3 Phrases Every Lady Should Know | How To Be A Lady

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[@Ultraroyal13]

At first i was thinking like duhhhh this is common knowledge.... but then again maybe not. Keep putting these out...the generations need them

[@TheModernLady]

+Ultra Royal Yes, its common knowledge but unfortunately people don't commonly use manners. That's why I was inspired to start this KZbin channel. Thanks for watching the video.

[@jaclynh9343]

I completely agree however like you said maybe not. Common sense is not too common. Many people are unaware of what manners are as well which is very sad.

[@laradara7175]

I used to be so rude when I think back to it but these videos has changed my perception of how I come across

[@tamara2884]

This is someone young ladies should look up to 💖

[@TheModernLady]

+Tamara , Thank you for the compliment! I really hope to be a positive role model for young women! I'm motivated to show how to be classy and polished in daily life! 😊

[@tmoniejordan4094]

The Prep Pursuit Pardon, Hi I'm T'monie and I was wondering if you can please do a video on how to be polite in school or just in general. Thanks. 😊

[@TheModernLady]

Hi, T'monie! Nice to meet you! Sure, I will definitely do a video with the topic of school etiquette. That is a great idea! Thank you for the suggestion! Cheers! :) -Devoreaux

[@TheModernLady]

+Baby Baby Thank you so much for the kind words! 😊 I'm so glad you're enjoying the videos!

[@Dandelionsinthesky]

The fact that some people don't know this is a little disappointing,thank you for making this video💟

[@KL-bg8fi]

This Lady is so elegant!

[@TheModernLady]

😊 You are so kind! Thank you!

[@dorisriddle9212]

When men use these phrases, it is called being a gentleman.

[@TheModernLady]

Yes, exactly! I wholeheartedly agree!

[@megansmallwood3409]

My grandma and mother rasied me to always say "thank you", "please", "your welcome", "should I help pay for dinner?", Excuse me" or "I beg your pardon", And I was raised to never slurp my tea or soup, to always keep my back straight while sitting down. My grandmother and mother were huge on manners!!

[@AndreaPortley]

You're a beautiful young lady! We need more like you in our community. It's so refreshing to see a prime and proper young B.A.P giving good sound advice.

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for your kind words! 😍 This video is an oldie but goodie here on my channel. I’m happy you enjoyed it!

[@maykatolickimotyl1118]

-Please -Thank you -You’re welcome Aren’t these normal?😅

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching my video! It is the reality that although most people are taught to use these three phrases, most people do not use them.

[@jaclynh9343]

You'd think but not really... many people these days feel entitled I have noticed.

[@Songtress777]

You remind me so much of Tatiyana Ali! Thank you for your videos♥️

[@strazyweirdom]

You sound absolutely refined. You, and the Luxe babe, are two of the very few people I look up to, and desire to imitate. Manners go a long way. I was thinking that the three words you were going to discuss were words I may not use a lot. Funnily enough, I always use those three words the same way you do. No matter their position, I always use the titles: Sir, Madame, and Miss. Thank you for uploading a simple, but educating video. How I wish for people to see this. I subscribed immediately! I couldn't help it, and to think that this is the first video I ever watched of you.

[@TheModernLady]

+strazyweirdom Thank you for watching! I am so glad this video is the first one you came across, because this video definitely sets the tone for my entire channel! Manners and etiquette are so important, and they certainly make a difference! I was inspired to make this video because those three phrases are often not exchanged in today's modern times, but I hope we can bring them back and make them commonplace again. I've got some fun etiquette videos coming up, I can't wait to share them! Stay tuned! 😊

[@MLPPixel727]

This is a very lovely video! It is rare to find such seemingly common phrases used in conversations today, so I appreciate a fellow lady sharing knowledge with others on how to effectively communicate. I enjoy finding videos like these to share and I hope your channel stays successful!

[@catehuggins5920]

It is refreshing to see and hear a classy young lady...Those three phrases will open many a door..I love seeing a positive role model for todays young girls..

[@HaroverAJ]

My mom recommended you to me, she said I would like this channel. She was right! I love this! It teaches everyone to be polite, not just ladies. Well done!

[@TheModernLady]

I'm so glad you are enjoying the channel! 💛 Thank you for the kind words! I have some exciting videos coming up, I hope you like them!

[@maylafamfriends9503]

Thank you and yes i have been following your videos and learns alot.

[@KP-vg3zn]

I live in N.C. & these basic manners are taught to us from birth. You want to be a lady or gentleman make sure you say Yes/No Ma'am or Sir. ALWAYS address someone older with Mrs/ Miss or Mr.

[@TheModernLady]

That’s fantastic, Kristin! Ma’am and sir are words we just don’t hear as often as we used to! I love that!

[@KP-vg3zn]

The Prep Pursuit I love your videos I've watched so far. I feel lucky I was raised to be a polite lady. Manners will never go out of style.

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you, Kristin! It’s not as common as it used to be for children to grow up learning courtesy and kindness. That’s what inspired me to start my channel! I’m delighted you enjoy it!

[@sophieacapella]

Hi Devoreaux, these are phrases that I learned when I was a very little lady 😊.

[@jenniferlosobka3078]

I have watched a few of your videos and I love them. I wish there were more lady-like women like you in the world today. You have a new fan here for sure. I hope you continue to make such delightful content.

[@TheModernLady]

+Jennifer L Osobka Thank you for subscribing! I'm so glad my videos inspire and encourage you! Stay tuned, I have some fun topics coming up soon! 😊

[@alyssavillanueva2977]

Thank you!

[@beckywatts502]

Just ran across your channel. It is WONDERFUL! I love it!

[@TheModernLady]

+Becky Watts Thank you so much! I'm glad you're enjoying it!

[@claudiareyes8573]

so simple! I love it!

[@TheModernLady]

+Claudia Reyes Thank you so much! Manners make life sweeter!

[@haroldharris7080]

This video was awesome I learned something

[@coffeenocream8640]

Please tell me how you keep a smile while talking through the entire video? I would love to implement this in my daily life. Thanks

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching! Well, I used to compete in pageants so I had lots of practice. I just smile after every two or three words. When I was in the pageantry world, I would practice talking in the mirror with a smile and I could see what my face looked like as I was speaking. Now, it's just a habit! :) Keep me posted on how you practice and I can't wait to hear if you come up with another trick that is helpful!

[@sherrypettye4887]

Very informative. Keep up the good work!

[@TheModernLady]

I'm happy you enjoyed the video! These 3 phrases will never steer anyone wrong in life :) Thank you for watching! Have a wonderful day!

[@sherrypettye4887]

Thank YOU!

[@maria-ev8lk]

Thank you for these videos! You and the Duchess of Cambridge are my inspiration in life

[@TheModernLady]

You’re welcome! You are so sweet! 💛 Thank you for the kind words! And thank you for watching!

[@jilllovesbeegees70]

We were just discussing how people say no problem.. instead of you’re welcome. I love these channels on being a lady. I am sharing with my grands. Very thoughtful information.

[@TheModernLady]

+Lydia Damron Thank you so much for sharing and for watching my video! Yes, you're right! People say no problem all the time! I hope this video will help inspire many people to use you're welcome instead!

[@ashslaycurls2315]

This is Ashley! I love your channel! Keep up the good work!

[@TheModernLady]

+AshslayCurls Thank you so much Ashley! :)

[@OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro]

Peace be to you! I'm one of your subscribers! These are very common phrases! However, so many people don't use them. It's been my observation that unfortunately, good manners seem to deemed as being "upity" 😤 or even a sign of "weakness" (😕😰) among men (esp. us "bruthaz" 😅). I'm determined to practice good etiquette, though, and espouse this upon my children. I would very much like to see the return of the concept of "ladies" and "gentlemen", practiced in our society (among both women AND men). This needs to become "normal" behavior again. Thank you so MUCH, for all that you do! You are a Godsend! 😊👍🏾👩🏾‍💼

[@jilllovesbeegees70]

Seriously anyone who would give this a thumbs down is part of the problem with society these days. Geez.

[@laradara7175]

Being polite is key 💕

[@lucydracelias7179]

I don't know why people don't want to be polite anymore😑; I wish more people learn basic manners,being polite make someone look more sophisticated and well bred,people think that people who are polite are NOT COOL while it is the opposite;teens these days😑

[@TheModernLady]

+Lucy Dracelias I think manners are for everyone! Regardless of age 😊 So happy you enjoyed the video!

[@alittleimagination9023]

I'm a teenager and I agree

[@jaclynh9343]

I think part of that is bc many see it as a weakness or it can cause others to perceive them as naive or a pushover. I read a study that said people who smile are seen as easy to manipulate. Those who have a harder look are seen as moe respectable.

[@irisl2508]

Please and Thank You are part of my daily usage. I am extremely guilty of saying "No problem" instead of "You're welcome" though. Thank you for the reminder. I shall have to remediate this!

[@TheModernLady]

😊You’re welcome! Thank you for watching! This video is a fun reminder - because you’re not alone, many people do respond by saying “no problem”!

[@OilBaron100]

Lovely video

[@charlenesantos4082]

Great video. I take care of my granddaughter and I make sure that she is growing up with etiquette values. Even if we're just in a casual conversation I expect her to be her best. I also make sure that I set an example for her. She's turning eight real soon and I know that she's already a lovely young lady in the making. 💟💖💗💓 Thank you for this video 😊

[@TheModernLady]

+Charlene Cruz Hi Charlene, thank you for sharing! I love to hear that you're instilling those values in her! She is so blessed to have you! 😊 Thank you for watching my video!

[@charlenesantos4082]

The Prep Pursuit you are so welcome! 💗💟💖

[@tapiwanashemarisa1873]

Hello Prep Pursuit. please may you make a video on interview etiquette, how to make a good impression, presentation, what to wear, what to say and how to say it and so forth. Thank you

[@TheModernLady]

+Tapiwanashe Marisa Thank you for video request! I love it! I will add this one to my list of topics!

[@shibbert21]

Love your channel! Have you ever watched a UK series (it's right here on KZbin) called Ladette to Lady?

[@CalliopeFprincessice]

And this is why I get called duchess a lot and also told that I am true royalty. And I am so glad I found your channel! You have a very calming voice.

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you so much, Alice! You ARE royalty! 😊 I appreciate you supporting my channel!!!

[@CalliopeFprincessice]

The Prep Pursuit you are very welcome. 😄

[@monicaroberts9536]

I love your channel :)

[@TheModernLady]

+monica roberts Thank you for watching! I'm glad you're enjoying the channel!

[@evamaria644]

Even if your parent's didn't model for you, which all do to a certain extent you should have just picked it up in the culture. The problem is kids want to have their own style of communicating and their parents never correct them. I picked them up from the church and reading The Proverbs.

[@TheModernLady]

I agree with you, Marie. I also believe that over time some adults tend to get “lax” about having common courtesy and just stop being as kind toward others. Thank you for watching my video!

[@rosa629]

new subscriber and i find this useful

[@TheModernLady]

+Rose Andrea Welcome to the party! Thank you for subscribing! I hope you enjoy all my videos! 😊

[@miriamdiedrich7524]

Aesthetic room decorating in the background, helloooo.

[@TheModernLady]

+Laura Icahn 😊 Thank you for the kind words!

[@VintageAfro91]

You are so gorgeous. I love your style. :)

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you so much! 😊 I appreciate your kind words!

[@sherrydinyain4493]

I just subscribed, I like your videos

[@TheModernLady]

+Sherry Dinyain Thanks for watching and subscribing! So glad you enjoy the channel! 😊

[@angellesupastar2904]

Thank u

[@TheModernLady]

You’re welcome! Thank you for watching, Angelle!

[@estherloske2220]

Mind Blown ! That a grown woman ...would need to be taught this !

[@tamara7210]

So important. I hope all young ladies watch this.

[@TheModernLady]

+Tammy Thank you for watching! You're right, Tammy! I feel it's important for ladies of all ages to have this reminder! 😊

[@princessrenee815]

I am 19 years old. I learned some vital information from this.. 😊 I dream of reaching my full potential everyday!

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching and for sharing such kind words! I’m so happy to hear my videos are helpful for you! 😊 You are well on your way to reaching your full potential!

[@princessrenee815]

The Prep Pursuit thank you!

[@TheModernLady]

😊 You’re welcome

[@wowso4]

Wow your so classy glad I found your channel

[@TheModernLady]

+Sandra Jefferson Thank you so much for watching, Sandra! 😊💛 I am so glad you enjoyed the video and I hope you enjoy the channel as well!

[@sherrypettye4887]

I love it

[@TheModernLady]

+Sherry Pettye Thank you for watching! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video! 💛

[@jilllovesbeegees70]

Oh AMEN! Exact description a lady.

[@munadamobi5901]

Ure really a lady. I Love how u speak.

[@TheModernLady]

+munad amobi Thank you so much! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video! 😊 Have a wonderful weekend!

[@lucydracelias7179]

I wish that teens like me will like to be more polite and nicer to people;at my school most of them are but I know that people outside of my state don't even know basic manners and etiquettes it is such a shame;but I am really glad that there are people who are willing to teach others like you😊

[@TheModernLady]

+Lucy Dracelias Thank you so much! I'm really glad you enjoy the channel! I hope these videos inspire and encourage everyone 😊

[@juliegiamo4177]

You are welcome, I'm going to get back to saying this all the time. Thank you

[@TheModernLady]

+Julie Giamo I'm so happy to hear that! 😊 The little things like using manners to say please and thank you make such a difference in life!

[@patandersen4271]

Subscribed.

[@TheModernLady]

+Pat Andersen You are so kind! 😊 Thank you for subscribing! I hope you enjoy the channel!

[@jacquelinejefferson1876]

Hello, just found your channel and find it so refreshing. You are a lovely young lady. Kind regards, Jacqueline J.

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you so much for tuning in to my channel and for the kind words, Jacqueline! 😊 I hope you enjoy the videos!

[@bubblybubbles4023]

where did you get the top/ dress?

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching my video! I bought the dress I’m wearing several years ago off eBay

[@abeeharafique6087]

i used to say no problem in the answer of thanks. thanks for helping me being a lady .

[@TheModernLady]

You’re welcome! I’m so glad you enjoyed my video. Thank you for watching! 😊

[@gaudycouturist4856]

How refreshing

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching!

[@l.m.3699]

You are so sweet and happy! You remind me of Michelle Obama, so classy, thank you for your chanel!

[@pineapplepancake1576]

Can I be a lady even if I don't dress very proper? Is jeans and a t-shirt acceptable?

[@TheModernLady]

+Ivy Kats Hi Ivy! Yes of course you can! Being a lady is all about how you carry yourself and interact with others. Feel free to dress as you please darling! 😊

[@TheModernLady]

+Sushi Ellien Thank you so much for watching! You can be a lady based on how you present yourself and treat others! You don't have to dress feminine to be a lady! It's your actions that count most!

[@alr7715]

A proper lady never eats more than one piece of bread or one piece of pastry in accordance with the ladies book of ettiquite of manners and politeness. I eat more than one piece of bread.

[@TheModernLady]

More importantly than how much you eat is how you eat it. It’s best to break off one piece at a time instead of taking bites of the roll. You should check out my online dining etiquette course! It’s available at www.thepoisepursuit.teachable.com

[@thegamingknight8781]

very I personally prefer tracksuit

[@orchidbeautybabe3837]

👍

[@keepingexodus20alive47]

I have a question a little off subject...How often should an elegant lady change her wig style?

[@emmaracz1977]

I am quit ladylike and have changed my speech form. But I have one question, I can't always wear dresses because I am busy and it can get cold so how do style jeans to look ladylike?

[@TheModernLady]

Hi Emma, being a lady is about your respectful actions toward others and presenting yourself in a classy manner. You can wear jeans with a nice blouse, cardigan or blazer and heels or dressy flat shoes to style it nicely with class. Thank you for watching my video!

[@nicolekent7708]

Hi, do you have any advice for teen girls under bad influences nowadays? Sometimes it's hard to remain a lady if the ones around us are getting so much attention for acting a certain way, I get confused on what's right or wrong and on what to do.

[@TheModernLady]

Hi Nicole, yes I will be making a video on this topic soon! Stay tuned! In the meantime, being a lady means always doing the right thing and treating others with respect. It’s not about always doing what is popular but it’s about following the golden rule and treating people with kindness and respect.

[@osayomoreholy7455]

But when you try to please people sometimes they think you are printeding I am confused.

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching! My recommendation is not to please people, but to be polite in interactions with them - properly using the phrases “please” and “thank you” and “you’re welcome” when it is appropriate.

[@cloverblossomed7989]

You’re welcome. :)

[@nusraatmahzabeen8888]

Hey hi love. Actually I'm very bubbly personality . So should I can be a lady stay in bubbly zone ? And I have one more question I'm Muslim so maybe you know we have different dressing sense I wear every type of dress but how to be dress up like a lady.... Will you please tell me how can I become a lady. If you can help me with it I really appreciate. .. And thank you for your videos it's really help us.

[@TheModernLady]

Hi Nusrat! Thank you for watching my video! 💛 Yes, your personality should be exactly how you naturally are. Being a lady is about treating other people with respect and kindness. You can be bubbly or shy or any type of personality that you want! 😊 I will be making a video on how to dress and carry yourself as a lady! It’s coming to the channel soon! You’re welcome, thank you for watching my videos! I’m delighted you enjoy the channel!

[@nusraatmahzabeen8888]

The Prep Pursuit Thanks a lot. I really appreciate you. And I'm waiting for your next video love to watch it. Thank you love. And you have a beautiful smile.

[@TheModernLady]

You’re so welcome! 😊 Thank you for the kind words and compliment! I appreciate your support! 💛 Hugs to you from Dallas, USA!

[@thegamingknight8781]

LOL legit I thought that this was on old English phrases lol. . . anyways great idea teach those young padawans to be polite ! p.s i'm a girl some people get confused on that because my name is Luke. Be polite kids

[@tashamarks2168]

My mother only ever said "you're welcome" when she was being rude. The more angry she was the more likely she would say "you're welcome." Even though I use the other 2 often, I feel disrespectful using the 3rd.

[@TheModernLady]

+Tasha Marks Thanks for watching, Tasha! A lot of our verbal communication is all about how we say what we say. So when saying "You're welcome" in a positive, upbeat tone, it will likely be well-received compared to angrily saying "You're welcome" while being upset! Maybe you can just try it, to say the two words in a cheerful tone of voice, and notice how people respond and how you feel saying it!

[@tashamarks2168]

The Prep Pursuit Thanks! I'll try that. 😀

[@TheModernLady]

+Tasha Marks You're welcome! 😊 (I'm saying it in my head... in a happy, cheerful tone) 💛

[@blackblood1338]

I usually don't act like a ladies in daily life but I'm sure I can act like this at the appropriate time

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for watching the video! I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Knowing when to use manners is important, I'm glad you know the appropriate times to be polite :)

[@billworthington1798]

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[@bridgetbondsteel6388]

The comment section is just people in earlier generations or this generation who think that "those damn milenials don't know manners! " and are grumbling about how "these new generations need videos like this! " when in reality most of the people I know say please and thank you. The new generations aren't all or even mostly jerks, you just like feeling superior and you use the fact that you were born at a different time to do so.

[@mysteriousmusician4334]

Great vid. But its okay if you don't smile

[@TheModernLady]

+Mysterious Musician Thank you for watching! I'm glad you enjoyed it. 😊

[@BB11249]

Hey Modern Lady, I like the content of your video. I would be the face of the poster for this channel, smh so sad. I just wanted to make a comment about you. You are very beautiful and your background is amazing but you seem like you're reading something off a computer or something. If you would loosen up and have more fun with what you are talking about I think you may have an even bigger impact than you have now. Either way I'm subscribed. I'm trying to be a lady, lol but it might be too late. Ugh I hate ppl who leave paragraphs, sry. 🤗

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you for your kind words and advice for improvement. 💛 I appreciate you subscribing to my channel.

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[@TheModernLady]

Thank you! I will definitely check y'all out for music :)

[@MitchMusic]

You're welcome! I'm not a lady, but I am certainly BIG on manners and passing that on to my kids! In the spirit of manners, please feel free to use any of our music and let us know if you have any questions. Thank you!! :)

[@TheModernLady]

Thank you! That is awesome! Please feel free to subscribe to my channel because these life lessons are helpful for BOTH ladies and gentlemen :) And I will be happy to use your music!

[@cauliflowerpower41]

You're so much more natural nowadays than your older videos. This seems scripted lol Fyi the Ritz Carlton trains to never say you're welcome but "my pleasure" they would scowl at you're welcome🤷🏽‍♀️

[@brianabecerra2952]

No mames

[@kerrywatson8581]

How sad that there is a generation (or two or three...) Who need this kind of basic instruction.

[@sharonabraham5207]

That is everyday basic manners, Americans have none, that is what you are saying, I don't know

[@TheModernLady]

+Sharon Abraham Hi Sharon! Thanks for your question! This video is one of many I've made on this channel that is a nice friendly reminder of common ways to be kind, respectful and pleasant to others! I hope that answers your question!