3 Signs That A Female Dancer Might Be Romantically Interested In You

[@infostudy101]

I think it is fairly straightforward. Women who are interested establish a lot of eye contact, flirt and want to chat with *you*. Next filter is to arrange coffee. If they decline then move on. If nothing happens at coffee then move on. Women are extremely good at making it clear at some point. Rejection is possible and okay!

[@jakub.kubicek]

This

[@DanceWithRasa]

That is true 👍

[@DanceWithRasa]

😉.

[@neilmoomey]

I always assume no because everyone is always so friendly when dancing. She would pretty much have to kiss me on the lips for me to figure it out. I actually had that happen once right in front of everyone. I was shocked!

[@DanceWithRasa]

@neilmoomey ok that's a step too far 🤣

[@comando1629]

ohh wow, lucky guy!

[@adorablebelle]

I married my salsa mate!

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@adorablebelle that's amazing 👏

[@pachinkothemachine612]

Hi Rasa. I would say that the most important aspect in order to make sure you are not stepping out of line nor "wasting effort" on someone who's not interested, is to really look at the person in front of you. If someone is interested they will make sure to throw multiple signs at you and they will give you many chances, so there's no need to rush or force anything. Besides, flirting without rushing can be a really fun experience once it's clear that both people are interested 😇

[@DanceWithRasa]

@pachinkothemachine612 absolutely, agree with that 👏

[@juanpecan7089]

feel like this was really a subtle rizz guide for follows! I'm clueless about signals and nervous at socials, and even I would pick up on these signs lol.

[@DanceWithRasa]

That's why I made this video, hoping it might help at least a bit 😇.

[@comando1629]

This topic is such a wonderful idea, first video I see that talks about it in the salsa scene! well done,

[@DanceWithRasa]

@comando1629 thank you, I'm glad you found it useful 😊

[@zeropain9319]

Nice tips, I think these apply outside the dance floor in any social situation.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@zeropain9319 yeah I think they do 😉

[@nvieira74]

Hi Rasa, yes this is a topic that's very sensitive - to be fair I've been dancing for years and always struggle quite a lot to understand where there is genuine interest or not. From my experience lots of girls intentionally flirt without having any interest purely because sometimes there aren't enough leads and they want another dance or because they believe if they lead the guy on then he will make a extra effort and the dance will be better. Maybe we men do the same, really can't judge. but it does make it a minefield.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@nvieira74 I think that is really not good when people lead people on...agreed ! Makes it difficult for others to really find somebody 😕

[@giocanni3590]

You are spot on: in my 20 years experience dancing, I have seen this happening very frequently.

[@herculeeza]

What an interesting topic, wish this video existed 5 years ago when I first started dancing. So from my limited experience: Massively agree with the points especially point 3, but I would say it's also better to be clear about your interest, that doesn't mean going in too strong, but be clear, because some women/followers are shy and won't make it obvious, better to be clear and if she's not interested move on. One extra tip try and have a conversation before and/or after the dance to see if there is a vibe

[@DanceWithRasa]

@herculeeza absolutely true 👍

[@thediamondpropertyservices5265]

Thank you Rasa great Video and subject :D I will see you on a dance floor ;-)

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@thediamondpropertyservices5265 definitely 😇

[@victoriawong893]

I had a bad experience about this. Some guys that I met at classes and social dance events would not take no for an answer and kept on asking me out. Eventually, I had to ban them and was even scared to go to certain classes and events knowing that they might be there. I ended up not dancing for a long time which made me sad. Now I'm slowly going back and hoping the guys realise NO MEANS NO😤!

[@DanceWithRasa]

That is so true ! No means no ! Sorry for having this uncomfortable experience 😕

[@MrCharrrles]

As a man just be attractive and you'll be fine

[@DanceWithRasa]

@MrCharrrles not everyone that lucky 🤣

[@jameselder3476]

The best guys, like your friend, won’t act on these ‘sometimes, maybe, if, possiblies’ because they have been told for years they’re not wanted, and to leave ladies alone.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@jameselder3476 Yes, which is such a shame 🥲.

[@jakub.kubicek]

That's not true at all. Socially aware men WILL act on these, and socially aware men are the BEST guys, not the nice guys you talk about.

[@jameselder3476]

@@jakub.kubicek No-one mentioned nice guys, only you. Unfortunately the guys who haven’t been filtered out by the ‘me too’ movement do tend to be the well-practiced serial approachers.

[@juanpecan7089]

@@jakub.kubicek dude isnt here to make sense, just to grind axes

[@victoriawong893]

I think unfortunately it is very true. Feels like the good girls and good boys are hard to meet since they both been told to not initiate, leaving the bad boys space to do their tricks.

[@abcd-wg2iq]

I allways try to get to know somebody. If there is something in common and i like them, want them and have genuine interest and attraction then i will go and make a move, without even thinking about it. It just feels good. And if a woman has interest she will enjoy it all and want to have more of something she likes, just like me. Anything else is unnatural. What stupid signs or whatever, its not some special ops decyphering puzzle. Super easy and super simple. For me its hard to want a body that has a mind im not in love with.

[@DanceWithRasa]

All fair enough, you'd be surprised how many people actually struggle with it 😉.

[@dadada486]

It's kind of super obvious 😂... The biggest one is if she wants to dance with you even though you are rubbish or the last dance was rubbish 😅 Dunno if it's a good or bad thing if you get this 🤣

[@DanceWithRasa]

@dadada486 🤣🤣🤣right ? That's definitely a give away 🤣🤣🤣

[@boogiemusicusa]

I really like her, hahahah.

[@DanceWithRasa]

Thanks 😉

[@boogiemusicusa]

Hey Rasa, I just wanted to let you know that I recently started taking Salsa and Bachata lessons in Regensburg, Germany. It's really challenging, but I'm having a lot of fun. I can't believe that someone my age can still move like this! I've learned a lot from watching your videos. You're officially invited to all of the cookouts, by the way. Right now, I don't have a permanent dance partner, just some people from the class. I can't believe that someone my age can still move like this! Your style of teaching, guidance, and, most of all, your sense of humor. Please, don't stop what you are doing. 🌹

[@DanceWithRasa]

@boogiemusicusa I'm so pleased to hear that 😇. And remember, it's never too late to start dancing 😉.

[@evertondod]

Thanks for the tips x

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@evertondod 😉👍👍👍

[@gogokizomba6903]

I can agree it can be confusing but in reality girls like guys more than guys realise, it's just guys are obvious and visual often. After my exp, 3 steps make the difference 1# dnt tell anyone, dnt talk about her/him( me personally dnt talk anything personal on the dance floor and thats what I tell ppl, especially men lately for some reason. 2# take things off the dance floor, if ppl ask tell them politely, that's my business ❤ 3# make the move, 80% of guys have a girl that like them, they just dnt make the move, make the move 💯

[@DanceWithRasa]

@gogokizomba6903 exactly, what's the worse that could happen, she says no .

[@gogokizomba6903]

There is a caveat, when ladies play hard to get, it's 2024. I understand the possibilities of why, but games attract game players. It 2024, men don't mind making effort, usually the better rewards come after you know eachother. But there has to be a mutual respect.and input ( Romantically speaking ) when ppl play games they don't respect eachother, that's why either men dnt ask or don't take it seriously.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@gogokizomba6903 I hate playing games, honesty best policy 😉

[@gogokizomba6903]

If we are honest I don't know when you do a video like this again, Heating, water or electricity problems in home are often fixed by a simple switch or turn of the wrench 🔧. But If you don't know where, is bigger problem than is. Where I see problem is the path of Romance,Seduction or sensual are not the same. Romance = less Sex , more adventure having fun non sexualise way, serenading like 1940-50s America movies 🎬 Seduction = more sex, physical connection, escalation and mood setting. It's different parts of the brain 🧠 Ppl try to do both, both work when in couple but try to do both at beginning is what leads to the mess we have, it is a mess wright now. What makes men not desire the Romance path ( effort and investment)is putting more work than someone else for same or sometimes less rewards from a male perspecrive. For some Men it is a disrespect. Disrespect won't be returned with respect. For others it's self value or self-respect. Others it's reputation, no man want to be the guy that other has girl other guys just bang, it 💯 ego possibly but its reality and unlikely to change. Sad truth is you have to forget, IF, is a big IF, but if you want it to have a chance Romantically. Focus on eachother and this will likely but not certainly, lead you both away from the dance like before if successful unless Teaching. The decision if its worth it only Time will tell. I can't speak for women but I would say ultimately Sacrafices and decision would have to be made, if is worth it Time can only tell. 🐘 in the room is most don't want to waste time in case they are wrong, so play it safe. Hope you do more vids like this as I honestly believe it will help make Social Dance scene a better place.

[@MusicAndParkour]

When first starting, as a guy without experience, you notice that from time to time, there appears a girl who dances so crazy close to you that she would wake you up even if you were in a comma. Automatically, the first thought I would have is that she is flirting and she´s trying to seduce me. However, after some time I am aware that usually that is not the case as some don´t seem interested in a conversation outside of the dance. So one theory I have for this is that they see how I keep my professional poker face while dancing and they are trying to break it by making me blush.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@MusicAndParkour that's true, if after the intimate dance they don't want to chat definitely leave that one alone 🤣

[@MusicAndParkour]

@@DanceWithRasa Yes, I am there to dance, not to chat 😂

[@anthonyorafferty5632]

Well that made it clear .... not 🤣Seems after years of dancing you get used to close contact with the opposite sex. it's a bit of a jump (pardon the pun) to actually date. I asked a girl on check-out at Tesco the other day 😂which was fun.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@anthonyorafferty5632 how did that go ? 😅

[@anthonyorafferty5632]

@@DanceWithRasa She is Greek. i'd never been asked "Do you have a Club Card" like it !😂Think she liked some attention just. So truth i didn't straight ask her I opened up a line of questions 'What you up to?' style to show interests. It was a nice interaction. She slipped in 'her partner' which took the heat out of the pan. Nice ones do that. I had a woman in the group at Salsa offered me her number a couple of times which I didn't except & she said "I hope you get Aids" & walked off. So I don't dance with her now. You got to take the rough with the smooth & dodge the bullets both men & women.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@anthonyorafferty5632 anybody who says that definitely has smth wrong with them 🙄

[@askmartinez6409]

Great video. There is a line sometimes were dancers are “used” for their dancing skill. But if they attempt to escalate beyond that point they are shut down. But in such situations are they to reduce dancing with that person?

[@madesteve1]

True...... I feel that no, if you enjoy dancing with them. But if you don't enjoy their dances then spread out as it avoids offending and/or maintains your self respect. I believe anyone can respectfully refuse multiple dance requests by saying thanks, but I really want to get as much dance variety as I can. Anyone having a problem with that statement should be avoided.

[@DanceWithRasa]

Not at all, if there is respect you can definitely keep dancing with them 😉.

[@DanceWithRasa]

It's all about using good judgement. If somebody's uncomfortable ofcourse no need to dance, but if both are OK and respectful then no issues 😉

[@shutting88]

It's a harsh reality when you're analyzing if a girl is into you while other guys might be dating her or sleeping with her easily.

[@DanceWithRasa]

Some guys need a bit more confidence. Hopefully, this video can give them some 😉.

[@jakub.kubicek]

From a man's perspective, the first sign you describe - shadowing and following the guy you like - it often feels kind of creepy and uncomfortable, just the same if the guys asks you to dance over and over or follows you around.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@jakub.kubicek everything can be creepy or not, if you like them back it's not creepy and if you don't creepy. But it's definitely a sign 😅

[@jakub.kubicek]

@@DanceWithRasa it is a sign haha ;)

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@jakub.kubicek 🤣🤣🤣

[@juratepetrikauskiene9908]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@juratepetrikauskiene9908 😇😇😇

[@charlottep.4843]

Good points!

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@charlottep.4843 😉😉😉

[@bluesbulletin]

Easy. We're probably not. That's why we're dancers. 😅

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@bluesbulletin 😅😅😅

[@ghost46857]

Don't, just don't. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. The Risk/Benefit equation is way negative.

[@DanceWithRasa]

@@ghost46857 😅😅