This guy is good looking. If he can't get a girlfriend then there's no hope for me.
@geoffjoffy5 жыл бұрын
@Juan Greco aHA
@gj91575 жыл бұрын
@Fabrice null And how does this negative energy work exactly?
@illegalalien65425 жыл бұрын
Exactly how I feel
@10thirty-one424 жыл бұрын
I know... he makes me look like trash lol
@NadaCero4 жыл бұрын
People tell me I’m handsome, cute, and attractive, but girls still don’t like me
@fabianaguilar27743 жыл бұрын
Yeah I feel you. I’m 25 and never had a gf, I haven’t even kissed someone. I go to the gym every day and I’ve been trying to work on my social skills but nothing seems to work. It’s kinda hard because I really want to feel loved by someone
@Ravii-mr9wz3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to feel that way but truly you are loved and you’re worthy just keep going and don’t ever give up 🥺💓✨
@utsavpathak2122 Жыл бұрын
us
@vjkwaeguiv12 Жыл бұрын
Same bro. I am 25 yo and never had a gf lol. Havent kissed anyone.
@izzy3166 Жыл бұрын
@@vjkwaeguiv12 There’s an app for that. Jk lol
@manosijthehero3686 Жыл бұрын
I am 21 turning 22 on 22nd December which is just after 9 days and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. It's bothering me so much now.
@Thatguyjack7585 жыл бұрын
I greatly appreciate all the support I got (and getting) from you guys and girls, it really means a whole lot in this struggle I'm still going through. For those of you in the same situation: We're in this together.
@carsonsmith31435 жыл бұрын
Jack McKeague yep, with ya.
@Thatguyjack7585 жыл бұрын
relax, you're 16. You have lots of time before shit starts to get really serious.
@toastwoozi5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you for sharing your story. I'm 19 and relate to a lot of what your saying.
@JulianDuke145 жыл бұрын
Hey man, I greatly appreciate you sharing this vid, its very relatable especially to someone like me who is a 19 year young boy who has been rejected six times by six girls throughout his life and cant get a girlfriend no matter how hard he tries. I've accepted my fate and I'm happy with being forever single because I have achieved such a high state of nirvana within me by letting go of something so little that our society will judge us and expect us to be. I do wish for you that a special girl will come into your life, if she does that's awesome, if she doesn't then its alright, she's most likely fake anyways like most modern day girls who don't know good morals and ethics indicating that they only care about the jerks with tattoos, facial hair, drugs, and doing bad things which is such a selfish thing which makes me want to knock them all out. Hope everything is good with you.
@kyku68874 жыл бұрын
Same here dude, I'm 20 years old
@sykowhite94655 жыл бұрын
so im 22 and never even been kissed, i just dont care anymore.
@sykowhite94655 жыл бұрын
@Fabrice null why ?
@sykowhite94655 жыл бұрын
@Fabrice null well yea, I also knew for a fact that 2-3 girls liked me . I could see it in their behaviour and how they talked to me and were looking at me. But I just dont care. And almost every girl that asked me how many girls i had in life , they are amazed that answer is 0 and they cant believe it lol, they think im lying. They think im playing the game of hard to get guy, but its just i dont give a fuck . And trust me dude im not that kind of person to regret something in life that was in the past because i didnt do it, fuck it lol .
@wubwub6165 жыл бұрын
@@sykowhite9465 you sound like my big brother. What do you care about then? What is your passion?
@wubwub6165 жыл бұрын
@Fabrice null I once thought if my childhood friend, who is a girl, liked me. But then I got friendzoned and never believed she would like me anymore. Basically we were talking about my crush on her when we were little. And then she said, that being my girlfriend wouldn't actually be a bad experience in her opinion... "But you're too good friend for me to be wasted as a boyfriend as we all know how those things end." That was her but.
@JulianDuke145 жыл бұрын
Fabrice null dude shut up none of us have ever had girlfriends and never will especially me I'm always gonna be a virgin till I die that's my fate unfortunately but oh well it happens it's part of life
@AshMetalRaf6 жыл бұрын
22 here and no gf either, never had..who knows what the future holds
@Thatguyjack7586 жыл бұрын
It's tough man. I feel like it was easier getting a gf in the 1980's and before since technology wasn't so involved in our lives to the point where antisocial behavior wasn't much of a concern. Society is partly to blame though.
@crazymixture574 жыл бұрын
@Britain First Better than being lonely...if only the corona deemed me worthy to be in my presence.
@dilanxxi694 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 Hmm, it's real me?? Vs bts? Look, i missed and i don't have team and you still talk to it until she's understand your talking, She's want more talking, if it not? She boring? Are you understand? I glad your have girlfriends and i wish it...
@dilanxxi694 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 Look, IF you want cool? Make her like you then must cool wearing and you ask about though or handsome guy and do it a best you can, IF days off? It's over your life? OK bye...??
@Anthonymilticket6504 жыл бұрын
18 never had a gf
@kevinv73215 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro. I'm going through the exact thing you are. I'm 24 years old. While I would never wish this on anyone, it is nice to know I'm not alone and that there are people out there who are experiencing the same thing. Keep punching, wishing nothing but the best for you.
@utsavpathak2122 Жыл бұрын
us
@mahidar1005 жыл бұрын
31 years and no girlfriend :(
@zinitevioki90154 жыл бұрын
Narayana Krishna Damn that’s tuff
@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams4 жыл бұрын
If you really want to find the woman of your dreams, please reply to me. My Ukrainian friend/translator (Elizabeth) and I can help you reach your goal.
@incelkeys66303 жыл бұрын
@@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams who re you?
@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams3 жыл бұрын
@@incelkeys6630 I am an American guy (Ernest) who runs an online dating and video chatting business with my Ukrainian friend/translator (Elizabeth). She and I are trying to help ladies in her dating agency (in Odessa, Ukraine) find good men around the world.
@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams3 жыл бұрын
@black wolf101 try going overseas like Ukraine or Colombia
@dornravlin6 жыл бұрын
you are a good looking guy
@tristan5834 жыл бұрын
dornravlin let females say it , not you
@XJacksonvilleX4 жыл бұрын
Dog it's same with me, don't care bout only bout apperance
@dornravlin4 жыл бұрын
@@tristan583 Just wanted to give the kid some positive reinforcement I'm like him only I'm 26. I only get called hands om from older women. A kind word goes along way for me at least
@neilyebrah30434 жыл бұрын
@@tristan583 whats wrong with giving the homies compliements?
@dornravlin3 жыл бұрын
@black wolf101 Oh my god I know sheesh but positive reinforcement can go along way. You want this dude to belive his own lies of not being attractive or un lovebel
@russianfederation92994 жыл бұрын
I'm 18, also got no girlfriend, i was just that person who wasn't really talking to people in high school, whenever i say hi to a girl, i just get anxiety, i do got friends, but whenever it come's to girl's i'm just to nervous in-front of girl's, high school was just tuff for me! just hope for the best for all you guys that are struggling in this world, just have hope in yourself..
@breserk63284 жыл бұрын
Me too iam also 18
@Uknown764 жыл бұрын
I'm 19 losing hope fast
@Csquared143 жыл бұрын
One of them things I pretend not to be bothered about but it actually gets lonely a lot and I just wish I woke up with someone next to me
@Mexas87710 ай бұрын
Ну как нашол девушку ?
@lorenzcastillo64844 жыл бұрын
All I can say is the realest type of guys who can offer great love are the ones who can't get a genuine one. Based on experience.
@journalsfromdavid5 жыл бұрын
I'm almost 22,no kiss,no sex,no freaking girlfriend
@dimitryem01243 жыл бұрын
Me too☹️ I can’t talk to grls
@dimitryem01243 жыл бұрын
What should we do?😣
@iiCounted-op5jx2 жыл бұрын
do u at least got friends? cuz that matters more
@lagillas5 жыл бұрын
23 never had a gf also, my goal is like 68 without gf.
@chucklemuchuckle21704 жыл бұрын
Il die alone
@Cbd_7ohm4 жыл бұрын
MaximilianMus lmao “my goal”
@xxliv4 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@brokenglass63554 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry buddy, 69 will be the year
@PortlandMan5 жыл бұрын
25, same position, except I have social anxiety too.
@theworldisimmense5 жыл бұрын
Adam D I’m 26 with social anxiety and stuttering imagine that
@boochduke134 жыл бұрын
Same and fat and balding at 22 g8 the universe is really working in my favor
@crimzonrayz32744 жыл бұрын
boochduke13 try wearing a hat being more confident in your body and even trying slimming down like eat new foods a bit less and do light workouts i have faith in you going somewhere
@lerzooslercoos69744 жыл бұрын
Me too social anxiety
@forza223bowe54 жыл бұрын
I don’t feel I have the confidence to get a girlfriend at the moment, and I said that when I was 18 too.
@jonathandeleon71795 жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and only have had ONE girlfriend that lasted only three months and it was honestly the worst experience ever she would ignore me for a week str8 then message me the week after explaining she was “stressed” but yet she would always post on her snap and Facebook having the time of her life...even when all I wanted was to hang out with her or take her out for dinner she would make up some lame lie as why she can’t. And that’s only the little part of it she honestly ruined me man...just don’t rush into it bro make sure you find the right one man cause females are honestly so horrible bro.
@Toulkun5 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of simmilar experience i had in 2014 except it lasted for few days and i believe it was my fault
@doejohn75483 жыл бұрын
Same happened to me 😔
@iiCounted-op5jx2 жыл бұрын
damn
@mynudykings70575 жыл бұрын
21 no girlfriend
@jdm1325 жыл бұрын
Yeah brother same as myself and I’m 20. I have good looks, so I’m told, so do you. But my depression keeps telling me I’m ugly and worthless. Everyday is a roller coaster and I just don’t know how to go with getting a gf.
@illegalalien65425 жыл бұрын
Same, and it fucking sucks 😭
@gj91574 жыл бұрын
Same here
@hy3na7393 жыл бұрын
same
@Nmskull3 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@doejohn75483 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@wernhardbierbauerthefourth24763 жыл бұрын
This situation sucks so damn much. Tomorrow is fucking new years and it’s just the yearly reminder again that nothing has changed. Another lonely year of my early 20s I’ll never get back. I don’t even really care about sex anymore, just want to experience a loving relationship.
@bro9189 ай бұрын
3 years later bro how are things now
@blackfox6584 жыл бұрын
I am 20 no gf. Pls help me im really desperate, impatient and out of control about this
@Thatguyjack7584 жыл бұрын
I know man. It's hard out there. I have days every now and then where I'll be like; Am I ever gonna get a girl and get married? It comes so naturally for a lot of people, but not for us. We're in this together though.
@queecakes54534 жыл бұрын
Only you can help yourself and this is the fact I'm not gonna say don't worry you'll find the right one because if you don't talk to girls it's just not gonna happen so if you want a girlfriend stop being depressed love yourself and just go for it talk to someone because if you don't your gonna get old and your depression is just gonna still be there
@freddy_is_thetruth4 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 yo i feel your pain same over here
@valueinvestor67154 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 i dont even know why i dont have a girl. Time flies so fast while everyone else is dating someone.
@crazymixture574 жыл бұрын
Your video and reading the comments make me feel better to know that I'm not alone. It also reaffirms that we guys can depend on each other much more than anything in the world!
@far_away_rhys3 жыл бұрын
Currently 19 and never had a girlfriend. This video makes me feel better that I'm not alone in my struggles, I hate it tho. Just want someone to hold hands with, you know? I hate it.
@jjgameshow2682 Жыл бұрын
Same..
@friedpixel75172 жыл бұрын
This really hit home. I'm currently 18, about to be 19, never been kissed by a girl, gotten laid, or had a meaningful relationship with a girl in my life. I had a brief summer fling with someone but, she was absolutely unbearable. Good thing is, I am actually talking to a girl that i am very interested in starting a relationship with and that i genuinely like a lot. It hasn't gone insanely far yet, I don't even know her real name or even where she lives, but we get along fine when we text. It really is hard to put yourself out there, and communicate (especially to women) when you have insane social anxiety and just general social ineptitude. Really hope you eventually find that special someone Jack.
@ALExx3995 жыл бұрын
59 and no girl friend ever i dojt even know how to talk to girls
@AP-se2zs5 жыл бұрын
ALEZIUS I’m sorry!! I just can’t imagine your feelings! I hope it doesn’t happen to me!! Wish me luck!
@Baulx1385 жыл бұрын
@@AP-se2zs fuck you and your luck. And to the original post-- here's hoping things will change for you
@Mo-kw7xi4 жыл бұрын
Ouchh man I can understand your pain. Hope it doesn’t happen to me.
@charliedays4 жыл бұрын
@@Baulx138 Agreed! What kind of comment is that? The heck! I don't know if I should laugh or get mad!😑
@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams4 жыл бұрын
rugal2004, please reply to me. I can help you find your future wife with my Ukrainian friend, translator, and business partner (Elizabeth).
@marademedici3 жыл бұрын
It's a state of mind. I'm 23 too and I never had a girlfriend because I can't speak with girls and I walk all day around town and set on park benches waiting for a girl... and everyday my anger and sadness grow up. Some time I think I should just go ahead and tell'em but at the end I can't. I'm doomed bro; doomed
@doejohn75483 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂
@razorvertex5814 Жыл бұрын
go er
@jackyfrosty Жыл бұрын
Yep, most of us are just socially inept
@Garrus0982 Жыл бұрын
@@jackyfrosty even with social skills it's difficult finding a girl who has mutual interest
@justyoshi10194 жыл бұрын
Almost 28 and still no girlfriend, everyday I’m feeling useless and contributing to society or my family at all
@zinitevioki90154 жыл бұрын
Just Yoshi Because you’re not looking for one that’s why you gotta go for her she’s not coming to you
@ceooflonelinessinc.2674 жыл бұрын
Sory
@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams4 жыл бұрын
I can help you find the right woman in Odessa, Ukraine. Please visit my Facebook page - Foreign Chat Web and send me back a message if you want to talk to her on Skype.
@Jay-wt2cc5 жыл бұрын
I'm also 23 never had a gf so l can relate when I saw this video I was like meeeeee.
@taiwoshogbanmu97475 жыл бұрын
I also turned 23 April 8 and am in the same boat
@dimitryem01243 жыл бұрын
Me too :(
@basharal-assad1055 жыл бұрын
Dude, we are living the same exact life. Like verbatim it's crazy!
@nobodysperfect065 жыл бұрын
My brother is 26 and never had one.
@TheoJ4 жыл бұрын
Im 23 &I can relate 100% to you .my stress levels are so high like you
@brandonwatson18014 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate mate. Enjoying life by myself until someone wants to be a part of my life. "Never had a GF before either Jack, we are not the only ones..
@B0serve4 жыл бұрын
I’m bout to turn 25 with no gf. I’m physically attractive but the looks never matter it’s the charisma that i lack. Fwb or hooking up with a girl is even tough for me, women get so turned off because i don’t talk much i have social anxiety disorder
@frankieforesight92712 жыл бұрын
It's not a bad thing, women like when you don't talk a lot. Talking a lot is very feminine. That being said do NOT be scared to talk or have a conversation, you should be able to talk but just be an introvert, be yourself. Many women have wanted to get with me just off the fact that I don't speak much, it is masculine, just don't be feminine and scared of talking to her.
@realty634 Жыл бұрын
Cap if you're truly physically attractive you d get women regardless of charisma or not you definitely not attractive enough
@necrot96934 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel man. I’m a 22 year old woman and never had a boyfriend. It sucks.
@Wario13826 ай бұрын
Is so easy for you all.....
@Overwatch95 жыл бұрын
Keep it pushing. A lot of men are in this situation. I've had some intimacy here and there, but nothing in a long time.. It happens to everyone. Keep investing, head up.
@JulianDuke144 жыл бұрын
Sorry bud, but not everyone has love happen to them and it never has and never will for me.
@etano17017 ай бұрын
@@JulianDuke14don't talk like that, keep trying until it works
@ronivichman6665 жыл бұрын
Hey bro I'm in the same exact hole in life I can't come out of. I started to realize man it don't matter thinking about it won't change nothing. Just be yourself man you look a great dude and hope for the best. All is bullsht man either it happened or it doesn't.
@billysamz32603 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend too my life is full of depression,anxiety😒😒
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
You should try therapy mate. 🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗.
@CaptainAHK4 жыл бұрын
So yes we are in the same boat 23 and I haven’t had any girlfriends I changed myself I lost 11kgs Nothing changed, got rejected by my crush :(( Thinking about it causes depression, I read books or playing games to reduce it.
@valueinvestor67154 жыл бұрын
Lose more bro
@johnblah10403 жыл бұрын
@@valueinvestor6715 shut up, you don’t need to be like a Greek god to get girls
@bobi9665 жыл бұрын
Something gone wrong with society and women. You must live good life. Focus on the money and success. We need a great communication.
@gj91575 жыл бұрын
Yup
@chelseashamim91483 жыл бұрын
Women are fine, men are fine. We both should focus on ourselves
@tommyblack81544 жыл бұрын
Be proud , own what you got . Be a man . I don’t have one so what. Thinking about it only make you blue . Having a gf doesn’t make you you
@ShoaibKhan-bz5qm4 жыл бұрын
Never give up we all gonna make it brahs! Be the best you can be
@DistortedV125 жыл бұрын
Same, I'm seeing a therapist about it.
@unknwnn77794 жыл бұрын
same here dude, shit is on my mind everyday and it’s annoying, it’s consuming my life
@millermania23944 жыл бұрын
Same dude. It's always on my mind and it make me depressed seeing all my friends get married and have kids and I'm over here like damn this shit sucks
@unknwnn77794 жыл бұрын
Paul Curran facts
@unknwnn77794 жыл бұрын
Miller Mania23 try to find coping mechanisms, for me adderall helps alot and I would highly recommend it to you, ssri doesn’t help it made me gain weight. You have to find your edge.
@notsocooldude77204 жыл бұрын
I’m 19 and I’ve already realized it’s over for me. I mean, every single girl I’ve expressed interest in has rejected me. And no other girl has expressed remotely any romantic interest in me. On top of that I’m socially awkward and have a very hard time keeping up a good conversation and talking to new people. It’s really hard living without any sort of affectionate connection and knowing that I’ll probably never get to experience it. I asked a female acquaintance of mine to tell me whether or not I’m ugly and she told me that I’m an 8/10. I realize now how big of a mistake it is to ask someone that question because nobody wants to be the person to tell someone they’re ugly and potentially kill their self esteem. But anyway I ended up asking a girl for her number a short while after that and the girl looked at me with an expression of disgust on her face. Obviously I’m ugly. So I get no matches on tinder and since I’m socially awkward I have no chance of making good conversation with a girl and meeting someone that way. I’m completely screwed. Seeing cute girls and stuff just makes my head hurt because I have that urge deep down to try to talk to her but I know I don’t have a chance. It’s a fucked up life sometimes
@jackelineesparza36584 жыл бұрын
Ur not alone but life isnt just sbout loving somebody theres so. Much more to life hope stuff works out hopefuly for me too .
@notsocooldude77204 жыл бұрын
Jackeline Esparza You got a point but feeling loved and like you belong is a human need and when you aren’t getting any of that it’s just rough
@jackelineesparza36584 жыл бұрын
@@notsocooldude7720 yea ik itll mess with u wiyh no luv from ur mom or fam or a friend ever yea it could take a effect but be positive
@zoz50443 жыл бұрын
Damn , you're 19 but your brain stuck at 12
@notsocooldude77203 жыл бұрын
@@zoz5044 Dawg what?
@Volksinformant4 жыл бұрын
In two months I will be 30 years old. I have yet to get my first girlfriend and I am a celibate as well. How does it feel to be kissed? I don't know as I never had a kiss. Never have been hugged by a girl. I am German and especially in Germany it is very hard to get a girlfriend because the girls have high expectations. In Germany the rejection rate is also very high. It tears me into pieces and I don't know what to do. I fell in love a few times but all those girls were already taken. I don't have any friends because back in my school days I was harassed. Because of this I was avoided by all my schoolmates and thus I never made friends.
@Thatguyjack7584 жыл бұрын
That's crazy. It's always nice to get an international perspective on this topic. I was in Germany a few months after this video was made and I did notice Public display of affection (PDA) is much more commonplace in cities. I noticed this especially in Berlin. Also Germany seems much more open about sexuality in any context than here in the states. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's what it seems to me.
@lightplan4 жыл бұрын
A similar thing happened to me... I'm 25, never had a girlfriend before, to be fair I actually rejected a couple of girls back in High School and College. My problem is that I'm suffering from a severe undiagnosed gastric illness since 2016 (used to be a completely healthy guy before) so...I really don't know if this disease is going to kill me before I'm actually able to get a girlfriend ☹️
@kiki_1220 Жыл бұрын
U still here right?
@lightplan Жыл бұрын
@@kiki_1220 yep, struggling a lot... but still alive. Took me a a lot of time, energy and money to get a propper diagnose. Unfortunately no adecuate treatment is available in my country... At this point I really don't know what to do.. But I have to other choice but to dream that one day things will finally change for the better...
@jackstewart5313 Жыл бұрын
@@lightplanhope all goes well for you man
@InscentiveAdvice7 ай бұрын
@@lightplan praying for u
@jacquelineenriquez53426 жыл бұрын
Dude idk how I found this video, guess I got sucked in by the blackhole of yt. But, I just wanted to let you know that you aren't the only one who is in their 20's and never had a relationship. You should try to get a wingman to help you intiate a relationship when you're going out. Social networking helps alot. Don't think you're not accomplished bc you've never had one. It's cool dude, you're still golden. Nothing is wrong with you. Just keep an open mind and when you least expect it it will happen. I've never had one and I'm chill rn but open to have one. As long as we are good ppl. we will find someone. Best of luck and blessings :).
@davetheblessedguy36984 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Enriquez no point in a wingman that is an automatic failure. If you need someone to help you get a girl then you didn’t get her on your own👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾!
@theultimatetroll10943 жыл бұрын
You don’t want a gf, “They’re ugly and they stink!” - Craig South Park
@CarlosAugusto-yr3bn3 жыл бұрын
I feel you man. I'm 23 years old too and I have passed throught some pseudo romantic relationships (something like just talking a lot but never really doing things any far). I don't know if it's just me, but I'm afraid of kissing, that's the main reason I can't just try something further. Anyway. This video has been 3 year by now. Have you find someone? I hope so.
@Thatguyjack7583 жыл бұрын
That’s tough to hear man. As for now in 2021 (almost 2022) I’m still single, but I don’t let it get to me like I used to. I try to count my blessings as much as I can. For example, we’re still alive which can’t be said for millions of others who have died from COVID-19. Also I am financially stable and have a place of my own. Also recently travelled to Europe. Sure I may not have a significant other, but I have a lot going for me as I’m sure you do as well. That’s what keeps me going day by day.
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂
@charbelkfouryck4 жыл бұрын
23 here and nothing yet☹️ it just hurts to see couples and you just sitting there and getting your heart torn by the mere sight of it. Plus i feel like im born in the wrong era cz being a good guy sucks in this generation.
@freddy_is_thetruth4 жыл бұрын
Same and im 20
@doejohn75483 жыл бұрын
Same im 24 bro
@wubwub6165 жыл бұрын
You don't know how much watching this video meant for me. i'm 17 (yeah I know you're all older than me, but this has been on my mind too lately) and I have never had a girlfriend. So I totally feel you man. i know you're 6 years older but I can already feel the 6 years going and I'm in the same situation. i blame social media for that but I guess that's no excuse for it. Having to snapchat a girl instead of talking with her face to face is just so annoyingly uncomfortable. And all this game stuff that people do nowadays, it just sounds so dumb! The "game" is just so mechanical and it could be called a "Social Discussion Simulator". i've been trying the text game, but girls just don't care, no matter what I say in snapchat.
@wubwub6165 жыл бұрын
@G S but how can I find anybody when my social skills are missing? It's difficult to talk to people and I don't know what to say to them
@wubwub6165 жыл бұрын
@G S can I ask how old you were back then?
@wubwub6165 жыл бұрын
@G S I haven't met anybody ever. Even the wrong person
@Nmskull5 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro
@robertwilson77362 жыл бұрын
Dear sir am bloody 63 now and a batchelor i quite understand you its always been a struggle for me i hate it i get such a negative responce from girls like ( what are you looking at ) so you think youre having a hard time you still got time on your side i wish you well bob
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂
@provostic84214 жыл бұрын
This is going to be me in a couple years. I can already feel it. Whenever I am around attractive girls I always get extremely uncomfortable. Almost as if I feel inferior. I immediately think that I will never be with any of them, because why would they settle for a uninteresting, reserved piece of shit like me. Very rarely, if anyone does show interest in me, it's someone for whom I don't really have an interest. And even then if I start talking to them, they end up dropping me anyways. I just need to come to terms with the fact that it will never happen for me, and learn to live out my life alone.
@breserk63284 жыл бұрын
I hope good for you
@iiCounted-op5jx2 жыл бұрын
I could be wrong but living out life on ur own probably isn't the end of the world, I mean look at keanu reeves, he's single and doing good (at least I think so)
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗
@k-dot24275 жыл бұрын
Right now I’m 27 and I’m on the same boat. I don’t know what to do.
@callumbree97595 жыл бұрын
KD concentrate on u
@hens134 жыл бұрын
Callum Bree I’m older and will never have once as long as I live, trying to accept it but it’s not easy.
@auraleaks96274 жыл бұрын
I take adhd stimulants keep me happy till it wears out
@unknown-lives4 жыл бұрын
Escorts and cocaine to numb the pain of loneliness. Works like a charm
@shepherdmogapelwa59055 жыл бұрын
I have a hard time approaching girls too ,I’m 22 years old ,I’m doing my best .The worst part is make mistake in this process ,that’s what hurts so bad .Its so embarrassing,my friends are far head with experience.
@AP-se2zs5 жыл бұрын
I know this hurts man!! But just as a humble observation, you just seem needy! I know what you feel and you r just trying to put it out! As a stranger-friend, I would say just keep your feelings low-key because most people like to ignore needy people! Just try your best to stay subtle!
@kridackgaming20265 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 yrs old and I'm still single... I never had a gf.... So what.... It's all right bro... U will find your soulmate sooner
@gj91575 жыл бұрын
@Fabrice null Spot fucking on
@JulianDuke145 жыл бұрын
please dont lie saying that you will find your soulmate because that's never works out and you don't know what could happen.
@forza223bowe54 жыл бұрын
I find it’s very hard to find girls these days, and most people don’t want to be seen as creeps
@liam-man72653 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@liam-man72653 жыл бұрын
This guy looks way too damn handsome... Girls should date him. 💯
@charliedays4 жыл бұрын
Jack, the problem with social anxiety (myself) is overthinking everything. I did try to date a few people here and there, but I didn't enjoy these experiences because they were too much for me to handle. I can't assume I know you, but my main issue is my gay asexuality. It wasn't easy for me to accept it at first. Just cuddling and kissing, but no sex. Most people don't understand this, and this is the reason why you have to really ask yourself what it is exactly that you're looking for either sexually or romantically. I'm as old as you, and thankfully I know myself better now. I'm telling you, it's not easy, but there will always be people who do care about you or are interested in being your partner. I wish you the best of luck because you seem an amazing guy to me!☹️
@charliedays Жыл бұрын
@keeshobadiahmitchell1467 Not true if I'm attracted to men romantically, but not sexually. People don't really understand it... They assume every everything is based on sex when it's not the case for everyone.
I dont have girl friend too i know what you feel...😔
@kvsantappu81352 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and I never had the chance to kiss a girl. It's a little sad but I hope someday I could find my soulmate.
@manosijroy82822 жыл бұрын
Same but 4 years younger than you. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and one from my college too but we aren't classmates and 5 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are all 20-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21 and I can't stop thing about her.
@iiCounted-op5jx2 жыл бұрын
@@manosijroy8282 so u only have a crush on her because she's pretty? is she a good person?
@londynxavier2 жыл бұрын
It's overrated you're ok. That doesn't define you.💛
@renzogallegos5877 Жыл бұрын
24 and never cared about girlfriends. it's all in your mind bro. at least I'm a introvert and I prefer spend my free time alone...
@gokublue85954 жыл бұрын
I'm 33 and scared of women I never even try to get one because when they see me in public always got rude things to say about me call me gross all the time all my confidence is gone and I don't believe in myself anymore.
@freddy_is_thetruth4 жыл бұрын
Same and im 20 thats what im afraid of.
@billysamz32603 жыл бұрын
That's what i'm going through
@rundemcheeks16393 жыл бұрын
“Just be attractive bro” - blackpill incel
@saurabhshah48795 жыл бұрын
I'm almost 26 and it's the same for me :(
@MikoyanGurevichMiG213 жыл бұрын
Same age as you but I've stopped caring and giving a fuck. Channelizing the love into hobbies and career has been far more satisfying.
@Thatguyjack7583 жыл бұрын
I've done that myself and I will say it does help. Also just keeping things in perspective and eating better helps a lot too.
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗
@АндрейОнищенко-з8х5 жыл бұрын
Same here. And 24... Well, comments shows me that at least in one thing I am not alone)) (sad joke :( ) Good luck to you all guys! I will hope you all will find love you are looking for
@jackson22355 жыл бұрын
I wish
@TheGodking-id3bv3 жыл бұрын
Girls don’t like quiet guys that’s why sadly that’s one reason, I’ve gotten hookups from being more loud and outgoing , and more daring and risking friendships
@skyyzz43164 жыл бұрын
3:52 how the music perfectly stops
@aakaarjaiswal53924 жыл бұрын
I am 23 and in the same situation bro. It’s all about looks money and status. Acquire currency, disregard women.
@thatkingk.roolmain8424 жыл бұрын
18 same here. Never had a gf still a virgin. Don't know how to talk to women at all
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
Me neither. 🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂.
@NotBadCouldBeBetter5 жыл бұрын
Dude, you're gorgeous.
@bokopiiti2275 Жыл бұрын
i am sure you will have your time to shine my dude !Dont get discouraged cuz girls nowadays are brutal and savage ...Do some reps at the park or go to a gym,its really healthy for both your body and mind and just let it all go until it happens by itself :) Cheerz from Bulgaria!!!
@davidefacchini10054 жыл бұрын
I’m turning 19 next month and a lonely future frightens me. I’m here before his reality becomes mine..
@dailydoseofbraincellkiller16754 жыл бұрын
Bro same age .same fears and then this fucking corona
@valueinvestor67154 жыл бұрын
Bro im 20 rn and it feels like a matrix. I had nightmares about ‘being alone’ and lonely when i was 17-18. At that time i was popular at high school and dates several girls. The point is that right now...i just have no friends anymore and not even 1 girl talks to me. Dont even know what happened, it came so fast ffs
@valueinvestor67154 жыл бұрын
@@dailydoseofbraincellkiller1675 rightt, this lockdown just made it more difficult
@dailydoseofbraincellkiller16754 жыл бұрын
@@valueinvestor6715 bro atleast you dated girls .... i dont even know how that feels....
@jc98762 жыл бұрын
Im 25 and i know exactly what youre talking about, i recently started hitting the gym, im trying to get shredded and i think that will get women attracted to me.
@Thatguyjack7582 жыл бұрын
It’s not that I don’t attract women. I certainly do (not to sound conceited). It’s more that women I talk to ghost me more times than I can count or I’m not taken seriously when I initiate plans to see that person. This year I’ve had two near relationships (if that makes sense). I’ve come to conclude that it’s a lack of maturity on their part.
@jc98762 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 well if they ghost you or dont take you seriously when you make plans it means they’re not attracted to you. Ive made plans with women before and they agree but then they don’t follow up.
@Thatguyjack7582 жыл бұрын
@@jc9876 then why do we match on tinder? And a lot of them straight up tell me I’m attractive
@jc98762 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 i match with girls on tinder too, they tell me im cute but i dont believe them because they also eventually ghost me or when i ask them out they say yes but then dont follow through. So idk my mentality is if i am really cute like they say they would meet up with me right?
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
Yes.
@siddhant17185 жыл бұрын
19 year old still no girlfriend, just afraid of rejection ,its more worse when your friends have one
@Thatguyjack7585 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it. It gets worse as you get older. I have one friend who's engaged and another who's been dating this one girl for a year and a half. It gets real before you know it.
@TreeTats4 жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 problem is maybe you get social stigma from friends or family. Like if even they dont think about it but you think they are think "wow this dude is 23 and havent got a gf yet"
@Wario13826 ай бұрын
I would never stay friends with people like that. If they actually cared for you, they would help you out of this struggle instead of continuing to rub it in your face
@demetreusarm4 жыл бұрын
I'm 40 years old and only had one girlfriend for 6 monts and that was 15 years ago. Recently I attracted one girl on the job but she was unavailable. But I played it smart by researching and taking all around courses on how to improve as a better man. Being Absant gave me unlimited time to think instead of giving up. Plus it was fun. Gentlemen use that time to improve yourself instead of feeling sad or getting bitter. When you finally learn these things not just you improve to be a better man but will attract more women than you can handle because to them your different from the others. Be patient and don't worry about getting a girlfriend; for now. Investigate your problems, learn and improve and watch what happens.....
@danielharbison5831 Жыл бұрын
This dude sounds like Moist Critical. I had to do a double take because I thought I had one of Charlie's videos on in the background. Any update on the girlfriend situation? You are good looking dude, man! Hope you found some success with it.
@Thatguyjack758 Жыл бұрын
Thanks man. You’re maybe the third or fourth person to point that out. I’ve had quite a bit of entertainment out of his videos. We also have a similar worldview it seems. As for me, I’m still single as of December 2022. Had a good amount of dates and some flings, but never anything serious.
@danielharbison5831 Жыл бұрын
@@Thatguyjack758 Probably better off really. I'm single myself and pretty much done. I've had one bad relationship after another. Lol
@JayLookie4 жыл бұрын
No offense but 23 and no girlfriend is a joke to me. I’m not saying that in a bad way. I’m just saying try being 48 with no girlfriend. I remember when I was 23 thinking that same way. Next thing I know boom in a blink of an eye sort of speak I’m 48 and still in the same situation. For me hope is lost. I gave up.
@jhil51603 жыл бұрын
;(
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗
@olak18454 жыл бұрын
WTF he sounds like CR1T1KAL
@Thatguyjack7584 жыл бұрын
thanks. I take that as a compliment. I'm a fan of Cr1itkal.
@judgeholder8112 Жыл бұрын
I had 2 girlfriends when I was in both elementary and middle school but sadly I didn’t lose my virginity with either of them. It didn’t really matter because we were minors at the time so we were too young for sex anyway. I’m also a 25 year old sexless lonely virgin and my hopes of losing my virginity certainly isn’t up at all. I already know that I’m gonna be alone “forever.” I never had my first kiss and I don’t have any kids. I’m disabled and I don’t have a job. I’m also autistic. I don’t know 🤷🏾 if I should bring a child into the world that’s full of toxicity, negativity, bullying, police brutality, anger, violence, sadness, hate, overrated population ETC. plus I have very bad social skills and I have worked really hard on it. But sadly it never really improved by my peers so I decided to be antisocial. I still don’t know how to talk or communicate with others. I already know that my dreams 🪣📜 isn’t gonna come true with this pandemic still happening. Last but not least, I don’t have a vehicle.
@taiwoshogbanmu97475 жыл бұрын
Am 23 and good looking also, and never had a gf. I think it's because girls react more to how you make them feel emotionally. I've had girls call me sexy, but my social and flirting skills are too poor to even keep them around. I'd advice you to buy books on how to attract women from amazon and study it, and apply it to your life, am doing the same also, but you have to accept that the changes will come depending on how much you desire to change.
@dexegaming15215 жыл бұрын
Same bro I'm 21 no even has a girl friend
@taiwoshogbanmu97475 жыл бұрын
You are not alone brother. I also relate to Eliot Rodger, except the part where he murdered people. But majority of us relate to the fact that he wanted a partner. I think this is the situation because women have too many options and demands from the average guy.
@lonewolf25914 жыл бұрын
I’m about to be 25 and never had a girlfriend and I also am a virgin. This shit sucks tbh I feel like I’m meant to be alone and by myself, when I’m such a good guy. Now I’m just like fuck it, imma die this way.
@now0rldordern4185 жыл бұрын
32 and nothing. dont waste your time you still young. do soemthing about it or you'll regret it like me
@robotgirl5525 жыл бұрын
NoW0rldOrder n you still young too you can find someone one day
@RomanVideos14 жыл бұрын
Same.... 23 and never had a girlfriend and never tried since i am a shy guy...
@Thatguyjack758 Жыл бұрын
Also it seems from a lot of you that I should collab with Cr1tikal. Well, I’m afraid my channel ain’t big enough for him to notice.
@deepakjha47624 жыл бұрын
I'm 29 and I'm still vergin, selmon bhoi is 51 and a mega star in India ,still a virgin.
@GoodGuyJason25 Жыл бұрын
I've been in this situation for a quite a while 😕 Years later I dated a friend and eventually we got married 5 years later°° Women today are so Shallow and I've noticed how much worse it's gotten! God speed my friend ✅️ Best of luck to you.
@Thatguyjack758 Жыл бұрын
I think you’re spot on about this take here. Thank you, likewise and much appreciated.
@alinvornicu77342 жыл бұрын
I´m 22, never had a girlfriend too. I started investing in stocks and I work all day and saturdays too beacuse i gave up life
@yashmistry19453 жыл бұрын
Whenever you feel for women, follow the absolute basics of how you'd feel talking/acting in front of a human being. .. Long story short..if you like her, she doesn't .. leave it there .. and yes.. she exists.. your wife exists .. she will come to you ..you will know when she can't resist your absence (not your money or fame or whatever) .. U feel me ? ..btw .. I am 23 now and no gf.. and I am trying this .. I got hopes man
@endwestimperialism6373 жыл бұрын
U run behind girls, they'll run away from u U run behind money, they'll run behind u
@muzzammilhoosain47473 жыл бұрын
*23 and I haven't even kissed yet fuck it boys I'm going monk*
@ilyas86593 жыл бұрын
Me too
@insanemedullaoblongata32924 жыл бұрын
27 going 28 never kissed, or gf , abused as a child i just want to die i hate this world, i wish i knew how love felt even from family let alone a woman
@mysticrhythmsundercityligh10264 жыл бұрын
Might as well harm others
@insanemedullaoblongata32924 жыл бұрын
@@mysticrhythmsundercityligh1026 dont really think of that i just want a loved one
@queecakes54534 жыл бұрын
You not to seriously love yourself first meaning like exercise go out be social because if you don't women are not gonna want you and especially women from this era you need to make your self more noticable talk to a girl first before you make a move on her make her feel you just don't want her for sex only
@Stay_in_your_lane_F00L4 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat. I’ve only ever had one gf and that only lasted about 1 week in sophomore year of high school. I was to nervous to even hold her hand down the hallway. I’m ok though. Truckin makes me happy and is the only thing that makes me feel manly lol. Btw I’m 20.
@MatyFriend1236 жыл бұрын
Be patient with yourself. I remember feeling how you did. I'm 25 now and some of the guys I dated I wish I have never gotten involved with. You have such a peaceful demeanour and you have a beautiful soul. It's easier said than done but let things come to you. When you rush, you will meet some shitty people trust me. Enjoy who you are and love yourself and someone who's just as amazing as you are will come to you. Law of attraction! ♡♡♡
@JulianDuke145 жыл бұрын
I don't mean to be rude or any disrespect but that doesn't work out for everyone especially people like me who have always been rejected and are already too late into the game, I'm 19 now.
@andreiboss73235 жыл бұрын
Bro,i know it's frustrating,but i have just an advice for you,imagine a girl that you like,what type of girls you like,you have to believe the universe,set your mind and your soul having a girlfriend and the universe will help you,a depressed mind doesn't help,cheers!!
@Czlog Жыл бұрын
Love is not sought, it is found. You will find it one day
@Kyle-ii4fp5 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat I'm 23 (will be 24 on March 25th) don't have friends and have never had a girl friend.. also tinder I've got no matches and I've been on there since 2013.
@curtisoncuffy81145 жыл бұрын
Just got 23 yesterday and no girlfriend
@Kyle-ii4fp5 жыл бұрын
@@curtisoncuffy8114 I relate
@taiwoshogbanmu97475 жыл бұрын
@@Kyle-ii4fp omg I just turned 23 on april 8 and I've never had a girlfriend either.