3 Reasons Your Kid Won't Follow Directions

[@RitaReeB]

I came back to comment because I was skeptical that the advice you gave in the video would work. I definitely thought I was already giving clear directions, but I was actually making statements. Over the last week, I’ve been giving clear, timestamped directions in a firm voice and it’s been effective at least 95% of the time. Thank you!

[@toddlerscanread]

Way to go! Thanks for coming back to share. I'm proud of both of you.

[@brookelynnpaige7828]

That firm voice is key!

[@Mt4evr]

Lol I thought I was giving directions, but turns put I've been asking questions 🙃

[@NovasYouTubeName]

So glad he showed examples and we can be more self aware! ❤

[@tegancannon3329]

His voice is so easy to listen to. So calming. Brilliant advice thank you !

[@togetheralways333]

I use to be so embarrassed to take my kids to the park because i knew when i said “it’s time to go” they would complain or get loud and cry. For the past couple of years when we arrive at the park, I remind them and say. “Okay, when I say 5 more minutes! it means its almost time to go. And it’s works so well. They even come back to me and say 4 more minutes 3,2,1 and no crying or complaining. It works!! It took a few times of doing this until they got it. So don’t give up. Just keep doing it.

[@howtokhadijah]

I have an almost 3 year old son and I’ve been using this advice for the past 2 days, and I’m so happy to say that it’s extremely effective!!! This is what I’ve been looking for, I knew that my son wasn’t just “bad” he just needs the right guidance from me. I’m sharing this with everyone. Thank you so much.

[@reevagupta2584]

Truth is - no kid or parent is bad! Just our dealing with persons / person & situations is not at par ..we just need to change the way…that’s all ..

[@KennethByers-w2j]

I’m 70, a Gma, I wish my Parents had cared enough to direct me this throughly. I’m watching and have forwarded these to my daughter who is home schooling a 7 yr. old. You had me at “don’t tell the kid he’s smart, he must learn to read and think, It’s a process we all had to go thru.

[@amaragrace94]

For leaving the park, I give a pre-talk. We will be here for 1 hour. Then I tell them 30 > 15 > 10 > 5 > 1 min left. Give them one last chance to go down the slide and then it's time to go. Hold their hand and redirect them to getting enthusiastic about the next activity, usually lunch or snack time. Also, actively play with them if there's no other kids their age. Now for vegetables, I believe it's important to have them try a little of everything. They don't have to finish it. If you left it up to them, you'd have kids that just refuse to eat vegetables all together. I know several grown men like this. Sometimes it helps to go back to the drawing board on how a vegetable is cooked/presented. Seasoned and roasted is often tastier than boiled or even steamed. And sometimes you can "hide" pureed veggies in other dishes, especially ones with sauces. Get creative.

[@irenejennings3747]

Exactly. You are completely doing the right thing. Good mumma. Wish more were like you.

[@glolisa1995]

I LOVE THIS! Thats how my mom handled food and all 5 of her kids would try anything! Also i love your advice on the park!

[@anabarajas3984]

This is also what I do, pre talks always work for every situation. I got my kid into kindergarten without crying and happy to enter the classroom with no hesitation, the teacher told us he had a great time and also he was ready to go to school next day and the following. It works with the park, with whichever games he's into, even with watching tv we set times and let him know whenever something is ''the last chance, the last piece, or the last whatever''. They understand and stop acting against directions.

[@lovejoy_23]

I get good results with my children this way too. My eldest already has an internal clock to the 10 & 5 min marks. There are a few times I forgot to set my watch and he would ask if they still had 5 mins left or walked over to me ready to leave since the time was up… and I’m the one who forgot or got into a conversation with another parent. Giving them directions on what to expect and what comes next definitely makes transitions easier and avoids a fight or tantrums. I also sauté vegetables with seasoning and just enough water to get them tender to a texture they’ll like. My grandmother cooked vegetables with nearly every meal and introduced me to many varieties. I love them and make sure to introduce my babies to many varieties as well. They eat broccoli, asparagus, spinach, cabbage, eggplant, chayote, and many others.

[@brandywagers9573]

I have a 3 bite rule in my house. An I try again every 3 weeks. I actually get them to eat a pretty good array of foods this way.

[@katerinabykova444]

Excellent video!! We had a brilliant part-time nanny for one of my kids for a time and she taught me a fantastic tip. Give them heads up: we have 5 minutes then we will... . When times comes tell them it's time to ... And then count them off: I'm going to count to 3 and you will get into the car/put shoes on/ go brush your teeth. Then you count loudly and slowly. I don't know what magic happens but kids start moving and doing and usually get whatever it is done by 2. If they get to 3 (that's so extremely rate that I only remember it happening twice) you say - you lose. :) at which point they scramble to finish even faster. Of course when they finish before the count is out - you have to say WELL DONE! i don't know how but this works. The main trick is to keep it positive! It's a fun drill, there's nothing impressive about it and there's never a punishment. It's a little hurry up magic tip.

[@drealomeli1020]

Thanks for sharing

[@plantsb4pants978]

I don’t have any kids and im not a teacher but i still want to learn these things because i think its important to know this stuff. Sometimes i am put in charge of children and i have no idea how to get them to do stuff they aren’t interested in. Don’t want the lids to learn that im the pushover adult that lets them do whatever. Thanks for your tips! They are very helpful!

[@fatpinup]

1. For moving from a preferred activity to a less preferred one I give a 2 minute warning. 2. In my videos you can see my barely 2 year old sounding out "cat". He previously did it independently & surprised us so we've continued doing it with mastered letters!

[@ShellyNoelly]

I've decided that part of your effectiveness with kids is your bright engaging eyes. Great Vid! I got this tip from one of your shorts - make both decisions result in the outcome you want - thank you!

[@TheEdimarie14]

I just want to thank you for these videos. When I was a 1st time mom I had no one to helped so I reached out to parent classes books and even when I was breast feeding I joined support groups to learn. I am a person who doesn't want to follow how I was raised which was a very bad abusive emotional and physical childhood. Do I try my best for my kids. I always feel "what can I do better, what am I doing wrong" so learning more is so helpful especially in Non judgement areas. I've been told "oh your kids are spoiled you should spank" nope I don't believe in that nor do I yell. I teach them to express and use words so I can raise children that know to communicate. So watching your teaching videos are so helpful I thank you!!!

[@brettbishop2461]

This is the one YT channel I turned app notifications on for. Some of the best advice for modern day parents!

[@sandramason4672]

Well done, yet again!! It is never too late to start giving clear directions and children will respond, although they may try to get you to be more flexible, stand your ground. I believe getting anyone to follow your directions begins with your mind set. If you have the attitude that you expect your directions to be listened to and followed they usually are. The sooner you establish who is in charge the better and it makes for a more positive relationship with your children. You don't need to be mean, just firm.

[@Orange4theWin]

I got the shit beat out of me a few times and then I’d learn whatever my parents wanted me to learn. So doing it a different way feels like I’m walking around blind. So grateful to have this lesson here. I’ll try on the playground tomorrow! 😅

[@bbroogs]

Good job breaking that cycle!

[@nicolemerritt7051]

Right here with you!

[@Orange4theWin]

Omg this works!! 😮😮😮 the key thing I keep forgetting is getting to eye level and touching my tiny toddragon. When I do that, it works like magic! Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

[@deliaceraphina]

😂😢😂

[@unclejay6342]

😂😅😅😂😂😂

[@lidiiabelousova3964]

Thank you! More examples of “how and what to do”, please. I feel one is not enough. There are different situations that require different words.

[@liant5802]

I agree! I hope more is shared

[@lexisotelo8010]

I am the scared parent sometimes, who makes suggestions. Thank you for your wonderful videos! I appreciate them. One thing I have realized (for my child at least) is that I need to clearly state when the answer is "no" to a question she asks. I think I was trying to let her down gently, or kinda give a nuanced explanation, and it actually confuses her more. A clear, kind, "no" has actually been easier for her to understand, and then we can move on in the conversation to discuss something she can do/have instead.

[@melissadeguire2565]

I have 5 kids and often teach other children. You know another tip that gets their attention every time and helps them want to obey? SING your instructions. Works EVERY time.

[@glolisa1995]

I just started doing this with my one year old! Kids learn something like 400% faster when something is sung!

[@Jeanelle.Mishkina]

That's me I'm like a song bird lol to the point they sometimes are like OK Mom STOP singing lol but the Joy of the Lord just gets me. ❤

[@blackcoffee2002]

My son is almost 2 and I do how when I start singing he will stop and usually look at me and listen lol

[@guidedarrows7078]

True it works

[@Finishicing]

Wow!! Mind blown! I just realized why my 2 teenagers don’t “listen” very well. Because I’m just giving statements 😮 definitely will start giving clear directions now. Thank you!

[@JanAquaSun]

Had to come back to say I definitely tried this; questions vs statements, and I see a big difference in my girls. They are still defiant sometimes but way less than in the past and getting better everyday. This was really good advice.

[@jankiecaanan6020]

Totally agree with making a statement, giving clear instructions or directions.Anytime u ask questions ,you put them in charge which they're not going to do what is needed. And when they take charge of your life when they get older u wonder where you went wrong. Children need guidance that's y they were placed in our care. Also parents, stop making excuses for your kids when they embarrass u in public. Follow these guidelines to save your face.

[@MapleLeafHomeschool]

I just did what another person said. I took my kids outside & realized I wasn’t telling them it’s time to come inside.. i was asking them. So tonight i was very firm & direct with them & they noticed I was serious. I wasn’t asking. And they followed directions. Also with bedtime. My daughter always asks for 5 minutes on my bed. 5 mins pass & she asks for 5 more or just 2 more. So she never takes me serious because I wasn’t telling her.. i was asking her. Tonight I made sure she knew i was telling her. Worked wonders! Thanks for this!!

[@Cherokee.Sunrise44]

While I disagree with the "finish your broccoli" statement, Dude you need to go on a Nationwide Campaign spreading these truths to parents everywhere.❤

[@StBrigidsTempleHEALING]

Second video with you @ToddlersCanRead -- yes, there is a flow or rhythm to the direction; execution requires clarity on the part of who is asking. Like an extension of the confidence that kids ask for things, except with us, we include the fork-in-the-road Question at the end of what we're stating. And it needs to be streamlined to fly as intended. Thanks again for sharing the wisdom and love.

[@Amanda_78]

Do I have kids? No. Am I paying attention to this advice like I have 10 kids? Absolutely 😂😅

[@samanthacharlton4123]

Same!

[@hopefulfilled9519]

Lol

[@wannabee525]

Same!! Almost pulled out a paper

[@delle3955]

@@wannabee525😂😂😂

[@Amanda_78]

@@wannabee525 soo funny! 😂

[@learningasigo-tr8kg]

I just want to say thank you so much for being so specific! This is extremely helpful!

[@ebonywiley500]

U are such a blessing. You make this so easy. Love how u break it down and make it clear. Having clear directions is what I need for my autistic son. I am somewhat all over the place. So thank you. Will be practing this tip. We got this. Thanks for your help.

[@e.garcia6797]

Thanks for the examples. I didn’t know what clear directions meant. I’ll try that.

[@TheAlexaJacks]

Thank you so much, this advice was a game changer to me as a babysitter.

[@christademarco5602]

I'm starting as a special ed ta this week. Definitely using this

[@ZebaNaqvi]

When mine was a toddler, bed time used to be a struggle. I didn't get to watch my mother dealing with any young ones or other women. I would say phrases like time to go to sleep etc. after we were in bed, with lights off. One day as usual I was imploring her go to sleep, close your eyes but none worked. Then I said, 'put your head down on the pillow'. That worked! 😅 And worked consistently every night. 'Go to sleep ' was probably too subjective. 'Close your eyes' could be done while standing at the window sill in the dark. 'Put your head on the pillow' takes you a step closer to falling asleep. And is a clear direction. And it worked for an already tired child! It felt like i made a discovery that night lol

[@RoxyKatGlass]

Thanks! My son is in a “hold on” phase, I hope this helps me 👍🏼🙏🏼

[@Ascensionshealingtarot333]

😂😂😂 "Hold on mom" "You got about 12.5 seconds to change that hold on into a yes ma'am"

[@iameli_j]

Haha yeeeea so is my almost 4 year old daughter! Like “ok hold on I’m just doing something right now…” I give her a second and then I remind her of what she has been gently instructed to do :) she used to try to milk it but I simply explained she was being disrespectful and explained what disrespect is and so on… we live by God’s Word so she quickly reconsidered her poor decisions 🙌🏽

[@miimonalisa]

Lol my son will be three next month and he always says give me one second Momma or one second Dad

[@Mt4evr]

​@@iameli_j do you mind sharing how you explain respect to your child? I try, but I'm not sure I am properly conveying the concept

[@iameli_j]

@@Mt4evr that’s fair and just remember everyone is different:) In my case, I explain how I feel to her. If her disrespect made me sad or a little angry, etc. Disrespect is when a boundary or line is crossed. I am here adult. I am responsible for her. I am the authority figure. Mommy and daddy are the leaders. There is a time for the child to be the leader, but right now is not that time. Something along those lines may work. Or perhaps role reversal/role play. That is fun most times! I even incorporate these lessons and experiences in story time. We are a very honest family, so keeping it real works best for us. I hope this helps! If not, pray about it :) Father has ALL the answers!

[@danijatt9579]

Hi can u make a video on defiant children and what strategies we can use as parents.

[@AdultSupervision.]

You're so awesome. I can't wait to implement this. Thank you!!

[@PBandJ_Naivi]

Thank you for all the tips, sometimes we need reminders of how to correctly interact with kids. ❤

[@jackofmosttrades9127]

😂 When I was 19, I learned how to receive directions at Marine Corps boot camp. In grammatical context, I believe it’s called the imperative mood?

[@irenejennings3747]

It is. Commands start with a verb. "Open your books to page 12." etc. Advertisers use it every day.

[@AnaMaria-k3z]

Thank you for your advice. 😀

[@gotglint.]

You're a good teacher, this is exactly the way to go. I've been giving directions ever since I first heard about it a few years ago, and let me tell you, it works (like mostly) 😅 There will be days when my kids are but nah, I don't want to, I'll explain them why it has to be and what the (actual !!!!) consequences are when they don't do it. at the latest it works out then. Like for example: If you don't wear a jacket you're probably gonna get cold. The bonus is, my kids know I am reliable. I hope this stays that way for a long long time ☺ I can't wait for puberty when probably everything will go downhill 🤣

[@drealomeli1020]

😂 it’s my fear as well 😢

[@thomaswiegand7348]

Totally agree--excellent advice

[@lisafeck1537]

I have to admit, I did not even think to myself, my grandson and I have these problems, maybe Ia doing 1 of these things described. Even by 5:48, I still didn't think I was in any of the categories you mentioned, it took me that long to think, duh, maybe you need to AT LEAST observe yourself to see what I MAY BE DOING to cause confusion. I do think I confuse him!!! AT LEAST OBSERVE OURSELVES, THE LEAST WE CAN DO!. Very least!

[@Kintsugi_Souls33]

Thank you for your contact I will practice this with my kids starting tomorrow🕊️❤️☀️

[@DefiningDiane]

This is great, how do I stop yelling tho 🤣🤣🤣

[@British_Cocoa]

😂

[@Leslie_Becerra]

🤣🤣🤣

[@JStyne]

That part

[@saraquenzer9057]

True story …. Ugh

[@InterwebUser-ps7ju]

lol self control really. My mom was a yeller and I became one. I now try to have self control when I hear my voice go up and I have to remind myself that my kids are not deaf lol

[@ashleykindheartministries]

Thankyou for this video! Can you please suggest what to do when a child disobeys directions?

[@ashleykindheartministries]

You would think I would know this by now, after having eight children. Nope, I still have problems with my strongest willed little ones.

[@poison_jivey4138]

Shared this video with my brother cause he's a question asker with his kid. So thank you! What do you do when the direction is ignored? Any good disciplinary tips once that bridge is crossed?

[@preciousviolet2813]

I'm grateful for videos, I sent them to my son and daughter in-laws . Blessings on your success ❤

[@toddlerscanread]

Thanks for sharing, appreciate the support!

[@eg8419]

Great Channel! I hope young parents tune into this. Thank You.

[@yespibi491]

It works! I applied in Spanish language to an almost 4 years kid old. It only has not working in just one specific case.

[@julietsargeant8471]

You are so on point.

[@KatrineJoy]

Thank you so much for this video.

[@lovetruth1776]

You're so right. Thanks man

[@JosetteBadger]

Thank you!!!

[@michellegilbert-duntin7084]

Thank you, agree

[@lisashirtz7224]

Thank yyou.

[@471lynnette]

This is Awesome! Thank you

[@NovasYouTubeName]

Awesome, awesome video! Thanks so much!!

[@TheImproversPath]

Thank you for this, exactly what I needed to learn! Question, how does this work when you are trying to get your kid to stop doing something you don't want them to do, rather than directing them to do something you do? Looking forward to learning more from you ✌️

[@Mt4evr]

Emma Hubbard has a video for this but it's been awhile, and I don't remember the title. She says that instead of simply telling them to not do something, tell them what to do. For instance, if they are throwing their food at dinner, say something like, "leave your food in your plate, unless you are taking a bite. Food is for eating." I hope this helps. Not sure if this is quite what you are looking for or not 😅

[@krymsonshenk6050]

Great help, thanks for the video

[@zeecunny8188]

"2 minutes and we are leaving" "Times up I am leaving, let's go!" my ducklings will follow.

[@phlexcichlids9249]

This is great!!!! Please make more videos like this.

[@babyblue8820]

Great video!

[@silencemoyo5680]

you are so smart😊❤

[@rhyannonp8231]

I hear you on what you are saying, suggestion sounds very close to bargaining ...or could end up bargaining/begging

[@gabbyg213]

I needed this. Thank you!

[@sabiduriadespierta9261]

I'll try and see how it goes

[@christinaw4490]

This is great! Thank you for sharing! I saw a clip of you using sound cards/blending, do you have a suggestion on a product? I have a young toddler I would like to get started with teaching how to read but there are so many products out there. Thank you in advance! ❤

[@ParkourRhett]

Back in the 90s, my mom used the Chancleta strategy" to get me to listen. And guess what, I did. 😂 still a mommas boy too, haha

[@MiriamForehand-xg6ib]

I am a “chancla” survivor 🤣

[@ParkourRhett]

@@MiriamForehand-xg6ib hahahaha, ¡dios te bendiga!

[@cookingwithzahra459]

Good job dear friend Stay blessed and keep sharing ♥️🥰💚😍 Many love and success

[@kpepperl319]

I'm still working on being a parent... I have a tod and now a newborn 🤦‍♀️. I always catch myself asking questions... Then i have to rephrase my commands.

[@shadegarden7375]

Excellent!!

[@shamimmawemuko9677]

Watching from Uganda..Thanks 👍 man

[@AbdullaHernandez]

Wow this was awesome, this guy really gets it.

[@PedroSilva-us2ew]

Super good video, love the way you teach bro, never stop! I know im off topic, but i just wanted to know, what kind of microphone did you use to record this? The audio its amazing! Thank you!

[@British_Cocoa]

Those dinosaurs crack me up 😂😂

[@kevinjena42012]

Thanks for this video

[@iameli_j]

5:22 lololols literally! Kiddos looking at me like “mmmk…” then take off running It’s been a journey indeed!

[@patriciamoseleysc7777]

You are AMAZING!!!

[@destandoesit]

Insightful bruh, this one was a blessing ✨✨🙏🏼

[@BridgingRealms444]

I love this guy so much, thank you!! I’m definitely more a statement parent.

[@maemae2494]

I don't ask. "Alright lets go" they follow now they may say mommy we not ready to go, however they are getting their butts in the car I dont do fits😂🤨

[@samanthacharlton4123]

If they don't listen, or they pitch a fit, how do you handle that? What makes them feel compelled to listen to you? Asking because I spend time watching my nieces and nephew and 2 of them don't listen.

[@hashithamadawala6814]

I will try this today. But im sure this should work.

[@jacobbaker4545]

My 4 year old told me "I aint going no where MAMAAAAAA" as he was going down the slide. lol. Im gonna try this ASAP

[@JustaCuriousity]

“Jay, its time to go.” I do that all the time! Now im gonna say it out clear. Thank you.

[@saraquenzer9057]

Makes sense

[@jackstone4291]

This guys just great !

[@Maxlem35]

Super vidéo 👍🏼 les enfants fonctionnent pareil dans le monde entier.

[@ur1trzr]

This is so good!!

[@jvolkova1]

Relevant for age of kid too. Younger need more time to process the fact that they need to go home in 10/5/1 minute. Vs older kids can process, pick one last thing you want to do and we are leaving or we are living soon let’s go lol

[@CinemaAny]

😢 thank you

[@curtin1977]

my toddlers used to follow directions because I was really good at getting them to do what they had to do Do you have advice for teenagers though? Because they don't listen to me at all now that they are grown up hahahaha it is a constant battle, they are way worse than toddlers

[@Tubieemama]

curious does this apply to kids on the spectrum as well?

[@toyfighter651]

👍

[@adelsondearaujo2265]

This is the best parenting video ever! Could be improved with more examples, btw...

[@meditationMakesMeCranky]

Does this work at all ages?

[@theawesomeone1844]

Why is telling your kid to finish their broccoli inappropriate? Honnest question.

[@bjrnerikjuel1459]

Seconding this question. Getting used to eating well, varied, and what is served is "important" I think. Is it not worthy of direction, then? If not, why? A suggestion in our home typically leads to, "hmm, no, I'd rather have ice cream".

[@destinya5627]

It’s not.

[@iMurderGamez]

Because you’re being demanding when you need to understand even though they are kids they are human and they may not like broccoli and have preferences, how would you like to be told to eat something you don’t like? It’s all about learning your child and giving them options to try other things they might enjoy. Also not only does it sound demanding and forceful but that’s not going to give you any results because you’re asking them to do something you know you’re going to fail simply because you do not understand your child.

[@Ronni31]

I think that trying to force kids to finish their food often leads to worse eating habits or even eating disorders. I was told that whatever was on my plate I had to finish. Which leads to a grown up who’s conditioned to clean the plate, even when full. Don’t want to be wasteful. Instead gain weight, feel uncomfortable, and lessen the (totally unnecessary) guilt for leaving food on the plate 🫤 I always encouraged my now adult son to at least try everything. But damn he was the pickiest eater and no amount of threats would make him eat something he didn’t want. He didn’t like ground beef, nothing white, most veggies, no lettuce. He was still healthy. It all worked out as he grew up. he moved out on his own and had roommates of a different culture and was eager to do new things. Now he eats more types of food than even I like.

[@Mt4evr]

​@@Ronni31 I'm so glad that worked out with your son! I too was raised to clear my plate, it has made it extremely difficult for me to stop eating when I am full. I was struggling to finish one time, and my husband said, "you know you don't have to eat all the food, right?" It was like a light bulb moment haha. I no longer feel guilty for leaving food on my plate, but it's still hard to stop eating. My husband and make sure our kids try everything, but if they don't like it, they don't have to eat it. I think when kids are a little older, maybe it's ok to teach them that sometimes we do eat food that we don't like, but seems unnecessary to try that with a toddler

[@happinesswatts]

Well. I have a 10-month-old. Puppy disobeying me on a daily basis. I need help, please.

[@kokomel23]

Is it too late to try this on my 15 year old? 😩

[@hopalmorrgen3206]

Dwl...for a 15 year old if I saw let's go and they fuss, I would just leave them at the play ground 😂 with busfare.

[@kokomel23]

@@hopalmorrgen3206 😂😂😂😂

[@__UNKNOWN_______]

Back in Asia my mother would slap me and drag me through the dirt to take me home. And guess what next time she says time to go home I go home. 😂 no questions asked no suggestions made, I love her she loves me.

[@Yomommasboyfriendson]

Yeah sounds about right 9 in 10 kids report CA in some Asian counties 😂😂😂

[@__UNKNOWN_______]

@@Yomommasboyfriendson there is no reporting CA no such concept 🤣 its the culture it’s heritage. Respecting elders is its cornerstone.

[@__UNKNOWN_______]

@@Yomommasboyfriendson on the contrary 9/10 kids are well behaved and well mannered. They remember the shoes sandals and belts which they ate in childhood.

[@cloudy7235]

​@@Yomommasboyfriendsonraising respectful adults who understand boundaries and consequences is not CA. It's actually good parenting

[@pamelalima5401]

Same happens in any other country but USA

[@SarahatTheParmFarm]

This is good. I could do without the curse word though. First time I’ve heard you use one.

[@deniserosete3374]

Some kids need a heads up that it's time to go. So what I say in 5 mins we are going so go play those 5 mins.

[@hannahskeewell]

Hello, I did all of this when my child was younger but what about when they listened before and now they are 10 years old and say no =(

[@glolisa1995]

Your parenting has to grow with them. Be consistent and change the consequences to be appropriate for them. My husband’s parents knew that the worst consequences for him was being grounded because he was a social child where as with me i was a loner so that wouldn’t work with me i just got a spanking and with my brother he got video games taken away. My 10 year old nephew also does best when screens are taken away until he does what he was told.

[@luxewithtiffany]

I really need help with feeding my child he won’t eat, please refer to a video that may help

[@kailzl1211]

Have you tried making protein smoothies?? Thats what I had to do for 1 of my toddlers

[@lindagarris7861]

Eventually they will eat. Please don't push food. I was nice and thin. Dr told parents to give me milk shake and I became overweight. Give them healthy food and eventually they eat. Don't substitute junk food

[@kailzl1211]

Made them super yummy, peanut butter and jelly(dates) tasting, chocolate cherry, etc. They all (4 kids) enjoyed drinking them and I didn't have to worry about fruit veggies or protein intake

[@indiat.7242]

Do not listen to people who say eventually your child will eat! You never should do the wait and see approach there are so many good pages on Instagram with great tips! The mini me dietitian she’s great! And then explore early intervention as well it’s free for all kids 3 and under maybe even older than 3 depending on where you live ☺️☺️ my child went through this and I trusted my gut instead of listening to people say one day he will eat, now he has a waaay better relationship with food! You got this mama💖💖

[@kameronanessa]

I've found my boys eat more when they help me cook or they pick a recipe from YT to cook. I think they like being involved in the process.

[@HereWeGoAgain4753]

I love your videos and your tips! But I have to disagree on one small point - Why is telling them to finish their broccoli not appropriate ? Eating veggies matters. Nutrition and food matter too. If you can be direct in some situations where it matters what’s the harm in telling them directly to eat foods that are good for them instead of leaving them the option to say no? (Rhetorical question )

[@johnharvey5412]

Because you don't want kids to develop a resentment toward food.