3 Simple Steps Guaranteed to Help You Find Your Love of Fashion Again! (Fashion Over 40)

[@lynnsaunders2053]

Loved this! Last week I dressed up more than my “usual” to go grocery shopping. At the checkout the man in front of me ( he was in his 40s) turned around to tell me how nice I looked! I’m 74, so that compliment made my day…so yes, trying to step out of your normal is definitely with it!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Lynn! Thanks for sharing! xo

[@susanlagow9329]

Erin, you have no idea hiw much you touched me this morning. Last night after a family member as much as laughed at the way I dressed, I was feeling especially bad. But this morning here is your video. I have to tell you I was in tears. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have no idea how much you touched me. I will dress as I like and who cares what those in sweatpants think.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Susan! I'm so glad that this one resonated so deeply with you! Go dress up...ignite that spark...you deserve it! xo

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

Hi I once was doing a very very stylish lady s hair . She was speaking to my boss about an upcoming wedding my boss was goin to . My boss was saying she felt her outfit was too dressy..... The lady said remember one thing.... Never ever feel over dressed, just feel sorry for those who are underdressed. I've always lived my life with this in my head . Xxx 💕😘

[@kcbigbandjazz]

Yes, I see too many "not quite dressed" people in public. Fuzzy slippers, outside ,on a snowy day? Really, people?!!

[@layercakearts]

Yesss! This is where thrifting & second hand really shines… unique one of a kinds, very affordable style risks, very little psychological attachment, and endless inspiration. And… occasional holy grail designer finds!

[@elizaduckie7110]

What brought pleasure in my clothes back to me was wearing dresses. The way they swish around my legs felt feminine and wonderful. A dress takes less effort, and looks better. Trying to pair up all those separate pieces is tiring. My best look has never been pants. Maxi dresses are it for me, as I’ve never had great legs. I’m 74 and I’ve really enjoying building my wardrobe with them over the past few years. I took advantage of their popularity because I knew the popular hem length would change. I will not be changing the lengths of my dresses. Tea length and ankle length have always been a favorite and nowadays one can wear whatever length one wishes. I’m fortunate to follow the sun and avoid winter so I can wear prints and colors that make me happy. Yes, I’m the dressiest (fully accessorized) person at the doctors office, the dentist office and even at Physical Therapist. 💖 I don’t care one whit! When I was much younger, and had young children, people would ask me if I worked (outside the home) just because of the way I dressed. If I felt good when I left the house it helped my entire day! And still does. I paste a smile on my face even when I’m not feeling particularly good. I may hurt in places, and some body parts don’t work as well as they used to, but I can still feel as good as possible about myself. Keep up the good work!! Push women to enjoy being women, and wear fun clothes! Right now I’m also wearing some hefty knee braces, but under my dresses they are not as noticeable. I don’t mind if people see them, but they just aren’t esthetically pleasing. 😁 The canes that are necessary are bright and colorful too. They might as well be fun to look at if nothing else!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love this, Eliza! Glad you find dresses that bring you joy everyday! xo

[@logo9470]

@eliza duckie Love this comment! I also need to wear a brace and use a cane. I have been feeling down and dumpy because of them, but you have inspired me to step it up! Sending you ❤️ and gratitude from NY

[@kcbigbandjazz]

What a great, inspiring attitude!

[@janetsplanet2947]

You and your daughter look very glamorous!! What a great mom, altering your beautiful red dress to suit your daughter. Now that’s love!❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much! It was really fun! So glad we did it! xo

[@milicaradil7711]

❤️great video Erin! Thanks.. you’re very inspiring 🥰 I got tired of going no where ..so over the last year I have purchased many new “pieces” of fabulous clothing that I love …so everyday I dress up as if I had a special place to be ..it makes me feel great and more productive ..and yes people look at me and ask ..oh where you going? My answer ..to the laundry room🤣 I really no longer care what other people think, at 63 I will be my best self for myself ❤️ thanks for the positive content 🇨🇦

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Milica! You crack me up, but in all seriousness...so glad you dress to impress yourself! xo

[@sandrab6808]

Wow! I just realized that I already have a few pieces in my wardrobe that I love but am too shy to wear. You just inspired me to dare wearing them out! So fun, thank you 🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay…that’s perfect! You already have the pieces…time to start thinking about how to wear them! xo

[@janettebolin2991]

You’ve inspired me to get a tulle skirt or dress for my 60th birthday party next month! Thank you!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! I'm so glad, Janette! Happy early birthday! Please send us a photo! xo

[@TheGreyBrunette]

I just HAD to comment on your comment because I LOVE it so much!!! I hope you did get that tulle skirt, Janette! Oh, and HAPPY 60th birthday!

[@Watsurq12]

Oh Erin, I feel that I just found a long lost kindred spirit! I too agreed that we don’t need a special moment to dress up. I can put magic in my life by dressing the way I want daily and I do! This video gives me life! Thank you for being so inspiring. 💗

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet! Glad this one resonated with you! xo

[@patdougherty4957]

Inspiring, Erin! This spirit and magic was how I lived before I met my ex. Thanks for the reminders! I’m going to the opera with my daughter in a great dress and this year for my birthday I’m going to hire a photographer to do vanity shots for me and my girlfriends. Here’s to the butterfly effect!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! I love that! Sounds like an amazing plan! So glad you are making yourself a priority…you will be surprised how great you feel once that spark gets reignited! xo

[@pageremick4187]

Erin.... you are right about your daughter remembering the opera. 50 years later I STILL remember going to the opera in Vienna with my parents when we lived in Europe. The glitter, the lights, the music, the dresses of the beautiful women were memorable! Good for you! Also, we do need to get past the idea that we are not worthy. We may need to save the money for the suite, but will we have the time of our life and feel special and inspired? YES! We need to treat ourselves more. We need to treat ourselves better! We need to plan for our OWN special events so that we have memories to warm us and that sprinkle that magic into our everyday lives. Proud of you! I know that you have just given hundreds of women permission to elevate their own vision of themselves: priceless!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much, Page! What a very special memory!! Thanks so much for sharing! Xo

[@romana.in.wonderland]

oh, how nice! I live in Vienna and visit the Opera approximately every other month ... and I promise you it is still pure magic!

[@charliepango5249]

I wore my gown to a doctor’s appointment with sneakers. I had lots fun and lots of complements

[@yeghinenazarian9878]

Just loved everything you said. Some one told me long time ago if you buy the dress the occasion will present itself.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So true, Yeghine! xo

[@trishatroyner4612]

I was just asking myself last week "when did I start dulling down ME?!" This is right on point for me! Thank you for sharing 😘

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! Glad it was helpful, Trisha! xo

[@amritasingh6644]

Exactly! For me, it was kids.

[@rachelanderson5325]

Great question and why do we do that to ourselves? Shine your light!

[@karathomas5746]

I love to hear your stories of how clothing/style and emotion connect. You are so inspiring! People don’t realize how important it is to put your “best foot forward “ with your clothing and the way you present yourself, it really changes everything around you. How you feel, how people perceive you, and how your entire day goes. Wonderful advise, Erin!

[@BusbeeStyle]

So true, Kara! Glad this one resonated with you! xo

[@almagarcia1168]

Yes!! Sometimes I feel not worthy of using certain clothes or handbags I have. It’s good to know that I deserved it . Thank you !

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO worthy! xo

[@sondraros]

I just love love love that you fitted your red dress to your daughter. It brought tears to my eyes. She was over the moon and what a wonderful message of worthiness she got. Wow.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Sondra! It was a wonderful moment. Seeing her joy was SO worth it! xo

[@kateg7298]

What a wonderful memory with your daughter. You're teaching her that anything she envisions can become reality. We lack that so much these days. Brava! P.S. You've inspired me to bring out my fun colorful jewelry instead of just diamond studs and a plain band. Reds and greens and blues make you happy. With a pair of pewter heels I'm all set. I'm sick of practical. Thanks.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You’re SO welcome, Kate! xo

[@georgielynn4187]

This video was a total stroke of genius!! I generally dress with a sense of style most days but I have been longing for something that says "make some magic." By pure chance, I had ordered a top that has a sort of Victorian meets Captain Jack Sparrow look to it. And I have a Victorian inspired skirt with a bustle I bought 11 years go at a steam punk festival. I only wore it that one time. So just now, I went upstairs and paired the two and viola, magic! I'm going to wear that outfit when it gets warmer out while strolling in a public garden doing photography! Thank you so much, Erin, for reminding us all that we can be ourselves and have fun. Let people look! That's the whole point

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! Absolutely love this! Please send us a photo, Georgie! xo

[@soniaspf9705]

Some years ago I saw a ball advertised where you should wear your wedding dress for the evening (that was in the UK I have never seen this in Germany). What a lovely idea the escorts should be dressed accordingly too.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I love that! What a great idea! xo

[@QueenofArgyle2525]

That sounds like Such Fun!

[@nancylorenz5082]

Thank you Erin! I bought a very pretty sequined black cocktail dress and am going to take myself out to dinner on my birthday, April 1st. I am of the mind now, create the event and enjoy. A random Friday or Saturday night dinner, dressed up, for no reason, would be fun. As a 68 year old single woman, I’m no longer going to stay locked in my house alone. Im going to go out and enjoy life! Celebrate! Have fun! Sparkle and shine! I still want a twirly dress! 😁 Thank you again for inspiring me!! 😁❤️😘💃

[@BusbeeStyle]

YES... love hearing this, Nancy! Don't forget to send us a photo! xo

[@RMBlake007]

Nancy...DO It !! I have occasionally dined alone, especially when I was younger, and I have never regretted it. In fact, the conversation and company is most scintillating! :) If we lived near each other...I would dine alone with you! ;) Happy Birthday in advance and don't let the April Fools Day get you.

[@crissolmontiel]

Yes! life is too short, wear the dress, go to dinner etc

[@lisaclarkreinventingjadesc1973]

I loved you in the Flowy Gown! I adore the Black pant suit, as well! You're AWE-INSPIRING! I'm going to make small strides in finding my dress or suit to make ME HAPPY! I'm going to start by VISUALIZING it. Elizabeth, looked STUNNING! She really had a lot of fun! I love your energy!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so sweet! Thank you! You got this…send us a photo! xo

[@EveningTV]

That is so funny about your regrets about your wedding dress. When I got married the second time not only did we have two weddings (alone with the kids in Vegas 11-11-11 and then a year later we had a real wedding with my husband's family in Hawaii on his parent's 50th anniversary), but between them I wore a total of 4 dresses, and a special trousseau to wear for everything all weekend!! All but one vintage dress were actually pretty reasonable, so I didn't go completely nuts, but it was a lot of fun to spoil myself (and I spoiled him and others too) and I'm so glad I handled it that way because of course, life got real again all too soon.

[@BusbeeStyle]

How fun! xo

[@marilyncoburn4936]

This is why I love cruising. I get to dress up every night if I want to. My friend once told me when I was in my forties to wear the fancy dresses now because after fifty you won’t look as good. I kind of agree with this but you can still look great if you keep at it. Love this video. You are definitely talking to those that love clothes.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Don't stop dressing up as you get older...it is even more important to dress up and feel special as we age! Nobody wants to feel invisible just because they turn 50! Luckily age perceptions are starting to change! Cruising is great for that very reason...lots of opportunities to dress up! xo

[@kellycook4347]

Yeah, I'm almost 50. I totally feel that. I always remember that I'll never be as "young" as I am right now. So, I don't complain. Without money, it's harder to age and not look silly dressed up. Luckily, I have personality and look better in a tshirt an jeans.

[@lynncoleman8509]

Sorry but life doesn’t end at 50 and being stylish and beautiful doesn’t either. Some of the most beautiful women I know are way over 50. Just look at Dame Helen Mirren for inspiration

[@glammiecullivan6747]

Thank you for that magical video. I smile at every picture of you in those beautiful dresses and loved hearing their story. Your video came at such an important time for me. Money was tight for decades in my own marriage. I can give it away to my children and grandchildren but feel guilty spending money on myself. I was married at 20 and had a modest wedding that my parents could barely afford. This summer is our 50th anniversary and I was very hesitant to host a celebration. We've traveled to 39 countries since retiring and I call it "education" to justify the expense. Thanks to you I realize I want and am worthy to celebrate with a renewal ceremony, a dinner reception at a country club and a fabulous dress. I'll send you pictures! Gracias!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're SO welcome, Glammie! Sounds AMAZING! Please send us photos! You deserve it! xo

[@reneels5351]

I am trying to wear one of my dresses each week - even though I don’t have any occasion. I wore it to the dr the other day and got a compliment. It just made me feel good.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yes…love that, Rene! xo

[@nataliek3717]

I strongly agree that those of us 40+ (mid-fifties here!) Should bring the magic into our wardrobes!! I believe in doing this more daily!! Not a beautiful dress once for photo's!! But, for me it's gorgeous leather handbags, shoes and fabrics every day in our daily lives!! Bring in the magic daily!! Every day is special!! We're alive!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Natalie! xo

[@Sunnyclearing]

I usually never wear dresses because I’m not comfortable with it. It’s due to my trauma. I don’t like other people comment my looks but I still want to wear beautiful clothes. So last summer I bought couple of summer dresses thanks to you Erin! Since then I didn’t really thought about it but those dresses actually made me feel free. I walked on the beach freely and it was not dangerous in any way. No one used the clothes I had on me to put me down or use me in very inappropriate way cause that happen a lot when I was teenager. My own father told me to wear almost no clothes and no underwear and show as much as possible. It’s so sick! It’s difficult to feel beautiful cause for me it means dealing with disgusting comments and I don’t want that at all. I want to look beautiful, feel worthy and strong and be able to be myself. I will not give up! I look forward to seeing more of those types of videos from your amazing channel! 😍🌹

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you for sharing your story with me, Karolina! It is so hard to overcome past trauma...but you deserve to be happy and feel beautiful. I talked a bit about my personal trauma and how I have found freedom from it in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h4Wmmatrn8uBj9U I hope you will watch that video if you have not yet! Sending you a big hug! xo

[@vrgirl-ke9rq]

Erin, this was the kick in the pants that I needed to get out of my funk. I literally just went up to my husband a few days ago asking, “when did I let this happen to me?” Another day of sweat pants and greasy mom bun. That was never me. And it has spilled out into other areas of my day. I now realize I have let the sparkle die in my life. No more! It’s time to reclaim our power. Style is so much more than just clothes. It’s the way we feel about ourselves and how we show up to the rest of the world. Thank you for continually inspiring us to care for ourselves.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You got this! So glad you found this helpful! xo

[@melindaleiva8947]

My goodness Erin! (Happy sigh...)😊 I grew up raised by a single mom with 5 kids and being "worthy" of what I consider "special" things is something I realized I struggle with. I've grown leaps and bounds in this area and hearing you share that you have felt that way too aids in my healing! You verbalized the current path I am on which is finding MY magic for me in MY personal expression. Thank you for being you!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Melinda! You got this! xo

[@NA-zy8yn]

Dressing up makes me very happy. We go for long weekly drives and I dress up every time. I also dress up on weekends to make them special. I have cancer and to be safe we do not go anywhere, no restaurants or malls, everything is ordered online, even groceries. So this is one way to make life more exciting.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So glad you have found a safe way to get out and feel good! Wishing you only the best on your health journey. You got this! Sending you a big hug! xo

[@mirabojanic8875]

This is a wonderful reminder to not give up

[@ewaleahy4520]

Love, love this idea! Yes, life is too short to just wait for special occasion. Thank you for sharing!

[@BusbeeStyle]

So true! Thank you, Ewa! xo

[@christinashannon4053]

I'm put together, whether it's Dr appt, Costco, lunch or dinner out. I, /99% of the time get a compliment on how I'm "working it" puts a smile on my face. I was going to post a picture, but don't see how on this thread. Keep up the good work.

[@kimcarter2293]

This is so true! It’s about investing in ourselves even if that means time to go to the thrift store. I also so get the mentality of unworthiness that comes from growing up without much. I’m happy for you and your journey. I’m on my way to shop and clothe my body in things that make me feel amazing

[@BusbeeStyle]

So true! Thank you! I'm glad you are investing in yourself! xo

[@LynnIPoor]

My friends and family often say, "only you could pull that off". Compliment...probably not, but I love and enjoy wearing unique, fun clothing. Doesn't matter what they think. I'm the one wearing it. Love those dresses!!!

[@shelleyfreeman7749]

I have to say, Erin, this is the best video so far that you’ve done! So practical and so needed! Thank you! Oh and gorgeous lip color on you!! You look radiant! ❤️👗💄💋

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Shelley! So glad you loved it! xo

[@shelleyfreeman7749]

I wish I had the qualifications for the positions you are hiring for as you would be fun to work for! 🤩❤️👏😊

[@BELIZECTD]

Oooh Erin...you spoke to exactly what my soul needs at this very exact moment. I love dressing up and over the years I let it go as the rigors of life (children needs) took center stage. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I do intend to go unless my magic🧡

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! xo

[@MK-hh1vo]

This is the gospel according to Erin! Love this! At my job the "uniform" is tees, jeans and sneakers. A blouse, slacks and shoes may as well be a ball gown! But I'm "dressing it up" regardless! Blouses vs tees, slacks/skirts/dresses vs jeans, shoes vs sneakers, blazers vs hoodies. Now they call me "glamor girl" at the job 😄 but I have to wear my favorites somewhere! Thanks for the validation and support!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that! Don't worry about everyone else...I bet you look fab! xo

[@ramonaearnest4709]

Thanks Erin❣️ Such an important message that needs to be said! It is MAGICAL!! I think you are giving woman such a wonderful gift to feel like Cinderella! As a fashion inspiration you are giving permission to dream big or go home! I think living in Spain has been life changing for you and your followers! I think you have inspired a new trend to value yourself as much as you do others! I love the idea of buying a beautiful dress and hiring a photographer to get pictures in front of beautiful landmarks! Its breathtaking! I see the sparkle in your eyes and what a wonderful gift to experience with your daughter! It reminds me of when I took my first born granddaughter to the Fox theater to see the Nutcracker!! We got dressed up and we had an amazing time! ❣️

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so kind, Ramona! Thanks so much for sharing! xo

[@14MellyJo]

I absolutely love the message you’re sending in this video Erin! Make everyday special. Life is for living and embracing your authentic self 🌟💕

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you! So glad this was inspiring! xo

[@MmB73]

LOVE the idea, Erin. You look absolutely STUNNING. You shared such a beautiful moment with your daughter. ¡Olé!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Maria! So glad I captured our special night! xo

[@susanojohnson6445]

Erin, this is a magical 15mins 😘💕 The outing with your daughter, Outstanding. My mom did it for me... I'm grateful I reciprocated as an adult (Jah rest her soul🙏🏾) Permission is a beautiful thing. Although, I chose to: "Ask for forgiveness" at a few stages in my life... I appreciate you tapping into this very female energy to "Deny" ourselves... Balance in life is important. It should include honestly engaging with that thing that makes us Smile, Giggle & Twirl 🎉🎊

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Susan! Smiling, giggling, and twirling are all good for the soul! xo

[@virginiasnyder1803]

Unleash the Magic!! Yes!! ❤

[@carolharrington4745]

Oh my gosh I needed to hear this! TODAY!! i have been a subscriber for about the past 3 years. Im renovating my home and I mostly wear paint clothes. Today I got ready to head out, shoes on, coat on.. and I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror as I was heading out the door. i was wearing runners and leggings with paint on them. I thought "I can't go out like this"... Golly I looked like a homeless person. and I have beautiful clothes. I have gowns. One I bought in Spain but sadly although I have worn it many times, I don't have a photo of me in it. You have inspired me... Thank you. im hiring a photographer to help me unleash the magic. By the way, I love all your videos. i love the spiritual side of you and the way your share your personal journey.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So glad this one resonated with you, Carol! You got this! xo

[@Ledster-cc1ue]

I’ve been picked on several times for over dressing but it made me happy. I think I will do it more often now even if it’s no where special🙂

[@BusbeeStyle]

Dress for you! You got this! xo

[@kathrynbamber891]

I took your advice today and put on a lovely dress to watch St Patrick's Day parade in Belfast. I couldn't believe the compliments were amazing. It was raining but people kept coming up to me saying I love your dress. It was so good for my confidence. A beautiful green velvet full length dress . It wasn't expensive but what an impact. Most people were wearing what I normally would but today I looked different. Honestly when I first saw the video I didn't think I would do it. I'm so glad I did!

[@kathrynbamber891]

I'd like to send you photos but not sure how to.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You can send it to [e-mail] I can't wait to see it! xo

[@tabaxikhajit4541]

This video brought tears to my eyes. I used to turn heads, but now, in my forties and after gaining 50 lbs due to prolonged illness, I've lost confidence and have gotten into the habit of wearing sack-like clothes to hide behind. I recently started sewing and crocheting my own clothes and accessories, like I did when I was younger, thinner and prettier, but have been insecure about wearing them, because my creations are romantic and whimsical, and would draw attention. I loved most when you said, "It helped me to step into that person that I want to be." I feel more empowered to reveal my personal style and inner beauty.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm so glad that this video resonated with you! Life can sure get us down...but I'm so glad that this video is helpful to empower you in your style journey! Thank you for watching. xo

[@lisabeatty7778]

This video is spot on for me! My daughter and myself were shopping just yesterday and stopped in front of a bridal store window to look at the beautiful gowns and I was thinking I wish I had somewhere to go so I could wear one of those! Your absolutely right in having some magic in your life! Life especially now is very trying for us all! So why not wear the beautiful gown ❤️! Thank you for always inspiring us to be more!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yes…exactly! So glad this one resonated with you, Lisa! xo

[@jenreed4970]

Count me inspired 💕💕💕. Glad I overcame resistance to watching this because “I count on Erin for my basics!!l hahaha. Good for you for being brave and following your bliss 😘

[@BusbeeStyle]

The basics are so important, but sometimes it is fun and inspiring to step out of the everyday box! So glad you watched and enjoyed this one, Jen! xo

[@jocelynbrown20]

Thanks soooo much for sharing this! We all need to hear this!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You’re SO welcome, Jocelyn! xo

[@starmetcalf7005]

Love love love this message!!!❤️

[@gillshoreline]

You read my mind, I dressed every day this week, my husband is traveling, and I work from home, yet I dressed up and took few selfies, make up and all, the funniest or crazy is , I did not leave the house. I sat pretty in my office. A friend stopped by unexpectedly, I saw her look, where are you going,? What is the occasion? Yet did not say or comment , other than Wow! That was a pick me up for me. I love your video and message, yes, let’s get dolled up and feel amazing with outfits that makes us feel pretty 😍😍😍

[@BusbeeStyle]

I love that!! xo

[@amritasingh6644]

Completely! The other night we ended up going to dinner last minute. My little guy was wearing a suit because we just filmed an origami audition, my husband was also in a suit as he met us from work, my daughter needed to change anyways, so we picked a dress, and I also picked something nice as I was not going to wear sweats to a restaurant. We got so many compliments on how nice the family looked; it felt so good! (On a side note, I believe going to an Indian wedding will very much fulfill your magical desires. And if you aren't invited to any, just hop on over and we can have fun in my closet and then take pictures at the Detroit Insitute of Arts for no reason!).

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Amrita! I hope to have the chance to attend one...I hear they are magical! xo

[@georgiapeach7727]

I love this suggestion!! My 80th birthday is soon and I have planned a party where I’ll dance the night away with my two grandsons. My big reveal will be a tattoo. I have begged and threatened my grandchildren not to get one of those “nasty” things but no one has listened to me so I will just get one also. Along with my beautiful ball gown (thanks to Erin) this should be a night to remember for everyone!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

How wonderful! Happy early birthday! xo

[@dorotapreiss4130]

Erin your sense of style is amazingly beautiful! Always feel so much happier after watching your videos Blessings 🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much, Dorota! xo

[@conniecrawford1403]

Hi Erin When I lived in California I took a line Dance class where I met this beautiful lady in her late 70's-when she walked through the door every lady looked at her with admiration she was Italian she always had her hair colored & wore make up & nails done. she had a limited wardrobe From white house black market she often wore cubic z jewelry. Her appearance matched who she was on the inside -a person of confidence & integrity some one I looked up to- it doesn't take a whole lot to represent yourself in this manner when you care about yourself & appearance she is one of those unforgettable women -ditto to you as well Erin as you help to inspire women :) Of con & integrity when people present themselves like this they become unforgettable

[@conniecrawford1403]

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[@BusbeeStyle]

Isn't it interesting how you still remember her, Connie! Some people think it takes a lot of money, but it doesn't really! You can look polished and put together on any budget! Thanks so much for sharing your story! xo

[@SmartCreativeWomen]

OMG! I just got married and feel like I had to order my dress quickly (and ONLINE) and don't think it photographed well. I totally have had that exact convo in my head!!! Like, I BLEW my moment. You are right, that is so silly! I am going to Venice for my husband's art opening in April and I was going to re-up my Rent the Runway account to get myself in the mood!!! But I was going to wait until right before we left. But why wait? Sequins, here I come! And the worthiness thing is totally tied- we are staying at a 5-star hotel and I am worth it!! I "belong" there.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Congratulations on your recent wedding! Don't worry...you didn't blow your moment. You just need to create new moments! Sometimes the dress inspires that moment! xo

[@teresacesario6247]

Inspiring! I've struggled with this so much with 40 winters here in Crested Butte. I think I will begin with wearing some awesome perfume while I am walking my dogs in a blizzard...it would help!

[@suzannejohnston7212]

Thank you, Erin! I appreciate this video. It’s as if you read my mind. Lately I’ve been thinking how I’ve deprived myself for so many years of wearing beautiful outfits because I didn’t have anywhere “special” to wear these types of clothes. NO MORE! I will wear these clothes just because it makes me feel good. No special occasion needed. I will wear these outfits because they make me happy. I don’t need approval from anyone.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that, Suzanne! You got this! xo

[@stevie.8253]

What an inspiring message. This is exactly what I needed today. Do what you want to do, something that brings you joy and inspiration. Life is too short, to care about what others think. ♥️

[@jsutton5133]

Great inspiration for all moms coming out of a pandemic. Thank you

[@BusbeeStyle]

You’re SO welcome! xo

[@becharb]

such loving and wise advice

[@pretty_things_styling]

This was such an incredibly powerful message! I love how the tulle ballgowns inspired you to do things that helped you heal from past trauma and spurred you on to create unforgettable memories with your daughter. (Elisabeth will NEVER forget that you sacrificially "destroyed" your own dress so she could experience the joy you had wearing it!) I know that so many women need to hear this - I'm sharing it! Thanks, Erin!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Jennifer! So glad this one resonated with you! xo

[@lakeboww]

Oh Erin, this story was so so heart warming and beautiful. Loved every single image you have taken. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! xo

[@svanota]

I've been doing the same for some years and it's really magic

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! I'm so glad, Giovanna! xo

[@practicebalance]

I love what you did with your daughter. Pure magic!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Dawn! xo

[@amberwise]

Thank you Erin! Xo God Bless!

[@scharneeify]

Thank you for ALL of this!! and for reminding me to just wear my things no excuses live and be in the moment.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're so welcome! xo

[@angelaryan373]

Thank you so much Erin. I really appreciate the inspiration to keep feeling the magic!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Angela! xo

[@millies.8810]

Thank you for reminding me of how I used to feel about fashion. Will dress up more.

[@mariaisabelmolina9640]

You left me speechless, so inspiring... Of course I'm doing it.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Maria! xo

[@richelle5899]

Fantastic! At the start of the year I realized I was turning 50 and a woman with so much to still offer the world! Not a mum crawling around with toddlers anymore so why was I still dressing like I was?! (By the way I loved those years). Out came my healed sandles and boots, jewelry and pretty/classy clothes. I began to dress liked me again.... the me before all the 'labels' The comments I've had are eye opening and inspiring. Go Erin.... spread the word to all the girls out there!

[@rocioguillen2995]

Awesome message. I feel inspired to find joy in fashion again. Thank you.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You’re SO welcome! xo

[@cassandraberger9146]

Ya know how there’s St Patrick’s Day or Cinco de Mayo ? can we have have a “Wear an Impractical”…..fill in the blank whatever you want that gives you a giggle, kick & a big smile ….. “Day”!?? As a young child my mom would go to second hand stores & get me fancy prom dresses to dress up in! My favorite was a bright red taffeta amazing long ball gown dress😍😆! Can you make a day when all of us do it together wherever & get those photos to you! Show us everyone’s fun Erin! Round us up!

[@BusbeeStyle]

What a great idea, Cassandra! Love that! xo

[@amywoodworth6224]

This video is so timely for me! Lol! I am this person who says I love this but I don’t go anywhere to wear it so I don’t purchase it. I’m also getting ready for my son’s wedding in May (first one for us). However, I have purchased a few items recently thinking when I purchased them I have no idea where I’m going to wear this but I’m getting it. I also bought this real cute (kind of sexy) dress & wore it on Christmas Eve because I wanted to get dressed up on Christmas Eve & we don’t anymore. I was the only one dressed up that much but it was fine! Now to the wedding. I went to 7 different bridal shops & tried on at LEAST 50 dresses. Probably closer to 70. I finally bought a dress based on everyone else’s idea/opinion of what I should look like & wear. I tried to convince myself I loved it. But I couldn’t get excited about shoes, hair or any accessories or just wearing the dress. Also after I purchased the dress the bride & groom changed their color scheme which made the wedding more formal. Needless to say I bought a new dress (with encouragement from my husband) & I LOVE the new dress! My son did give me some crap about it. He wanted to make sure I was getting it altered because he thought it was too low in the front! Oh my gosh! I’m wearing the dress & yes it will be altered. The one I tried on was 2 or 3 sizes bigger than me. And the bride’s Mom’s dress is an off the shoulder fitted dress that is low cut in the front! Mine has an a line skirt! Ugh. I’m not sure why I have so many rules & I wonder if the bride’s Mom had that many rules?! Regardless, I love my new dress & like you said the bride is who everyone is going to be paying attention to anyways!! Definitely not the groom’s Mom! 😆 Great video! You and your daughter looked stunning & I’m sure that is going to be something she never forgets!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm sure you will look stunning in your dress! Once the wedding is over...visualize another outfit that makes you feel joy (may not be a gown) and go get it! Do it just for YOU! Congratulations and have an amazing night celebrating your son! xo

[@lauraryan3730]

Hi Erin. You are so right! 😘🌹

[@laurlauri1917]

I did it with an anniversary ring!!! It brings me joy to look at it every single day! ❤️🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yay! That is what it is all about! Enjoy it and wear it in good health! xo

[@michelleiannelli3626]

Yes, we are here to enjoy all the beautiful things on this planet. Great video :)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Michelle! xo

[@elinapolicastro5148]

Such a sweet video! Magical!!! ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Elina! xo

[@beverlymccomas4257]

Great video Erin. Worthy topic for discussion and a thought generating video. Well done!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Beverly! xo

[@aliciawashburn5451]

I agree! COVID quarantine and shut downs helped me to realize this. Let’s have fun with fashion for as long as we can!!!

[@hbailey970]

Good for love ❤️😘 doing things like that makes me feel better about my self

[@beckyziller6064]

Oh Erin 100%. Style and beauty are powerful.

[@BusbeeStyle]

So glad this one resonated with you, Becky! xo

[@sheilakosoff5806]

This is so inspiring! I have found giving up on pants has allowed me to have more fun with Fashiin. I really do love dresses but stop wearing them because I thought they would make me look frumpy. I decided to go back to dresses. And now I feel so fabulous all the time. And it’s easy! Thanks for a great video. I’ve been buying my dress from anthropology and having so much fun.As a plus size women I try to be as small as possible in spaces. So I wore a lot of black. I’ve always wanted to wear Anthropologie dresses. I had started buying them once they extended their sizes. But never felt brave enough to wear them outside. Recently I started to wear them to work one every day with either a blazer or a duster. I’ve gotten so many compliments. I feel like a different person.I look forward to getting up and getting dressed. I am no longer hating my body, but loving looking Uber feminine. For years I tried to stuff myself in pants and would wait eagerly for spring and summer to wear my dresses. It was in January when I decided that I’d did not want to wait to wear what I love. I had just bought another pair of jeans and tee that I was not going to wear. There was no joy. I have not worn them and dived into my dress obsession. I bought some knee boots and some fleece tights. I have a super warm coat it comes down to my ankle. I am so glad I decided to give into my desire to be more feminine even at 55!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Love that Sheila! Wear what makes you feel confident and joyful! xo

[@noeyghanimah3389]

Erin, thank you!!! LOVE, love, love this! Thank you for inspiriting us to love ourselves, to affirm to ourselves that we are worthy. To care for ourselves internally and externally, I am INSPIRED!!! XOXOXX

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! Glad you loved this one, Noey! xo

[@shelleynielsen9527]

I love it. 6 years ago when I turned 40 I did a boudoir photography session... Just for me. I still will look at those photos once in a while. I love them. I totally feel inspired to do something like this. Thank you ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

That is awesome, Shelley! Thanks so much for sharing! xo

[@dianedoskoch9650]

Such a beautiful story about the opera and Elizabeth! Thank you xxoo!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Diane! xo

[@BunnieJorgenson]

I needed to here this! And your suggestion to shop local thrift stores! That is great advice.

[@angelalewis4739]

I love this! I bought a sequined maxi skirt a few years ago and have never worn it. Bought it just because it was pretty. I remember the cashier asking me in a demeaning tone, “where are you going to wear that?” I said, “wherever I want!” but I still haven’t worn it. Grief, menopause and a lonely relationship has caused me to gain weight and I don’t really have anyone to go out with. I’m such an introvert. Also my ideal outfit is a killer black suit for work. I’m having a hard time finding one in my size (16-18). Thanks for encouraging us to show up for ourselves!

[@BusbeeStyle]

A killer black suit can take you anywhere! I encourage you to look for one that makes you feel powerful! I think you will feel that spark that I talk about in this video. The beauty of a suit is that you can always break up the two pieces and find ways to wear them separately so it will go to good use! xo

[@angelalewis4739]

@@BusbeeStyle thank you!!

[@strikkelises]

Great video. Wear the nice things!

[@pamb2868]

We used to go to the policeman’s ball every year. You had to find a nice dress or gown as some wore. And we all went out to dinner. Then danced all night until it had to end. I always loved the ball. That was the one time a year I went all over looking for the dress. I would find it. Dress all up. My husband wore a tuxedo. Most of the guys who were on the board of the ball wore tuxedos. We all looked great. And we had so much fun. By the time my husband retired they weren’t doing the ball anymore. That broke my heart. We had so much fun. We had a lot of fun times with having parties at the lodge hall. In fact about 10 years ago. My daughter and her husband got married and had the reception there. I wasn’t feeling my best, but I little rum in my drink. I was up dancing a lot but boy was I tired when it was time to go home. My husband was putting everything in the car and I sat there until we were ready to go home. I had a major surgery about 6-7 weeks before the wedding. So I was glad when I got to go home and go to bed. I didn’t even table hop to see everyone, like I usually do. I was too tired.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Im sorry that your health prevented you from celebrating fully with your daughter, but it’s wonderful that you were there for her so soon after surgery! I challenge you to find a special outfit and wear it…even though there isn’t a scheduled ball! You can do it! xo

[@lyndsymelly3262]

So inspiring x

[@karynbray1004]

As I was driving to work today, I was thinking I really would have liked to have worn a sparkly ball gown to work....LOL! I enjoyed your video....I did wear a navy blue dress with a full circle maxi skirt and got my twirl on....I dress up every day for work in my corporate office even though everyone else is schlepping it.....

[@crissolmontiel]

You are so right, I was sad a couple of weeks ago when I went to see a musical of broadway on tour in this beautiful theater and most of the people were dress in jeans and tshirts, I wore a beautiful cocktail dress and heels and got lots of compliments. I don't know why people don't dress well anymore.

[@BusbeeStyle]

I’ve noticed the same thing…I’m glad you felt beautiful! That’s what matters! xo

[@mojsharhappy]

Super inspiring....I actually did buy a dress on sale last summer (original price about $500, got it for $80!!), and I told myself I'll wear it to the next special occasion (well, dah, COVID) ....and year later, I have not touched it!! But, u r so right Erin, I'll create a special occasion and will wear it!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Yes...let this dress lead you to that occasion! You got this, Moj! xo

[@jennygodbolt-hoffman7787]

Wow! I love these different topics you are exploring! Your daughter looked amazing! So much 🤩

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Jenny! So glad you are enjoying the mix of different topics! xo

[@reginafetty6374]

You came just at the right time. I was thinking about doing a dress up with my grandkids like a fairy tea party, with China and flowers etc. Making it a very special like Alice in Wonderland moment.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Go for it, Regina! Love that! xo

[@clarelouiseomara3339]

I adore this video, life is what we make it , beautiful magical everyday vibes!!! 😍❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you Clare! xo

[@marianthifragou7718]

Sometimes we already have beautiful gowns that we don't dare to wear. But you know after 40 and much more after 50 we have nothing to lose anymore. Who cares if we don't look like models we should and we must be confident because we have lived our lives till now fighting to be great at everything and we survived. After 45 I gave permission to myself to be whatever I want. I am now 58 and I don't give a damn shit what others think of me and guess what, people compliment me quite often.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Nothing to lose...just go for it, Marianthi! You never know what might happen! xo