👗I’m sharing my favorite daily etiquette rules classy women follow. I hope you enjoy the video!
@AndreaMartinez-ip2vu2 жыл бұрын
My husband was so annoyed early in our relationship whenever he sneezed and I didn’t say “bless you”-he would wait a few seconds and then say “you didn’t say bless you” 😂 Now it’s automatic on my part for any sneeze 😁
@LearnWithBellaMichelle4 ай бұрын
Yes thank you I wish we had etiquette class in high school... I don't know why we don't in these day in age because we have a class for content creation... but not common etiquette...
@Cleopatra32484 жыл бұрын
1: sorry, please and thank you. 2: greet people. 3: say bless you when people sneeze. 4:open door. 5: give people grace.
@krisb39394 жыл бұрын
I call them manners
@catgames7034 жыл бұрын
Yeah 😂
@Jannat-f1q4 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@WhatchuTalkingAboutTucker513 жыл бұрын
I’m working on saying my apologies instead of saying I’m sorry.
@KaRiNa-pj9sb3 жыл бұрын
I had forgotten about #5 and but I will get on it today. Thank you!
@Geaners1004 жыл бұрын
It is a sad commentary on our present society that someone has to teach adults to use common polite phrases. This used to be the cultural norm. I am glad that you are trying to bring classy back!
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words, Robbie. 💕 We have many mainstream influences inspiring people today to be selfish and disrespectful. I am happy to teach something I’m passionate about - kindness, gracefulness and elegant living.
@leilarabiey5274 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, these tips and lessons are tremendously needed in modern life.
@LearnWithBellaMichelle4 ай бұрын
I dont think its sad... I think its empowering ppl are actually trying to learn....
@ellehobbs63314 жыл бұрын
I love that this video focuses on what truly represents class and elegance! Sadly not everyone with chic hair and clothes is very elegant or classy due to the way they treat other people.
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Elle you are absolutely right! An elegant person is truly someone who treats others with kindness and respect - not simply someone who is well-dressed. 💕 I’m so delighted you enjoyed the video!
@kit76474 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest pieces of advice I heard growing up was not to say "no problem" and use "you're welcome." Take pride in the effort you put in to something and don't brush it off, no matter how small.
@junior64474 жыл бұрын
I say no problem, not because I am not prideful in helping someone, but it literally was not a problem to me to come and help. And I would be happy to help again.
@nilnil73254 жыл бұрын
Saying 'no problem' isn't being dismissive. Its just a casual, friendly way of saying "Don't worry about it, I was happy to help". Its intended to put the other person at ease so that they don't feel indebted to you for the help you offered.
@audreyjanecantrell36674 жыл бұрын
@@nilnil7325 I don't know, but my dad always taught me never to use it. You could use 'of course' for a situation like that.
@renettegordley66733 жыл бұрын
Saying no problem after a thank you sounds terrible to me.
@corinnapierre5883 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you
@mistyfox20784 жыл бұрын
I’m going to my very Christian friend’s house, they are really “proper” so I’m trying to act more proper whenever I go there lol.
@Flowersbyalexis4 жыл бұрын
I feel this lol. I’m going to my Christians boyfriends moms house tomorrow in the Alabama 💀 talk about proper
@yeti66013 жыл бұрын
@6Sarcasm._.Lemon9 lol
@morganlynn72353 жыл бұрын
I love your style! I have been looking for videos on elegance & etiquette but many of them focus on affluence & impressing wealthy people or come off as being arrogant. I love that you are very down to earth & want to encourage the average woman to be a lady but you do it in a very refreshing way! My favorite tip was giving others grace! As soon as I heard that I knew I would follow your channel. 😊 Keep up the great work!
@mistyfox20783 жыл бұрын
@@morganlynn7235 hey I think you responded to the wrong person, hope you find the person though!
@ladytee77112 жыл бұрын
Be nice that's all you can do don't change who you are because you have christian friends that are proper key word "christian" they would love you for you if they don't then I'm not sure what christians you are hanging around x I say this out of love
@princess5202 жыл бұрын
Ty for the reminders!!! 😄
@tarajooon84884 жыл бұрын
if someone sneezes now we all run!!
@sunflower-u6u4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@missangelina62543 жыл бұрын
We run for sure!!
@sigmasiren73 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I don't greet my manager/supervisors due to having low confidence yet people assume that I'm confident because I carry myself well, so this was a good reminder for me to always greet others. I can be in my head a lot and it's funny how a lack of etiquette can unintentionally can create misunderstandings between people.
10 ай бұрын
When I first watched this video, I didn’t understand why she was stating the obvious. This is pretty much how everyone I knew grew-up. To sum it up, “be nice to everyone.” Unfortunately, later or earlier in life, people become complacent or just go with the flow. It’s not easy to stay being nice. I was once confused when someone commented that they had never heard me swear. That gave me a lot to think about. Different jobs also have different people. Not everyone likes nice people. They get suspicious.
@temmietaft25522 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing!!
@beatricesiaw87763 жыл бұрын
Also speaking over others when they are speaking, it's a big pet peeve of mine...
@aprilt.38684 жыл бұрын
"Hi, how are you?" I always smile.
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
I love it! 💕 I’m sure your smile always brightens someone’s day!
@taezaj123 Жыл бұрын
I was looking for something like this forme. I am glad to have found your channel
@heyitsajiid4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad to see you in another decor! This background is beautiful, and it feels like we're having a conversation in your living room.
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching, I’m delighted you enjoyed my etiquette video.
@starrychloe3 жыл бұрын
Meditation helps with grace, especially balancing the heart chakra.
@lifeasbron8432 жыл бұрын
I need to learn more about this lol
@veronicaford57372 жыл бұрын
Very nice reminders ❤
@tropicalsunshine46894 жыл бұрын
I love this background and there is no echo, a happy new year to you.
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Happy new year and thank you for watching my video.
@FintyLovatt3 жыл бұрын
Wow, you are so elegant and so right about treating people with grace. I respect people and show them grace and they give me the same.♥️♥️😊😊🙏🙏
@l.christinejones81643 жыл бұрын
Thank you, you are very kind and sweet to make this video.
@stephaniemensah18583 жыл бұрын
Absolutely fantastic video!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤❤
@LB-ku6ry3 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and am binge watching your beautiful messages. I see that you are no longer a KZbin. I wish that you where, but I also see you offer books and still have your videos up. You have bless me. Thank you!
@ymont.4 жыл бұрын
The reason why I came to this video is because lately I feel stupid when I say thank you or you’re welcome to people. The way they respond to me saying thank you is as though they don’t want to hear it. They don’t say you’re welcome either. I observe people’s behavior and every year people just seem to get more rude. Perhaps is where I live, Miami, Florida 🤨
@b.b.48502 жыл бұрын
I've been in Orlando since the pandemic, but I lived in Miami for ten years and people are definitely ruder there. It was always a shock when someone would hold a door open for me, it seldom happens there. Miami is a city full of opportunists for sure. As much as I miss my dear friends and my former life, I don't think I will be returning there at this point.
@Djenifer314 жыл бұрын
I just realized I already do all of them like a “life” rule, do people really need to be taught how to say thank you and you’re welcome?
@lifeasbron8432 жыл бұрын
Hi ,sadly yes :)
@appleheadaddie4 жыл бұрын
I really loved this video, thank you!
@rosaliemiller91754 жыл бұрын
In the work environment I use Good Morning and Good Afternoon most. I use Hello mostly with strangers.
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Rosalie, I love your greetings! 💕 Thank you for sharing! The acknowledgment of others is a kind gift we can always give to brighten someone’s day. ☀️
@RakeshSharma-yx3wb2 жыл бұрын
Good thoughts madam keep up!!
@chandlersampson3 жыл бұрын
You carry yourself so well. Thank you for sharing your insight and I'm so glad I subscribed 💗
@lifeasbron8432 жыл бұрын
She really does
@patiencedery381 Жыл бұрын
I am new here, I love the way you speak. You just got a subscriber.
@aysharabiha47973 жыл бұрын
YOU HAVE A CRAZILY BEAUTIFUL SMILE!
@roots41404 жыл бұрын
Missed you. Glad to find you again. Missing the white pump! Thanks for all that you do!
@emmyboucher73494 жыл бұрын
Wonderful message about the gift of grace!
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
The gift of grace is such a beautiful to live - we all need grace (including ourselves)! 💕 Thank you for the kind words, Emmy! 🥂 I’m delighted you enjoyed my etiquette video!
@laranunez40914 жыл бұрын
Loved it thanks very much
@arbitrarylib2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@Toughlovenochaser4 жыл бұрын
I say "bless you as well.." when someone says bless you. some laugh...some adore it. is that proper? im coming from a genuine place though..
@Kiroii_284 жыл бұрын
I guess it's lovely in all the beautiful tones and genuine heart and a smile.❤️
@Toughlovenochaser4 жыл бұрын
@@Kiroii_28 exactly thank you
@gyounce14 жыл бұрын
For me, everything is about psychology. Most people have "inner demons" that affect their actions toward other people. As a self-taught psycho-analyst, I can see these demons clearly, so I try to be considerate of the fact that the majority of people cannot sort through their personal issues with either themselves or with anyone else as I can, because they are often not aware of these issues to begin with. I am a person who cannot stand to be disrespected, but after moments pass and I meditate on a situation, I let it go and I'm OK. Anywho, understanding others helps - even though, as mentioned in the video, certain behavior is unnecessary, and certain behavior will not be overlooked by me if it's too extreme or creates a victim - and it keeps me humble. I am proud to be the person who can ease the minds of those around me by helping them to also understand others' points of view and their feelings, but also to help those understand their own feelings and actions.
@zomorodrafat42914 жыл бұрын
What a lovely smile and voice you have
@k-drama_edits1373 жыл бұрын
thank you so much mam for such videos . You are so kind , beautiful and most lovely women I have ever seen.
@hanab75433 жыл бұрын
really, I love your smile
@kellymills87794 жыл бұрын
Great channel! 👏👍
@trishiscute4 жыл бұрын
Hi Devoreaux! I LOVE your name, such a unique name! Can you possibly do a video on bra's? The right fit, how they should feel and look. How to clean them? The right bra's to go with certain outfits?
@mahimarosevalentina4 жыл бұрын
Love your channel!!
@lil_locd_mama4 жыл бұрын
My goal this year is to tap more into my femininity and become more ladylike. I believe it will make me a better wife and mother. I'm loving the journey!💗💗💗
@priyankaapjm4554 жыл бұрын
My fav greeting is to give them a smile amd say hello
@auroramothergoddess3 жыл бұрын
getting worked up because someone doesn't say bless you over a sneeze is silly
@sasi73752 жыл бұрын
What should l do when l'm offered a drink/ or water at a neighbor's house, it's my first time there....was invited to discuss sn issue concerning our neighborhood? Should l accept the drink? Should l finish the glass of the drink? Should l fill the glass to the brim? Please help. Thank you
@cheyannebegaye30474 жыл бұрын
Thank you. ❤
@thechristianpsychologer38654 жыл бұрын
New and subscribed!!! 😄
@MissBrownin4 жыл бұрын
I recently read that according to etiquette, we should not say "bless you" to a stranger. Rather, we should simply ignore them. I have been having some difficulty remembering not to say it when I hear someone sneeze. I'll admit, I do feel bad not saying it. I suppose it's like what T M said, it's a matter of respecting others from all backgrounds.
@sewhip4 жыл бұрын
I actually like I when people say 'bless you' to me, if I sneeze. It's similar to what was said about not being ignored and feeling that your existence matters.
@MissBrownin4 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@insertname62114 жыл бұрын
In my country you have to thank the bus driver when getting off the bus like 10 teenagers after another saying good morning good afternoon and thank you when getting off and when getting on the bus Everyone in my class said bless you after the teacher that was minding us in our exam sneezed and after sneezing the teacher said excuse me this is so normal in Europe which is weird
@dr.miriamlisabaxter40113 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Extremely important with Millenials. Unfortunately, I'm not seeing it as much in this culture as in prior generations. I would like to share this comment. I'm not sure if it's culture but we were taught not to say thank you after someone sneezes.
@bettyhall57323 жыл бұрын
I use them all.
@islandgirlxx34654 жыл бұрын
Great video! And you look like Christina Milian.
@CommunicationIsContactSport2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this greatly, I wish man, and women were required to take classes.
@haniahanu4 жыл бұрын
I really like your video..thats the thing i want to know..love from pakistan
@minecraftplayslmg96084 жыл бұрын
I love how your hair looks. I have the same kind but it takes so long to care for it frugally. Love to go to the salon! How do you dry your hair? Thank you!!!
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. I wash my hair and dry it using a blow dryer and round brush before straightening it with a flat iron.
@minecraftplayslmg96084 жыл бұрын
The Modern Lady perfect. Thank you!
@tanaka_muradzikwa4 жыл бұрын
I really like greeting in my native language , I think people find it original 🇿🇼
@haileyharris13812 жыл бұрын
I have a hard time greeting people, I don't want to be the first one because of social anxiety and I have odd fear they might not respond or some reason lol
@frankpetersen66243 жыл бұрын
I never did mind, about the little things
@djw85914 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I like to say with a big smile, “Greetings!”
@LearnWithBellaMichelle4 ай бұрын
I wish we had etiquette class in high school... I don't know why we don't in these day in age because we have a class for content creation... but not common etiquette...
@evelyne28914 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video! Hmm but now I've got a question. I also read on a blog of etiquette that you shouldn't say "bless you" when someone sneezes because you shouldn't draw attention to that. What should I follow then?
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. 💕 You can choose what works best for you. I personally prefer to acknowledge people when they sneeze by saying Bless You.
@nathaliedr75824 жыл бұрын
I was told that it is in spirit of savoir vivre to ignore our physiological reactions, whether it’s sneezing, burping or else... and not drawing attention to it.
@Damnsaburna3 жыл бұрын
I have a bad habit of saying hola since hs. I try to say hi instead but wow I’m stuck 😂
@WhatchuTalkingAboutTucker513 жыл бұрын
I say hello 👋🏼, good morning 😃, good evening to my Bible study class, when on the elevator and it stop when headed to the Lobby they asked if they can get on I tell them come on in or let’s ride.
@Letsmakeart3214 жыл бұрын
Do you have a video on rude family😕😄😕
@paulpounder31483 жыл бұрын
I want a glass of grape Kool one ice cube please.
@alishani57364 жыл бұрын
Hey girl new to your channel and thanks for this video! Saying “bless you” seems to be mostly done in North America because back in Jamaica, where I’m from, we don’t do that often lol. But when I moved here I realized it was a common thing which I found sweet
@lauravdmeijs15124 жыл бұрын
In the Netherlands we say: "gezondheid" which means "healthiness". So you kind off wish for the person to be/get healthy (and happy). I think the "problem" some have with bless you is for its religious perspective. I'm really happy we are using a "health term" instead of a "religious term", nobody gets hurt or feels left out this way.
@Misscinnabon3 жыл бұрын
Im really dont find the need to want others to say Bless you when i sneeze. Why is that a necessity? Im tryyyyyying to understand the "etiquette" part in that. There is nothing wrong with others not saying that to me, so enlighten me please. This specific thing is bothering me.
@newenglandcoast-b4p3 жыл бұрын
My usual greeting is: "Hello there".
@nani0logy3 жыл бұрын
Just trying to feel like a princess for once
@susannahwhite75614 жыл бұрын
Dear Modern Lady, my daughter has her friend over everyday for hours and hours and leaves around 5or 6 am. Tonight this person took a shower in our home and I told my daughter I was not comfortable with this. He lives around the corner with his father. There's not a need. Please any advice will help.
@laurenlilliewilson36464 жыл бұрын
Hello Susannah. It sounds like your daughter might have a very special friend there! While this is great for many reasons, obviously this is a little intrusive without set rules or without you (being the parent and homeowner) being aware! That's bad manners for sure! I'd start by giving your daughter benefit of the doubt, but talk to her and express that this makes you uncomfortable. What is their relationship? Official? Just hanging out? That's fine, but maybe boundaries could be set about visits/times. Is he staying for dinner? That's fine but she should give you a heads up! Leaving the house at 5am? Either he should stay over or not at all? When its still dark out, that could be dangerous too. The fact his parents don't seem to notice him coming home at 5/6am makes me wonder what kind of relationship he has with his parents. Is he ok? Could some hospitality be set between yourself , him and your daughter ? Maybe some grace is required here. But one that sets a defined limit, and allows all parties to be aware of comings and goings in your house (which is proper and polite!). Best not to let the situation fester, but better understand what's going on and act accordingly. That allows you to take charge of things a little better. It sounds like you're trying to look for the best etiquette options so good on you! Best of luck
@ananohilda11324 жыл бұрын
HEY
@curvykanya1464 жыл бұрын
Good evening mam ,☺️☺️ I m from India,I m new here I want to be like u🥰🥰🥰🥰
@larignjoku52224 жыл бұрын
Wen talking to my pears I use hello or hi but wen referring to older people I say good morning.
@rachelhendricks68864 жыл бұрын
Giving people the benefit of the doubt is the kindest act of all.
@ellehobbs63314 жыл бұрын
Hello from Australia! I can assure you all that most people here do not say g’day!
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Hello, Elle! 👋🏽 I have never been to Australia, however I hope to visit next year. 🥰 I am excited to see what the culture is like there!
@KerryJames-l6z6 ай бұрын
Kindness acknowledgmend respect were has it gone ?
@SRoseBlog4 жыл бұрын
My close captioning always say your name is debra
@vinnettepope82553 жыл бұрын
I say, greetings or shalom
@bd102320032 жыл бұрын
Saying “bless you” after someone sneezes is a superstitious thing and I no longer say it. It does feel weird but I don’t go by superstitious customs any longer. 🤷🏽♀️
@bluefox76782 жыл бұрын
Yes, it did have a superstitious past, but I think that is no longer the case. At least I presume when most people say 'bless you' they aren't hoping that the person doesn't drop dead. Nowadays, it's more of a ' don't feel bad, we all sneeze from time to time.' Do you think the majority still holds to the superstitious meaning of the past?
@louiseparnell41202 жыл бұрын
Good morning or good afternoon Sometime Hi
@missredlipstick54443 жыл бұрын
I prefer “good morning” and “good afternoon”.
@GraceYocum4 жыл бұрын
People originally started saying bless you because they though when you sneezed your soul left your body and a demon entered it so they would bless them, and I don’t believe that lol so I don’t feel it necessary to say
@maredgwenllian96984 жыл бұрын
Iv jest been dumped by my boyfriend well ex boyfriend now and I want to show him that he jest made a big mistake and I want to be abit more classy I'm going to be myself but I want to be a bit more confident and classy too
@sarahross19704 жыл бұрын
I use good morning or evening as well.
@hajirafaiyaz44154 жыл бұрын
How about when someone sneezes in your office 14 times an hour?! I’m tired of saying it
@dsnintendo224 жыл бұрын
i only say it twice
@KM-rj6bu3 жыл бұрын
They need to be removed from others
@groovies10004 жыл бұрын
I'm assuming this video is not for the feminist.
@kat79392 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, stuff like this does apply to the average New Yorker…Bronx..Brooklyn..Harlem and such!!
@bd102320032 жыл бұрын
Not totally true. There are still plenty of New Yorkers with manners. Not so much among the youth, but the older adults and middle aged, yes.
@kat79392 жыл бұрын
Did your parent name you after Dominique??
@DoingMe6864 жыл бұрын
Some religions (Jehovah Witnesses) don’t practice and teach their members to say Bless You when someone sneezes.
@TheModernLady4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching my video! You make an excellent point, when religious principles are taught - those that follow that religion should certainly choose to live in a manner that best fits their preferences. I agree with you!
@shareenkeren62403 жыл бұрын
You are a very beautiful woman.
@veronicabridget66313 жыл бұрын
Ma how does someone give a person grace
@IA-vm9ol4 жыл бұрын
hey , is mine
@kangchenjunga5914 жыл бұрын
You might want to reevaluate the sound in your video
@krizztyle92713 жыл бұрын
But “bless you “is related to religion that doesn’t make sense for non religious people , we need a new way to honor when someone sneezes. In the Latin culture they say salud which means to your health. Bless means to be less than. It also means to consecrate with blood . You can check the true meaning of bless.
@rb74543 жыл бұрын
Would you or someone not religious not want to have favor with the eternal beings? Is “God bless you” really that offensive to you?
@MiiightyB4 жыл бұрын
I am trying to find a good channel for etiquette tips for women. She is sweet, but the video was a little too sleepy for me.
@veronicaford57372 жыл бұрын
It really bothers me that it has become normal to say “no problem” instead of “you’re welcome.”
@coolbabe49402 жыл бұрын
I do not see this type of etiquette in Chicago women….
@hiarchie3 жыл бұрын
uh
@Nyia554 жыл бұрын
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