30'S AND THE [NY] CITY: getting my life together and apartment issue updates (realistic nyc vlog)

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In today’s "MY 30'S AND THE [NY] CITY" diaries, we talk about feeling overwhelmed and constant pressure of not doing enough, finish up chores (laundry, cleaning & grocery shopping), try to get my life together (moving to nyc has been a big adjustment), talk about my new GlassesUSA.com eyeglasses and apartment issue updates.
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[@TishaShrestha]

HAPPY FRIYAY ✨ Hope you guys enjoyed coming along with me trying to get my life together 💕

[@siva_nejad]

Definitely write an email and not only send it to the management but the owner, real-estate agent or basically anyone you have the contact. Don’t forget to mention about all the video and photos that you have.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Siva 🙏🏽💗

[@georgiejackpot9540]

Get him to do a mold test that’s required by city ordinance and probably included in your lease.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Georgie 🙏🏽 He confirmed that based on his “observation” & nyc standard they will not be doing a mold test. I got two mold test kits from Amazon and will see what the results are 🤞🏽

[@georgiejackpot9540]

@@TishaShrestha oh that’s so shady def report him to 311 and housing authority. FYI those Amazon mold tests often give in a faulty results. A proper one costs about 1500 .. so that’s really on them to pay , not you.

[@morena-galesa]

Congratulations on the sponsorship - very well deserved! Jhaape looked too adorable for words in his new bag!! 💕 Best of luck with the mould situation in the apartment 🤞🏾💜

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so so much Nia! Have a lovely weekend 💗🐶

[@saaunique]

You should 100 percent insist that the building pay for the mold test. I thought my old building had a mold problem and they promptly replaced the air/heat unit. (But my breathing issues continued, I think, because the building itself was converted from a warehouse and had really poor circulation. I had to leave after that year.) You can ask your primary doctor for a mold allergy test too. I agree that you should send a letter to management with all your grievances and submit proof ( but don’t share everything because you may need that later for small claims court). Ask for a time frame for when you can expect resolutions, so then you can start asking for rent reductions if they miss the deadline. While wash and fold is a luxury, consider it and grocery delivery when you are tied. We cannot do it ALL and like food delivery, sometimes we have to pay more for the convenience. Hope you enjoy spring in NYC-it’s definitely the best time outdoors!

[@TishaShrestha]

I am so sorry you had to go through this. Thank you for all the suggestions 💗. I recently did online grocery shopping (since it was raining this weekend) and I will definitely consider it when I am tied up with other stuff. I will look into wash and fold as well. Really excited for warmer and brighter days ahead ✨

[@Sundaylove33]

Girl get those sponsorship! Love that for you!🎉

[@TishaShrestha]

THANK YOUUUU ♥️

[@camilleserrani5888]

One more thing…. Dhaval dancing in the window reflection is everything!

[@TishaShrestha]

hahahaha we were trying to get jhaape's attention ♥️

[@basedadri]

It’s very unfortunate the amount of issues you’ve had with this apartment considering how excited you were moving in etc. Shame on the management for trying to minimize the mold situation.. you should definitely break your lease and find somewhere better .. these problems are way too much for anyone to be dealing with

[@TishaShrestha]

I wish this new beginning wasnt this bumpy but in life nothing is perfect. I still don’t regret my decision of moving to the city. If the issues continue in upcoming months, I will definitely look into it. Thank you 🙏🏽🤗

[@sylviadjp]

This mid-30s lady TOTALLY feels this video. ❤ I'm in the midst of making myself do some hard-core spring cleaning. But cheers 🥂 to us making our spaces feel like a more comfortable and clean home. 🏠

[@TishaShrestha]

it makes such a huge difference ♥️ 🙌🏽

[@bonniepwtf]

Great choice on the glasses, very attractive on you. I feel so bad you concerning that whole apartment situation because you have been reasonable and working with them from the very beginning. Him saying he doesn't think there's a mold problem because his nose isn't affected & he doesn't smell it is ridiculous. You keep the place spotless & clean, that's why there's no smell. Grrrr

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Bonnie 💗. Yeah that’s what I got annoyed (solely based on “finger in the air” opinion). If he had provided another practical reason, I think I would have been understanding

[@lucillerissler4905]

Hi Tisha, First of all, I love your dog, so so cute. Please do not give up on getting management to get the issues you have taken care of. Roaches are hard to get rid of and they can multiply if not taken care of mold is a real concern because it can and will cause health issues. I had a small amount in my basement and I cleaned the wall area with a solution I found on Facebook and it has not come back in the 11 years since I found it. You mentioned that you might put your couch on the wall where your T.V. is and I think that would be good and then I would put your little island at the end of the couch where your lamp is and it is close to the kitchen and you could wheel it out if you need something on it. This would give you clearance to the closet that it now blocks and your TV. would not stand out from the wall as your couch now does. I love how independent and positive you are and am so glad that I saw your vlog and started watching it. I am wondering what kind of work do you do? Don't be so hard on yourself and take one thing at a time, as far as the apartment being messy with things all over I always say don't put anything down put it away especially if you live in a small space and you also feel so good when you open your door and everything is where it should be is there. I hope I am not sounding too pushy but I do like your vlogs very much and look forward to seeing them as you put them out. See you in the next one.

[@linda.bay12]

Hi Tisha, I'm sorry for all the trouble you are experiencing with the apartment. I think you should consider moving out. The property manager is making up excuses. Good luck.

[@TishaShrestha]

Hi Linda, I might consider it depending on how the upcoming months go. Thank you 💗

[@linda.bay12]

@Tisha Shrestha I know it's easier said than done. I hope everything works out. 🙂

[@TishaShrestha]

@@linda.bay12 Thank you

[@nelly17ful]

So good to see you doing lots of productive things Tisha 😊 some tips Mom lent me for mold are 1) wiping the affected area with clorox on a towel 2) opening the windows often!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you for all the suggestions & constant support 💗💗💗

[@MM-gl5th]

Just want to say I love all your videos!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you ♥️🥹

[@47solar43]

I just spent last weekend in NYC and had an opportunity to see a jazz quartet at the Village Vanguard. If you haven’t been, you need to go check it out. It also sounds like your apartment’s management team are just front end sales people and once the contract is signed they don’t care. I deal with vendors on a global scope, so I’m happy to provide some best practice guidance if you need it. Cheers!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so much for all the suggestions. I will definitely check it out 🙏🏽

[@beinglatanyarenee7334]

While you were talking I was like you have Vlog footage. And then you said you have footage. And all of these subscribers as witnesses! It will get better! Praying they will just so their job!! ❤🙏🏾❤️

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so so much ♥️. So grateful for your support!

[@lisasheridan5482]

Your doing amazing. Be compassionate with yourself 💖💖

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Lisa 🥹♥️

[@thedreamerchandni]

Those glasses looks super cute on you 😍Have a nice weekend!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Chandni! Have an amazing time in Spain 💗

[@AnnBertholf]

You might want to try contacting your renters insurance about the mold. They can go after the building to get them to pay for everything and get reimbursed. But you will have to pay the deductible.

[@karenanderson6443]

Your doing what you can do and that’s so important for your health and wellbeing! Follow your truth! Sending light and peace to you☀️💕.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Karen! Sending you love and good vibes 💗🙏🏽

[@huhhhh5508]

Been binging your NYC videos!!! :) from vol 1

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank youuuuuu 😭🥹♥️

[@HeyitsDeirdre]

loved the vlog your dog is so cute

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you! And your fur baby is cute too 🐶

[@camilleserrani5888]

Wash and fold. One thing off your plate! It’s worth every Penny! Also, you are adorable. ❤️

[@TishaShrestha]

Hi Camille, a lot of my clothes have to be air dried but when I just have towels or bedsheets I’ll definitely do wash & fold. As always thank you ♥️♥️♥️

[@camilleserrani5888]

@@TishaShrestha they will do that for you! Just ask! ❤️❤️❤️

[@TishaShrestha]

@@camilleserrani5888 Oh I didn't know that. Thank you

[@MsSocialLeslie]

I wish your 1st New York apartment experience was better. It’s sad you’ve had to go through so much. Report this to the department of health and report the building owner. Enough is enough! Hold your rent back in an escrow account and take them to court if needed.

[@TishaShrestha]

I wish we started off with a good start but sometimes in life things do not go as planned (majority of the times lol). I have sent them an email with list of the issues with photos/videos and have requested for rent reduction. Let’s see how it all goes down 😊

[@TheLuvliiSmyle]

Yayyy Happy FRIYAY!! It's raining here boo!!! 😢 but have a fabulous weekend!

[@TishaShrestha]

It rained yesterday evening and shows the same for the weekend too. I guess it’s time for both of us to stay indoors and rest up. I hope you a lovely weekend ♥️

[@marcheprovencal592]

Have a nice weekend! 🤗

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you! I hope you an amazing weekend 🤗

[@francesco2581]

happy weekend❤❤

[@TishaShrestha]

Happy weekend Andre ❤

[@aidenortiz9541]

Always gonna support you , keep doing ya thing ❤️

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so so much! It truly means alot 🙏🏽♥️

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi Tisha good morning happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

[@TishaShrestha]

Hi Edward, I hope you have a great week ahead. Thank you 🙏

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

@Tisha Shrestha of course sending you hugs ❤️ 🤗 you enjoy your day today

[@angeliacg9464]

Try wearing your dog bag pack on the front 😊 hello from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 you glasses suit you also x

[@TishaShrestha]

Love the idea! I get so excited to find out where everyone is from. Thank you Angelia 💗🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@cyn2480]

GlassesUSA is a great online option to buy glasses...easy to peruse and a large variety.

[@TishaShrestha]

Yes!! It’s affordable and fashion. Loved their virtual try on feature 👓

[@Billy33753]

Happy Friday

[@TishaShrestha]

Happy Friday 🥳🥳🥳

[@sauri2005]

Hope this apartment nightmare will be over soon. Loved watching this vlog❤❤

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Arjabi di ♥️♥️♥️

[@90sBabyx]

Wow I didn’t realize we’re so much alike! Also, this vlog reminded me I need to focus on my mental health as I overthink too…and sorry you’re still dealing with those issues in the apartment 😔 hope things get resolved soon!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so so much! Goal for both of us this year is to make our mental health a priority 🤝 💗

[@joshs.47]

Thanks for the update!!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you for sticking around

[@conniechuha3113]

If that mold was only near that window Crack, it could be coming from the outside. The moisture mixing with the soot and dirt from the street. To make sure your air inside is clean, you may want to get an air purifier with a hepa filter. Unfortunately, if the mold was only in one spot, there may not be anything the management can do. You'll have the purifier for future apartments. This may be something that is happening because you're close to the street. If you have the filter, you can have the window open and breath clean air. Hope that helps.

[@zakiyawiltz]

Omg babes you look so good!!!! And I just came back from a run and your video definitely made my day💕💕🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@TishaShrestha]

Yayyyy!! Thank you so much!! So happy to hear that 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@ND-mi5zg]

Love the glasses, and congratulations to your sister! Hopefully all the problems will pass with the apartment, soon, so you don't have to think about them anymore. I understand your frustration. When I moved into my now apt, I had things that kept happening, that maintenance had to come and fix, but I love it here now. So I hope it's the same for you.

[@pratishashrestha2249]

Thank you 😊

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 🙏🏽 💕. Hoping for the same! So glad to hear that things have improved for you. Where did you move?

[@ND-mi5zg]

@@TishaShrestha It's when I moved to the apt I am in now in LA.

[@sammiesnowflake8440]

FOR OVERTHINKERS OUT THERE. 7:05 You may be lacking in vitamin B1, B12, and/or magnesium. Especially as women it may cause hormone imbalances if these vitamins are low. These help you sleep and wake up refreshed. And you don't feel as stressed or bogged down by life, sluggish, low mood, etc.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Sammie 💞

[@sammiesnowflake8440]

@@TishaShrestha my pleasure :)

[@warmbreeze43]

Hello. I use to put my backpack for my wiener dogs on the front of me. Try that. They loved it and it felt comfortable knowing they were not behind me.💜

[@TishaShrestha]

Hey Linda, that’s a great idea! I’ll try it out. Thank you 🙏🏽 💗

[@SuzyQ77]

*Call the health Dept and report the mold!* Get an air purifier and buy an air filter that filters mold spores

[@artsygirlmarilyn6296]

❤❤❤you rock

[@TishaShrestha]

And you too ♥️✨🤗🌸

[@metallicatt316]

I love your apartment. It is so cute. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with the mold and the roaches.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Connie 💖. I hope all these issues wrap up soon.

[@BXLatina35]

Where did u purchase the beautiful purple and white floral comforter on your bed ❤️ if any links please let me know thanks 😊

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 💗. My sister got it from Macys few years ago. It is “Better Homes & Garden”. I can’t find the same one anymore :(. Let me know if any other links are needed.

[@wenchyfoodwench4098]

I would submit a copy of the mold test receipt with your rent and deduct the amount from your rent. I would inform them you’re doing that. I would think the roach issue is enough on its own to break the lease

[@sharonjohanna7261]

Mold is ventilation problems no? At least here in spain it is. Windows open or aircon helps a lot. When I keep Windows shut too much mold comes back.

[@32446]

Loving your vlogs. So sorry you still have cockroaches. It really puts me off visiting NYC and I would love to visit

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so much 💕. Cockroach situation has definitely improved. I was just frustrated with all the issues (one after the other) but I still don’t regret moving to the city. Don’t get deterred from visiting NYC… this has never been my intention or message that I want my vlogs to communicate. NYC is beautiful! It is diverse and there is so much to experience. I hope you do visit one day ✨

[@krazykrush]

Do you miss living in jersey city?

[@TishaShrestha]

I miss my sister and friends but I still don’t regret my decision of moving to the city

[@celestelauryn]

This is very unrelated but what do you use to film? Phone or camera? I want to start vlogging at some point but I have no idea where to start and your videos are good inspo!!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 💖. For vlogging, I use Sony ZV 1. I bought the vlogging kit ( bit.ly/3yneQFz). It is very user friendly and I love the video quality too! When it is hard to use my vlogging camera (like during grocery, laundry, walks with jhaape, etc), I use my iPhone. I know a lot of creators start with iPhone (i did the same too). Good luck!!!

[@denverdubois5835]

The management should definitely pay for the mold test! In any case, if the second curtain gets moldy too, you've got them dead to rights and they'll have to take action! I sincerely hope it won't though, because I'm sure remediation would be another big pain in the butt. My late mother had a wonderful cat who killed both mice and literally every bug dumb enough to come within a foot of him, including a roach, a couple of crickets, numerous flies and spiders and even moths. ;-) Maybe every New Yorker needs a kitty friend like that!

[@sharonjohanna7261]

Can you effort a cleaning lady? Maybe that is the way to tive yourself the rest you need. I have one myself 3 hours a week and it helps so much. Amazing video thanks for taking us wirh you.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Sharon for the suggestion 🤗. I am planning to use the services sporadically (def will help when I am overwhelmed with life)

[@sharonjohanna7261]

@@TishaShrestha absolutely especially with adhd. It helps me a lot. Thanks for your reply lovely 🤗🤗 hug to you sister!

[@TishaShrestha]

@@sharonjohanna7261 hugs to you as well 🤗

[@rosaborrero6633]

Tishahello God bless

[@TishaShrestha]

Hi Rosa, thank you! Sending you good vibes ✨🙏🏽

[@annjohnson543]

How about sending all your information to the Health Department? Would they do anything?

[@rosaborrero6633]

Take to the city management

[@TishaShrestha]

I hope I don’t have to do that

[@francesco2581]

nice voeo, congrats about the sponsorship. This mould problemis not nice, i hope they can fix it and not you with your money, they must do it. love the shopping haul, nice to see what you buy there. i thin you are doing great!! we love your videos ant thank you to share everything with us! love to jhaape adn you. Andre

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so so much Andre ♥️

[@nancybarta8167]

Love the glasses!Be careful .....your going to get your rent raised so they can get you out!

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Nancy 💕. That was one of the main reasons why I was being understanding. I was really hoping to stay here for few years (location is great and it’s spacious)

[@karenhopkins9016]

Haha welcome to renting (especially a pre-war building in NYC). Landlords don’t want to deal with issues or pay for anything…it’s super frustrating but unfortunately it’s nature of renting in an old building.

[@TishaShrestha]

Hahah all part of the NYC experience 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@asmahilal239]

Hi Tisha maybe your stuffy nose because the apartment has mold.. I think you have to seriously complain as this might affect your health & your pet too.. I know you just moved in but this apartment doesn’t seem to be hygienic perhaps consider moving somewhere else I know it sounds crazy but your health should be top priority

[@TishaShrestha]

Hi Asma, I have seasonal allergy 🤧. I didn’t have it back in Nepal. After I moved to the USA that’s when it all started. If the issues continue in upcoming months, I will definitely consider moving out. Thank you so much 💗

[@KiwiiDassit]

I like your videos but you moved to nyc and didn’t expect to have critters? Girl

[@TishaShrestha]

HAHAHA! Didnt expect that many 🙃. Thank you 💖

[@allisonpiazza2317]

I hate to say this, but unless you want to break your lease, you'll likely just be screaming into the void with your paper trail. I'm probably just a jaded New Yorker, but your grievances don't sound that unlivable. They are just going to label you as a problem tenant and ignore you. I hope that doesn't come off as mean, I feel for you!!

[@TishaShrestha]

Not at all! Tbh I didn’t make a big deal out of it in the beginning because it is NYC (thought this might be the norm) and I didn’t want to be labeled as a “problem tenant”. I really wanted to stay here for few years (prime location & its spacious) and I didn’t want any repercussions. But I have reached a point that it’s getting too much… even though things have improved it’s just one after the other. I can at least try instead of just letting it be.

[@pink3rbellx]

@@TishaShrestha hi! I am so sorry you have had to deal with so much. I’ve lived in NYC specifically Manhattan my whole life and I don’t like when people try to make roaches and serious issues like mold normal. It absolutely is not and comes down to living in an old (poorly maintained) building with poor management. I know you love your apartment but I can assure you, in the future, you’ll find another better apartment you never expected to find with much less headache. My recommendations would just be to deal with newer buildings (built after 1980..70s latest) and buildings run by large management companies (they are more responsive/responsible/experienced and tenants can come together if major issues arise as well). Also try to avoid ground floor apartments moving forward. By the way, the city of New York takes mold very seriously. I would personally call 311 to report it (what if it’s in the whole building?) and hire a rental lawyer (I’ve had to do it in the past to get back my security deposit). It’s cheaper than you would think and having them contact management on your behalf would push them to take you seriously, as well as be less of a headache for you. I wish the best for you! You are clearly totally capable of handling anything but just wanted to give you my perspective.