jacno77]

This isnt dragon ball z, "energy"

[@arvi2010]

This has been an energy opener

[@KaushikBala333]

Just be yourself and remember what makes you a man take pride in it

[@becomingdauntless8821]

Starts with Nofap

[@dudebenneh7429]

Becoming Dauntless fax I went 2 weeks without beating my dick and I got neck from a baddie 😨

[@curtis7595]

Becoming Dauntless nofap turns me into a crazed horny raging bull I am 19 tho

[@curtis7595]

Becoming Dauntless I got three days today and then every girl I looked at started giving me hard ons I had to go Home and release

[@jamesmeegan4755]

Dude Benneh girl hmu out of nowhere saying she misses me day 7 of nofap, Day 18 like 2 months ago I got head from a baddie also.

[@__ash13__]

@Curtis 7 this is where meditation comes into play to balance that shit

[@unitynofear7758]

He's right, that's exactly what Woody Allen said!

[@DavidG2P]

Trying to write a comment that lives up to the incredible, magnificent video. Failing

[@XKPZM6]

Well i do agree that both energies are critically essential for a man to be a man, but speaking as a middle eastern man, what we are taught is not to let that lower energy control us into leading women to bed without having the masculanity to take responsibility for that woman that we lead into bed, you misinterpreted the idea of the western calling it "wrong teaching" but it's just the right kind of teaching in my opinion to limit as much of possible the creation of emotionally unstable women, any man can hit it and quit it but in the middle east they teach us not to hit it unless we are sure that we are not going to quit it. Which is exactly why we don't believe in pre-marriage sex in the middle east even though we can all just go for it. To reduce as much as possible all the single moms or the children who grow up not knowing who their father is and end up having bad terms in life since they had no proper parental teaching, and yes a single mom can completely be up to the task of raising up a strong young man, but that too is a little bit too much for a woman and it's not her job to raise a man by herself because a dude was not a man enough to take responsibility of the soul he helped her bring into life. In my personal opinion it is right to teach men that the lower sexual energy is necessary for them to become what they naturally are supposed to be, but it is as necessary if not more important to teach them how to not be completely guided by their lower energy unless their upper energy is much more stronger to withstand the responsibility of indulging and magnifying the lower energy.

[@faheemahmed3337]

AleyEldeen Ashraf bravo. well put

[@stefanbernardo2475]

Amen

[@patrickotshumbe4201]

Spot on

[@TheeKingMaker]

or just be in your lower energy while also including simultaneously including your heart energy

[@Galewinds]

Reminds me of the character Ian Malcolm played by Jeff goldblum in Jurassic park

[@yunhao5645]

I listen to this trying to know my enemy.

[@1StepForwardToday]

Zan is a great friend of women

[@-.sirmustard.-2422]

4:22 listening to this while I'm waiting for the raid to start, this guy destroyed me without even knowing me personally lmao

[@heydani6678]

That's embarrassing man you can't be happy?

[@luisforeal8676]

We need more of this guy.

[@justinfitzpatrick013]

Woody Allen said what? The suspense!

[@elvisramaj1509]

The most important video when it comes to dating

[@Yeomannn]

I really think a lot of it comes down to being comfortable in your own skin. People can smell it on you when you aren't. It's hard to fake.

[@garycobiak5926]

To sum it up. Learn to control your energy.

[@Mockduck2020]

Exactly! Man or woman have always been demonized for their uncontrolled energy!

[@cryptomaniac9435]

The real men don’t wanna deal with the immature and disrespectful women in this world that these toxic mothers raised!

[@archangel_gold2451]

Basically be somewhat scary and tough. And girls will chase you. Talk tough, look in her eyes tough, walk tough, stand strong 💪, let no women "un-man" you and make you look like a BOY! (No matter what)

[@jfo3000]

Walk like a man, as Grand Funk Railroad said. My mantra.

[@sak6159]

I just got described there, look tough, mostly have a mean look, walk tough with attitude, physically tough, mentally tough, strong piercing eyes, face, strong upright posture.

[@archangel_gold2451]

@@sak6159 I bet you get noticed by women all the time. They can't help it. Just like we love women that look up to us and act submissive and weaker than us.

[@sak6159]

@@archangel_gold2451 spot on bro.

[@Rabittricks]

@@sak6159 what do you mean by your face looks strong? Do you mean like angular features or just a resting bitch mean type face?

[@DoctorKhullar]

JOHNY DEPP is the man

[@mr.e7541]

How the heck does this man know that I'm high when I'm in a job interview?

[@markettechniques]

😂😂😂

[@mertefe4345]

Truth has been spoken :)

[@garvit5504]

I'm happy i got it in my recommendation 😊

[@Intelsoul]

He is absolutely 1000% correct.

[@Alchemistic88]

People who think he's saying nothing or he's talking about bullshit magic energy stuff, please try to understand that you do not understand his point. Seeing yourself in the way Zan's talking about is hugely beneficial. If you want to learn pick up lines and specific ways to pull, or if you want to make physiological changes outside of what your mind is able to do, there are different places to do that. This content it pretty good.

[@odie_The_Brodie]

w video 5 yrs later 🥹🤌🏾

[@Trox118]

"I have a boyfriend" "you look like you need a manfriend"

[@BIGWORLD0074]

Late reply but this needs more likes, more MAN likes 😂

[@eklctc1Kng1arrw]

This channel has a Viggo Mortensen guy and a Johnny Depp guy. Nice!

[@adrianstere]

And somehow Jim Carey

[@ExtravertmE]

m.

[@jenn151337]

So true this is why i have a hard time finding a bf. All the guys are afraid to show that masculine energy!

[@rehansajid1539]

In your opinion how can a guy exhibit that energy?

[@Kingz-Vibe]

@@rehansajid1539 yo look up semen retention

[@andrewadler8466]

@@Kingz-Vibe thats true we have a world of masturbaters to youporn - which has encouraged it - hence learned helplessness

[@andrewevans6826]

@@andrewadler8466let them suffer cause they wouldn’t believe it exists anyway

[@junn679]

"I can't get this, of course its because the men fault" Modern Woman 101

[@brizzchizz7302]

Yea when I make my presence in a crowded area my masculine energy exudes to all. Problem is I'm too much man I get it thrown right back.

[@3irdseyeviiiew]

WhT do you mean “you get it thrown right back”?

[@johnwhauserman]

The kid knows what he's talking about.

[@KaushikBala333]

This video makes sense

[@thewobblywelder8362]

You’ll never please a woman. Just please yourself

[@mrpeabodythethird]

Thank you!

[@mgu1N1n1]

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

[@Jay-Jones]

What...in the WORLD...does this literally have to do with what was said in this video???

[@OriqinLCinema]

And how do I express this lower energy? Thrust my crotch forwards? 😂

[@kofiquashie6032]

💪👍😂

[@foreverconfusedandkindacute]

7 min to explain a fairly simple concept but.. Yea as a woman... yes

[@lonewolf9188]

that's true. Finally someone understands me

[@privateequityguy]

found this channel yesterday and ive become addicted

[@myHEXOR]

That is a very cool way of describing what i feel like is important and i will use your words in the future to make myself clear on it, thank you.

[@雪鷹魚英語培訓的領航]

Great metaphors. Thanks.

[@bargenejourney]

jhony deep dam this man is awsome i love his body language

[@Murphator]

Thats a really good point. "You're sorry she has a boyfriend?) Lolol

[@alexcosentino8331]

Damn, Johnny Depp put us on some knowledge today

[@0Tyron]

Sad this only got 111k in views good going G💯

[@BreezeeGreenz]

Very refreshing to listen to this guy (I don't know his name). He's simultaneously serious and funny and you can see that he's found that balance between the X and Y chromosomes that all men have. Definitely going to check out more of his videos.

[@myexisback836]

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[@myexisback836]

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[@myexisback836]

massage him on WhatsApp

[@perryd5462]

That belt is 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@To5C]

Best Johnny Depp impersonator I've seen

[@cadillacman2141]

All my life I’ve tried to get girls, little did I know I am a women magnet

[@ArnezDavid]

If David Spade and Robert downey Jr fused

[@boon9778]

What did Woodey Allen say!?!?

[@zeevon9907]

Women know what they have to do, men have to figure out what they have to do.

[@JackStClair-re8py]

Women don’t have to do anything...

[@victorapolonio1076]

really, REALLY good

[@jalajpratapsingh1625]

thats the right time for it

[@tttman4385]

The real word for it is perspiration

[@JD-hq1kn]

Johnny Depp and Steven Wilson with some muscles...

[@meowth8050]

why do i get the feeling that this is watched by a majority of women

[@tsiparov9841]

Great video!

[@thomasmcmahon2817]

"This..." - Woody Allen My fav Woody Allen quote XD

[@My_Spiritual_Journey.]

Men are becoming women and women are becoming men.

[@ShawnCushnie]

honestly I see everything is guy's talking about but to sum it up so you don't have to watch the whole entire video I mean I'm sure that he's going to say some really dope inspiring great things but to sum it up you have to be comfortable with yourself and speak your mind just be a man if you're having a crappy day boom let her know and if she does something that pisses you off let her know at the same time when she's doing something awesome let her know yin and yang effect long story short

[@headlesnorseman701]

Shawn Cushnie that is not even close to anything he said In the video

[@abhisingh1836]

This is the Depp Michael Scott saw near his condo.

[@robertl.7657]

Zan _60 , NASHVILLE Playboy, Mystery, Style, Mark Manson , Julien , and Tyler Are the zen Master's of Game

[@jchezy720]

OK, I am not taking any advise from some dude who has 4 more rings on his hands than I will ever own, 10-20 bracelets, a belt buckle he bought on Etsy, and WTF is that a pistol necklace? Geez just tell me to dress like I was in middle school. Oh yea, I love the t-shirt that accentuates his BETA body. This dude is just spewing crap he read in books.

[@Chinothebambino]

Haha, i was thinking the same thing. This dude looks like one of the least masculine men walking this earth.

[@vishnunot7920]

amazing Johnny Depp is truly the man

[@joekidd298]

Im sure women adore this guy.

[@GreenClassified]

Finally found Tom Cruises inspiration for his role in Magnolia. .. wow.

[@tomsaywer9883]

What if you have acid reflux?

[@Skoromets]

So, what said Woody Allen?

[@Skoromets]

! thanks)

[@iftekmahmud]

Eighty percent of success is showing up (Y)

[@KingOfNeptune_]

LOL!!!!

[@karna5998]

@Rollo Larson that's one of the most fucked up sentences I've ever red

[@jonathanvermillion7263]

Dope accessorys

[@vanheemstede777]

Woody allen said 80% of succes is just showing up.

[@colbyd.5044]

It’s the integration of order and chaos within ourselves

[@jesuschristthesecond]

based

[@huejanus6459]

I would like to call this the two heads energy levels

[@1icestone]

there are two tipes of men providers and lovers and it is not only in the US but everywhere and it has been like that for thouseands of years ... there has to be providers who raise childrens and lovers it has always been this way and it will always be its our nature not only culture

[@missmimi6817]

I like his comment @6:55. I've dated both, too much upper energy or too much of the lower

[@cardinalbob1]

So much for what Woody Allen said!

[@AngerFueld]

Woody Allen said: "the best wife is one you raise from childhood"