30. How to be a Good Tarot Reader

[@SylvieKaosArt]

This is the most brilliant video I have ever watched, and how you came to be this person at 20-something defies belief.

[@kelly-annmaddox]

Thanks for the encouragement. I'm so pleased that you like my videos. They're meant to be accessible and open to everyone with as little jargon as possible, so it's great that you find them to be inclusive because that was very much the point! :)

[@kelly-annmaddox]

Precisely. Once you've defined your own style and intention as a reader, you'll find your clientele and those who are after something else will go elsewhere. That's the thing with a tool like Tarot.. it could go so many different ways and be utilised with a variety of different intentions. You just have to stay true to your way.

[@rebeccahowie7234]

Or like what I've learned and I'm 37; you can still love a person from a distance!!!! I've learned that no matter how hard it is for me, no matter how much I deeply care about them and their situation; sometimes I have to just separate myself.... It may seem selfish and I'm not one to seem like I don't care or that I'm any less of a friend.... But my husband passed and everyone was falling apart around me. BUT It was just my time to focus on me, my grieving, my loss and my kids. Everything else just made my heart not know when to be sad and I didn't know if I was sad for their problems or really if I was just terribly hurt for myself. Honestly sometimes I just wished I had their relationship problems and that my love wasn't in heaven. But it doesn't have to be as dramatic as my situation!!! So don't ever feel bad if you need to take a step back and care for yourself!!!! Yes you love them, you always will!!! But you can love them from a distance without being stuck in their stuff and everyday lifestyle. It's okay to step back and focus on yourself!!! Whether it's being a better mother, wife, student, employee; whatever it is, always take time for yourself!!!! And not just friends, family too!!! You're time apart isn't forever!!! Even if you give the situation one day a week, hear them out, give your advice, but then just clear your energy and focus on you for the rest of the week. Sending love and positive vibes to everyone!!!

[@astorzzz402]

your ideas about confirmation are correct. they come to tarot expecting to hear what they want every time. if she wasn't happy being told what the reason was or how simple her solution was, she should have found another question. theirs a reason that person came to you and that's what she was meant to hear.

[@michswags]

Yes but you could have gotten a person deeply served by that reading... :) Wonderful video!!

[@orioleaszme3415]

I don't care if this was six years old it was really good. I also read all of the links in the notes. Katey Flowers recommended your channel and I'm glad she did :)

[@ninsters89]

Brilliant speaker so fluent and brilliant

[@user-mh6xs9lr7h]

Great video. It is definitely important to not use tarot to limit potential, but instead as a tool to explore options.

[@vishalshah9127]

This message is for Kelly Ann Maddox. I hope I am addressing you right.I really like your style of deliverance and ease with which you relate and make the subject of tarot card so interesting to understand. Also I admire so much of wisdom you have acquired and so wonderfully you are sharing it with people all over the world.it's a request do keep making more videos of yours and keep enthralling the crowds. Regards and all the best. Vishal H Shah

[@bravesoul7777]

thank you for the beautiful message.in my personal experience your message is spot on.my experience is not so much in tarot readings but the dynamics when a person is confused and other people offer their advice...I have personally experienced that and realized when people push their view and they further victimise the person.you really understand that.I watch your videos almost daily and it helps me understand myself more and more each day.thank you.

[@n0tgunshy]

Excellent. A very enlightened perspective.

[@emmaythegray]

This is pretty much the most useful video I have watched on tarot. 💜 🙏

[@RAVENMoonTarot]

Wow I am glad I watched I found myself encouraging someone to move on but I did do it in a good way. I helped her to get herself together. Her family thanked me for straightening her out. I did however tell her she is a beautiful ladie and has many choices you are so right. When I built my confidence up more I felt I became a better reader. I am glad you made this video ty ❤

[@robertterrell3065]

What a great video you've produced here! I really love it and I'm in awe of all the information you pack into it for us budding Tarot readers 👍😁🧙 I'm not a person who likes to admit he's part of any groups. Well I'm obviously an artist and I've been that since forever... Yet I don't "group around" with other artists. But as I was watching this video I realized that I really find the Tarot readers to be a most interesting group of people. And not just interesting in an intellectual way but very caring about those who come to them for help - the querents as you say 😁 I am a part of a group! Tarot Readers! I can say it without hesitation - so surprising. Even after all these many long years still I'm reluctant to tell some people I'm an artist - the mind is a strange thing... Thank you for this video again. I'm sure I will watch it more than once. But now I have cats & birds to feed who are outside wondering why their lunch is over an hour late. They won't understand even if I tell them I was watching a most interesting Tarot educational video! LOL

[@daniellemarie6531]

very sage advice! very well verbalized. thanks for posting this video!

[@VriEvolutionTarot888]

My readings have been super triggering and i am self learned.. I almost started doubting myself as a reader because of the shadows of the collective I've been tapping into and been brutally honest about.. But after seeing this video, I feel better 😊

[@judyjandora86]

I am really loving your video Dear Girl!! You have more wisdom in your young years than many do at a ripe old age :) You are loaded with Crone Energy!! I'm in my early 50's and can listen to you with absolute confidence :) HOw lovely for those of us who want to learn this tool to have the gifts of your understandings!! I offer my deep appreciation for your sharing with all of us!!

[@KeatShadows]

Very good advice, thank you.

[@mj3535p]

You are great girl!!!

[@batthoselashes]

I so needed these posts of yours today. I'm doing my first full reading for someone else and it's on my cousin's wife who is a "seasoned" Tarot reader. She said she'd be my Ginea Pig but once I started and saw how deeply personal it was getting I stopped and emailed her and told her I would only continue if we could maintain healthy boundaries between being friends/family and reader/querent. She knows she can trust me so she said go for it. I'm still a bit nervous though. Wish me luck!

[@butterflymagicwithhottea9291]

Another great informational video. Thank you for this. I would really like to see you in action, applying the knowledge about Tarot with another person (real client or not). I would like to see the dynamic and feel the flow of how you make links for the querent. There are so many things to see about each card so I need to see how you select what is pertinent to apply for the querent. Please and thank you.

[@Sunita-Rao]

Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experiences. All your vlogs are very informative. Love all of them.

[@iSjazoo]

I'm starting to have an interest in this i've watched a video about all cards, some decks and spreads. I'm 19 and i want to give this some more time and maybe try it too! This video is very helpfull!

[@fangsteur2765]

So, how it went?

[@patrickjohn885]

Wow. This is some really great advice. Thank you.

[@barbararivera2380]

Top notch. Thank you

[@rebeccahowie7234]

I do need the confidence videos!!!!

[@judyjandora86]

All of your videos!! (I meant to say) I've seen most and come back to them often..

[@DefaultName-jt3gg]

Um you are awesome!

[@BrandiScarlet]

You are extraordinary. This video lit me up & is so delightfully inspirational. Thank you immensely for sharing yourself with the world.

[@jonathanbankert2846]

Excellent. Thank you for this.

[@MarlaMartenson]

Love this video! Thank you.

[@moonlightbotanica4115]

Thank you very much for this insight!

[@kelly-annmaddox]

Thank you so much :) It means a lot to me that you're getting something out of them x

[@explormor2011]

This was lovely thank you :)

[@IvyWynd]

Wonderful, informative video! Thank you for making this! x

[@Dreamingoffaetarot]

Thanks

[@kelly-annmaddox]

You're very welcome :)

[@perry1309]

Loved watching this, I'd love a reading. Could you post a link?

[@demeter4me]

I love love love your videos! Just wanted to mention that! =D

[@levannah60]

You look exactly like Ana paquin!

[@wormsali]

great tips! I'm beginning a professional career as a tarot reader

[@wormsali]

do you have any videos on giving telephone readings?

[@kelly-annmaddox]

+Worms Hip Hop I'm afraid not, sorry!

[@Passione888]

This is totally different thing but you really sound like Jessie J...😊

[@kelly-annmaddox]

How did this go, honeypie?

[@11kindpunk11]

💙💙

[@ultravioletpisces3666]

No sound!!!!

[@lilredheaded1]

🙏😊💖

[@firethorn007]

[@thebig3864]

thats stealing people money and bullshit them lettig them to live in illusion