4 Crazy Things About Girls I Wish I Knew Sooner

[@tuanf01]

Never make women the main focus of your happiness. Focus on your purpose and success. When you're happy and successful, you will attract women like a magnet.

[@kennylanqua6512]

@Richard Gos spot on

[@pduh42]

I fully agree!

[@Rassy_]

I'd prefer a woman who is simply attracted to me because of my personality rather than what I drive or wear, that's definitely a red flag

[@quinnsgumbite2247]

Yeah why the fuck rich man marry gold digger that make him lost and stupid

[@manchuriancandidatethe3rd101]

@R Go just like women, money is also just a byproduct of purpose and success, so no, you don't really get the point.

[@madstudent8939]

"Real girls are never perfect, and perfect girls are never Real.

[@YourDeath311]

So let’s create it. Let’s make a Android female and replace this obsolete creature

[@houseofmatrix6174]

My guy from Mississippi use say that all the time

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

@@YourDeath311 bro, sex robots come soon. With them we can also have emotional bonds. Unless our females start becoming female again and stop being so hyper career focused... they haven't deserved better.

[@denpogi10]

@@YourDeath311 but Androids can't make babies, without babies the human species will be extinct in the future

[@narop4911]

Don’t worry I’m pretty sure we will find a way around it

[@dracon501]

Guys, sometimes you peak at different ages. If you spent your 20s getting your life together go have fun in your 30s.

[@minhkhuong6132]

thanks for your wise words.. motivate me a lot

[@tdaye6978]

As a 30 year old who just spent the last decade getting his life together...I couldn't agree more And fuck all these weirdos talking about starting relationships too late or having kids at an "old" age. Most of them are jealous that they got stuck with kids in their early 20's and never had a chance to live their life or figure out who tf they even are. Be the guy in your mid 30's knocking down 20 year old college chicks that their peers are jealous they can't have

[@mastertray]

Thanks you. I am about go get 26 and my life is absolutly not together. I guess i will need time, maybe years to get it together. I am just afraid that this means, that the "fun" time will be over before i am able to fix my life. When i read something like your comment, it helps me to get motivated. All the best to you

[@TheBigBrainn]

@@mastertray It is actually even more amazing when you realize that we all share those mutual fears and are quite actually in the same boat all of our lives. You just have to see through your fears and you win.

[@MidnightStorm4990]

@@tdaye6978 I'm 16 and my mum had me at 22.... LIKE WHAT THE FUCK?? Ye I'm not gonna have any kids till maybe 30 I think early 20s is way too young for me. Shit if I were go have kids at 22 I wouldnt even be finished with uni..

[@gabrieljordan8015]

As a former 'nice guy' I learned that even though yes nice guys finish last - we also get the last laugh. Once nice guys finally give up and start focus on bettering themselves as men then all the girls that ditched us for the chads and bad boys suddenly come crawling back. Unfortunately they are used goods by then and the nice guys have officially lost interest. My advice to young men out there is focus on improving your lives and don't worry about what girls or society for that matter thinks about you.

[@1957346]

Thats exactly what happened to me

[@inannaxanthus1749]

this happened exactly to me: "hi,i lost ur number" or "hi,hadn't seen you in a long time" and deep inside i was like "i am no longer interested even in talking to you,lol."

[@paularnold2124]

@@inannaxanthus1749 bro this is true...this one girl thought I had time to play her games....so out of the blue she ghosts me for a couple of months but luckily I learnt never to take such things into consideration she wants to go....I'd happily pack your bags and call you a cab😂...fast forward she comes back with hey...and I'm thinking what's wrong with this girl a couple of months won't change shyt

[@joshuaquanstrom370]

Big facts 💯

[@luciusaureliuscommodus6520]

Bro this is exactly what happened to me and I am working on my niceness and caring less and less how I used to and started to focus on myself. Agree 100 with what you said. Single for 5 months now.

[@ZacDuPreez]

Dude if a girl leaves you at your worst, shes not the one

[@barflin]

yep.....go forever no contact!

[@SKRooU2]

well anytime she leaves, she is obviously not the the LMAO. one bitch leaves get another one, they are all the same

[@baha3alshamari152]

It's her nature to do so it's a lion nature to kill zebra and eat it you can't say he is not the one You should always understand that

[@ZacDuPreez]

@@baha3alshamari152 so if a guy leaves a girl at her worst,its okay,no its not

[@baha3alshamari152]

@@ZacDuPreez A man nature isn't to leave her at her worst it's to add another woman on the side

[@x-man5056]

What I regret the most from my younger dating days is not the rejections, it's the times I let lack of confidence and fear of rejection keep me from trying. It is much better to get rejected by any woman than potentially let the one who might have said yes get away without trying.

[@TheRonaldbaxter]

Yes the confident older you is disappointed with the younger you, who lacked confidence for no good reason at all. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@x-man5056]

@@TheRonaldbaxter The "no good reason at all" is the part that gives angst. Missed out on some very attractive women for fear of a momentary rejection, the distress from which would disappear the moment I turned away as long as you let it. Apparently it's a fairly common issue.

[@TheRonaldbaxter]

@@x-man5056 Yeah, fear of rejection is stupid. However, when you are young you are so concerned what everyone else thinks.

[@x-man5056]

@@TheRonaldbaxter Yes, better to give her a shot and let her say no than just say no to yourself on her behalf to protect your ego. So dumb.

[@LeeEverett1]

Dude facts. Everytime I see a girl I'm attracted to and I talk myself out of even trying, I go home and look at myself in the mirror asking myself "why didn't you even try?". You literally have a 50-50 shot, it's either a yes or a no. That regret is far worse than just a simple "no thanks".

[@959pilot4]

This makes it seems like dating a woman is poimtless.

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

It doesn't make it "seem" like it. It illustrates it. Keep it casual and occasional.

[@959pilot4]

@@SomeGuy-xf9bc and all women are like this? I mean im dating a chick. One thing i was taught as a kid, pay attention to their actions and youll never be fooled by their words. Call me crazy but i dont belive we were meant to be alone.

[@abde4645]

@@959pilot4 yeah don't listen to the losers who think women are some kind of demons there are bad and good women out there and i agree its been proven over and over that being alone isn't the best way to live

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

@@959pilot4 I had a guy lecture me on my views one time. 6 months later his wife served him papers. I genuinely wish everyone well, but the odds are not in a mans favor with regard to long term commitment.

[@959pilot4]

@@SomeGuy-xf9bc my guy we're doomed from birth. Everyone has had relationships go south. But not everyone is out to hurt ya. If mine goes south then it is what it is. Sure it will hurt, but i will live. Only things garuntee in life us death and taxes.

[@massangabe]

Women get crazy when they feel that you are weak. Especially at your lowest point they start testing your strength.

[@greatdelusion7654]

That is true. It’s an inherent defence mechanism in females. If the girl is quiet and indifferent toward you, you alreadly know you lost her. If she is screaming and yelling, driving you crazy, that’s a GOOD SIGN.

[@nellynel6141]

It looks like she’s testing your strength but really she’s just trying to squeeze the last drop of the powerful masculine energy you have left. Humiliation tactic

[@nicekix3038]

@@greatdelusion7654 What would you do if they try to give you another chance after giving you the silent treatment?

[@BattleTested]

@@nicekix3038 run

[@mike-cc3dd]

No.. girls do that. Women are different. they dont live by their programmed nature but actually try to overcome that to be a woman. .

[@The_Future_isnt_so_Bright]

Words to live by : ''You'll lose alot of money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money.''

[@kelvinmudadi4732]

I like it

[@rogue_spirit]

10/10!!!

[@doreenlane2370]

Not always true in marriage. If you leave your wife for money than you will most likely lose your wife.

[@magicnik5737]

@@doreenlane2370 bro if i ever leave my wife home its prolly gonna be buisness

[@robertedwardn]

Also WRONG

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow

[@xMckingwill]

You really need to update this Bro. Just simple change "better" with something else. No one is "better" than any one else and "no one likes to feel "inferior" to anyone. In terms of being a human being, different people are good at different things that much is true. A man is better at certain things compared to a woman and woman is better at certain things compared to men. One side isnt overall better than the other and neither side believes the other to be inherently better.

[@MasterWarlock1935]

@@xMckingwill you seem to have missed the point, of the article, of the comment, and of the reality of mankind. The article points out that what women think they want and what they instinctly actual want are different. If you present yourself as what they SAY they want, you will almost always lose. It's a fact, substantiated by many studies going back generations, that women do indeed seek out men who are better than they are. Better in education; better in income and career; smarter and wiser; better in handling problems; even latger, taller, and stronger than they are. To say that no one is better than anyone else sounds noble, but in fact it requires ignoring six thousand years of recorded history. Geniuses are not just smarter, they are better adjusted and more prosoerous, and have far better readership skills than average people, let alone below- average people. It's a fact that in this country everyone has the same RIGHTS and FREEDOMS as everyone else. It's not true that no one is better than others.

[@xMckingwill]

@@MasterWarlock1935 no i have not missed anything, I think you missed my point, you have missed my point completely. And you have not actually read what I put. I literally said different people are better at different things, I guarantee there is a woman out their that is smarter and wiser than you, but i doubt you feel like she is superior to you on a fundamental level. Or you feel less human because of it. You don't seem to understand what i mean by no one is "better" then anyone else. I mean no one is sub human, less tham human, or losses their dignity as a HUMAN being. There is a difference between acknowledging someone is better at something you are, but that doesn't mean you feel less human compared to them. I'm making a point better does not mean superior. They like certain traits but it doesn't not come from a place " oh I'm attracted to him because I feel inferior to him" This is not the case.

[@abde4645]

@@xMckingwill bro chill its just a single word and yes go look it up women like you more when they feel that you are better than them

[@xMckingwill]

@@abde4645sigh its not the case they are not attracted to you because they feel inferior to you. Stop trying to give yourself an ego boost. Yes they like strong, confident, etc men . That much is obvious, but again being attracted to those traits does not come from a place of feeling inferior as a human being. The reason im hung up on one would is that it creates a toxic view of women and a false idea of how they view the world, it creates a superiority complex.

[@AC-qz3tv]

You know he's spitting absolute facts when you see no female in the comments disagreeing

[@TheJLH]

Lmfao, these videos don’t populate for any rational chick in a KZbin algo.

[@Marina-wi3rs]

@@LliamMoore just a female trait??

[@manonshadowfax2482]

@@TheJLH wait, there is a female that is rational..? We must protect them!

[@amilitux8202]

As a female, I agree to what he is saying. We want a man who respects and can stand up for himself. At the same time, respects us. If a man respects himself, it means that he is good in decision-making and has a good coping mechanism at his low points in life. That is attractive. But we don't want a misogynist who is arrogant and has a pickup artist vibe, it's very annoying. If a guy does PUA things to any woman, I want to reap his gut out. PUA vibe only works with women who have low self-esteem.

[@richcohen5936]

@@amilitux8202 So why do girls date and have crazy sex with goons, criminals & serial killers? Why do they go crazy for them but pretend that those guys are the worst? I think what you're saying is you want a competent alpha guy in your 20s and a security guard in your 40s. But you still don't want men to judge you, so spinning the wheel to feel larger than life sort of manipulation.

[@barflin]

Another thing i learned after my 4 year relationship with my girlfriend ended with her cheating on me was.....If they cheated on their ex husband to be in a relationship with you, it's only a matter of time they will cheat on you as well. I was a fool for believing anything she was saying the whole damn time. CGE

[@Rassy_]

Sorry about that, but the good thing is that she was only your girlfriend & not a wife

[@darryledwards3675]

😂🤣

[@davidmccarthy8599]

Live and learn mate u almost asked for that one shoulda known better u probs done her ex man a favour nxt time get a single one there bad enuff lol

[@nlouisf]

I thought we all know about this 😂

[@glevando]

She's not yours, it's just your turn. And yes, don't be a nice simp. That will get you nowhere despite what Hollywood says. Decent video.

[@Rassy_]

I tend to think that this saying is mostly used by young guys & guys who've been cheated on. I doubt if you would still use it on someone that bears your kids and is your wife

[@OriginalKingRichTv]

@@Rassy_ naw it’s all the same

[@Rassy_]

@Harvey Smith the simp part is true, dont be one but trust me there are good women out there, only extremely rare to find though

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan

[@houseofmatrix6174]

Factz

[@2000rayc]

HOODVILLE

[@kennylanqua6512]

I see that men must be the ones who are treated as celebrities by women, not the other way around

[@jccgold]

@@kennylanqua6512 nop. Men like to protect and love their women, women only love their children. It's sad

[@kennylanqua6512]

@@jccgold it looks like a dude has to find a way to make himself lion appealing so a woman somewhere would look at him as the celebrity instead. Because as the saying goes if the woman sees that the dude is looking at her as the celebrity then she won't be interested in him

[@KCinSD84]

Women are ruthless if they feel you getting weak in a relationship. Cold assassins!!

[@Ashtonishing1812]

Yep, they only stick if they believe you are strong

[@factcheckingyourmum]

Yeah weakness is unattractive.

[@kayasper6081]

Completely true!

[@florianb3935]

​@R Go Believe it or not, it's surprising to men to discover how women judge them and how their love can be "conditional". Per education, a man would never feel OK to leave a woman for a flaw that she has. We have to protect them at any cost, to bear with them, not be superficial, etc. Leaving a woman is always an asshole thing to do, unless she's totally crazy. Now of course that skews things a bit, because then an asshole is just a guy that dumped his gf, and then some wonder why assholes "win".

[@luise7054]

Hypergamy doesn't care, is so much easier when you finally understand it

[@DJ-JayKo]

Damn, these hit hard. Just broke up with a girl and these things definetly ring a bell. Definetly can relate to this and realize that I have felt basically all of these attributes. Thank you for sharing!

[@houseofmatrix6174]

Stay focused on your purpose the right woman will come

[@DJ-JayKo]

@@houseofmatrix6174 true that brother, same to you!

[@WATDC]

You're giving advice I've never heard from anyone else before. That tends to happen pretty often. Your channel is called far from average for a reason.

[@Ashtonishing1812]

This advice is everywhere on KZbin!

[@jasonjanthony6857]

I’m 49 and throughout my late teens, 20’s I got women easy cause I played ball but could never hold on to the ones I had feelings for cause my introvert, still very insecure nature. Listening to your videos it’s like I’m starting over in learning female nature but with 30 years experience in dealing with them. So much easier the second time around. Thanks for the great content.

[@VincentVega987]

A feminine woman does not tolerate emotional or mental weakness in men, except if you want to be just friends. Passing a woman's test was one of the most valuable thing I learn from your channel

[@Random-rs9bl]

Well said...

[@carlospita6442]

F that crap. She ain't my teacher

[@coreyloucks4865]

Spiderman didn't get the girl because Peter Parker was nice, he got the girl because of many different variables. He was mysterious, always vanishing, had a moral code to live by, was super smart, and so much more.

[@thedudeabides3930]

Also, he was part spider.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

@@thedudeabides3930 And now that we identify as whatever we want, you too can be part spider. Ain't it great?

[@Mahoni2101]

Yeah, I have had the same experience, so inductively speaking this is another affirmation of the hypothesis. When I was at my lowest point and needed my girlfriend the most, she dumped me. As C.G. Jung said: "no tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell." This was definitely a learning experience. We win or we learn.

[@justexploring6979]

Loved the video bro. At this point, I'm not even actively searching for girls anymore; just focusing on making myself a better man.

[@deltad9627]

Goodluck! Not every man needs a woman to get through life. I'm a woman myself, and I don't disagree with anything stated in this video. I wish you luck! Ciao

[@oneworldonehome]

"Many of the great leaders in the future for humanity will have to be women. It is their destiny. It is what they must do. If this is denied, then humanity will not progress. It will remain captive to history, to tradition, to conflict and war. Being providers and maintainers, women are more given to establishing peace and cooperation. In a traditional sense, they have to make families work, they have to hold families together, they have to take care of people directly, intimately. Do you see the advantages here?" A quote from the teaching entitled *The Age of Women* which you can read or listen to free online at NewMessage .org

[@piafilms2804]

Thank you, Ivan.

[@BG-sq7zf]

Sweet/Good Guy: I finished last and kept her in the end like a real man. I man up. I stepped up. Bad/Jerk Boy: Finished on her face.

[@emmanuelasare-yeboah5892]

😭😭😭😭

[@jareth7456]

Lmao !!!!!

[@fromboytoman6840]

Is she still a virgin?

[@MasterWarlock1935]

True, That !!!

[@davidstar2362]

@@MasterWarlock1935 I love the Name

[@myleshorton1125]

One thing left out is female nature is a big reason if not the main reason why a lot of females grow old unhappy or alone or both. Think about it, everything about a female’s happiness is temporary Because she is never satisfied. She’s always looking for the next best thing. It’s almost like they’re not meant to be truly happy. Where as with men it’s the simple things that make us happy it doesn’t take much to make a man happy because it’s our destiny to be happy. It’s our nature to make the best out of what we have and use it to make more. Women don’t move like that. They move into an already finished project and leave it when they’re no longer happy with it. This can create an endless cycle of searching for happiness. This can lead to a life of loneliness and utter sadness when they’re older but this is in fact their nature. So to be honest you shouldn’t feel angry at them because of their nature actually you should feel sorry for them. But don’t let them use you. educate yourselves.

[@truthimagination2997]

EXACTLY! WELL SAID!

[@purpessenceentertainment9759]

They’re trying to move into the best possible option. I don’t see anything wrong with that. I want the best option when it comes to women. The problem is, happiness is internal, not external. Both genders have issues with that.

[@kostasplafountzis6602]

because they are narcissists ,most of the pretty ones at least,they think all the world goes around them and everyone is here on earth just to please them as a servant...

[@myleshorton1125]

@@purpessenceentertainment9759 That’s the problem there is no best option for women there is only best for right now. She will go with the best option for her current situation and when she depletes its resources and becomes unsatisfied she will just move on until nature finally sets in and her options go away.

[@purpessenceentertainment9759]

@@myleshorton1125 True. It's all about how she thinks you make her feel. Be you. She likes you because you are who you are. Don't let her change you. She's going to try. It's like a game of chess. Let her know who king is.

[@modernconsumer2813]

i feel like he just told me "dont be mad that a scorpion is going to do what a scorpion does". what is happening right now.

[@modernconsumer2813]

@Richard Gos dude, i am. thanks.

[@mikegeorge8132]

A strange game in which the only winning move is not to play. - WOPR

[@clover831]

Wise and profound words..

[@grega6580]

Yeah great. This is the most discouraging video I've seen on the subject. So I'm too old, too boring, too shy. Guess I'll give up completely.

[@chrisbunka]

One of the older ones here, dude. I didn’t learn it when I was younger. Learning it all now and loving it!

[@ats4670]

I understand what you are trying to say, but being “biologically programmed” for something doesn’t mean as a higher thought creature, human, we should give into our animal self.

[@linsleyghurahoo]

I suspect this advice came out of dealing with girls and not women.

[@bullymaguire2061]

Humans are animals. Don't expect anything more.

[@thepeter3116]

There's no matriculation to adulthood in the city life. Not really a gendered thing, just technological.

[@ZingerCarlJ]

We are biologically programmed to spread our seed

[@HowTwo007]

Yes. We are capable of higher thinking, but the biological programming of the limbic system ( mating behavior) is always the default. Both men and women have their own programming. 80% of marriages today end in divorce. And 90% of which are initiated by women. Its not that 90% of men are abusive, but 90% of the women resort back to the limbic system at some point and relize they can do better than the guy they are with.and pretty much all men while in a relationship, if given both an opportunity and reason ( so not putting out) to cheat, will resort back to limbic programming ( spead genes by any means necessary). Post nut clarity is your brains switching from limbic system programming back to prefrontal cortex.

[@TheDarkstarsk8allday]

You sound exactly like AMS. Down to the patreon

[@ToBeKing]

This is basically all the things I learned in my experience. The only thing I had a problem with is that I thought their nature was like my nature

[@Charles-gm9tf]

All of the things are true, I always remember the one girl that told me "I love you with all my heart Charlie" and two days later she told me in front of all my friends that it was just bet that she couldn't even win, because she wouldn't date a guy like me for more than two days

[@light3267]

The best way to keep a girl is loving them less than they do.

[@kelvinmudadi4732]

It's hard

[@light3267]

@@kelvinmudadi4732 yea but don’t make the same mistake i did 😅

[@light3267]

@selva kumar i said less, not love them

[@firekungfuhero1150]

It's sad that being nice isn't enough or it doesn't work, they only care that you are smart, rich, and have a gift to gab

[@ianwaltham1854]

I agree with you. It's crazy.

[@Robohead-z6z]

Too be fair aren’t guys kinda the same with women, but with their looks? I’m married and even I have to say it is better not to be married. Ps. I love my husband and he loves me.

[@Angrybogan]

"They're interested in your resources..." - That says they all belong to a profession....What is that called again?

[@joealkanovski513]

An advice from an mature guy: it's not yours, it's just your turn so don't be nice and stay like a rock so at least whe she decides to leave you she won't forget your personality and she will regret after.

[@Eternalcarclub66]

That's powerful brotha. I'm gonna remember that and take it to heart. Thanks 👍

[@stephanledford9792]

As a guy, I subconsciously make a risk vs reward calculation when making decisions in my life. This video and other like it (along with the 50% divorce rate and the treatment men get in family court) make it pretty clear that the risk/reward calculation doesn't work at all for men in marriage, and it's a close call on anything more than just being friends with females.

[@mexikleo8449]

Just one thing though. Living a more exciting life to be more attractive to girls, while I believe that to be true, is still not a good way to go about it. Have a more exciting life for yourself, not to be seen as attractive, but so you are satisfied with your own accomplishments and your own life choices when you are older. Love yourself first, women will follow.

[@truthimagination2997]

Yup!

[@kzzzc]

Nice mindset bro

[@bunnyfemin8986]

I like your point of view!! Yes it is truee in vice versa, I love myself first and the men will follow.

[@Crosland_Hill]

5:50-6:20 When I was at university in the 1990s, the guys who seemed to get laid most were "bad boys" but were not really archetypal Alpha males - they were confident around women, uninhibited and fun-seeking, but definitely not very focussed or goal-driven, and didn't seem to have many interests apart from excessive drinking, electronic dance music and taking recreational drugs. I was hopeless with girls at the time, and if I'd wanted to improve I had no role models other than these shallow degenerates whom I envied but did NOT want to be like. This left me very confused for many years about what women wanted.

[@veev327]

I'm a woman and only date woman and I'm also confused

[@notthemlgtom494]

Are you still a 50 yo virgin? Lmao

[@Crosland_Hill]

@@notthemlgtom494 No to both - but I'm in my 40s and don't have as much experience as I'd like to. I'm hoping to change that in the next year or two.

[@darkknight6069]

Recently I had my heart broken by this girl I wanted to be with this video offered me perspective on it I can feel however I want to feel but I can’t blame her for wanting happiness with someone else while I’m still going through one of the most painful times in my life and doubt that I will look back at this and laugh I still want to see this as a lesson that I will carry on and adapt.

[@rodneyoben4465]

I believe that some level of "niceness" toward girls, and people in general, is important. So, please, could you do a video explaining where to draw the line between "niceness" that leads to a relationship and "niceness" that leads to the friend zone?

[@konradrojo3572]

No. Your belief is wrong there's no need.

[@JaredDeinlein]

The term your looking for is being a charismatic gentlemen like James bond. But not being a millhouse chasing Lisa

[@alexanderthegreat3424]

Well. We know that we dont want to be an asshole to everybody, as we don't want to be assholed ourselves by anyone (duh, typical golden rule). That's what I believe the 'niceness' OP is referring to. But there is a disconnect in that generic social niceness and the simping niceness that the video is talking about. The video simply means, 'Dont be nice to a girl you like just because you wanna impress her and hope she would like you back. Just no! I suggest you treat her like any generic human being you just happened to be hanging with'

[@johnnythekid4601]

The other thing is when your unattractive you could be the most exciting person and take all sorts of risks.. However the women would question your maturity because if your in your 20s, and 30s and above and unattractive there is never an excuse to be childish and lack maturity in the minds of all women. but someone good looking can get away with acting immature because women like it when good looking men don't take life so seriously.

[@trevorforrester3142]

The dynamic you're talking about is the same as if an unattractive guy tells a very funny joke she will roll her eyes and think he's creepy and may even attempt to get him in trouble, whereas an attractive guy could walk up and LITERALLY say "BLA BLA BLA" and she would melt in his arms. It's ok to not be interested in someone but not set out to destroy their self esteem.

[@johnnythekid4601]

@@trevorforrester3142 you mean a dirty or offensive joke

[@johnnythekid4601]

But of course all jokes an unattractive man would try to tell will be seen as offensive.

[@nonglansantos1455]

Thanks, I have made mistakes on all four, back in the day. Too much pain back then, now I know why what happened, happened to me. We need more content like these please.

[@ChildOL]

So I was talking to her about how I felt regarding something she was doing then she started talking about herself making me feel sorry for her instead, and I asked her “why are you trying to make me feel guilty?” And she said “oh if I want to make you feel guilty I can make you feel guilty”. 😳

[@susza89]

There is a big difference between being nice and being a simp... You can definitely still attract women by being nice and you should keep the women that is attracted to that (it shows shes got good values). Pro tip: be more nice to your targets friend/sister. She will get jealous and will want you very fast just so her freind/sister dosnt get you. I know seems counterintuitive but that's women...

[@mrthomaslaux1]

Thanks. All very true. Good vid

[@riecehinshaw2630]

Thanks for this video.

[@brunocunha3114]

This kind of video disappoints me about what girls really want. This really frustrated me because I was so wrong, so far form the reality. Thank you, you open my eyes

[@thetrashtalktvshow]

Im tired of people saying its ok for women to ditch the guy they're with when he falls off, just because they're women and they're "supposed to" but if it were a friend all of a sudden now its considered wrong. It's wrong in every situation, period

[@syafiqzailan]

"look at her, you think a women like that sniffing around because she like your personality? Your mother was beautiful too. They're all beautiful, until they're snarling like a pack of ravenous wolves after your trust fund." -Norman Osbourne, Spiderman 2002

[@giftankaonga-willis8763]

BEST COMMENT 💯💯💯

[@AG-pk9qo]

Underrated af ..😂

[@kyleoxtoby]

You’l get men who start to decline with cancer and their wife still love them and stand by them until they pass. So surely if they really love them they’l be loyal through it all and not that all women just have no heart and leave. Thats the only point i could debate with

[@hollysmith1347]

Worked aged care. More women stood by their declining husband's than reversed saddily. The husband's that did always got huge praise for it. Usually women were also their husbands carer. Usually one of the wife's (if wife was declining) one if the kids would look after her and not the husband. Just what I saw 7 years working in age care.

[@sasbttrr]

Married women don't leave their husband .. because they are already married and even if it's legal to get a divorce it's hard to come by people that would actually want to settle with her at a age past 35. So they instead choose to help their provider who is sick because if he isn't there she has to be the provider. Everything women do has a sinister logic with it especially in this modern day world.

[@irishluck8681]

It’s important to build up confidence but stay humble. The male hero’s in my life had that quality but didn’t have to be a mean cocky person. I don’t care what people think the best male roll models bring inspiration not discouragement.

[@sum575]

Watched it, liked it, support it. 'cause this is my favourite channel

[@IKEMENOsakaman]

Uhh I'm 30 and too late... I wish I saw this when I was 15

[@greatdelusion7654]

What are you talking about? 30 is still young for a guy. Hell, life begins at 40! Men age like fine wine. The world is your oyster.

[@zerubbabelsbridge]

Lol this is when it starts for you.

[@greatdelusion7654]

​@@zerubbabelsbridge Life starts for me every day, at dawn, when I see the sun rise. Try me again.

[@abde4645]

Lmfao bro you know that women find men in their 30s more attractive than in their 20s you are in the sweet spot

[@robertwiegman1]

Great stuff...I still would appreciate somebody explaining. Exactly what "confidence" means. What type of confidence. I hear the term thrown around so broadly.

[@tomlloyd9364]

Start a company, if it doesn’t work out, keep trying and eventually one will be perfect for you, just like a women. Real women don’t care how much you make. Real men don’t always drive Ferrari’s.

[@krimozaki9494]

if we can't blame vvomen for what they are programmed to do , why we blame men for what they are programmed to do ?????????????????????

[@igorthelight]

Don't blame men ether - understand how world works and you will not waste your time blaming someone ;-)

[@krimozaki9494]

​@@igorthelight it's not me who is blaming men , it's the modern society and f2minism , i'm talking about the hypocrisy of f2minism and the modern gynocentric society

[@zeeqayoom2191]

Bro your so on point as I always say we don't own people we should just go with the flow and have fun and enjoy the journey

[@TheRonaldbaxter]

If I could put my 50 yr old brain into my teenage body I would have had so much more fun and excitement with the ladies! 🙂😋

[@IstopherProductions]

Sus

[@beasthaven1571]

Any advice

[@TheRonaldbaxter]

Confidence. Too many of us put ourselves down when we are young.

[@ineskamber4344]

Real woman will always chose the man who behaves nice, who is kind and gentle to her... so kindness and politeness is very important to a woman like me... please cherish that and be nice to a woman if she is good one, ive rejected many men just cause they didnt behave properly and were jerks

[@LGinux]

I agree, but there's one detail I'd add. Women like men who are kind as long as they are also assertive and confident. I think this video is a bit black and white tbh, I think your message is right. Real women will appreciate kind men; as long as they also are 'men'.

[@Rassy_]

@@LGinux Agreed, most men in this comment section are going with the 'treat them like trash & they will stick around' logic

[@greatdelusion7654]

Translation: Be Brad Pitt, not Edward Norton (not necessarily in looks, but in ethos).

[@Zack________________]

explanation please, bro

[@greatdelusion7654]

​@@Zack________________ Sorry, my bad, it’s a Fight Club (1999) movie reference, bro.

[@psiga]

Aaaand Brad Pitt still ended up divorced.

[@greatdelusion7654]

@@psiga But Tyler Durden didn’t. He transcended marriage and divorce.

[@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164]

Some of the men's channel videos are saying just dump getting involved with females completely at any age. Focus on yourself and maybe get your wealthier and you can buy, rent all the female service providers you want. Your assets would also be safe from divorce too.

[@NotA_Coincidence]

Oh my word! Thank you SOO much! That helped a lot more then I thought. The 3 things to focus on are 3 things I need to get better with, so Thank you so much you really helped me out :)

[@forrestb1165]

Nice guys don't always finish last. If the "nice guy" is wealthy, - This is the big game changer.

[@sideskroll]

By the way, she bought me things, coffees and dinners with HIS money... So yeah, I'd say he finished last...

[@mrda2611]

I imagine that if the guy wants more than a hole or three to stick it in, that's a recipe for insecurity: "Does she love me or my money?"

[@lifewithbakari1413]

Nothing will be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome🗣

[@haohuynhnhat3881]

I very much appreciate you sharing those bits of knowledge. Thank you a lot!!

[@haroldmartin2468]

FarFromAverage: You accuracy is refreshing! Thank you, thank you, TY TY TY!

[@benhartart9487]

Hes right I was a douche bag to my ex for 12 years lol

[@garymcneill4958]

Nice guys DON’T finish last … the boring ones do! Always stuck with me :) you're welcome.

[@frugalgems5242]

Wow. This helped me in a tought time . I was not expecting that thank you

[@ankitsinghgujjar4226]

Brother, I've been watching your videos since about 2-3 years now. Never subscribed; because I'm an idiot sometimes. I did subscribed just before writing this, I hope you don't get all crazy on me for being so late. But I do respect the work you do. Period! Now the even more important question/curiosity... whenever you mention an Alpha, why is it always a gorilla in the illustrations? I consider a Lion as the perfect alpha in a real life scenario. But that's my opinion. I would love to know your reason for an alpha as a gorilla. All being said and done, I'm an author and you inspired a book that I'm writing. So, I respect you and very much obliged for what you do. Keep it up! Cheers mate!

[@Lerrycapetime]

I can understand at 4:33 girls brains run on an Intel core I5 and not an AMD processor so it makes sense to me with the logical reasoning of this informidable video

[@trevorforrester3142]

Whether it's programming and or natural or call it whatever you want... It still translates to a very "conditional" connection in which is a very different "love" experience than a man has with a woman.. imagine telling women that it's just the way men are programmed to just leave out Of no where because that's just the way men are.. See what reaction you'd get from from just saying "Oh well! Just deal with it!"....If a man has to constantly play games with a woman in order to keep her around because her programming is stronger than her ability to commit... It's time to say good bye and live a drama free life. It becomes not worth it.

[@JustADudeDoingSomething]

Female nature: Constantly trying to FIND their prince. Male nature: Constantly trying to BE their prince.

[@Valanci555]

But men know to step away, women don't.

[@JustADudeDoingSomething]

@@Valanci555 Those are the exceptionally rare.

[@Valanci555]

@@JustADudeDoingSomething ya women rarely break their nature.

[@slurpeeeeee425]

I’m a woman to confirm his point. 1. I think overly nice, like simping nice I don’t think so. It feels like you’re doing it out of pity and aren’t honest. I think it’s attractive to be honest, about everything. Thank you. 2. PERSONALITY is everything. We girls are very observant, so if you’ve got a trash personality but looks good - well sooner or later find you unattractive. So focus more on your mind please, if you’re buying designer items or doing many reps at the chest press. 3. Obviously it goes both ways, depending on how mature you are. 4. Truth.

[@nrmlyaroy7135]

Moral of the story is concentrate on PURPOSE yeah that's what my parents are telling me and I love it

[@jpoeng]

I wouldn’t have said “be meaner” but be more focused on your purpose and masculine. Real masculinity isn’t “mean” but just isn’t simping.

[@bryanmccallum4614]

You are 100% right thank you!

[@Jibon-Unnoti]

Wonderful attractive voice....... Nice content...... With wonderful presentation...... Great job God bless

[@mzansimomentsreloaded913]

And this is why men go their own way...

[@Naka-wc3yo]

Yea there are men who are doing that, but i feel those men just have a hard time accepting that its a woman's nature to want a man that can protect or provide for them, love is never unconditional

[@mzansimomentsreloaded913]

@@Naka-wc3yo True but the conditions should be sincere and based on loyalty.

[@siddharthgundimeda8776]

I don't know why "nice" is really used as a term for the submissive guys who literally try to manipulate girls into choosing them (intentionally being manipulative to attract people isn't nice at all). In reality, nice generally means desirable, or pleasing. Realistically, the different people find different things "nice". While "nice" is a relative term, people often mix it up with "simp", which in my opinion, is the term that should actually be used instead of "nice guy". "Simp" is a more absolute term while "nice" is a relative term. And why just girls? To be honest tho, in my opinion if a girl just gives up on you in your hard times, you don't deserve her at all. Real men choose their own women instead of manipulating women into choosing him. It isn't hardwired in girls only. Basically, life is more of a solo journey, where you choose the path you want, the woman you want, and ultimately, the life you want.

[@user-jt3mt8zx9t]

As a woman I do confirm on the nice guy part where nice guy is used as a manipulation technic in stead of you just being pleasing and desirable to be around. Too many man are "nice guys" by being unconfident and manipulative. The real nice man has many options and women fight between each other for him (even if it's done when noone notices) And as of players they end up attracting lots of insecure girls who are equally immature. I am yet to find a female who values herself and is chasing players or giving them a chance. The manipulative "nice" guys always end up last because we can sense their insecurity from miles away and see through the facade. This is our 6th sense. The manipulative "nice guys" if they ever finish they do with a woman who has been so abused that she believes she is unworthy of anything (this is not what she is but what she believes she is). So don't ACT like a nice guy, BE a nice guy. And for those who still don't get it: Genuinely nice men know their worth and don't act out of insecurity. Women truly dream of them.

[@purpessenceentertainment9759]

That’s why I have a chapter in my book called “There’s No Such Thing As A Nice Guy”.

[@michaelhawk3861]

@Виктория Златева yeah i used to be a genuine "nice" guy for 25 years of my life, without expecting anything from a woman. I treated them as fellow human beings like male friends because i naively liked the idea of just being kind to eachother. Now, to not write many words: i was spit on, stepped on, exploited and humiliated to the worst degree for so long to the point where i took a full 180 degree turn and my life and health went up through the roof.

[@jccgold]

@@user-jt3mt8zx9t you're wrong. There's a lot of guys that are nice with other guys. Bro's for life. You women just don't appreciate that, because you are shallow with each other. You don't know how to maintain friendship with other women. It's you the problem, not men

[@omkarmuni3995]

Your thumbnails are driving me crazy to click on your videos 😂

[@jacquesbertuzzo]

As usual, love this video and found it very useful. Keep going!⚡

[@slyny6052]

Idk whether to laugh or actually take this advice tbh. Women tend to be a bit off in this generation to begin with. I mean look around, there are women that date some of the most unproductive men you could find out there. And to top it off women act like its toxic to be masculine now. Its pathetic. I’ll just continue treating most women with disrespect because they get none when none is given...

[@Charles310a]

How about just don’t deal w/ woman at all🤷🏾‍♂️

[@igorthelight]

If that is simpler ;-) You may just use that knowledge to not make more mistakes. Guys also have some strange behavior (like polygamy)

[@Rassy_]

Yeah I wish it just as easy to get rid of my hormones and attraction to women

[@BERTDELASPEED]

7:13 that brain is the same as the AKATSUKI clouds

[@adnan64356]

nice

[@adofficial869]

best type of videos . another part please!!

[@SimpleLifeSG]

All this knowledge come with dating and experience with ladies. Have to learn from your relation mistakes.

[@deej628]

Firstttt. Thanks for your content sir.

[@conkersquirrel8872]

Ever noticed how this channel is just plain awesome?

[@markussanchez1346]

This is the best and most honest video ever!!!

[@HeavenlyDivineTaro]

When men are gentleman it gets my attention. Since child hood, we've been conditioned that mean men like us then we grow up wondering why we go for the wrong mean guys. Guys who are mean we leave. And they don't understand why. Some females do care. Some of us work opposite of what we were programed to. We're suppose to grow together and some women are deep and some shallow.

[@LeeEverett1]

I just don't agree with you since you're a woman. I never believe a woman when she says "I'm not like the other females" because almost all females say that same exact thing and end up being just like the others. I've seen it way too many times where the same girl that says "I like gentlemen" will reject or even cheat on the gentlemen left and right but go for the Chad's instead; and I can't blame them. Quit lying to yourself and at least embrace what you're attracted to.

[@Turtle-sz7sk]

The ones who say they’re not like other females are the most like other females

[@brentonk461]

Someone said that there aren't any girls disagreeing. That's because none watched it. even if one did, I'm guessing their thoughts don't go much past whatever

[@incharak1927]

As a girl, I disagree. We aren't all pRoGramMeD the same way. This person in the video seems to carry some baggage because of his ex so it's safe to say he's biased. The advice I would give as a girl to guys is 1. Not all girls are the same. Don't make a ton of assumptions before talking to them. 2. If a girl isn't giving you the same type of attention you're giving, walk away. I see some guys saying 'treat them like u like them less or something' if u do something like that ur just pushing away nice girls and manipulating insecure girls into thinking they like u and in due time they'll leave too. So just walk away graceful when u see no signs that they like you. 3. Just take care of yourself. Work towards your career, family friends. When you meet the right kind of girls you won't need to boggle you're mind with all this opposite gender dating mental gymnastics. Lastly if I was a straight guy and the girls were all like how the guy said they are. I would simply not date women cause they sound awful but fortunately we aren't. Hope you have a good day:)

[@anthonybrown2352]

You explain things brilliantly

[@gamerxg7789]

I’m still young I got nothing yet I don’t get how life is like I’m confuse but thanks for the videos

[@roomofcybertron6380]

YaI get it, we men can not keep the girls attracted and in love with us forever.

[@wisdom-for-all]

If a girl turns at you, she likes you. If a girl turns at you twice, she thinks you are a nice guy. And you know what happens to nice guys. Go home. Game over 🖖

[@dreamcore]

turns at you?

[@abde4645]

What do you mean by turn at you????

[@pioneerjatt93]

Thanx bro much needed this video today. 🙏🏽

[@toluwanidaniel7841]

Your thinking is truly far above average!