On Being Ugly

this is maybe more important for me than for anyone else
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[@lupamartins8830]

KZbin: 31 year old virgin 21 with no friends On being ugly Being ugly: my experience Me: Are you trying to tell me something

[@aciddecay]

The fact that I’ve watched all of those 😭

[@divyanayak9594]

I know I am ugly 🐸 Nobody needs to tell me thattttuyyytt

[@Brandon-nl1nf]

Broooo😭😭😭😭 the same thing just happened. Now u got me thinking.....

[@aciddecay]

@0 0 seriously! It’s honestly sad

[@kushpie7973]

Ikr

[@ehhilfe2917]

HONEY YOUR MIND IS ART

[@jazmyneanaya9575]

lisa Xvxv amen

[@everydaycece2558]

Preach Sister

[@malizzaacole5995]

lisa Xvxv AGREEEEE

[@wihh87]

It totally is. I feel tears jerking out of no where

[@helloootheresirr4839]

yes yes

[@SudeshKumar-jz2xd]

"Being beautiful is not an Accomplishment And being ugly does not have to stop you from making an Accomplishment" These words touch my soul deeply❤

[@MotifMusicStudios]

How special to hear this 10 years after you recorded this! I hope you are still finding hope and inspiration and living and loving life in beautiful ways! 💕

[@K-a-n-d-i-s]

I hope she comes back and tells us if her thoughts have changed or still the same, who she is ten years later as we all change so much when we are young

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@K-a-n-d-i-s What life have teached to me is: the label "you are ugly" is too easily given and often falsely given also. Our judgments should always be: John 7:24 KJV Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment. Lets analyze the judgment "you are ugly" - 1stly it is judgment towards a being, This world sees females as sex toys not as human beings. If the real you ain+t known, then there is nobody to judge. 2ndly - it is judgment towards appearances, we all age every second, what is therefore there truly judge? and what John 7: 24 says? Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child. 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons. John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind. What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.” We start feeling lonely, because we are on our own, lonely comes not from BEING ALONE. We all suffer of something and as we like “diagnoses” then lets diagnose ourselves: too often in the company of people, leading us to fear ALONE TIME, which each soul needeth. The cure for all of our problems are: ALONE TIME AND BIBLE. Hollywood has teached us how to live and love, way too long, lets risk with all that we have and give chance to GOD through His word. KJV Bible says; Matthew 6:31 Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? Luke 12:22 And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on. Matthew 6:25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment? Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

[@prisk9816]

"Being 'beautiful' is not an accomplishment. - And being 'ugly' doesn't have to stop you from making accomplishments." Word.

[@mabena5759]

PrisK woah I read this comment exactly the time she was saying it😂

[@Maysoon3121]

PrisK TF , she is not ugly

[@Evil_Beauty]

"Being beautiful is not an accomplishment.", neither is being ugly, you don't get points for either but I would take it over being ugly any day.

[@prisk9816]

Anastasia Nikki when did I say that she is

[@Maysoon3121]

PrisK your comment is too paradoxical , it s no compliment either .

[@corabrei]

The fact that a good portion of these comments are debating whether or not she's actually "physically ugly" defeats the purpose of the video and what she's trying to say. Sad.

[@DHarvey-Scarola]

very true

[@Stylomagic]

Cora LovesGlam I know what she is trying to say. But she does it because she thought a lot about her apperiance in the past. We all want to be loved and seen as beautifull on the insde AND outside. Its a fact. And its not ok saying: its ok I may see myself as ugly, but there are other things important than that. Because and this is the sad truth: its very important in this society to be beautifull. And being ugly, I mean physically ugly, is only possible if you see yourself like that. You can accept it and stay ugly, you can avoid it and also stay ugly or you can deny it and voila you are beautifull. Without surgery, without makeup, without anything. Beauty is not always something that is physical, its something in your attitude. If you are physically beautifull and you know that, well congrats. But if you are not, but you think it anyways, you are also beautifull. But if you think, well I am not beautifull, but it doesn't matter, other things are more important. Well they are, but it doesn't change the fact that you think you are ugly. And so will other people see you too. And I think its all started, because other people told her once she is ugly. And instead of finding out her outer beauty, she tells a lot about other things that matter in this life. I know its not the most important thing in the world to be beautifull. For me its health and independence. But even I lay in hospital, when I had a good day, I did my make up. I care for myself with doing make up, because it was the only way I could care for myself at all.

[@0001Nikola]

I agree. With comments like that, people are just admitting that physical appearance means everything to them. They can't understand that there are some other people that simply don't care about physical appearance. Why would you have say to anyone that he/she is pretty or ugly? Only shallow people do that. To me, personality is everything. If you're good and intelligent person, that's all I need to be good with someone.

[@Heyitsdaave]

Cora LovesGlam everyone these days is so obsessed with physical appearance that it doesn’t matter how ‘beautiful’ we are on the inside anymore ... also sad

[@j.celestekee658]

Yup. I think they're just projecting their own insecurities on her. For people who base their entire self-worth on their looks it's probably intimidating to meet someone who gives zero fucks, so they try to pull her down to their level.

[@waxtrax_]

I love this attitude. There's such emotional intelligence and strength behind being able to find fulfillment in yourself, and to not feel the need to compare yourself to other people and to realize that attractiveness is arbitrary and insignificant in a lot of ways

[@user-pt4fw6px4d]

i literally cried today about how I am not as pretty and feminine as all the other girls and this popped up on my feed … thank you so much … needed this ❤

[@thelibtard7358]

Having this sharp and insightful mind at a young age is way more exceptional than having nice cheekbones.

[@sydneyreyes7852]

The Libtard exactly

[@Ahmed-nc2qz]

naaa she's depressed so this "insight mind" is irrelevant lol

[@malevolentgg9675]

I prefer nice cheekbones

[@vvthetalentlessduo6976]

Ok

[@Xxrocknrollgod]

Malevolent GG agreed

[@megbubbz]

I get back to this video once a year to cleanse my mind lmao

[@suzyyqq7046]

@@joys8634 are u happy now

[@fee6145]

Please remember me

[@megbubbz]

@@joys8634 lmaooo thanks sis

[@megbubbz]

@@fee6145 i will :))

[@fee6145]

@@megbubbz thanks c:

[@esm1817]

Love this! I have a sister who just passed away, and she said while she was sick that she wished she'd worried less about how she looked and more that she had a body and it worked and was healthy! ❤

[@Ruckus88]

You are wise beyond your years and your not ugly in the slightest. Not physically, mentally or spiritually. The world needs more people like you in it. God bless.

[@overdosedmiawallace]

I feel like this is what the internet is about. A woman simply expressing her inner thoughts about existence, broadcasted for anyone to see and kept online forever. It's history documented

[@eloise-mariebamford1737]

Overdosed Mia Wallace YESS

[@geanidrl7527]

Ok philosopher 😂

[@overdosedmiawallace]

@@geanidrl7527 ok comment that apports nothing to the conversation😘✨

[@geanidrl7527]

@@overdosedmiawallace What do u mean

[@PGOuma]

@@overdosedmiawallace i mean it kinda did. It was a joke about the conversation

[@loveandlucky3]

Her: "I don't want to be told I'm not ugly. I'm happy as I am." Commemts: "OMG but u are NOT ugly!!! Yu just need some mascara and foundation- ur NOT ugly believe me trust me ur NOT UGLY!!!!" ...Did everyone just completely MISS THE FUCKING POINT???

[@MaryStellaRose]

+loveandlucky3 maybe she does not want to wear mascara and foundation?

[@kelbell8127]

+MaryStellaRose That's what the OP was saying...

[@majorkatzmann2240]

There is a difference between accepting who you are and persuading yourself that you have some flaws, which just aren't there. That girl may be plain looking, but certainly _ugly_ is a huge exaggeration. This has nothing to do with 'accepting yourself'.

[@loveandlucky3]

Suiseiseki Desu Perception is reality. And people telling her something has nothing to do with her accepting herself, they just want to say she's beautiful because it's the accepted convention that someone MUST be physically beautiful in order to be worthy.

[@majorkatzmann2240]

loveandlucky3 I don't see how your reply has _anything_ to do with what I wrote. At no point did I in any way imply that someone has to be pretty to be worthy. She says that she sees herself as ugly, which simply isn't true. That's like if a black haired person would say that he accepted that he is a ginger and doesn't want anyone to tell him that his hair isn't really red.

[@lesliehasenkampf7088]

No one is really ugly nor is anyone really beautiful. We are multidimensional and can actually exhibit both qualities simultaneously, but those terms should not define us. I grew up in a very shallow community where the standard of beauty or attractiveness is a very narrow list of certain characteristics. Since I was the only member of my family who didn’t meet this standard, I am referred to as “the ugly sister” in those circles. Fortunately, I moved far away from that place many years ago and refuse to see people in such a ridiculous way. You articulated this position magnificently. Thank you so much!

[@nikaweres]

You took words out of my mind and actually made them less chaotic and incoherent. I'm ugly and fat. And that's absolutely fine with me. My attractivness to other people is not what I take a sense of worth from. And there is so many other things I want to be: be a more confident artist, be more dedicated pagan, be able to rollerblade, be a better friend, be more able to cope with life... pretty is so low on priorities right now it's not even on the list. There is so many people in my life (hi mom!) that just can't wrap their head around the idea.

[@winnieheart]

This was posted 4 years ago but was recommended to me today 🤔

[@MarilynbabyZ]

winnieheart's adventures girrrrlll me too lol I was feeling real ugly lately too 😅

[@queenbeyonce1538]

winnieheart's adventures ME TOO

[@MissSunshine221]

winnieheart's adventures same

[@alina24499]

saaame

[@jessicaflowers6795]

winnieheart's adventures SAME!

[@tylarjones9281]

Damn. She is like...the best therapist ever. I think I can finally accept myself.

[@finemrespice7031]

The fuckin point!!

[@melissaharding7754]

I was the 666th like

[@madtheghost337]

In a time when looks and superficiality reign tyrannically over all virtues, your words and character have been a breath of spring garden air and a most refreshing break from the sulfur and waste of contemporary standards. Thank you. Clearly, you are beautiful.

[@breathej.4872]

Hands down, the best KZbin video I've ever watched. Thank you for this, I really needed it. God bless you.

[@joelymatthews9627]

she doesn’t act ugly, that’s all anyone should notice

[@natasharules770]

'Should'

[@thatsEforEveryone]

@@natasharules770 what about it?

[@natasharules770]

@@thatsEforEveryone well, most people don't. Seriously, the first thing people see is looks, not personality

[@thatsEforEveryone]

@@natasharules770 which is why they said should , people should care more about personality than looks

[@hine6063]

First Class Experience exactly.

[@CrayCristy]

Holy crap please write a book

[@ryanjohnston8237]

wait... I thought she did write a book. A story book.

[@womp9465]

Turk Means Strong! Oh my god fuck off! Our generation definitely still reads books, and stop acting like you’re so above people playing PS4 when you’re commenting on a KZbin video

[@womp9465]

Turk Means Strong! I read this over like 3 times and I still can’t understand wtf you’re saying lmao

[@Pensive_117]

@@womp9465 This is why you people aren't in managerial positions.

[@solitudence]

Tea Times Two shes so ugly

[@MangoMonster34]

Her brain is beautiful. She seems like an amazing friend to talk too and hang out with

[@RaggedyRosemary]

When this video came out I was 4, but I still resonate with it a lot! Recently I've started thinking this way too, noticing that sometime we get too wrapped around being "beautiful" that we forget the beautifully absurd things that make us all human. At the end of the day, defined jaw line or not, we're all just silly little human beings on this crazy, diverse planet. So don't waste your time being sad about being pretty or ugly, just live your life happy! Love this vid! :)

[@user-iz5nu3fm6q]

Why did KZbin recommend me this ? Is that a sign...

[@Porknappa]

it is! same here 😆

[@morgyn6417]

Guess I’ve joined the club 😂

[@Amina-yl7im]

X maybe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jjzamorano88]

X facts what they tryna say

[@elyjulie1389]

same lol

[@1tecito]

Everyone on the comments be like "you're not ugly!" completely missing the point of the video

[@ashley1919100]

Kala Meet beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@rein2430]

Forreal I think she is ugly and that's ok

[@issyxox8416]

no, actually, everyone in comments be like “omg everyone stop saying she’s pretty did you even watch the video”. I’ve seen two comments actually saying she’s pretty. Fuck outa here hypocrite

[@theblackrose3583]

True but no point in think you se rugby when you aren’t. That’s just believing a lie

[@silvia___228]

I honestly dont think shes ugly tho shes average

[@valerieschleiter1780]

That was truly beautiful ❤ thank you for sharing that. Also I think that everyone feels "ugly" or "beautiful" from time to time but it comes down to the meaning we give to these labels

[@leslyminaya623]

Thank you for the message Kara ❤ I hear you and I see you and you helped me today 🙏🏽

[@lottiej742]

Whether shes ugly or not, she has an amazing outlook on life and damn.... Shes an inspiration. Im happy i clicked on this vid. Subbed x

[@aestheticflower8584]

Lottie J-Urie this was recommended to me and at first I was like???? excuse you KZbin??? but then I actually loved the video

[@itselena43]

she just needs makeup and she's fine

[@itselena43]

and a better haircut

[@Ana-dl7zl]

Physically she would do just fine with a better haircut, contacts instead of glasses and some makeup... but what she really says is that the physical beauty is the least important one, because it's superficial

[@sleepybb8781]

She isn't ugly. And doesn't need to change anything. She is perfect the way she is.

[@suzzsheff4988]

"being beautiful is not an accomplishment" Thank you for saying that. However not even gonna lie your eyes are stunning.

[@aerbald]

It is. But for your ancestors, not yours made.

[@michaelg9082]

@@aerbald beauty can be an accomplishment. Going to the gym requires time and dedication. Yes those people are born with good bone structure but the accomplishment is maintaining that appearance so that they can be happy with themselves

[@aerbald]

@@michaelg9082 Aye, and never underestimate prestance and presentation

[@jimmyj4044]

Being beautiful is absolutely an accomplishment, you just don't try hard enough.

[@sushipbestdeck8995]

That is kinda BS I used to be hella fat and put in hella work and stuff and I look way better I think it does come easier for some people (being good looking) but really you can work out your facial muscles and get a jawline/ basically what I'm saying is it is an accomplishment

[@mayagarcia9855]

your wisdom has brought me to tears 10 years later. I have so much love for you stranger.

[@paulinehajek4269]

You're a star. Shining so brightly. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤

[@jwalt8019]

You have an amazing outlook on life.

[@justiceteachesAI]

Clarence , you’re a virgin judging by your attitude

[@vivisuehodgden3148]

I’m not just saying this bc ur calling ur self ugly but when I first clicked on the video I fell in love with ur eyes

[@stxxk]

Tru

[@yarakarim1821]

Same

[@Mx.Pickle]

Me too!

[@miyanasidney2696]

Me too

[@filipandrejevic4427]

Why the fuck you lyin'?

[@r0bophonic]

What a wonderful video. We all need to hear this more often. Thank you for being you and sharing this. I hope one day you’ll share your thoughts with the world again.

[@yabsig2359]

your Intelligence and openness is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing those thoughts! They're really eye-opening and take away a lot of pressure! ❤

[@akalink77]

KZbin lowkey calling me ugly by recommending this.

[@lovenostradamz9888]

akalink77 same

[@daisygonzalez8999]

Same 😂

[@graceguetschow4198]

No, it's saying that you might like this, not saying that you are ugly

[@Tamiiiiina]

or that you seem insecure

[@kelliannespry3912]

right

[@indiawalker2778]

"being beautiful is not an accomplishment." wow I wish people could understand this.

[@nefelibata4190]

more like a privilege.

[@ShockResistor]

Feeling beautiful IS though. She said she avoids mirrors, and feels insecure sometimes. Anytime she goes to the restroom she cannot avoid the mirrors. Her features are symmetrical, eyes are pretty. It would be low maintenance to have a short haircut that won't allow the hair to stick upward & a shampoo/conditioner for her hair type plus a facewash for her skin type. I'm not a makeup type of girl, barely brush my hair, but I use some inexpensive yet proper products for skin and hair, my hair is layered, short, and frayed for easy care. Daily hair washing would be even easier if she rocked a shorter haircut and it might make her feel as beautiful as she actually IS.

[@CelestialDraconis]

Indiawalker27 it's not people's fault for thinking that way when society has been feeding us all these beauty standards, on what is considered beautiful or handsome, and what isn't, since the dawn of time. Whether that's through media, advertisements, or peer pressure, it ultimately creates this narrow perspective into your mind that you start following. I mean, we've been subconsciously told to do this our whole lives. Edit: Its also completely natural to want to look beautiful. Animals such as peacocks and certain birds "show off" their feathers in order to attract mates and get partners. We do the same thing when trying to look for a partner. It's completely natural and instinctual. It's just that the standards these days are ridiculously high.

[@dweliq2993]

Indiawalker27 Nobody give a shit. Subconsciously everyone loves beautiful people and hates ugly people. Looks are the only thing that matters in modern society.

[@elleelle5847]

I'm Purrito In what way? If beauty is determined by genetics, then what is the accomplishment? What - popping out of the right vagina? Lol

[@Echelon111999]

I usually focus on one thing at a time but this time I forgot to pause the video while changing tabs to do my work. Your voice is so relaxing or smooth that I kept it on for the entirety of my work and I listened to what you were saying in the back of my head too.

[@anon19086posts]

If you made a podcast I would listen to you for hours! You have such awesome philosophical takes on beauty and life! It was quite soothing to listen to this

[@ohwell6571]

Everyone commenting how she's not ugly in your opinion.. You're completely missing the point

[@thatsnotmyname4091]

thank you.

[@burpreynolds3250]

They're probably not missing the point, but rather commenting their opinion... Just like you.

[@kaitlin3102]

Yeah, the point isn’t whether or not she’s ugly. The point is that there’s so much more to life than just your appearance. And that being ugly isn’t the end of the world.

[@perfumaphilia3246]

We can get the point of the video and still tell her we don't think she's ugly. We want to say nice things to other people. We're also so used to people fishing for compliments in life and social media that we're almost programmed to compliment people when they say they don't measure up in some way. She's not actually fishing for compliments, of course, but comes off as such a sweet, smart, interesting person that it's like a natural instinct for me to want to comfort her and tell her she's fucking beautiful and amazing. I won't though. But I understand why people would.

[@grosslyincandescentsnowfla6924]

She just needs to looksmax

[@BubulinaMC]

Most regular women look like this in the morning, without make up, bleached hair and styling... she just looks like a regular woman to me.

[@everly9629]

ikr? blonde? blue eyes?

[@IIIISai]

facts

[@guymontag1078]

True

[@Username-1939t9]

ngl i thought she was a guy in the thumbnail, not ugly, just a normal guy. when saw her face closer up and realized she was a girl i thought it was really cool. idk but i definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. something about her facial features just work together so well that make her look so much more interesting (not in a bad way) to look at than any instagram model i've seen (cause they all look the same). idk her face is may not be beautiful but i like looking at it

[@acspeter7]

She looks like Scarlet Johanson without makeup 😁

[@onlyamaryllis3022]

Thank you for posting this as much as people think this is sad this is how many ugly people feel when we know we are different some days I can’t leave the house because I feel so ugly and I know it’s outrageous but knowing other people who I don’t think are ugly feel this way gives me hope maybe one day I can be care free like all the naturally pretty people.

[@YogaCandi]

Such an insightful young person, these words are coming from a place of inner wisdom, there's nothing more beautiful than that 🥰

[@hannahanderson5658]

As an ugly girl, I just want to share the most important thing I’ve learned: that I shouldn’t let what beauty I have go to waste just because I don’t have the beauty that I wanted. There’s a lot of beauty in kind eyes, work worn hands, and smiling lips.

[@mpro9446]

this is beautiful

[@yettiluch1]

Unfortunately that's what i did. Stay away from alcohol. It's a trap.

[@WilliamsDarkoh]

you don't born to be convectionally beautiful, but you do it trough a process of self improvement, fitness, chirurgy and so on, being beatiful isn't just having a pretty face, but also a strong personality and an "healthy" body both things were people nowayds don't care about enough, they don't take care of themselves by letting themselves become obese, without gettin any decent air cut, by dressing decently and so onn then they blame the society for not considering them attractive, start do as much as you can to improve yourself and stop comparing to the others, that's whrn you will reach success.

[@putinsgaytwin4272]

Well if you don’t think you’re beautiful you could just fix it. These days you can go as far as plastic surgery. The girl in this video would be super good looking if she grew out her hair, got rid of her glasses, straightened her teeth, got some acne creams etc. Most women that are good looking today weren’t born like that. They artificially changed how they looked. Most women would look like this girl if there wasn’t so much pressure to be pretty

[@dalpaengi]

@@putinsgaytwin4272 bruh..I see your perspective and that you are suggesting because you care but people are more then their bodies. I have a friend that’s so incredibly beautiful. was a plus size model and a weather girl. she got a surgery to make her stomach tiny so she wouldn’t be plus sized. and had some ribs removed. she can’t feel if her mouth is open or closed due to a facial procedure. she only eats 4 ounces of food a day. now i’m her only friend. the only one that’s not grossed out when she dry heaves, hiccups, vomit comes out of her nose if she burps and she passes gas pretty much all day. sometimes she can’t make it to the bathroom :( her instagram pictures are very popular. the guys who show interest in her and want to meet up have no idea what she goes through…. I will always protect her. I’m not pretty but I’m emotionally strong and street smart. I do hope she finds a partner one day though..

[@xZippy]

Being ugly in high school = night terror. Boy I do not miss my teen years.

[@mithubird9755]

Me too- at least it was over 20 years ago so there was no social media or cyber bullying back then....I feel sad for ugly girls going through school these days.

[@Alina-gf4ku]

Oh God, I 'm going to high school in August. I am really ugly. Freckles and glasses and soon-to-be braces and facial hair and more, you scared me to death.

[@coolcat5714]

Zippy make it work for you....a little secret we males don't care so much about pretty...we care about fitness and health..and a kind heart...a kind hearted smile will make you look hot

[@fruttojuli_blog]

I always wonder - who all that people who terror ? When we grown up they disappear ! I realli wish al my heart to those evil little bastard expelled from the school and their parents forced to pay a really heavy fine! Such evil people can not benefit society.

[@zaxlorax7605]

SuburbanoidMisfit111 Uh. I know what you mean. And kind of not know. I know girls that have horrible personality, are ugly asf and are a brat, basically they shouldn't live and are popular. I don't really get it.

[@wondertyzipp8260]

I just want to say, your eyes are so pretty! I'm so envious of their colour and how vibrant they are ✨️

[@penelopeeeeeee]

it feels like you really do just have to accept it and stop viewing it as such a negative thing, but it’s so hard…. it’s so hard to keep telling myself that looks don’t matter

[@TheDailyEgg]

"I'm ugly and I'm proud" --Spongebob Squarepants

[@zenov8469]

inspirational stuff

[@astoldbynickgerr]

SpongeBob was on to something then...

[@nathanhunnisett6199]

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[@6ixlxrd]

"Is that what he calls it?" -Squidward OG Tentacles

[@jasminerichardson3041]

“I never want to get into this place where I feel like what I look like, is more important than what I do.” Wow. I loved that.

[@tl4176]

That is beautiful

[@LauraLaura-mv4xh]

but we can have both. my god, it's almost like pretty people cannot be good people. life is not black or white, we can focus on our appearance and still focus on our internal journey.

[@cimmerianfable]

​@@LauraLaura-mv4xhOut of all, Your comment touched my heart ❤

[@pillbugm8914]

@@LauraLaura-mv4xh The point is that society holds beauty in an overly high place and makes people forget other things they have and could do. That's what the video is about, not that pretty people aren't good people or that caring about your appearance is bad.

[@Engenenuzhatn]

i hope she is living well, love you💚

[@juni4626]

You are a true Angel!!! Thank you for your gift, I really needed it

[@Erecura]

"What a strange illusion it is to suppose that beauty is goodness." - Leo Tolstoy

[@carla-vv2xw]

it's actually "It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness." lol

[@Erecura]

It was spoken poetically in Russian, there will always be slight differences in interpretations and translations of a saying from one language to another hence the phrase "lost in translation." Taking into account how expressive Russian is; what I and what you translated it as, the context of it still stands.

[@rightwingersexposed8800]

Being beautiful could be a sign of many things which are beneficial. General health to start with, stronger progeny and very likely chance of a healthier mental state.

[@SuburbanoidMisfit111]

What about the countless infertile 'pretty' women and the 'ugly' women that pop out babies like a machine gun? What about the 'pretty' women that can't do shit but look 'pretty'?

[@LCbabyxO]

Teresa Benites omg yes.. amazing quote

[@DavisAshmon899]

I wonder how she’s doing now

[@rosie5348]

Ilya K ( laughs in logan paul)

[@Isabeltherat]

Ilya K “not dead! just living the good ugly life!” in the description of her channel :)

[@noodlery7034]

@Ilya K ????

[@brucopera]

Same! I wish she had instagram or something. She just seems like such a nice person

[@toooooor]

Il mio Nome. @moonsludge

[@avalon_in_the_sky]

this actually opened my eyes a lot, even ten years later. thank you :]

[@hermitwatcher8997]

Given this was 10 years ago, it was a bit ahead of its time

[@alma4833]

she is someone I would genuinely love to have a conversation with

[@thewatermelonseed1300]

This should be a Ted Talk.

[@harleyquiinnnn]

YES! So much more people should hear that!

[@cool_baby98808]

the beauty radiates from inside you. looking into your eyes as the viewer and listening to your thoughts, so articulate, makes me see you as beautiful.

[@morticialechatnoir6884]

It's 10 years later, and I hope you are doing well. These are very wise words, or in today's parlance, you're 'spitting facts'. It took me close to 3 decades to start crawling out from under the 10 ton f**king weight of my supposed "ugliness ". It's still a constant struggle to disconnect my worth as a person from my appearance though. Thank you for this.

[@chimoz_820]

A deep thinker is infinitely more beautiful than a person who is physically attractive and cannot think deeply. Your perspective is wonderful.

[@PockyNinja8]

Andy Genett I know you’re trying to say something positive, but idk I still don’t think it’s quite right to compare people’s beauty like that. There’s just so much to consider when it comes to beauty.

[@zaidabdullah6183]

She became a deep thinker because she is ugly

[@muffinman5741]

not really

[@missstewart5218]

soo you're saying that people cant be both physically attractive and 'deep thinking'? xd

[@hommegirl]

Zaid abdulla this is so true. I feel like when you are not pretty, you have the time to think deeper and realize stuff that people don’t see

[@Mar198]

Reminds me of a khaled hosseini quote that goes "beauty is an enormous, unmerited gift given randomly, stupidly."

[@scarlettt.s9822]

Marielle Muro- Buckingham love that guy

[@dorisblok]

it could be a gift, but I actually think life can get way too easy when you're someone who is considered to be very beautiful. it could be a bad thing too, is what I'm saying so I don't completely agree with what he says.

[@tenacioustrees.8737]

With that quote, the same thing could be said for having love. Not many have it but it always seems to be the worst of people who can so easily get it.

[@ufknw0tm8]

This is so true so many times I have come across someone who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside whereas someone who would be considered 'ugly' is the nicest person you could ever come across

[@PrimerCinePodcast]

You mean the Khaleesi, mother of dragons?

[@billybob1723]

What a wonderful video. You're a special person. Thanks for sharing with so many.

[@WiseIceBear]

The thing that helps me the most is hanging out with my friends/family, because then it is very easy to realize that people who are actually important to me don't give a damn about my looks and neither do I. You have an extraordinary mind which makes you beautiful and I think that all of us has something what makes us unique and beautiful. This video helped me a lot, thank you.

[@lottiej742]

This video is too pure for me. I loved this so much. Amazing person.

[@VoteRFK]

Lottie J-Urie. I wish she'd come back and make more videos. I'm going to sub in the hopes...

[@evad2180]

I love ur profile picture!!

[@DoctorDoom69]

Lottie J-Urie what when you look like a model in your photo ???

[@rachelisodd9548]

Lottie J-Urie Is it weird that I don't really look at people as ugly or beautiful? Like I have to have a relationship with someone before I can view them as ugly or beautiful. But it's not even beauty I'm seeing, it's kindness and intellect. And it's not ugly that I'm seeing, it's a shitty personality. Did any of that make sense or is there just something wrong with me?

[@marixcx]

Zac Loves Yaaa That's kali uchis (a singer) on their pp

[@isaiahjackson9983]

It’s so sad that 95% of the world doesn’t have a mind like hers 😩🙌🏾🔥

[@alessias.4733]

Including you.

[@tomaspalomaki5814]

Alessia S. Am I ugly? U don't even know what I look like.

[@alessias.4733]

@@tomaspalomaki5814 what? I was saying that most people don't have a mindset like hers and most likely the person who made that comment is just as superficial as most people.

[@wren7574]

That's a random number

[@sarahgloria1402]

If you really think like this you won t give a fuck about what others think

[@LifeOfLindaLee]

I found this when I was around 12-15 years old and I just had to come back to it to just say how grateful I was for this video and accepting myself through highschool.

[@jianusollmann1844]

You're actually so smart. I love it when people think things through this much.

[@Xbitxx]

I honestly found her quite attractive, even more so when she started talking and expressing her feelings. She seems very intelligent, strong and articulate. Those things are very attractive qualities

[@4ka07_muhammadrizky]

The way she speaks really attractive to me,she talks like a lady

[@laysoe2257]

Gay

[@Xbitxx]

Lay Soe your mother...

[@laysoe2257]

Hamm lol daddy’s mad

[@maylily820]

Lay Soe you probably have the intellect of a fetus if that’s your only comeback. You sound like a 9 year old

[@citiz3n942]

And the people telling her to put on makeup and that she could potentially be attractive, all of you are missing the point. You're all reflective of the media and society we live in, trying to change a person to fit your perception of how they should be instead of accepting them as who they truly are.

[@jasonkelly2173]

Truesay

[@IrinNovy]

+reyom neraul and what world do you live in? I'm sorry to break it to you but there are standards whether you like it or not. She is obviously not happy so people are making suggestions on how she can change it. And she can. There are a lot of tv shows there people get a make-over and feel much better, their eyes shine. Everyone loves feeling pretty. And she is not ugly. I can just see what I would change in her (hair, make-up, glasses). She can be really pretty. She actually reminds me of Emily Bett Rickards.

[@citiz3n942]

+IrinNovy If she liked makeup she would wear it. She's made another video to say that she doesn't wear makeup because it doesn't interest her currently. And yes society has its standards haha! But no one is required to mold themselves to them. Society's standards are the reason she is depressed to begin with, and if she chooses not to abide by them that's her choice to make. And yes I believe that she is attractive as well. Beauty isn't always about changing yourself, it can be about changing your mindset. She views herself as different, and realizes that it's okay to be that way.

[@IrinNovy]

reyom neraul of course it's her choice but if she's unhappy (and she clearly is) why not become conventionally pretty? I see a weird contradiction here. She doesn't like makeup - ok. Her choice. But she feels really miserable because she is not considered pretty by some standards. But guess what? Those people, who are pretty by the standards, spend hours taking care of their appearance. Even Hollywood celebrities don't look as perfect without make-up. So she doesn't wanna do anything and wants to be pretty (and she does, all this talk is just self-deceptiveness), that is just lazy to me.

[@stephanni98]

+05candyman Those people arent worth it.

[@karma_653]

girl people would die for ur eyes- ur getting ur glow up soon + u look fine!!

[@ewaijulka]

Made 10 years ago and still making an impact. Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes it's very hard to keep things in perspective. This coming from someone who was never conventionally pretty, but in recent years just keeps losing what little there was to various health conditions... permanent hairloss and facial discolouration being the worst offenders :')

[@Nooobbb232]

Your eyecolour is so beautiful

[@lilyhill5095]

Mia Wallace I know! I couldn't stop staring at her eyes. The colour is incredible

[@svar4842]

Still ugly tho

[@svar4842]

thomascampr haha calm the fook down, just a lil joke

[@somethingaboutfootball702]

Axel 1010 a joke... right..... haha...ha...ha

[@svar4842]

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[@bellabastien969]

People keep telling her to put on makeup and style her hair to be pretty. Apparently the point was not clear enough. Her intelligence, depth of thinking, and understanding are far, far more beautiful than some mascara and foundation. Ah society, we have been labelling the wrong things as beautiful

[@rachelanderson5619]

Bella Bastien who cares how smart she is being smart isn't physical beauty, that's not the point the point is she's happy who she is and that's all.

[@stigludwigsen]

Intelligence isn't physically appealing dumbass.

[@bobbyhill9830]

Rachel Anderson being attractive is everything

[@rachelanderson5619]

Bobby Hill I never said it wasn't, so you might wanna read my comment again.

[@zaxlorax7605]

Bella Bastien Easy by you to say it unless your pic. isn't you. Don't you think?

[@ElizabethVictoriaa]

I love that you referenced My Mad Fat Diary. That show is spectacular and was really inspiring for me too

[@Tyrenexg]

You might never see this comment, but you just saved my life.

[@TheDaha]

Who else is watching this after '21 years old: NO friends' ?

[@gabor6259]

I watched this BEFORE that.

[@hazy92]

me 😂 i love KZbin algorithms

[@TheDaha]

​@@hazy92 I feel like my FBI agent was th one who recommended me this (┬┬﹏┬┬)

[@hazy92]

@@TheDaha is they trying to tell us something..... it makes sense now..

[@TheDaha]

@@hazy92 mhm! 😂

[@KB-cc7yd]

I think you're eyes are a beautiful shade of blue. I also think your voice is super soft and soothing.

[@artvid-1915]

Kaylee B that's literally what I thought!!

[@hayleyzenchi6626]

Thankyou for sharing this beautiful message 💖

[@rinafagan2680]

this video is such a smart and beautiful take that i needed. thanks for the perspective

[@edithasd2806]

She is pretty she just loves her self the way she is and that's the most attractive thing I found in one person

[@bruh-hf8xt]

YEAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH

[@MO--rn4zh]

yes i've watched this video so many time and i fall for her every. damn. time.

[@SmIle-eq3be]

Yoo I legit see nothing ugly about her!!!!! Am I trippin?????

[@melissavezzoli2554]

Is when you don't like yourself that you're ugly. I'm ugly.

[@edithasd2806]

@@melissavezzoli2554 that's why she pretty

[@maddieperkins8137]

okay but your eyes are some of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen

[@sweetjello_7057]

Yea...no

[@kaylania591]

Exactly wut I was thinkin they r nice

[@heyimmary1876]

I agree. :)

[@Sara-em3il]

you're missing the point sis

[@emil.2019]

Maddie Perkins Ugh, can you just watch the vid

[@ellal1067]

Watching this with three recommended videos on the side about other peoples amazing flawless lifestyle vlogs, and overnight glow up videos. Its so easily being pressured into feeling like you need to be constantly making yourself prettier and better all the times instead of being who you are in the moment. I worry about my looks alot and I think we need more videos like this.

[@Wither246]

Thank you so much for making this video. You helped me a lot, really.

[@sitas9827]

"In a blind world, how many people will you impress?"

[@jamalempfehlung9841]

What

[@hancy3013]

@@jamalempfehlung9841 if everyone was blind would you still be beautiful

[@hideouslyugly1361]

The world isn’t blind in seeing how ugly I am cuz that’s exactly what I am and it’s obvious😔😣

[@equim7363]

The problem is, we don't live in a blind world. Alternative version: "In a hermaphrodite world, what will be the point of being beautiful?"

[@hideouslyugly1361]

@@equim7363 the point?; not being so disgustingly ugly and unattractive like me making people gag and get sick at the very hideous sight of my ugliness and that’s the truth

[@carlingnugent]

I agree with her that humans are super bizarre looking as a species.

[@Danuxsy]

That doesn't make sense, everything is relative.

[@hasou5289]

@@Danuxsy it does how is it relative when we are literally the only species with completeley different looking specimen each generation

[@princessofpower4862]

Tigers are the most beautiful species. Humans are funny looking lol

[@nathanhunnisett6199]

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[@masonprice1522]

@@Danuxsy I mean humans probably do look really weird if you're looking from an Aliens perspective lol. Upright walking meat sacks, with fur only growing out of the top of their heads, all different shapes and sizes. Pretty wild

[@kinokoo_san]

I REALLY LOVE YOUR EYESSS, THEY ARE SO PRETTY 😭💕

[@nelladenzel7127]

You just said so many important wonderful and true things and I think I will come back to this video really often! It really reminded me what‘s important and what things i do not have to care about. Thank you for this video and being so honest humble and intelligent!

[@missybeans1]

You guys are missing the entire point of the video. She didnt ask how she could make herself look "pretty" she said she is content with her appearence

[@studmalexy]

100% agree....I see comments saying "you are beautiful"....its all fucking bullshit...............she is an ugly person..FACT.....an ugly person who is just coping with her situation,,thats the point of this video................I cant stand good looking people who tell ugly people that they are "beautiful" when they know its pure B.S.

[@edwardkenway6630]

You guys need to return to the way of the prophets

[@Celebrity_insight_]

This was put on my recommended page... I think youtube is trying to tell me something...😢😂

[@agapon2023]

my first thought was the same as well

[@tom-qf7uo]

You just completely Missed the point of the video?

[@Celebrity_insight_]

@@tom-qf7uo when did I explain what I thought the point of the video was, I was simply making a joke on how an old video about being ugly was recommended to me.

[@raphpadaze8087]

xxxtentacion is an amazing artist

[@ForensicsOnTheScene]

I look up cosmetic surgery crap all the time... doesn’t mean someone is ugly.

[@nnjack9931]

This is old and just popped up. You are not ugly at all.

[@MonaE_1C37]

I'll reflect on this video a lot, I really loved this. Thank you

[@fakingdeep6418]

A quote that resonates with me through this video was by F. Scott Fitzgerald, “No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”

[@shavonneproctor7763]

expreshayne ☺

[@catbennett5251]

That was very beautiful, I'm sure you're beautiful as well.

[@adrienne2618]

totally agree

[@amysteriousdisease7168]

that is amazing quote thanks for sharing

[@NoName-mm6gh]

expreshayne do we have microscopes to look inside?

[@ModsOnSteamDeck]

The irony is that being comfortable with being unattractive is... attractive? Think its a confidence thing!

[@poppymoon4122]

For sure!

[@agirlhasnoname3580]

The most unattractive people to me are the people who knows they are attractive, it’s weird ngl

[@ModsOnSteamDeck]

@@agirlhasnoname3580 completely agree

[@helloootheresirr4839]

A girl has no name why tho. I love people who are confident and know that they are atttractive. I just don’t like people who boast about it.

[@miljenko4209]

it just comes of as creepy and cocky

[@jesicaguzman4132]

This video is beautiful, just realized you posted this 10 years ago. I hope life is good for you and that you are being happy. It's not easy to find sensitive people like you in this world. I'm glad YT recommended me this video.

[@sabrinacowan1766]

Looks are overrated. I wish we could be friends.. I find your spirit to be absolutely beautiful… refreshing.. just keep growing brighter my love !! ✨🙏

[@anjaraj]

I was listening to her and realised that I spend so much time thinking about the way I look, its sad actually. And there are many people that spend more time than me thinking about it..

[@Danipieee]

Anja R TRUE. I waste a lot of time worrying and thinking about my looks and it’s so ridiculous. I’m getting better though! I think many aspects in society just make girls or just people in general a bit insecure no matter how you look!

[@mistywest6295]

Anja R me too

[@mgal6234]

If you worry about it when you’re young, it’s hell when you get older... It will bury you.

[@NonStopParis]

Who TF decided what beauty is anyway

[@Maha-wm9tx]

evolution, that's who

[@buttaz3000]

babies lol

[@kateisasmartass]

Natural selection

[@laurah2113]

white people

[@Ayesha_5782]

NonStopParis Society.

[@MattisWell.20]

What’s beautiful is that you have the capacity to think this way, when much of the world now tends to define beauty arbitrarily. What a brilliant mind you have. Bless you, friend🙏

[@cinnasin66]

Wow you are so insightful. This video made me cry happy tears, I get a lot of people letting me know I am ugly and the last week or so it has really bothered me as I met someone online and in person they said I was revolting