3 Ways to be Irresistible to Him Using Your Eyes

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

see you there! :)

[@terribrown5989]

I pray I get to experience true love before I die

[@Mat_Shaffer]

yess you do!!

[@paula-elizabeth]

Pray as if it’s already happened (Mark 11:24), give thanks and trust in faith that it will happen - and it will. 🎯🙏🏾😃✨

[@maureenishabor8036]

You will,Believe

[@wesleyvellutini]

1. As an invitation for him to approach you. 2. Regular eye-gazing with your partner. 3. Using eye contact during physical intimacy.

[@sylasmaurice9186]

instablaster.

[@prettydisabled9060]

♥️

[@martyharber5440]

7:37

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@danielagutierrez9969]

THIS IS TRUE! I remember doing this unconsciously with an ex-partner. At first, when we locked eyes with one another at a time when were only going out, we would giggle when looking at one another. Then, unconsciously, we sustained eye contact and couldn’t help but smile at one another ❤️ It was one of my favorite things. It helped me know that we felt the same about one another 😊

[@Sound7heWarCry]

Daniela Gutierrez so good to know! Thanks for sharing

[@Mat_Shaffer]

wonderful love this share!!

[@Serel25]

When he looks into my eyes I can't turn away 😍😍😍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aww so sweet!

[@lindajackson2382]

The EYES ARE THE WINDOWS TO THE SOUL!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YESS THEY ARE!! :)

[@tabithathewholistic]

FIRST of all I could eye gaze into those beautiful baby blues any day😍😉And second of all yes, the eyes are the windows to the soul 😍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

awww so sweet thank you! so so agreed, eyes are powerful :)

[@tabithathewholistic]

@@Mat_Shaffer Of course!

[@mesquitegirl2013]

I’m that way with my man. I can’t stop staring at his baby blues 😍

[@esaiamystic]

LOL 😂

[@esaiamystic]

Mat is good with the eye contact

[@Megara20]

I'm so glad you made this video because I always tend to look away when guys look at me. I'm super shy, but when it's right, it's absolutely amazing. I need to work on it. Thank you!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YES wonderful!! let us know how it goes!

[@Megara20]

@@Mat_Shaffer Wow, apparently he really likes it. And it was really hot. Thanks for your videos!

[@ln8896]

Thank you Mat!!!! I'm going to keep working on this without getting nervous and turning away quickly because of anxiety!!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

wonderful love it!! you got this!

[@dianasherry9903]

I only recently discovered my eye power, and it’s fun to use it. I use so much less makeup since COVID and a bit of mascara, subtle colored pencil to compliment my blue eyes and neutral eyeshadow. Long bangs direct the focus to my eyes. Thank you Matt for confirming the power of one’s eyes. And a sweet smile.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@joybella1803]

Love it how we deepened our connection when we make love passionately. He said i am very beautiful looking through his eyes. Thanks Mat more power to your tribe👍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Absolutely!!

[@hunny585]

Matt make a video on how to create emotional connection with a man we have just met

[@Mat_Shaffer]

great suggestion!

[@cn2746]

#3 should come with a UL label! The electrical connection that is closed with this eye contact is physically palpable. Nothing compares. Carol

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[@HealthandHealing7]

I am a teacher , my male students focusing on my eyes regularly and smiling in a way the female students get jalous😂 and yes i do that unconsiously just to control them in a soft way. And also alot of men trying to appraoch me just because i make deep eye contact , i like to enjoy eye contact and smile ,it is influencing method.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@anoukc6928]

#3: smiling during sex isn't working for me, without my glasses I can't see anything! I'm super super shortsighted 😂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

haha you cant smile with your glasses off?

[@wesleyvellutini]

Jesus Christ

[@anoukc6928]

@@Mat_Shaffer I can but I don't like smiling at someone if I can't see the person 😅

[@anoukc6928]

@@wesleyvellutini I'm not catholic

[@leerosetiger6396]

Your the best! Love your videos, every time so useful. Thank youu

[@Mat_Shaffer]

aww thanks Lee :)

[@yossynensy8662]

I look at his eyes minimal 5 second and then smile, powerful 🤩

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YESSS so powerful!!!

[@lynj9088]

Thank you Mat

[@Mat_Shaffer]

My pleasure!

[@antoinettefernandes8133]

Thanks Mat .... will use the eyes more when I get an opportunity...

[@Mat_Shaffer]

good luck!! :)

[@dawn-suzettenoray495]

Eyes ad invitation/smile Eye gazing Use eye contact during physical intimacy Nice video-:))

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yes! Thank you!

[@christeldevrindt3863]

In the beginning it is a bit akward but it it is defenitely worthwile and iyour eyes are the portal to our soul and get a deeper connection witth eachother🙏👁😳🙈

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yess so worth it to keep going in with eye gazing 😍😍

[@kayc150]

Thin line between gazing & staring 😶💕

[@LadyMargaretSteppin]

This so very true I do it anyway but now you given me another way to experience this beautiful journey.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Wonderful! You can do it!

[@patlee7352]

Eyes is the light of your soul.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Light & darkness hehe ❤️✨

[@ohlalamuah5832]

My boyfriend and myself do a lot of eye gazing, it came naturally sinse the beginning of our relationship specially when we are intimate...we conect in a magical way..maybe because we are both scorpios!?

[@Jenn_KittyThe3rd]

Most likely. Scorpios have that magical gaze, it's so intimidating, but awesome at the same time. They really look into you, not just at you.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

POWERFUL that would totally be it!! soul level connection!

[@ohlalamuah5832]

@@Mat_Shaffer thats exactly how I feel! The other day he took me out for dinner we were sitting facing each other, I felt he was looking at me so I turned and there we go, we locked eyes. When gazing we don't smile or talk, we just look into each other's eyes like our souls take over, then we say I love you to each other afterwards.

[@RayanRayan-nt8bf]

Happy new year Mat🎆🎉🎁

[@Mat_Shaffer]

happy NY to you!! :)

[@mustardseed3624]

The man I'm crushing on works with me and,all we do is gaze and lock eyes for long periods of time, but we are shy to talk and start a convo. He,smiles,at me all the time. I smile too. I think he wants me to initiate convo. It started with me catching him staring at me and he would look away real fast. Then he started holding it and smiling. But for months its been long gazes and he is gorgeous so he intimidates me. Now I'm thinking he is just shy too start the conversation.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

give him a casual comment and see what he does ;)

[@Megara20]

Omg, this literally sounds like my situation. Identical story, I swear.

[@XGoldenPhoenixX]

Mustard Seed please tell me how it goes!

[@mustardseed3624]

@@Megara20 now there is an 18 year old skank that just started working there who is,after him. She went in his glass office trying to ask him a question about something she knew the answer too just to get next to him.. She bragged about it afterword to a lot of people at work in this training class. He is in his 30s

[@suzannegaglie6146]

@@mustardseed3624 you had better get busy and make contact with him.

[@lailakhan9410]

Awww thanks alot this vedio encouraged me to look into his eyes more often.....which I do but not that often but after ur tips il do it with more confidence and get his heart crave for me more🤗

[@Mat_Shaffer]

yess practice makes perfect :)

[@geeem7889]

Omg..love this Mat!! Eye contact is so powerful, so sensual..seductive. I was on a date once and the guy said: "i like the way you look at me". 😏 lol that stuck with me, it was so hot!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@paula-elizabeth]

Great Video Mat - It’s subtly sensual! 😊😃

[@ydjda.2634]

Merry Christmas !

[@Mat_Shaffer]

merr chrismtas to you! :)

[@toni2017]

It's true that eye contact is very important!!👍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yes it is!

[@yvonnebaker2574]

Hi Matt, love your videos and the way you explain all your ideas. I have learned so much.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Happy I could be of help.

[@yvonnebaker2574]

Now I just would like to find the love of my life and complete my book on the longest romance scam PROBABLY EVER!!!😪 I am thinking and believing there is hope! Maybe Matt, I should just get a puppy for that unconditional love I've been searching for 🙏🐶❤️ thanks again for your special videos! Much appreciated.

[@lisalindberg]

Love your vidoes, you have a new follower from Sweden, to make my life more fantastic, and sometimes a challenge, I live the polyamorous life, with 3 amazing boyfriends 😎❤️

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for the beautiful share Lisa Lindberg 🙏

[@realjoy101_tv7]

I am shy to look into his eyes whenever we are in physical intimacy he always asked me to eye contact.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@amandag7777]

What is it when you have alike an out of body experience while eyes gazing? Our eyes were like magnets. I can’t even explain what happened

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@yvonnebaker2574]

All the men I meet are younger. I have 2 currently and waiting to go to the commitment level.

[@yvonnebaker2574]

Yeah, lol, forget the commitment level, back to square 1 again 🤣 thank God, you can keep going up n down those stairs

[@yvonnebaker2574]

Yeah, cancel the commitment level for now lol

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@DarkSiren81]

Love your videos. I wish I could say these tips worked for me but unfortunately they didn’t. Most men would just look away from me. I have a feeling a lot of other women had success with this.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing Jennifer🙏 Just don't give up❤️

[@cactochan6175]

I do the first one Everytime we meet it's a habit of mine with him and in bonus he kisses me much much passionately and the other day when we were making love and we were in so deep I looked in his eyes and caught mine then something really magical and hot happened. It was sweeeeeeeeet. Thanks Mat You are a great gift❤️.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so welcome glad you enjoyed it! thank you for the share!

[@prettydisabled9060]

"Look into his eyes while being intimate." Say no more, looks into his eyes while kissing his lips. Wish me luck y'all. 🍀 🤣

[@Mat_Shaffer]

YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you :)

[@michelledicesare9808]

I just found this video and its right on! There is something else I would add. While meeting eyes or gaze I would use the eyes to gaze upon each part of the face slowly drinking it in

[@michelledicesare9808]

Oops, and finally finding his eyes again...

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Great tips! 🙌❤️

[@ritasarah7474]

How about connection with long distance relationship

[@Mat_Shaffer]

its trickier but video chat is powerful!

[@Lynnromesa]

I’m gazing my eyes on you now Matt…..😍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Aw thanks you’re making me blush ;)

[@hoiliswu6070]

Deeper conaction both

[@Mat_Shaffer]

yessss

[@blackfoxqueenjhaz9123]

The marilyn monroe effect💖

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@marykathleensapp6937]

Unfortunately you do not know if the person you are making eye contact with, smiling at, opening yourself to is in a relationship.... a chance some are not willing to take in this day of untrustworthy men🤔

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I appreciate your opinion on this!

[@cherylcook218]

wondering 😅

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@reginaoke2360]

I get brain freeze each time he looks into my eyes

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@FINEDIAMOND]

You are such a beautiful blue-eyed man Mat!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you! That's very sweet.

[@FINEDIAMOND]

@@Mat_Shaffer: You are welcome! ❤️

[@atlas3732]

That's how they keep getting me, sheesh.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I’m happy this resonated with you!

[@kathleenfarris8710]

I really like your videos, but I don’t get what being a “former attorney” has to do with anything .

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad to hear that. :)

[@izaito9910]

♥️♥️♥️

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

QUESTION OF THE DAY - What other magic eye techniques have you used with men to deepen your connection with them?

[@Carvegirl]

The puppy eye look with a smile or a cute giggle 👀😉

[@Mat_Shaffer]

classic!

[@tabithathewholistic]

Gazing with a bite of my lower lip or if I have long layered bangs, peeking through them with a slight smile 😄😏 Inadvertently I'll tilt my head and gaze too if a fellow who has my interest is engaged in conversation with me.

[@tabithathewholistic]

@@Carvegirl oooo😉

[@ashleyj2410]

I’m too shy to hold eye contact with men 😂😂

[@Anonymous30174]

Wow another shy girl? Omg me too ! I am working on it though by, gravitating from his brown eyes to his mouth because I love his smile. ❤💕❤❤💕 He has really pretty brown eyes

[@Mat_Shaffer]

You should try!

[@jennys5392]

These details is prett good. It is all about letting the words come out within a cozy rythm you believe in. Try reading Celestine Dessike's homepage for one case in point that never disappoints.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@aeyacastanares1034]

Hmmmn sir le?like looking to its prey sir matt? Just kidding if i do that sir matt i look scary ahahhaha

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@terribrown5989]

I have a question I'm 50 I prefer younger men but NO ONE under 70 ever ask me out if they ain't 70 to 90 they ain't asking for my number WHY IS THAT ITS REALLY FRUSTRATING ME

[@Mat_Shaffer]

are you around younger men regularly?

[@terribrown5989]

@@Mat_Shaffer I'm a cashier I'm around alllll ages

[@terribrown5989]

@@Siquomb1 thanks that's good advice

[@leeannajohnson1008]

Dress better do your makeup wear perfume and smile at the younger guys

[@leilaniarjonillo9225]

Improve the volume of your audio... Your voice is not too loud to be heard clearly

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you for your feedback ❤

[@janiceweathersby2280]

I am eye gazing you right now! Wierd.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

haha glad you enjoyed it! :)

[@meemeethecat7391]

To all veiwers, popeyes has some bomb, mc and cheese, go get some, popeyes remember me, hello mat,

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Hi there!

[@meemeethecat7391]

@@Mat_Shaffer thanks Meoww.

[@lorraineamico42]

Your the best @lorraineamicothemakeupartist learned so much I became much more sexy then what I am thank you

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@JAY-qj2ql]

I'm here because i think i'm not attractive to the men HAHAHAHHAHA

[@Mat_Shaffer]

It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new

[@jennellfredrick5477]

Mat, you’re so hot!! I hope I can meet a man like you!! 💕

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I so appreciate you saying that - that was so sweet of you!

[@anejorhum1665]

What does it mean if a guy cannot make an eye contact while talking to a woman? 🙄

[@Mat_Shaffer]

it could mean lots of different stuff! I wouldnt read that much into it