4 Coping With Dog Loss: Dealing With Anger, Sadness, Loneliness Etc.

Peggy Haymes is back with us for a FB Live discussion on Coping with Dog Loss. Today's topic is learning how to cope with anger, sadness and loneliness after losing our beloved pup. We're so glad you're here.
We recently created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through this grief.
Here is the link to sign up: houndhuggerdiy...
You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our dog loving community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.
Also to keep informed on all things Hound Hugger DIY, you can join our email list here houndhuggerdiy... 💌 We'd love for you to sign up! It's the best way for us to stay in touch.

[@Aeprilsastrology]

I lost the Light of my Life yesterday. The grief is a supernova bursting in my heart. He was my best friend, my soul mate, my baby. After 11 years of tending to his well-being, I had to make the wretched decision to take him out of this form. Thank you for this video series so very much. I'm having ALL the feelings and it's making me feel like I'm going mad. You're helping me feel less alone today.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh dear, we are truly gutted to hear about the loss of your best furry friend. That's so sad. It’s heartbreaking to lose a pup - especially one that has lived in your heart for so long. The only comfort is knowing that the level of sadness you feel is equal to the amount of love you two shared. And although you will never get over the loss, you can get through it. It just takes time.... be kind with yourself during this difficult time. If you're interested, we created a 6-part email series with all kinds of resources on grief support that's totally free: houndhuggerdiy.com/dog-loss Please know you are in our thoughts and send you strength, comfort and warm wishes daily.

[@HEspino333]

So very sorry for your lost. The pain is excruciating, I understand. Sending you love 🤍

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

Me too 9 months ago, my SOUL pup aged 10yrs was euthanized within days. Surreal and hurt beyond words. Felt like I was losing my mind. 9mths later, I haven't lost my mind but still have that heavy sadness but occasionally getting glimpses of hope that I will recover. I've had immense anger, not at him, like how dare you take my soul dog from me. It gets directed at my partner in passive aggression and general bad attitude. Counselling is being really helpful for this. For all the pain & hurt I've felt, I would do it all again to have Rupert Best wishes Hope you are recovering too ...great KZbin from Patty Quinn

[@cynthiaracicot6502]

I feel your pain. I cared for my ill dog for so long. I wish that I had a diagnosis earlier. Feel bad that my dog had excess amount of adrenaline in her body from a pituitary tumor. Wish she was still here.

[@Lukesmommy]

The grief and sheer pain is unbearable. I can't stand to be in my house bc i see him everywhere. I can't live like this. I'm drowning in despair. The pain that losing a soul dog causes is too much to bear. My life will never ever be the same

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

It's so very sad to hear of the loss of your beloved boy. Please know how heartbroken we are to hear that you have lost a little loved one in your life. It doesn’t matter how much time goes by, we still miss them with our whole heart. And that’s ok. Those feelings are normal. It just means we love them fully - they are a part of our soul - they shape our lives and they remain forever with us. If you find yourself stuck in your grief, sometimes the best thing we can do is flip the script - frame the story in our heads a different way, such as remembering all the good times together - in order to begin the healing process and heal our hearts. It’s not denying what has happened. It’s just changing the way we think about it. Your sweet fella would want you to bring joy back into your life and be whole again. He taught you how to love and be loved. That is something truly special. May the happy memories you shared together help to heal your heart and give you strength on your toughest days.

[@dovinsveto]

My dog was the only thing in my life .. I lost him today .. its hurts soo bad

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry for the loss of your sweet boy. Please be patient with yourself as you go through the shock of this situation. To help work through these powerful emotions it may be helpful to reach out to a professional, here is a link to a document that we created that has a list of free resources for grief support wehearthounds.com/assets/GriefSupportKit.pdf I truly hope that you find this helpful and that you can begin the process of healing.

[@levity90]

I'm trying to prepare myself for my dogs death. He was recently diagnosed with a very aggressive cancer, hemangiosarcoma. And I'm completely devastated. I hope you are doing ok. ❤️

[@brigettejohnson4019]

Hello! How are you doing 8 months later?

[@graceprais9814]

I am going through the same pain, I can't shake it.

[@californiadreaming567]

Me too

[@winter63ful]

My shitzu passed Nov 22. I had him for 18 yrs. He was the love of my life. Heart is broken. He left in peace. He passed next to me. I love love him dearly. I miss him every day.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, we are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved sweet boy. You know it doesn’t matter how much time goes by, we miss them with our whole heart. And that’s ok. It just means we love them fully. It's such a blessing to have cared for a pup for so many years, but at the same time so incredibly difficult because time with them is never long enough. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. May you find comfort in all the precious happy memories you have together. 💔

[@winter63ful]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you. Really appreciate it.

[@goldengold5676]

❤️ and hugs 🌸

[@truthprevails7085]

Oh my gosh, how are you doing these later days? I’m so sorry. That’s a long, long time to have with your baby.

[@Dianaking-e4v]

I lost my precious 4 pound Chihuahua, (all 4 pounds of him was pure love. 💕). He was 16 years old and I had him for 10 of those. I rescued him and it was the best thing I ever did yet it’s been the hardest thing trying to get over him. In fact, I know I will never stop missing him but that’s OK too. I cry a lot & miss him every second of the day. so thank you for bringing this to us all who need it. You’re doing a great thing and providing a service that honestly I cannot even describe how helpful it is not just for us, but for our pets. My baby’s name was blue and I have not yet got another dog because I just wasn’t ready but we had such a close connection and actually still do, I just know he would want me to help another pet in need and I’m sure I know in fact in my heart that blue would want me to do that. Share the same love I shared with him to another pet in need And I intend to do that very soon.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Blue sounds like an amazing little pup - filled with so much abundance to give that was 1000 times his size. It means so much to know that our videos have helped in some small way. Thank you for your kind words. The memories you created with Blue are true gifts. All those years of laughter and love and joy...your pup is always with you. Hugs upon hugs.

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

I too am not ready after 9 months of losing him but really I think Rupert would approve of me rescuing another little dog in need of love. May be next year

[@marciamatteini7604]

You put it in words exactly how I’m feeling. Three days ago I lost my precious Daisy , my dog, and it’s terrible how we all have to deal with this. I’m very sorry for your loss ✝️❤️

[@cindyd.5507]

Lonely, lost and endless grief as if I will never feel good ever again but it was worth every second I spent with my beautiful dog Eva. The price of loving a pet they just do not live long enough if she could have stayed by my side for the rest of my life it would have been the best and I often said that to people while she was with me.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 We can absolutely relate, no matter how long we have them it always feels far too short. Please know that it is completely ok to feel the way you are feeling, and you are definitely not alone. It sounds like you and Eva have an incredible bond. Please accept our warmest condolences...and not sure if this is something you'd be interested in or not...but if you're feeling up to it, we have created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through grief. Here is the link to sign up: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about, if you'd like. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our dog loving community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.

[@averagepollinator]

Having a good cry actually helps. I'm on day 3 of grieving and taking a private moment to cry properly when the feelings come keeps me functional (compared to my usual habit of avoidance and bottling it up). There's a specific lengthy song I listen to while crying, and it now actually starts playing in my head when I know I need to go. I crank it to the max and just cry from the heart. Every time after it I feel like I can go on, like a cloud of poison got lifted off my nerves, I feel stronger and like I understand this situation better. As I'm writing this, the happy tears are welling up, because now I understand our dear little boy's last gift he left me; reversing the "curse" that used to keep me from grieving healthily. I knew schnauzers used to get rid of pests, but I now know they can also end lifelong curses

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

You're so right. We have so much to learn from our pups...even after they're gone. Your boy sounds like an amazing little fella and it's heartwarming to hear how he's still helping you live your best life - just as you did for him. Please know how much we share your grief and hope your fond memories of him will help your journey of healing. Warmest hugs. 💔

[@DavidEVogel]

My best friend Bella passed today at age 11. We loved one another so much. Loving one of God’s creatures is one of the best gifts that one can give.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry for your loss. Please accept our warmest condolences. They truly are such a gift while they are with us.

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

Absolutely ❤

[@susanhoward3883]

😂

[@gianners]

I said goodbye to my heart dog on Wednesday. Dealing with the emptiness of being at home alone has been so tough. In 2020, I took him for a thorough check-up and the vet told me quite frankly that he had a serious heart condition and would only get worse. He was 12.5 at the time which is already quite old for a medium sized dog. I spent the past 3 years preparing for life after Ozzie, but nothing can prepare you for this grief. I just take comfort in knowing there are so many people out there that understand and have gone through the same thing and have been able to overcome this period of time. Thank you for putting these resources together.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you so much for sharing your story and kind words with us. We are honored and humbled to know our video/s on dog loss have helped in some small way. Sounds like you both had a beautiful bond and Ozzie surely will be missed. We can only imagine how lonely it must feel without him after all of those years together. Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts. 💔

[@cynthiaracicot6502]

Please consider another animal in time. You could rescue a rescue. It will rescue you with gratitude for the excellent care. I’ve lost and looking at rescues helps. Also, never underestimate the power of distraction. Try to get out and give yourself a break.

[@garyfoster8723]

I recently lost my Buddy Dog, a 13-year old Portuguese Podingo to Lymphoma. We have a house of 4 adults and 3 other dogs, but Buddy was MY dog! My shadow and best friend. Despite all the people and animals still in the house, the place still feels empty and quiet. Partly because we are all grieving, but mainly because none of the others in the house fills the roll that Buddy did.

[@goldengold5676]

Prayer 🙏, Father God give us strength, comfort and encouragement because pet loss is painful.

[@FuzzDogan-i3w]

My heart is with you I lost my shih Tzu 7 years ago from lymphoma ! I went through all the chemo for him ! And it cost me so much money trying to save him ! I'd do it all over again ! But it didn't work so at the end he got so sick I had to out him to sleep ! The funny thing is I live in NJ and the cancer vet told me dogs with Lymphoma get cured if there in NY input not in NJ ! My heart is with you I know your pain I just lost the last on August 28 2024 ! She was a shih Tzu ! I'm devastated, angry ,crying ,can't sleep ! Its so painful ! God be with you!

[@kimfromarkansas2084]

Also, we had her cremated and the thought of her being thrown away hurts my heart. I just pray that I’ll see her again in heaven.

[@JanetJames-dw6xo]

The worst feeling is the realisation that you will never see them again and wanting them back so bad.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

So sorry for your loss, Janet 😥 It's hard to lose our pups and knowing we'll never get to see them again is truly heartbreaking - they are such a big part of our lives. And no matter how much time goes by, we still miss them with our whole heart. And that’s ok. It just means we love them fully - they are a part of our soul and they remain forever with us. All that time together of laughter and love... just know your pup will always be with you wherever you go. 💔

[@giovannibermudezjr]

46:10 This is how I feel. My Whole World has come to a sudden painful stop while it keeps turning just fine for everyone else. Most people don't care. Those that do, like yourselves, have made the death of my Crystal Girl on April 29th a little easier.

[@sashaxnea6803]

🙏🙏🙏😞

[@Jungaloowi333]

april has become the worst month for me. I lost my dog on April 5.

[@giovannibermudezjr]

@Jungaloowi333 I'm sorry for your loss. The two year anniversary of my Crystal 's passing is coming up, and I feel your pain. The pain does not go away, but it does get easier to miss them.

[@SandraBrown-s9p]

My name is Sandra. I am 75 and I live in San Diego. I just had to put my Barclay (Rat Terrier mix) down Oct 17 this year. He was 17 years old and he was basically my dog more than my husband. He was a certified service dog so he went everywhere with me. He is not the first dog that we have had to put down. But there was something about him that he was a really special guy

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Dear Sandra, it deeply saddens us to learn of your beloved Barclay's passing. 😥 The feelings of loss can be overwhelming especially when you lose your soul dog. We both lost our dogs around 16 years of age - and it does our hearts good to know we were able to love and spoil them for so many, many years. You gave your boy the best life possible and he gave you so much love in return - hopefully the memories of love and joy you shared is something that can start to heal your heart. He is a part of your soul and will remain with you forever. Hugs upon hugs upon hugs to you.

[@clintnovaclaw]

Since my dog passed away yesterday 2/18/2021 i feel emptiness in the house. No presence of my ginger in the house. Usually this time afternoon ginger is sleeping in her bed. And when i dont work i am at home with ginger doing things and sleeping. Ginger is with my in the house or in my bedroom. At night i prepare her food ginger loves her prepared meals or hubby bring home some chicken or duck for her at night. Night walks around the neighborhood. I miss her dearly.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We're so so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 I can absolutely relate to that feeling of deafening silence once your pup is no longer there. Please know that it is absolutely ok to feel the way you are feeling and you are definitely not alone. It sounds like you and Ginger and your husband had a wonderful life together. Please accept our warmest condolences...and not sure if this is something you'd be interested in or not...but if you're feeling up to it, we recently created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through all of this grief. Here is the link to sign up: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about, if you'd like. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our loving hound dog community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.

[@calimann21]

I’m so sorry about your loss and your emptiness. I just put down two Chihuahua’s I raised from puppies I had for over 15 years. Worst feeling I’ve ever had in my life. My stomach has knots and my heart hurts. Its very difficult.

[@TheErika711]

I worked with animals professionally for close to a decade sadly losing my career due to physical ailment. I've owned upward of 30 dogs over my life. Only 2 other than my recent loss were closest to my heart but it was my Louie who just passed 1/26 that has crushed me to the core 😞. It is so true what was stated - Louie came into my life as a puppy he was ready to be placed up for adoption at the Shelter I worked but was found in a pool of blood from Parvo - for whatever reason the vet instead of standard practice of euthanasia chose to try and save the lil guy - when I came onto shift the following morning I found him in medical on IV and just decided to give him extra care....so much so that before he was cleared medically I was already sneaking him out of his cage on my shift in the evening and taking him out to play. I fell in love and knew he was coming home with me. Louie went thru the ending of my Career, the subsequent surgeries I endured, Covid, and finally the worst the loss of my Mother. He survived all of it with me and was my rock every step of the way. He was my heart dog the 1. There will never be another. I now can have some peace knowing he came into my life at the perfect time as I don't think I would have survived as well or at all after losing my Mother. Thank you for helping me to see that more clearly I appreciate you all for being here for those of us who are in such pain.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh gosh, thank you for sharing your story with us... and for opening your heart and home to such a precious little guy. How fortunate you were to have each other to share your lives with. Sounds like you helped each other out when you both needed it most. Louis' soul is forever connected to yours and you two have a bond that can never be broken. Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss. May you find comfort in all the loving memories you hold dear. 💔

[@eskimo3622]

This video is so important. Its helping me and comforting me while I come to terms with my Esta leaving so suddenly in the most traumatic way I could imagine. She did not deserve such a scary ending. I loved her so much ❤

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh no no no, that's just awful! We are so very sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your beloved Esta. Thank you for reaching out to us with your story. Sincerely hope you've found some value in our discussions with Peggy. Sometimes the best thing we can do is frame the story in our heads a different way - in order to begin the healing process...to move through the grief...to heal our hearts...and cherish and nurture the memories of our beloved pup. It’s not denying what has happened. It’s just changing the way we think about it. Some additional things to try...spending time with supportive loved ones and trusted friends, distracting yourself with normal daily routines, and finding ways to be helpful to others. Support from family/friends is one of the most powerful healers after a tragedy. Part of what makes the loss of your relationship so painful is the sense that you are left more alone than you were before. So it's important to seek out interactions that remind you how connected you truly are. There's also an article of tips called Why Grief Feels Different When Your Pet Dies Suddenly you may find helpful >> www.veterinarywisdom.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Why-Grief-Feels-Different-When-Your-Pet-Dies-Suddenly-2021.pdf Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Hugs 💔

[@eskimo3622]

thankyou, it still comes in waves when Im not expecting it@@HoundHuggerDIY

[@arra584]

I had to put my almost 14 year old rescue down a month ago after she suffered a massive stroke. She had chronic medical issues from the time she was a puppy and bad separation anxiety the last 6 years of her life so our lives literally revolved around her. It was getting to the point where I couldn’t afford to keep her going much longer with all the prescriptions, special food and vet visits she required. I thought I would feel more relief when she died. Now I can do everything I couldn’t do when she was alive but I’d give anything to have my girl back. She was my once in a lifetime dog. I know what Hillary means; I’m more comfortable living angry than living in this deep sadness. Also, not knowing who you can confide in is hard. The silence in the house is deafening now. Thank goodness I still have our cat to get up for and play with but he doesn’t replace her. Thanks for doing these videos. They’ve helped more than you know. I think as a society we’re not comfortable with grief but especially there’s such a stigma around pet grief. Yes I’ll get another dog again but she will never replace my girl.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, it's so very sad to hear of the loss of your beloved girl. Please know how heartbroken we are to hear that you have lost a little loved one in your life. It doesn’t matter how much time goes by, we still miss them with our whole heart. And that’s ok. It just means we love them fully - she is a part of your soul - she shaped your life and she'll remain forever with you. We are honored and humbled to know our videos have helped in some small way. You are in our thoughts and we send you strength, comfort and warm wishes daily.

[@badjimmy2561]

Thank you. This was so spot on for me. I have been grieving my dog so deeply I honestly wasn't sure I was going to get through it. I honestly wished I had gone with her. I know that sounds silly but the cut was deep. I know I am not alone in this now and am grateful for this discussion. I think of her always but I know that I need to have some good days in my life in her honor. She wouldn't want it any other way. Until we meet again my love ♥️

[@Acidmix17]

It's not silly I thought about dying felt hopeless without her and empty

[@henrycooper2401]

No it's not silly i feel the same at the moment as my dog passed 10days ago. I do hope things are getting better and the pain is easing for you. It's something i've not felt before because it was me and him only in the house. I do understand how your feeling. Take Care and Stay Strong

[@badjimmy2561]

@@henrycooper2401 thank you. It has been 8 months now and even though it still feels like yesterday it does get better. I have a new little puppy now. I have had her for 2 weeks. She can never replace my beautiful girl but she is full of joy and a new chapter. I do hope and know that things will get better for you...time does heal. Thank you so much for caring ♥️

[@henrycooper2401]

@@badjimmy2561 Awww that's so good to hear. So your just at that training stage which is quite hard lol Please always know there are people out there who do care and it's a shame people don't express as much now. Take Care and best of luck to yourself and the new puppy. Stay Strong

[@badjimmy2561]

@@henrycooper2401 ♥️

[@liveazart7406]

This was so helpful to hear similar feelings that I am having with the unbearable grief I am experiencing. I lost my heart dog 2 months ago and am still so overwhelmed with grief and extreme physical pain. Thank you. It helps normalize my process.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you for your kind words, it means the world to us that you've found this series helpful. We're so so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please be patient with yourself as you go through this difficult time. 💔 Please accept our warmest condolences...and not sure if this is something you'd be interested in or not...but if you're feeling up to it, we have created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through grief. Here is the link to sign up: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about, if you'd like. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our dog loving community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.

[@michelemcvicar7155]

Hi: I just lost my heart dog about 6weeks ago . Sorry for your loss. I’m soooo broken - curious how you are doing seeing as your comment was posted a year ago.

[@HEspino333]

I have felt all of the emotions of the grieving process.

[@rachelr8837]

Thank you, ladies. I'm still having my ups and downs from losing my sweet girl (doggie) this past March. Her name was Pretty and she was with me for 15 years (had to put her down). It was the hardest thing that I had to do in my life. I am struggling with loneliness for sure, as I have no children or spouse. Life is definitely forever changed. I'll never stop loving her. Thank you again for your healing words.

[@mapleleaf902]

Sending you hugs and prayers. I just had to put my 15 yr old goo boy dog to sleep on June 12th. I understand your sorrow.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

You are so dearly welcome. We're so very sorry to hear of your loss - this time can be just devastating. All of those years of laughter and love...your beloved Pretty will always be with you. May you find peace with all the wonderful memories you both shared. Please know you are in our thoughts and send you strength, comfort and warm wishes daily. 💔

[@rachelr8837]

@@mapleleaf902 Thank u so much and I'm so sorry for the loss of your boy. 🐾💖

[@rachelr8837]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Thank u so much.💖🐾

[@goldengold5676]

❤️ hugs and encouragement to you.

[@marcusnl66]

I had to let my best friend go yesterday. Guilt is definitely part of what I’m feeling. Playing god, deciding it was time to let him go is a choice we shouldn’t have to make. The emptiness after 14 years, my daily interaction w/ Philippe is instantly pulled away from me. The image of him laying somewhere dead, alone and lifeless is more than I can take. I wish I could hold him one more time 😢 Philippe had a wonderful and fulfilling life with us but the day still came too soon to let him go 😭 How so you deal w/ this loss, how moving forward? The house feels empty w/out him. I miss his unconditional love, his constant focus on me, his endless patience and the time we spent during our endless walks. He was in pain bc of severe arthritis and was taking lots of medication to make life bearable but we don’t put down humans when walking becomes difficult, why then do we give up on our best friends? Everything about this is so unfair 😫 How moving on w/out Philippe?

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry for your loss. I am sure Philippe knows how much you love him and all he would want for you is peace about your decision. Please be patient with yourself as you are going through this. We would like to offer our warmest condolences...and not sure if this is something you'd be interested in or not...but if you're feeling up to it, we recently created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through grief. Here is the link to sign up: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about, if you'd like. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our dog loving community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.

[@larisarockenback3727]

How are you feeling now? I have to put my fur baby Shepard down this Monday due to cancer and I am dreading it to say the least. He is only 7 years old. I hope you are feeling some Peace now… my thoughts are with you

[@brigettejohnson4019]

I can relate….. I’m sooo sorry for your loss…. I lost my dog two weeks ago and I feel like my world is falling apart 💯🐶

[@marcusnl66]

@@larisarockenback3727 I still miss him! 😓

[@janeevans4758]

I'm feeling the exact same as I had to do the same just 2 days ago. I'm totally beside myself with grief and guilt 😭😭😭

[@bellablueheadlam7823]

I am watching all of your grief videos more than once. I wrote you before that I lost my Brooklyn the best dog ever on May 8, 2023. My feelings are sadness, loneliness, anger, loss and being lost.😢 I know I will miss Brooklyn forever, but this emotional pain continues........

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, BellaBlue, we’re grateful you have found some tips in this video series to help with your journey. You have our most sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Brooklyn and may you find peace with all the wonderful memories you both shared. 💔

[@goldengold5676]

My condolences to you. ❤️ and hugs. 🌺

[@eaviek]

Lost our family Puppy July 13, 2023 she was only 6.5 months old, the vet thinks the cause of death was Botulism but upon further investigation we think she consumed blue-green algae water from our pond. I feel numb my heart is broken. Still in shock, mad, devastated and feeling guilty. I’ve never cried so long and hard in my life, still crying!!!!

[@goldengold5676]

My condolences. ❤️

[@eaviek]

@@goldengold5676 thank you so much

[@chandralx398]

My beautiful little boy aged 3 died a month ago from cancer. He was my constant companion and we loved each other so much. I feel so sad and angry because he should have lived for so much longer. I get so envious of people who still have their dogs, it's irrational but I can't help it

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, Chandral, that's so sad. We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved boy at such a young age. We've both had pups die of cancer and it's devastating when they are taken well before their expected time. Your feelings of anger and envy are totally a normal part of the grieving process. Over time, try to focus on the time you did have together - and the love you shared - because although it was short, it was truly special. If your little one was only supposed to live here a short time on earth, then he was very lucky to have a loving and devoted mom like you. (He could've ended up in a less loving home and had a much rougher life.) Heartfelt hugs.

[@chandralx398]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you for your comforting words, means a lot

[@TheYazmanian]

I started looking for German shepherds to rescue since our German Shepherd passed away and now I'm even more heartbroken at all the homeless babies and some of them are going to be euthanized, my heart is absolutely breaking at how depressing this bloody f****** world is

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Yes, the world can certainly be overwhelming at times... and it's normal to feel so angry, especially since you're still dealing with the loss of your dear boy. Unfortunately, no one promised that life was supposed to be easy. In fact, the more challenges we go through, the more we can appreciate what we truly have. We learn more. We grow more. We become more compassionate to others. Each day is a new one for us to make the most of what we're given. It's impossible to solve all the world's problems, but by golly, we can make positive strides in our own little corner of it, if we choose to do so. What would your life be like without the love and devotion you experienced with your beloved boy? Think of how rich you are because that one uniquely gifted, fluffy, adorable companion shared his world with you. He showed you what unconditional love is. He made you laugh. He filled your heart and home in ways you never would have imagined. Your relationship may not have made a big impact on the world, but it's not something that everyone (or every pup) gets to experience and that's HUGE. Understandably your heart aches because you can't help every pup in need, but opening your home (when the time is right) to another dog can change their world forever. Our pets teach us so much - that we are our best selves when we embrace love and joy and hope for brighter days ahead. You are in our thoughts as you continue on your journey of healing.

[@TheYazmanian]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you so much for your kinds words and the heartfelt message. I truly appreciate it. It's been such a rough time and my emotions are all over the place. I am really doing my best to remember the good and be thankful and forgive myself and realize that this is a part of life and that nothing is permanent. Mindfulness and meditation has helped but it doesn't eliminate the pain so I must embrace it and go through this journey and soon it will be easier. 🙏🙏🙏💛🌈

[@The02wooley]

I failed to put a leash on my border collie of 11 years old on Dec 23rd of this year, and was hit by a neighbor truck and surgery wasn’t successful and had to be put down, seeing the whole accident In front of my driveway was so traumatic. The amount of guilt and shame is staggering

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, Scott, that's just heartbreaking. We are truly sorry to hear you lost your beloved pup in such a tragic accident. This is easier said than done, but try to be gentle with yourself. You most certainly did not fail your pup and your dear sweet border collie would not want you to be sad or want you focusing your energy on how things ended. Instead, consider the real ways you loved your dog and remember all the wonderful times you had together. Sometimes the best thing we can do is frame the story in our heads a different way in order to begin the healing process...to move through the grief, heal our hearts and cherish and nurture the memories of our beloved pup. It’s not denying what has happened. It’s just changing the way we think about it. Some additional things to try...spending time with supportive loved ones and trusted friends, distracting yourself with normal daily routines, and finding ways to be helpful to others. Support from family/friends is one of the most powerful healers after a tragedy. Part of what makes the loss of your relationship so painful is the sense that you are left more alone than you were before. So it's important to seek out interactions that remind you how connected you truly are. There's also an article of tips called Why Grief Feels Different When Your Pet Dies Suddenly you may find helpful >> www.veterinarywisdom.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Why-Grief-Feels-Different-When-Your-Pet-Dies-Suddenly-2021.pdf Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Hugs 💔

[@AntonioGonzalez-lk9ou]

My dog that i had for over 16 years passed away and the pain of losing my baby was unlike any other, speaking to a hypnotherapist definitely helped, but i can't help but think about her all the time.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Antonio, we are so very sorry to hear of your loss. This is such a heartbreaking time. Even when we share our lives with them for many years, it's never long enough. All of the feelings you are experiencing are normal. When you experience a loss so deep, it can definitely consume your every waking moment. But please try to give yourself some grace. Grief never really ends. It's ok not to be ok, because you never really get over it - but you will get through it. The only thing you can do is realize that for their entire life they were happy. You gave them that. Sometimes it hurts to remember the past, but those memories are gifts. The years of laughter and love and joy...your pup is always with you. Their soul is forever connected to yours because you two have a bond that can never be broken. You have our most sincere condolences and may you find peace with all the wonderful memories you both shared. 💔

[@AntonioGonzalez-lk9ou]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you for your advice, i appreciate all of you and this channel

[@justjulie1614]

I lost my fur grandbaby yesterday very unexpectedly. Only 7 months old. She was everything to me. My son and his wife live next door to me and I would go get her every single day for a good chunk of the day and evening. I am lost. I feel shattered. I don’t know how to do this. I’ve never felt loss like this in my life and I’m 47 so I’ve lost plenty. This is different. She brought such joy to my everyday life. The sadness is crushing me. Sorry for going on and on. Grandma loves you my precious Baby T😭

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Julie, we are so very sorry for your loss. It's clear your love was deep and losing your grandbaby has put a big weight on your heart. It’s devastating to lose a pup - especially a dog that holds such a dear place in your heart. Life is short and we never know what tomorrow will bring. It’s the pain we all go through in life that allows us to be more loving, compassionate and helpful to others. You have our most sincere condolences for your loss. Our hearts are with you as you continue on your journey of healing. 💔

[@justjulie1614]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Thank you💔

[@kp5146]

I lost my dog 3 months ago, it still hurts like the first day I put her down, bc nobody understands or shared the same bond as we did, i suffer alone, but I look at pictures & videos, to remember the love & joy she brought.. it hurts but it helps.. bc I think they would want us to feel better, & not be sad , just like when they were here..unconditional, love on so many levels..

[@terencehealy9225]

Thank you each one of you for your beautiful encouragement and advice.. Yes, my little buddy had to go, this is so incredibly painful, this grieving process, but I feel so blessed we had 12 wonderful loving years together.. the pain hurts soo much,, but I want to also celebrate his life,, I want to remember how Nippy enriched our lives in so many ways..all the sweet preciuos moments from a little puppy until he's maturity. Nippy will be in my heart wherever I go for the rest of my life, Nippy is etched in my heart forever, I will cherish the love & joy he gave my husband & I. My Christian Faith, lots of prayer & letting God take this pain from me, I cannot do it alone, gives me much solace. God bless you all, I believe I will see my fur baby again in the Kingdom, this makes me feel much better. it's still hurts,, its very quiet around the house,, I'm missing, our everydayness & kissing his little face, but again, I hold steadfast in my faith, that God has a plan. 💕🙏🐾🙌

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We're so so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 I can absolutely relate to that feeling of deafening silence once your pup is no longer there. It sounds like you and Nippy and your husband had a wonderful life together. Please accept our warmest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

[@sashaxnea6803]

Amen ! So so sorry 😐😔 I had to put my flash down 24 hrs ago . Flash and I'm wounded. Bless you .

[@claudih-offtrack]

Loneliness is a big topic for me. For the last 6+ years my girl was my life partner. It was just the 2 of us. She had severe incontinence and especially on weekends I often times cursed the fact I had to be back home after about 3 hours to take her on a walk (hello guilt) and I couldn’t do any longer out-of-home activities (she also couldn’t walk well anymore so I could not take her along). Now that she’s gone none of that matters anymore and I have a super hard time accepting that I now actually have to structure my weekends myself as she is not providing that structure anymore. At the same time, most of my family and friends are occupied by their own families and other stuff and it’ll be on me to actively ask for their company. That realization hit me really hard and makes me feel extremely lonely without her 😢

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh Claudia, we are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved sweet girl. It is truly gut-wrenching to lose a pup that has captured your heart. Everything you're feeling before and after her passing is normal. We have had similar experiences with previous pups. Your life is completely wrapped around their schedule and care. Then once they're gone, there is this mix of relief and guilt... and then days, weeks and months of trying to find a new rhythm in life without them. Thank you for sharing your story with us. You've touched our hearts. It's hard when you're alone, but there are some nice Rainbow Bridge groups on Facebook who can also lend an ear for support when you need it. Another good tip is to look for things you can participate in - an exercize class, art class, bridge group, joining a garden club, etc. - anything that can provide some structure to your days/weekends and meet new people to do activities with. Even local volunteer opportunities can do a world of good to lift your spirits. One of the best "cures" for a broken heart is to help others in need. Please know you are in our hearts and we send caring hugs your way. 💔

[@wren3347]

I understand. My dog was a fragile diabetic whose health could decline quickly so for 2 years I wouldn't leave him longer than 3 hours at a time. I decided to give up a lucrative part time job as well; the anxiety I felt while at work was unbearable. But through it all and looking back I wouldn't change a thing,

[@wren3347]

@@HoundHuggerDIY I know this advice was not for me but it has helped me. Thank you! I'm going through the same situation.

[@JustVibingFullStop]

Thank you for this video series. I've seen the first four episodes and they are giving me some comfort. And, I apologize for the rant that's following. Feel free to not read it. But, I just really feel the urge to share a snippet of my dogs story. Today is day 8 after loosing my yorkie Loke (11,4 years old). I had him since he was 3,5 years old so I had him for 8 years. I ended up taking him in because he was my sisters dog, he had just been diagnosed with epilepsy and my sister no longer felt comfortable caring for him and working a full time job at the same time. Epilepsy is no joke and he was a severe case in the beginning. So, Loke became my life, and my mission was to keep him alive, make him feel special, loved and wanted. He had been the runt of the litter and unfortunately developed several chronic diseases. He had some birth defects like a short nose that made his teeth come out all higgledy-piggledy, and very round head that much later on turned out to be a symptom of syringomyelia. So, I got him when he was just diagnosed with epilepsy and already had severe tooth issues. All the other diagnoses popped up later on: allergies, IBD, PLE(Protein Losing Enteropathy), Syringomyelia and Cushings syndrome. We started our life together battling epilepsy, recurring stomach issues and bad teeth, and it was like something new popped up practically every year or every second year. After a few years, when I was done studying, I realised Loke was so fragile I couldn't have him and have a job at the same time. So, I chose Loke. And I chose to live entirely of savings, and a tiny side income, and I would do it for as long as it was possible. Loke was diagnosed with PLE when he was 9 year old and lived for 2,8 years with this horrible disease of the intestines. During this time I was all alone in caring for him. I couldn't leave him alone for any reason for more than 1-3hrs at most. The feeding and medication schedule was very comprehensive and he had to go out peeing every 3 hrs, and usually once in the middle of the night. So I had no family members that could or wanted to take the load off, because it was just too much for them to wrap their heads around. And of course his first owner, my sister, had already given him up years ago, so she wasn't an option. So, I was his only human. And, he was truly my life. We were together all day long, and all night long. In eight years we were only apart for a couple of nights whe he had to be hospitalized. So, my life consisted of Loke and his routines. I studied creative writing for 3 years at university during my first years with Loke. So, I kept on writing my novels to exercise my mind, hoping that some day I might be able to make money of my writing. Loke was always in my lap. He was my muse. And, he was the lovliest and friendliest of dogs. The biggest snugglebug. If he wasn't sitting in someones lap 24/7 he was an unhappy pup. He always slept curled up under my arm, with his head propped up on my upper arm. Everybody in the neighbourhood loved him. And because of his birth defects he looked just lika a puppy no matter how old he got. So, even at 11 years of age we had strangers on the street come up to us and say: "Oh, what a cute puppy". So, this spring things started to go downhills with his health and the vet tried to experiment with medication and food. But, you know. Sometimes our best efforts just aren't good enough and problems started compounding, and he got really sick. So, eight days ago, I ended up it that situation where the vet told me that euthanasia would be the the most compassionat choice. It was the hardest choice I've ever had to make but I just couldn't put Loke through the extreme measures with very high risk of sudden heart failure and blood clots that was the only other option. So, on the vets recommendation I chose to give Loke "The kindness of a good death". When Loke, very calmly and withour any fear of severe pain, took his last breath, with his head against my chest, and slipped into that great unknown, I felt that death too. Just like that, my life as I've known it for the last 8 years just stopped. I lost my soulmate, my furbaby, my four legged child, my muse, my constant companion, and my mission in life, my routines, my comfort. I'm feeling all the feelings... I'm paying all the costs of euthanasia... And, I'm at a loss as to how to continue my life without him. Because I never knew how long he would be in my life, I never planned for any future that didn't include him. For eight days I've felt like I'm standing outside of life, peeking in on the hustle and bustle of the city life. Intellectually I know he's gone, but emotionally I don't think I have accepted it yet. And, I do have that grief brain, because every mundane thing we do in a day now takes an effort. Like getting up in the morning, getting dressed, cooking, eating, doing dishes... I'm trying to be strong, like I had to be for Loke all those years. And, because if I'm too sad all the time, my mom who calls me every day gets too worried and she has her own health problems, and my dad has his cancer, so they don't need any more distress in their lives. So, yeah, this is such a strange new world I'm trying to fit in.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh my, Fia... thank you dearly for sharing your story with us. It deeply saddens us to learn of Loke's passing. He was a brave little boy who battled a lot - and he was so lucky to have you at his side caring for his every need through those various illnesses. Sounds like you both had a beautiful bond and he surely will be missed. We can only imagine how lonely it must feel and how upsidedown your world must seem. Just remember, Loke taught you how to be brave and you will get through this. His happiest moments were when you were filled with joy. Maybe his legacy is for you is to carry on creating happiness in others - just like he did with you every single day. We have so much to learn from our pups and they can even teach us after they're gone. Please know how much we share your grief and hope your fond memories of Loke will help your journey of healing. Warmest hugs.💔 If you're interested, we created a 6-part email series with all kinds of resources on grief support that's totally free - hopefully some parts of it are helpful: houndhuggerdiy.com/dog-loss/

[@JustVibingFullStop]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Thank you for taking time out of your day to reply to me! Today it's exactly two weeks ago that my little boy passed. I am trying to be strong, and move forward in life a little bit each day. My brain still feels like mush and the grief still has me in it's grip. My heart constantly aches for my boy and I want to hold him in my arms so much. But, I know that's impossible and I'm slowly accepting it. I know that my life will have to go on without my soulmate and I want to do this in a way that honours Loke's memory. I very much appreciate your support and words of comfort. It means a lot. Thank you!

[@goldengold5676]

My condolences to you. I hear that grief counseling is available. I lost my dog this past July 2023. I pray and ask God to give me strength because this grief is so painful. So, let’s continue to encourage one another via social media. ❤️ and hugs of kindness and compassion.

[@melejoystaten9701]

All of you have said the EXACT way I’ve been feeling , everything! My mouse passed this last Saturday and I found this series that Sunday and I’ve been walking my other pup and listening to this while we walk. So so helpful so healing’ I think mouse guided me right here, to say mom it’s ok and I’m with you! It’s amazing how much this is helping me!! Thank you you all so very much!!🐾💖🐾💖🐾

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you kindly for reaching out, it means the world to us that you've found this series helpful. We're so so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 It sounds like Mouse was an amazing pup. Please accept our warmest condolences...and not sure if this is something you'd be interested in or not...but if you're feeling up to it, we recently created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through grief. Here is the link to sign up: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about, if you'd like. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our dog loving community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.

[@cynthiaracicot6502]

I ran a red light lost in thought about my beloved dog.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, Cynthia, that is perfectly understandable. After a loss as deep and heartbreaking as this, your brain goes numb and it's easy to lose focus. We have an article on our site that was beautifully written with helpful tips on how to survive those first few hours, days and weeks. houndhuggerdiy.com/the-moment-after Please accept our warmest condolences for your loss. Hugs. 💔

[@tonkatsu1107]

I went through all the stages of grief when I lost my soul dog Sushi on 17 Sep 2021 at the vet hospital, but anger was the most overwhelming. Once I went through it, I realized right away that I needed to let it go since it was not helping me nor putting the blame to the vet and it was certainly not gonna bring Sushi back. Moving past this intense emotion, I was able to have compassion for myself and think about the happy life we had together. It’s been more than a year but the pain is still the same. I miss you everyday, Sushi. Know that I will always love you 🤍 Glad KZbin recommended me this video. Thank you for providing a safe space for us to share our grief, Hound Hugger DIY!

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you so very kindly, Joyce. Your story has touched our hearts and your strength is so encouraging. We're very sorry for the loss of your beloved Sushi. It's such a blessing to have pups in our lives, but at the same time so incredibly difficult because time with them is never long enough. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. May you find comfort in all the precious happy memories you have together. 💔

[@BellasMom4Eva]

I lost my beautiful doggie Bella 8 days ago. She was my everything. My 24/7 companion, sleeping buddy, my true soulmate. Never felt this much love before. House is so empty without her. How does one go on after this?

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, Rosie, that's just heartbreaking. We are truly sorry to hear you lost your sweet Bella a few days ago. All of the feelings you are experiencing are normal. Grief never really ends. It's ok not to be ok, because you never really get over it - but you will get through it. It's about taking those first steps toward healing. Healing your heart doesn't mean you are over the loss. The loss is a part of you. It's shaped your life forever... just as all of those wonderful moments you had with your Bella have shaped you into the person you are today. If you'd like to check it out, we have an article on our website that helps with those first overwhelming moments. houndhuggerdiy.com/the-moment-after/ In time, we hope you're able to remember all of the wonderful times you had together, the adorable little quirks, favorite snacks - any memory that helps you change the sad story you're focusing on now. Our hearts are with you. 💔

[@pammcnary]

I had to let my 9 yr old greyhound go on 6/29/21. Her passing was very peaceful. I am grateful for that. Resonated with me? Anger because it wasn’t fair! She was too young! Why did she get KD? She was my hiking buddy, and I can’t imagine hiking without her… I don’t even want to go outside, because I’ll see other people with their dogs, and mine is gone… I only had her for 6 yrs, because her 1st 3 yrs was spent in the horrible racing industry! I even wonder if the drugs they pumped into her caused the damage to her kidneys…She learned to ‘be a dog’ with me. I know I “should” be grateful that she was in a new life twice as long as the other, but still…Everything you’re saying is right on the mark! Thank you! 😔💔🐾😡🌈

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so sorry for your loss. Please remember that your anger is an absolutely valid emotion right now, you are feeling what you need to feel. And those grateful feelings will likely come when you least expect it. It sounds like your girl had a wonderful life with you! Our thoughts are with you right now.

[@MrFrankiecharlie]

We lost our beloved greyhound just this week . The pain in unbearable, I miss his little face so much x

[@giovannibermudezjr]

My Crystal Girl died Friday April 29th. She had Just turned 9 years old. I was shocked, thinking she was a healthy dog that could easily have reached double digits. Then Kidney Failure took all that away from us. She too spent the first couple years chained to a tree, until I was able to take over her care and give her a better life. Miss you 3,000 My Crystal Girl.

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

The 6 yrs you both had were a beautiful precious gift for you both. Such a wonderful story that you rescued your ❤ dog, bet she the best life

[@rsir]

Hearing Hilary recount how her anger came from "It's not fair," which is what I've often said among the mix of emotions after my recent loss. Your discussions and insights on these videos have been helpful.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you so much for your kind words. It means so much that our discussions can be helpful through such a difficult time. Please know that you are not alone, you're in our thoughts.

[@goldengold5676]

Thank you very much for this information. ❤️🌺

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

You are so welcome! ❤️

[@JRGirl22]

I had a literal pack of beagles. I lost them one by one. I decided to adopt only beagles and give them the best life. I fell for each of them even though I never had their puppy years. I also adopted my sons shelties too. My heart has been broken many times. I find that pick a song that expresses my grief. Every time I hear it I release my grief. It helps me to feel the pain instead of denying it. Without You by Neilson was one. Another by Josh Groben. It helps.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thanks for sharing your story with us. It takes a strong person to open your heart again and again, knowing that pups are only with us for a short time. We are so very sorry for your loss. You are so right... music can be an amazing healer. So glad you found songs that help you along your journey. Our thoughts are with you. 💕

[@56Timtam]

Thank you so much for making my first few days/nights of the loss of my darling girl, most beloved little Moodle, little Stevie, feel like I might one day come through this feeling of grief. Your conversation and insights make me feel less alone. I’m dying of (or living with terminal Cancer myself) my little baby was only 4 + 1/2yrs when on Monday (4 days ago), after getting sick on Sunday, and she was at the vet hospital overnight, she died because her body became so ill with sepsis that I had to make the decision for them to euthanise her. I’m broken. I feel like there’s no reason to live. But I know that’s not true. I just love her more than anything I’ve ever loved in my life. Truly. She was my light.💔

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh no that's truly heartbreaking to hear about Stevie. Sudden loss can be so difficult and hard to fathom when they are so young. I'm sure it's impossible to express in words the grief you are feeling - especially with your own health issues you're battling at this time - but it's clear you are a strong, caring and brave person who is capable of achieving anything you put your mind to. Stevie's light will always be with you. Please know we send heartfelt hugs and warmest wishes for healing in the days ahead. 💔

[@sashaxnea6803]

Sweet video ALL dogs go to heaven . Charlie 🐕

[@lauraraneri4250]

I've been experiencing overwhelming sadness and depression. 😓🙏

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

To help work through these powerful emotions it may be helpful to reach out to a professional, here is a link to a document that we created that has a list of free resources for grief support wehearthounds.com/assets/GriefSupportKit.pdf I truly hope that you find this helpful and that you can begin the process of healing. Hugs.

[@truthprevails7085]

Just knowing I have to go thru it, and having the knowledge to cry and not bottle the pain and loneliness up was helpful because it’s just the facts. The loneliness was helped by friends who were with me and understood for the first week and more , everyday . Then there’s the phone. I can’t imagine going thru this without outside support. I know one woman who shut everyone out, and still has her baby’s bed out with the blankets the way he left them and it’s been months. I feel so badly for this mama. People and God are what help me get thru

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you kindly for reaching out to us to share your story. We're so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 Only time, dear friends and tears take away grief; that is what they are for. Part of what makes the loss of your relationship so painful is the sense that you are left more alone than you were before. You are so right - it's very important to seek out interactions that remind you how connected you truly are.

[@truthprevails7085]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Thanks so much ❤️💖

[@TaheravdBerg]

Thank you ladies for the wonderful supporting video's. We recently had to say goodbye to our 16,5 years old Pomeranian boy. My logic and my emotions are crasshing and conflicting with each other. I realize time will heal ... and during my healing process I am extremely selective in choosing people I want to be with, communicating to my direct surroundings what I my plans are so they wont worry. Your video's really helped (and still helping) processing my grieve. Thank you. God's will who knows ... maybe someday I can help others the way on behalf you 3 ladies do. God Bless You all. Love from a grieving dog-mom from the Netherlands 🤍✨️🐾🌈

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you so very kindly Tahera. Your words have touched our hearts. We're very sorry for the loss of your beloved boy. Both of us have had the honor of caring for a pup for 16.5 years... it's such a blessing, but at the same time so incredibly difficult because time with them is never long enough. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. May you find comfort in all the precious happy memories you have together. 💔

[@TaheravdBerg]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you for your time reading and replying to my comment. And sorry for the typing mistake. I was typing with tears in my eyes and wasnt able to see what I was writing... and auto correct took over. I meant to say that you all inspire me to continue. And your video's helped me realizing that my grieve and pain are not crazy. That i am not loosing my sanity. I hope maybe someday ... on behalf of my dear Pim ... I can help other humans and dogs too. And yes we both had the honor to care for them that long. Pim was 16,5 years old but he was with us for 14,5 years. When we found him he was such in a poor condition. Malnourished, had skin disease, scared. He was really a broken soul (inside and out). I was (and am still) very very honored that God choses and trusted me to be his human guardian. After a year of rehabilitation, Pim became the most stable and loving dog ever. He was such a special and loving little guy. He touched every human he met and taught them to be happy and smile even just for a while. He was not my first rescued Pomeranian... but he definitely had that special love energy that radiated and touched others so deeply. After I am able to put this grieve into its place ... I feel the need to keep Pim's love and legacy alive by helping others. Sorry for the long comment and thank you again for your time and support. I hope to be in touched with all of you someday. Thank you 🙏🐾💖

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We have so much to learn from our pups...even after they're gone. Pim sounds wonderful - such a happy little fella - and he'd love for you to carry on creating happiness in others one day. Please know how much we share your grief and hope your fond memories of Pim will help your journey of healing. Warmest hugs.

[@brandonmoskos9149]

My Bella. I miss you so much. My best friend. 9-13-06 to 9-19-22. I love you so much.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of hope and healing your way.

[@paulmichaelibero1698]

My GSD baby was my source of happiness. I miss you. Thank you baby Louvie. Papa Jesus will take care of you.❤❤❤

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

How fortunate you were to share a wonderful life together and to experience so much joy Louvie brought into your world. Your beloved pup sounds so precious and it's clear you had the most amazing connection with one another. Please accept our warmest condolences 💔

[@jorgegamboa1199]

My small beautiful brown chihuahua passed away today, I also had a hard day at work but I feel angry and feel I could of done something to save her. I have 5 dogs fifteenth breeds, I woke up today around 9am open the crates and they all ran out except Lola I called vet and they said to monitor her so I did but after seeing her struggle to walk and breath I did monitor her hoping she just feels sick but it got to the point were after monitoring her for about an hour and a half her breathing really got worse, she I got her cage and franticly drove to the nearest vet ER but after Runing through stop signs and lights when I got there she was gone. My guilt is that I saw her suffer for that monitoring time and am angry for second guessing and not taking her to the Er vet as soon as I saw a breathing issue, I am disappointed in my self, I even tried giving her cpr when I got her out the car, staff got close to me to check her heart beat but they said sorry for your loss but she is gone I fell terrible because again I should of taken her as soon as I saw issues witch was for an hour and a half before I divided to drive her like a maniac for nothing. I am really angry at my self 😢

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Jorge, we are soooo very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story with us. It's clear your love was deep and losing your pup has put a big weight on your heart. But you didn't do anything wrong - you are a good person with a big heart and your little girl knew this better than anyone. Dogs and cats are experts at hiding pain and weakness - it's an innate instinct passed down from their ancestors to help them survive in the wild. Please know you are not at fault and your dog would never think poorly of you. What you're feeling is normal.. we all go through a list of "what ifs" and beat ourselves up about things we can't change. As devastating as it is to lose your sweet furbaby, she would never ever want you to beat yourself up like this. You took good care of her in many ways; try not to throw that away. You are in our thoughts and we send warm wishes of healing your way.

[@meenacoultas9598]

I’m so glad to have found all of you. Your channel and all the things you have said really hit home with me. I thought I was the only one who could have this pain. Thank you. I love my little girl so much. She was best friend.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Please know that you are not alone. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

[@truthprevails7085]

Devastating relief is a very good term

[@bruceking]

Feeling sad & lonely for my dachshund Ginger. Also anger. Lost her on the morning of the 18th of January. Only had her for 2 years and 11months. She had bladder cancer but what took her was Mylomelomasi. She went so fast and I do feel anger.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, Bruce, that's so sad. We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved girl at such a young age. We've both had pups die of cancer and it's devastating when they are taken well before their expected time. Your feelings of anger and loneliness are totally a normal part of the grieving process. Over time, try to focus on the time you did have together - and the love you shared - because although it was short, it was truly special. If your little one was only supposed to live here a short time on earth, then she was very lucky to have a loving and devoted dad like you. (She could've ended up in a less loving home and had a much rougher life.) Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and we send healing wishes your way.

[@goldengold5676]

My condolences to you. ❤️

[@cherylcaardillo1702]

The only solution to loosing your beloved pet is to adopt another one. Love the video. Our fur babies are our children

[@sjsarthou]

I lost my boy 2 days ago. Im aching so much and Im so glad to find this video. I hope the link is still available

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are soooo very sorry for your loss. It's clear your love was deep and losing your pup has put a big weight on your heart. We do have a link that works to our 6-part email series with all kinds of resources on grief support that's totally free: houndhuggerdiy.com/dog-loss/ Please know that you are not alone. Our hearts are with you at this sad time.💔

[@sashaxnea6803]

All 3 of u have very profound words of comfort thx you 🙏 . As I Tex out my boy down on Saturday and I'm beyond overwhelmed this pain is so deep and hard !! To cope with.

[@ivorybondoc8578]

My 1.5 year old dog just passed away and I’m so much in pain right now😢 I don’t know how to handle this feeling. I can’t eat, do my regular exercise, take a bath and even sleep enough. I feel guilty because it’s because of me she suffers a lot. I brought her to the vet after the day she got seizures because of many internal problems and it’s so painful because she didn’t shows any signs that she’s not ok. She’s still young and I can’t accept that she’s gone now. She’s the sweetest. I don’t know what to do right now. I want to hug and talk to her and say how much I love her. Although I always say that when she’s alive. I just want to have amnesia right now jusy to stop thinking her😢😢😢

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh we are so very sorry to hear that your little girl is no longer with you. The feelings you have of shock, numbness and overwhelming grief are completely normal. Try to be kind to yourself. Dogs and cats are experts at hiding pain and weakness - it's an innate instinct passed down from their ancestors to help them survive in the wild. It's not your fault and she would never think poorly of you. Remember how much she loved you - as you loved her. It's gut wrenching to lose a pup at such a young age. We miss them with our whole heart. And that’s ok. It just means we love them fully - they are a part of our soul - they shape our lives and they remain forever with us. When you are able, try to remember how lucky you were to have each other (even for a short time) and if you think about all of the wonderful times you had together, maybe that's something that can help you feel good again. Hugs upon hugs upon hugs to you.

[@ivorybondoc8578]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you for you comforting words. I’m still in deep sorrow and super miss her😔 even if she’s not here anymore, I still talk to her and say how much I miss & love her. The pain & guilt are so strong that I don’t know how to handle 😢 I miss her beautiful face when she’s looking at me. She’s the preetiest. I have a lot of “what ifs” I badly want to see & hug her again 😢😢😔

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

Thanks!

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you! We are honored and humbled to know our videos have helped in some small way.

[@stephaniesvantner4403]

Thank you so much for doing this episode. It’s helped me immensely. ❤

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are deeply saddened by your loss, but it's so nice to hear our videos help. Please know you are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of hope and healing your way. 💔

[@lorafriedenthal5067]

I know this is an old video, but I had to put my dog down 3 weeks ago and have been listening to podcasts and videos since. I really had that Lost in My Life feeling last week, where doing the normal things I would do just felt so wrong. Like how could I listen to the news or watch TV when my baby was gone? I felt like I should have been doing something important or different not just acting like it didn't happen. That feeling has ebbed this week. I'm still afraid a little of being better. 12 years of love and I'm over it in a month? Surely that can't be. 3 weeks seems both like forever and like too short a time...

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, Lora, that's just heartbreaking. We are truly sorry to hear you lost your little one a few days ago. All of the feelings you are experiencing are normal. Grief never really ends. It's ok not to be ok, because you never really get over it - but you will get through it. The first time someone said that to me, it made me feel better about taking those first steps toward healing. Healing your heart doesn't mean you are over the loss. The loss is a part of you. It's shaped your life forever... just as all of those wonderful moments you had with your furbaby have shaped you into the person you are today. It doesn’t matter how much time goes by, we still miss them with our whole heart. And that’s ok. It just means we love them fully - they are a part of our soul and they remain forever with us. Please know you are in our thoughts and we send you strength, comfort and warm wishes daily.

[@jamiejohnson973]

Before my dog passed two weeks ago July 15, 2023 a Saturday I took her to the humane society for her shots yo get her licensed renrwed she was 16 years old and had a hernia I could not get it fixed because the risk I thought would be too much. Got her shots, rabies, parvo and distemper then the next couple days she had a r action I think to parvo where has symptoms of it she has had this shot several times in her life but never reacted just got tired. I think het bift had a weak immune system maybe because of the hernia. I had no way of getting her up a vet and could not afford a mobile vet. I can't drive sight problems. Can see but am officially blind. Central vision loss, color blind and retinal dustropht. She got sick and after they did not get well got worse until Saturday when she went to sleep in her bed on my couch. I had been sleeping on it with her at my feet just yo comfort her. She deserved that after all the love she gave me. A sweet Chihuahua little deer teacup chi. My best friend next to a Jesus and was always there for me. I know I could not have got her to a vet and I was upset that the humane society did not check her over like a vet would but if adj about any problems I said to them about the hernia and they saw the lump in her armpit it looked like a fatty harmless tumor but I wonder if it made have been harmful and was making her sick and that's why she got sicker her immune system was fighting that plus the hernia. I'm glad she went peacefully. It's hard not seeing her here I live alone and she was a only dog in my home. I know she went to Heaven because the Bible says all animals ho there they are innocent and are here to help us to grow and yo learn to love, trust and be kind. Everyday I work on healing that hurt. I'm dealing with it and learning to let go because I know I will see her again and all my other animals I have had since I was little am now 58 years old going on 58 September 13, 2023. I still think she could have had a year or more with me if I only would have had her get just the rabies shot but I winder about it I think she was already fighting the physical problems u mentioned earlier and she wwa getting ready togi even when I had taken her for shots u think she was already doing that so I don't think she would have lasted more thank where she did and I'm thankful for her I did get with her. She was very sweet and taught me how to love what n after being hurt by mean people who only know how to hate and they d not care how much they hurt others. I'll miss her but I'll see her again

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Jamie, please know how sorry we are for your loss. It’s heartbreaking to lose a pup - they are family. Continue to remember all of the wonderful times you had together, the adorable little quirks, favorite snacks - any memory that helps you change the sad story you're focusing on now. In time it will get easier - and gratitude for sharing your life with such a dear sweet girl will replace the hurt you feel now. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences.💔

[@foxywhitetip7387]

Why would anyone give a 16 year old chihuahua any shots at all let alone parvo

[@sashaxnea6803]

Thx you for ur podcast 🙏👍❤️put down my boy this Saturday feeling it all plus he was my best friend and only family member that I have in my life now I have me and I'm so broken 💔 😞 PAIN in my soul . Plus I have PTSD and he also was my emotional support dog 🐕. From San Francisco 🌉🙏

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

So sorry for your loss, Sasha 😥 It's hard to lose our pups - they are such a big part of our lives. You gave your beloved boy the best life possible and he gave you so much love in return - hopefully that is something that can start to heal your heart. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of hope and healing your way. 💔 If you're interested, we created a 6-part email series with all kinds of resources on grief support that's totally free: houndhuggerdiy.com/dog-loss

[@sashaxnea6803]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thx you very much 🙏 🐾

[@1bcordell]

I lost my little Sue yesterday. 12 year old Chihuahua mix. I am so sad. I am alone and have no one to talk to. If anyone has a kind word it would be much appreciated.

[@bellablueheadlam7823]

Hi I lost my Goldendoodle one month ago. I live by myself. I hear you and understand your pain. I cry daily. He was 11 years old and my soulmate. We go through guilt, and feel lonely. Take your time on your grief journey. There are free pet loss hotlines. I watch all KZbin videos on pet loss. Take it a moment at a time.❤

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

You have our most sincere condolences for your loss. We can only imagine how lonely it must feel for you right now. The feelings of loss can be overwhelming, especially when you lose your heart dog. No matter where you go, Sue will be loving, protecting and guiding you from the other side. Her soul is forever connected to yours because you two have a bond that can never be broken. In time, you will begin to bring happiness back into your heart - and when you do, you will be bringing happiness back to hers. All Sue wants is for you to be happy, living life to its fullest... just as you wanted the same for her when she was here. Please know you are not alone. Our hearts are with you and we wish you peace in remembering all the wonderful memories you both shared. 💔

[@1bcordell]

@@bellablueheadlam7823 Thank you. I hope your healing journey is getting easier every day. Again, thanks.

[@1bcordell]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Thank you for the encouragement and nice words. I love that you said she will forever be connected to my soul. I think that is so true. Also, thank you for all you do and the resources you provide.

[@mapleleaf902]

I care and understand the loss.i am sending you hugs and prayers 🙏

[@fastoutdoorfood4843]

Thank you for your video. We just lost our 5 year old Goldendoodle

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Please know how very sorry we are to hear that you have lost your sweet Goldendoodle. We are honored and humbled to know our videos have helped in some small way. You are in our thoughts and send you strength, comfort and warm wishes daily.

[@fedup745]

My dog got me through everything. But what will get me through the loss of him?

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

Him. What would you soul pup say to you in your grief, he would love you and tell you he's happy and wants you to be. Counselling has really helped

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

Him. X

[@purdygirl1748]

Rocky my beautiful sweet baby girl died a horrible death last Sunday. I feel at a loss. Lonely... empty...sad... angry... hopeless. My heart actually hurts. Trying not to be mad at God. I know it's not His fault. I wanted Him to heal her so bad.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh my goodness, that is just awful to hear. We are so truly sorry for the loss of your beloved sweet Rocky girl. Losing a furbaby is never easy and often a harder thing to endure than losing a family member or close friend. And making sense of such a devastating loss can seem impossible. The whirlwind of emotions you're feeling are totally normal. Even being mad at God. In the hopes this brings some comfort, here are a couple of resources for you: lisaalundy.com/empowerment/why-it-is-okay-to-be-mad-at-god/ - A wonderful blog post on why it's ok to be angry at God. offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss - A 6-part email series we created that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through your grief. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sending much love and hugs.

[@sashaxnea6803]

Me to

[@toniannlapaz4998]

I’m so sorry-for your loss I completely understand I lost my beautiful dog two days ago and she suffered a horrible death too😥

[@robertwiegman1]

I've felt relieved my dog got to live long as opposed to other people's dogs who died young, then I feel ashamed for feeling that way.

[@astrobubbers]

My light passed 16 days ago. It was a horrible accident that was my fault. I know that I'm never going to get over it Im never going to forget that it was my fault. I just don't know how I'm going to move on from that. I have been watching videos for 15 days. There doesn't seem to be anything that will help me. I've been doing it all. Writing letters, journaling, and pictures. Oh my goodness gracious

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh, that's just awful! We are so very sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your beloved pup. Thank you for reaching out to us with your story. Sincerely hope you've found some value in our discussions with Peggy. Sometimes the best thing we can do is frame the story in our heads a different way - in order to begin the healing process...to move through the grief...and cherish the memories of our little best friend. It’s not denying what has happened. It’s just changing the way we think about it. Try to be gentle with yourself. There will always be a part of your heart that hurts. Your beloved pup was happiest when you were happy and wouldn't want you to be sad. It's hard, I know. But whenever you're able, try to set time aside to remember the good moments you shared, no matter how small. Focus on the happiness and love you shared together. When you make this a part of your habitual routine, you avoid getting tunnel-vision on the negative and move toward a path of healing. Some additional things to try...spending time with supportive loved ones and trusted friends, distracting yourself with normal daily routines, and finding ways to be helpful to others. Support from family/friends is one of the most powerful healers after a tragedy. Part of what makes the loss of your relationship so painful is the sense that you are left more alone than you were before. So it's important to seek out interactions that remind you how connected you truly are. There's also an article of tips called Why Grief Feels Different When Your Pet Dies Suddenly you may find helpful >> www.veterinarywisdom.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/Why-Grief-Feels-Different-When-Your-Pet-Dies-Suddenly-2021.pdf Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. Hugs 💔

[@monamzdzn]

I feel guilty that I couldn’t be with my fur baby Stella in her last moment. I was on the way to the clinic when my mom called me that vet said she passed away. 10 minutes before my arrival. I can’t stop crying. She was very ill and had only 3 years. I miss my kitty so bad

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry for the loss of your sweet kitty. Try to be gentle with yourself during this difficult time, she knows how much you loved her. Please know are thoughts are with you.

[@nelsonrichardson3354]

Thank you these videos have helped me so much I just had to put my dauschand down after losing battle to kidney failure I have felt so depressed and sad and angry about it but watching you three has helped alot with the greif.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Nelson we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept our warmest condolences and know that you are certainly not alone. Please be patient with yourself as you are going through this. Also thank you so much for your kind words. It really does warm our hearts to hear that this video series provides some comfort. If you're feeling up to it, we have created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through your grief. Here is the link: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss

[@robbiedill4307]

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[@carriegarman3334]

Great show thank you

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you for listening. Warm wishes to you.💗

[@Beautiful_Sacred_Land]

Thank you 🐦🙏🦊

[@marciamatteini7604]

This is day 3 since I had to put my dog Daisy down for health reasons and I’m so angry. Angry at life, angry that I lost my brother whom was my best friend and now Daisy who was someone I was so happy with. She made me so alive feeling. Now she’s gone. I know they’re both in heaven but in the mean time I’m alone again. I know I will deal with all this pain but right now I’m more angry than sad. I go between the two feelings. It’s terrible. ✝️

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Such sad news, we're so very sorry for your recent losses and wish there was something more we could do to help ease the heartache you're going through. All of the feelings you are experiencing are normal. Just know that the anger you are experiencing is not true anger, but rather a form of your sadness. There will be times when you feel more anger than sorrow. Anger gives you a quick release of emotion - unfortunately when the anger is gone you are still left with all the pain. If it helps you to cope for a moment, then go ahead and curse the sky. Try to remember you were not left behind, but instead given the opportunity to let their light shine on within you. Your beloved brother and dear Daisy are forever in your heart and soul and your cherished memories of them will be steady companions for you, as you continue on your journey of healing. Hugs💔

[@lauraraneri4250]

Yeah even though I knew that my dog was getting older I had been telling him lately that I wanted him to be with me for another 10 years, which I know was unreasonable but to lose him before he was even 10, I definitely wasn't ready for that! 🥺

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Our hearts are broken to hear about the loss of your beloved pup. Even when we share our lives with them for many years, it's never long enough. We would give anything for just one more day. 💔 All of the feelings you are experiencing are normal. And it's ok not to be ok, because you never really get over it - but you will get through it. The first time someone said that to me, it made me feel better about taking those first steps toward healing. Healing your heart doesn't mean you are over the loss. The loss is a part of you. It's shaped your life forever... just as all of those wonderful moments you had with your furbaby have shaped you into the person you are today. Please know you are in our thoughts and we send you strength, comfort and warm wishes daily.

[@pris_pris]

I am angry and upset that I only had my baby Rocket for 5 years. Knowing Papillons can live up to 16, I am upset that my dog didn’t make it to 16. He had complications with spinal cord disease IVDD. I had to euthanize him on 03/04/24 😞😞😞 Thank you for these videos.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 My husband and I lost our girl Clover to cancer when she was only 6 years old...and we miss her every single day. We had the same expectations you did when we adopted her at 4 years old, but she was only in our lives for two short years. It's normal to feel angry and cheated. Losing a pup so soon just isn't fair. The time we have with our loving pups is never long enough... but even a short time together with your heart dog is the most special treasure of all. Please know you are in our hearts and we send caring hugs your way.

[@TheMsRachael]

my dog passed away 4/2/22I have so much anger at myself:I accidentally missed 2 dosage of meds and the day he died I got little frustrated and raised my voice at him, why didn’t not rush him to hospital . Feel he died b/c of me. I’m single he was my bEst friend. I did get to hold him in my arms when he went to heaven

[@angelawyant7689]

Thank you very much needed and so timely for us today. Love and hugs!

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you kindly for reaching out, it means the world to us that you've found this series helpful. Please accept our warmest condolences.

[@ginalloyd4772]

My dog was my whole life it’s been 8 months I seriously don’t think I’ll ever get over the loss she was my bestfriend for 13 years I had to have her euthanized because of cancer which started as a tumor I can’t get that image of my head thinking could I have done something more she never took her eyes off me when they euthanized her she loved me more then anything it’s just not fair that she had to die I’m still so angry and still cry everyday 😢😢 I have lost 25 pounds I don’t eat I can’t sleep I was very suicidal in the beginning I just wanted to be with her again 😢

[@ginalloyd4772]

I’m so hurt she was my whole life last two days of her life I had to hand feed her is it wrong to have her pictures all over my house the year before she died my husband died and three years before that I lost my daughter 😢😢

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

As much as they hurt, the feelings you are experiencing are normal...It doesn’t matter how much time goes by, we can still miss our pups with our whole heart. And that’s ok. It just means we love them fully - just as they loved us. Please know how heartbroken we are to hear that you have lost a little loved one in your life. You put your dog’s needs for peace above your own needs to hold on. And as painful as that is, it's a true kindness. No matter where you go, she will be loving, protecting and guiding you from the other side. Her soul is forever connected to yours because you two have a bond that can never be broken. As you heal and begin to bring happiness back into your heart, you are bringing happiness back to hers. All she wants is for you to be happy, living life to its fullest... just as you wanted the same for her when she was here. You have our most sincere condolences and may you find peace with all the wonderful memories you both shared. 💔

[@ginalloyd4772]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you so much for your kind words they mean so much to me may god bless you❤️🙏

[@goldengold5676]

❤️ and hugs of comfort to you. May Father God give you much strength and hope. 🌺

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

I hope you are healing ginalloyd. God bless

[@sashaxnea6803]

Broken hearted had to put my boy down this Saturday 😞💔.

[@discowolf25]

I lost my little wolf 72 hours ago and, I legit want to die. Thank god it’s day of the dead. My offrenda is fire. But, I can’t eat, sleep, drink. We were with each other for 13 year’s. It was a very unique relationship due to the fact he resource guarded me and, I rescued him from a literal dog fight. Didn’t want a dog, just happened to be in the right place at the right time (sounds awful saying that), I had no idea what I was walking into. He was a DDR. Jumped into my arms, I didn’t know Wtf to do so, I grabbed him and ran 7-8miles. I got him in my car and, we drove all the way back to Minneapolis. He was already at least 2 and not neutered. I didn’t get the opportunity to even socialize him and, even the University of MN vets told me to put him down. Hell naw. I’m not new to death at all. Prolly 1/2 my friends are dead. My human best friend (of 26 years) was murdered in 2021 and, this hurts 10X more. I think that taught me how to not be angry. I learned to forgive the dude who did it. In fact I talked to him the other day. I’m a boxing coach and, I have no energy. Just none. I’m not used to not being angry and, this absolute deep sadness is hell. I don’t have his body still and that’s another deep hole. Idk.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

So sorry to hear about your loss. The pain is gut-wrenching - worse than any punch someone could give. Mostly because the pain just lingers and never really goes away. You were lucky to have found each other...and to have had so much time together (that doesn't always happen). Even 13 years isn't long enough. The time goes by so quickly. The feelings you have are normal - the guilt, anger, sadness like a pit in your stomach. Feeling numb and without energy. The amount of pain you feel is equal to the love you shared. So although it hurts like hell, most people don't get to feel that kinda bond. I hope it helps to know you're not alone. Thanks for sharing your story. Hope in time you are able to start the journey of healing. Your pup would want you to live on remembering the good times you shared.

[@discowolf25]

@@HoundHuggerDIY “The amount of pain is equal to the amount of love you shared”. Crying as I write this now but thank you so much for putting that in perspective. I’m really grasping at straws here and, your response means more than I can put into word’s. You’re right. It doesn’t always happen and, I should attempt to be grateful 🥹. I’m also somewhat relieved to know I’ll never really get over it. I’ll never feel a love like that and at the end of the day: I just miss my best friend. Appreciate the help and keep up the good work. ✌️🫡

[@DinaSchaefer888]

Thank you so much for this!

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

You are very welcome! We hope you find it helpful.

[@DinaSchaefer888]

@@HoundHuggerDIY very helpful!!!🥰

[@DarcieGlam]

Thank you, Ladies. This was so helpful.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Thank you for the kind words, it means the world that you found it helpful.

[@KnoYourWorth]

I lost my paisley 2 days ago. I am broken 😢

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Please accept our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your sweet Paisley. You are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of strength and healing your way. 💔

[@vpalmer3703]

my husband was playing fetch with my beloved dog, which he'd done his whole life, well my husband did not realize the ball had gotten stuck in his throat , the dog then layed down on the grass as to rest as he'd done time after time, I looked directly at my dog and I did not see distress in his face, it was his beautiful happy face just laying down, so I grabbed his water bowl and went and filled it up but this is the time that I had to have noticed and most likely saved his precious life because when I then looked at him and saw something was wrong as he wasn;t moving, he was motionless, i yelled for my husband we got the ball from his throat, gave him cpr, but it was too late, by seconds, i have been crushed with anger for my husband not seeing or watching the ball and myself for not noticing he was in distress. , the precious seconds I wasted getting water robbed him of being saved, he was my life, my happiness my everything. It's been a week today and I just can't get over the sadness, the would of should of and could of's. I know it was a terrible accident and he died doing what he loved, but I'm angry and feeling guilty. Did he suffer, why could my husband be so unaware. his name was "Rocko, he was a rodician ridgeback, and he was just an amazing dog, my best friend, I miss him so much. sincerelly, his mom and favorite person

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your dear boy Rocko. Unfortunately it is too easy to second guess those last moments and play them over and over in your mind. It is so important to be kind to each other right now to help with healing. Your husband is likely racked with as much guilt and pain as you are about what happened (or more). The feelings of anger and guilt you have are normal, but this was an accident and your pup surely enjoyed both your company and wouldn't want this to tear you apart. There are lessons we can learn from our pups, not only while they are with us, but also after they’re gone. Perhaps this is Rocko's way of bringing you and your husband closer together. Do what you can to remember the happy times the three of you had with Rocko and try to lean on each other for grace and suppport. Life is short and we never know what tomorrow will bring. It’s the pain we all go through in life that allows us to be more loving, compassionate and helpful to others. You are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of hope and healing your way.

[@MargaretMichelle1912]

Healing prayers for you vpalmer❤

[@wildbillo68]

I had to let my Dog Regan Pass on Monday (4-15) and I'm not doin well with it. She helped me thru 3 cancers, Hip Replacement, 12 surgeries, many "Procedures", a long list of side effects... And I feel guilt for having to decide to end her life. It would have been better if she passed naturally of course but when they are at that point there probably in alot of pain which I couldn't handle. She was whining constantly.. (But sometimes she did that when she wanted something) But- Hopefully it was the correct decision. I hope to GOD I got the signs right. I feel Guilt, Depression, Anger, Loneliness, sadness, self medication...all of it. I had gotten this Baby when My Last Bull Dog died in 2015, so I was just prolonging the pain so it multiplied.... I have lived alone for 20 yrs. so I needed her....

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh we are so very sorry for your loss. It’s heartbreaking to lose a pup - especially a heart dog. Unfortunately it's all too easy to second guess those last moments and play them over and over in your mind. It's important to be kind to yourself right now. The gift of peace is a profound act of love for a dog who is whining and suffering. The guilt and emotions you are feeling are completely normal. I don't know anyone who doesn't second guess their decision to let go. Deep in your heart you knew it was time - she was telling you in her own way. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences for the loss of your sweet girl. May you continue to find comfort in all the precious memories of the beautiful life you shared together.

[@wildbillo68]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Thank you so much....

[@KaySpendlove]

I called my pure shihtzu LOVE ON LEGS, although many years ago I am still crying. Always in my heart despite being told by the vet. GET OVER IT!

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Regardless of how we grieve, it's an important part of the healing process - to feel those feelings and work through them. You may still need time to process your grief, and that's ok. As you move along through your journey, remember that ultimately our beloved pups would not want us to continue life carrying the weight of guilt, sadness and grief for the rest of our days. And just because we let go of the grief, does not mean we let go of the amazing relationship and loving bond we have with our beloved pups. Your little Love on Legs is a part of your soul and will always be in your heart forever and ever. Our pets teach us so much - that we are our best selves when we embrace love and joy and hope for brighter days ahead. There will be a time when it feels good to honor their memory with happiness and gratitude, rather than sadness and grief. It is ok to give yourself permission to continue healing the hurt. Please know our warmest thoughts are with you at this sad time.

[@alenaduplantier4505]

I loss my dog yoshiro this morning and it's very hard to cope beacuse he died beacuse of an accident so it's shocking for me

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet boy Yoshiro. It can just be so devastating to lose your pup so suddenly. Please be patient with yourself as you go through the shock of this situation. To help work through these powerful emotions it may be helpful to reach out to a professional, here is a link to a document that we created that has a list of free resources for grief support wehearthounds.com/assets/GriefSupportKit.pdf I truly hope that you find this helpful and that you can begin the process of healing. We also recently created a Guide To Surviving Dog Loss - a 6-part email series that includes ebooks, videos and grief support to assist in your journey. The collection is completely free and it will gently guide you through this grief. Here is the link to sign up: offer.wehearthounds.com/dog-loss You're welcome to give it a try to see what it's all about, if you'd like. Again, there's nothing to purchase to access the guide, we just want to give back to our dog loving community - and would be honored if what we created helps you in your journey of healing. Hugs.

[@alenaduplantier4505]

Thank you for the concern

[@lauraraneri4250]

Still really devastated after having to put down our sweet German shepherd, Henry 🐾 last Tuesday (4-30-24). 😓

[@lauriehess2545]

all of these emotions

[@jamiejohnson973]

Can't do ND my dad face emoji so I'll just say sad sad, sad but okay am healing feeling at peace because I know she is better no 😬 ckness, no hurt, just happy and playing with other animals, my fam in Heaven and Jesus. She is safe and happy.

[@MitchellEAhles]

I had to euthanize my 16 year old Lhasa Apso “Molly Baby” the sadness is something that Ive never experienced before. The grief is worse than the loss of family members. This knot in my stomach is linked to either sadness or anger or even guilt. Love your video thanks. Aloha !!!

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Mitchell, we are heartbroken at your loss of your sweet Molly Baby. The first days, weeks and months can be the toughest, but every emotion you're feeling is normal. And although it's a pain like you've never felt in your life, the strength of your emotions are a relection of the amount of love you two shared. So we hope you may find some comfort in that - many people never experience that kind of loving devotion. We are thankful that our videos have helped in some small way. Means more than you'll ever know. Hugs 💔

[@levity90]

My dog has hemangiosarcoma and I'm completely distraught.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Oh no, that's just awful to hear. We are so very sorry your pup is having to fight such an awful disease. Cancer sucks. Love on your pup and make the most of every day. The time we have with our loving pups is never long enough... but even a short time together with your heart dog is the most special treasure of all.

[@bonniej0]

My white Chihuahua died after I got a vaccine for rabies. She started going downhill within a couple of weeks , she died in my bed and I picked her up and revived her and then I brought her to the hospital and he did all these tests and he said she had water on her heart. They offered me to put her to sleep that same day and I said I'm not bringing a dead dog home so he gave her at least six and she responded quite well to it and she was doing good for a few days and then 6 days later she died and I knew she was dying she was like I'm like bad and I was cutting her at home her arm and her arm started shaking and could be angle right I just kissed her belly up and told her I loved her a lot and then I left the moon and then came back 10 minutes later and her little tongue was hanging out and I can't get out of my mind It's just happened today. I have another dog she's a Pomeranian and she's just been laying around looking at the wall and stuff so my boyfriend came here and pulled me out to go to the cake for a little while for a couple days I just got back today and I gave my dog let's see to my friend Billy cuz she loves him she's been doing really good with him but I'm going to go get her soon I just don't know what to do because Skyler the one that passed away was my once in a lifetime dog. I got her in Florida I was out of alligator campground and somebody had a little puppy that was supposedly a teacup. She said she had two left so he brought me to the lady's house at 850 dollars and brought her home in my RV traveled for a few months until I came home and my other dog left some kind of was like a mommy to hurry up she cleaned her eyes and cleaned her all the time and we loved her very much. She's to cuddle me all the time see what's scoop me on my belly when I was sleeping on my side and if I would turn over she would get up and go on the other side and sleep on my belly again I don't know I'm just lost without her I love her more than any human alive and this all came abruptly it wasn't she was only 7 years old. I emailed the manufacturer of the vaccine and told them what happened they called me 2 hours later and offered me $500 then I got a message from vectors from Petco saying they would return money and stuff refund me the money and they're sorry for my loss should I get a lawyer?

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are truly saddened by your loss, Bee. Our best recommendations are to do what you think is best.

[@bonniej0]

@@HoundHuggerDIY oh I'm going to get Justice for Skyler and I'm trying to find out if anybody else had problems with their dogs or pets from the Nobivac -3 vaccine, we need to expose this company and this vaccine but I can't find anything unfortunately. Thank you

[@kimfromarkansas2084]

I had to put my 15 yr old down last week😂. I miss her. The house has no life in it and I do have a standard poodle. I’m already thinking about getting a new lap dog. Is it too soon. Should I feel guilty? 6:48

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Kim, we are so very sorry for your loss. It's clear your love was deep and losing your pup has put a big weight on your heart. The decision to open your home to another pup is something that's completely personal and totally up to you. There's no right or wrong answer - and certainly no reason to feel guilty. As devastating as it is to lose your sweet furbaby, they would never ever want you to feel bad for any reason. Life is short and we never know what tomorrow will bring. It’s the pain we all go through in life that allows us to be more loving, compassionate and helpful to others. You are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of healing your way.

[@kimfromarkansas2084]

Thank you so much. I appreciate your words💕

[@1bcordell]

Don't feel guilty. There are so many pets out there that need a forever home and I am sure your pet that you lost would totally be okay for giving a good life to another.

[@97warlock]

20:19 thats where im at. cant let go because of it

[@meybelpagan2400]

I feel angry at myself for putting my dog to sleep even knowing that she was in pain😢 I am deeply sad I don't want to come home.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are truly sorry to hear of the loss of your dear pup. Unfortunately it's all too easy to second guess those last moments and play them over and over in your mind. It's important to be kind to yourself right now. The gift of peace is a profound act of love for a dog who is suffering. The feelings you have about making that final decision are completely normal. I don't know anyone who doesn't second guess their decision to let go... Deep in your heart you knew it was time - your pup was telling you in her own way. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences for the loss of your sweet girl. May you continue to find comfort in all the precious memories of the beautiful life you shared together.

[@goldengold5676]

Much love and hugs. ❤️

[@sardarariyaee9118]

My dog was very playful up to one year ago then he became very quiet and tired all the time and at the end very sick I had to put him down 3 days ago and feel terrible about it. I read somewhere that terriers live the longest life in dogs why did he get the kidney disease and very sick to die?

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 You really did the most generous thing that you could do for your sweet boy. But we can absolutely relate, no matter how long we have them it always feels far too short. Please know that it is completely ok to feel the way you are feeling, and you are definitely not alone. Hugs.

[@sashaxnea6803]

So sorry I feel ur pain 🥲😞😔 I had to put my down 24hrs ago . And he was all I had no friends no family and live now alone in a funky hotel downtown SF CA .. bless u

[@mariecorlett1305]

My baby boy of 16 years passed two weeks ago. My heart is so broken.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

Dear Marie, it deeply saddens us to learn of your dog's passing. The feelings of loss can be overwhelming especially when you lose your soul dog. We both lost our dogs around 16 years of age - and it does our hearts good to know we were able to love and spoil them for so many, many years. You gave your boy the best life possible and he gave you so much love in return - hopefully that is something that can start to heal your heart. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and we send warm hugs of hope and healing your way. 💔

[@mariecorlett1305]

@@HoundHuggerDIY thank you so much. God bless you!

[@myheartsdesire643]

I don't know how to hit a sad face but I lost my Maltese of 12 years 4 days ago..I feel all these things and more...have had panic attacks every day since she passed and there was no choice..I had to let her go so thats not an issue...she had a "10" heart murmur, vet says thats the worst, xrays showed a large enlarged heart , she was going blind...the vet said 7 months prior when she had her physical she was just fine so she said all this came on very fast and she felt she would most probably leave us soon...so I chose to stop the pain. The thing that bothers me most is guilt from all the times I wasn't with her at home and I could have been. I always feel they should be like velcro 24/7 and some times I just needed some space. I don't know if I'll ever forgive myself.

[@HoundHuggerDIY]

We're so so very sorry to hear of your loss. 💔 It can just be so devastating; I think that might be why we beat ourselves up. Try to remember that the only thing your sweet girl would want is for you to be happy. Please be gentle with yourself as you go through the shock of this situation. To help work through these powerful emotions it may be helpful to reach out to a professional, here is a link to a document that we created that has a list of free resources for grief support wehearthounds.com/assets/GriefSupportKit.pdf I truly hope that you find this helpful and that you can begin the process of healing. Hugs.

[@myheartsdesire643]

@@HoundHuggerDIY Tysm 4 everything!!