3 FEARS That MOST Men Have About WOMEN

[@senecahenry9744]

I would agree... memories are long. However, plotting to hurt someone because they hurt me isn't on my agenda.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@marleyisms]

I agree with the three things about women (most). When I left my husband, he was ready to do battle about his perceived lil wealth. I wanted nothing he had. I walked away from it all because I love peace and I didn't feel entitled to what he'd earned, especially prior to us marrying. I don't care about money or material things. I'd much rather have a kind, protective husband. My husband was quite surprised how agreeable I was and willing to dispossess things he valued. He treated me crappy, but God exacts judgment on behalf of His chosen people, even when His chosen wrongs others. No need for revenge. Nearly 7 years later, he lost EVERYTHING in a hurricane. Car, house, tools, furniture, his coveted televisions...GONE! The Most High is unmatched.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@thefoxaay]

Wow...

[@tonym.toomer]

@@marleyisms Thanks for reaching out and sharing. Be blessed 🙏

[@tonym.toomer]

@@thefoxaay Amen 🙏

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks and Amen 🙏

[@bluebirdie7241]

It takes two to tango. I would advise, going slow really slow and keeping your eyes and ears open for the red flags and not dismissing the red flags when you see them

[@tonym.toomer]

Amen 🙏

[@TwilaB0721]

Sounds like those men have to be more confident and raise their self-esteem up. If the man doesn't cheat, narcissistic, abrasive both mental and physical, he shouldn't have a problem. If he's God fearing, and a good leader/provider, he will not have any issue. But if he chooses a no-good woman, his heart will be broken.

[@tonym.toomer]

Amen 🙏

[@RMMomma4Eva]

This is what I came to say. But with a different twist. Most men who claim to be so worried about a woman cheating, leaving or taking their stuff feel that way because they know they are single in the first place because they're not marriage material. I.e., they have no capacity or intentions of being a biblically sound mate and husband. They are undeserving yet they still want women for the labor we provide, but without having to be a quality mate in return. They instead intend to manipulate and gaslight their way into getting the maximum out if a woman while giving her the minimum. So what these kind of men are trying to find out, under the guise of "fear" is actually how much can they get away with in treating a woman badly before she'll leave and their purpose is defeated. How much rope they will have to play with before they'll hang themself with that woman. How much does she have to offer coupled with how stupid or insecure and therefore easy to manipulate out of her due is she. That's why you see certain good looking men with very average women. Because they know they are not ish as a partner. But because they picked a woman who is so "in love" or is gullible or insecure, they know that as long as they do the absolute bare minimum, she will be satisfied with that, continue to give and do whatever he wants, and never cheat or leave regardless of how trash the relationship is.

[@Theeflawlesswallace]

Those three things you mentioned about what women remember about relationships at the end are spot on! 😳 At least from my personal perspective. I’ve noticed modern women talking about these things on social media when looking back on their past relationships and I know those things are definitely true for me as far as what I remember from past relationships. Nail on the head 👌🏽

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for reaching out and sharing your thoughts; I really appreciate it 🙏

[@Theeflawlesswallace]

@@tonym.toomer Anytime I Love your channel ! 😊🩷

[@tonym.toomer]

@Theeflawlesswallace Thank you so very much happy holidays 😊 🙏

[@rajwoods195]

1 John 4:8 A man submitted to God first will have nothing to fear. He first needs to love God and allow God to lead him. Proverbs 9:10 The man needs to seek wisdom and pursue it. God will remove those feelings when he draws closer to God. If the Holy Spirit is leading him, these things wouldn’t stop him. When he is aligned with Gods will, rooted and grounded in God, nothing will shake him!

[@tonym.toomer]

Amen 🙏

[@theawall7984]

I feel that every woman is different regardless of any given situation... The 3 things you mentioned about men-I agree.

[@tonym.toomer]

True and Amen 🙏

[@aquacantstopwontstopspiritual]

Yes these things are true Unhealthy women will destroy a man it’s written sad but true YOU MUST Have Discernment

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@yolandoakomolafe7363]

Thank you, Tony for educating us😊

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for your uplifting words of encouragement; I really appreciate it, and thanks for reaching out. Be blessed 🙏

[@Jojo29]

Thank you 🙏🏽 Tony. 1 and 2 yes, 3 no for me because God said vengeance is his, but I have heard women say how they were going to get back at men and as far as getting back at men doing or being evil just t-ing a woman off I say no. 😊

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks and Amen 🙏

[@ONLYLOVEIZATION]

Lady here! The first 2 questions you asked at the end are true. I would answer yes to those. Plotting to do something to a man for something bad he did to me isn’t something I would want to try as you end up being like that one who did you wrong. We have a saying where I live ‘2 wrongs don’t make a right’. With that said however, when you hear stories of men cheating with their wife’s friends and other awful things they have been known to do to women (as some women do to men too!) I can understand why some women would go to the lengths they do to plot revenge.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🙏

[@KMRAND]

“Asking for a friend”…. Lol

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for reaching out 🤭🙏

[@julianaaron1738]

First is it a woman who loves him or just dating or whatever. If she loves him she usually dwells on the loving interactions and memories. She does recall the deep hurts he caused. They're always with her. The payback thoughts happen after bitterness and resentment come when he failed to remedy the pain he has caused probably over and over by something deliberate or something chronically neglectful. The worst thing I think of mine is going on cooking strike and letting him eat hot dogs on his on when he upsets me.

[@tonym.toomer]

Amen and Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@Blessed591]

This topic is very tricky . . . Life is unpredictable . . . Everyone alive whether in a relationship or not will harbour fear of some kind . . . That's just how life is . . . What do you think of the phrases " the guilty are afraid " ? Or " you see in others what exists in you " ? What you fear is what you will attract into your life . . . ? I have started to realise that the red flags are alwats there , it's just that we ignore them coz we might be too desperate for a relationship . . . The signs will always be there . . .

[@tonym.toomer]

True and thanks for reaching out; I really appreciate it. Be blessed 🙏

[@tyroneashford1195]

This Is An On-point 🎯 Assessment. "Thought Proving" 👍🏿 💜 -Bro. O. Amos.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for reaching out 🙏

[@godschildyes]

I have never ever even thought to hurt a man or bring vengeance onto him even after he hurt me. I definitely have thought about how much I gave to him and how badly he treated me. I let my ex-husband keep everything and left in my car with pur little baby to women's shelter. That was 20 years ago, and I have been single ever since. I forgave my ex-husband and moved on. The Lord is so good!

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing; I really appreciate it and happy holidays 🙏

[@nairobialeman]

Very enlightening, everything mentioned has actually happened to women close to me. The Man has cheated physically and emotionally, the man has left his family and finally the man has wiped out the joint account and left the woman to fend for herself. And the kids. Very interesting considering that the majority of the time many men are the ones that do this to good women. 🤔🧐

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@noreensirianni3135]

When two people know that their union is based in Christ Jesus and receive him through Transubstantiation.

[@tonym.toomer]

AMEN 🙏

[@hope5443]

I agree. My ex and father of my children came back after years of separation, pretending to want to serve God. As it turned out, he was serving the devil 😢. I'm just so grateful God showed me the truth and stopped me from marrying him. I did break my 10 years of celibacy on the premise we were going to get married the following morning. We had license in hand. I feel I mightve lost my salvation. This is what Im devastated over; not losing him, which turned out to be a non existent, pretend individual. Please pray for me.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@tonym.toomer]

Pray to GOD through JESUS for guidance and peace of mind 🙏

[@hope5443]

@@tonym.toomer thanks, brother.

[@tonym.toomer]

@hope5443 You are welcome 🙏

[@dianeshepherd6903]

In Jesus name thank you Jesus Love conquer All!!!!

[@tonym.toomer]

Amen 🙏

[@evelynjenkins312]

Blessings well they have to do right by his wife or woman if they are in fear you do no how things will end when you are not doing right stress will harm you and its not worth it prayers

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@TeresaDavis-jg7ho]

Sounds like the same fear some females have about men.🙏 fear is probably not something you should hold on to rather faith over fear.. But with all that, being said, don't get married, serve JESUS . I think if someone is so worried about their position more than their partner, it probably won't work anyway. equally yoked.. with God being the head.🙏 if you don't have GOD at the head. It's a free for all, I don't know what to tell you. 🤷‍♀️

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@juliemcdaniel499]

We remember all the above Sir, all the above especially No.1 & No.2. When it comes to No.3 if SHE PLANS on doing evil I guess she will remember, so she can figure out how to execute said plans UNLESS she has mental issues like ADD, ADHD, bipolar etc.... where she can 4get things or twist things up etc. We also 4give if we choose too but never 4get, NEVER EVER EVER (unless that person has a "pattern" of being forgetful).

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for reaching out and sharing your thoughts; I really appreciate it 🙏

[@juliemcdaniel499]

​@@tonym.toomer Read it over again, I made an addition.

[@tonym.toomer]

@@juliemcdaniel499 Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@juliemcdaniel499]

@tonym.toomer no problem

[@user-zn3ng8rp8j]

We have the same FEARS OK

[@danilaroche1156]

Yes and no. I feel men are very afraid a woman will emasculate his manhood.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

[@rachels.7477]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks and Amen 🙏

[@danilaroche1156]

Are you planning on getting married?

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for reaching out 🙏

[@AM-go9wu]

Where are the good men?

[@tonym.toomer]

GOD has them everywhere. Just pray to him through JESUS for guidance 🙏

[@nicolecinkodelen7490]

Hello, I can answer those questions. A real woman of God truly do believe and have in her heart/character 1 Corinthians 13 about love. Especially when it says…Love does not keep a record of wrongs and it does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. She can easily forgive, but is cautious if it happens again to only want to protect herself. 🫅🏾❤

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@marleyisms]

I agree with the three things about women (most). When I left my husband, he was ready to do battle about his perceived lil wealth. I wanted nothing he had. I walked away from it all because I love peace and I didn't feel entitled to what he'd earned, especially prior to us marrying. I don't care about money or material things. I'd much rather have a kind, protective husband. My husband was quite surprised how agreeable I was and willing to dispossess things he valued. He treated me crappy, but God exacts judgment on his chosen people. No need for revenge. Nearly 7 years later, he lost EVERYTHING in a hurricane. Car, house, tools, furniture, his coveted televisions...GONE! The Most High is unmatched.

[@tonym.toomer]

Thanks for sharing 🙏