3 Principles to Help Your Relationships | Michael Todd and Craig Groeschel

What if the relationship God wants for you looks nothing like the relationship you want for yourself? It could be time to rip up your relationship goals list and find out what God has planned for you instead.
ABOUT THIS MESSAGE
Relationships are complicated, but do they have to be? How do you know if your one is "the one"? Can a book as old as the Bible help relationships today? We’re talking about being single, dating, marriage, and more in our new series, Modern Romance.
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You Can Win in Relationships - 00:00
Don’t Quit in the Pit - 5:46
Joseph’s List - 8:49
Walking Through the Valley - 12:31
The Betrayal Wasn’t Meant to Break You - 15:08
Serve the Season You’re In - 20:25
#lifechurch #michaeltodd #ripupyourlist

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How might God want to rewrite your list of expectations in life?

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That's tough, but pastor Mike is hilarious!🙀🙀🧖‍♀️🧖‍♀️

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Imaginary beings dont actually want anything. Its just you a conman making up lies for money, your true god!

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I love fact that God, can use me and anyone else for His Glory .

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He’s wearing a shirt with his wife’s picture on it 🥺💕

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Flexing 😂

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And?

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Again

[@REDSHADOWS18]

He always does

[@Samone681]

If there's one thing about Ps Mike, he absolutely loves his wife. Adores .. completely obsessed. I love that about him.

[@baylenrogers8578]

“How much did you love God before you committed to him” that hit hard

[@life.church]

Amen. Tim Janzen - LC Team

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🙌💯

[@lingoringo9157]

Those who don’t come from a Christian background isn’t inclusive in this answer lol. I didn’t know Jesus at all and then He gradually touches my heart and convicts me, I start to love Him and although I’m not baptized yet, I will definitely when I have the chance

[@judydeese6420]

Forced to my deathbed before I gave it all over to him. My Christian life was fine or so I thought. I was holding back 1% and 1% was too much. After 3months on my back in the hospital I gave it all 100% to God's will and not mine. I got up and walked out 100%.

[@anitalanderos5313]

I have fallen. But today I give u my life. I tear up my list. Forgive me of my sins. My life is urs. In Jesus name. Amen

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🙏🏽

[@TheShecorena]

AMEN!!

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welcome to the Family SISSSSS!!!

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I pray for you Anita Landeros. God, give her victory and strength and peace. In Jesus's name I pray! Amen.

[@obonyoemmy]

love starts where feelings end.

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🙌

[@jacob_cristian]

The journey doesn't always look like the destination.

[@life.church]

That’s true 🙌

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COME ON SMBODY

[@donniej1621]

I use to think that my failed engagement, was the end of my happiness, but little did I know it was only the beginning, because it had to happen, the betrayal didn’t break me it had to take me forward God is good!

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🙌! Yes, God is Good!! Thx Donnie for sharing! Keli - Team LC “Whoever finds God, finds life!”

[@rehimaj590]

What happened next? If you don't mind me asking

[@stephanienewmeyer4979]

God was setting you up for something better.

[@donniej1621]

@@stephanienewmeyer4979 thank you so much I truly receive that

[@Qweenova]

''Gods word is about progression not perfection" ''Your pit could be Your platform for testimony'' PST. Mike

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💛

[@evakunkle6112]

Love starts where feelings end, that’s powerfull.

[@musondamawilibwalya]

"Lord what do you want to do with me here?" That hit hard!

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"That you're not watching this by accident".. Amen

[@TheImperfectReader]

I love when you can go to church wearing what you want. God knows who we are.

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I’m giving my life to Jesus and I’m ripping up my list

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. If you have questions about what following Jesus means or you’re looking for a next step, this page is a great place to start: www.life.church/next/ We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Tim - Team LC

[@resilient8788]

Last year I got out of an abusive relationship with someone with highly covert narcissist characteristics. Indescribable, most don't truly understand the effects/affects of narcissism. God speaks to us in many ways, e.g. through situations, sermons, quotes, others, etcetera. God cares about the little things as well as the big. Here's a quote that God gave me to read: "God saw things you couldn't, heard conversations you didn't t and made moves that you otherwise wouldn't." God is bigger than my problems, I am enough and God will see me through as a stronger, wiser person. He can and will take what others mean for bad and turn it for the good. Thank you Pastor, Excellent sermon!!

[@life.church]

Was in the same spot in my life once upon a time. The first thing you must do is shift your focus. It does not even matter what that person thinks of you and it will never matter. God approves you, you need no other confirmation than that, and his opinion is perfect and reigns over any of ours. Tim Janzen - LC Team

[@mavicolman3105]

I’ve been asking God for a sign this week cause I was about to give up fighting for my broken relationship and he sent me to watch this message, I cannot express how much I felt the spirit hugging me during this, thank you so much for encouraging me, God bless you all!

[@life.church]

Amen! Tim Janzen - LC Team

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I can relate

[@carlscharschmidt7317]

Me too, committed forever

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Praying for your relationship sister in Jesus name

[@bryancurtis2003]

Just wanted to let yall know been watching just bout everyday now today i got saved Sunday 27 n went to the alter preying to receive holy ghost i still need hole lot of love preying for to keep me on God path he has set 4 me love yall bunches thanks 4 being here online live in Arkansas Hot Springs area just keep preying 4 me n my family we are struggling loosing love ones n iam going a threw speration right now yall been helping me staying strong I thank you Praise The Lord

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🙏

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Great Testimony praying for you

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Love u brother

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Iam giving my life to Jesus

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We’re so excited for you, suresh, Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. If you have questions about what following Jesus means or you’re looking for a next step, this page is a great place to start: www.life.church/next/ We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Keli - Team LC “Whoever finds God, finds life!”

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I love what Pastor Mike is all about.

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I love all his about

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Fo real. A real warrior.

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God

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I’m giving my life to Jesus 🖤

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Lord make me trust you more in every situation good or bad

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Amen! May God show his love in all circumstances.😇 “He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases.” ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭103:3‬ ‭NLT‬‬ www.bible.com/116/psa.103.3.nlt -Martina (YT Sm Team)

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"The journey doesn't look like the destination" I felt that

[@life.church]

So powerful!

[@MindYou2028]

KEEP GOING FORWARD DO NOT QUIT IN THE PIT

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Amen🙌 Keep running the race of faith! “But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk an” ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭40:31‬ ‭NLT‬‬ www.bible.com/116/isa.40.31.nlt -Martina(YT Sm Team)

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The best and craziest feeling is when it feels like God is speaking directly to you like woahhhhhh

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🙌🙌🙌

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Lord, help me to find wisdom in the season that I am in. Counsel me according to Your word and Your Holy Spirit to honor You with my career and dating life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

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"Faithfully serve your season"!!!🙌❤

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Lord Jesus I am giving my life to you..

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So thankful to God for your life!

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The hand of God in the relationship. 🧡🔥

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🙏

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Love starts where feelings end. Wow.

[@life.church]

Glad you, @Sam Sam are here. Thanks for sharing with us! Keli - Team LC "Whoever finds God, finds life!"

[@GlennHerbert504]

I have a autistic, non verbal 4 year old. When he spoke about his son, man that hit me. Especially when he said about the pit.

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🙏

[@faithwambui5473]

The message is amazing. The pink jacket though!!!

[@6TeenGuy]

I stumbled in a sin that ive been wrestling with for a while now, and getting back on track in my walk with God I feel like things have been happening as punishment, but I have full faith in God that wherever I’m headed, He is with me and will help me THROUGH the pit. Praying for all my brothers and sisters here today no matter what you’re going through in life for healing, growth, guidance, and strength!

[@life.church]

Thanks for sharing, we are so glad that you are here!

[@fransinalukas156]

I have a whole new interpretation of my favorite psalm 23 - even though I walk *THROUGH* the valley of the shodow of death 🙏 Pastor Michael Todd - Your Amazing. You have transformed my mindset. Thank you God for giving us Pastor Michael Todd 🙏

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God transformed your mindset THROUGH Pastor Michael Todd 😉

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I haven't felt god's presence for a long time, and in fact have felt burdened with guilt and sin. this teaching has brought me one step closer in connecting with god. Praise be to god and thank you Life Church❤🙌

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We’re praying for you as you navigate these feelings of shame, and we want you to know that you can find freedom. If you’re looking for encouragement to help you find forgiveness, you can find it here: finds.life.church/?s=shame&is_v=1 Tim - Team LC

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God is with me and I take comfort in that fact. I am so thankful. I will not quit in the pit.

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yooo. I watch Pastor Mike usually every week for like 4 years.. and that still hit like dang. I need to step up my game. Thank you, Holy Spirit moving here. Love starts where feelings end.

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I give my life to Jesus.

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you! ♥️ Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/ytsalvation. We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Chelsea - Team LC

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WOW!! GLORY BE TO GOD!! I rip up my list. Lord rewrite my life according to your will, in Jesus’ name I pray. Amen 🧡🙏🏽

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Amen, I`m giving my life to Jesus!!!!!!!

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Amen!

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I'm giving my life to Jesus! God is good!

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We’re so excited for you, Wonu Ajibola! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Isaac K- Team LC

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Lord, thank you for everything you’ve done for me.

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I shed a tear listening to this. God bless they that carry the gospel🙏🏽

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Yes Lord have your way in my life ..I RIP up my list and ask you to REWRITE your List in my life !!

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I’m giving my life over to God

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We’re so excited for you, @lobanks313! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

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Had I, too, stayed with my 14-year old first love, similar to this man, I'm sure I wouldn't be ripping up my list at 64. God gave us his desire when we were young. God never takes back his gifts and calling. Rom 11:29

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This really affected my heart positively 💕Thank you Pastor Michael Todd

[@life.church]

Amen 🙌

[@katieK1103]

Look for God's favor in the failure. Gosh we all need to do this. Our God is a big God. Before Him all problems are nothing ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Amen!! God Bless you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team

[@Kabous_Harmse]

Two weeks in a row, I'm wrecked!! Such a great series thank you thank you Life Church and Pastor Mike. "Dad, how can you use me, while I'm waiting" From now on this is definately on my prayer list every day.

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Amen! Tim Janzen - LC Team

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I'm giving my life to Jesus Amen

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Love it, I have a daughter with a list of health conditions we deal with life and death daily. I absolutely can relate to what you are preaching. So true we don't quit in the pit. Amen that's the most important time to seek God's wisdom. And depending on Him more.

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Praying for you and your family dear sister- that the Lord will cover you with his grace and sustain you. 🙏🏼💕

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After commitment comes love..... This is deep

[@ellew4573]

Almost got turned away bc of his powder puff jacket. However, I’m glad I stayed and received the Lord’s message.

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Im watching this at work and paused the video, got distracted for a minute then came back to him saying “If you’re doing data entry you better type!“ …. as im doing data entry ! 😂 I love how the Holy Spirit works ❤

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this was comfort to my soul like i’ve never felt.. the way that some things felt like he was speaking directly into my situation.. i have tears in my eyes 🤍 thank you jesus

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🙌♥️🙌🙏🏽

[@derciafernando1905]

This happened to me. When I was mistreated I couldnt stay in that place no more where I was comfortable but it was the best decision ever, God opened all the right doors and blessed me more than I ever dreamt

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@Dercia Fernando - Praise God! Thank you for share this with us! ❤️ Christina - Team LC

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*Heavenly Father, thank You that You know best when it comes to the things we want &the challenges of life that we don't understand questions &lead us higher than imagined.We believe that Your plans for us are good. In Jesus' Name. Amen🙏🏽*

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Don't quit in the PIT!!🐁🐁🐀🐀

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Amen

[@PotentialProphet]

If you’re reading this, alone or with family and friends please be thankful for what yuh have and who yuh have. Try to not stress to much, be inspired and love everything that’s happening good or as a lesson. Please stay safe, healthy and work hard for yours and yours. 🙏🏾💗🎼

[@milanne3922]

Experiencing a heat wave here but this sermon from Pastor Mike gave me chills. I'm crying, I'm shaking, but I feel so loved because I know God is with me! God bless you all! Thankful to the Lord for touching our hearts by His words through our pastors messages.

[@life.church]

God bless you, Milanne!

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I wont quit in the pit pastor mike, thank you for lifting me up I love you sir!

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❤️

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Thank you Jesus, have Your way in me 🙌

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🙌🙌🙌

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I’m giving my life to Jesus

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We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Kendra - Team LC

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Love starts where feelings end 🙌 - Ps Mike that was a word!!!

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♥️

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What a powerful message!!! I receive this in Jesus name

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God is with us no matter where we are. We are not alone. Such a great reminder.

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Amen!

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I giving my life to you Jesus

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We’re so excited for you, Eda! ♥️ Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/ytsalvation. We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Chelsea - Team LC

[@rociovega2018]

Have been loving this series. Thank you Life Church and Pastor Mike for this. The messages have been really speaking to me in the area of my marriage and not quitting in the pit. So thankful for being able to hear you all the way from Miami, FL. Blessings to all ❤️

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So glad you're here! God bless you!

[@modelingmotherhood]

Great message. Really opened my eyes to some things and thoughts I struggled with in the past and currently. Thank you !

[@simonmugo1940]

I am going through a tough time when we are getting laid off to work and this sermon came in handy. damn I am ripping off the list as i stay in the season.

[@life.church]

So glad, Simon, that you’re here! Thx for sharing with us. Lord, please continue to comfort and guide Simon. May he keep seeking You. In Jesus name, Amen. We’re praying that God will be with you in the job difficulties you’re currently facing. If you’re looking for wisdom or encouragement, you can find both here: finds.life.church/tag/work/ Keli - Team LC “Whoever finds God, finds life!”

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I'm giving my life to Jesus.

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We’re so excited for you, MyPWD Journey! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/ytsalvation. We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Keli - Team LC "Whoever finds God, finds life!"

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His words speak to me every time I hear him speak..

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Hallelujah!! Praise God! Thx ds m for sharing! Keli - Team LC ”Whoever finds God, finds life!”

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Giving my life to God

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We’re so excited for you, Alex Navarro! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/ytsalvation. We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Keli - Team LC “Whoever finds God, finds life!”

[@DynastiJ]

God Bless you! I needed this

[@tansukoksi5623]

This message was for me, I'll not quit in the pit 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Amen

[@MariaSantos-gx5fk]

Irrespective of your relationship statues,try be the best woman you can be both financial and otherwise.... I am 42 years old single mum living in California I'm hoping to retire at 50 if things keep going well for me. Bought my first house last month and I can't be more proud than I am right now. I am so glad I made good decisions about my finances that changed me forever.

[@life.church]

Amen, Congratulations on your new home! May the Lord continue to walk by you and bless you! God Bless you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team

[@TheDesmoMan2012]

Thank you Pastor Todd!!✝️

[@elie1888]

Have a good day God’s love you

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Been absolutely blessed....God bless you dearly

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Amen. Thank You God. Amen

[@naledijani1322]

I surrender my life to you Lord

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Thank you God

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I’m giving my life for Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Neon Guts! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - Team LC

[@hannahmomodu9035]

This message is for me. I am so blessed by it, because I am in a season where I don't understand why things happened the way they did but Thank God that He always uses His children to encourage one another. Thank you God for this message.

[@JMKrech]

Great message Pastor Mike!

[@prayersgono3518]

Amen. Thank you. My prayer has been answered.

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Touch of heaven

[@flowerwht]

A great word, Amen 🙏

[@naturalcc3367]

Lord thank you for allowing me to run across this message 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 and continue to bless your messenger greatly🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

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❤️❤️❤️👍🏾

[@sandrabailey2433]

Thank you for this message 🙏🙏🙏 I needed this

[@jessicamccloud4532]

Amen! I needed this sermon today! Thank you God!

[@billmanassas7746]

"Love starts where feelings end." Wow!

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I am giving my life to Jesus

[@shaziaemanuel8495]

Love and Blessings from Huddersfield UK 🇬🇧

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🙏

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I love you Pastor Mike 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Dait1402]

God is with me I love this word 😍😍😍😍

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great message. thank you

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Loved this series

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Great message. Thank you Pastor Michael.

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Pastor Mike you are the best!!

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Praise God!! Great word!!

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🙌

[@susanflakes6968]

This is the greatest encouragement! Blessings!

[@life.church]

Amen!! Praise God! Thank you, Susan, for sharing that!! Keli ~ Team LC “Whoever finds God, finds life!”

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God bless you pastor Mike. Praise the LORD.