3 Ways to "Re-Engage" a Girl Who's "Pulling Away" (without looking desperate or needy)

[@noelb51]

The best advice I've gotten was from a girl and we both knew this situation was going on with us. It was transparent to everyone, except me! Lol! So, after many small talks, she pointed out things that turned her off to me. The thing that remains the most was when she said, "You just care TOO much! You have to learn not to give a s**t!" That statement hit home with me that day, and i learned to laugh at myself about it! And remember, great friendships make the best beginnings.

[@Heyya01]

thats what my ex said too. i was so in love with her that time.

[@noelb51]

@@Heyya01 It seems like a lifetime since I wrote that...since then I've had a couple family tragedies that have changed my views on things in life. And love.. I've closed my heart off to frivolous caring. I know now how genuine true caring and loving feels, and how it's something that we have no control over, so it no need to think about it.

[@williamarbelaez5382]

If she pulls away you pull away and you stay away. Sooner or later she will be the one contacting you

[@Jerry3221991]

Not in all cases.. if she is really interested than yes

[@MrBarakzach]

Happend to me so many times... Sometimes it was days or a week later, sometimes it took shitload of time but in most cases they come back.

[@unstoppableking2356]

@@MrBarakzach I'm currently going through the something right now it's like hot and cold with her...she's a nice person overall ..one thing I realized is that whenever she pulls away I just leave her alone period that's just the right thing to do but there's know guarantee that she will come back ...

[@MrBarakzach]

@@unstoppableking2356 last night I was suppose to meet a woman that I've been texting for a month. We didn't meet earlier due to covid-19 lockdown. She cancelled about an hour before we where suppose to meet stating I don't feel like getting out of her home and asked to reschedule. Today I texted her. That I like her and she is my type and I don't believe postponing meeting for too long is a good thing. I told her that we should meet face to face on Sunday (cause the weather is suppose to be nice that day) and an hour 7:30 pm... I will be happy if she agrees to meet and if not we will depart as friends... 3 hours ago she saw the text and no reply meaning she doesn't care enough to answer and that's why she probably cancelled at the last minute. That way I know where I stand... Other guys might agree to wait but the cancellation was a red flag. I could understand if something serious happens that gave a reason to cancelle but yo cancelle on the last moment cause she doesn't feel like it showed me whom I'm dealing with... She probably thought yeah, he will take it... I know my worth and I don't play this kind of games.

[@nickj8521]

this is true. Just happened to me a few months ago. If she starts becoming disinterested the best thing you can do is give it a break. and is she says she needs a break the best move is to set parameters. don't contact her for at least 3 days and once that time has past reach out to her and see how things are. Don't give in if she tries talk to you during this time. the worst thing you can do is come off needy by constantly trying to reach out to her after.

[@doubleoseven8429]

When she pulls away be a gentleman and open the door for her!

[@medicinekeysformrcps5025]

When she pulls away, help her to go 😂

[@ThumbPlay]

Hilarious 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

[@alihashimi2700]

hhhhhh

[@KmusikOne]

That's what I usually do ✌

[@amschelco.1434]

100% Agree on that haha the only thing that really matters and a big problem when it pulls aways is money..

[@Davidthemarathoner]

@@amschelco.1434 "it".

[@123arcadia]

Tom Green advice is golden!

[@juancunhalima]

its all about been a bit careless. Dont care to much

[@BobbyRio]

yea pretty much.

[@paulhamacher773]

I care much by nature and I love doing so. It's part of my identity. So fml?

[@Savo963]

How to do that when your essence is broken again and again....

[@nickj8521]

the person that cares the less in the relationship has the most power

[@asktheetruscans9857]

If she turns down "casually" hanging out, just say "Ok, thought I'd give you first shot," (then shut up-don't explain), finish with "gotta run." Then take someone hotter instead, or her best friend, or her sister. She fucked up, her loss.

[@fitnesscoacharda]

Stop watching so much Hollywood movie dude 😂😉

[@Atlin.]

a girl will be so glad she didn't go with you after you throw those temper tantrums

[@Craig1168]

Dudes great advice I’m a retired combat vet and seperated and just applying some of your advice has gotten me back closer with my wife!! Thanks dudes you guys own!!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*By creating opportunities for fun interactions - like suggesting a casual outing or referencing a shared memory - guys can reignite that spark. It's all about reminding her of the good times while keeping it light and pressure-free!*

[@donatoiacovino6968]

Great video: being persistent but keeping dignity at the same time.....always making the lady feel as though you could care less if she joins you or not

[@nunyadambiz8034]

Stop trying and walk away, she got bored with you being so available. She'sspolied or you spoiled her or she can't decide what she wants

[@TheCHILDRENofTV]

Bingo !

[@aaronhusar24]

immature girls don't want a Ned, an Eggbert, or a Kingston; they want a Ricky, a Bobby, or a Shannon.

[@sflo4538]

If a girl is making those excuses about being tired or having a friend in town she isn't interested.... unless she is giving you an alternate, specific time. A girl is just like a guy - if she interested she SHOWS UP.

[@royPhoenix7]

she's having her period .

[@guilhermehx7159]

Agreed 100%

[@Itz_KLONOPIN]

Man your videos are exactly all the things I need to hear 🙏

[@BobbyRio]

Glad to hear it

[@j-star1]

Amazing video, Rob’s is the boss!

[@Lavenderrose73]

Some of this stuff makes sense, like asking a girl out somewhere in a way that doesn't put the pressure on, but while he's telling you how to play the game right, a woman out there is telling _us_ how to kiss a guy the right way in order to win him (or keep him). I would honestly take this stuff with a grain of salt. He's right about not wanting to look like a desperate fool, but what about just being genuine?

[@justinwhitebeaver966]

Lavenderrose73 are you a female is so get offline and get back in the kitchen

[@I-Am-Wonderful]

Lavenderrose73 Being genuine for most guys is repulsive to most women.

[@williemixco5717]

Describe genuine please

[@varta1670]

Biggest turn off is if you are insecure

[@Lavenderrose73]

@@I-Am-Wonderful as a woman myself, I beg to differ. That depends on the man and his character. If he's _genuinely a jerk,_ then you're probably right. I know from personal experience that is not true for all men.

[@damonjoseph1825]

In my opinion it AIN'T gone matter how original of guy you are how spectacular of guy you are or how clever you are if AIN'T woman AIN'T happy with in herself ALREADY she ain't going to act right towards you or be happy with you.

[@damonrjoseph3012]

In my opinion it AIN'T gone matter how original of a guy you are or how spectacular of a guy you are or how clever you are if the woman AIN'T happy within herself ALREADY she AIN'T going to act right towards you or be happy with you

[@unknowprofile8369]

Bobby Rio , I confess that this video is highly ranked for me. I am the guy on the previous video I have written in the comment section "how to get an ex back and why you don't make a video about this".I am very grateful that you did a video like this I asked.In my personal view is the best youtube video you have made. Okay,I got it about the 3 ways to re-engage. You gave to us so many pieces of information and I have questions about this video and with your programs. *First,I mustn't pressure her. Second, I should make a move on her to show intent, that I want to sleep with her. In case,If the girl ,ends the conversation because we fighted and she say things, like let, 's finished,don't bother me etc.if I wait for her 3-4 days and the days go by (I have done no contact rule in my case too ) and I am not doing the first step fast then I put more pressure on her side.(9:28).I am supposed not to initiate anything again , even, I know now she doesn't mean what she said to me.I have an ego and I don't want again to do the first step. *I have buy the scrambler,in this case that the girl is rude, disrespectful etc I can't use the scrambler on her.I must walk away.I have walked away(I mean I have been with other girls in bed) but she doesn't know it. I am still influenced by her. *As the problem remains to me ,I use another product and absolutely love it it's called "gashlighting" .I have increased the attraction but she doesn't initiate anything. In conclusion, I loved this video you did it is very helpful for me and for many guys .In my case ,I am sure you have been too,what I am doing wrong? Thanks in advance

[@nattiemania]

You see, i learned something new and not common here today from you two today. Making her feel she has her independence and you are doing your (interesting) thing which is will go on anyway with or without her and so if she's free and interested, she could let you know.

[@augustneight7871]

"understood" with that voice, Rob killed me 😂😂

[@jerrynosa5687]

When she pull away dont chase just walk away without doubting your action

[@mosesugochukwu190]

How do I do that ??

[@damonrjoseph3012]

Men learn to love,value and respect yourself.

[@Lavenderrose73]

...and respect _her,_ too.

[@damonrjoseph3012]

@@Lavenderrose73 now a day's it's usually because we respect y'all to much that y'all pull away🤣

[@ThumbPlay]

You goddanm right

[@FuelAirSparkTime]

@@Lavenderrose73 how about you earn it first Rosey

[@mosconioni4523]

The lame extra ticket / voucher idea never works 😂 once she pulls away, you pull away twice as hard or game over

[@samAC99]

man eminem really switched up his career 🤣🤣

[@DanteLikesRock]

More like chuck norris

[@pingpongfulldh2308]

jajajaj me muero

[@petemartinez1375]

Dam he almost sounds pissed like em

[@drewwood1986yt]

haha good one

[@SuperSeth321]

Good job man.. deserves a clap

[@serenechong3652]

You have to give her a silent treatment 1st. Atleast a week or 2. Then you can do this 3 step.

[@nicdominus7782]

You couldn't have posted this 3-4 weeks ago before I did everything you just described doing wrong?

[@killadivision4323]

dude get a better girl

[@persydiangelo8461]

Literally said “if you don’t mind, I need to take a break.” This morning, then saw the 5 mistakes and was like, “literally everything up to 2 was what happened.

[@nicdominus7782]

@@killadivision4323 spoiled her for about two months doing all of these things then did the grand gesture and took her on a vacation. She literally said too much pressure afterward and pulled away. Still in contact with her. Made progress after learning some of the pickup artist stuff from a few different teachers and applying it. Now she's confused because she wants me, but still can't get past the one reason she decided she doesn't. She's afraid to let herself love someone. She's tired of losing people. Everything goes well as long as I keep it casual and sexual and stay away from serious. Every time I let a little sweetness out and things get real she pulls away again. She doesn't know what she wants out of life. That's what I get for dating someone half my age.

[@killadivision4323]

@@nicdominus7782 Bro same here, just let that shit go man. fuck that noise, bet my left nut that there is a better WOMAN for you out there. and some personal advice, dont date GIRLS they never know what they want

[@themonkeyman414]

First rule after a girl leaves you is to move on

[@AutoBodyEverything]

Thank you for all your content you rock 😎

[@alexanderjentes]

Hilarious! I love the energy and vibe you guys are projecting! Another great video jam-packed with golden advice and grains of truth that all us dudes should always keep in mind - and never forget to keep practicing. All relationships and marriages are like a dance; you gotta keep dancin’ to the rhythm! Period.

[@BobbyRio]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@elisatseng6286]

As a female I agree

[@4sername]

sorry but giving yourself an estrogen and progesterone shot every month does not make you a female, but anyway

[@MrDontfeedthematrix]

If she’s pulling away, she’s just not into you, and wants someone else. What’s so hard to figure out?

[@damonrjoseph3012]

I don't think that's always the case I think SOMETIMES it's because we men become needy.

[@MrDontfeedthematrix]

Damon r Joseph If you’re high T, high status Chad, with your shit together, you don’t become needy because 1. The chick sees you as that rare catch _she_ is afraid to lose 2. A guy like this can easily get any chick, so he doesn’t ever have scarcity mind set. Neediness occurs when you can sense a woman’s interest in you is consistently lukewarm. That happens if you’re not high T Chad. Sure you can deploy game tactics, but you’ll always have to do it and never be able to be yourself. You’ll just grow tired and resentful.

[@williamheinsinger7390]

💯👍

[@MrDontfeedthematrix]

Daniel Denque nope. She’s putting up resistance because she doesn’t really want to be with you. You think she puts up resistance for Chad?

[@xElectricWorldx]

the more precise answer is that no woman is truly yours. they always go for bigger better deal that is available for them.

[@screenshooter7826]

I was about to ask this .. but now, thanks buddy!

[@thinkingoutloud3470]

If you don't have kids with this person and she pulls away ? STAY AWAY ! Don't chase, Replace !

[@apollobarkley]

They’ve invented this new stuff called Decaf.

[@Modern_Agriculture]

What is decaf

[@traviss977]

Why would you want to force her? If she doesn't like you, it seems senseless to waste your time

[@douglasmckenzie2564]

I hate these 2 guys so much right now! because why do i am finding thses lovely intrested videos after i lose my girl 😭😭🤦‍♂️

[@jpjp9111]

Came on too strong versus not making move soon enough. It sounds like opposites. That's confusing.

[@BobbyRio]

coming on too strong is NOT the same as making a move. Coming on too strong means you give off a vibe you really want her to be your girlfriend. Making a move is what sexually experiecned men do.

[@gr8rexrey]

Timing...a feel of the flow

[@bobbyfungsway1126]

@@BobbyRio exactlyyyy, theres definitely a difference 💯

[@OneMassiveMan]

It's over. She ain't interested. On to the next. Don't do any of this. If she wants to hang out, she will. She needs to have genuine burning desire. She doesn't. Just ghost and move on. If you know you did nothing wrong, she will come back. Happens to me anytime. Post shit on snap and insta of all the fun things. She will see. Who cares. Just have fun.

[@anthonymcinnis5815]

If you chase after her ..she is going to use that to her advantage..number one let her go,..she is not even close to your priorities in life...and you gonna find some one bettee

[@Holly_Bean]

The girl may not be ready to be attached period. Friends First. Seriously. College, family, hobbies and other things....get to know her and yes, do not pressure any girl....just be good to her, show her you think of her, and in a year, you just might bait and hook her. It happened to me! Seriously!

[@67scout73]

Good points - don't personalize a woman's behavior without evidence to do so.

[@davecostello560]

I keep thinking the guy in the white jacket is Dustin Hoffman doing some method acting new character.

[@aetv2595]

Guys never pay to know how to get a girl. Just approach as many women as possible and look good the failures itself will give you experience and you will become better

[@chrisbinder7537]

I got her back after she had went to another. Now I am wondering if I want her back.... she left because I was acting like a puppy but now that I am a wolf again I question do I even want her? A little help here?

[@adamsaleh4143]

Guys . Just wanna say something. As long as you’re not blocked on her phone that means there’s a chance and she’s testing you

[@gtcam723]

And she hasn’t deleted your ass on FB either lol

[@morelions4014]

Is there a one in a million chance that's she's actually just busy. Or got a lot going on. Id so love to believe this instead of thinking she's just lost interest.

[@Manglor824]

Yeah, there is a chance she was busy. However, is still treat it like a rejection and wait for her

[@FoolBoyQ]

Saw these two guys at a halfway house

[@raulmejia2066]

Bobby Rio, Rob, Thank U... Raul Mejia O'regel. City of Surprise , State of Arizona.

[@williemixco5717]

I think this guy has had a few of those red bulls himself for this interview😆

[@williemixco5717]

"Overselling the activity"...sounds like begging to me.

[@joseordonez9634]

How do i watch the scrambler?

[@general4theages]

Simple, just walk away and find another woman.

[@BobbyRio]

yea a lot of times that's the best option, but also, a lot of times easier said then done.

[@gr8rexrey]

Yep!

[@jpjp9111]

Easier said than done. I agree with Bobby.

[@general4theages]

@@BobbyRio Anyone who loves another person more than they love themselves shouldn't be in a relationship, they still have self esteem issues to deal with.

[@beausherwood2396]

@@general4theages that's it

[@schmoab]

Be careful. These guys imply that you can “rescue” any situation, but 90% of the time you can’t or it will be a several year project. Waste of time. Don’t get stuck in a whirlpool with some woman who has you in the friend zone.

[@chumadoshi6987]

Terrible advice all around. If she's pulling away from you then she's pulling closer to someone else. Don't play games. MOVE ON! GET A LIFE, A HOBBIE ETC

[@williamheinsinger7390]

EXACTLY 💯

[@tyroncases2775]

You guys noob what kind of man are you not up to a challenge? If there is even a girl that do not give you any test that is one low quality girls

[@YouaintSR]

That’s not true at all...

[@therambler3713]

That's not always true....

[@truegemini25]

So what happens when this girl finds this video and all the other videos on this channel and educates herself to the point she recognises all these techniques as soon as I try them

[@Frankabagnale33]

I had been seeing a girl for about 3-4 weeks. Was goin well but she was holding back. Still not fully over here ex. It was so clear. She admitted it. I travelled for a business trip. One month away. We were daily in touch then she called me to say she’s still not over her ex. I said I know and okay and didn’t message her for a week. She reached out, wanted to see me. I was drunk and while it wasn’t terrible, I could have handled it better. I told her I missed her - my mistake. She was asking when I’m back. I said I changed my flight and plans to stay away for longer. Finally came back and she messaged explaining herself, apologising a lot but finally saying she had an emotionally very difficult few weeks and doesn’t know what she wants and I do and she doesn’t want to end on bad terms. I responded saying I assumed she just met someone else so that’s why I didn’t hear from her. She said no nothing to do with it and she’s still single. When I was out this past week, she messaged. I’m planning to leave it. Just seems a bit all over the place. How does it seem?

[@fnzone]

Don’t give up but get other options 😉

[@Frankabagnale33]

@@fnzone I left it without contact for three weeks and I think in that time she moved on. We reconnected recently but she didn’t reply my suggestion to get coffee. I have a few dates this weekend, it was never any challenge but when ya like one, ya gotta try I guess.

[@aaronhusar24]

Movies are absolutely nothing like real life when it comes to "love."

[@Ispeakfactz]

They are totally crappy stuff. So bad that men think womanizing from movies is actually how's it done..

[@doubleoseven8429]

What happened to no contact rule

[@williamheinsinger7390]

Tell Her Bye FELICIA 🤣😂

[@LIVEOMAR2]

Ok. so i talked to a girl for 4 times on video and things were going well and it was 6 weeks. then i went to LA and told her i want to buy you a gift. she changed and wants to be friends only. then i said ok i guess this does not work online. i wait a few weeks and would text here and there and she would answer. i recently text her a joke and she laugh. i am trying to see if i can see her in person. I think the long distance bore her.. i am trying to see how to meet her if possible.

[@-1nterruption-960]

Hey Bobby do you do consultations. I have a seemingly complicated situation with a girl right now

[@nazmaster1]

i pulled away and guess what she keeps approaching me

[@MrBarakzach]

I think it goes both ways. Basically on first dates I like to talk, joke and have fun. Only later when I see if there's a good connection I talk about serious relationship... I dated this woman... On the first date she started to talk about marriage and kids... I told her I think it's irrelevant at the moment cause she just met... On the second date she tells me that her father supposably just happened to be at the next bar and she wants me to meet him. So I told her no cause seems to fast for me... And she kept doing stuff like that and after the 3rd date I told her I don't think it will work out for us... The things is people need to understand that there is a natural order of things and coming up to strong does the exact opposite.

[@Psingularity]

Gold stuff.

[@luyandamakapela8562]

what can I do if shes aways on her cellphones?

[@rebelreloading5265]

luyanda makapela “cellphones” lol 😆 Damn millennials

[@FaithFallRepentGraceRepeat]

Take your respect. Say, “I’d appreciate it if I had your undivided attention while we’re together. If not, maybe we need to take a rain check on this date.” Plain & simple. Nice, not rude. Direct but not commanding.

[@emanuel_soundtrack]

YES, THEY ARE STUPID ENOUGH TO THINK THAT ALSO YOUR HEAD HAS A NEW PLATAFORM WHEN YOU START ON A NEW PLATAFORM, i did it wit h a ex, we talk like no one follows no one but good...

[@bassimprovjams3772]

Great advice!!

[@BobbyRio]

Glad it was helpful!

[@e5141981]

I didn't know Eminem is a dating coach.

[@georgemanifase6979]

Step 3 don't waste your time.

[@ryanfischer8996]

I struggle with talking to this one girl sense she’s several states away I feel like I need to show her that I’m interested and I show that way to damn mutch but even though she’s further away should I just treat her as if she’s not that far away and message her like I would a girl that’s not that far away?

[@paulgill6059]

Let me save you 25 minutes.. Mirror her emotions! She pulls away you pull away as well!.. I know it's counterintuitive.. But say coll... I got shit to do... Shoot me a text if your about!.. That's it!.. Don't get me wrong loves these guys... In fact Bobby Rio.. If you want a apprentice.. Love to work under you guys... I'm Paul and I live in Southend England....

[@agbordaniels]

What do you do if you want to get your ex back n you’ve made all the wrong stops you’re not supposed to like being desperate, anxious, needy or butt hurt n you’ve both blocked each other on all social media?

[@cybardsands1362]

Don't drink alcohol and don't smoke weed not even one and wait. That's all you need to do to change your life. After it gets a bit easier think of something fun to pass the time and do it. Before you know it you'd be a different person and sobriety is very attractive to older women. If she doesn't want to know then that's life, by then at least you'd have other prospects.

[@OneMassiveMan]

Bro just move on. She ain't interested.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Leave her alone. She's not the one.

[@saifurrehman3628]

@@cybardsands1362 listen to jaun elia poet . he describes depression in such a way that you will want depression or just move on.

[@camerongarcia7100]

Yes you do need to be on tiktok by the way. Your content is great, and it’s the next big app when it comes to advice

[@BobbyRio]

Thanks for the tip

[@Primestormy]

I did all 5 mistakes and I lost her. She tell me she wants to be friends for awhile. How could I get her back.

[@CDiddy-go6cg]

Lol. Best to find another girl brotha

[@FoolBoyQ]

Tie her up and hide her in your trunk

[@Primestormy]

@@calsurf21 your right, I will do that....

[@Primestormy]

@@calsurf21 I started dating her again. We stop talk and she block me on Facebook. Then a few weeks later message me. Tell me how sorry she was and everything else. She wanted me back...

[@xavierzayne5712]

When she pulls it away. Maybe she's about to come.

[@honey_nandifitness7702]

How to make her mentally strong??if her age is 37 and she is single mom

[@39hircvv]

Pull away.

[@drewwood1986yt]

Your videos are all super long .. cut to the chase my man .we all have busy lives and dont have time absorb hours of info

[@stevec3892]

DREW MICHAEL exactly lol

[@emelionelson846]

Exactly too much talking get to the point

[@theshark6743]

Yes people need to like this to make sure he sees

[@DarnellMondayTheIssu]

Seriously bruh they take to long to get to the point facts

[@mruben1997]

Watch a different video ya jackass

[@bitka]

What is she's pulling away because sha have some expectations?

[@vishnupradhaban2189]

Any specific tips for Indians ....

[@MrBayern006]

oh man, I should have watched your videos earlier. I had a really nice girl and she was still interested, allthough I acted so fucking needy. But in the end it was way too much :(

[@Gurnerman]

All been there dude

[@AmarSingh-iq7ps]

Great

[@ClintonSnow]

Hello, Boby Rio, you are doing great and interesting videos but you have to speak slowly so we can understand your videos easily, Please speak slowly on your next videos,

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

She starts pulling away so no first date !!! Or says good friends don't date !!!

[@ian2372]

18 days or 18 months, this test can come whenever. Women have no sense of investment. Everything you did before the test no longer matters, if you fail you lose.

[@weeklyweeks7545]

Some gold but a lot of this won’t work. It’s borderline stalkerish. Best advice keep it playful but know when to walk away and let her initiate.

[@danielkidane1087]

18:03 lol so true

[@ReconSniper71]

Hey Guys, I just came across this channel. I have a question. I have done all that. But if she doesnt respond to your text or phone calls, then what?

[@BobbyRio]

then watch and see if its time to move: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jYu7ZqeNnM54fc0

[@39hircvv]

She isnt interested

[@ReconSniper71]

I shut the door and moved on.

[@Anthony-fe4oj]

What if you’ve known this girl for 8 years. We dipped and dabbed over the years. This last time was supposed to be serious. She ghosted me for 2 weeks. I never reached out in between, I let it be. She just texted me saying she may have birth complications, and cancerous cells were found. It’s been a day and I didn’t respond, but I know I should because this situation is clearly different. Idk if this is an excuse for a way out or it’s the truth. Idk how to respond. Ps. The only reason why I ask if it’s an excuse is because I heard about this over a year ago through mutual friends. I just never brought it up for her. So she’s known about it for a long time. Suddenly it’s a problem, idk

[@hsk8787]

Holy shit. When that guy started talking i thought he was being dubbed by a 12 yr old girl

[@sidedwar5278]

Any ideas guys. I just posted on FB an an event to my friend inviting him to it. Then a girl who has just pulled away from me, and put me in the friend zone, answers that post with, she will be attending. Basically telling him to come meet her! I'm trying to think of a humorous response. I was going to call her out privately, humorously.

[@marcleroux3426]

she pulls away, i lose interest and walk away. sorry life is too short to play mind games

[@camanquedesel]

We matched on tinder and we talked on Instagram she was really invested but i made a vidéo with my face and she's beginning to invest herself less since. Like, before she was the one who engages the conversation and ask what was I doing and showed me her art. But now she just respond to my messages but without émotions almost like à robot. She keeps saying that we Will see each other after quarantine but nothing sensational, she's not curious and talkative as before, in fact she says I was not her type but liked me for my bio and talk to me because she has a good feeling she loves my voice and humor. That story is just about 4 or 5 days long, because we text every day. What should I do ? Maybe just not sending thé first message for one week ??

[@I-Am-Wonderful]

Camille Frechou You’re messing up by chatting too much. That leaves nothing to talk about if you meet up, and no reason for her to see you. There’s no mystery.

[@epicmusicstation7748]

First big mistake is her sensing that needy vibes in u....

[@thomashair9276]

What if I’m a Christian and I’m not seeking to hop in the bed till marriage.... what is the approach from there?

[@Manglor824]

I have no idea. Good question

[@prendersmack1643]

So I went on a date with a girl I really like and she seemed to enjoy my company very much and we had lots of fun. Four days later I texted her saying that I still want to take her out for dinner a few days down the line on a Friday. It has now been yhree days and she hasn't replied and it is now the day of my proposed second date. Have I messed this up, or is it still salvageable?

[@terrytorres5026]

Let her go and focus on you

[@dobi287]

Changing platforms sounds even MORE desperate and stalkerish None of these tips sound any good tbh aside from relieving pressure These videos are good at explaining the why behind the situation and even what not to do, but really don't give you any practical things TO DO Even the scrambler idk if you guys bought it(i did) but I'm thinking about returning it cuz it's all very surface level. Informative most def don't get me wrong, but no *practical* value. No good behaviors to replace the bad ones.

[@dobi287]

The best(and most hardest) tool they actually have to give, which you have to learn on your own is the AUTONOMOUS MAN. That's the ONLY proactive tool they have and it comes without owners manual 😄 Godspeed out there brothers.

[@alabiabdulganiyu7494]

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[@dobi287]

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[@MerrpEmOutdoors]

@do bi is it worth the buy?

[@64788946]

I give commands

[@10314347]

ROB JUDGE!!!!!!!!

[@bulletinvid]

When she pulls away, leave the rope 😂

[@joshbrookes6439]

Probably wouldn't hurt to be a little more specific with what you actually mean by "Pulling Away" I can't speak for every man on earth but in my experience this is a very loose term and is commonly misused more often than not. For example If your Girl is literally always on her phone, even when you are with her do you take that as she's pulling away from you or she's just addicted to the damn thing? Or she says she needs some time alone, again some guys will over react and freak tf out if she said that to him where as in reality most psychology specialists would argue her asking for time to herself is completely normal and healthy component to any committed relationship. See my point? What is pulling away exactly?

[@terrytorres5026]

This is Beta bullshit. If she can't see your value let her go. Ever seen a cat, the cat must come to you. No matter what things you do to attract a cat, it will find value in you when it needs something. This is chasing a woman, and she is dictating your life. Get a hobby or motorcycle

[@johnnycapps6628]

How do we get in contact with you? To be a patient. Because I need a lot of help. And I don't like asking for help, but I'm asking right now. Please