3 things I learned by failing 14 times in CA

[@lakshmiprasannapopuri4665]

Am doing CA from 13 yrs...1 group left to clear... Married and have a kid...I have 547 contacts in mobile but ZERO friends to call when feeling low ....

[@khushbuprasad9048]

Same with me..iam.still unmarried

[@slayyyy_28]

Pursuing studying with a kid and a family to look after....uh r trulyyy impressive and inspirational maam ❤️

[@Rahulsehgal98]

Same situation

[@CAHareesh]

So true, ma'am! But I would say, somehow pull it off. I know many people, especially women, who cruised till CA inter and by the time they have their final exams, they get married and get busy with family responsibilities. I mean, they become totally a different person. CA just goes to #23 in their priority. I pray that you become a CA soon. :)

[@Saanu0801]

Same with me....CA Finalist and married and mother of 3 year old....sometimes i feel exhausted and just want to talk to someone.but no one is there ....sometime I just scroll through my contact list and realise no body is there to talk.

[@aseemkullu7932]

3 Things are: 1. Friends don't last forever. Focus on your exams rather than on building relationships. 2. Be diligent. Your work ethic is going to help you clear CA. Get into monk mode. 3. Instead of blaming or complaining, focus on learning from your mistakes

[@arindamphonglosa5077]

thanks hero💌🤟

[@shubhammaharshia5995]

Very well said.. Specially THE MONK MODE

[@shubhammaharshia5995]

Very well said.. Specially THE MONK MODE

[@shubhammaharshia5995]

Very well said.. Specially THE MONK MODE

[@nikitasahu3698]

I realized this that people leave, the degree stays. Therefore, prioritise.

[@CAHareesh]

How true! Well put.

[@achalsoni4769]

The thing is you die, degree is temporary. The time you lost with people and family is priceless. Get your priorities straight.

[@nikitasahu3698]

@@achalsoni4769 then i think, lets not pursue any degree. Spend time with friends and family. Preparing for something is a phase and not your whole life, i am willing to give up time for a thing i want to become, and if they are really friends and family they will wait for me to come out of the phase to enjoy.

[@achalsoni4769]

@@nikitasahu3698 you are missing the point. It's about balancing. Time is money. You should know how much time to give to which degree. It's not even rocket science, it's common sense but I guess it's uncommon for you. Cope.

[@achalsoni4769]

@@nikitasahu3698 how selfish of you to think that people should wait for you?! As if they aren't already. We are here talking about excess time given to things which it doesn't deserve whether it's degree or anything else. You can still have degree at 50 but you can't bring your parents back forget about friends. Time , youth , parents, health, etc are more important than degree. You need to make a balance. Again, cope.

[@pikacheem8432]

Normalize adressing people as colleague, classmate, batchmate.... Not everybody you hang around or work with is your friend!!!

[@georginshaji5175]

Well said ❤

[@jonathanlivingston5700]

👏👏 True!!

[@ThePhonon56]

So true

[@daksh_bhardwaj_d21]

I'm not gonna lie, I was just scrolling youtube then this man occured in my feed and I just opened this video with 0 interest, but then after listening to his learnings I just left numb, his words hits hard like Bruhhh... He left me speechless. He taught me a great lesson. Hatts Off Man 🤗

[@CAHareesh]

Very kind words, man. Thank you for the comment.

[@sujalpatni6352]

Us bro us

[@abcxyz0888]

Because of your comment I watched the video. Nice video and learnings. Thanks Bro.

[@iamazharalam]

Similar case.

[@daksh_bhardwaj_d21]

@@CAHareesh thank you so much sir for sharing your learnings with all the people ❤️🙏🏻

[@srinivasa.gopalan]

The Guy clearing on his first attempt FLEXES, having required 17 attempts to clear the task , just he is imparting valuable lessons and knowledge he learnt to those around him , and helped me also ❤

[@CAHareesh]

It's a weird journey, man. But worth every bit. Thank you for your kind words.

[@caesar848]

I have been preparing for UPSC for the last 7 years, given 5 attempts. Out from various stages. I have seen people come and go. The more time you take, the more people leave, they lose hope in you. People remain friends with you in the first place thinking if he becomes something, it will be helpful for us. So, in the end, it is about favours.

[@ashithshetty8831]

yes beo😢

[@kirtinaruka1411]

He is so true about friendships.... All I can say is don't waste even a minute thinking about people who don't even care if u are alive or not.... So just move on with life and focus on other things...

[@YashSharma-fq1dk]

​@@Vishalkkkk120So true 3-4 attempt are max that one should give

[@emptyboy2311]

​@@YashSharma-fq1dk mba course need money

[@regawis07]

​​​@@Vishalkkkk120 it's VERY easy to mock someone dude. Life isn't the same for everyone. For most of us MBA isn't a great choice owing to financial situations. The person who goes through it only knows after one point how important it becomes to get that prefix CA. And the reality is you may earn more as an MBA, but that can never fetch you the respect and recognition that CA can. For many of us, it's about independence, respect and not just money. If the decision of those who drop by 3-4 attempts isn't criticized, this shouldn't be criticized too. I respect both category of people. Unless you walk in their shoes or atleast try to, please never pass judgments on the decisions that people take. You may not agree with his view point, but many may relate to him. So atleast don't call it FAKE. Just happily ignore if it doesn't resonate. Peace 🙏

[@saifkhan8172]

​@@regawis07well said 👏

[@vivekm7971]

No fakte recognition

[@asheiji9275]

CAs with multiple attempts are kind, humble and true gems. You guys are God's favorite indeed❤

[@achalsoni4769]

Lol so CA's in first attempt aren't kind and humble? What's your logic?

[@asheiji9275]

@@achalsoni4769 I think hard times make people humble and down to earth. Since I have worked with some, can tell the difference.

[@SivaKumar-wv1zm]

​@@achalsoni4769 he means the ego in person will be left no more

[@starsinthesky593]

Failures crushes every soul inside you so does ego gets crushed in this like nothing​@@achalsoni4769

[@achalsoni4769]

@@SivaKumar-wv1zm I can show you Bcom failures with more ego than a doctor? What's your point?

[@manishhhh_71]

In the beginning, I isolated myself from my friends because they were attending a regular college, even though none of them are pursuing CA or any other professional course. All I used to do was blame myself for choosing the open university, where my friends were enjoying their college life, while I was attending lectures, revising, and submerged in books all day. No enjoyment, no friends, nothing. I wasted my first attempt because of this. It took me time to understand that we have different paths, and it's me who's pursuing a professional degree. So, yes, the journey would have to be hard; otherwise, everyone would be doing it. Peer pressure and FOMO are really something crazy; I did so much overthinking because of that.

[@Rishi2015]

How old are you brother?

[@manishhhh_71]

@@Rishi2015 19

[@ayushrajextra]

have you pass foundation@gwmanish6075

[@CAHareesh]

You will never regret what you have prioritised. You are on the right track. Keep going and don't turn back till you get the job done.

[@yashkittur3558]

Same with me

[@guidancetoislam3071]

Do you know what makes you unique? You are a winner not because you cleared the CA exam but because you fell and rose, you fell and rose... You kept going, unlike the losers in life who give up on their ambitions easily. Your determination is what sets you apart from the rest. It is not easy to face and accept failure, especially when you have had academic success your whole life. But, you not only accepted but you learned some great lessons from the constant failure. Your words are empowering and inspiring. I am currently 15 writing this comment, and I pray that I never quit in life just like you, regardless of what field of study I opt for.

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you so much for the kind comment :)

[@lifemalayalamyoutube7192]

❤️

[@nagateluguchannel829]

👏

[@komaldogra2779]

Oh my God. I'm a CA student and youtube recommended me this video. I failed inter once and skipped other two attempts due to college exams but whenever I think of quiting I come across motivating journey of chartered accountants

[@amgh4743]

YOU CAN DO IT. YOU CAN PASS CA , YOU WILL MAKE IT , IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT , KEEP WORKING HARD , ALL THE BEST BROTHER. -Fellow ACCA Finalist ❤

[@mohamediyoub9810]

​@@amgh4743 how did you clear sbl? Self study?

[@amgh4743]

@@mohamediyoub9810 didn't clear bro ,I'm writing in sept attempt can't write in June cuz of internship 😕 , haven't cleared any professional level papers yet sbl gonna be first paper

[@mohamediyoub9810]

@@amgh4743 ok bro

[@amgh4743]

@@mohamediyoub9810 took coaching from Zell education bro they are the best

[@Sats33]

The part that u told about friends is very true. NO one is there in bad times(friends and relatives), at the time of success they just want to make use of whatever they want. U r not at all a failure , but a motivation and inspite of everything u were so determined...

[@CAHareesh]

true words. thank you for the comment.

[@Doge_4796]

Not only about friends. It is about our relatives. Parents relatives..... Wasting time in engaging with people that won't be even there in your life after a certain period of time.

[@tamannatazz5800]

It's not wasting. Your last moment memory is the only thing you have.

[@KrishDogVlog24]

My all friends left me when they came to know I left medical college.no one cared to ask why? My parents thought they wasted money and time on me.and till date my younger sister harassing me for wasting my parent's money.she didn't allow me to smile, eat, get any help from my parents, she didn't allow me to get married n have children. One friend was with me 10 years, when she realised I am no more useful to her,she just disappeared without saying goodbye.

[@AvTar257]

@@KrishDogVlog24 what are you pursuing now?

[@TheMonk1008]

Now we have a person who actually speaks about failures in life. Huge respect....❤🙏🏻

[@reemaelizabath]

such an eye opening video.... i can totally relate to everything what he has told...i got 99% in 10th,98%in 11th,and a school topper in 12th with 99.40%...but now when i look back to those ,nothing helped me in ca preparation journey.....my friends who were just below average were able to study much better than me...the fact that i realized thereafter was that it's not our skills or knowledge what helps us to clear CA ,but the efforts that we take towards achieving those goals... thank you brother for making me think for a while it's the first time watching your videos and happy to say that you got a new subscriber. ♥

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you got the message.

[@upsciaspcsshots3484]

Work ethics or discipline > intelligence

[@Thriving_thru]

Iam struggling with this. I am unable to change my habits.

[@sigma8112]

Nothing is greater or lesser . Life is uncertain. When someone just do something , he want to give " Gyan" . Moreover today's people are shittiest being.

[@SATYAMSHARMA-nd8ko]

Am sure universe sent me to watch this video ❤ Very Valuable insights

[@CAHareesh]

Ah, thanks man.

[@achalsoni4769]

KZbin algorithm is not universe

[@sanjanagrover7436]

​@@achalsoni4769😂😂

[@akshaygilda3647]

The Friends part..OMG i can totally totally relate to this. Your video just gave me a throwback of moment when i was insulted by my principal right in front of my Colleagues and Friends..OMG i cried like hell right there right in that moment for the first time after ages. Those Words of him Hurted me at so many levels and it happening in frontof my friends hurted my dignity. Fortunately it helped me to clear my group 2 in inter but the motivation was lost in Finals. I'm watching this video today and now the wounds feel fresh like before. I need to do this..I need to be a CA give them back a good reply.

[@CAHareesh]

Sorry to hear about that. It's terrible to get spoken that way in front of friends. But there's an exit way. Repurpose the hurt into good work. Work in silence, change yourself into a different person, and let the results do the talking. I wish you the best.

[@unforgettxxle]

For me just after 12th grade I saw the true colours of friendship not that the ppl were bad but situations happen to be that way but I'm happy I learned the lesson early and now I never get attached to a friend 😅 and even if I ever have to stay without having any friends it wouldn't be a big issue for me👍

[@younggamer155]

@@unforgettxxle same

[@achalsoni4769]

If you are being CA to give them reply then you are an idi0t

[@ketanverma4177]

Or do good in anything you want, also if you doing it for them they won

[@adhirajjadhav9539]

02:50 So truee it is what you said about the insecure feeling inside about not attending to friends/people and feeling insecure about them not talking to you in future.... Struggling with the same, even though I know by experience that even if I talk to them they still won't attend me back after my use will be over.

[@CAHareesh]

You got the message.!

[@daxFTS]

ias abhilash ki story ki tarah tvf aspirants me

[@snehamishra8758]

At this point when I was broke that why i am not giving value to myself, always prioritising family and friends, end up wasting so much of time that i could have cleared my final by now. Thank you so much for this video. Atleast someone spoken about it.

[@CAHareesh]

Glad you were able to resonate. I wish you all the best.

[@man12443]

Same mistake I have done.

[@younggamer155]

@@man12443 how u pss inter then

[@achalsoni4769]

What's wrong in prioritising your family over degree? You should prioritise family over everything and by family I mean parents and siblings.

[@younggamer155]

@@achalsoni4769 bro at the end those parents will say no to u when u ask for money or any need bcz of there old mindset so to become independent, prioritising degree over family is good

[@loveforart_nehal]

What you're sharing here is not just for CA but for everyone. These are the life lessons for each and everyone. Sometimes such content is way better to watch than any other. Sometimes such truth slaps are much needed. I could feel and understand every bit. Due to my such habit my progress has got delayed I don't even know by how many years I wish it as slapped with this in my 20's. Though I don't regret but yes I had all the faces flashing in front of me who took advantage of my helping nature to climb while making me believe I was such a nice human and blah blah. Today when few years back my struggles showed me I had no one to even msg let alone call to talk. Be it friends or family. I would highly recommend people to watch this.

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the comment and sharing your perspective :)

[@ShreeyaGhate]

I am CMA final student, I have tears in my eyes as I listen to you narrate your journey, this has been more or less my life so far. I am not exaggerating one bit. Watching this video was like listening to my own CMA journey. Want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for this gem of a video ✨

[@CAHareesh]

so generous of you comment. thank you so much :) See you as a CMA soon.

[@PugalSharma]

How many years to complete inter CMA ?

[@jaslenkaur9723]

I generally dont watch videos which dont have images but this video suddenly appeared and opened and started watching and just couldnt stop watching...amazing u r ...

[@jithinalpy]

The man has a point...I too feel the sluggishness doing FINAL but haven't given up

[@cvzone1720]

I can sense pure wisdom from the each word you have spoken, it's an eye opener from me being a CA student, you are right without work ethics,unbiased thinking, and not complaining, and finally accepting the situation as it is, nothing can be achieved

[@cvzone1720]

Glad KZbin recommended this video to me at right time

[@CAHareesh]

I love Stoicism :)

[@cvzone1720]

@@CAHareeshsame:)

[@VNaavi]

I was not a popular student or even averagely known in all of my school life, not even a 'good morning' have i ever received from anyone, not even from any of my bench partners. So, 10 years of that really gave me reality check. But still every now and then because of group projects i had to interact formally which eventually made me realize that i have attachment issues and i basically become a doormat for anyone who decides to have a conversation with me. So, at the age of 18 when i moved abroad and saw some wild roommates, it took me two days to get the message that it is going to be the same as School life. Now in early 20s and still don't know what friendship is supposed to be. Or if i even need one. Can absolutely live without small talk or gossips, gonna take this video as a sign from the universe because i still fluctuate between mindless people pleasing and long periods of isolation. Take care everyone.

[@aelier]

hey life is not always so bleak and melancholic, hope you find some really good friends who you connect with in the the future

[@bskm5322]

Don't worry U r my introvert friend ok

[@Vickyy11001]

Because ur childhood gone with hardships. .. and torcher. That's it. U just need to practice to be cope up with .. for 4 years atleast...

[@parthcontractor4648]

💔💔💔

[@Trulybeingmyself860]

I certainly feel those 17 attempts happened just because of this, i know its easy to say I have failed 4 times in intermediate g1 itself and will appear in may again but i have lost hope of studying 😭, been having upset stomach since a week, sleeping more than usual, bad routine and what not I just feel that we humans are not weak its just that we fall prey to circumstances But in the end all i wish is I can put a smile on my mumma puppa's(I wish to see them so happy)

[@CAHareesh]

that's a rough road you've been through. See you as a CA soon. All the best.

[@dreamcatcher7471]

Oh my God this video reached me at the right time. I had a friend he is studying abroad and I am very attached to him as my family member. I was diagnosed with a severe health issue , to me it was a dark phase for me sometimes I thought it would be better to die than living with this pain . One day I realised that pain is not much as mental agony that is given by him . He never spoke me after he knew about my health issue and suddenly he blocked me without any reason . Some friends are like this

[@chitramurugesan2559]

Very down to earth speech and ideas. I enjoyed listening to your 3 major points.

[@Niranjana27]

Im a dr preparaing for my neet pg( postgradutaion). Our courses may be different but our journeys are the same....wat u said in the entire video is very true....at the end of the day we have only ourselves....thanks for speaking the truth and for telln wat we all go through

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for caring to comment on a channel of a different domain :)

[@Niranjana27]

You are welcome...may your channel reach great heights...🙂

[@janakikhanal9802]

This is one of the best videos I ever have watched .I have no circle of friends ,where I always used to feel bad ,after watching this video ,I find everything by my side,❤thank you..

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the comment! Go solo.

[@janakikhanal9802]

@@CAHareesh thank you

[@Fundashorts021]

Same 💯

[@ameenahmed9371]

One day I will sit with you and you will realize how similar we are. Thank you CA Hareesh Sir

[@Life365_days]

I cleared my CA foundation in December 2015, I failed CA inter 4 times back to back and left CA. I started my masters in 2019. With it I again convinced myself to go for CA inter again with it, I failed 2 attempts again and covid came later and I was not in mental frame of mind to continue with it. I completed my Masters in 2021, and in 2023 again gave my Attempt for Nov 23. Earlier I had tried to study on my own and I now knew where I was lacking behind, I needed guidance from teachers and proper classes, this time I had done Group 1 classes properly and aimed to split it Group wise, but I failed with small margins in Nov 23, I am again going to give my attempt in May 24. Right now I am 27 years old, I will become a CA before I turn 30 years old. It's a promise I have made to myself. CA has been that one thing which has taken alot from me but I am ready to give more because I know I am not here to settle for something low.

[@shivadatta6002]

ALL the best bhai 🔥🔥..It should be best comeback of your life clearing CA..ek baar CA banne ke baad toh koi bhi nai puchta kitne attempts lage 😂

[@Life365_days]

@@shivadatta6002 Yess Bhai🔥♥️ Best of luck to you as well in achieving whatever you are Trying to achieve ♥️🌺💐

[@CAHareesh]

hey such an inspiring story. I wish you every bit of luck for your mission. Yes, maybe to others it might look like a fool's pursuit. but today or in 2 years, if you become a CA, the amount of learning and the amount of maturity you get, the doubters can never get to match that. All the best.

[@shivadatta6002]

CA bhai..i want to be the king of my profession..log mujhe mere karmo se jaanenge 🔥

[@sumanrajsumanraj9272]

This is the best video one can make for CA Fraternity.No exaggerations and show off . Pure explanation of reality. As a CA Final student it was totally Relatable.

[@Angad_24]

I never go in parties and just prioritise myself and my objective over everyone and everything, just currently Focus on yourself .... Be your best...

[@eshaverma07]

I'm a NEET MDS aspirant and I couldn't crack the exam this year due to the 3 lessons that you just mentioned! These have been my lessons too in the last few months - thank you for being so vulnerable and honest and sharing your experience for the greater good. It takes guts to talk about your failures or your inaccuracies. More power to you sir! ❤

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for watching a channel content of a domain other than yours. thank you for the comment as well.

[@name_802]

Thank you for making this video CA hareesh !Not a CA aspirant but generally your words made me feel so much better while i was overthinking about unwanted things. Yes half of the time few friendships aren't worth of you giving time. It's like the people who want to be with you will stick with you no matter what. If the friends are true then they will be with you always. Otherwise you know who they are in real. Thanks to youtube for recommending this amazing video.

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for the comment and sharing your thoughts.

[@anshul213anz]

This is pure gold.... Ur ability to reflect and think deeply is worth more than any degree Kudos

[@jayasankarpanicker9328]

Take a bow!! sir🙌 bout to appear for inter exams... thank you for posting this one. 17 attempts, but in the end you won. To be this resilient, nah , ain't that easy. More power to you. 💪❤

[@gowthambalu9044]

Such an eye opening video..i felt like seeing me on the video having same kind of background, geographic and doing same mistakes which is pointed out very clearly...i had never commented on any of the videos in KZbin..but this one... really meant a alot.

[@CAHareesh]

I'm very glad that you were able to relate to this. I wish you the best.

[@Wordsbyk]

So true , ive experienced that a lot in college exams , when i had way more intelligence than my other classmates but still they all were ranking way more than me just because of work ethic and confidence

[@Vickyy11001]

I am 21 years old and have decided to prepare for civil services. However, there is constant sarcasm around me regarding my decision not to pursue a job. Even my own family members, like my sister who previously supported me, now taunt me because she secured a government job at just 18. I haven't attempted the exam yet, but I am filled with fear and can empathize with your feelings of uncertainty. I have no friends, as I tend to isolate myself due to being introverted. Whenever I feel low, there is nobody there for me. It feels like I'm wasting my time, and people who were once supportive change when we don't meet their expectations. Only my parents provide me with a little support. I have one friend who always checks up on me and supports me, but I've distanced myself from him because I fear being alone if I don't meet expectations. Those around me have expectations because they believe something good will come to them if I succeed, but if I don't, I understand the disappointment...

[@CAHareesh]

that's really sad to hear but I wish you the best!!

[@bskm5322]

😮😢

[@ThePhonon56]

Man try ignoring such things which makes you feel low Work on your Goals You are just 21 jist take them as life learnings All the best for your future brother

[@Vickyy11001]

@@ThePhonon56 thank you

[@YashSharma-w6e]

@@Vickyy11001 how at 18 when minimum limit Is 21 ?

[@Sai-tek]

Nice. Sometimes i feel bad that i didn't have a proper friends circle. Still feel the same.

[@omjojan8322]

So relatable sir!!! I am in ca inter and I gave my first attempt in may 22, and after that I have been giving the ca attempts continuously. Every time I felt that I understand the concepts of audit and tax so well than many of my fellow ca buddies but how come they can clear so easily. But now I realised the msg you wanted to convey that you have to have a work ethic

[@AsifAzaz]

Thank you so much CA Hareesh for sharing your knowledge. I also doing the same mistake of prioritising relationship over my carrier. I'm reverting it from now. God send this to me for some reason. Thank you once again.

[@CAHareesh]

I wish you all the best in your journey. Thank you for the comment :)

[@Ttt-q3q]

Sir, i wish to gain some more knowledge from you. I am 22 and lost friends from college. Not all of us are aspiring CAs but the value you add, is commendable :) I truly appreciate that. Please keep on making life lesson videos like this. I want to learn more from someone like you. It's a request. New subscriber here 😊

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the comment. Sure, the videos will be coming.

[@shrutiksheersagar758]

Most useful facts 🥺🥺it's been my 8 Attempt now And writing CA inter group 2, after learning many many mistakes done every attempt so far. Feels very very very very bad on myself by comparing people and stuff but slowly n gradually stopped doing that and started focusing on myself more because thinking that, as I already spent so much of my time in this& will invest few more time with so many of lessons learnt in this journey till now, because don't wanted to live a regretful life if at all I think of quitting CA. And yes can totally agree with you particularly with the "friends" content. Thank you so much bro for this🥹🥹❤️❤️

[@CAHareesh]

Hey that's so good for you to realise everything and getting back on your feet. I wish you the best!

[@shrutiksheersagar758]

@@CAHareesh Thank you so much sir 😊😊

[@samriddhiiee]

this was an eye opening video for me. I've been running around and for the people who actually don't matter or appreciate me in the thins I do. I've wasted a lot of time of my preparation period in doin activities which only gave me momentary satisfaction. Thanks a lot for such giving such valuable knowledge and lessons sir.

[@CAHareesh]

Happy to help :)

[@devparashar1205]

Dost ❌ Career ✅ I'm also a nice guy, earlier i also found it fascinating to have friends, to have female friends, 😅 to talk to them, to pass exams same time, to remain in touch with my fellow mates, but now i can also relate to you sir, all people have ultimately stopped talking with each other. Friends don't matter anymore now to me, in courses like CA, it all ends upon you only, others will leave you the moment they think your need is not for them 😢. We by that time tend to attach to that person, and the moment they leave, it creates self doubt upon our own selves 😢. They will talk to you when they are free, but the moment to want to talk them whn they are busy, they'll BLOCK u without giving a thought to your efforts in that friendship or relationship, happend with me too. But the only thing is you become emotionally weaker and waste your time. All have their own lives and goals, even people say they are friends even if they haven't talked for last 1 year 😂, LoL So, who ever reading my comment, make sure put yourself first, then your career, then family, then those FAKE FRIENDS 😏. and plz don't get attached to anyone during your career journey ! All will leave one day !! 💁

[@aditisharma5063]

I have been doing the same mistakes again and again. My first final attempt was on may 2022. I cleared grouped 2 in nov 22. Since then i am failing group 1 because i feel i cannot prioritize myself. I prioritise people their life. And its my third attempt for group 1 l, technically 5th attempt. I have 10 days left for my exams and i haven't prepared well this time too because i didn't prioritise my studies. I feel miserable.

[@CAHareesh]

I'm sorry to hear about that. It's a pain when exams are just 2 weeks and we know we haven't done much. Start small. Start slow. It's not beyond reach. All the best.

[@Ambitiousbans]

Same problem

[@anjalimasih8890]

Same situation

[@MonikaSharma-ir3ds]

I am also going through same situation.. mine also first group left and not able to prepare this time bcz of feeling low. But I want to give my 100% in coming November attempt and looking for study partner who is serious about clearing in this attempt. May be this will work out and things would change. Hoping for the best✌️

[@kahaniwithabhayaj8099]

I am also facing same problem since my first attempt of Ca final had due dec 21 , I gave priorities the People more than my studies because I think, if I did not give time to him him/ her than don't talk to me and when they have turn come they giving you excuse.... That point of time I realised that kaash aapne aapko ko samay diya hota to shayad kaha hote. So here If you don't mine , Can we connect over here.

[@As629_]

Im doing CA with 0% support. Everyone mocked me that I will never clear. But I am doing this to prove them that is wrong. There was a point where I decided to quit and I saw your video. U r really an inspiration. Getting back to my studies ✨🥺

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the kind words. and let me tell you, we give our best when we have our back against the wall. More power to you for your quest!

[@vishald8578]

The amount of clarity and experiences that you have gained over the years is the reflection of your speaking. Thank you for sharing your experiences which is really amazing and I will implement this in upcoming days as I am very close for my CA exams.

[@akhileshladdha2596]

Thank you 🙏 sir valuable input This video is eye opener for CA Aspirants who are struggling to clear CA exams Lesson 1 5:34 Lesson 2 8:49 Lesson 3 11:24 Hopefully We will meet someday

[@vamsirekadi5727]

I have heard my life story with your voice but the difference is i am still in the journey. thank you for making me realize reality... will work hard more and more.. thank you so much wish you had a successful career where ever you go..

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you so much for the good words. The light is there at the end of the tunnel for you too. Just walk a bit more. All the best.

[@shireenkhan7569]

Thankfully I have always been very selective about people whom I give my attention & time to. Listening to your experience, people might say going to engagements or marriage is necessary, it might hurt the host's sentiments. But remember, every NO you say to someone else, is a YES to yourself.

[@man12443]

Believe me bro...U never failed...That was the part of Ur learning...U r a warrior.❤

[@CAHareesh]

hey thank you for the kind words. :)

[@meghalirathi643]

I am not even a CA student. But i needed to hear this. Thankyou so much for speaking up dude, we need more people like this and more content like this which is raw and real. Keep more such content coming!! Kudos to you!!

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for the comment :) I wish you the best :)

[@shivanigupta1521]

I don't why but i feel ur words are true and it gave me peace at this moment when dispite of giving so much of effort i feel sad about time wasted in past .... I am going to give my Exams in Upcoming May attempt and only one thing i need is peace in my mind Thank you for your valuable insights which no 1st attempt person could ever give Your words are helpful

[@CAHareesh]

Very kind. Thank you. All the best.

[@monishk6561]

"Your intellingence is going to be your biggest liability if you don't keep your ego in check". That right there are golden words. 👍

[@ranganathan223]

No Feidnship is Forever! The Greatest Lesson I've learnt in life at 35 years of age is The People Whom You Travel With is all that matters. If you grew up in India in the 90s You might have Area / Flat / Colony Friends You have your schools Friends Your have your college Friends You have your Random friends that you make while Travelling / Or any activity. Your Parents and Grand Parents if you're lucky enough to have them Travel with You thru all These. It's like SuperStar Philosophy in Life. Life moves on. You move on. You Ascend slowly and when you reach the Glass Ceiling, Shatter it. And Keep Climbing and Ascending. I rebooted and restarted my Professional and Personal life 34. Its like Matthew McConaughey lines from his Oscar Speech 2014. Whatever it is you look up to, whatever it is that you look forward to and whoever is it that you're chasing, to that I Say Amen and To That I Say Alright, Alright, Alright! If you have time please watch The Movie, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty. God Bless and GodSpeed My Friend 💜 💯☝️

[@CAHareesh]

thank you so much for the comment :) I will do watch the movie you suggested at my leisure. Godspeed to you too.

[@eshgo456]

During 3 years of articleship I had got 947 calls. 810 by mom 112 from clients 24 from relatives for birthday wishes And 3 from so called friends out of which 1 was to mock and 2 by mistake.

[@Ap_rockss]

One of the best videos I've ever watched.. Thanks big brother. You have my respect ❤

[@mikaeelrahman429]

Bro you are really amazing, seriously your patience and your determination is next level, each and each every words of yours hits diffrent and give me goosebumps 🥺you are really gone a great inspiration for me you are true gems and you are the real winner bcz u overcome and won ur battle on your own love you man ❤!!

[@CAHareesh]

hey thank you for the kind and positive words :)

[@Srihariz]

An eye opener sir changed my entire perspective as you said in our last class the easy does it ...... thank you sir

[@RamDas20245]

Anna. Romba thanks na 🙏 This gave me a closure and an understanding to my prolonged confusions. I am doing CA Final and have already wasted 3 attempts. I can completely relate with you and now understand that intelligence does not matter but only work ethics. I too got school first with ease that I thought CA too could be cleared with the same level of effort. But now I understand that I have to change my thinking. I am relieved from my confusions now. Thank you so much na. Will soon clear my CA Final with your advice in mind. ❤🙏🙏🙏

[@CAHareesh]

All the best and thank you for the comments da :)

[@Abhinandansingh16]

You were amazing brother 🫡 sooner or later things happened. Your 9.8 years of failure gave us the right choice for today. We’re all thankful to you, you spoke well and good. God bless you man 🤝

[@CAHareesh]

Kind words. Thank you.

[@neethi768]

Sir I am amazed by your tenacity and persistence. Im not a commerce student but your grit and determination caught my attention. May God bless you with success and prosperity in your future.

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for the interest in a domain you are not from. I wish you all the best :)

[@archanaaarchanaa2537]

Thank you so much for your eye opening video brother. One of the Genuine talks i had ever heard🎉.Keep going❤

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for the comment. :)

[@pranavchhatwani]

Every second of this video seemed to realistically jolt me... I have done all of this... Over prioritising the friends, being a rank holder at school level and goofing up with everything in CA journey, getting diagnosed with very bad jaundice just 2 months before one of my inter attempts... This couldn't have got much relatable. I too have learnt the lessons the hard way. I cleared my foundation in june 2015.. And here I am, attempting final both groups in may 24.. I curse myself for the mistakes I have made.. It is all irreversible now.. But, I hope, I get through this time... Thanks for this video 🫶❤️

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for writing. Yes, it's a little too similar to be relatable. I hope I didn't creep you. Lol. Anyway, I wish you all the best for this exam. Do well.

[@pranavchhatwani]

Sometimes, you need a reality check w.r.t all the blunders you have made and sabotaged your life. But, at the same time, it's a motivation too, that there's always a way back towards your destination, even if you have travelled the wrong path all this time.. So, this has unknowingly done it's work in many ways.

[@pranavchhatwani]

I did it this time.. It's CA Pranav Chhatwani 😋😋

[@itemno420]

I have bought your book, randomly I bumped into a store I liked the title and my gut told me the book would be good and I realized it was a tasty assorted chocolate, of course from your indiviualistic perspective, but good general pointers. Good Luck

[@CAHareesh]

Much appreciated, and thank you for the feedback.

[@chinnababuchalla6921]

Book name

[@itemno420]

@@chinnababuchalla6921 Substance over form

[@ignition-uw1fo]

I am not preparing for CA, yet i saw this video because of curiosity. Truly Success builds name and failure builds character. The video was a treat, i needed it so much. Thank you for being a great influence

[@SoharyaBhad]

Dude! Oh my god! I also got a terrible jaundice just 15 days before my Nov 23 Finals. I was so weak that I couldn't even sit for extended period and you know its a lengthy disease to treat. I felt so frustrated about it because even after following a strict no outside food and water rule for the past 4 months, I still got diagnosed with it!. I literally was thinking to not give 1st grp. But gave both of them anyhow. Passed in 2nd grp but failed in 1st. It felt so bad and frustrating that it wasn't even my fault. But as you said its the other 5% when its just a bad time. Still continuing the acceptance process. Its tough and it always linger somewhere behind your mind even if you feel you have overcome it. But we move forward. Hopefully May 24 will turn out the best. Thank you man! Felt so good to share with someone who can understand how it feels! Much appreciated and more power to you!

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for sharing your story. From the maturity level I see in your comment, your wait is not too long to call yourself a professional. I wish you the best.

[@Pramod.M.Badiger-ox5db]

Sir I am a CA student and also a big fan of you❤ You are the inspiration for students because telling the facts so make much more videos about CA. I am proud to say that I am following a good content KZbin channel which make awareness about the things.

[@CAHareesh]

Hey thank you for the kind words :)

[@jaiswaljayant26]

I thought to skip the video, but the captioned thumbnail, no friend is forever, forced me to watch the video, it brought so much clarity to a pending decision of mine... I always knew that i have to give up a lot of things and people too, in order to go up.... and now i am ready to do that. Thanks Brother, really appreciate your life lessons... worth the time🙏💐✌️

[@CAHareesh]

thank you for the kind words and your time.

[@ancyjohnson7593]

There is nothing better than this an ambitious person can get. He just opened my eyes to the matters which I already knew but was simply not accepting or prioritising. Feel like u are resolving my problems which as a CA student I have been going through recently. Thnkyouuu sooo much

[@CAHareesh]

thank you. very kind :)

[@deepthibsharma6313]

Iam a CA finalist I cleared ca foundation in 1st attempt and ca inter in 2nd attempt and my ca final 1st attempt is due in 2 days. Iam scared to death, but by seeing your journey of 17attempts I gained hope!!! 😢 Thanks!!

[@CAHareesh]

All the best for your CA Finals.

[@Gus_Fring_1213]

5:48 same happened to me sir. because of that I failed in two attempts. thank you sir for valuable advices. I needed them ❤

[@BookMyBooks]

This video has a positive message and is something I can relate to, you are really brave to share it with us all. Reflecting upon your past, welcoming truth even if it offends you and changing your approach of doing things is very powerful. Thank you!

[@yuganshsingh2377]

sir, im a neet aspirant, and i felt very very relatable... it was just a reminder for me to focus even more on my studies, keep low and just get though first! thankyou so much

[@CAHareesh]

Glad to know that this channel has non-CA audience too. All the best.

[@EduChefFit]

This is my first comment in KZbin. Before watching your video, I "was" a CA student. But now, I can confidently say that I "am" a CA student. I cleared my CA Intermediate in 2020 after seven attempts without regular classes. Fortunately, my hard work paid off, and I cleared CA Intermediate with five exemptions out of seven papers. However, after clearing CA Intermediate, my positive attitude towards CA was almost drained. I attempted CA Final Group 2 three times without proper preparation or classes. I felt depressed comparing my life with others', lacking qualifications, a job, or any enjoyment. So, I decided to work and study simultaneously. However, my focus shifted entirely to my job, and I stopped attempting exams. After working for two years, I moved to another country. Despite being happy with my job, something was haunting me badly - CA. I recently watched this video, and now the haunting is intense. Now I realise that why I took 7 attempts to clear CA Intermediate. You are absolutely right. I wish to restart my preparation for Final exam. I am unsure whether I can succeed, where to start, or how to achieve it. Nonetheless, your video inspired me to RESTART my incomplete journey. Thank you, sir. I hope for more videos for CA students, and I would be grateful if you could upload a video for CA Final students regarding preparation and all. Best wishes for your future endeavours.

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the inspiring comment. Yes, if it still keeps resurfacing, then it's worth paying attention and get the quest achieved. I wish every bit of luck for your second innings. All the best :)

[@EduChefFit]

​@@CAHareesh Thank you very much, Sir ❤. I started my preparation for my second innings. One day, I will win the match and comment here as a CA! Please keep inspiring us.❤

[@ruchiiiiiiiii9]

Hey I am also going thought similar situation facing multiple attempt in ca inter can you please guide me

[@Richerich7]

I am doing CS and this is so relatable though I will be giving my very first attempt this December but everyday I feel why I chose to do it feeling left out every single day thinking I am missing my golden days of life seeing my friends out there enjoying going to concerts etc But I know this journey will surely give me in return and I will be thankful for choosing it At last thankyouu for this amazing video Upload more!!!!!

[@CAHareesh]

look at your own lane and run. let your friends do whatever they want to do. i wish you all the best :)

[@Amazonforest11]

Soul touching. Thank you for making this video

[@RR-tt1bh]

I just gave 12th board exam and planning to do CA and I thought exactly like you said "my performance was good in school so doing CA would be easy as well" but the thing is it doesn't work that way..until and unless we throw away this mentality that everything is so easy and can be done effortlessly, we can't grow ..and about friends, I learned a lot from your video , I gotta stop giving people too much importance and think about MY future, MY ambitions coz my "friends" wont do that for me ..

[@CAHareesh]

I wish you the best and happy working hard.

[@shrutikumari1433]

I am a cs student ,topper in both 10th and 12th and now my days and night are full of guilt... already failed in one attempt... Fear to face the examination has gone so high that in the last two attempt i made excuses and lie to my family about exam that they are cancelled...now i am ashamed of myself and by seeing my mother eyes full of hope and trust ...break me every single time...its not like that i dont want to study but concentration power becomes so low that i couldn't study straight for one hour...Maa can't sleep in night because of me.. worrying about my future praying to god ...ki uski beti k sth ye q ho rha h... I want to see her happy

[@princethakur0x]

More power to you❤

[@sharnika9051]

Same story but, I am ok now. Because I understood that this was a quit new version of journey ( self Learning and independent)it will take some time to adapt, plz give that time. You will definitely find a way. and we are leaders

[@vigneshwaranm423]

Its all about how you balance , life is not only in being a CA . One must know when to study hard and when to chill. If you do this properly , no harm in making friends.

[@CAHareesh]

That's one perspective, brother. but if only that was easy to follow. If only it was easier done than said. It's like people saying drinking alcohol is no harm as long as you know how to keep it in moderation. It's like people saying gambling is fun as long as you know how to keep it under control. There are people who can skillfully balance between watching a full cricket match the previous day and still going to the exam and get 93%. I have seen those people. they can switch ON and OFF just like that. They look like they're magicians. For a lot of ordinary people like me, we need to get skilled in SELF CONTROL first before we can think of clearing CA. In this channel, you will never hear me saying "IT'S ALL ABOUT BALANCE." You will only hear me saying. THROW YOUR PLAYSTATION AWAY. THROW YOUR SMARTPHONE AWAY. THROW TOXIC FRIENDS AWAY. because "FINDING BALANCE" never worked for me. It will never work for the thousands of students like me. For a lot of us, we work in black or white. We are either all in or all out. Good luck with your approach. We will do what works for us. Thank you for the comment, though.

[@Beastfr0001]

Thanks for this video man. I am preparing for a competitive exam and its in 30 days now. I was feeling burnt out my efforts got very less . But now after seeing this I got the drive and I realised the reality. This wasn't a motivational video tbh . This was a reality talk , anyone who's been in that stage will relate and realise this. Thankyou for sharing your experience brother. Your experience can help us to shape our in a better way. Looking forward for more such videos. Wishing you lots of luck ahead. 💯

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the kind words. I'm very grateful that you received the message in the right way. I wish you all the very best for your competitive exams.

[@manisha5113]

This guy has spoken truth about ca journey..in one moment or the other every ca student feels the same..thankful to you to post this on you tube it popped up just before my final attempt 15days before to be honest my thoughts were haunting me but this video gave me my instinct back that I am a warrior i won't ever give up..Much luck to u buddy 👍 all the best for ur future ahead

[@CAHareesh]

Thank you for the kind words. All the best for your exams!

[@Dakshin_Talks]

Very informative video sir.. grt eye opener! ✨️

[@happysoul6778]

These failures gives you LOT of life lessons if you are willing to look into it. I was blinded by the failures and past experiences of my life(bullying and assault). I was suffering from anxiety since ages and i didnt even consider it but now after losing 5 years not actually losing but taking glimpse and learning from mistakes of last 5 years and seeking therapy im trying to get back on track and let me tell you im proud and happy of where im today. Life is a process not result of you accomplishment. All the best ❤

[@CAHareesh]

I really find it bad that you had to go through all that. Some books I will recommend: 1) the Winner's effect by Ian Robertson 2) Mastery by Robert Greene 3) Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg. All the best.

[@happysoul6778]

@@CAHareesh I really wanted to read books but didn't know where to start thanks for the recommendations!

[@abhishekugalmugale19]

Thank you for this, Everyone who watched learned an important lesson for the lifetime. keep growing and sharing, All the Best

[@guru-s-pot3153]

Wow CA Hareesh ... The lessons you or almost everyone who goes through attempts in CA is so so well articulated here. I'm a CA finalist with one group left and have long been here. I've made a lot of changes to my approach and attitude and truly understand work ethic is all that helps. I could connect so well to everything you spoke ; I am someone who thought oh I can understand sums so fast, get answers in the calculator and my command on the language is better than most and hence I am a sure shot CA product. I now stand to realize all your 3 points are just so true. I have my wife who cleared her group last attempt and is now a proud CA (and am the proudest friend-husband) now and I can't wait to get there and another childhood buddy who are the two who always always are there to lend their ear, shoulder and heart ; the rest - they are there to get things from me in some way or the other or are just mere contacts. Your points sure are so so well received ; took a 15 min break for dinner and I am glad I used it to see your video. I really hope to clear the last group and wish to have a channel of a similar sort to be able to share my experiences and learnings too. Thanks and you are an inspiration. Lots of wishes to you. Cheers.

[@CAHareesh]

Hey thank you for the kind words and getting my message in the perfect way I intended. I wish you all the best for your CA final. And I can't wait to see your new channel :) Do let me know once you start.

[@abdulazeezkajamydeen3321]

I m not doing my CA , but your video is so much valuble , keep doing what you do You are amazing 👌

[@Multiverse_of_a_doctor]

The first point on friendship is what i needed to hear , the amount of toxic friends i have and the constant feeling that if i dont talk I'll have no one is something i struggled with throughout my college and it is the reason i had to take a drop 😢 just at the crux time of exams they made sure to fuck me up because they weren't preparing for the exam , just like you said its true 1 year later no one reached out me because i didn't , and it hurts hurts alot but i guess you need to deal with it and move forward , i saw this video just in time because i was thinking to reach back after my exam this year, i would have gone right back into toxicity ,you just reminded me the amount of imp i have alloted them will only cause my downfall

[@BijuBiju-ec2qv]

Thankyou for helping me to realise my mistakes .I just find you randomly and I'm sure now that this video helps me to change my life the way that I want

[@K.Bhatii]

So, true love your words man. Beings faced same issue and give up and then again get up. Im a ca inter student cleared my foundation in first attempt. Having a same mentality as you have that time. Already have been failed in 2 ca inter back to back attempt. And to left ca and Then realize same ... and starting again to get up and trying agin.... Im in library and glad youtube recommanded this video..... Just ❤ love the video ...thankyou for sharing such valuable lessons to all ❤....

[@CAHareesh]

Hey that's kind of you write to me. It's always Fall down seven times, stand up eight. :)

[@sonaliprajapati1190]

OMG sir I really appreciate even after going through all this u kept on going I m CA inter student it's almost 3:17am may24 attempt scrolling KZbin I got ur video... I was totalling feeling like hopeless I started crying coz its my 4 attempt in inter doubting myself.......i can relate with ur video especially friend... In 1st attempt even I use to prioritize my friends Instead of thinking my remaining syllabus I use to start teaching them for 4/5 hours on call ....thinking I shld help my friend at that time I use to think my friend is facing difficulties I shld help her out... I got many humours about grp 2 is very tough I always majority of times keep on studying eism and audit and remaining time for grp 1.... But even till exams I was lacking behind..... Just bcoz Whatever time I wasted countinously on call for long long hours instead of helping out myself first I helped them unfortunately.... Which subject I use to teach them on call I failed in that subject not only in that subject but I failed both grp on the other side they cleared both the grp with exemption... At the end of the day I learnt stop priotizing others..... They are working in big 5 having a good life... After that didn't received any call or text....

[@slayyyy_28]

It's just sad how ungrateful people are!! But really always remember..no one like such people remember ur gud deeds they only remember ur flaws to make themselves feel superior......uh have been an amazing human .....nowww help urself study...and remember helping urself now to study ..means u r helping urself and your family your parents ..uh r the only one who can bring a chnge in their lives...all the best gurl...let's reply when we crack our groups

[@sonaliprajapati1190]

@@slayyyy_28 yes's when I was 3yrs old I lost my dad my uncle is one of the inspiration to pursue this degree... He treats me like his daughter now I m 20 he has given meh immense love and support that's the reason.... How hard I fell down I have to stand again fight back and Tysm for such positivity 💜

[@slayyyy_28]

@@sonaliprajapati1190 🥺 so glad to hear you have him...he isn't ur uncle he's ur father 🥺 ....now it's ur turn babygurl to give him the best life ahead !! But don't be too harsh on yourself ...calm down take deep breaths in between enjoy life with a smile and love your study time also ❤️ sending uhhh my wishes

[@CAHareesh]

that's a sad story to hear. Yes, I have had many unslept 3:17AMs too. all the best for your future.

[@sonaliprajapati1190]

@@CAHareesh thank you sir ☺

[@mayur_je]

I became individualistic and was regretting i didn't went anywhere with my oc batchmates same whole group chat is empty and some of them even ignore my messages... on pc after watching your video i realized i was drifting into right direction of being individualistic hope so i will continue ,thankyou and well quoted charlie munger in description(my role model) "Tell me where i will die and i won't go there" thankyou once again.

[@CAHareesh]

I'm glad you spotted the reference. This video is actually based on Munger's mental model of learning from others' mistakes.

[@pragmatic_p8]

Thank you so much I'm school topper too but failing in competitive exams and have one more exam after 2 weeks.... thinking of waking up at 5 am ..this video really boosted me....work ethics is very important for intelligent ppl

[@CAHareesh]

Glad you got the message. All the best.

[@Khiprajyoti]

You'll never know what changes you brought into my life by posting this video ! Remember My Name