3 WAYS TO AVOID HAVING TOO MANY EXES.

[@chrisjames2363]

Wow what a great lesson well said I want to ask something which is.. We mostly guys we go into relationship without having that feeling (love) we just like wat we see then as time go on we love depending on how the relationship run.. and with this reason sometimes it go well an sometimes it doesn't which make us to have more ex.. also with the fair of not letting a girl no that we are ready fr marriage so as she wont pretend of being who she is not. My question is being this type of guy to avoid more ex what should he do?

[@olatunjioye8081]

In my opinion, I don't think you should go into a relationship without genuinely loving the person. Let me put in perspective sequentially. It okay to interact with someone because you like what you saw or what you heard or how the person smells or what was done. All of those are just points of attraction. They are not enough to enter a relationship. You can try to get to know the person better by being friends. While getting to know the person better and interacting from time to time you might eventually develop feelings. That happens because you are human and it is valid but having feelings are not enough to jump into a relationship. Like the creator of the video content said as point 1, you shouldn't jump on every feelings. You should think critically about it. Ask yourself important questions. Does your values align? Are you ready to settle down or marry in few years? Are you mature enough to engage in a relationship in a healthy way? Are you financially ready to support your relationship to achieve the goals of getting married? It takes finance to run romance lol. I believe processing it this way will help you avoid having unnecessary or many exes.

[@emmanuelcokeke1116]

What a great lesson! Indeed this is a great idea and as such, it will also aid in self control...

[@michaelleo8285]

friendzone has been demonized in this era, yet we forget that just as family Is the most basic part of society, friendship is the most basic and important part of any relationship😇

[@thebenevolentpatriarch424]

Why friend zone a man who wants a relationship with you? That man will never be your friend, ever.

[@desola2024]

On point!😊

[@gideonsunday7449]

Many modern women do not understand the advantage of having limited number of ex until a golden opportunity of a good man slips off their hands who so much care about body count. I watched a love hunt show where a very pretty lady and a handsome dude matched. they went on a first and second date, in the process of getting to know each other dude was concerned to know her past. She has had a late partner, she do ‘only fan’, had done threesome, has a 10year old daughter. Dude was confused, he sought for counsel from friends, that was how she missed on him. Women need to understand this, low key every man wants to marry a virgin, it doesn’t matter what they tell you. Being a virgin might not be the criteria however, men always want women with quite limited number of ex. It is only God who doesn’t care about our past, humans do.

[@delightgbujie5310]

So apt...

[@peterumanah7188]

Hmmmm is well

[@LouissaOye]

First of all going into relationships when you feel nothing is just toying with the other person's emotions which is not advisable . And the intention to go into relationship with someone just to see how it goes is a wrong mindset and I said that's one of the very reasons people end of having too many relationships before eventually ending up with one person. So my Advice is don't be that kind of guy, and to know if a lady is real and not pretending approach her and be disciplined to just be friends with her and then she will be mostly real because she isn't aware that you like her or would want to marry her yet

[@Viq_Tour]

Wow.... Great lessons... Thank God I don't have an ex😉

[@LouissaOye]

😅

[@princessvera2197]

So for example,I date a foolish person,now that I have sense, would I count the foolish person as my ex???😂me I won't count him o. Foolish people should not count😭