3 Reasons You Need to Move Out of Your Parents House NOW

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Are you needing a couple of good reasons to get out of your parents house? If so, watch this video and let us know if it was just the nudge you needed!

[@thomascollinsworth7202]

#3 is HUGE! Times flies and it’s just too easy to justify all that free time as personal growth, but the only real personal growth comes from responsibility and challenge. Even worse, habits become stronger with age. Get out as soon as you can. The start will be rough, but it’ll get easier with time.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Couldn’t agree more!

[@deafeye]

I’m 23 now and trying to move out in the next year or two. Your video about the 12 steps moving out really helped me

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

That’s awesome! That’s what we love to hear 👏🏼 Which part of that video helped you out the most do you think?

[@deafeye]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck the amount of money you need to move out, the hidden expenses and the tips you have to get there smoothly all helped me.. also downloaded the steps so I can remember it and go back to it!

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@deafeye yes, that’s awesome! You’re gonna do great at this living on your own thing. We’re excited for you!

[@deafeye]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck 🙏 appreciate you guys educating us!!💪🧠😎

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@deafeye awe shucks 🤗

[@kanamekiyru]

Today is finally moving day. Things aren't perfect how i dreamed but everything lined up smoothly for me. Watched tons of these videos

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Omg how exciting! How was it?!? Tell us!

[@AntiMasonic93]

Living at home will cause emotional and psychological damage. Moving out early will prevent all that. Also, living at home will delay adulthood. Trust me, you do not want to delay adulthood.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

100% 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@danielmarburger9364]

I agree with you.

[@marktheshark2569]

What??? That’s ridiculous I’m 21, 22 in less than a month and have no damage to speak of. My relationship with my mom is amazing. I have financial goals I want to hit before I move out, I’m doing decent financially (better than a lot of 21 year olds probably but decent).

[@jpain97_]

@@marktheshark2569 It starts at 24 lol

[@patrickstogsdill74]

@@marktheshark2569 your not too to live at home yet it's when your my age 29 almost 30 you will feel it

[@bitTorrenter]

Everyone's situation is different. I would take this advice with a pinch of salt.

[@brithanycuate4443]

I’m 21 , and I cannot wait to move out.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

It’s the best thing, ever. 👏🏼

[@obitouchiha6439]

I moved out at 18 and learned how to budget and manage time. Was it the more difficult route, yes, absolutely, but I decided for myself that I would much rather not be controlled by my super religious conservative parents during all of my 20s. There comes a time in every young adult's life when they need to decide what's a priority for them, Freedom at the cost of an easy, comfortable life or an easy, comfortable life at the cost of freedom. It was a very humbling experience and now I'm 30, living my best life.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

100% agree with you! Sadly, too many people are scared to make that decision to take the possibly harder route, but learn valuable life skills/lessons along the way.

[@obitouchiha6439]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck I think a lot of this generation of young adults want all the perks/benefits of being an adult, but none of the responsibilities.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@obitouchiha6439 Yup! Fortunately though there are still people out there that want to do the work to get what they want, but sometimes they just need a little motivation to get started!

[@EwigesSharingan]

Religion is good. Religion means love. Maybe your Parents do not get the image of religion. Its doing tasks with passion

[@EwigesSharingan]

Moving out is great. Its a better feeling.

[@arbitrarylib]

It's been a long long road, but by the grace and mercy of God I am moving out this summer.

[@desireewashington4398]

I’m 22 & I move out for the 2nd time in a week but this time all on my own :) very excited and proud after looking for 3 months!

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Yay! Congratulations!!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@desireewashington4398]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck thanks! It was a blessing in disguise 🙏🏾

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@desireewashington4398 gotta love those!

[@bluemoon8886]

im 24, i just got my job November 2021, i haven't moved out because im scared that my current savings aint enough to move out. i help pay the bills at home. i really dont want that if i get stuck or maybe a calamity happens, I'd move back with my parent's house. I've been bingewatching your vids to create my plan. fingers crossed that i could move out this year.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

You got this! If you watch our videos and create a solid plan, there should be absolutely zero reason why you would fail. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask us! Were here to help!

[@Icybubba]

I'm 20 and the discussion of me moving out has very much increased, probably going to move out in the next few months here, got a roommate in my friend lined up, good video

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

You won’t regret it!

[@russiantroubleyakutsk1612]

Coming from someone who didn’t move out till their 27th birthday - Don’t do it! Your life is too short. When your 18-23 in college full time it’s not so bad since you mostly can’t afford it at the moment, but after that your missing out on your life. Had things been different, I would miss the benefits of living at home - having a big down payment for a house.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

We agree, you’re missing out on some important years of your life if you stay at home too long! Unfortunately, most people aren’t saving up large sums of money when they’re staying at the parents for longer periods of time. They’re buying things they don’t necessarily need, traveling, and other things.

[@russiantroubleyakutsk1612]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck I have a friend who is 26 I think and still lives at home. His parents want to move to another state, except they are looking for a house that has a basement for him to live in 😂 I did have a relative though that “moved out” at 19 in college because his rich parents rented an apartment for him. What a cheat!

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@russiantroubleyakutsk1612 haha! Oh man! Total cheat! It’s ok, I moved out at 18 for my mom and my sisters to have to move in with me at 20 🙃

[@jugginfn3122]

I just turned 21 and I can’t wait to get tf out!!!!

[@gelatoruntz4200]

i think everyone’s situation is different i’m blessed that my stepdad & my moms gave me my own place in my stepdads parents paid off house (he died in 2021) & (his moms died in 2023) they built that apartment/house in 2016 when i was 15 & i share it with my grandmother & my grandmother rarely does anything i have my own kitchen, dining, living room, & been sharing a bedroom with my grandmother since i was 10 i’m blessed

[@Taylor_5724]

I'm 18, tryna move out because my parents control every finy aspect of my life because "My house, my rules"

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

We think moving out at 18 is the greatest thing you can do! It helps force you to figure out Adulting and can help set you up for accomplishing your goals faster in life.

[@kimberlyscherer3493]

I am 25 I live in an apartment unit that parents own. I am currently planing to move out of the country. I am currently butting heads with my parents about my future

[@gilliantapper7854]

Thanks for making this video and your advice. You tell the message in a way that is effective however the mic is kind of low

[@sameetsingh]

Suprised you guys have less than 100k subs with this great content, keep it up! 🔥🔥

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Haha, hopefully we will get there one day! Share us with your friends and help us out! Thanks for the support! 🤗

[@willisjacksoniv9745]

Some good points! I’m 28 next month. I haven’t moved out yet. I left for the Marines at 23 (2016). Got out early due to a leg injury in 2020. I stayed home because I was already in school and to focus on that as well as improving my physical and mental health. I just got my BA in December, just got a Decent Public Sector job to do while getting my MBA. -I want to move out so My dog can roam freely lol My dad is actually great about giving me space. *I really decided to move out after listening to the Ranger show and he discussed things you discussed: how much growth and learning is done when living on your own. Thanks again for the content!

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Get after it! 👏🏼👏🏼

[@r.c.6940]

that intro alone should motivate any young person to move out, especially if they are making decent money

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Right?! People are so scared of making that jump and moving out these days, it’s wild.

[@TIFA2450]

I'm 27 and live with my parents, not because I want but because I can't afford to live alone, I live in a 3rd world country in Latin America, average salary is about 300 I earn about 700 after tax, but rent in a decent place is about 400 plus 400 to 500 of living expenses, so even if I find a roommate I would not be able to live with my wage

[@Moghaddam_alireza]

I can relate to you bro.

[@Fullrusher]

I'm 28 going 29 in a few months and because of life situation I was forced to stay living with my parents I thought ... Now that I'm thinking of it I should of did it earlier cause it would of made things easier for my parents and for my self mentally cause all they do now is argue and my sister doesn't make it any better , most my friends have started doing more grown up stuff and now here with nothing to show for it , not even a large stack of money

[@suzannep7395]

It's a problem when a parent is enabling a 25 year old still act like a 14 year old gamer. I'm having this situation with my fiancé and we fight about this from the last son and here we go again.

[@MrRubyElf]

I hate to say it but after a divorce and health problems I'm still with my parents being 33. Trying to get a better job so I can move out though. Thanks for the video though. I need to remind myself what freedom I'll have when moving out.

[@patrickstogsdill74]

I turn 30 Sunday and pretty independent for the most part I just need to save enough money consistently and rent by myself or buy a house and property I do split rent with my family and pay for am expensive payment but I once I have the money I feel ready to leave the nest

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@patrick, do it! It’s time!

[@realtruth1448]

Major key to moving out: $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

[@sahilpadhiyar3125]

Thank you so much, brothers

[@tadbiscuit2042]

18, potential full time solar electrician job at 19/hr, not sure if I'll get it yet. The biggest problem for me is the food, since I eat keto and it's much more expensive than the usual mass produced crap everyone else eats.

[@williamjohnston580]

Moved out at 18, Although i still live with my parents seasonally to help with the busy months on the farm. Keep in mind everyone's situation is different, if you are taking on noteworthy responsibilities to provide for your family it is not the same things. These guys assume you will be doing degenerate activities so why do those at your parents house? That makes sense if you think about it like a tool. As long as your actions are not degenerate and you are providing for others it does not matter where you rest your head to sleep.

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

for me its the privacy , i cant bring women tot eh house at 30 years old, im currently planning on moving out in the next month of so hopefully

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Privacy is a super good reason to move out!

[@quizzlerprofessor]

This is the best advice and best channelever to gtfo from house

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Glad you’re finding the content helpful! We try and keep everything straight to the point without any fluff. Ain’t no body got time to beat around the bush!

[@oshiondagreat2306]

Sadly the onlyvreason why im living at home is to help my parents who are both financially and physically incapable of living on thier own. 😢

[@ethan-sq6zv]

I want to move, I must learn the way

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

We got an entire move out playlist to help you out!

[@rogermartinez9943]

I’m 23 & I just moved out!

[@christinab.2864]

What’s honestly worse having a 60 year old man (Dave Ramsey) telling you to move out or two 30 somethings that aren’t that much older than I am tell you to move out. The message is the clear and the same

[@gilliantapper7854]

This video gives me such a wake up call

[@davisfox2170]

Damn I needed this

[@FunnyGA1ex]

Fun fact: Ray Romano(Star from Everybody Loves Raymond) lived with his folks till he was 29.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Everybody's home life is different. We get that. Some people NEED to get out of their parent's house... while others can ride it out for years and save up money... and some can't move out because they have to live at home to help pay the bills and take care of younger siblings. But if I had a CHOICE -there's absolutely no way I'd live at home till I was 29. And I had a great relationship with my parents. -Alex

[@Chance8888]

I moving out Nov 5th after moving back with them for 2years.

[@thelightofthejedi9811]

its tough finding good work during the pandemic though. can you do a video on how to get jobs during this time?

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Yeah, the pandemic has made it harder to get a job. But on the otherside of the coin, there are a lot more jobs available right now than ever. We recently released a video on interviewing tips and tricks which was geared toward high schoolers, but it’s a good video for everyone looking for a job. Start applying! So many places are hiring. We will look into that video topic request for you!

[@ladysparkle6784]

You need to move out so your parents can save for retirement or they might be moving in with you one day.

[@kelseymccullough8699]

I'm trying to move out at 19

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

You got this! If you need some help, make sure you check out our GTFO Course! It’s great and has all the stuff you need in one place. www.adultfinancialskills.com/the-gtfo-plan

[@lissiexx2286]

Me and gf are saving up she’s 19 & I’m 23 goal is this December

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

You guys got this! 👏🏼

[@lissiexx2286]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck thank you 🙏🏼

[@SelfImprovement1111]

I got tired of my mum and my life and want to be able to go out and do shit. I’m 20 and moving out next week and half. Shit well atleast I’m at college so I can fail to be adult there for a while.

[@patrickstogsdill74]

I have no curfew though I pretty get to go and come as I please I just want more space is all and want a better look

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

It’s great to have your own space for sure.

[@alexburrowsrox]

I'm 24 trying for almost a year to move out but having no luck getting approved somewhere. Do you guys have any advice on how to get approved when you have only your parents as rental references (yes I do pay rent with them)? but I haven't anywhere else.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Have you started building your credit? We actually have a masterclass on June 16th on how to create an official move out plan. It’s free to register! You should totally attend. www.adultfinancialskills.com/masterclass

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Also- did your parents write up a rental agreement from the time you started paying rent to them? You might look into that… it could definitely help you establish some rental history.

[@alexburrowsrox]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck no they didn't but I'm sure they could thank you for the suggestions :)

[@dcabral00]

I hear what you are saying, but you can't really tell someone to move out from their parent's house when that person can't afford it.

[@08superbee]

I’m 18 and I hate it where I am I’ve been saving im at 6k now

[@nancysmith9633]

What about us parents? Some of us sacrificed for years to pay for our kids college education/ living expenses etc. We hoped that if we did this that our adult children would be able to support themselves. How long are parents expected to provide for their adult children? I know mom and dad’s house is comfortable and easy, but it’s time to take care of yourself! Of course if there’s a special need, us parents will be there for you, but to just move back into your parents house to make your life easier is just not fair!

[@randomcomment262]

It’s not that simple parents think once you reach a certain age you should just know what to do automatically it’s easy for the parents to tell their kids to move out when they live comfortably in their home and have a stable career it’s not as easy to get a job and make money like it used to be when you were younger this is a different generation money isn’t just growing on trees I think parents should be more considerable and understanding

[@wgudestruction9979]

I'm moving out for the first time in 9 months I'm 18 rn I'll be 19 then

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

That’s awesome! 👏🏼👏🏼

[@alyssaboo895]

I need help, how can I move out, I’m 20 years old with a 3 year old. My sis and I want to move out together but the only problem is I have no body to watch my son while I work, can’t find any remote jobs. Every plan I have I’m stuck because I have no idea what to do with my son. I can’t afford a babysitter or daycare. Has anyone moved out in a situation like this?

[@JL-fo9rz]

If a guy don't care about dating or marriage, because of high risk of divorce and paying child support, then why should a man worry about moving out? Also, you can rent apartments right after an eviction.

[@jamessilverthorn-hudson6822]

Thanks for the tip

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Happy to help 💁🏻‍♂️

[@kachekijaanlega]

you guys have no idea how hard it is when you're living in a vhcol area and the minimum wage is far below the wage needed to get by.

[@eddiethealbatross5734]

I'm 24 trapped in california trying to move out.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

California is expensive to live for sure. Why are you trapped!!?

[@jamesflowers1822]

I’m 19 and don’t know where I’m going to go

[@geraldwilson1504]

I am 50 years old and I have never moved from my parents|. I served in the Navy and Army National Guard. I currently work foe the federal government. What do you suggest? ..

[@raresabraleaks8216]

I mean why bother at this point

[@SelfImprovement1111]

My dad is almost 60 and still lives with his mum. He has huge regrets and destroyed the whole family. He currently hates his mum and wants to kill her because she now gotten to old. He’s so sick and tired because he’s been told what to do his whole life because that’s what parents do lol I’m only 20 but I understand the importance of moving better than anyone. I’m moving out next week. Scary but I have to because I want to live and breath without my mhm watching me and what I’m doing. I want to do what I want whenever the fuck I want to. Your 50 now mate, I don’t want to sound harsh but your parents don’t have long on earth. It will probably be better to move out and get use to not having them around. Of course you might to help them to the end but that’s what my dad anyways and he purchased the house 50/50 with his mum and that’s because He wanted to secure her but he regrets. Seems to be a lot regrets with this sort of thing. Hope it goes well.

[@gilliantapper7854]

Hi I live with my parents and they have three male maids that work and the house and there always cleaning and there's no privacy. definitely have to make a move.

[@AlexAnderson-hu9lp]

Yeah but houses hard are to get and fjb

[@flobba123]

Move out? Sure when im 36.

[@TylerVogel]

Yeah if I could actually afford it. Thanks to the economy and all the extra bullshit moving out isn't happening. I did give it a try though but the roommates I moved in with weren't a very good match sadly.

[@unisangalaxystudio]

I don't know if I can move out, again California plus no opportunity for me (*not a god like nurse or scientist like 83% of the people now) I have no friends nor nothing, I had a online friend who move out...yea finding a house or apartments are extremely expensive he went homeless and off himself, so yea... well guess it depends where you live and who you know

[@geraldwilson1504]

I am 50 years old I have never moved from my parents|. I served in the Navy and Army National Guard. I currently work foe the federal government. What do you suggest? ..

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Oh! Well, at this point I guess it’s probably best you just stay there and help your parents out.

[@kaayli2907]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck LMFAOOOOOO NO FR 50 years old???

[@draganmilutinovic3390]

And mony

[@mamabearcake9542]

Can you help me get my stepson to move out.....stop tormenting my 7 year old scaring my cats and watching nasty shows not getting job say mean things to everyone etc

[@mervismutambo357]

I'm lazy I can't manage😢

[@jessyprince681]

I'M A 50 YR OLD CHILD.......

[@TheMeanGirlz]

Yes zaddy. 👩🏿

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

🤣

[@TheMeanGirlz]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck 👩🏿👩🏿👩🏿

[@WendyMoreno-xl8iq]

Wendy

[@jonathan6480]

I have a few question for you guys. Is there an email I can send them to?

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Yes absolutely! [e-mail]

[@TOOBUSY-yq9mm]

😂😂 very funny

[@thunderbirdsharrypotterfan]

Me & my best friend Nawar will be living by ourselves soon. We can't wait, we're excited, and scared. I still need a job, my friend has a job of delivering noodles for $100, would that be enough? I'm 18 & Nawar is 17

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Noodles for $100?! Dang! I bet they’re good noodles. Lol. But you’ll want to look around for where you’re thinking of moving. Check out out “move out” playlist and get a plan created for you and your buddy!

[@charttyrae2294]

I'm 22 and I have started my music career, I don't get time to practise anything on music because of house chores. Cooking , helping mama with her job all day long. What should I do since you guys said it wrong from the start of the video

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

And what did we say wrong?

[@charttyrae2294]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck you guys said leaving your parent house with the reason of being intasgrame famous or doing music is wrong. Please guys help me with a strong advice cos I don't wanna regret later. I really wanna build my future.

[@haoujudai]

@@charttyrae2294 You need to learn practical skillsets and put your music career to the side. Learn a trade that can get you decent job, move out, CONTINUE doing that job, and focus on your music career when you have time on the side.

[@charttyrae2294]

@@haoujudai thank you so much. Much love

[@SelfImprovement1111]

Move out so you don’t have to mama chores then. That’s what I’m doing next week ish lol I’m a big boy now and I don’t want to have to deal with all these rules of what I can and can’t do. My mum is super perfectionist narcissistic person. She’s ok one minute but off the next for doing a task wrong or not following a routine. I personally don’t have the energy to deal with it plus I’m off to college so yay. 20 years old by the way. Why don’t you move to LA because the only that matters in the music industry is connection and the way you carry yourself. The music itself is arguable when considering fame nowadays. There’s lots of artist I don’t music from but their swag and social media is what allows them to be musicians even when it sounds terrible.

[@karenv3494]

Move out bc mom farts too much lol😂

[@Bambledamble]

I don't see why someone paying off their family house is a bad thing. The military wants you to pay off someone else's house or live with them so what difference does it make when your helping them out. Technically your talking about not paying rent and petty matters. Otherwise all those things you mention are trivial as if you don't have freedom from annoyances.

[@Bambledamble]

Probably the reason why there's a huge inequality gap is subsidized military inflation.

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Uh, wut. . .

[@GAMEBEATER6000]

I’m 20 years old going for my L’s license at the end of this month. Would I necessarily need a license to move? I mean I imagine it would be easier than getting a taxi so 😂🤣

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Haha, it would make it easier but it’s not required. I (Phillip) didn’t have my license when I moved out at first. Took me like 2 months to get my license once I moved out! Didn’t really make the process any harder.

[@EdgarLopez-zn8gz]

3.5 subscribers 🤯

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

3.5 K! You know, Lopez. 😏

[@coolbian513]

give me money and il live on fucking mars

[@KateAtNight]

I fell flat on my face. Heeelllpp

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Oh no! What happened?!

[@kennethbest5351]

What if you move out and they want to move in with you

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

Hahaha, I mean this is actually a problem I had. Unfortunately, if your parents are in need of the help, you might have to consider it. However, at least for me, it was better because it was MY house, not my mothers. So she had to listen to my rules lol. Might not be the same situation for you, but that’s how it played out for me.

[@kennethbest5351]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck that's the problem I have they make good money drive to and from work good health I enjoy my Independence my freedom what to do

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@kennethbest5351 if they’re making money and can survive without you, you just gotta say goodbye. It’s kinda like one of those awkward breakups, but it’ll get better after a short amount of time. Just assure to them that you’ll still come around regularly and stuff.

[@kennethbest5351]

@@AdultingShouldntSuck thanks for the advice it's be stressing me out I will have a talk with my parents

[@AdultingShouldntSuck]

@@kennethbest5351 you got this! Just be open with them and tell them why you feel you need to do it!

[@princealmighty5391]

I'm self taught school is a waste of time lol

[@jerrym5708]

Stealing their white claws lmao